In this powerful solo episode, Ang returns from a rejuvenating holiday with fresh energy and a transformative message for women navigating life after divorce. Today’s topic: the hidden forces shaping your life—your beliefs—and how you can break free from the limiting stories that hold you back.
Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or already moving toward your next chapter, this episode is a roadmap for unlocking the confident, worthy, and fulfilled version of yourself that’s waiting to emerge.
Ang shares actionable strategies to identify and reframe limiting beliefs, explores the link between mindset and reality, and walks you through how to use affirmations, visualization, and small consistent actions to create lasting change.
This episode is for you if you're ready to stop living in the past and start creating your best future yet.
(00:00) Introduction and Welcome
(00:25) Holiday Reflections and Single Parenting
(02:31) The Power of Belief Systems
(06:11) Identifying and Reframing Limiting Beliefs
(10:18) Reinforcing New Beliefs with Affirmations and Visualization
(12:01) Taking Action and Moving Forward
(14:04) Conclusion and Resources
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Your beliefs shape everything—your self-worth, your future, your ability to heal and thrive.
Limiting beliefs like “I’m not lovable” or “I’ll never be happy again” are just stories you’ve told yourself—they’re not facts.
The process to change beliefs involves awareness, reframing, reinforcement, and aligned action.
Tools like affirmations and visualization are not fluff—they work to rewire your mind when practiced consistently.
You have the power to create your next chapter—and it can be better than you ever imagined.
BEST MOMENTS
“Your belief system is like a lens through which you see the world—and it shapes how you think, act, and respond to challenges.”
“Recovery from divorce is about creating your new story, your new life, your new future.”
“It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe your new belief yet—write it down anyway. The belief will catch up to you.”
“Visualize yourself living the life you want as if it’s already happening. Feel it. See it. Believe it.”
“Changing your beliefs is powerful—but nothing happens without action.”
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