The Love Talk | I Do Not Wanna be Mad With You

During The Love Talk, Erica underscores why I don’t wanna be mad with you should resonate in healthy relationships, emphasizing grace, honest communication, and the willingness to reconcile. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Let's talk about love for God, so love the world.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Listen, y'all today I want to talk about how some
people can kind of be immature. So if you are together, y'all,
are a couple, and you get mad at somebody, do
you automatically.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
Express you expect your spouse to be mad at them too?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Like?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Is that?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
How is?

Speaker 1 (00:27):
I don't know, Like I'm trying to make sense of it.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
So like if if Warren had a friend and his
friend said something that I didn't like, what I tell
him now you can't be his friend?

Speaker 1 (00:36):
Is that immature? Is that smart? And I know some
people operate like that.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
It kind of it's giving little kids on the playyard,
he's not We're not friends with him no more?

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Is that fair?

Speaker 2 (00:47):
I mean? And I understand when the two become one,
you know, you guys have to talk through things and understanding,
and it would be I could see where it would
be difficult for one person to love them and one
person to hate them.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
But is that fair? Though?

Speaker 2 (00:59):
If they're not mad at what you're mad at, do
they have to be mad just because you're mad?

Speaker 1 (01:05):
As a question for all of us?

Speaker 2 (01:06):
And look, I don't have the answers this love talk
is kind of exploratory for us all today.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
But I've seen people do that.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
I know some good friends of mine, and a friend
of mine was offended by somebody that was a friend
with her husband, so she told him that he couldn't
be friends with him anymore. I've seen people do that.
I know that people have done that. Does it cause
them to go behind your back and still be friends
with them? Well, that builds up resentment and distrust, So
that's not good. You need to discuss it. You need
to talk about it. If you need to take it

(01:33):
to therapy, do that too. But it's I don't think
it's something that you just jump on board. I'm just
mad because you're mad, But you guys are supposed to
be together, so you have to discuss it, and you
have to discuss it fairly. You have to come with
an open mind so you both can at least come
to an agreement because you still may not like them,
But does it mean that they can't be friends with them,
especially especially if it's somebody they've known all their life

(01:57):
before they knew you.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
Something about now, right, y'all