Breakups, Love Island & Girl Chats with Jasmine Tavares

Hey girlies! I am so so excited to be joined by my gal Jasmine Tavares on this very special episode of Hear Me Out. If you've been following me for a while, you'd know Jasmine has always been a bestie of mine so this episode has been a long time coming! Jasmine talks us through her hottest 'hear me out's', her recent stint overseas and her breakup, plus her thoughts on this season of Love Island Australia!

We loved having Jas on and can't wait for her next instalment - let us know if you have any questions for her xxx

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Okay, let's say some let's get fucked. I can't wait.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Let's hi, guys, welcome back to hear Me Out. I'm
so so fucking excited. This week we have jazz on.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
Hi guys. We have been trying to do a podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
I've tried before, but I don't think we were safe
in that room.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
So it was a different environment completely.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
It like went to ship like we actually, I was like,
delete that fucking recording.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
We all went in the room after like we got
got anywhere. I went back and I'm like, I left
the room crying twice.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Yeah, They're like, do you want me to send it
to your producer in Australia And I'm like, please, please don't,
please don't.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
But this is a new page.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
We're starting again and this one's going to be fucking
great and I can't wait. First I just let's we don't.
If you don't know jazz, jazz, then.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
Who are you? I was like, jazz, what do I
call it?

Speaker 2 (00:58):
Jazzy on TikTok dazzy girl.

Speaker 1 (01:01):
We'll get into it.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
You'll know her by the end of this, but I
just want you to start with hear Me Out.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Hear Me Out a controversial opinion. Yeah, well we call
them hear me out. Oh here, sorry, yeah, I haven't
listened before. To be honest, I don't have patience.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
I don't get offended if my friends don't listen because
they know to me every day.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
I think it's really sweet when they do.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Like I know, Leg listens to every episode and I
like and my mum and everything. But people are always like, oh,
I'm really sorry I don't listen. I'm like, I'm not offended.
I wouldn't listen to you either, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Here is a yap and off. Yeah, there's no need
to hear everything twice. Yeah, yeah, I get it. Hey,
the first one's kind of funny. Yeah, ironic.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
Okay, so hear me out. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Any influencer that says their job is hard is because
they aren't being who they really are and they keep
you up an act.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
I think that is any true.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
You're an influencer. Yeah, self acting.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
There, Like, if you are just yourself online, it's not easy.
You can just film a fucking daily going about your
life and that's not challenging.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
You shouldn't be anxious. You shouldn't cause you anxiety to
post because you're just posting who you actually are. But
I think when it is, it's because you're like putting
on an act and trying to be something different, trying
to be like accepted.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
And I also agree that if you're trying to be
accepted and you are putting on an act, people see.
I think you get more hate that way too, which means, yeah,
it is harder because you're getting.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
I actually got a hate comment the other day for
the first time in like all years, I haven't gotten
hate comments. Your Mom's ugly.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Responds to hate comments like, no one have ever.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
Seen that my shoes are ugly? And I said, your
mom's ship.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
You get away live, like to get away with fucking
murder online in a way that like I never have
been able to.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
It's because you don't give a You're not they're not
a real person.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
No, they'll be like, oh, well that's I was saying
something in LA and it'll be.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Like something about my It's always about my shoes.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
And she'll always be like, oh, you're fucking ugly then,
or she'll be like, don't say something I mean and
she'll just be like, you're just broken ugly, Like are
you not?

Speaker 1 (03:01):
I'm not even and I'm not even being I'm joking.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
That's humor, like obviously, but like if I hate when
people will comment something hate and then.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
You just if you're commenting hate, you deserve nothing back.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
I'm like, of course I'm gonna give it's like my
favorite thing.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
To you because people would worries. I think they deserve it.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Like you're sitting behind a fucking screen hating someone you
don't know. At least do it with your actual fucking account.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah, it's always on. It's always on a burner account.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
I hate the burner account. I do have a burner.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Account, obviously I don't, but I never comment on them. No,
but I actually don't have a fake account on anything.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Really, mine's just my old second account. Meaning if someone
like blocks me, I'm blocked. Oh okay, do you know
what I mean? Like, I won't get another account.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
There's always a way around. There is anonymous story viewer
dot com.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Love What what's that? That means? You can view people
stories without it coming up like anything like everything else,
so I can just talk and see.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
To me, I'm like the people that have blocked me,
other people I have blocked I Actually, I'm like if
I look at You're gonna make me feel anxious anyway.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
So it's better for me just not to look.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Okay, So, but I do think there times where that
would have been really helpful for me. I'm sure Reviewer
dot com everyone get on it.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
I used to use it, but I feel like now
I've blocked, so then it's like if I want to look,
I just unblock them for like a split second.

Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah, but once it's dond out to me, it's like
you can't reblock for like two weeks, I'm like, fuck, really, Yeah,
if you do it a certain amount of times, it
limits it.

Speaker 1 (04:17):
Oh okay. If it's the same person, oh okay, and
you're going like block on block, block on block stop,
I think the thing is now on TikTok is not
interested and I do it every day. Yeah, sorry, Like
the amount of people that are not in you just
go like whenever my X used to come up a lot,
And I'm sure that happened with you, because like you're
when you first break up, you talk about a lot
your friendly since to you. Therefore they're on your feet

(04:39):
every time seconds Like mine's easier, like it's very far away.
I don't see. Yeah, but not interested.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
If you don't know, you just hold it down and
press a little broken love heart.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
But you can press on their like at, on their hashtags,
on everything you know.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Oh really yes, And it's just like yeah, I do
that to people, like people I don't like, but I
can't like unfollow, yeah, because I think in a old
like this it is hard to have. You can't unfollow
people everyone season do you know what I mean? Like
Jazz you will talk about a bit more about the breakup.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
But I'm an avid unfollowing. Yeah, you unfollow everyone goes
following people. Yeah, I'm not a because I don't. I
don't I want to say I if people say that
I've un followed whatever, I actually don't care because I
don't want my Instagram. I don't want you on my feet.
I don't want your my face coming up. It's my phone,
not yours. Get off it.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, completely protecting your peace.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Yes, not even my piece, just my annoyance.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
Like like there, it's like I don't want to see
a fucking face.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yes, yeah, completely, I get it. Do you have any more?
Hear me out?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Okay, hear me out.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
Men who are aggressively homophobic or put other men down
gay feminine not are gay, but I think they're very
insecure and they performative manly because they want to be
accepted by society. But they're actually probably gay, but they're
scared to admit it.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, if you just admit it, you'll live life way.
That's the thing.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
You even think about Glee like that classic. I don't know,
do you watch Glee you see someone?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
I think I just thought you would have.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
I watched it like younger, but not now.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
I've watched it younger, but I mean there was like
a bully football team extremely homophobic to Curt, the gay guy.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
And it's like he ends up being gay.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
I feel like that's a storyline and a lot of
movies and.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
It may not even be to that extreme because I
do believe like some men are actually just like not gay.
I feel like, oh my god, men that paint their
nails and men that wear makeup all this, people that
are feminine. Guy, you want to be accepted so bad,
so you try to put on like.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
You probably wish you were cool enough to paint the
sucking nails.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
Like I love all my boyfriend's wearing makeup, Like, yeah, babe,
make up. Put some concealer on if you look dead.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
I remember, this is actually really funny. I'm kind of actually,
fuck it, it's not. I don't think it's bad, so
I'm just going to say it because I don't really
think it's anything to be embarrassed about. But it was
really funny. My ex boyfriend came home one day and
he had makeup on his tom and it was like,
you know, makeup on his wife shirt, and I'm like,
what the fuck is that? Yeah, like why do you

