March 2, 2025 • 27 mins
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Carly sits down with Rick, a client who opens up about the deep need for intimacy that sex workers fulfill in his life. They explore the emotional side of escorting, the difference between physical and emotional connection, and why companionship matters just as much as sex. Plus, Carly recaps her first run of live comedy shows at the Adelaide Fringe—recorded straight from her hotel room, complete with all the chaos that comes with festival life!
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Appoche production, Gofriend Fire with Golie Electric. This is not
a how to guide from people wanting to get into
the industry.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I don't want people to think that they're going to
necessarily learn something here.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It's more just a fun and interesting take on the industry,
but also just coming from my point of view. I'm
sitting down with my producer getting down to the nitty
gritty of the sex worker industry. Hello, and welcome back
to Girlfriend for Hire. We are actually recording from my
(00:48):
hotel room in Adelaide, Hi Shad Goli.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
This kind of feels like I don't know if anyone
can recall the videos they may have seen on a
certain website that is orange and black. But this seems
like the kind of casting setup situation that people would
have where you've been invited to well in hotel room
and you don't really know what's about to happen.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Don't fucking make it creepy. Don't make it creepy, guys.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
We actually are at the very end of the In
my Box live shows, just finished the very last one.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Yeah, oh, I feel on top.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Of the world.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's actually just such a weird do you know what
this is like just the straightest tie I've ever had
in my entire life.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Really.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yes, Well, for those that listen to the app, we
are going to have an interview with a client coming
up later in the episode. But you, like you said,
you have spent a week at the Adelaide Fringe doing
your debut show in my box. Yeah, and as a
comedian that's been coming to the French for a few years,
I would have killed for your numbers.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
You had a great turnout from fans.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
It's actually quite shocking and not what I anticipated.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
You know, like, I don't know Adelaide, who's going to
come to a show on a Tuesday night at seven pm.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I thought that I would maybe get twenty people.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
But every night it just got busier and busier and busier,
and I'm overwhelmed with the response. Last night's show was
sold out. Today this afternoon had over sixty people. I'm
pretty fucking happy with that.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh, I can't wait to go have a margarita.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Yeah, that's creat.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
So this episode comes out on a Monday, your final
show obviously a Sunday afternoon. You would have thought for
those listening, you know, a show about sex work some
of the crazy things that have been.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Put into your inbox and whatnot.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
You would think a Sunday afternoon, right after the Sunday
roast Eels have wrapped up at the local pub talking
about that content would be too hectic.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Why don't you give an insight to the people that
are listening that didn't get to come to your show?
What is the show about?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
What are some of the stories that you've been performing
this week that you absolutely love that you can share
with people.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Essentially, I've just curated a whole list of some of
the weirdest and most wonderful inbox messages that I've ever received,
and I've just put them all into a fun hour
long show where we unpack them all. But I think
the best part of the show is everybody gets involved.
(03:19):
We ask everybody to help us get through all of
the weird shit that I get sent. So it becomes
a little bit of a game show and it's bloody fun.
People get involved, people come up with weird shit, and
I'm into it.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What do you think was the most common?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Because you do a part of the show where you
ask people for their kinks and whatnot and they kind
of share them with you, like We've heard a lot
of different kinks, and I'll be interested to hear what
your opinion is on a few of them.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Foot fetish is so common.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, also pegging, we got so many pegging.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
You shared a story on stage and I thought maybe
we could get get into about you having to do
foot fetish bookings for people.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
How often do these happen?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Pretty much?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Well, look, probably for me not as much as other people,
because I have broken every single toe on my fucking
like both feet.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
I'm just I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
It's an ADHD thing. Supposedly it's super common because we're
not very spatially aware, and so I smashed my feet
into every coffee table I've ever owned. I've broken every
toe and so because of that, my toes are mangle mangled.
So I do not get the footwork really.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I actually have a good mate of mine, actually one
of my best mates, and he's a foot guy, and
he said to me that my feet are some of
the most like the worst that he's like seen. So
I really don't get those kind of bookings. But look,
I have definitely in the past. I did one recently
where I had to give a foot job, and God,
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that core strength. Like it's like, okay, because you gotta
seat sit Okay, I'm demonstrating, and I'm sorry, we don't
have Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
See what I said at the beginning really now starts
to sound like it is.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Okay. So it's like you've got to sit in a V.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Right, So you've got to lift your feet up off
the ground and my butt is, you know, on the ground,
and I've got my feet up in the air.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I'm trying to demonstrate I've got my.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Feet up and.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Yeah, it's almost like you're doing like like me crunches
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
But the thing is, you gotta hold your feet up.
I can only do that for like my core strength.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Oh wow, that is a headtic ab workout.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
It's actually insane.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Yeah right, yeah, do the full finish?
Speaker 3 (05:34):
People like, is it just that they want or is
it like it does go full surface after that or
is it it.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Does it does go full service after that.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
There are guys who only want foot stuff really ah yeah,
And so they always say like, no, they don't end
up booking me because I don't charge per service. I
charge for my time. So when a guy is like, look,
we don't have to get naked. I just want you
to give me a foot job or I just want
to kiss your feet for twenty minutes. You know how
(06:04):
much is that? And I say, well, it's the price
of girlfriend experience. It's eight hundred because you're paying for
my time, not per service. And so they generally go
because they only want to pay like one hundred bucks
or something. Yeah right, yeah, so don't I don't do
it very much.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
But you have made money off your feet, though, haven't you?
