The Secret Life of Kinky Parents: Alec Bond’s Sex Stories

Auto-fellatio, chastity cages, lactation play, and collaborative kink—Alec shares beautifully detailed stories from his decades-long monogamous partnership full of creativity, curiosity, and kinky exploration.

📈 STATS | 37 pansexual heteromantic white cis male, in a monogamous relationship with his partner of 17 years.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Shame levels, shiniest secrets, and the difference between privacy and shame

04:46 The secret sex life of parents with young kids

06:00 Collaborative desire: anticipation, denial, and creative pleasure strategizing

09:03 What feels sexy: objectification, pole dancing, and feeling wanted

13:03 Consent immersion and lackluster Florida sex ed

15:33 Yeses that lead to sexy surprises and a PowerPoint proposal for chastity

18:39 Monogamy, kinky safety talks, and a not-sex impact play friendship

20:35 Queering perceptions at work with an ambiguously gendered partner

21:30 Gendered childhood memories and early erections

24:42 Internet erotica, porn titl3z, and sex ed through bulletin boards

27:00 Jackoff isn’t an insult—and how reading led to masturbatory discovery

30:09 Anxiety, fear of rejection, and an awkward first kiss

33:07 Punk band pussy-licking legend and high school confidence hacks

36:40 Meeting his wife in French class, going on their first real date

40:49 The kiss rule, exes calling, and a very honest foundation

43:00 Nerd knowledge + dick drive = early oral sex confidence

45:17 Mishearing “ooh” and “no”—why audio matters for BDSM communication

46:10 From sexy Playboy shoots to rope to fetish porn conventions

49:40 How a content career launched a thousand kinks

52:25 Auto-fellatio, sucking his own dick, and filming it with his wife

55:10 Teaching pole dancing, heels classes, and performing in burlesque shows

59:35 Long-term compatibility through open curiosity

1:00:44 Foot worship: texture, desire, and playful degradation

1:03:30 Birthday pie footplay and clothed female/nude male dynamics

1:05:06 Chastity cages, cock rings, and cock bondage as focus tools

1:10:55 Wearing it on a cruise, and experimenting with coming while locked

1:12:50 Pregnancy, body worship, and the erotic beauty of maternal care

1:17:18 Shower lactation, taste and texture, and sexy video ideas

1:19:25 “Never have I ever…” anal during pregnancy

1:20:56 The joy of long-term desire: fucking machines and rooftop sex

1:22:15 A talking dildo with a French accent and post-kids insertion aversions

1:23:33 His switch spectrum: from deep dom to service sub to leather boot conditioning

1:26:45 Chastity as a mood signal, and wanting to stay on the path they’re on

1:28:20 Owning desire earlier, and the beauty of creative sex over time

1:29:02 Mr. Potato Head genitals and a magical what-if sex question for Luna

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