(07:03):
have makeup on your shirt?

Speaker 1 (07:04):
You know?

Speaker 3 (07:05):
Yeah, see, like I don't mind. Like sometimes like I
would say to make and be like, oh, I think you.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
Need some conceal it because you look like you're dying because.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
You don't have priorities in life.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
But I'm like he was fully almost I got into
the point because he couldn't really give me an answers
to why there was makeup on his shirt, and I'm like,
you're ead a fucking training or something like why like
you're not around females, you know, And it made me
like a bit scared, like yeah, you know, I don't
I have trust issues because of previous whatever. Anyway, and
he was almost willing to let me think he cheated

(07:36):
on him verse finally coming clean and saying, I put
some makeup on a pimple today and that's why it's
on my shirt.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
I think they should be so like, yes, that's the
whole point of me.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
I pulled it over his head and he's got makeup on,
and I'm like that is fine. I'm like, dude, you
should have said that at the beginning. I'll help him
put the fucking concealer on.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
I don't care. Yeah, I don't want to look at
your white head. Yeah, I'd rather cover it, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
That was one thing I was really happy about my
last relationsh it because like he was so open with
all of this stuff, and like maybe it was a bit,
but I think it's so much more attractive to me
when like men just like be who they are and
they also put.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
Other men and say with girls to.

Speaker 3 (08:15):
Like I get also weird when girls like ill like
I would never want my boyfriend to do that. I'm like,
your boyfriend's ugly, for start, and like he probably hates
men because he's probably gay. Yeah, no offense. So it's
like I do like like I like men in the
little cropped ups. I think it's so sick. I think
it's hot. Oh yeah, I do. I love makeup. I

(08:36):
feel like in a it's not as.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
Normal as to be wearing makeup in Australia, so you
don't tend to get that much. And I get I
don't care men wear makeup, but I do like when
they paint the nails.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
Yeah, I like it all, like let's do Like I
remember my exit of my makeup one night for a
date night, and I was like, this is like I
look fucking great. Yeah, it was so fun and it
was just like a nice bonding experience.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah, completely, I feel that. Yeah. So you, as you
mentioned X, you did go through another one. Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
I had a comment being like, why are you said
you had three boyfriends in three years? Like a girl
let it go for girl lets a girl that's less
than more girls trying to find the love of her life.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Exactly a tribe before she does no, she does so jazz.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
If we don't know she was dating someone, you were
just you were living overseas, living in Europe.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Basically yeh in Berlin. He is German, he is German,
and she I remember I was with you the last
day we left it was our Christmas body four and I.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
Was radiating with love and life, and then I wasn't.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
I also think the challenging part about the relationship is
you were in his territory.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
Yeah, Like I feel like I put in a lot
of effort to like, I mean, color were you there.
I was in Europe for like a year, based in
based in Berlin, but we're doing travel a lot. Basically,
like I gave it literally everything, and he also knew
that and had like a sense of guilt for that.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
I also think, yeah, being in a setting like you're
not a girl that wants to be anyone's like girl friend.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (10:01):
I just like, yeah, I hate that feeling.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
And so being I always somehow Yeah, No, you're not
always in that position.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
I don't believe you are.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
I think with a setting like that, or you're in
another country and you're moving around based on their work schedule,
makes you feel like you're their girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
Yeah, very like I'm an accessory to this person.

Speaker 3 (10:19):
It was really intense the whole time. And I also
feel like that wasn't the best because obviously I've literally
given my whole life, so then that's like such a heavy.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
Like and you're not around your safety net.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah exactly. So it was kind of like my own
safety net, which is like not that normal for me.
I'm used to having so many people around me all
the time. Yeah, but I still had a great time,
had great experience.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
I feel like it was a huge, like learning experience.
It was something you would probably never take back.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
I would never do it again the country like restrain me,
literally put me in like somewhere very girl, I'm doing it.
Oh wait, well that's different. I was doing it like
obviously I did it for myself, but like you obviously
didn't do it for myself.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
Yeah, like you wouldn't have moved to Berlin. No, he
wasn't there, Like yeah, but I.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
Think because you're doing it for yourself, it's completely different. Yeah,
you know, like you don't have to rely on someone,
whereas like I was relying on someone, which is like
discussing something hard.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
It's hard to accept if you're not someone that generally
relies on someone.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
Yeah, yeah, completely, So I.

Speaker 3 (11:18):
Was like I am a little bit, Yeah, I'm a
Bitch's nothing I can do because I need you because
I don't know otherwise this is going to be very yeah,
like I have to rely on you because I don't
know anyone.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yeah, so now you're back.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
Now I'm bad.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
It's over. It's oh yeah, it's over, guys. Yeah, my
how was the breakup? How? Actually?

Speaker 3 (11:35):
I haven't cried since being home, and I think I
cried every day for like a year, just like always,
Like people are like, oh my god, trust your gut,
like I swear if I can go, trust your gut
because the amount of times I.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Well, you don't get like, yeah, it's indicator for a reason,
I feel like.

Speaker 3 (11:49):
But I swear like a women like women are just
like magical. I think in that way, like I should
have trusted my gut.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Yeah, our intuition is real.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Intuition is not even in its reality.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yeah, it's it.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
That's not intuition, that's reality to listen to it. So,
how's being home so good?

Speaker 3 (12:05):
I think I was on such a loa for like
so long. Yeah, so being home, I feel like I'm
like on a high. Like am i I'm like am
I manic? Like why am I so happy? My my family,
my We've never seen you this happy.

