August 27, 2025 • 32 mins
Welcome back to Hear Me Out! On this episode, I'm joined by my producer Blake to unpack all of our thoughts on The Summer I Turned Pretty (season 3, episode 7) and the insane love triangle between Belly, Jeremiah & Conrad.. plus, we read through your wildest childhood rules you had growing up and we were loving them!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
My TV screen is going off the balcony.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Give it up. I chose you Summer, and I chose me. Hi, guys,
welcome back to hear me out.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
You've got me your host, Busy and Blakie because we're
about to have a.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Very very heated debate about the summer.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Right, So, I'm pretty I'm worried we've had hew first fight.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
We haven't.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
We don't, abe, but I'm excited to get into that,
all right, Blake, So.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Tell them what you told me.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh god, I told you this before I open TikTok
see right now, because I know where everyone's sitting. Yeah,
I will explain myself. So don't exit this episode. The
team Jeremiah, Yeah, that makes me sick.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Team conrades me is the only option or team not Belly.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
See. I'm glad you opened up with that because I'm like,
I've been unpacking it and we were talking about it
as well over the weekend, and I'm like, I do
know that Conrad's the better guy, but I think I've
lost so much respect for Belly.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I'm like, yeah, there's something I'm amazing about TikTok comments.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
They just like, I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Think i've ever like watched her TikTok and then not
read the comments and like people like which episodes.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Does Jeremiah die? And I'm like, I love it.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Jeremiah as a child, Conrad loves her, would do anything
for her.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
He got her, he got her her, mum got her
a glass, you know, go on when he was a kid.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I know, even the flashbacks, it's like, he's the guy,
he's her guy.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
But I'm like, does Bellie even deserve him at this point?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
No, she doesn't. And by the way, we're talking about
the summer, I turn pretty people aren't a cross. But
I feel like the world is at the moment like
every real, every real, every TikTok I see it has
like over a million likes. Your friends are locked in, right,
and even.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
If you're not, it's like you'd watch that and then
go fuck, I probably should lock in. Like my friend
was seeing all those things and just started from season one,
smashed the whole thing in like two days.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
And she's now, how nice would it be to like
start again.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I'm being honest, I haven't watched the back end of
season two What I.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Got Moore, and I wasn't in it.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
But then I'm like fuck it, I'll just watch like
a I watched like a fifteen minute recap of season two,
and then I just started season three, and.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Now I'm a bit like, fuck, I could double down
on Jeremiah because you haven't watched it all.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Well, she was texting me. I really like Jeremiah, Like
I don't understand. I've been I will say I have
been team Conrad since the jum Yeah, because you know
she's gonna end up with Comrade like that. Just you
just feel that in your bones, like that's what's gonna happen.
I don't know how we'll get there, but I feel
like it will.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Well, there's four episodes left.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, I was happily.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
I was pleasantly surprised that there's eleven episodes in the season. Yeah,
whereas I thought they'd be like eight, That's what I thought.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
So I thought we're talking about episode seven and I
think at time of listening.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Eight will have just come out.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So oh my god. I come went to like listen
back to this and be like, oh my god, will
we wrong? Well, we so wrong.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
We'll make some predictions absolutely.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
But I'm like, she's texting me all through season one,
all through season two, being like I really like Jeremiah,
Like it's so hot. I'm like, get back to me
when you're caught up, you fucking get back to me.
And finally she goes, Okay, I get it.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, it's almost hotter anyway, It's a development. Conrad can
be so much more of an asshole.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Comrade just needs to be open about how he feels
and he'd have no fucking problem.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, And as someone who's really struggled with non communicators,
I think maybe that's why I struggle with Conrad. I'm
a bit like I want to shake your shoulders and
like shake that word so dark.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I'm a serious energy anyway, I would rather that. And
I'm like, if you think him what there was I
don't even remember season one, to be honest with everyone
was like him Jeremiah cheating on your ice a little
bit worse than.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
What Comrade did.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah, I can't argue.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
There were you crying in the last episode.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
No, I don't really cry movies, and weirdly, because I've
I've been so blindly teamed Jeremiah and I will like
fuck this. I said to Izzy on Thursday or Friday,
whichever day the episode came out I'm team principal, like,
I just don't want to allow her to jump to
another fucking brother. It's insane.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
But if we go to the og brother jumping vampire diaries,
come on, who cares?
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It's a story, it is a show. I do need
to remember.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
This, but I don't know how it's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, okay, we do need to make our prediction.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
I think next episode will be when everything gets called off,
because I think it needs to happen soon, if they're
going to have time to recover up and let Bellie
and Conrad be together. I think she's going to go
to Paris alone and he's going to go over there
and be like, I love you.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So I'm caught up in the sticks at the moment.
I'm like, what happens in the first five minutes the
next episode. That's where I'm at. I think I don't
know that Taylor is going to tell Laurel the mom
about Jeremiah cheating.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Oh yeah, Laurel needs to know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Laurel is going to get those claws out and take
his head off.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, and I want Laurel to be like, I just
want Belly to admit her feelings. I want her to
tell Taylor what Comrade said, because Taylor.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Will be like billy girl, honey, come on.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
But I just I don't expect that maturity out of Belly.
I've given up on.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Her, given up somewhere. Belly ends up with neither of them.
How about that?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I have have you seen the edits where people like
predict how it's gonna end and how it's like Belly's
staring out at the beach and she's like, I didn't
choose either, brother.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I chose summer, and I chose me.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I will jump through that.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
No ends up being like I chose summer, I chose peace,
like I chose me.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
My TV screen is going off the balcony. No, I
think I'm dumb.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I don't reckon that. I don't think they They can't
do that to me.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Frankly, they cannot.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
They cannot.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
And there's there's fucking four more episodes.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
That is more than enough time. I'm like, she doesn't
deserve Comrade.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
She doesn't. Belly always a funk out of me. Yeah,
she's never honest to their feelings. Like I just I
can't because we get to see inside of her head,
you know, as you was, and I'm like, I hate
you haven't just been more honest and like you're convincing
yourself you love Jeremiah, Why are you getting married to
my And like when you're not sure and you might
be in love with the brother, get married at twenty
one if you're set solid, know that that's your man,
(06:07):
but you love his brother too.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, And I think i'd give her a bit more.
I'd be a bit easier on her if we couldn't
hear the internal dialogue. But she is allying to everyone
and us every single episode.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I know, and comrade like he cheated on you, yeah,
I know, and the way that she was like you
never meant anything to me, like Jeremiah has. I'm like,
I actually I actually want to grab your throats.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, but like they weren't you greening out forty five
minutes ago making a Conrad edit in your head on?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
That was sad. That part actually made me cry.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And then Jeremiah, when Ariana Grande came on, He's like, oh,
my drink, this is my song.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I can we can.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Be fred I can't.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
The wedding dances, the female wedding dance was a lot
for me because at that point, I didn't realize that
they were both doing it, and I was like, why
are we doing a sex dance at your wedding? Friends
made me ick, Like I know that people do that,
but it made me. It was just made me ick,
and I think everyone will agree with me. But then
the boys. I couldn't watch her. I actually didn't watch her.
I watched my phone.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Did you see Stephen making eye contact with his new Giralie?
I don't like that.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I don't like that whole thing.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
It was horrid.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Yeah, it's all just it's a bit of a shit
show right now.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
But we're really enjoying it. Guy.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
But I was really really proud of Comrade for finally
fucking saying how he felt.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
That's big.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
It was.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
It's like the first time he's.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Ever should have happened fucking months and years ago. Yeah,
before she's marrying your brother.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
And in the wise words of BELLI, that's what Susannah
would have wanted. Who so odd?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Someone was like, this is out of the season's gonna end.
Bellie died, So she finally gets hang out with Susanna,
I'm not and gets neither of the brothers Jeremiz and
I saw that. You know what's actually really funny if
you look them up online. Both of the boys' partners
look very similar to Bellie, and especially Jeremiah's wife look
very similar to Belli.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And I feel like people are just making mean adits.