Speaker 5 (06:21):
I have? I have.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
So I've only ever taken one photo of my toes
and then one video that goes for seven seconds they're
both in the bath. And I've recycled this one photo
and one video for a couple of years and I've
definitely made a couple of k from it.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Really, yeah, the same? And is it still in circulation? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Yeah, so you don't even have to update this this one.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
And do you know what I love?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Is I so I would have taken that photo and
video back in well seven years ago. And so when
I go back into my photo folder on my phone
and I just type in toes or feet just to
find it, and a pops buck up so I can
recycle it some more.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Is I mean there'd be so many people doing that.
A the reason I guess feet are good because it's
unlike nerds like that. You wouldn't really assume that fee
changed too much? Was it pre or post breaking the toes?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I've broken at least five toes since then, so my
toes look even worse than what they do.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Look like a ballerina's foot. Oh stumped up. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
One thing that I've loved about my shows is how
many clients are coming to my shows, right.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I love it. I just they're so excited to be there.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
And I can tell that, you know, they're a little
bit nervous or whatever because they don't know what's coming,
but it's I just it's so exciting, and yeah, they've
all had a really great time.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I haven't seen because I'm in the show.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, you haven't pointed out any clients to me at
the show, so you've been.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Keeping it a secret. So obviously you don't because you
don't out anyone.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
No, No, I mean I would never, I would never
do that. It's you know, discretion is such a big
part of what I do, so I would never want
to make anybody feel ncometable or Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
No, that's not that's not what I'm about.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
That is fascinating because now I'm looking back at the
show trying to think who maybe it could have been couple.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
There have been couples that I've seen.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
It's crazy. They would have been getting off on that
idea too, being in the room being like we've actually
done this. Yes, that's sick, I know how fun.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I think that's mad that you've had some clients come
to the show, like traveling down to Adelaid for it.
One thing I want to ask you about is Karlie
had a bunch of people come to a show earlier
in the week and it was like, and I think
it's actually a bit of common thing throughout the week.
You would have I would say, on average five at
max twelve to fifteen people that were sixty five seventy plus.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Yeah, I had an eighty year old an eighty year
old in the crowd.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Don't where he survived. The show was pretty rude, was
touch and go.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
There, but you did play yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
One of the best things that happened was, I think
it was Wednesday night.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I just had a lot of like over sixties in
the crowd, Like, good on them for coming and seeing
something like my show. But we had to start the
show because a lady put up her hand and said,
excuse me, what's a DM? And I had to explain
what a DM was. Oh, look, everybody's just getting educated.
(09:26):
So I am going to be taking my show in
my box all around the country. Dates will be put
up shortly of when you can come and see in
my box.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
That sounds weird, What do you.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Think of like now that you've delved into the comedy realm,
is Carlie Electric the sex worker going to wrap up
and now you're going to become the Cali Electric, the
former sex worker turn comedian.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Look, I got my I got my first pay for
doing my comedy show in Adelaide. And let's just say
that I will not be leaving full service sex work
anytime soon. I spend more on cocktails and dinner when
I go out than what I made for the week
(10:13):
in Adelaide.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Welcome to the game, mate, it's so crushing.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I don't understand how comedians survive. So yeah, just a
sex worker comedian, now.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
There you go. Yeah, look that's a recap from the
La Fringe. But let's pay for people.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Fans of the podcast that are keen to see what
we've got next on this episode.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
This is the second client that asked to be on
the podcast.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Yeah, we have Rick coming on and this is just
I actually got a bit emotional during the recording of
this one. It really hit home and kind of validates
why I do what I do. And he's an absolute sweetheart.
I've seen him a few times and I just think
(11:00):
he's a fantastic person. What he has to say, even
though he was a bit scared of sounding like a
bit of a knob, I think that what he says
is very important and I think that it will resonate
with a lot of guys who might also be in
the same position.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Well, you know what to do. Follow the podcast if
you like it, a leave a review as well.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Would be great to get some five stars in there
for the podcast. But let's get into the main of it.
This is our Rick in our latest interview with a client.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Hi, Rick, thank you so much for coming on.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I really appreciate it. I've seen you twice, but you
also are on my only fans and so you're kind
of a bit of an all rounder. You're getting the
full Carli experience, and I really appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Well, I've got a question for you, Rick Jes, straight
off the bat, because Carli just mentioned you only fans
and you've booked Carli, which came first the only fans
or the booking.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
That was the only fans first?
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Right?
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Or it does work as a marketing yeah, okay, and
in hand now.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
All that social media stuff works, I think, yeah, it's
it's good.
Speaker 5 (12:19):
It gives you sort of a little bit of an
insight into them.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
How long were you on the only fans before you
decided to book Carly don't?
Speaker 5 (12:28):
I think maybe a couple of months.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
How did you find me? Initially?
Speaker 6 (12:32):
It was through Instagram? Yeah, right, I started following on
Instagram first.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
I have a question in regards to Carlie's only fans,
So that's just come to my head. A while back
we spoke about her only fans and Carlie mentioned that
when she has once tried to put up content of
her with someone, it received negative feedback. Now, as someone
who does follow her on her only fans, how do
(13:01):
you feel about content that features another man in there?
Speaker 6 (13:04):
Well, I mean she sort of speaks that she never
wants to sort of get up on the only fans
with the guy, and when she mentioned that she was
going to I sort of thought, I hope you sort
of don't do anything that you're uncomfortable with. But when
you actually watched it, I thought it was actually quite good.
So yeah, she didn't she didn't sort of go off
(13:26):
what she wanted to do, and yeah, she still sort
of made it interesting.
Speaker 5 (13:29):
And yeah, so hats off too for that. Because I
did speak to her about this, I was a little
I thought, Oh, I hope you don't do anything that
you don't want to do.