Speaker 1 (12:16):
I'm like, wow, I feel like you get to your
kind of like coming home from a holiday like that long,
not a holiday like you're living somewhere else. It's like
you kind of get to experience was friends again. I
have got back home to normal life. There's definitely probably
that lull where you were alive.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
And also I appreciate my friends so much more now,
I think because like before leaving, I feel like, oh,
like we all hang out whatever, it's chill. But now
when I hang out it's like so intentional. I'm like, wow,
I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
Fun and you pique your friends, I think even more
wisely now.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
Yeah, my one thing is like being so grateful for
having like your loved ones around you. Yeah, like there's
literally nothing like home like and like home is people too.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Yeah, completely. Yeah. Do you think not me, like Melbourn's
where you're Do you think Melbourn's where you're gonna stay? Now?

Speaker 3 (12:59):
I think I think I probably want to move somewhere
el yes, But like I think for summer, yes, because
I left last summer.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
Summer's fucking great in Australia. It's like those three months
currently just feels a little bit better.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
Yeah, No, you can't leave, So I think next year
I will want to relocate somewhere.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
Do you have a favorite place that you're like thinking
about wanting to go.

Speaker 3 (13:18):
I would love London, yeah, or maybe like Antarctica or
somewhere really far.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
You're hilarious.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
I'm like what she said it with a fucking straight
place to No, maybe like London. My two fair would
be London or New York.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
Yeah, so slay. Yes. I had an argument with Dad
last night about New York not for us, because firstly,
Dad's very realistic. I'm very like, he's not an optimist, but.

Speaker 3 (13:48):
You can't be realistic when you're moving over here.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
I never know.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
I don't think things are going to be happy, dandy,
fucking daisies when I go there. So in case, I
don't know if I've spoken about it really, but I'm
planning on going in April for three months because of
the visa, yeah, and then going to Europe for two
just to break it up, like leave the country, and
then if I love New York, I went back for
another three so then I can hit like fourth of
July Halloween.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
Like I want to be there for those things I
want to be in.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Saying that America is not an easy place to live.
I don't think, no, La, I could never do no
like us being there. I think we even said it
last time.

Speaker 3 (14:24):
I feel like I was there a lot this year
as well, and I feel.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
Like the energy is so weird. It's just weird.

Speaker 3 (14:30):
Like New York, you just feel more at home there.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
I think it feels more like Melbourne.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
And everyone always says, oh, like Melbourne's the New York
of Australia and Sydney's the LA, you know, And I
get that everything in LA is a just performative, like
no one's a real human being. I don't feel like
when I make a friend, I don't know if they're
actually a friend. I think everything's very much based on
followers and who you are in LA. And then when
I was there for Coach Ella the first year and
then I went to New York, the energy is so

(14:54):
fucking different. And I've been to New York like five
or six times growing up, and I just I think
it's such a lively place and I'm like, I really
I would go to London. I love London. I always
wanted to live there. I do just think that at
this point in my life, I know so many people
there that I think it would be really easy for
me to slop right into a little routine and I
want to push myself out of my comfort zone.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
Yeah, I think you do. I think that's like I think.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
I'm a very sheltered person.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
No, babe, you're not. I actually not.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
I think I am in a lot of sense.

Speaker 2 (15:22):
I think my relationships and friendships have been incredibly challenging,
and I think maybe that's the only thing that's given
me a bit of character. But I do think I
have grown up very privileged, and I think I need
to learn I need to be on my own a
little bit.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
And like, yeah, I called him the other.

Speaker 2 (15:38):
Day because I went to my beach house and there
was a fucking dead moth, live moth that was down
to my pillow. I don't like bugs, me same, but like,
but I think you'll be fine.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
No, I will be fine and I will deal with it.
Bugs there.

Speaker 3 (15:51):
I don't think, like there's ruts, they're not.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
They're fucking dogs. They're run everywhere.

Speaker 2 (15:59):
Yeah, it's like anyway, I called that to just be like,
what do I do change the sheets?

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Like la la clean this fucking dead moth.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
And so basically the argument stemmed, if I'm going to
freak out over a moth, how am I going to deal.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
With New York? And I'm like, it's not. I'm allowed to.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
Not like bugs, Like I'm pulling you because I can,
because I want to have someone there so I can
complain about this fucking math.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
Yeah. But if I'm in York, like, I want.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
To know that you're going to have moments like that
so that absolutely you'll be able to accept it.

Speaker 1 (16:22):
More things are going to be challenging, bro.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
Like when I was in fucking La, like we had
crops bust our daughter and a hold fucking guns to
our faces.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
Like and I dealt with that, you know what I mean.
I didn't fucking cry once.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
I was fine, Like, you're environmentally more accepted, I think.

Speaker 2 (16:35):
So I just think I need to be there and
I need to grow up. Yes, I think I have
a lot of.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
Material insulted in that way.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
Yeah for sure.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:42):
Also everything at your beautiful thinker.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
Maybe you know, But I just I think I want
to I want to grow up.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
I want to learn.

Speaker 2 (16:49):
I'm single, and I also think, yeah, i'm single, I'm young,
I have the ability to so I'm like, I think
I would be treating myself in the foot not to
take it while I.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
Had it, but yeah, would I travel for a man? Yes?

Speaker 3 (17:03):
Would I do it again?

Speaker 1 (17:04):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (17:06):
If there's anybody out there that like actually like maybe
has like a little bit more time, huh, one that
has a little bit more time, Yeah, very.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
Busy guy, very busy. I'm busy. I don't even know
how people Alex Earl and Ship, I don't know how
they have. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
I don't know what they're I feel like low key,
their schedules might be very similar, but like.

Speaker 2 (17:27):
Those people have has like time to like they've made
a deal with a witch and they've got more hours
in a day than the rest of us.

Speaker 3 (17:34):
Where because sometimes like my ex would be like, oh
I'm going here here this week, but there's not that
many hours lying back and catching more hours. So I'm like,
how do you have no time and have time for
like extracurricular activities?

Speaker 1 (17:48):
Well evidently didn't. Well, not with me.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
It's so sad. I used to have so much like
respect for him. Yeah, now I have more respect for
that piece of fluff over there.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
Do you want that captain? That's funny? Okay? Yeah, well
fair enough.

