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September 26, 2025 59 mins

Strap-ons, solo anal play, and kinky care—Sonja shares stories of public sex, pussy confidence, and her switchy journey toward deeper connection and creative pleasure.


📈 STATS | 20 pansexual Afro Latina woman, switch, student in North Carolina, originally from San Diego, into: group sex, feet, and impact play.


TIME CODE

00:00 Exploring sex while adjusting to a new city and her attraction to confidence, textures, and sexy plants

02:43 Discovering porn at summer camp, dry-humping Barbies, and early gangbang exposure

05:51 Solo anal exploration, sex ed across states, and a bacterial throat infection leading to her first time

10:15 Coping with a cross-country move through high school hookups

13:27 Vaginal insecurity, oral shame, and how looking at her own pussy helped build confidence

15:54 The joy of deep connection in sex, why emotional safety makes orgasms possible, and getting turned on by vulnerability

19:20 Edging her partner for 2.5 hours and discovering her dominant side

22:03 Public sex adventures, masturbating in cars, and the long, glorious solo nuts that take over an hour

26:24 Her go-to masturbation method, clit stimulation styles, and the desire for new partner possibilities

29:10 Dating challenges as a tall woman and why she avoids apps

32:14 Strap-on struggles with shorter partners and why logistics matter in sex

33:19 Love of foot worship, creative ways to play with feet, and wanting to explore more with women’s feet

36:59 Acts of service, re-twisting locks, and the pleasure of nurturing care as a turn-on

37:52 Realizing she's always liked girls, craving more relationships with women, and navigating internalized homophobia in others

41:24 Dreaming of dating a tall, volleyball-playing woman, threesomes, and being a loving third

42:46 Group sex fails and triumphs—awkward dudes, swingers clubs, shroomy threesomes, and ass play surprises

49:00 Why she loves flogging, the peaceful aftermath of receiving pain, and her desire to become a more confident switch

54:18 Her sex bucket list: more women, more creativity, more kink, double penetration, and a pussy pump

57:49 What she’d tell her 10th-grade self about shame and sexual empowerment


🤩 TOPICS | Abstinence-based sex education, acts of service kink, aftercare, ass eating, ass play with women, bacterial throat infection, bad group sex experiences, BDSM furniture, being a loving third, big inner labia, bisexual dating struggles, body acceptance, body hair preferences, body image exploration, boot worship, clitoral stimulation, collar kink, coming out to self, cunnilingus insecurities, dating tall women, deep emotional connection, delayed orgasms, difficult orgasming with partners, dominant energy, emotional safety during sex, erotic hair care, face sitting fantasies, female ejaculation, fingering in public, flogging women, foot fetishes, foot worship, full-body edging, gangbang porn, gender fluid attraction, group sex nerves, hair braiding intimacy, hand sex, height differences in sex, high sex on shrooms, hook-up culture in high school, internalized homophobia in women, kinky dreams, kinky exploration, labia shame, late-night masturbation, lesbian longing, long masturbation sessions, masturbating in cars, masturbation techniques, mismatch of sexual interest, mutual vulnerability, non-reciprocal oral sex, nurturing kink, one-night stands, orgasm frustration, outgrowing hookup culture, outdoor sex, pain and pleasure, partnered edging, pegging logistics, penis desensitization, physical touch as intimacy, porn and desensitization, porn discovery stories, pussy gazing, pussy pumps, receiving oral sex, redefining sluttiness, religious shame, same-gender crushes, satisfying solo sex, school sex jokes, seeking emotional intimacy, self-exploration, sex and volleyball metaphors, sex clubs in San Diego, sex in movie theaters, sex on school campus, sex under the stars, sexual experimentation, sexual healing, shame-free masturbation, showing pussy to friends, shroomy sex, size mismatches in bed, sleeping with women, swingers club experiences, talking about strap-ons, teenage sex drive, toe sucking, touching as intimacy, twirling hair for love, vaginal self-exploration, vibrator use, watching partners masturbate, watching porn alone, weed and sex, wetness awareness, younger sexual awakening.


Originally released March 2022.


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