Speaker 7 (13:40):
So yeah, Shad is looking at me surprised because it
sounds like we have had a conversation about this, but
we haven't. Chad just threw that out there, not knowing
that we've actually spoken about this in the past.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Yeah, yeah, right, because I know that that was Well,
how's this Because you are an only fans, You're the.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
First person that we've spoken to that follows her on
only fans.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
I've pitched a type of content that I think would
be a huge hit on her only fans, so I
think it'd be great to ask someone who uses it.
I Carly films so many scenes that don't make it
bly fans because she doesn't look at her face, or
there was a blooper, and I think that a blooper
(14:23):
reel would be a huge bit of content.
Speaker 5 (14:27):
I'm pretty sure I actually mentioned it to her that yeah,
he actually has it would be good.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
There's so many.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
I was editing a video yesterday.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I sneeze and it is not like it like, it's
not a cute sneeze.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
It's horrific.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
But also my camera falls but gives me such a
fright that I jump up and like do a scream.
Speaker 7 (14:53):
See I edit all this stuff out?
Speaker 5 (14:59):
For sure?
Speaker 4 (15:01):
What do you reckon?
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Do we put it behind a paye what? What do you
think bloopers is worth the fans believers? I think is
worth a pay per views for sure.
Speaker 6 (15:08):
For sure, she's done quite a few of them, So
I mean there's there's there'd be three or four three
or four video for sure.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
I could make a whole movie worth of stuff that
I cut over.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
More is cut out than what gets released.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I would say terror as an audience for it, I
do it.
Speaker 7 (15:30):
Thank you giving me the inspo, giving me the inspo.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Okay, so a little bit more serious. So why is
it that you decided to see an escort first?
Speaker 6 (15:41):
Or an escort September twenty three, and I'd never had
sex with anyone else before. I'd only had the one partner,
so I was interested to be intimate with somebody else.
I wasn't able to do that's my relationship. So it
was something that I wanted to try, and I thought
it'd be a better way of doing things than sort
(16:02):
of seeking another relationship or something like that.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
Yeah, and is it.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Something that you foresee that you will continue to do
in the future or do you think it's just a
kind of you know, this is your situation currently and
you'll just do.
Speaker 6 (16:15):
It now and then I probably thought it for a
little while a long I'm actually really enjoying it. If
I don't mean to come across as a prick or anything,
but yeah, I'm enjoying it. So it's something that I'd
like to do for a little bit longer.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Yeah, Customer satisfactions.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Was it was good, good, and daunting. Yes, I was
very My.
Speaker 6 (16:44):
Sexual history is probably very conservative, so there were certain
things that I sort of never done and I wanted
to try, and that was like it.
Speaker 5 (16:53):
Was like aweso awesome.
Speaker 6 (16:55):
But yeah, it was a little daunting to start off
with but after a bit, I sort of felt comfortable
and I was made to feel comfortable and it sort
of towards the end of it, it went really well.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
So, yeah, have they only been positive experiences for you?
Speaker 6 (17:12):
I've been I got the first time I've tried, I
got scammed. So but I mean a lot of a
lot of people. That happens to a lot of people,
and it's sort of and people should stick should stick
to the fore and like you know, the recognized websites
and things like that to do it.
Speaker 5 (17:27):
It happens quite a lot.
Speaker 6 (17:28):
And yeah, I was, I was, I was one of them.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Well, we do recommend Ivy Society here for anybody wondering
what those websites are. Definitely Ivy's Society.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
Little plug.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
You said that your previous sexual issue is quite conservative
and you wanted to try something of a different and
you can you kind of let us give us an
insight into what exactly that was. I mean, we've been
through on this podcast the vast array of things that
are on off.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
You're going to make me feel like a nod But
I've never had I've never had a black job.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
For that's cool, Okay, I'm glad I get it.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Do you know what I'm all for?
Speaker 1 (18:08):
Just if there's things that you want to do and
want to try, just get out there and make it happen.
But that, to me is so surprising. I was trying
to think to myself, what what you were.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Going to say? Definitely was not that. I was like,
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
I was thinking, like, pegging seems to always be a
huge topic around people at I mean.
Speaker 6 (18:30):
I haven't I haven't sort of tried any of that before.
But you know, I don't know how I'll feel in
the future, but I won't.
Speaker 5 (18:39):
I won't roll it out. You never know.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
That is that part of the appeal of booking a
sex worker is that you know there isn't any judgment
and you.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
Can exactly exactly.
Speaker 6 (18:48):
I mean when I spoke to the girl and said
that I'd never had, just the look on her face
was like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Yeah, oh, bloody man, getting a professional and I'm going
to tell you.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
You've gone straight into the top. You like, was it good?
Speaker 5 (19:08):
It's good? And I like it to laugh.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Okay, Well, now the natural question is going Okay twenty
twenty three blow Job versus Carli Electric Has there been improvement.
Speaker 5 (19:22):
Oh, I know that they're good.
Speaker 6 (19:24):
I just I just I just want them to go longer.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
Doesn't every block mate.
Speaker 6 (19:37):
It's you gotta gotta taste of a good thing, and
it's like you just want to want it to go longer.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Oh my gosh, it can be arranged. Guys, I'm blushing.
I can't imagine how much you're blushing.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
Long This is one of my favorite chats already.
Speaker 7 (19:50):
Yeah, this is great, This is great.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
Can I ask you this question?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
And I assume that you're single at the moment, right,
So this is it's kind of because we hear about
this a lot. It's like people being able to enjoy
the parts that they can't get from their current relationship.