I shouldn't fall into this too hard, but like they're
making real life Jeremiah look like TV show Jeremiah.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Jeremiah isn't very well liked.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I think something came out last year about him either
being maybe it's a Trump' supporter or a Zionist or something,
and he's not. That's why they always make these edits
about the fact that the other cast members hate him,
because like they very well could. I don't know, and
I don't want to say I don't know, but like
that's what white people like.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Oh they all hate Gavin. Gavin plays Jeremiah.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Yeah, and it's because of all that stuff that had
come out that I think is why that's like floating
around so much.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Okay, well, we'll find those receipts in the week coming
and report back on that.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
So we're just gonna get right into this week's submissions.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I asked you guys to send me.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
The craziest or strictest rules you had growing up, so
either from parents or teachers or grandparents or whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
And we've got we've.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Got so many sons, so I'm really excited to reread through.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I actually love these.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I remember i'd always see on TikTok girls would be
like crazy rules I had growing up, and like, holy
fucking shit, some of them are nuts, and they just
go on and on and on. But let's hear some
of yours, all right. Number one, I wasn't allowed.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
To have my ears pierced, and if I did, I.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Was threatened with being kicked out. I ended up getting
on it got infected. We had to cut it out
with pliers, and my mum was so mad and said, see,
this is why I don't understand the ear piercing thing.
I think the lobes fine, yeah, I think if there's
a level to all of it, like levels to tattoos,
levels to piercings, if you're getting like cartletge piercings all
(09:39):
the whole way out, like I have like ten ear piercings,
but I think I didn't get them more when I
was young. But like, if people are getting like rings
the whole way down the ear maybe then your parents
might be.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Like, Okay, yeah, let's fucking chill on, not a bit.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
But I think I got my ears piece when I
was like twelve, and some people get them pierce when
they're born. Like, I don't think ear piercings are that
big a deal.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Now my nieces have thirs done, they're like four and six.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Yeah, like I don't think. I don't think low piercings
are that big a deal. And it saddens me when.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
People say that people's parents don't let them.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Like at school.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Funnily enough, Sam's mum was my school coordinator in year
eleven and I had a lot of ear piercings and
like you're not allowed to wear piercing at school whatever,
but it's like you kind of just wear them and
see if you can get away with it, and like
if they tell you to take them out, you put
them back in at the end of the day, you know.
But my name starts with A, so I was the
first one. My locker was right next to Sam's mum's office.
(10:31):
Every time she walk last side, like stick my head
in the locker and she'd be like, take it out,
take it out, And that's their job.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
That's what they have to do.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
But I never understood it, but I think there definitely
is levels to it. Like, yeah, maybe I probably couldn't
walk around with my ears like I do now because
there are a lot of people that think it would
probably look really tacky. But like, if I have a
cattlage piercing, I'd just be like, if it's cute, let
me keep it.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Yeah, sadly, why don't.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
You just look at it decide if you like it
or not, and if you like it, I can keep it.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I love that. I'm like, I figured out I was
gay at twenty one. I'm like, should look back to
my childhood. But I got my ear really, I got
my lobes pierceed.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
I don't know it was that late.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Yeah, crazy, Hey, that's another episode that's like a whole
whole thing. But I got my ears piers once when
I was eight, once when I was like fifteen. But
I come from split parents, so every time I was
at mums, I was like, hey, let's go and should
always support. But then I get home and my dad
was like, what the fuck is in your ear? Hated it,
but both times it got infected, but I like double down,
(11:29):
So hard. I'm like, no, this is what I want. Yeah, No,
I got infected twice.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I was like, damn, I had a tragus piercing, which
is that little bit of skin that's like right next
to your head.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Like, yeah, just can't I help you sleep or something
or like some of you.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Know, you can get like these beads that you stick
on to your ear in certain points of your either
like pressure points that help with certain different things.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
But no, it didn't help me sleep.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
It got really really infected that it ended up traveling
down my lobe and infecting all the piercings in my
right ear, like keloid's horrible, disgusting, and I refuse to
let them go. Like I've never lost a piercing except.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
For this one.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
And it had a huge keyloid on it, and it
was this big diamond earring that like you screwed the
diamond off and pulled the pulled the bar out, you know,
so not like a back one that you'd have in
your lobes like a piercing earring.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
And one day I woke up and it's gone.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I can't see the diamond anymore, and I'm like what
the fuck, Like it must have fallen off in my sleep,
Like the keloid is just a big fucking red, disgusting keloid. Yeah,
on this inner part of my ear and the diamond's gone,
so I like searched my wholebed.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
I couldn't find it. I'm like, fuck, I don't know
where it is.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Riley like, can you just take the bar out because
obviously the diamond's fallen off the front. She grabs tweezs
as we see it on the floor of my wardrobe.
Blood is like streaming down my fucking neck and She's like,
I can't fucking do it. I'm like, you literally have to,
like there's no other solution, like pull the earring out.
She pulled it out, the diamonds still on the front
of her I really thought that's where it overnnight. My
(12:58):
keyloids swallowed the dimond, and so we pulled out this massive,
spiky diamond out through the infected piercing hole. It was
honestly fucking so painful, but I've got a scar there.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Now that like my heart's like racing hell and.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Riley was like freaking out because there's blood fucking everywhere.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
It was shit, but now I.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Don't probably couldn't get one. I wouldn't get one again.
You also can't really wear headphones if you have one
of those piercings. Anyways, that's not interesting.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
I don't seen my sorry, but yes, parents can be
right sometimes, but don't please guessings too much.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
But like, it's like tattoos.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
It's like my dad always goes, oh, You're gonna end
up with a sleeve, aren't you. Every time I get
like a new little micro fine line tattoo, it's like,
I'm gonna be a sleeve soon, like and whatever, it is,
all right.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Number two.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
I had to undiagnose ADHD at the time. And when
I was in KINDI kindy is such a cute word.
And pre primary, my teachers made a rule it if
I couldn't sit still and stop talking at matt time
and have to change out of my uniform skirt and
into the boys' uniform pants.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Why the fuck is the point of that?
Speaker 1 (13:59):
I'm sorry is not to be offensive, but surely like
that was society was really uneducated about ADHD at this time.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Yeah, because some kids, like if kids are hyperactive, you'd
be like, oh, they've probably got like like you go
get them.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Testis like when you're young. I feel like it's hard
to tell.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
I remember telling my mom every time, but she never
believed me because I was always back in my regular
skirt before home time. Anyways, it was low key traumatizing,
but also a character development moment because best believe I
kept rocking the pants instead of listening to them from
a now diagnosed queen who still can't stop talking and
his mom still doesn't believe it happened.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
That's I wonder why they would do that.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I'm almost wondering maybe if was it moving around a lot,
like maybe showing your underwear, and that's why they were like,
put pants on, because that is the only reasonable, like
acceptable me that they're like, okay, let's just put her
in pants. So then at least if she moves around
like we don't see her underwear.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Yeah, because otherwise, what do you insinuate?
Speaker 3 (14:51):
How's that a punishment thing? I know, we're pants okay, great,
thank you?
Speaker 1 (14:55):
And is it like she's being naughty like the boys
like I really don't want.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Yeah, we're going to make it feel like she's just
one of the naughty boys.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Dude. That's so we're ending that rule. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Number three I wasn't allowed to go in the pool
straight after eating because my dad would say, you need
to wait thirty minutes for your food to go down.
I always had that somewhat because apparently it would cause
cramps and then you might drown because you're cramping, right,
I can't swim.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
That was what I got told.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
I didn't interrogate it, but I was like, if I
jump in that pool, I'm going straight to the bottom. Oh,
because you're so fucking full, and I'm just scared of rule.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
They never enforced it.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
But we were always like, oh, you've just eaten, Like,
don't swim yet, So we.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Just kind of wait for our food to settle a bit.
But it's I think, I'm.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Pretty I don't want to speak like I know it
and then it ends up being wrong. I know, but
I'm pretty sure it's because you can.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Get credit, because even in my head right now, I'm like, wait,
it could be true, though, let.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Me find out, but continue I want asked him why,
and he said, you might drown if you go straight
into the pool after eating. Yeah, to this day, i
feel like I'm committing a crime going in the pool
after food. But I've never had an issue love the
body is you're doing.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Thank you, my godous girl.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Let's find out so quickly. I've just googled that you
were right? Is he it's aay causing cramps and oh
wait ah.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Because you can't swim. I like your whole body's like
cramping and you're like frozen.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Ai says, you genuinely do not need to wait thirty
minutes to swim after eating, as the idea that this
causes cramps or drowning is a myth. But apparently if
you eat a large meal it might be a bit uncomfortable,
which checks out.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
I feel like it makes me feel better when I
swim after.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
A bit, literally, me and Bali, I was just like
eating andrey a few things.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Better than I reckon I having a sandwich, like a
salad sandwich with like salon cheese, like on the beach,
and then like just swimming and then you feel like
you're not even loaded anymore because the water is so cold.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Nicer seven.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
In primary school, we have this mini bank in a
shoe box with fake money. If you do boeling class,
you'd be rewarded with twenty fifty or one hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
But to go to the toilet or to get water.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
You had to pay two hundred dollars in fake money,
basically punished for needing to pee or refill your water bottle.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Sorry, so if I.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Don't have enough money, you're gonna make me piss myself
on the floor. Also, how is it piling your water
bottle bad? Do you know what I mean? Like that?