Speaker 2 (18:07):
You win some, you lose, you win some, you lose
someone You got to travel the world and have an
amazing I'm just looking at your braids.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
Hey, I was looking at your braids. Thank you.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
You got to travel the world and have this amazing
see all these countries you probably never would have seen,
and do it with someone that, like at that period
in your life you love like great, you know, so
I feel like most of the time.

Speaker 3 (18:26):
Nah, I don't want to diminish the relationship. It was good.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Yeah, but I learned a lot. Maybe I'm duck in
the building done. I'm giving duck.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
They're huge now, you don't get anymore. I'm not I'm
getting them dissolved. Okay.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah, but I'm a bit scared because then you have
to go two weeks without lichtiller and I've never seen
my I got my lips on the day I turned day.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
Really.

Speaker 3 (18:49):
Yeah, like I try something new, like right now, just
have botox. I I've had Yeah. Actually, this is a
common question.

Speaker 1 (18:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
People always think I've had a lot done, like thank
you so much. Yeah, but I've had my teeth done.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah, I've had.

Speaker 3 (19:03):
Lippiler a year ago, but I probably wouldn't get it again.
I've had botox. But if your lips get smaller, will
you refiel them. I don't think they'll get smaller, though
they do. Though I don't mind getting smaller.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
Maybe it's you get used to it more, but lippil
it does over time.

Speaker 3 (19:18):
And I would love to get my tits done because
I'm a fucking girl, of course I want.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
To, Yeah, and I want to notice job. Okay, maybe no,
that's it, that's maybe a BBL. Maybe I have no, No,
I wouldn't you. You don't fucking ever done. But I've
had botox in my forehead. I've had botox in my
mass its once, maybe two years ago. I have really,
really really show muscles there. It actually gives me like

(19:45):
nerve pain. The needle going in it hurts, and to me.

Speaker 2 (19:49):
They would have to put botox in it every like
three months for like a fucking year for my face
to actually slim down because of our tight that muscle.
So to me, it just wasn't worth it because I
don't want to be paying that level. And I actually
like the width of my jaw.

Speaker 3 (20:01):
Yeah, I don't want either because I have really bad
pain and like it goes in my.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Head does help the pain.

Speaker 3 (20:07):
But I do not want to swimmer face, So take
my faces all.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
Well that's what it does.

Speaker 2 (20:10):
So like I it did help the pain absolutely, because
I'm a clencher when I'm like stressed and I clench
my teeth like.

Speaker 3 (20:16):
In the morning.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
I'm like yeah, but I yeah, if you're doing it
for slimming, you need to get it a couple of
times before it.

Speaker 1 (20:23):
Yeah, I notice anything. So I only got it once
and that's gone now.

Speaker 2 (20:27):
I have had a little bit of filler on my
chin maybe two years ago because it was COVID and
they wouldn't let me. I only wanted half a MILLI
in my lips and they couldn't, like half a vial.
They were like, we've got a full mill so we
need to put the other half somewhere. I'm like, well,
I can take it in my chin, So that's probably
gone now.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
To lips.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
I've just had actually done the other day. I get
my lips done every week.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
Also, no shit, I'm saying, don't get them done again.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
You just have just had them done. That's what I
was saying. Oh they do look good. Yeah this is
the first.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
Time, and like, but you want to get them dissolved now.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
I'm getting them dissolved at the start of next year
because I they're migrating, so this was just the last
I'll get of this. I haven't, I was saying to Jazz.
I got my lips on the day I turned eighteen,
Like it was like my birthday present to myself. So
I've never seen my lips small since then. So I'm
dissolving them so I can refill them for New York.
So I don't have black a fucking because they're they're
too they're overflowing right now from they're migrating.

Speaker 3 (21:18):
From the front.

Speaker 1 (21:19):
Yeah, but like the side, they are a bit crazy. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (21:22):
Yeah, that's all I've had in my face. Oh, nose
job and the job, and that's it. But that's a lot.
Like I'm not saying, oh that's it.

Speaker 1 (21:33):
That is a lot. So it is a lot. But
I think.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
Like every single girl I met overseas has had everything,
like everything you can think of, Like me having like
was big natural over then I feel like here, I'm
I don't look that natural, but I'm like, wow, everyone
really looks like.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Yes, but I'm like getting nose and boobs here. It
was like that's crazy, You're like I've got there, Like
everyone has their fucking nose and boobs.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
Everyone has their nose boobs like they're the classic them
to that everyone in their cheeks everything I LOI like
wanted to try, but I'm scared. I don't like needles
that much.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
I was literally crying when I got my lips so long.
I don't know whether I was on like my fucking
luteal phase or something, because I skip my period, so
I actually don't know when I'm on it. I have
never been in so much pain getting filled out. She's
giving me a dental block when she dissolves it, because
I want like whole mouth numb, like I'm getting a
fucking tooth pulled.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
Because it was. It's why I don't want to do.

Speaker 3 (22:27):
It again, because I'm like, the pain is actually too much.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
No, Like I was crying, I had tears running into
my fucking ears. I had to text her and fucking
apologize because I kept being like stop stop, and like,
it never hurts this much.

Speaker 3 (22:41):
I don't know what's happening about I can't do it.

Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yeah, so it's not None of these things are pain free,
so think about it before you do it. And this
isn't us promoting it. I just would rather be honest
about Yeah. Same how we look and like, look, there's
definitely a level to it, I think. But for me,
it's like my dad had like permanent lines in his
forehead when by the time he was trying.

Speaker 3 (22:57):
My dad told me to get it when I was eighteen,
He's like, you need botox.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Like frowning genetics.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
I had the same forehead as my dad, Yeah, and
he has like was like yeah, by the time he
was like twenty six, his lines were like indented permanent. Yeah,
So I got it just so I didn't get those,
so I just get in my forehead. But I kind
of like crows feet. I think they show them. He
like smile a lot because.

Speaker 3 (23:13):
I like this too. Yeah, but I don't really get much
here because I like, don't frown. Really, I'm like, can
you see my marggin?

Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yeah, we're never angry at anyone as you can't tell
so another X because you have so many so many. Oh,
my gom has just gone on in Love Island, onto
the Love Island.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (23:33):
Actually, like I'm happy for him to be honest. I
think he's like the funniest human alive. I've always said that.

Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
Like, obviously our relationship we may not have worked well
as like lovers but he was like.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
My beloverd that's so mature.

