July 21, 2025 • 3 mins
The Love Talk segment, Misguided Anger, explores how unmanaged emotions can harm relationships and offers strategies for redirecting anger toward understanding and communication.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Let's talk about love for God, so love the world'll love. Yes,
it is time for the love talk of the day.
And y'all, I had.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
The sweetest conversation with someone who's in a relationship, and
she was upset about something else and someone else, and
when she was talking to her boyfriend, he ended up
carrying the full weight of everybody that she was angry at.
And so we kind of talked through it a little bit,
and I talked to her about apologizing and you know,
(00:31):
talk to her about managing your emotions. But I wanted
to acknowledge and just kind of talk about the fact
that sometimes we make the people that we love hold
most of our.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Anger and they have to endure most of our anger.
And is that fair.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I know love is built forward, and I know you
know that they can be a safe space and all
of that, But sometimes, y'all, we are beating up people
at home because somebody at work make you mad. Sometimes
you are mean with your spouse because somebody at church
made you mad or something that you wanted to happen,
and you're upset about it, and you misguide the anger
in the wrong direction.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Listen, It's okay to be angry.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
The Bible says, be angry, but sin not, and do
not let the sun go down on your anger.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
So let's let's let's stop mismanaging this anger.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
And when you are angry, if you get online, now
you mad at everybody online and all the comments have
to feel your anger. Let's let's let's take that to
the Lord in prayer. I know easier said than done.
I've been mad to y'all and I've had to repent too.
But what I want to make sure that I don't
do is make my house take the.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Brunt of what I'm dealing with.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
They still deserve my love, especially if they don't do nothing,
especially if it wasn't anything about them and their grace
and their love sometimes carries me through. And so then
I have to make the decision. Do I still want
to be snappy and angry? Do I still want to
be mean? Do I still want to be fussy?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I don't. I don't enjoy it, and I don't think
you do either.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I don't think we were created to carry that level
of anger and intensity. So let's learn to deal with
what we're dealing with, processing with who you need to
process it with, and not make everybody in your circle
carry it.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I hate when people say, oh God, Mama's coming home.
You know she gonna be mad. I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I wouldn't want everybody to have to run and hide
when I'm coming home because I'm a tornado or a hurricane,
you know. And fathers, that's for y'all too. The husband say,
and why this is for all of us and our
love relationships. Let's not take the anger home, and then
the people have to process how to tiptoe around you
and what to say and what not to say because
you say, let's learn to take that to the Lord.
(02:31):
Sit in your car a little bit before you go
in your house, pray, put on your favorite worship song.
Don't listen to nothing that's going to attribute to more anger.
Listen to and read and all those things, the things
that help you kind of lift that load.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
You know.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I often remind myself that I have to forgive us
our debts, as we forgive our debtors, and as you
realize I want to be forgiven what I'm wrong. I
want to be understood when I have an issue, So
I don't want to put that on the people that
I love and make them carry unnecessary burdens because you're
so angry and upset and are not operating in self control,
(03:07):
self control temperance. That's what we're supposed to have as believers,
all right. I love y'all so much. I really do,
and I'm really.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Just trying to give us tips so.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
We have healthier homes. You know, I don't want to
be great at work and not at home. I don't
want to be great at church and not at home.
So let's make sure to handle people with the grace
and love of God that he extends to you.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Let's extend that to our families. All right.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
That's the love talk of the day. No more misguided anger.
How about that
Let's talk about love for God, so love the world'll love. Yes,
it is time for the love talk of the day.
And y'all, I had.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
The sweetest conversation with someone who's in a relationship, and
she was upset about something else and someone else, and
when she was talking to her boyfriend, he ended up
carrying the full weight of everybody that she was angry at.
And so we kind of talked through it a little bit,
and I talked to her about apologizing and you know,
(00:31):
talk to her about managing your emotions. But I wanted
to acknowledge and just kind of talk about the fact
that sometimes we make the people that we love hold
most of our.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Anger and they have to endure most of our anger.
And is that fair.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I know love is built forward, and I know you
know that they can be a safe space and all
of that, But sometimes, y'all, we are beating up people
at home because somebody at work make you mad. Sometimes
you are mean with your spouse because somebody at church
made you mad or something that you wanted to happen,
and you're upset about it, and you misguide the anger
in the wrong direction.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Listen, It's okay to be angry.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
The Bible says, be angry, but sin not, and do
not let the sun go down on your anger.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
So let's let's let's stop mismanaging this anger.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
And when you are angry, if you get online, now
you mad at everybody online and all the comments have
to feel your anger. Let's let's let's take that to
the Lord in prayer. I know easier said than done.
I've been mad to y'all and I've had to repent too.
But what I want to make sure that I don't
do is make my house take the.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Brunt of what I'm dealing with.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
They still deserve my love, especially if they don't do nothing,
especially if it wasn't anything about them and their grace
and their love sometimes carries me through. And so then
I have to make the decision. Do I still want
to be snappy and angry? Do I still want to
be mean? Do I still want to be fussy?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I don't. I don't enjoy it, and I don't think
you do either.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I don't think we were created to carry that level
of anger and intensity. So let's learn to deal with
what we're dealing with, processing with who you need to
process it with, and not make everybody in your circle
carry it.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I hate when people say, oh God, Mama's coming home.
You know she gonna be mad. I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I wouldn't want everybody to have to run and hide
when I'm coming home because I'm a tornado or a hurricane,
you know. And fathers, that's for y'all too. The husband say,
and why this is for all of us and our
love relationships. Let's not take the anger home, and then
the people have to process how to tiptoe around you
and what to say and what not to say because
you say, let's learn to take that to the Lord.
(02:31):
Sit in your car a little bit before you go
in your house, pray, put on your favorite worship song.
Don't listen to nothing that's going to attribute to more anger.
Listen to and read and all those things, the things
that help you kind of lift that load.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
You know.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I often remind myself that I have to forgive us
our debts, as we forgive our debtors, and as you
realize I want to be forgiven what I'm wrong. I
want to be understood when I have an issue, So
I don't want to put that on the people that
I love and make them carry unnecessary burdens because you're
so angry and upset and are not operating in self control,
(03:07):
self control temperance. That's what we're supposed to have as believers,
all right. I love y'all so much. I really do,
and I'm really.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Just trying to give us tips so.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
We have healthier homes. You know, I don't want to
be great at work and not at home. I don't
want to be great at church and not at home.
So let's make sure to handle people with the grace
and love of God that he extends to you.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Let's extend that to our families. All right.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
That's the love talk of the day. No more misguided anger.
How about that
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