What would be a suggestion from you to someone who's
maybe in a similar.
Speaker 4 (20:15):
Position to what you were back in twenty twenty three?
Speaker 5 (20:18):
Don't put it off? Definitely.
Speaker 6 (20:20):
You know the girls that you speak to and they're there,
they're warm, they're comforting, they make you feel okay about it.
It's not a relationship, it's not it's not something you
have to feel bad about. Nobody needs to know about it,
so you don't have to you don't have to mention
it to anybody and me personally, I wasn't intimate for
(20:42):
quite a number of years, and I wish I would
have done it a hell of a lot earlier because
that intimacy that I craved, I really did I missed.
I missed that intimacy and yeah, it was something that
I wish I would have done it so much earlier.
Speaker 5 (20:57):
So yeah, don't don't leave.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
It is that because you feel that, and like, you know,
I'm kind of half assuming here, but like I imagine getting
the intimacy through the sex workers. What's the knock on effect?
I assume it's positive to your normal life, your regular life.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
It's sort of hard to explain, shad, but it makes
you just feel so much better.
Speaker 6 (21:20):
I mean, human beings being intimate with another human beings
an awesome thing, and I just the knock on effect
is like how much better you feel afterwards and it
stays with you, so you know, a relationship, sex is
just the most awesome thing, and people that withhold stuff
(21:41):
like that in a relationship. It just yeah, don't I
don't ever do it because it's just an awesome thing
being intimate with someone.
Speaker 5 (21:48):
It's just it's just the best. It really is.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Yeah, I feel like I'm getting a bit emotional.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
Really, Yeah, Well, I just I really like Rick and
I know his story and you know, he we spend
some very intimate time together where you know, we talk
about our lives and I've gotten to know him quite
well and I know his story, and yeah, just hearing
(22:20):
this it really if I am having a bad work day,
I need to listen back to these podcasts because this
is why I do essentially, why I do what I do. Yes,
the money is great, and the lure of money is there,
but if I didn't enjoy my time with people, there's
(22:42):
no way like that money wouldn't make sense to me.
But when I hear stories like this and I spend
time with people like Rick, it just for me is
why I do this.
Speaker 6 (22:54):
And that's the feeling that you get because it's it's
I don't know, it still is personable, it's still it's
still warm, it's and the intimacy it's awesome. So yeah,
my only problem is I wish I was more financial.
Speaker 5 (23:12):
I'd think were more often, but yeah, I just can't say.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Yeah, yeah, really keeping everybody away he's awesome.
Speaker 4 (23:24):
I think it's a fantastic point though. The idea of
the intimacy.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
And the reason I asked for about the knock on
effects is because I mean for someone like myself, which
I've said before, I've never booked a.
Speaker 4 (23:33):
Sex worker before.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
So this whole experience of doing this podcast with Karli
is completely eye opening for me.
Speaker 7 (23:39):
He knows so much now.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
But even in my own relationship, you know, my girlfriend
I have a thing where you know, she'll want to
have a hug and it's like the whole idea of
the twenty second hug will reduce any stress that she's
having at the moment, and this is like another version
of that. And if it's I guess it's like and
there'd be people that kind of would judge the idea
of booking a sex worker, but it's like getting that intimacy,
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the knock on effects to how you are in your
everyday life. Because you're getting that, it's like now you're
a more possible person.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
You kind of feeling.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Yeah, people that bag it probably don't know. People that
bag it probably don't know what it's like.
Speaker 6 (24:17):
It was something that, like I said Toyears earlier, it's
something that I put off for so long and I
wish I wish I had.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
No I think that this is a really important conversation,
probably the most important conversation that we've had with somebody,
purely because I feel like there are so many men
in your position for sure wish to listen to this
and feel validated for their feelings and understand exactly what
you're saying and exactly what you're going through. And you know,
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guys don't talk about this type of thing, like it's
not something that guys talk about.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
But what you're.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Actually doing is you're probably going to have a bit
of a fan base after this of and I feel
like I will have messages from people saying that they
resonate with what you're saying, and yeah.
Speaker 6 (25:05):
Being intimate with someone, it's just it's just the best,
it really is.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
You're a beautiful man, Rick. I really appreciate you so much,
and thank you so much for being so open and candid.
I just I think that you're fantastic and I'm so
glad that we've met.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
Thank you both. I hope, Yeah, it makes for good listening.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
See these conversations I think are so important. I didn't
know that we were going to, you know, so heavily
go down that kind of road with Rick there, but
it highlights to me, I was getting emotional, Like it
really highlights.
Speaker 4 (25:44):
To me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
The important job that I do and the important job
that a lot of sex workers do for people. I
would have to say primarily I'm seeing people like Rick.
I hear these stories.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
All the time.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
They're very genuine and yeah, like people couldn't lie to
my face and give me whatever story that they want.
But I like to think that my interactions with guys
are really genuine and really heartfelt, and they open up
to me about their lives and what's going on, and yeah,
it's very moving. I have a feeling that I actually
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might have cried in the first booking that I did
half with him. I think I got teary from memory.
But anyway, look.
Speaker 4 (26:31):
I'm just a lover, Like.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Really, look, it's more I'm not sobbing.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
It's just I get a bit teary because it's such
an emotional you know, they've taken a big step to
come and see someone, and you know they're hoping that
it goes a certain way. They're longing and needing this
human connection and interaction. And even though he is like,
oh yeah, it's the sacs I know that there's a
massive part of the connection there that's important to him.
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I don't think he would continue to see me if
there wasn't that connection.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
That is that wraps up another chat with a client.
