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April 8, 2025 • 79 mins

In this episode of Getting Open, Francesca Hogi—love and life coach, lawyer-turned-relationship expert, and passionate advocate for self-love—joins to talk about what it really means to live an authentic life and attract true love. Francesca shares insights on dating app fatigue, her "love without settling" philosophy, and how changing your internal narrative can completely shift your external reality.

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Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction  
04:55 – Living with intention: Choosing how to live rather than reacting to life
08:12 – Breaking up with people-pleasing
12:45 – “Love without settling” mantra: What that means in practice
16:20 – How dating apps commodify people and what to do about it
21:15 – Authenticity as magnetism: Stop changing yourself to be chosen
27:00 – The myth of “the one” & why no one person completes you
32:10 – How shifting your story changes your life
36:40 – Finding aligned relationships without burnout
42:10 – What kind of energy are you leading with in dating?
46:30 – How to stop recreating the same relationships
50:05 – Why being rejected is a gift
59:15 – Dating from a place of calm, not urgency
1:03:00 – Advice on dating apps: How to use them without burnout

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