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November 21, 2025 69 mins

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Vibrators, pegging, and public horniness—comedian and author Ginny Hogan talks about finding her first orgasm at 23, bad blowjobs, and why she’s finally enjoying sex on her own terms.


📈 STATS | 28 white cis female, straight, comedian, writer, Los Angeles–based, formerly worked in tech, author of Toxic Femininity in the Workplace, sober, sexually active, into: vibrators, fingering, being wet from kissing, morning sex, dirty texting, pegging, humor during sex, and masturbation retreats.


TIME CODE

00:00 Growing up Catholic, toxic workplaces, and discovering feminism

05:10 Horny when she has to pee, finding the right vibrator, and late-blooming orgasms

11:24 Masturbation retreats, technique details, and vibrator dependency

13:45 Partner sex, wetness, and learning to communicate pleasure

17:47 Enjoying vibrators with partners and the value of good fingering

23:33 Pegging adventures, strap-on logistics, and short blowjob confessions

28:01 Learning to deep throat and blowjob advice exchange

32:10 Morning sex preferences, being lazy in bed, and post-peg reflections

38:05 Cum etiquette, laughing during sex, and dirty texting

41:10 Nudes, sobriety, and making art from sexual expression

45:33 Early fantasies, alien probes, and kinky curiosity

48:11 Sex for writing vs. for pleasure, attraction patterns, and day sex

50:11 Dating apps, one-night stands, and efficient romance

58:32 Sober weddings, picking up partners, and redefining one-night stands

1:03:10 Sex philosophies and advice to her younger self

1:04:46 Wyoh’s sub awakening and reflections on desire, love, and boundaries


🤩 TOPICS | Anal play, anxiety around blowjobs, bad blowjob confessions, body confidence, book launch, butt plugs, Catholic school sex education, clitoral stimulation, coming with vibrators, comedy and sexuality, communication in bed, cum etiquette, cum on tits, dating app fatigue, dating comedians, deep throating lessons, dirty talk, dirty texting, female masturbation, female orgasm struggles, fingering techniques, finding the right vibrator, first orgasms, funny sex stories, gag reflex, getting wet from kissing, good foreplay, humor and horniness, intimacy after sobriety, kink curiosity, lazy lovers, learning to enjoy sex, lingerie and stockings, masturbation fantasies, masturbation techniques, morning sex, multiple orgasms, mutual laughter during sex, nude selfies, open sexual communication, oral sex preferences, orgasming during intercourse, pegging a man, pegging experiences, pegging fantasy, pegging with a strap-on, personal sexual growth, public horniness, recovering from bulimia and sex, relationship dynamics, religious guilt and desire, self-pleasure, sex after sobriety, sex and comedy, sex during retreats, sex for writers, sex in public places, sexual experimentation, sexual honesty, sexual humor, sexual liberation, sexual satisfaction, sober sex, stand-up comedy and dating, texting etiquette, toxic masculinity, vibrator dependence, vibrator recommendations, women’s pleasure, workplace misogyny.


🔗 GINNY LINKS | @ginnyhogan_


Originally released November 2019.


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