Speaker 3 (23:44):
Lovers, but he was like my best friend and he's
like genuinely one of the most funniest people I know.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
Yeah, watching it, how does it feel watching him on it?
As I personally I watched.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
It, I honestly pissed myself laughing, because I also am
grateful now that people can see him as who he is,
not as just like.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
It's showing a different side to him.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
I've known Mick for a couple of years now, and
he was in LA with us when we're there, because
that's when they were dating and seeing Yeah, he's he
comes across funny and like not as assholeish as Yeah, it's.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
So good and like I love like seeing little fan
accounts like talking about him, and it's like makes me feel.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Even like international people go like they're like, I'm sorry,
I pre judged Mick because because of his teeth, and
he's actually really oh my god, you.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
Need to make a public service. His teeth are real.
They are his teeth, and he's had them since he
was a teenager, and yes they.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Do look bat teenager. He's had them ever well, as
in like you could prominently like they were very promin Yeah,
but it's like they're not. Everyone thinks all these fuck Venis.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
I'm like a real Yes they are big, Yeah they
are big, but they're real. Do you not think if
he was getting Venis, he probably wouldn't make They.

Speaker 3 (24:51):
Probably like that and they'd probably be like dead straight
into Yeah. But no, I'm actually really happy for him,
and I hope he does well with it. Yeah. I
think he I've always said him, he always like I
always would say, you're fucking such an attentions he got,
but he is, and I think that's his personality.

Speaker 2 (25:05):
Yeah, but I think he's coming seeming a lot more humble,
Like I actually think he seems quite sweet on the show.
And he's not saying me, but can I have a
very checkered history.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
Yeah, purely because me. You know, Yeah, She's like, yeah,
but where you saw what I would always like, you
can't talk to him like he's fucked.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
But it's like where I think we both have very
strong personalities and I was very defensive of Jazz, so
it's like we're now good friends. So and I think
he comes across well. But I think that's who he
is is actually who he is I think he just
sometimes puts on a show. Yeah, But was it emotional
seeing him? I did get emotional at one point because
I feel like I always will have so much love

(25:44):
for him. So watching him like obviously.

Speaker 1 (25:46):
Be making out even having girls like talking about him,
I'm like, yeah, like I when I watch it, I'm like, fuck,
I don't know if I could do it, Like, I
don't know if I could watch any X.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
And making out on TV like that, yeah, and having
girls be like wow, he's yeah the Bombshelley's so hot,
I'd be like, yeah, well fuck you.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
He does look fucking elite on the show, to be honest,
like his body's insane killed at me.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
I'm like, yummy, he's gonna love this, I know.

Speaker 3 (26:14):
But we're friends, like we're on really good terms. So
that's good and happy for him, and I always think
he should do something.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
It's also nice to be friends because he is a
support system.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
Yeah, exactly, would.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
You ever go on I would go on Love in America.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
I think it'd be fucking.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
Love in America is a different ballgame. Yeah, it's different.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
Yeah, I would go on that.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
So if they're casting and the men on there are
usually really fucking hot.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
Oh yeah, Whereas like, I don't they like my type.
Anyone on Love on Australia is my type. I think
they're all vile. No, there's two guys on there right
now that are seriously I think shouldn't have been brought
in Kai and Cooper. I think they both are coming
across very toxic, very arrogant, and I actually think it's
like not safe or good to have guys like that
in the villa.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
I think the Cooper guy sucks, but when this can
also because.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
This can all stay in.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
Yeah, but I'm saying you're potentially putting these girls in
a villa with a guy that could be a real
like toxic, manipulative relationship to them in the future if
they did end up ending up with one of these
guys like Kai.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
And even the way that Cooper spoke to Yana, the
way that.

Speaker 3 (27:14):
Cooper was speaking to Lacy about like, well, what's you
could be saving me or whatever I can?

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Yeah, but then did you see the way he spoke
to Yana when she got ended up with Mick.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
It was so toxic and aggressive.

Speaker 2 (27:27):
And then Kai, I just think is manipulative and I
think he's fucking nasty and the way he's like.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
All right, I'm done, come on, that was crazy. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
So I think they're two guys that like should have
been vetted better.

Speaker 3 (27:40):
Yeah I do, you know what I mean, but needs
to be on the show to be honest, And I
think he should have been kicked off the.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
Show by now. He's got assault charges, oh yeah, and he's.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
Got nothing good to say, Like he just sucks. He's
not funny, he's not hot, and no personality is like worse.

Speaker 2 (27:51):
And I think, yeah, you see someone that has the
toxic tendency's like that, I think you should get them
off the fucking show. Do you really want to put
one of those girls threw up potentially toxic reallyationshit like that.
I also think it's really bad fucking form for them
to bring on an X like that that's clearly causing.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Shown emotional trauma. Though.

Speaker 2 (28:08):
Look at the girl, she's fucking crying in her bed
with her teddy bear, Like I think I felt so
fucking terrible for her, and I think they're putting her
through emotional warfare for the sake of entertainment online. Can
I also say, there's Lacey bro.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
What she's going throround.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
But you don't get to say and sit around and
defend yourself by saying, I'm so honest, I'm so honest,
I'm so honest. Firstly, you haven't been honest for kissing
this guy in the fucking wardrobe when one of the
girls come in you said you're changing your lip color.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
You're lying, You're not being honest. But also you can't.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
Do bad things that hurt people and just defend yourself
by saying I was being honest, or get upset that
people are annoyed at you for doing something wrong. You've
done something to hurt someone, and now you're mad that
they're upset with you. They're allowed to be upset with
you. You hurt them, you know what I mean. I think
that's the thing people do. It's like, you don't get
to be annoyed at me for being angry ating actions.
They were shitty actions. I'm upset at them. Take accountability

(29:04):
for that. And I think we're seeing a lot of
we're seeing her age a lot. I think a lot
of it is on the show are very young. But yeah,
you fuck her out, fuck around and find out you
do stupid shit, and people are going to be upset you,
I'm sorry, Like, and I do.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
She is young.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
I don't mean to like fucking blast the girl, like
once again, we're seeing a very small portion of what's
actually happening on that show.

Speaker 3 (29:25):
But but I think I think she's just getting upset
because that's actually just who she is and people don't
like it.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
Well, she's being a wom like she's being an honest person.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
But like sometimes honest people like I'm being a the
other doesn't mean you're a good.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
Person, no, just because you're not even being honest. So
I'm like, stop saying you're being honest because you're not.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
Anyway.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
I just think I this is my first Love Island.
I've seasoned. I've watched since season one, and actually i'm.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Watching it because mix on it obvious, but I do
think it's a juicy one. I like it. I'm enjoying
it so far. It's crazy. I will be watching it tonight.

Speaker 3 (29:59):
Yeah, same, I'm so keen slag bro. We went out
on the weekend. It was fuck was he swarmed? Swarmed?