Would you would think like, oh, you finish your water bottle, great,
you get fifty dollars, now go over fill it.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Do you know what I mean? You think that would
be a reward system for someone drinking on a while.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
I want to know what everything else costs, because this
seems really.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
Two hundred bucks to pee.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
I have a really, really notoriously small bladder, like we're talking.
If I'm at home, it's like five to ten minutes,
because like it's a thing in my brain where I
can't do a task that I'm excited for.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Unless my blood is completely empty.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
So it's like I can't start a TV episode or
I can't eat my dinner unless my bladder is completely empty.
So I can fully enjoy that experience without the need
to pee. So I've hear a lot more than I
need to, just because like before I do anything. Oh,
I've got a chocolate, I'm gonna eat weight. I need
a pee first because I can't eat it while I
need a pea or it won't be as enjoval.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
It's my brain. It's just it works in mysteria ways honestly.
But I swear to God though it's a bad habit
to were getting kids.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Like if we got vision of this system, I bet
it's like ten dollars for a packet of chips, twenty
dollars for soft drink. Oh you want to fill up
your drink bottle? Two hundreds?
Speaker 3 (18:13):
I don't know's they get money if they do good things,
and it's just those two things that take the money.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Yeah, oh wait, it's say good don't get to buy
anything out?
Speaker 2 (18:21):
No, you don't get to buy anything. It's not real.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
So you're saving up.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
For saving up to pete and fill up your water
buck sake?
Speaker 1 (18:28):
Who is making me?
Speaker 3 (18:29):
I'd be like, fuck you, I'm just gonna peep right here.
What are you going to do about it? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Get them up, get them up?
Speaker 2 (18:34):
You clean it? Am I gonna have to clean it?
Speaker 3 (18:35):
No?
Speaker 2 (18:36):
Have that joy? Hilarious. That's actually a really fucking dumb rule.
Hi is he love you? Babes?
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Riley would have just taken the piece out of me
with how I responded to that. My weird rule going
up growing up, because I was a rebellious team who
was suspended from school, et cetera, was that as long
as my mum didn't know about it, I wouldn't get
in trouble. Fair so when she had a boyfriend and
would say over it, I wasn't technically not allowed to
throw house parties as long as she couldn't tell, kind
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of a donuts don't tell policy.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
It was a.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Really weird rule, but it meant we got a long
way better, and it taught me to clean the whole
house before she came home, which she would probably have loved.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Literally mine news.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
She totally knew the whole time what I was doing,
but as long as she didn't have to deal with that,
it was no problem. I think that's probably a really
good way to go about it.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Why is this like the healthiest set of rules?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, I remember I threw a I used to always
have stuff at my dad's house, but not once I
was older, so like he wouldn't he'd always know because
I none of us would ever fucking clean anything up
until the next day. But me and my sister would
always have people over, probably late teens, early twenties.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Yeah, I wasn't like young.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I never had a party when I was younger like that,
but I definitely went to my fair share of free houses.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
I actually, oh my god, there was this huge.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Free house once in Mulven I remember, and almost everyone
was there. I was stating my first boyfriend at the time,
and him and two of his friends got on the Mac,
the Apple Mac computer that was in the living room,
and there was like hundreds.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Of people there.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
I got very out of hands, one of those ones
where everyone kind of just ends up rocking up. We
were probably like sixteen, and he went on. They went
on the Apple Mac and recorded a video of themselves
going like and you can see the like people raging
in the background.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
And the chiit got caught because of that video.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
And the house was fine.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
I don't know, but as in the parents got home
saw that video on the Mac and she got in trouble.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
I mean, the house must have been pretty impeccable.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
I don't know if it water to be. I just
had a couple of people, but then they see that
video and they're like, firstly, who the fuck are these guys? Yeah,
I would have hated him forever if that was when
they asked.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
I was like, you are, like, what was the need
for that? No need, no need.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
But I'm just glad people didn't clock on though. I
think you're about to say one person started taking videos
on like whatever. You know what.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
There's a little bit in my brain right now that
wonders whether that was a.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
No way.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
I've always thought that that happened. I mean maybe it's
because I'm like, I can't confirm it with him that
I'm like because it.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
Just sounds like no way. But no, that happened. I
think it did.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Let's back ourselves. We've done the submission anyways, so yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Fuck me, all right? If I Confirmedal didn't ein that,
please do. But That's what I've always thought happened. Fuck okay.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Number seven.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
My dad didn't let us watch anything on TV unless
it was an animal Planet on Foxtowl. He once caught me
watching Australia's Next Top Model and banding from TV for
a month.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Too fair.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Now, looking back at Australia at Next Top Model, just
the franchise in itself.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
Yeah, extremely fucking toxic.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
I was watching that at ten.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
I've watched. I've watched every season. I used to rewatch
them for fun. My favorite seasons to the one when
they had boys on it as well, because then you'd
get like of It two, which to me, a little
bit of romance is needed in every TV Sure, but
it's like Tyra Banks low key mod shoft Sydney.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Now, huh she lives in Sydney, Now I can back
that up. So she's randomly moved to Sydney and open
like her ice cream or something brand what she was
at Freaky of Friday premiere The Tira Bang.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Yeah, she probably because Americans can't be around her anymore.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Because of what she did.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
Literally, if she's hiding on.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
American's Next Time Model scandals, the fucking shit that happened
on those TV shows is crazy. Soup was probably right,
but I did watch it too. This was where this
was a rule until she was sixteen, and I can
confidently say I know now the best way to catch
a catfish. Thank you, river monsters. I don't get my
animal Planet. I'd be like watch a documentary.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
I just like I remember like you would background watch
her parents watching a docco when you're a kid, I
like documentary. Really, there's no interest there for me as
a kid.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I like true crime. I like animal shows.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
I actually really do like I do like Animal Planet
if I have nothing to watch. Like me and my
sister's ex boyfriend used to watch like, oh, this guy,
I don't know what his name is on YouTube, but
one of you'll be able to tell me.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
No, I was the David at and Reuel. Those were
two boring for me.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I liked World's Most Dangerous Animals or World's Deadliest like
that kind of thing. But we used to The Deadly sixty.
I used to love The Deadly sixty. But we used
to watch like this was like fucking six months ago.
We'd watch like this guy who would get himself stung
and bitten by like the most painful animals. So like
all these bugs like fire ants and everything, he'd like
(23:25):
lock them and like make them buy him just so
we could like review the pain scale. And it was
really interesting. But I don't Coyote Petersen that's his name,
which he's actually really hilarious, like not funny funny to
watch like cause he's like you love at.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
Him, not with him kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Anyway, Sla Codie Peterson.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
My parents are extremely religious and I wasn't allowed to
listen to any non Christian music.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
I only heard normal music when I was seventeen. Holy shit.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
So she would have been like in the chapel and stuff,
because we had like church and chapelet at school, and
when they would have been singing the songs, you would
have been like, these.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Are my.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
Son, like tying your hair bag?
Speaker 2 (24:07):
That's actually I think that is crazy.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
Yeah, I'm just like really sad.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Because music is such an expression of like I'm.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Like, could you hear radio on the bus? Was that?
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Like I reckon, there's Christian radios? So I reckon? I
would have played Christian radio.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Yeah. But like even at your school, say on, like,
what did you call it when you could wear whatever
you want at school?
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Casual clothes day?
Speaker 1 (24:28):
Yeah, I was just like mufty day.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
Mufty day.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I need to understand what school?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Did you go to?