I'm so fascinated that we've been able to do this.
It's very interesting, so interesting.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
I find it fascinating because I'm not privy to this,
like we're all learning together. I find it really.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Interesting and it I think it will, at the end
of the.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Day, just make me a better escort. The more you
know
Appoche production, Gofriend Fire with Golie Electric. This is not
a how to guide from people wanting to get into
the industry.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I don't want people to think that they're going to
necessarily learn something here.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It's more just a fun and interesting take on the industry,
but also just coming from my point of view. I'm
sitting down with my producer getting down to the nitty
gritty of the sex worker industry. Hello, and welcome back
to Girlfriend for Hire. We are actually recording from my
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hotel room in Adelaide, Hi Shad Goli.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
This kind of feels like I don't know if anyone
can recall the videos they may have seen on a
certain website that is orange and black. But this seems
like the kind of casting setup situation that people would
have where you've been invited to well in hotel room
and you don't really know what's about to happen.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Don't fucking make it creepy. Don't make it creepy, guys.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
We actually are at the very end of the In
my Box live shows, just finished the very last one.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Yeah, oh, I feel on top.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Of the world.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's actually just such a weird do you know what
this is like just the straightest tie I've ever had
in my entire life.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Really.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yes, Well, for those that listen to the app, we
are going to have an interview with a client coming
up later in the episode. But you, like you said,
you have spent a week at the Adelaide Fringe doing
your debut show in my box. Yeah, and as a
comedian that's been coming to the French for a few years,
I would have killed for your numbers.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
You had a great turnout from fans.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
It's actually quite shocking and not what I anticipated.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
You know, like, I don't know Adelaide, who's going to
come to a show on a Tuesday night at seven pm.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I thought that I would maybe get twenty people.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
But every night it just got busier and busier and busier,
and I'm overwhelmed with the response. Last night's show was
sold out. Today this afternoon had over sixty people. I'm
pretty fucking happy with that.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh, I can't wait to go have a margarita.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Yeah, that's creat.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
So this episode comes out on a Monday, your final
show obviously a Sunday afternoon. You would have thought for
those listening, you know, a show about sex work some
of the crazy things that have been.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Put into your inbox and whatnot.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
You would think a Sunday afternoon, right after the Sunday
roast Eels have wrapped up at the local pub talking
about that content would be too hectic.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Why don't you give an insight to the people that
are listening that didn't get to come to your show?
What is the show about?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
What are some of the stories that you've been performing
this week that you absolutely love that you can share
with people.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Essentially, I've just curated a whole list of some of
the weirdest and most wonderful inbox messages that I've ever received,
and I've just put them all into a fun hour
long show where we unpack them all. But I think
the best part of the show is everybody gets involved.
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We ask everybody to help us get through all of
the weird shit that I get sent. So it becomes
a little bit of a game show and it's bloody fun.
People get involved, people come up with weird shit, and
I'm into it.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What do you think was the most common?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Because you do a part of the show where you
ask people for their kinks and whatnot and they kind
of share them with you, like We've heard a lot
of different kinks, and I'll be interested to hear what
your opinion is on a few of them.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Foot fetish is so common.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, also pegging, we got so many pegging.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
You shared a story on stage and I thought maybe
we could get get into about you having to do
foot fetish bookings for people.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
How often do these happen?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Pretty much?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Well, look, probably for me not as much as other people,
because I have broken every single toe on my fucking
like both feet.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
I'm just I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
It's an ADHD thing. Supposedly it's super common because we're
not very spatially aware, and so I smashed my feet
into every coffee table I've ever owned. I've broken every
toe and so because of that, my toes are mangle mangled.
So I do not get the footwork really.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I actually have a good mate of mine, actually one
of my best mates, and he's a foot guy, and
he said to me that my feet are some of
the most like the worst that he's like seen. So
I really don't get those kind of bookings. But look,
I have definitely in the past. I did one recently
where I had to give a foot job, and God,
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that core strength. Like it's like, okay, because you gotta
seat sit Okay, I'm demonstrating, and I'm sorry, we don't
have Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
See what I said at the beginning really now starts
to sound like it is.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Okay. So it's like you've got to sit in a V.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Right, So you've got to lift your feet up off
the ground and my butt is, you know, on the ground,
and I've got my feet up in the air.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
I'm trying to demonstrate I've got my.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Feet up and.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Yeah, it's almost like you're doing like like me crunches
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
But the thing is, you gotta hold your feet up.
I can only do that for like my core strength.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Oh wow, that is a headtic ab workout.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
It's actually insane.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Yeah right, yeah, do the full finish?
Speaker 3 (05:34):
People like, is it just that they want or is
it like it does go full surface after that or
is it it.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Does it does go full service after that.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
There are guys who only want foot stuff really ah yeah,
And so they always say like, no, they don't end
up booking me because I don't charge per service. I
charge for my time. So when a guy is like, look,
we don't have to get naked. I just want you
to give me a foot job or I just want
to kiss your feet for twenty minutes. You know how
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much is that? And I say, well, it's the price
of girlfriend experience. It's eight hundred because you're paying for
my time, not per service. And so they generally go
because they only want to pay like one hundred bucks
or something. Yeah right, yeah, so don't I don't do
it very much.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
But you have made money off your feet, though, haven't you?
Speaker 5 (06:21):
I have? I have.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
So I've only ever taken one photo of my toes
and then one video that goes for seven seconds they're
both in the bath. And I've recycled this one photo
and one video for a couple of years and I've
definitely made a couple of k from it.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Really, yeah, the same? And is it still in circulation? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Yeah, so you don't even have to update this this one.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
And do you know what I love?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Is I so I would have taken that photo and
video back in well seven years ago. And so when
I go back into my photo folder on my phone
and I just type in toes or feet just to
find it, and a pops buck up so I can
recycle it some more.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Is I mean there'd be so many people doing that.