Speaker 1 (30:05):
Don't you hate that? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (30:06):
No, we went out to the Osborne. Oh yeah, it
was insane.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
I was like confused, like we literally.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
Was we have to be getting bigger because Osborne is
a fox place. Like even people were asking for photos
with me and I'm like, what the fuck, Like this
is not real and we were literally swarmed.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
And I a getting bigger because I think all the
seasons are getting bigger, Like when seasons like America do
so well people then love Love girls on.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
There just did a video with Quinn Blackwell and she's
like my favorite YouTube feeding starving celebrities. I mean, who
is this?

Speaker 1 (30:35):
Yeah, she won the island. I'm like, yeah, it's just
like five million on Instagram. Now is it Hannah Landria?

Speaker 3 (30:42):
No idea iris she won Love Island. She's with oder
Beckham Junior's brother Oh Serena. Oh yeah yeah that was
two seasons ago, and she's like full blown like celebrit
Now she's fucking gorgeous.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
As in when Love Island US does so well, Love
Island UK has always had to follow it, and I
do think in recent is Love Island USA has gone yeah,
getting my pot. But I'm saying then when they have
the lull of no Love Island, they are now everyone
that loves Love Island is now watching Love in Australia.
So I do think other international season is doing better
makes love I on Australia bigger.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
I would still never go on it.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
I go on America, not yeah, I go on America
and even I'd even go on UK. I love UK
accents like I love a UK guy, but I think
I you could not pay me money to do the
heart Rate Challenge.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
Thank you. You should wear like that more in a
little fucking mini.

Speaker 3 (31:31):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
You look gorge Shanks girl. I was just staring at you,
like wow.

Speaker 2 (31:38):
The heart Rate Challenge where you have to fucking lap
dance on every it's coming up.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
Oh my god, I can't wait to watch it. But
as I would want to be entered in silence basically.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
Yeah, I fucking know all their little dance parties are
like mute, but I'm like, yeah, doing that sober on
national television in America because I'm not going on Love
Island Australia. But if America asked me to come on, yes,
I will do it.

Speaker 3 (32:00):
It's I think it'd be so fun. I would love
it because I like it.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
They had an Aussie on Yeah did you not win
or something? No?

Speaker 2 (32:07):
No, no, but they had an Aussy on Love Island US.
This year or last year. Yeah, fucking lap dancing on
a bunch of guys.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
I couldn't. I couldn't.

Speaker 2 (32:16):
But then it's like I'd want to enter in after
that challenge. But then it's like that's challenges kind of
need the end for a lot of people too, So
you don't want to be on at the end.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
So it's like you want to be one.

Speaker 2 (32:24):
Of the ogs you do, yeah, or the first or
second Bomb show.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah, you have to first or second bomb. I think
I'd actually like to be a bomb.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
I would love to be a bomb.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
You are hard enough to be, all right. So we
have some listener hear me outs that are funny. Yogurt
pouches are strictly girls only.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
What what is the yogat pouch? What is a yogat
pouch like a squeeze yogurt? That's strict what? No? I agree?

Speaker 2 (32:52):
It's like boys can't be sucking on a yogurt pouch.

Speaker 1 (32:55):
Ill, do you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (32:57):
I don't think anyone should be.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
Do you know what? A yogat pouches? The things you
have like in primary and you like squeeze.

Speaker 3 (33:01):
I hate them. I hate yogurt. I think it's foul
I think no one should yogurt. You know what I
do miss gogets, the frozen yogurt sticks.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
Do you know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
I always had a hatred for yogurt, all right.

Speaker 2 (33:12):
So they're these googat sticks, which all Australians, a lot
of Australians.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
I'm unlocky a core memory for you here.

Speaker 3 (33:18):
You need to rethink.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
You're like Gogets were these Do you remember those frozen
yogata and then they're just like a frozen yoga.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
I would just have them at school and you roll
it like this.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
Yeah, yeah, but I loved the ones. I love them frozen,
Like my.

Speaker 3 (33:32):
Favorite is like Milo yogurt or something. I do like yogat,
but the thing with like Eminem's in it.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
But you know what I don't like and I think
you're all fucking lying Greek yogurt. That ship is disgusting.
It's fucking savory. Firstly, it's tangy. It like makes my
saliva glands like.

Speaker 3 (33:51):
Anyone eats yoga. It's always stuck here and I'm like disgusting.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
Stop.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
You know what is funny is I have a vivid memory.
You know yogat drinks. Remember those are yoga drinks and
primary school cold No, like, let me try and figure.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
That I don't fuck with yogat.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
Okay, you don't fuck with yogurt, but maybe you'll recognize it. Okay,
And finally enough, I actually saw this chick the other day.
I'm getting like yogurt drink ill.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
Yogurt drinks are so big in Germany. Everyone drinks like skurr,
which is.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
Like, so you know what a yogurt drink is?

Speaker 3 (34:19):
I know what they are, but the file I didn't
think we had them in Australia, Like.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
I don't know, they're different, but they're just literally like
yoga to.

Speaker 3 (34:25):
Drinks, disgusting anyway, everyone loves them over there.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
I used to love them. I love yogurt. Yeah, I
saw a fuck what are you giggling at? He's probably
eating yogurt right now.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
There's a yogurt right there that's just really I like yogurt. Sorry,
I even know what yogurt is. No, but I don't know,
but it can't be good. It's like fermented milk or
some ship that's fucked anyway, is that right?

Speaker 3 (34:49):
It is?

Speaker 1 (34:50):
What the fuck?

Speaker 2 (34:52):
But there was a girl drinking a yogurt drink and
I remember it so vividly. It was one of my
favorite things ever. And she had a clump of This
is no hate to this girl. We were kids like,
and I'm not going to mention it. Obviously, she had
a like clump of snot in the corner of her
fast while she was drinking the drink. And from that
day forward, I associated yoga drinks it's not and I.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
Never touched on since she drink it. I had to
look away because that is all I thought about.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
And funnily enough, I ran into that girl the other
day and I haven't seen her since that day. That's
all I think about when I think of yoga drinks.
I think of that girl anyway.

Speaker 3 (35:26):
But controversial, like hating on kids is so allowed.

Speaker 4 (35:30):
Likening the same time, I hate, Oh, I like some kids,
But I think like hating on kids is so allowed
because like some of them are.

Speaker 3 (35:40):
Beryl gross kids. But they're not consciously making decisions. So
it's like you're allowed to be like that was gross
because they.