Speaker 1 (24:35):
A Catholic one as well? Well? Mufty day.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
I think it's like mine was Methodist.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
My school was a Methodist, and then it was I
went to Loretto, And is Loretto Catholic or Christian.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
It's one of those. It's a bit more religious. MLC was.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
We did chapel and everything growing up, but then she
got into high school stuff you don't don't have to do.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I thought I was gaslighting myself. But a mufty day
is a day in school or workplaces where people can
wear casual clothes instead of the usual uniform. And we
just had to give a gold coin. Yeah, so cute,
so crazy.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
I used to love in primary school crazy hair day.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
I remember my mom.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
Used to like fun sit up, like I would get
so embarrassed that like what she would do to my hair.
And there was one girl I remember, and she had
her hair and like pigtails, and one was platted and
one was not, like that was her crazy hair, Like one's.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
A plat and one's bony, wazy girl. And I'm like,
I'm so.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Jealous of you.
Speaker 3 (25:24):
Well I've got this like teased mess, like spray painted
like rainbow.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
Yeah. Mom mused to go all out on that ship.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
But I just find that so fascinating, Like would she
not have heard something a sleepover on like casual dates.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
And honestly, strict parents raise sneaky kids.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yes, I fully do believe that.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
That's why I'm like, it's such a fine line, Like
I wouldn't even know where to begin in like what
kind of rules to implement to my child, because it's like,
you want to be strict, yeah, but if you're.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Strict, they're going to hide things they're going to do.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
And then it's like if you tell them to do
whatever they want, as long as they're honest, they're just
going to do some stupid fucking shit. Like I know
what I was like, and I would be drinking in
a fucking week.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Just call it Rocket Park. It's behind swim Burn.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
We would just drink there, and I remember there'd be
times I just end up so drunk.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
I'm just lying. I'm like, I could die here. My
parents don't know where. I am, Like, that's stupid.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
I had a feel those moments.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
But I feel like it's also a part of childhood totally,
So it's yeah, it's how you learn your wits. Felt
like I just I always felt comfortable, I guess in
a sense of if I need to, I can call
my parents to come get me. But then i'd have
a get rinsed the fucking next day. So I'm like,
i'd just rather not call you.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Yeah, And I feel like, you know, we look at
how we will raise our kids, but then when you
see our parents getting like protective or defensive of us,
like they're probably just living with the knowledge of what
they got up to, and they're like, I know you're
fucking doing that.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
My parents I think were relatively saints. Yeah, from what
they've told me, as in like no drugs, know nothing,
barely drank, yeah, like.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Sort of thing.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
And I do like there's no photos of them fucking
smoking cigarettes, Like wh they're younger, like they didn't do anything.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Mine are pretty much the same, and they both, like
to this day, don't drink much like dad was My.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Parents they love.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
I agree. So I'm trying to figure out about myself
because I can clear a bottle of wine no problem.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Like where did I get this from?
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Yes? Yeah, sneaky children.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
Yeah, Okay, So this isn't really a rule, but more
of a tradition. In my family, we all had table
presents for birthdays, meaning everyone at the table gets a present.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
With their name on it.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
It's so cute, but I'm genuinely curious if anyone else
does this.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
I don't know what that means.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
So if it's your birthday, that means Riley and your
brother would get a present at the table for themselves
as well. I don't know you're trying to make I know.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
I'm like, because we all have a birthday, we don't
all need to be included on each other's.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
Yeah, and I.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Want my day to be my day. I am a
leo and I am.
Speaker 3 (27:53):
A birthday a bit of a birthday hall. But I'm like, no,
I don't agree with everyone feeling.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
I didn't with that, But my sister just did not
do well on my birthday. She's like, why do you
get this? And I got that she got a few
presents on my birthday every year just to maintain the vibe.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
To maintain the positivity.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
I think I was okay with that. Was like, I
just want to have a day.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Yeah, No, I get that. I don't think it's necessary.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
I think it's sweet, and like, you never know, there
might be kids like your sister that had a real
issue with other people getting attention like that. But yeah,
we definitely didn't do that. No, I'd be surprised to
know how.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Common that is.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
As a child with a single mum, I wasn't allowed
to have a boyfriend at all. Every boyfriend I had
through high school was a secret until I moved out
for UNI at eighteen. However, my year ten boyfriends stayed
over all the time because we convinced her that he
was gay.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Who sorry. I think at that point.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
You kind of got to Yeah, but in saying that
I was not allowed to have a boy stay over
until I was.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Eighteen, that like feels common to me.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Yeah, And I feel like I may even implement that
role with my kids. I don't feel like you need
to encourage that sixteen.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Maybe it's so hard. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
I've always known the rule, but I've always known that
rule to get broken.
Speaker 2 (29:04):
Yeah I didn't.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
I did not have a boy stay over until I
was eighteen, but I went to stay at my boyfriend's
house every weekend. Yeah, and sorry, Mum, I just lied,
you know, But I didn't have any desire to have them.
I get why they implemented it, but if you have
a boyfriend that you're dating at the time, you're not
going to be like, sorry, mate, no sleepovers for us.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Yeah, no, you're not.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
And I get that, and I didn't, So I apologize.
Moum and Dad I'm not sure if you I've told
you that. Yeah, but I didn't want sneak out from
dad's house to say it my ex boyfriend's house.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
But I got away with it. I just show them
I got it really early. What do you thought I
was doing?
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Did you have the same sleep schedule as a kid
as you do now, because surely your parents, like bitch,
I actually did.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
I was always a really tired person. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
I think it's because I had hypotheroism from when I
was I got diagnosed when I was fourteen or fifteen,
but I'd had it for two years prior to me
being diagnosed. So yeah, I've always been like really tired,
probably more so then than I was now because I
wasn't medicated, like it wasn't fixed yet.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Yeah, so I was exhausted all the time.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Yeah, that'd be so hilarious you now being like, yeah,
it's got up really early.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
So getting up for school was fucking hell on a
stick every single day.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Girl. Yeah, you survived that.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
I did.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Should we just do one more minione?
Speaker 2 (30:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:18):
If my sister or I didn't finish our dinner, as
kids would either be locked on the balcony in the
dark with the lights off, blinds down, doors locked or
put in the dark garage until we finish our dinner.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
That's fucked that I wouldn't be allowed to eat dessert.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
I just have to finish the vegetables, I think usually,
but they're not going to sit me there until.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I eat my meal. And I heard that apparently that
can actually.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Cause obeit like that can be a cause for like
overeating as an adult because you're forced to eat stuff
that you don't want to eat, like you're not you're full,
and they're like, eat it.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Okay, I'm crazy at nighttime. Some of it like shit,
that's something I have.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
But I ate everything as a kid, so I didn't really.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
Have I didn't. I wasn't a vedshi girl. Okay I
am now, but I like, I used to pick vegetables
out of everything.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
So my sister was really fussy. And then my mum's
setting preschool. She used to pack like olives, pickles, like
pickled onions in my lunch box and she was like,
every time I knew no one was.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Still, you had like a charcuterie water.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
I know we were basic.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
But I wouldn't eat sandwiches as a kid, sandwiches.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
I had to have rolls, right, But I.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Remember my brother until now, I reckon, he's twenty two now,
didn't eat any form of vegetals.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
He still won't touch fruit, like well not I'm not
big on fruit, but I remember Mom, we were like,
this is a problem.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
He was becoming, potentially going to become one of those
kids who only eats like yellow foods like potatoes and cheese.
And my cousin actually is still like that. But Mum
got a plate of fruit, cut up all different fruits
and locked him outside with her until he tried every
single bit of that fruit. And I think it's made
him now to this day, not like because everything else,
he's come to terms with liking and on his own,
(31:59):
but he didn't like into liking looking back, like so
now he still will not eat He does not eat fruit.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
That's valide. I'm not a big fruit boys, So I'm
just like, I ate every vegetable. I think. The only
one I don't really like his onion, But I can
kind of get around that. Yeah, I can't name any
fruits I like that.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
I'm just not olives and I don't really like celery,
and I reckon they're the only do things.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
And I really don't eat look at us, I actually
but I do.
Speaker 3 (32:21):
I will eat celery if it's cooked into something cook,
but olives, I will I will not eat anything because
olives is such a polarizing flavor.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
You can't like. I'll be like, this is having olive
in it, like you can taste it.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
Yeah, you have always taken yeah disgusting. All right, guys,
that was some of your crazy rules. We definitely have
so many more.