A the reason I guess feet are good because it's
unlike nerds like that. You wouldn't really assume that fee
changed too much? Was it pre or post breaking the toes?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I've broken at least five toes since then, so my
toes look even worse than what they do.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Look like a ballerina's foot. Oh stumped up. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
One thing that I've loved about my shows is how
many clients are coming to my shows, right.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I love it. I just they're so excited to be there.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
And I can tell that, you know, they're a little
bit nervous or whatever because they don't know what's coming,
but it's I just it's so exciting, and yeah, they've
all had a really great time.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I haven't seen because I'm in the show.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, you haven't pointed out any clients to me at
the show, so you've been.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Keeping it a secret. So obviously you don't because you
don't out anyone.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
No, No, I mean I would never, I would never
do that. It's you know, discretion is such a big
part of what I do, so I would never want
to make anybody feel ncometable or Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
No, that's not that's not what I'm about.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
That is fascinating because now I'm looking back at the
show trying to think who maybe it could have been couple.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
There have been couples that I've seen.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
It's crazy. They would have been getting off on that
idea too, being in the room being like we've actually
done this. Yes, that's sick, I know how fun.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I think that's mad that you've had some clients come
to the show, like traveling down to Adelaid for it.
One thing I want to ask you about is Karlie
had a bunch of people come to a show earlier
in the week and it was like, and I think
it's actually a bit of common thing throughout the week.
You would have I would say, on average five at
max twelve to fifteen people that were sixty five seventy plus.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Yeah, I had an eighty year old an eighty year
old in the crowd.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Don't where he survived. The show was pretty rude, was
touch and go.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
There, but you did play yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
One of the best things that happened was, I think
it was Wednesday night.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I just had a lot of like over sixties in
the crowd, Like, good on them for coming and seeing
something like my show. But we had to start the
show because a lady put up her hand and said,
excuse me, what's a DM? And I had to explain
what a DM was. Oh, look, everybody's just getting educated.
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So I am going to be taking my show in
my box all around the country. Dates will be put
up shortly of when you can come and see in
my box.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
That sounds weird, What do you.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Think of like now that you've delved into the comedy realm,
is Carlie Electric the sex worker going to wrap up
and now you're going to become the Cali Electric, the
former sex worker turn comedian.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Look, I got my I got my first pay for
doing my comedy show in Adelaide. And let's just say
that I will not be leaving full service sex work
anytime soon. I spend more on cocktails and dinner when
I go out than what I made for the week
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in Adelaide.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Welcome to the game, mate, it's so crushing.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I don't understand how comedians survive. So yeah, just a
sex worker comedian, now.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
There you go. Yeah, look that's a recap from the
La Fringe. But let's pay for people.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Fans of the podcast that are keen to see what
we've got next on this episode.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
This is the second client that asked to be on
the podcast.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Yeah, we have Rick coming on and this is just
I actually got a bit emotional during the recording of
this one. It really hit home and kind of validates
why I do what I do. And he's an absolute sweetheart.
I've seen him a few times and I just think
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he's a fantastic person. What he has to say, even
though he was a bit scared of sounding like a
bit of a knob, I think that what he says
is very important and I think that it will resonate
with a lot of guys who might also be in
the same position.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Well, you know what to do. Follow the podcast if
you like it, a leave a review as well.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Would be great to get some five stars in there
for the podcast. But let's get into the main of it.
This is our Rick in our latest interview with a client.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Hi, Rick, thank you so much for coming on.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I really appreciate it. I've seen you twice, but you
also are on my only fans and so you're kind
of a bit of an all rounder. You're getting the
full Carli experience, and I really appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Well, I've got a question for you, Rick Jes, straight
off the bat, because Carli just mentioned you only fans
and you've booked Carli, which came first the only fans
or the booking.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
That was the only fans first?
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Right?
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Or it does work as a marketing yeah, okay, and
in hand now.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
All that social media stuff works, I think, yeah, it's
it's good.
Speaker 5 (12:19):
It gives you sort of a little bit of an
insight into them.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
How long were you on the only fans before you
decided to book Carly don't?
Speaker 5 (12:28):
I think maybe a couple of months.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
How did you find me? Initially?
Speaker 6 (12:32):
It was through Instagram? Yeah, right, I started following on
Instagram first.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
I have a question in regards to Carlie's only fans,
So that's just come to my head. A while back
we spoke about her only fans and Carlie mentioned that
when she has once tried to put up content of
her with someone, it received negative feedback. Now, as someone
who does follow her on her only fans, how do
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you feel about content that features another man in there?
Speaker 6 (13:04):
Well, I mean she sort of speaks that she never
wants to sort of get up on the only fans
with the guy, and when she mentioned that she was
going to I sort of thought, I hope you sort
of don't do anything that you're uncomfortable with. But when
you actually watched it, I thought it was actually quite good.
So yeah, she didn't she didn't sort of go off
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what she wanted to do, and yeah, she still sort
of made it interesting.
Speaker 5 (13:29):
And yeah, so hats off too for that. Because I
did speak to her about this, I was a little
I thought, Oh, I hope you don't do anything that
you don't want to do.