Speaker 1 (35:47):
Didn't like make that decision.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
Some could be they're kind of just blindly going through
life at that age, you know, fucking shit up.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
Yeah, kids are not easy.

Speaker 3 (35:55):
To like no, and they're annoying. Some can some are
actually just annoying, like stop talking, shut up, like you
have nothing. I remember a kid, and I feel like
adults can be like that to us, like full adults,
So why can't I be like that to a twelve
year old?

Speaker 1 (36:07):
Fucking annoying and they're streaming like what do you mean
so much?

Speaker 2 (36:12):
But in their defense, which is why we're allowed to
hate on them, because like they don't really know what's
going on, but they should is they don't know what's
going on, they should do, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (36:20):
But we were annoying. But then it's like you're allowed
to me when I'm a kid. I wasn't a kid,
but when I was a cheerleading coach, I coached like.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
The young, like the pee way fucking cheerleaders. And one
of the girls was really wealthy and she offered me.
She was like how much she get paid? I'm like,
noney of business. She offered me fifty dollars note because
she was really wealthy.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
She's pulled out of her handbag. I put that back.
What do you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (36:41):
Such a power play it was, And I was like,
you think you're better than me, and you are you
are put the fifty away or hand it to me
and don't tell why did you take this without anyone looking? Anyway,
yoga is for only girls.

Speaker 1 (36:58):
Okay, another one. Hear me out.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
A male actor can be not conventionally attractive, but they
are attractive because of their acting.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
Absolutely, I love this because I'm like, I think any
male actor or any actor that's like I. For example,
I love Brad Pitt back to drama school, which is
not hot to me.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
I think about Jacob Alordi sitting in fucking Saint Kevin's
in his drama class speech and drama do you know.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
What I mean? But like you have to think that
all the famous actors that we know and love were
drama nerds.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
Like I'm not saying you're a nerd, but as in
that's the classic you know drama nerds.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
I was a fucking drama nerd.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
Sorry, Like I don't, I just I always think of
like them like practicing or doing their like thing, like
their lives my ex like do like what are they
called audition tapes and I'm filming it like this is
so I cannot watch that.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
Yeah, it's funny to think that all those famous actors
did that shit.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
When they were younger.

Speaker 2 (37:50):
But as in like, there are definitely actors that aren't
hot but are hot because they're roight they're acting like, Yeah,
I even think Serena Carpenter's x very key. I don't know,
he's kind of really ugly, but like he's kind of hot.
Sometimes that's like a photo and you're going.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
To be like, who's your favorite who's like your favorite person.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
Celebrity, hottest celebrity. Harry Styles. I've said that the whole
internet knows Harry, So I would do anything to go
on a fucking date with Harry Styles. Really, but I
also Jacobal Audie, Yes, but I'm like, Harry Styles is
just there's something in my heart and soul that like
because I loved him growing up.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
Yeah, I met him in Berlin, like so briefly, and
I think he's like not hot at all anymore, and
it really ruined.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
You met Harry. I don't want to talk anymore. Get
off my podcast.

Speaker 3 (38:34):
But I mine's Dacota Johnson. I would do anything for her.

Speaker 1 (38:37):
I was talking about her last episode. She's so hot
and so cool. She's the cool girl.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
She's like the perfect girl. Next door vibe for me,
but like I would marry her.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
The guy I think is so hot randomly, his name's
Lorenzo Zazzola. He was on his Spanish or something. He's
on like Baby or one of those like dub TV shows.
He's got like dead eyes, you know, those really tired eyes.
Were like you like billy kinda. Yeah, I don't know why,
not funny at all. He's a really fucking heart.

Speaker 3 (39:07):
Maybe because I don't know. I don't know his character.

Speaker 1 (39:09):
I don't know his character either. Yeah, I just think
he's really hot.

Speaker 2 (39:12):
Okay, hear me out. This is a listener one. By
the way, I'm still undecided on the matter. I'd like,
Actually I'm not undecided. I just want to know your opinion. First,
parents are kiss their children on the lips. Sorry, but
it's weird, no matter how young, even weirder if they're
older though, that.

Speaker 3 (39:28):
Is fucking vile. I think you know the boy I
dated for two weeks, Yeah, that is on the lips
and I was.

Speaker 1 (39:35):
Leaving the family function and literally broke up with him
the next day because yeah, no, no, that's why you're
kissing your mother at our age.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
Do not find we were twos on me.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Absolutely territory. That is breakup worthy. That is vile, that's
not good.

Speaker 2 (39:50):
But I do I am I'm undecided on what I
think about young kids. Like there's I think, do it whatever,
it's your child, Like, I don't care. I don't like
it when people do it and put it online. I
think that's then it's not sexualizing the child because it's
your kid. But I do think it's just he's allowing
other people, creepy people that are everywhere because the world

(40:12):
is fucked, I will look at that and sexualize your child.

Speaker 3 (40:16):
You know the fox one the other day and I
was like, what.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
The Yeah, like his daughter and it was sweet, but
I'm like you.

Speaker 3 (40:21):
It was a mom kissing her toddline and like she
was like kissing you how you kiss one lip like
when you're kissing.

Speaker 1 (40:26):
Yeah, I was like, you did that with with a
todd lot. I'm like, that's fucked. Literally, it's fine.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
Peck on the lips is absolutely fine. It's your child,
you can kiss them, do what.

Speaker 1 (40:36):
I think.

Speaker 3 (40:36):
It's also bad to kiss kids on the face and
mouth and like all this shit. I don't like it
at all. And I also don't like I have a
four year old brother, and like he's like very affectionate,
like like like hugging his rider.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
But you're not going to kiss your brother, not.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
Like obviously fucking not his four No, But like I
also don't like him like being so cuddly with me.
I'm also I'm not an affectionate person unless I love you.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
And like that.

Speaker 3 (41:01):
So you not love your brother well, I mean like romantically, yeah,
Otherwise I'm not affectionate. I hate people touching.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
But I do think if you're going to kiss your
child and the lips as when they're young, when they're young,
there's a fucking age limit to that. Ship and three yeah,
I don't. I'm really bad at judging child age. I
don't know how old I like, two younger SI, Like
I imagine a three year old being like four foot.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
Really not four foot like this big? Yeah, my baby
brother is like this big okay yeah, And I think.

Speaker 2 (41:28):
So at that age, you're done. You can't kiss them
on the lips anymore.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
That's fucked.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
Don't put it online if you do, because you're allowing
other people to sexualize your child. And as much as
you want everything to say innocent, the world isn't innocent,
and I think putting it online is fucking weird. Ya,
it is weird, that's my opinion. What's your start starts?