Speaker 2 (32:37):
So if you're.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
Interested for a part, to let us snow on the
head out of page.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
But thanks for listening, guys.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
And thanks for having me girls.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
And I'm actually doing something really fun next week, and
I'll chut to you next week.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Baye baye,
My TV screen is going off the balcony.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Give it up. I chose you Summer, and I chose me. Hi, guys,
welcome back to hear me out.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
You've got me your host, Busy and Blakie because we're
about to have a.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Very very heated debate about the summer.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Right, So, I'm pretty I'm worried we've had hew first fight.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
We haven't.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
We don't, abe, but I'm excited to get into that,
all right, Blake, So.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Tell them what you told me.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh god, I told you this before I open TikTok
see right now, because I know where everyone's sitting. Yeah,
I will explain myself. So don't exit this episode. The
team Jeremiah, Yeah, that makes me sick.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Team conrades me is the only option or team not Belly.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
See. I'm glad you opened up with that because I'm like,
I've been unpacking it and we were talking about it
as well over the weekend, and I'm like, I do
know that Conrad's the better guy, but I think I've
lost so much respect for Belly.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I'm like, yeah, there's something I'm amazing about TikTok comments.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
They just like, I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Think i've ever like watched her TikTok and then not
read the comments and like people like which episodes.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Does Jeremiah die? And I'm like, I love it.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Jeremiah as a child, Conrad loves her, would do anything
for her.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
He got her, he got her her, mum got her
a glass, you know, go on when he was a kid.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I know, even the flashbacks, it's like, he's the guy,
he's her guy.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
But I'm like, does Bellie even deserve him at this point?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
No, she doesn't. And by the way, we're talking about
the summer, I turn pretty people aren't a cross. But
I feel like the world is at the moment like
every real, every real, every TikTok I see it has
like over a million likes. Your friends are locked in, right,
and even.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
If you're not, it's like you'd watch that and then
go fuck, I probably should lock in. Like my friend
was seeing all those things and just started from season one,
smashed the whole thing in like two days.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
And she's now, how nice would it be to like
start again.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I'm being honest, I haven't watched the back end of
season two What I.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Got Moore, and I wasn't in it.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
But then I'm like fuck it, I'll just watch like
a I watched like a fifteen minute recap of season two,
and then I just started season three, and.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Now I'm a bit like, fuck, I could double down
on Jeremiah because you haven't watched it all.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Well, she was texting me. I really like Jeremiah, Like
I don't understand. I've been I will say I have
been team Conrad since the jum Yeah, because you know
she's gonna end up with Comrade like that. Just you
just feel that in your bones, like that's what's gonna happen.
I don't know how we'll get there, but I feel
like it will.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Well, there's four episodes left.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, I was happily.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
I was pleasantly surprised that there's eleven episodes in the season. Yeah,
whereas I thought they'd be like eight, That's what I thought.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
So I thought we're talking about episode seven and I
think at time of listening.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Eight will have just come out.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So oh my god. I come went to like listen
back to this and be like, oh my god, will
we wrong? Well, we so wrong.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
We'll make some predictions absolutely.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
But I'm like, she's texting me all through season one,
all through season two, being like I really like Jeremiah,
Like it's so hot. I'm like, get back to me
when you're caught up, you fucking get back to me.
And finally she goes, Okay, I get it.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, it's almost hotter anyway, It's a development. Conrad can
be so much more of an asshole.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Comrade just needs to be open about how he feels
and he'd have no fucking problem.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, And as someone who's really struggled with non communicators,
I think maybe that's why I struggle with Conrad. I'm
a bit like I want to shake your shoulders and
like shake that word so dark.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I'm a serious energy anyway, I would rather that. And
I'm like, if you think him what there was I
don't even remember season one, to be honest with everyone
was like him Jeremiah cheating on your ice a little
bit worse than.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
What Comrade did.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah, I can't argue.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
There were you crying in the last episode.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
No, I don't really cry movies, and weirdly, because I've
I've been so blindly teamed Jeremiah and I will like
fuck this. I said to Izzy on Thursday or Friday,
whichever day the episode came out I'm team principal, like,
I just don't want to allow her to jump to
another fucking brother. It's insane.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
But if we go to the og brother jumping vampire diaries,
come on, who cares?
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It's a story, it is a show. I do need
to remember.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
This, but I don't know how it's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, okay, we do need to make our prediction.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
I think next episode will be when everything gets called off,
because I think it needs to happen soon, if they're
going to have time to recover up and let Bellie
and Conrad be together. I think she's going to go
to Paris alone and he's going to go over there
and be like, I love you.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So I'm caught up in the sticks at the moment.
I'm like, what happens in the first five minutes the
next episode. That's where I'm at. I think I don't
know that Taylor is going to tell Laurel the mom
about Jeremiah cheating.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Oh yeah, Laurel needs to know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Laurel is going to get those claws out and take
his head off.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, and I want Laurel to be like, I just
want Belly to admit her feelings. I want her to
tell Taylor what Comrade said, because Taylor.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Will be like billy girl, honey, come on.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
But I just I don't expect that maturity out of Belly.
I've given up on.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Her, given up somewhere. Belly ends up with neither of them.
How about that?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I have have you seen the edits where people like
predict how it's gonna end and how it's like Belly's
staring out at the beach and she's like, I didn't
choose either, brother.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I chose summer, and I chose me.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I will jump through that.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
No ends up being like I chose summer, I chose peace,
like I chose me.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
My TV screen is going off the balcony. No, I
think I'm dumb.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I don't reckon that. I don't think they They can't
do that to me.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Frankly, they cannot.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
They cannot.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
And there's there's fucking four more episodes.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
That is more than enough time. I'm like, she doesn't
deserve Comrade.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
She doesn't. Belly always a funk out of me. Yeah,
she's never honest to their feelings. Like I just I
can't because we get to see inside of her head,
you know, as you was, and I'm like, I hate
you haven't just been more honest and like you're convincing
yourself you love Jeremiah, Why are you getting married to
my And like when you're not sure and you might
be in love with the brother, get married at twenty
one if you're set solid, know that that's your man,
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but you love his brother too.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, And I think i'd give her a bit more.
I'd be a bit easier on her if we couldn't
hear the internal dialogue. But she is allying to everyone
and us every single episode.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I know, and comrade like he cheated on you, yeah,
I know, and the way that she was like you
never meant anything to me, like Jeremiah has. I'm like,
I actually I actually want to grab your throats.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, but like they weren't you greening out forty five
minutes ago making a Conrad edit in your head on?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
That was sad. That part actually made me cry.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And then Jeremiah, when Ariana Grande came on, He's like, oh,
my drink, this is my song.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I can we can.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Be fred I can't.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
The wedding dances, the female wedding dance was a lot
for me because at that point, I didn't realize that
they were both doing it, and I was like, why
are we doing a sex dance at your wedding? Friends
made me ick, Like I know that people do that,
but it made me. It was just made me ick,
and I think everyone will agree with me. But then
the boys. I couldn't watch her. I actually didn't watch her.
I watched my phone.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Did you see Stephen making eye contact with his new Giralie?
I don't like that.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I don't like that whole thing.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
It was horrid.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Yeah, it's all just it's a bit of a shit
show right now.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
But we're really enjoying it. Guy.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
But I was really really proud of Comrade for finally
fucking saying how he felt.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
That's big.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
It was.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
It's like the first time he's.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Ever should have happened fucking months and years ago. Yeah,
before she's marrying your brother.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
And in the wise words of BELLI, that's what Susannah
would have wanted. Who so odd?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Someone was like, this is out of the season's gonna end.
Bellie died, So she finally gets hang out with Susanna,
I'm not and gets neither of the brothers Jeremiz and
I saw that. You know what's actually really funny if
you look them up online. Both of the boys' partners
look very similar to Bellie, and especially Jeremiah's wife look
very similar to Belli.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And I feel like people are just making mean adits.
