Safer sex scripts, radical fairy rituals, healing touch, and multi-orgasmic mastery—Dobromil shares his playful, pleasure-filled journey across cultures and lovers.
📈 STATS | 33 homoflexible polyamorous Slavic man
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 From gay socialization to polyamorous benevolent dominance
02:20 What “sexy” means: playful, physical, and present
03:18 R-B-D-S-M: his five-point safer sex conversation
06:46 First arousal (Blue Lagoon) and an awkward teen sex talk
10:20 Porn in the forest and early curiosity about penises
12:08 Not fitting into gay culture and discovering radical fairies
17:36 First masturbation with water pressure, pre-ejaculatory orgasms, and eventual “ski stick” fails
21:00 Croatian seaside cruising, exhilaration, and early shame
24:06 Becoming a caring lover and valuing progression
26:14 First angelic boyfriend, touch hunger, and moving from monogamy to polyamory
33:18 Going off-script: edging, dry orgasms, and tantra as spiritual exercise
36:45 Conscious touch, merging BDSM with tantra, and benevolent sadism
43:07 Anthropology, sex education, and radical consent practices
46:08 Cultural differences in consent and sauna etiquette
50:14 STI testing worldwide, fetishizing condoms, and safer sex creativity
55:15 Moving from male-gaze porn to Erika Lust and female-produced stories
57:25 Creating safe spaces for erotic exploration and tantric workshops
1:00:06 Covid, consent, and the importance of togetherness
1:02:02 Looking forward to his 60s, gaining skill and pleasure with age, and envisioning queer tantric brothels around the world
1:03:08 Queer as a mindset—creativity beyond heteronormative scripts
1:03:14 Staying kind, healthy, strong, and playful
1:03:26 Loving natural, diverse, and big bodies, and treating all bodies well
1:04:34 Advice to younger self: listen to real sex stories in Slovak instead of following prescriptive rules
1:05:26 Luna’s question: cleansing unwanted lingering energy from the body
1:06:23 Dobromil’s reflections on comfort, nature, and moving energy physically
1:08:48 Gratitude, shared learning, and closing reflections
🤩 TOPICS | Anal sex, anthropology and sexuality research, arousal from Blue Lagoon movie, Austrian radical fairies, bareback conversations, beach cruising, benevolent dominance, big body attraction, body diversity appreciation, body hair fetish, casual sex as mood regulation, condom fetish, conscious touch, Croatian nude beaches, cultural differences in sexual consent, cum control, Cyndi Gallop Make Love Not Porn, dry orgasms, edging during penetration, erotic massage, erotic poems, Ethical Slut book, exhibitionism, female-produced porn, forest masturbation, gay sauna youth nights, group sex, hair touch arousal, hiking to remote sex spots, homo flexible identity, intercultural STI testing experiences, jerking off with friends, kink-friendly tantra, masturbation with shower water, meeting lovers while traveling, monogamy alternatives, multi-orgasmic man book, mutual voyeurism, nature-based sex, neo-tantra, non-monogamy agreements, nudist cruising spots, online dating in teens, open relationships, orgasm without ejaculation, penis massage, polyamorous relationships, porn magazines in the forest, power of touch, prostate massage, queer community building, relationship counseling training, R-B-D-S-M safer sex talk, Radical Faeries gatherings, Rainbow Gathering in Italy, receptive anal sex pain, sexual boundary setting, sexual healing through touch, sexual health conversations, sexual shame, ski stick masturbation attempt, slow sex, spiritual dominance, STI treatment abroad, tantra festivals, tantric brothel vision, tantric workshops, teen sex talk with parents, travel and sexual exploration, voyeurism, young lovers in vineyards
Originally released January 2022.
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