Speaker 3 (41:45):
I'm an Aquarius, but I don't give leo oh perfect,
So I'm like you, is that a problem? No? My
my thing? I think my thing's Aquarius Gemini something. Oh yeah,
but I don't really believe in it. I just like
believe in God. Your star is gonna suck my dick.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
I'm gonna start sigyn girl throne. Really this is.

Speaker 3 (42:04):
Where, well, we could have a battle about it.

Speaker 1 (42:06):
We could battle to god verse spirituality.

Speaker 3 (42:08):
Don't even.

Speaker 1 (42:12):
So she's single?

Speaker 3 (42:13):
Single?

Speaker 1 (42:14):
What are you are you dating? Am I dating?

Speaker 3 (42:17):
No?

Speaker 1 (42:17):
I'm not dating.

Speaker 3 (42:18):
I think I since having a few boyfriends, I think
I'm now more.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
All those crazy boyfriends. Everyone else's fault, not mine.

Speaker 3 (42:26):
One thing I think I also realized in my last
relationship is the I feel like maybe the reason I've
never had great relationship with guys, I just don't think
I like men as much as I think I do
with a woman, because like, yeah, I've had bad, like
bad experiences with men. I feel like I always kind
of have that in the back of my head, and
I never will fully trust them, but I think now
I'm like more open.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
I also think you probably need a period to like
recover and heal and then be able to relationship with
more of that trust.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
Yeah, but I feel like that's my realization. I also
spoke about that with my ex. I think I just
don't know if I can break past that thought of
it that I have with men right now, and I
like deeply love women in like a different way.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
So maybe maybe she needs to venture on that. Maybe. Yeah,
maybe I'll bring Riley and Tesser in here every time
I fucking speaks and they're like, you're.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
Obviously, but I said, like, Jazz, you're obviously.

Speaker 3 (43:22):
I saw my school friends yesterday and like, obviously we
know we've known this. Like one of my friends whose
birthday was he was like, we've been friends for like
fifteen years.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
Oh yeah yeah, and he.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
Was like, I knew this when you were twelve, and
I was like that you're by yeah, and I was like,
how did you know you buy? I feel like I
have known since I was like sexually active, yeah, like
I have been with.

Speaker 1 (43:41):
Girls before that you're attracted to females.

Speaker 3 (43:43):
Yeah, one, I think I love them and like more
like and beautiful, Like I love women so much, and
like I love my girlfriends so much, and I think
I am like more open to exploring it like publicly.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
Yeah, so you really need also, like a man that
will give you that energy you like from female like
that safety. Yeah, I need them to be like more
like feminine well and that paper. I mean, like all
my females are kind of comforting and so warm. Yeah,
And I feel like that's something that you lose with
a lot of guys. Not all guys obviously, Like I'm
not going to be someone that sits here and says

(44:16):
all guys like I've always said that. I don't think
all guys are always actually amazing men out there. But
you become close with these girls and you're like that
supports support system is something that I think we search
for in men and maybe like I don't have that
with any guys I meet. So I'm like, yeah, well,
if you're not going to give me the love that.

Speaker 3 (44:32):
I yeah, that's what I'm saying. I just feel like
women can do it in such a different way, and like,
I don't know, I just feel like I'm not I
don't think I've never put a label, and like, when
I've spoken.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
The lesbian world is going to be stoked with that.

Speaker 3 (44:45):
Well, I've never I've never spoken about it online, but
I've spoken about it with my family for years. Yeah,
and even my close friends, like you all know, I
think as well, Yeah, but I've never spoken about it online.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
So well, Jazz a single ready to mingle? Are you
going to be dating?

Speaker 3 (44:58):
Do you think I'm open to dating someone I'm just
attracted to? Well, I mean, I feel like I say
no to fucking everyone because I'm very loud to say not.
I'm very picky as well.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
You're allowed in a wiki like people get.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
I always get get really fed up and annoyed with
my friends for saying you're really picky, but I think
you have to be. I think I'm allowed to be picky.
I've been through to really fucking shitty relationships and I
don't want to put myself through that again. I Also,
I'm not someone that dates a lot. I don't get
attracted to people easily. So yeah, I'm gonna put the
time and energy into someone that I want to date.
It's going to be someone that I fucking really like. Yeah,

(45:28):
and I will not settle and I'm.

Speaker 3 (45:29):
Sorry too, and that's why people like, oh, but you've
had so many boyfriends. I'm like, yeah, but that's because
I'm not going to you like that.

Speaker 1 (45:35):
Maybe yeah, a great relationships.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
Sorry, Like I definitely do fall in love very easily. Yeah,
but that's why I feel like I don't really like
label anything right quickly, because you know, you know, if
you do, you'll probably be like I love you, and
I'm like that I actually love you.

Speaker 1 (45:51):
Yeah see, I'm so the opposite. Yeah, I'm just we
are very opposite. A bit of a wall. Yeah, you
really have to.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
You have to show me that you're going to fucking
spend twenty years climbing over that wall if Yeah.

Speaker 3 (46:00):
Exactly, I'm like two weeks in. Nice to me for
two weeks, but then I get over it very quickly.

Speaker 1 (46:07):
You do, like you are very good at shutting it down.

Speaker 2 (46:09):
I take a lot longer to close things out, Like
I still think one thing part of me, it's healing
from my ex that was fucking four years ago or
something now. But like when they do what they do,
it's like, yeah, I'm like, well, how dare you fuck
me over like that?

Speaker 1 (46:24):
When I let you in? So I'm going to now
be a shell.

Speaker 2 (46:26):
Yeah, close, little fucking hermit crab, and I'm going to
wait for the right person to come along and then
I'll give them a go.

Speaker 3 (46:31):
But so you are also actively trying to get over
that and actively trying.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
To Yeah, like you know, seeing I just think I
think I really have and I've realized that in the
last year, I have a real wall up.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Like I was like, I'm still single.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
Why, I'm like, it's because I don't actually know if
I want to let someone in.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
Yeah, And I say I do.

Speaker 2 (46:47):
I really say I want to meet someone, but I'm
actively not letting anyone in. Yeah, And I think. So
that's what I'm working through, And I'll get there.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
You will, and you have so many people around you
that help.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Can't wait for us to find that. All right, guys,
if you like Jazz, which you will, we'll bring her
on again and again.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
They can ask questions.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
Yes, we'll open a question box. Yeah, alright, guys.

Speaker 1 (47:09):
We love you, love you,