I shouldn't fall into this too hard, but like they're
making real life Jeremiah look like TV show Jeremiah.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Jeremiah isn't very well liked.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I think something came out last year about him either
being maybe it's a Trump' supporter or a Zionist or something,
and he's not. That's why they always make these edits
about the fact that the other cast members hate him,
because like they very well could. I don't know, and
I don't want to say I don't know, but like
that's what white people like.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Oh they all hate Gavin. Gavin plays Jeremiah.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Yeah, and it's because of all that stuff that had
come out that I think is why that's like floating
around so much.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Okay, well, we'll find those receipts in the week coming
and report back on that.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
So we're just gonna get right into this week's submissions.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I asked you guys to send me.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
The craziest or strictest rules you had growing up, so
either from parents or teachers or grandparents or whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
And we've got we've.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Got so many sons, so I'm really excited to reread through.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I actually love these.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I remember i'd always see on TikTok girls would be
like crazy rules I had growing up, and like, holy
fucking shit, some of them are nuts, and they just
go on and on and on. But let's hear some
of yours, all right. Number one, I wasn't allowed.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
To have my ears pierced, and if I did, I.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Was threatened with being kicked out. I ended up getting
on it got infected. We had to cut it out
with pliers, and my mum was so mad and said, see,
this is why I don't understand the ear piercing thing.
I think the lobes fine, yeah, I think if there's
a level to all of it, like levels to tattoos,
levels to piercings, if you're getting like cartletge piercings all
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the whole way out, like I have like ten ear piercings,
but I think I didn't get them more when I
was young. But like, if people are getting like rings
the whole way down the ear maybe then your parents
might be.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Like, Okay, yeah, let's fucking chill on, not a bit.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
But I think I got my ears piece when I
was like twelve, and some people get them pierce when
they're born. Like, I don't think ear piercings are that
big a deal.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Now my nieces have thirs done, they're like four and six.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Yeah, like I don't think. I don't think low piercings
are that big a deal. And it saddens me when.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
People say that people's parents don't let them.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Like at school.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Funnily enough, Sam's mum was my school coordinator in year
eleven and I had a lot of ear piercings and
like you're not allowed to wear piercing at school whatever,
but it's like you kind of just wear them and
see if you can get away with it, and like
if they tell you to take them out, you put
them back in at the end of the day, you know.
But my name starts with A, so I was the
first one. My locker was right next to Sam's mum's office.
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Every time she walk last side, like stick my head
in the locker and she'd be like, take it out,
take it out, And that's their job.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
That's what they have to do.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
But I never understood it, but I think there definitely
is levels to it. Like, yeah, maybe I probably couldn't
walk around with my ears like I do now because
there are a lot of people that think it would
probably look really tacky. But like, if I have a
cattlage piercing, I'd just be like, if it's cute, let
me keep it.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Yeah, sadly, why don't.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
You just look at it decide if you like it
or not, and if you like it, I can keep it.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I love that. I'm like, I figured out I was
gay at twenty one. I'm like, should look back to
my childhood. But I got my ear really, I got
my lobes pierceed.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
I don't know it was that late.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Yeah, crazy, Hey, that's another episode that's like a whole
whole thing. But I got my ears piers once when
I was eight, once when I was like fifteen. But
I come from split parents, so every time I was
at mums, I was like, hey, let's go and should
always support. But then I get home and my dad
was like, what the fuck is in your ear? Hated it,
but both times it got infected, but I like double down,
(11:29):
So hard. I'm like, no, this is what I want. Yeah, No,
I got infected twice.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I was like, damn, I had a tragus piercing, which
is that little bit of skin that's like right next
to your head.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Like, yeah, just can't I help you sleep or something
or like some of you.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Know, you can get like these beads that you stick
on to your ear in certain points of your either
like pressure points that help with certain different things.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
But no, it didn't help me sleep.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
It got really really infected that it ended up traveling
down my lobe and infecting all the piercings in my
right ear, like keloid's horrible, disgusting, and I refuse to
let them go. Like I've never lost a piercing except.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
For this one.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
And it had a huge keyloid on it, and it
was this big diamond earring that like you screwed the
diamond off and pulled the pulled the bar out, you know,
so not like a back one that you'd have in
your lobes like a piercing earring.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
And one day I woke up and it's gone.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I can't see the diamond anymore, and I'm like what
the fuck, Like it must have fallen off in my sleep,
Like the keloid is just a big fucking red, disgusting keloid. Yeah,
on this inner part of my ear and the diamond's gone,
so I like searched my wholebed.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
I couldn't find it. I'm like, fuck, I don't know
where it is.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Riley like, can you just take the bar out because
obviously the diamond's fallen off the front. She grabs tweezs
as we see it on the floor of my wardrobe.
Blood is like streaming down my fucking neck and She's like,
I can't fucking do it. I'm like, you literally have to,
like there's no other solution, like pull the earring out.
She pulled it out, the diamonds still on the front
of her I really thought that's where it overnnight. My
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keyloids swallowed the dimond, and so we pulled out this massive,
spiky diamond out through the infected piercing hole. It was
honestly fucking so painful, but I've got a scar there.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Now that like my heart's like racing hell and.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Riley was like freaking out because there's blood fucking everywhere.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
It was shit, but now I.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Don't probably couldn't get one. I wouldn't get one again.
You also can't really wear headphones if you have one
of those piercings. Anyways, that's not interesting.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
I don't seen my sorry, but yes, parents can be
right sometimes, but don't please guessings too much.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
But like, it's like tattoos.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
It's like my dad always goes, oh, You're gonna end
up with a sleeve, aren't you. Every time I get
like a new little micro fine line tattoo, it's like,
I'm gonna be a sleeve soon, like and whatever, it is,
all right.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Number two.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
I had to undiagnose ADHD at the time. And when
I was in KINDI kindy is such a cute word.
And pre primary, my teachers made a rule it if
I couldn't sit still and stop talking at matt time
and have to change out of my uniform skirt and
into the boys' uniform pants.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Why the fuck is the point of that?
Speaker 1 (13:59):
I'm sorry is not to be offensive, but surely like
that was society was really uneducated about ADHD at this time.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Yeah, because some kids, like if kids are hyperactive, you'd
be like, oh, they've probably got like like you go
get them.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Testis like when you're young. I feel like it's hard
to tell.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
I remember telling my mom every time, but she never
believed me because I was always back in my regular
skirt before home time. Anyways, it was low key traumatizing,
but also a character development moment because best believe I
kept rocking the pants instead of listening to them from
a now diagnosed queen who still can't stop talking and
his mom still doesn't believe it happened.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
That's I wonder why they would do that.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I'm almost wondering maybe if was it moving around a lot,
like maybe showing your underwear, and that's why they were like,
put pants on, because that is the only reasonable, like
acceptable me that they're like, okay, let's just put her
in pants. So then at least if she moves around
like we don't see her underwear.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Yeah, because otherwise, what do you insinuate?
Speaker 3 (14:51):
How's that a punishment thing? I know, we're pants okay, great,
thank you?
Speaker 1 (14:55):
And is it like she's being naughty like the boys
like I really don't want.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Yeah, we're going to make it feel like she's just
one of the naughty boys.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Dude. That's so we're ending that rule. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Number three I wasn't allowed to go in the pool
straight after eating because my dad would say, you need
to wait thirty minutes for your food to go down.
I always had that somewhat because apparently it would cause
cramps and then you might drown because you're cramping, right,
I can't swim.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
That was what I got told.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
I didn't interrogate it, but I was like, if I
jump in that pool, I'm going straight to the bottom. Oh,
because you're so fucking full, and I'm just scared of rule.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
They never enforced it.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
But we were always like, oh, you've just eaten, Like,
don't swim yet, So we.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Just kind of wait for our food to settle a bit.
But it's I think, I'm.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Pretty I don't want to speak like I know it
and then it ends up being wrong. I know, but
I'm pretty sure it's because you can.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Get credit, because even in my head right now, I'm like, wait,
it could be true, though, let.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Me find out, but continue I want asked him why,
and he said, you might drown if you go straight
into the pool after eating. Yeah, to this day, i
feel like I'm committing a crime going in the pool
after food. But I've never had an issue love the
body is you're doing.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Thank you, my godous girl.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Let's find out so quickly. I've just googled that you
were right? Is he it's aay causing cramps and oh
wait ah.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Because you can't swim. I like your whole body's like
cramping and you're like frozen.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Ai says, you genuinely do not need to wait thirty
minutes to swim after eating, as the idea that this
causes cramps or drowning is a myth. But apparently if
you eat a large meal it might be a bit uncomfortable,
which checks out.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
I feel like it makes me feel better when I
swim after.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
A bit, literally, me and Bali, I was just like
eating andrey a few things.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Better than I reckon I having a sandwich, like a
salad sandwich with like salon cheese, like on the beach,
and then like just swimming and then you feel like
you're not even loaded anymore because the water is so cold.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Nicer seven.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
In primary school, we have this mini bank in a
shoe box with fake money. If you do boeling class,
you'd be rewarded with twenty fifty or one hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
But to go to the toilet or to get water.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
You had to pay two hundred dollars in fake money,
basically punished for needing to pee or refill your water bottle.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Sorry, so if I.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Don't have enough money, you're gonna make me piss myself
on the floor. Also, how is it piling your water
bottle bad? Do you know what I mean? Like that?