Speaker 7 (13:40):
So yeah, Shad is looking at me surprised because it
sounds like we have had a conversation about this, but
we haven't. Chad just threw that out there, not knowing
that we've actually spoken about this in the past.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Yeah, yeah, right, because I know that that was Well,
how's this Because you are an only fans, You're the.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
First person that we've spoken to that follows her on
only fans.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
I've pitched a type of content that I think would
be a huge hit on her only fans, so I
think it'd be great to ask someone who uses it.
I Carly films so many scenes that don't make it
bly fans because she doesn't look at her face, or
there was a blooper, and I think that a blooper
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reel would be a huge bit of content.
Speaker 5 (14:27):
I'm pretty sure I actually mentioned it to her that yeah,
he actually has it would be good.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
There's so many.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
I was editing a video yesterday.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I sneeze and it is not like it like, it's
not a cute sneeze.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
It's horrific.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
But also my camera falls but gives me such a
fright that I jump up and like do a scream.
Speaker 7 (14:53):
See I edit all this stuff out?
Speaker 5 (14:59):
For sure?
Speaker 4 (15:01):
What do you reckon?
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Do we put it behind a paye what? What do you
think bloopers is worth the fans believers? I think is
worth a pay per views for sure.
Speaker 6 (15:08):
For sure, she's done quite a few of them, So
I mean there's there's there'd be three or four three
or four video for sure.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
I could make a whole movie worth of stuff that
I cut over.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
More is cut out than what gets released.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I would say terror as an audience for it, I
do it.
Speaker 7 (15:30):
Thank you giving me the inspo, giving me the inspo.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Okay, so a little bit more serious. So why is
it that you decided to see an escort first?
Speaker 6 (15:41):
Or an escort September twenty three, and I'd never had
sex with anyone else before. I'd only had the one partner,
so I was interested to be intimate with somebody else.
I wasn't able to do that's my relationship. So it
was something that I wanted to try, and I thought
it'd be a better way of doing things than sort
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of seeking another relationship or something like that.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
Yeah, and is it.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Something that you foresee that you will continue to do
in the future or do you think it's just a
kind of you know, this is your situation currently and
you'll just do.
Speaker 6 (16:15):
It now and then I probably thought it for a
little while a long I'm actually really enjoying it. If
I don't mean to come across as a prick or anything,
but yeah, I'm enjoying it. So it's something that I'd
like to do for a little bit longer.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Yeah, Customer satisfactions.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Was it was good, good, and daunting. Yes, I was
very My.
Speaker 6 (16:44):
Sexual history is probably very conservative, so there were certain
things that I sort of never done and I wanted
to try, and that was like it.
Speaker 5 (16:53):
Was like aweso awesome.
Speaker 6 (16:55):
But yeah, it was a little daunting to start off
with but after a bit, I sort of felt comfortable
and I was made to feel comfortable and it sort
of towards the end of it, it went really well.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
So, yeah, have they only been positive experiences for you?
Speaker 6 (17:12):
I've been I got the first time I've tried, I
got scammed. So but I mean a lot of a
lot of people. That happens to a lot of people,
and it's sort of and people should stick should stick
to the fore and like you know, the recognized websites
and things like that to do it.
Speaker 5 (17:27):
It happens quite a lot.
Speaker 6 (17:28):
And yeah, I was, I was, I was one of them.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Well, we do recommend Ivy Society here for anybody wondering
what those websites are. Definitely Ivy's Society.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
Little plug.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
You said that your previous sexual issue is quite conservative
and you wanted to try something of a different and
you can you kind of let us give us an
insight into what exactly that was. I mean, we've been
through on this podcast the vast array of things that
are on off.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
You're going to make me feel like a nod But
I've never had I've never had a black job.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
For that's cool, Okay, I'm glad I get it.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Do you know what I'm all for?
Speaker 1 (18:08):
Just if there's things that you want to do and
want to try, just get out there and make it happen.
But that, to me is so surprising. I was trying
to think to myself, what what you were.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Going to say? Definitely was not that. I was like,
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
I was thinking, like, pegging seems to always be a
huge topic around people at I mean.
Speaker 6 (18:30):
I haven't I haven't sort of tried any of that before.
But you know, I don't know how I'll feel in
the future, but I won't.
Speaker 5 (18:39):
I won't roll it out. You never know.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
That is that part of the appeal of booking a
sex worker is that you know there isn't any judgment
and you.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
Can exactly exactly.
Speaker 6 (18:48):
I mean when I spoke to the girl and said
that I'd never had, just the look on her face
was like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Yeah, oh, bloody man, getting a professional and I'm going
to tell you.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
You've gone straight into the top. You like, was it good?
Speaker 5 (19:08):
It's good? And I like it to laugh.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Okay, Well, now the natural question is going Okay twenty
twenty three blow Job versus Carli Electric Has there been improvement.
Speaker 5 (19:22):
Oh, I know that they're good.
Speaker 6 (19:24):
I just I just I just want them to go longer.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
Doesn't every block mate.
Speaker 6 (19:37):
It's you gotta gotta taste of a good thing, and
it's like you just want to want it to go longer.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Oh my gosh, it can be arranged. Guys, I'm blushing.
I can't imagine how much you're blushing.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
Long This is one of my favorite chats already.
Speaker 7 (19:50):
Yeah, this is great, This is great.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
Can I ask you this question?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
And I assume that you're single at the moment, right,
So this is it's kind of because we hear about
this a lot. It's like people being able to enjoy
the parts that they can't get from their current relationship.
What would be a suggestion from you to someone who's
maybe in a similar.
Speaker 4 (20:15):
Position to what you were back in twenty twenty three?
Speaker 5 (20:18):
Don't put it off? Definitely.
Speaker 6 (20:20):
You know the girls that you speak to and they're there,
they're warm, they're comforting, they make you feel okay about it.
