“És quente e depois frio, és sim e depois não, estás dentro e depois fora, estás em cima e depois em baixo”: é mais ou menos isto que Katy Perry canta na música Hot n Cold, a referência necessária para falar deste tema. E fecha o refrão com um resumo da dinâmica de tantas relações: “Discutimos e acabamos, beijamo-nos e fazemos as pazes.”
Discussões são normais, saudáveis até, defendem muitos, mas isso não significa que qualquer discussão seja motivo para pôr em causa uma relação. Nem é saudável que num dia seja tudo amor e, no seguinte, nem uma palavra. São as dinâmicas “hot and cold”, quentes e frias, relações nas quais hoje está tudo (mesmo) muito bem e amanhã já está tudo (mesmo) muito mal.
Pode ser sem querer ou propositado, mas nenhum dos motivos significa que se deva aceitar esta dinâmica. A psicóloga Inês Melo ajuda a identificar este comportamento e explica como lidar com ele.
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