Would you would think like, oh, you finish your water bottle, great,
you get fifty dollars, now go over fill it.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Do you know what I mean? You think that would
be a reward system for someone drinking on a while.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
I want to know what everything else costs, because this
seems really.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
Two hundred bucks to pee.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
I have a really, really notoriously small bladder, like we're talking.
If I'm at home, it's like five to ten minutes,
because like it's a thing in my brain where I
can't do a task that I'm excited for.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Unless my blood is completely empty.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
So it's like I can't start a TV episode or
I can't eat my dinner unless my bladder is completely empty.
So I can fully enjoy that experience without the need
to pee. So I've hear a lot more than I
need to, just because like before I do anything. Oh,
I've got a chocolate, I'm gonna eat weight. I need
a pee first because I can't eat it while I
need a pea or it won't be as enjoval.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
It's my brain. It's just it works in mysteria ways honestly.
But I swear to God though it's a bad habit
to were getting kids.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Like if we got vision of this system, I bet
it's like ten dollars for a packet of chips, twenty
dollars for soft drink. Oh you want to fill up
your drink bottle? Two hundreds?
Speaker 3 (18:13):
I don't know's they get money if they do good things,
and it's just those two things that take the money.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Yeah, oh wait, it's say good don't get to buy
anything out?
Speaker 2 (18:21):
No, you don't get to buy anything. It's not real.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
So you're saving up.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
For saving up to pete and fill up your water
buck sake?
Speaker 1 (18:28):
Who is making me?
Speaker 3 (18:29):
I'd be like, fuck you, I'm just gonna peep right here.
What are you going to do about it? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Get them up, get them up?
Speaker 2 (18:34):
You clean it? Am I gonna have to clean it?
Speaker 3 (18:35):
No?
Speaker 2 (18:36):
Have that joy? Hilarious. That's actually a really fucking dumb rule.
Hi is he love you? Babes?
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Riley would have just taken the piece out of me
with how I responded to that. My weird rule going
up growing up, because I was a rebellious team who
was suspended from school, et cetera, was that as long
as my mum didn't know about it, I wouldn't get
in trouble. Fair so when she had a boyfriend and
would say over it, I wasn't technically not allowed to
throw house parties as long as she couldn't tell, kind
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of a donuts don't tell policy.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
It was a.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Really weird rule, but it meant we got a long
way better, and it taught me to clean the whole
house before she came home, which she would probably have loved.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Literally mine news.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
She totally knew the whole time what I was doing,
but as long as she didn't have to deal with that,
it was no problem. I think that's probably a really
good way to go about it.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Why is this like the healthiest set of rules?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, I remember I threw a I used to always
have stuff at my dad's house, but not once I
was older, so like he wouldn't he'd always know because
I none of us would ever fucking clean anything up
until the next day. But me and my sister would
always have people over, probably late teens, early twenties.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Yeah, I wasn't like young.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I never had a party when I was younger like that,
but I definitely went to my fair share of free houses.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
I actually, oh my god, there was this huge.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Free house once in Mulven I remember, and almost everyone
was there. I was stating my first boyfriend at the time,
and him and two of his friends got on the Mac,
the Apple Mac computer that was in the living room,
and there was like hundreds.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Of people there.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
I got very out of hands, one of those ones
where everyone kind of just ends up rocking up. We
were probably like sixteen, and he went on. They went
on the Apple Mac and recorded a video of themselves
going like and you can see the like people raging
in the background.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
And the chiit got caught because of that video.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
And the house was fine.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
I don't know, but as in the parents got home
saw that video on the Mac and she got in trouble.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
I mean, the house must have been pretty impeccable.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
I don't know if it water to be. I just
had a couple of people, but then they see that
video and they're like, firstly, who the fuck are these guys? Yeah,
I would have hated him forever if that was when
they asked.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
I was like, you are, like, what was the need
for that? No need, no need.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
But I'm just glad people didn't clock on though. I
think you're about to say one person started taking videos
on like whatever. You know what.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
There's a little bit in my brain right now that
wonders whether that was a.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
No way.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
I've always thought that that happened. I mean maybe it's
because I'm like, I can't confirm it with him that
I'm like because it.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
Just sounds like no way. But no, that happened. I
think it did.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Let's back ourselves. We've done the submission anyways, so yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Fuck me, all right? If I Confirmedal didn't ein that,
please do. But That's what I've always thought happened. Fuck okay.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Number seven.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
My dad didn't let us watch anything on TV unless
it was an animal Planet on Foxtowl. He once caught me
watching Australia's Next Top Model and banding from TV for
a month.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Too fair.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Now, looking back at Australia at Next Top Model, just
the franchise in itself.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
Yeah, extremely fucking toxic.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
I was watching that at ten.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
I've watched. I've watched every season. I used to rewatch
them for fun. My favorite seasons to the one when
they had boys on it as well, because then you'd
get like of It two, which to me, a little
bit of romance is needed in every TV Sure, but
it's like Tyra Banks low key mod shoft Sydney.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Now, huh she lives in Sydney, Now I can back
that up. So she's randomly moved to Sydney and open
like her ice cream or something brand what she was
at Freaky of Friday premiere The Tira Bang.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Yeah, she probably because Americans can't be around her anymore.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Because of what she did.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
Literally, if she's hiding on.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
American's Next Time Model scandals, the fucking shit that happened
on those TV shows is crazy. Soup was probably right,
but I did watch it too. This was where this
was a rule until she was sixteen, and I can
confidently say I know now the best way to catch
a catfish. Thank you, river monsters. I don't get my
animal Planet. I'd be like watch a documentary.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
I just like I remember like you would background watch
her parents watching a docco when you're a kid, I
like documentary. Really, there's no interest there for me as
a kid.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I like true crime. I like animal shows.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
I actually really do like I do like Animal Planet
if I have nothing to watch. Like me and my
sister's ex boyfriend used to watch like, oh, this guy,
I don't know what his name is on YouTube, but
one of you'll be able to tell me.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
No, I was the David at and Reuel. Those were
two boring for me.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I liked World's Most Dangerous Animals or World's Deadliest like
that kind of thing. But we used to The Deadly sixty.
I used to love The Deadly sixty. But we used
to watch like this was like fucking six months ago.
We'd watch like this guy who would get himself stung
and bitten by like the most painful animals. So like
all these bugs like fire ants and everything, he'd like
(23:25):
lock them and like make them buy him just so
we could like review the pain scale. And it was
really interesting. But I don't Coyote Petersen that's his name,
which he's actually really hilarious, like not funny funny to
watch like cause he's like you love at.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
Him, not with him kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Anyway, Sla Codie Peterson.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
My parents are extremely religious and I wasn't allowed to
listen to any non Christian music.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
I only heard normal music when I was seventeen. Holy shit.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
So she would have been like in the chapel and stuff,
because we had like church and chapelet at school, and
when they would have been singing the songs, you would
have been like, these.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Are my.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
Son, like tying your hair bag?
Speaker 2 (24:07):
That's actually I think that is crazy.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
Yeah, I'm just like really sad.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Because music is such an expression of like I'm.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Like, could you hear radio on the bus? Was that?
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Like I reckon, there's Christian radios? So I reckon? I
would have played Christian radio.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Yeah. But like even at your school, say on, like,
what did you call it when you could wear whatever
you want at school?
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Casual clothes day?
Speaker 1 (24:28):
Yeah, I was just like mufty day.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
Mufty day.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I need to understand what school?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Did you go to?
Speaker 1 (24:35):
A Catholic one as well? Well? Mufty day.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
I think it's like mine was Methodist.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
My school was a Methodist, and then it was I
went to Loretto, And is Loretto Catholic or Christian.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
It's one of those. It's a bit more religious. MLC was.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
We did chapel and everything growing up, but then she
got into high school stuff you don't don't have to do.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I thought I was gaslighting myself. But a mufty day
is a day in school or workplaces where people can
wear casual clothes instead of the usual uniform. And we
just had to give a gold coin. Yeah, so cute,
so crazy.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
I used to love in primary school crazy hair day.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
I remember my mom.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
Used to like fun sit up, like I would get
so embarrassed that like what she would do to my hair.
