Glory holes, gangbang fantasies, and a strap-on-wielding Mistress—Matt shares stories of getting railed in sex shop mazes, hotel room chainbangs, and joyfully navigating bisexuality in and beyond his open marriage.
📈 STATS | 39 bisexual white male, married, into: orgies, anonymous sex, butt stuff, kink.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Shame, public image, and discovering porn mags at dad’s shop
04:23 Getting hard in middle school showers and being labeled “the gay kid”
06:16 Early hook-ups with a senior boy and a girl—both in the woods
10:43 First solo masturbation and favorite techniques
16:00 The allure of anonymous sex and spontaneous double penetration
24:00 Butt prep breakdown: enemas, lube, and two-hour rituals
32:01 Hands-free orgasms, accidental peeing, and back-arching bliss
37:00 Craving to feel wanted, oral preferences, and blowjobs with condoms
43:41 FFM threesome: “I wanna ride you while she sits on your face”
47:30 Craigslist couples, group sex dynamics, and unicorn with a horn
53:35 First orgy, fisting a girl, and getting off on being watched
1:00:00 Hotel room chainbangs and leaving a condom like a mint on the pillow
1:05:00 Wife-sanctioned dick fix: trust, honesty, and safe exploration
1:10:46 Small stint in porn, cum facials, and learning to let go
1:13:34 Strap-on play, getting pegged, and dildo squats in the bathtub
1:15:48 Serving a Mistress: collars, blindfolds, and out-of-town sex clubs
1:18:28 Worship, prickly wheels, and being the obedient bottom
1:21:26 Fantasy gangbangs, condom confetti, and self-made cum shots
1:26:25 Advice to younger self: “When in doubt—fuck.”
1:28:00 Bonus rec: The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty and reading erotica
🤩 TOPICS | Adult bookstores, anal cleaning, anal fingering, ass stretching, bacterial infections, bisexual awakening, blowjob technique, cock sucking, college experimentation, condom etiquette, cunnilingus technique, deep oral sex, discreet hookups, dominant women, double-ended dildos, edging with partners, erotic humiliation, erotic massage, fantasy fulfillment, fetish-friendly play, fluid exchange, group dynamics, handjob skills, hotel hookups, kink discovery, kink exploration, lesbian friendships, male sex toys, masturbation grip styles, masturbation tools, medical-grade lube, men who have sex with men, mutual consent conversations, oral hygiene during sex, pegging curiosity, personal porn archive, porn casting, porn viewing habits, pre-sex rituals, prostate stimulation toys, public play spaces, queer male sexuality, rear entry prep, recreational dildo use, relationship agreements, role reversal kink, safe group encounters, self-stimulation tips, sensation-focused play, sex club etiquette, sex-positive parenting, sexual confidence building, sexual disclosure in relationships, sexual health checkups, sexual storytelling, solo anal play, strap-on positioning, submissive exploration, switch dynamics, threesome etiquette, toy cleaning routines, vaginal scent awareness, watching partners perform, well-lubed anal play.
Matt’s secret rendezvous from December 2023
Originally released October 2020.
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