Pegging, porn, and public play—Adj shares how she shed shame, embraced queerness, and found deep pleasure in pain, rope, and sex that honors every body.
📈 STATS | 28 Black queer cis female, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, currently in multiple relationships, based in Toronto, into: sensory and impact play, exhibitionism, pegging partners, getting tied up, the earth, and wants to explore being a soft Domme.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Birthday sex goals and living deliciously
01:06 Snapshot of her current sex life and sexy as comfort in the body
02:20 STI talks, condom joy, and why her results came back “pretty cool”
03:38 Early exposure, pillow humping, and discovering orgasms
06:03 Developing early, school dress codes, and being sexualized too soon
10:28 Catholic guilt, secret masturbation, and the thrill of late-night porn
14:47 Aggressive porn, performative early sex, and learning her own desires
17:04 Breakup revelations, becoming poly, and the magic of Toronto queers
23:07 Sex is sacred—so why not have it with everyone?
24:36 Candle wax, spanking, soreness, and why pain makes her wet
26:57 Rope scenes with a YouTube Dom and laughing between knots
28:00 Screening tops for kindness, communication, and calm temperaments
30:10 Exhibitionist fantasies, outdoor sex, and mutual masturbation
32:14 Back kisses, scalp pulls, nipple play, and vulva make-outs
36:00 Toe sucking and titty fucking
40:33 Turned on by soil, flowers, weather, and wet Earth
44:00 Poly dynamics, pegging joy, and aspiring soft Domme vibes
49:52 Starry sex in the grass and getting lost in the moment
54:00 Orgasms as community work and sexting as safe sex
57:55 Her first dildo, nipple pumps, candle wax, and ball gag cravings
1:03:01 Group sex dreams, sex clubs, and fantasies of slow forest fucking
1:05:35 Butt plug mishap, anal adventures, and survival toys
1:08:00 Advice to younger self: you deserve to feel good too
1:09:27 Erotic Polaroids, nudes as art, and sexy mail fantasies
1:10:57 The joy of documenting desire and building a camera dungeon
🤩 TOPICS | Anal initiation, artful nudes, back-of-neck kisses, barefoot sex, big breasts, bisexual awakening, body appreciation, body-safe candles, butt plug retrieval, Catholic guilt, collarbone come, communication during sex, consensual kink, curiosity-driven sex, dildo shopping, dirty hands and knees, early masturbation, emotional aftercare, erotic photography, erotic Polaroids, exhibitionism fantasy, face sitting, feeling seen during sex, film nudes, foot play, forest sex fantasy, full-body worship, gentle choking, group pleasure, head massages during oral, humiliated dom fears, kink negotiation, kissing necks, late-bloomer queerness, light bondage, lube and feet, making out after prom, masturbation shame cycles, multiple partners, mutual oral, naked cuddles, nipple rolling, nipple sucking, nipple teasing, non-penetrative orgasms, open communication, outdoor fucking, partner dynamics, pegging beginners, personal photo fantasies, pleasure mapping, pleasure-centered dominance, porn influence, private photo swaps, public desire, quickies in the grass, reclaiming dom identity, respectful rejections, romantic group sex, rope curiosity, scalp stimulation, school dress code trauma, secret solo sex, sensual scratches, sex and religion, sex club curiosity, sex nerds, sexual self-trust, shared kink exploration, slow build-up play, soft dom goals, solo wax play, spit-covered breasts, strap-on orgasms, tit play, toe sucking signals, trust in tops, vaginal kissing, verbal consent scripting, voyeurism dreams, warm oil touch, wax safety, wild outdoor orgasms, woman-led pegging.
Originally released February 2022.
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