And there was one girl I remember, and she had
her hair and like pigtails, and one was platted and
one was not, like that was her crazy hair, Like one's.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
A plat and one's bony, wazy girl. And I'm like,
I'm so.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Jealous of you.
Speaker 3 (25:24):
Well I've got this like teased mess, like spray painted
like rainbow.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
Yeah. Mom mused to go all out on that ship.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
But I just find that so fascinating, Like would she
not have heard something a sleepover on like casual dates.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
And honestly, strict parents raise sneaky kids.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yes, I fully do believe that.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
That's why I'm like, it's such a fine line, Like
I wouldn't even know where to begin in like what
kind of rules to implement to my child, because it's like,
you want to be strict, yeah, but if you're.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Strict, they're going to hide things they're going to do.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
And then it's like if you tell them to do
whatever they want, as long as they're honest, they're just
going to do some stupid fucking shit. Like I know
what I was like, and I would be drinking in
a fucking week.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Just call it Rocket Park. It's behind swim Burn.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
We would just drink there, and I remember there'd be
times I just end up so drunk.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
I'm just lying. I'm like, I could die here. My
parents don't know where. I am, Like, that's stupid.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
I had a feel those moments.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
But I feel like it's also a part of childhood totally,
So it's yeah, it's how you learn your wits. Felt
like I just I always felt comfortable, I guess in
a sense of if I need to, I can call
my parents to come get me. But then i'd have
a get rinsed the fucking next day. So I'm like,
i'd just rather not call you.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Yeah, And I feel like, you know, we look at
how we will raise our kids, but then when you
see our parents getting like protective or defensive of us,
like they're probably just living with the knowledge of what
they got up to, and they're like, I know you're
fucking doing that.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
My parents I think were relatively saints. Yeah, from what
they've told me, as in like no drugs, know nothing,
barely drank, yeah, like.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Sort of thing.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
And I do like there's no photos of them fucking
smoking cigarettes, Like wh they're younger, like they didn't do anything.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Mine are pretty much the same, and they both, like
to this day, don't drink much like dad was My.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Parents they love.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
I agree. So I'm trying to figure out about myself
because I can clear a bottle of wine no problem.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Like where did I get this from?
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Yes? Yeah, sneaky children.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
Yeah, Okay, So this isn't really a rule, but more
of a tradition. In my family, we all had table
presents for birthdays, meaning everyone at the table gets a present.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
With their name on it.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
It's so cute, but I'm genuinely curious if anyone else
does this.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
I don't know what that means.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
So if it's your birthday, that means Riley and your
brother would get a present at the table for themselves
as well. I don't know you're trying to make I know.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
I'm like, because we all have a birthday, we don't
all need to be included on each other's.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
Yeah, and I.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Want my day to be my day. I am a
leo and I am.
Speaker 3 (27:53):
A birthday a bit of a birthday hall. But I'm like, no,
I don't agree with everyone feeling.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
I didn't with that, But my sister just did not
do well on my birthday. She's like, why do you
get this? And I got that she got a few
presents on my birthday every year just to maintain the vibe.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
To maintain the positivity.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
I think I was okay with that. Was like, I
just want to have a day.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Yeah, No, I get that. I don't think it's necessary.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
I think it's sweet, and like, you never know, there
might be kids like your sister that had a real
issue with other people getting attention like that. But yeah,
we definitely didn't do that. No, I'd be surprised to
know how.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Common that is.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
As a child with a single mum, I wasn't allowed
to have a boyfriend at all. Every boyfriend I had
through high school was a secret until I moved out
for UNI at eighteen. However, my year ten boyfriends stayed
over all the time because we convinced her that he
was gay.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Who sorry. I think at that point.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
You kind of got to Yeah, but in saying that
I was not allowed to have a boy stay over
until I was.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Eighteen, that like feels common to me.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Yeah, And I feel like I may even implement that
role with my kids. I don't feel like you need
to encourage that sixteen.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Maybe it's so hard. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
I've always known the rule, but I've always known that
rule to get broken.
Speaker 2 (29:04):
Yeah I didn't.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
I did not have a boy stay over until I
was eighteen, but I went to stay at my boyfriend's
house every weekend. Yeah, and sorry, Mum, I just lied,
you know, But I didn't have any desire to have them.
I get why they implemented it, but if you have
a boyfriend that you're dating at the time, you're not
going to be like, sorry, mate, no sleepovers for us.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Yeah, no, you're not.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
And I get that, and I didn't, So I apologize.
Moum and Dad I'm not sure if you I've told
you that. Yeah, but I didn't want sneak out from
dad's house to say it my ex boyfriend's house.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
But I got away with it. I just show them
I got it really early. What do you thought I
was doing?
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Did you have the same sleep schedule as a kid
as you do now, because surely your parents, like bitch,
I actually did.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
I was always a really tired person. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
I think it's because I had hypotheroism from when I
was I got diagnosed when I was fourteen or fifteen,
but I'd had it for two years prior to me
being diagnosed. So yeah, I've always been like really tired,
probably more so then than I was now because I
wasn't medicated, like it wasn't fixed yet.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Yeah, so I was exhausted all the time.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Yeah, that'd be so hilarious you now being like, yeah,
it's got up really early.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
So getting up for school was fucking hell on a
stick every single day.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Girl. Yeah, you survived that.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
I did.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Should we just do one more minione?
Speaker 2 (30:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:18):
If my sister or I didn't finish our dinner, as
kids would either be locked on the balcony in the
dark with the lights off, blinds down, doors locked or
put in the dark garage until we finish our dinner.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
That's fucked that I wouldn't be allowed to eat dessert.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
I just have to finish the vegetables, I think usually,
but they're not going to sit me there until.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I eat my meal. And I heard that apparently that
can actually.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Cause obeit like that can be a cause for like
overeating as an adult because you're forced to eat stuff
that you don't want to eat, like you're not you're full,
and they're like, eat it.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Okay, I'm crazy at nighttime. Some of it like shit,
that's something I have.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
But I ate everything as a kid, so I didn't really.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
Have I didn't. I wasn't a vedshi girl. Okay I
am now, but I like, I used to pick vegetables
out of everything.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
So my sister was really fussy. And then my mum's
setting preschool. She used to pack like olives, pickles, like
pickled onions in my lunch box and she was like,
every time I knew no one was.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Still, you had like a charcuterie water.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
I know we were basic.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
But I wouldn't eat sandwiches as a kid, sandwiches.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
I had to have rolls, right, But I.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Remember my brother until now, I reckon, he's twenty two now,
didn't eat any form of vegetals.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
He still won't touch fruit, like well not I'm not
big on fruit, but I remember Mom, we were like,
this is a problem.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
He was becoming, potentially going to become one of those
kids who only eats like yellow foods like potatoes and cheese.
And my cousin actually is still like that. But Mum
got a plate of fruit, cut up all different fruits
and locked him outside with her until he tried every
single bit of that fruit. And I think it's made
him now to this day, not like because everything else,
he's come to terms with liking and on his own,
(31:59):
but he didn't like into liking looking back, like so
now he still will not eat He does not eat fruit.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
That's valide. I'm not a big fruit boys, So I'm
just like, I ate every vegetable. I think. The only
one I don't really like his onion, But I can
kind of get around that. Yeah, I can't name any
fruits I like that.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
I'm just not olives and I don't really like celery,
and I reckon they're the only do things.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
And I really don't eat look at us, I actually
but I do.
Speaker 3 (32:21):
I will eat celery if it's cooked into something cook,
but olives, I will I will not eat anything because
olives is such a polarizing flavor.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
You can't like. I'll be like, this is having olive
in it, like you can taste it.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
Yeah, you have always taken yeah disgusting. All right, guys,
that was some of your crazy rules. We definitely have
so many more.
Speaker 2 (32:37):
So if you're.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
Interested for a part, to let us snow on the
head out of page.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
But thanks for listening, guys.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
And thanks for having me girls.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
And I'm actually doing something really fun next week, and
I'll chut to you next week.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Baye baye,
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