Exploring different kinks, sugar dating fails, motherhood shifts, and sex in love and lust—Sage opens up about reclaiming pleasure, healing from shame, and exploring sex, love, and power through every stage of life.
📈 STATS | 28 straight white female, she/her pronouns, slut, mom, healing from sexual assault, in a monogamous-for-now relationship, full-time animal science student, certified astrologer, ranch worker, based in Sacramento.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Rediscovering sensuality as a new mom, sex after childbirth, and teaching partners about kink
05:32 What she finds sexy: sapiosexual attraction, mental stimulation, confidence, and embodied vibes
07:39 Parenting and passion: foreplay as extended buildup while raising a toddler
11:18 Adventurous touches, exhibitionism, outdoor sex, and the thrill of getting caught
19:18 Astrology in the bedroom: Leo energy, brat play, and the brat-to-sub dynamic
23:51 Safer sex practices: STI testing, condoms, health conversations, and consent communication
26:00 Opening kink conversations on dating apps, BDSM tests, and sexting initiation
29:12 Early sexual awakening: masturbation, bathtub orgasms, practice kissing, and first intercourse
36:00 Virginity loss, assault trauma, shame, and reclaiming her sexual identity
44:00 First kinky experience: choking, collars, primal sex, and unexpected orgasmic intensity
52:18 Four-hour marathon sex, dominance, restraint, and push–pull power play
56:20 Spiritual sex: long-term love, psychedelics, Kundalini awakening, and eye-contact intimacy
1:01:14 Threesomes, girl-on-girl pressure, and hetero expectations
1:15:15 Double penetration fantasies, two-men threesomes, and balancing desires with fairness
1:18:42 Lust versus love: erotic passion compared to slow, vulnerable, emotional sex
1:22:18 Why sugar dating and failed sugar babying experiences didn’t work for her
1:30:20 Bratting, dom/sub shifts, BDSM dynamics, and partner-specific power exchanges
1:35:39 Public play stories: car hookups, concert fingering, camping sex, and party escapades
1:42:29 Motherhood and libido: breastfeeding, body changes, dryness, and shifting turn-ons
1:51:15 Future hopes: farm life, family, community living, and ongoing sexual exploration
1:54:59 Designing her dream pleasure palace: textures, restraints, toys, and sensual spaces
2:07:00 Spreading love through compliments, affirmations, and astrology chart readings
🤩 TOPICS | Abortion experience, accidental bathtub orgasms, ADHD absent-minded lovers, animal science student, astrology chart readings, astrology certification, baby interruptions, BDSM kink test, body positivity, book-keeping satisfaction, bratting dynamics, car hookups, child custody battles, childhood masturbation, choking kink, club hookups, communication boundaries, concert fingering, consent conversations, cucumber-cool lovers, cum play curiosity, daddy energy, dating app sexting, dry responses turn-off, emotional healing, emotional safety, energetic foreplay, erotic astrology, female friendships, fingering in theaters, fire sign friends, first masturbation faucet, forest hikes sex, friend betrayals, girlfriend practice kissing, high sex drive, hotbox car sex, intimate eye contact, jealousy in relationships, Kundalini awakening, late night sexting, lesbian curiosity, long-distance engagement, lust fantasies, Mars Venus Lilith in Leo, masturbation massage wand, messy sugar daddies, molly party sex, monogamy negotiations, mothering body changes, movie theater hookups, mushroom sex, natal chart insights, natural lube issues, nervous system healing, OnlyFans curiosity, orgasmic summer romance, outdoor camping sex, overbearing partners, parental interruptions, plan B failure, poly dynamics, porn documentaries, primal lovers, public oral, pussy confidence, religious shame, safe container conversations, Scorpio moon partners, semen retention, sex in creek beds, sex on cars, shower vibrator, single mom dating, sleepover hickeys, slut reclamation, stepdad interruptions, sugar dating disappointments, therapist support, threesome negotiations, trauma healing, trust rebuilding, Tumblr porn discoveries, vibrator discovery, Virgo Mercury communication, Waldorf school sex ed.
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