Treehouse porn, clothed female/naked male play, and blowjob breakthroughs—Bret shares his pleasure-forward path from VHS fantasies to threesomes, surprises, and his Golden Pussy philosophy.
📈 STATS | 49 straight male, kinda monogamously married to his partner of 11 years, they sometimes enjoy threesomes together, customer service phone agent, from Tennessee, into: CFNM (clothed female naked male), exhibitionism, public nudity, and retro porn.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Postcoital cuddles and why he feels sexiest after giving pleasure
03:24 A birthday surprise goes wrong—sextortion and the shame-o-meter
10:02 Consent talks with dad and early sex ed memories
13:54 Treehouse porn, retro mags, and reading his way into his first boner
18:31 Tickling, handcuffs, and being told what to do
23:10 First penetration, penguin underwear, and the myth of crashing waves
26:04 Shower blowjob on the day of a job interview
29:08 Cunnilingus appreciation, oral reciprocity, and sensory details
32:08 Favorite blowjob positions, nipple play, and ass play curiosity
36:12 Surprise anal fail, learning with lube, and studying from porn
40:11 CFNM dynamics and discovering power in being the naked one
44:45 The Golden Pussy, early relationship mismatches, and friend group sex
48:22 Touring with a femme rock band and being “ruined”
51:50 Wife’s past as a dominatrix and bisexual threesomes
55:25 Clear threesome communication and changing the rules mid-play
58:30 Watching Spartacus, retro porn nostalgia, and storylines that turn them on
1:00:55 Holding space for trauma, dreaming of a live-in unicorn, and staying connected
🤩 TOPICS | Anal exploration, apartment threesome, ass licking surprise, backseat sex, bisexual wife, blowjob technique, body confidence, bondage belt, butt play curiosity, car sex, childhood sex education, cleaning up after masturbation, cock and ball sensitivity, communication during sex, condom misfire, cunnilingus after creampie, cunnilingus techniques, daddy sex advice, delayed ejaculation, early porn exposure, emotional safety in relationships, erotic magazines, female dominance, fingering, first orgasm memory, friends with benefits, group sex dreams, handcuff play, handjob preferences, heavy petting, hiding sex from family, intimacy after concerts, jerking off with friends, kink curiosity, learning from retro porn, long-term threesomes, lube for anal, male masturbation, marriage and sex, masturbation habits, messy period sex, mutual masturbation, nipple play, one-night stands, oral sex reciprocity, orgasm consistency, outfit change seduction, partner healing trauma, period sex pregnancy, porn storylines, post-orgasm cuddling, pussy eating preferences, quick ejaculation, relationship repair, retro adult videos, role of fantasy, safe sex talk, same-room sex, scheduled sex versus spontaneous, self-pleasure in marriage, sensitive balls, sex after arguments, sex on the job interview day, sex positions, sex with rock stars, sexual experimentation, shower sex, squirting partner, surprise anal attempt, threesome etiquette, trust and sexual surrender, unexpected blowjob, unicorn hunting, VHS porn tapes, waiting to have sex, watching partners orgasm.
Originally released October 2022.
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