It's not a relationship, it's not it's not something you
have to feel bad about. Nobody needs to know about it,
so you don't have to you don't have to mention
it to anybody and me personally, I wasn't intimate for
(20:42):
quite a number of years, and I wish I would
have done it a hell of a lot earlier because
that intimacy that I craved, I really did I missed.
I missed that intimacy and yeah, it was something that
I wish I would have done it so much earlier.
Speaker 5 (20:57):
So yeah, don't don't leave.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
It is that because you feel that, and like, you know,
I'm kind of half assuming here, but like I imagine getting
the intimacy through the sex workers. What's the knock on effect?
I assume it's positive to your normal life, your regular life.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
It's sort of hard to explain, shad, but it makes
you just feel so much better.
Speaker 6 (21:20):
I mean, human beings being intimate with another human beings
an awesome thing, and I just the knock on effect
is like how much better you feel afterwards and it
stays with you, so you know, a relationship, sex is
just the most awesome thing, and people that withhold stuff
(21:41):
like that in a relationship. It just yeah, don't I
don't ever do it because it's just an awesome thing
being intimate with someone.
Speaker 5 (21:48):
It's just it's just the best. It really is.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Yeah, I feel like I'm getting a bit emotional.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
Really, Yeah, Well, I just I really like Rick and
I know his story and you know, he we spend
some very intimate time together where you know, we talk
about our lives and I've gotten to know him quite
well and I know his story, and yeah, just hearing
(22:20):
this it really if I am having a bad work day,
I need to listen back to these podcasts because this
is why I do essentially, why I do what I do. Yes,
the money is great, and the lure of money is there,
but if I didn't enjoy my time with people, there's
(22:42):
no way like that money wouldn't make sense to me.
But when I hear stories like this and I spend
time with people like Rick, it just for me is
why I do this.
Speaker 6 (22:54):
And that's the feeling that you get because it's it's
I don't know, it still is personable, it's still it's
still warm, it's and the intimacy it's awesome. So yeah,
my only problem is I wish I was more financial.
Speaker 5 (23:12):
I'd think were more often, but yeah, I just can't say.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Yeah, yeah, really keeping everybody away he's awesome.
Speaker 4 (23:24):
I think it's a fantastic point though. The idea of
the intimacy.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
And the reason I asked for about the knock on
effects is because I mean for someone like myself, which
I've said before, I've never booked a.
Speaker 4 (23:33):
Sex worker before.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
So this whole experience of doing this podcast with Karli
is completely eye opening for me.
Speaker 7 (23:39):
He knows so much now.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
But even in my own relationship, you know, my girlfriend
I have a thing where you know, she'll want to
have a hug and it's like the whole idea of
the twenty second hug will reduce any stress that she's
having at the moment, and this is like another version
of that. And if it's I guess it's like and
there'd be people that kind of would judge the idea
of booking a sex worker, but it's like getting that intimacy,
(24:05):
the knock on effects to how you are in your
everyday life. Because you're getting that, it's like now you're
a more possible person.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
You kind of feeling.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Yeah, people that bag it probably don't know. People that
bag it probably don't know what it's like.
Speaker 6 (24:17):
It was something that, like I said Toyears earlier, it's
something that I put off for so long and I
wish I wish I had.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
No I think that this is a really important conversation,
probably the most important conversation that we've had with somebody,
purely because I feel like there are so many men
in your position for sure wish to listen to this
and feel validated for their feelings and understand exactly what
you're saying and exactly what you're going through. And you know,
(24:48):
guys don't talk about this type of thing, like it's
not something that guys talk about.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
But what you're.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Actually doing is you're probably going to have a bit
of a fan base after this of and I feel
like I will have messages from people saying that they
resonate with what you're saying, and yeah.
Speaker 6 (25:05):
Being intimate with someone, it's just it's just the best,
it really is.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
You're a beautiful man, Rick. I really appreciate you so much,
and thank you so much for being so open and candid.
I just I think that you're fantastic and I'm so
glad that we've met.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
Thank you both. I hope, Yeah, it makes for good listening.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
See these conversations I think are so important. I didn't
know that we were going to, you know, so heavily
go down that kind of road with Rick there, but
it highlights to me, I was getting emotional, Like it
really highlights.
Speaker 4 (25:44):
To me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
The important job that I do and the important job
that a lot of sex workers do for people. I
would have to say primarily I'm seeing people like Rick.
I hear these stories.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
All the time.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
They're very genuine and yeah, like people couldn't lie to
my face and give me whatever story that they want.
But I like to think that my interactions with guys
are really genuine and really heartfelt, and they open up
to me about their lives and what's going on, and yeah,
it's very moving. I have a feeling that I actually
(26:21):
might have cried in the first booking that I did
half with him. I think I got teary from memory.
But anyway, look.
Speaker 4 (26:31):
I'm just a lover, Like.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Really, look, it's more I'm not sobbing.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
It's just I get a bit teary because it's such
an emotional you know, they've taken a big step to
come and see someone, and you know they're hoping that
it goes a certain way. They're longing and needing this
human connection and interaction. And even though he is like,
oh yeah, it's the sacs I know that there's a
massive part of the connection there that's important to him.
(27:01):
I don't think he would continue to see me if
there wasn't that connection.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
That is that wraps up another chat with a client.
I'm so fascinated that we've been able to do this.
It's very interesting, so interesting.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
I find it fascinating because I'm not privy to this,
like we're all learning together. I find it really.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Interesting and it I think it will, at the end
of the.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Day, just make me a better escort. The more you
know
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