Unlocking Your Potential with Human Design Expert Aviva Joffe

Welcome back to Hotter Than Yesterday, I'm so honoured to be welcoming Human Design Expert Aviva Joffe! Today we're learning what a human design reading is and you're coming along with me as I take one. We learn: 

• What is human design?
• How to master your emotional authority 
• The role of conditioning
• Understanding personal energy types

Aviva was such a joy and taught me so much about myself & I hope you took so much away from this too! Get excited for my next ep xxx

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Like you don't know where you're going, but actually a
huge part of your purpose is to really be connected
to your life direction and be someone that can help
other people with that too. So it's a big part
of your journey.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi, guys, welcome back to hotter than yesterday. I've got
a really exciting episode today for you guys, and I'm
excited for you guys to hear.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
We've got a viva.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
Say, hi, Hi, I'm a Viva.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
She's a fever. Tell us a little bit about yourself,
kind of explain what you're doing and what you hear.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Yeah. Yeah, So I'm a human design reader, So I
do what's called human design readings, which is it's a
system that I use to help you really understand how
you're designed to live in your most aligned and neffless way. Okay,
and I I'm excited. Yeah, I can keep a lab
rating or we can just.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Say yeah, no, go a little bit more.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Tell us like how it works and what you kind
of do, like especially with your clients or if someone
were to message you and you work with alongside them, like,
tell us a little bit more about what you do.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Yeah. So essentially, so what human design is is it's
a system that shows you that you're here to thrive
by doing things in your own unique way instead of
doing things the way that you know, maybe your parents
told you to, or society makes you think you should,
or you feel pressure that comes from external sources. It's
about really what we call deconditioning from those things and

(01:18):
coming back to your true self, So releasing those limiting beliefs,
releasing that conditioning that doesn't serve you, and knowing that
you actually thrive when you do things your way. Like
there's no one size fits all approach to anything in life,
and your human design shows you your way. So how
to attract opportunities in your own way, how to make
decisions from your intuition, your specific gifts to your life purpose.

(01:40):
There are so many layers to it, and so essentially
in a reading, like when someone comes to me, the
first thing we do is really look at, like where
where in their life are they either going through some
sort of transition, like some changes It could be in
a relationship or their career, or just you know, in
a in a growth that they're experiencing, or are they

(02:02):
making some really big decisions that they need support with.
And then we would look at like what's actually getting
in the way. Is there some of that conditioning that
I mentioned that's stopping them from stepping into the right
decisions or to to really trust themselves and to really
like step into their gifts so that then they can
really know when they're making decisions or moving forward, that
even when they don't know what's coming next, like you

(02:24):
never know when you make a big decision, what's actually
going to happen. But it's about then they know that
they have that trust that Okay, I've made a decision
from an aligned place, not from pressures, not with the
self doubt, not with the questioning, and actually can feel
confident moving forward even when they don't know what's actually
coming next.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
Yeah, I definitely feel like I need this at this time.
It's just come out of perfect time. I've got a
lot of decisions to make. I feel like my mind
and my life is kind of all over the place,
so it's going to be perfect. And so today Aviva
is going to give me my human design reading.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Is that right? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, that's right.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
I gave her my birth date, my date of birth,
my time of birth, where I was born, and then
what that makes a chart for you kind of fuck
the astrology chant, would you say?

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yeah, So it's different between astrology chart, but it does
give you your chart based on you, as you said,
your date, time, and location of birth. And it shows
you your human design chart, which covers some of those
areas that I'm previously mentioned. And there is a tiny
element of astrology, but it's also a different system. So
human design is a blend of for different ancient teachings,

(03:32):
So a bit of astrology, a bit of kabbola, the
Chinese eaching, and then also the Chakras, okay, and it
kind of blends into its own unique system. It's kind
of a bit like them, but also completely different to
all of those.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Okay, wow, this is so cool. Okay, I'm excited. You
just dive straight in, you guys.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
My secrets might be leaked on this podcast, so you
guys might find out the tea, which is what you
girls all want. So we're just gonna dive straight into it.
We're going to see what comes up. I'm kind of
nervous is it good or bad?

Speaker 1 (04:04):
So that's like always something or something. A lot of
people ask like, like I've actually I've done some readings
of people like I'm so nervous, like you're gonna tell
me I'm like a bad person or you know, things
like that. It's not like that at all. It's everyone,
including you, has all these beautiful gifts. And what we
can do is we can use our gifts in the
high expression or the low expression. So the high expression

(04:25):
would be using your gifts to your benefit, like using
them to their highest potential, whereas the lowest expression would
be like using those gifts against yourself. So you'll kind
of see as we go through your reading how that
can play out.

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Done. So this is just like learning to be my
better self, the best person.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah. Yeah, and specifically, like we'll go into as I said,
like you how your energy works, how to make decisions,
how to attract opportunities, and some other more like specific
parts as well into your.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
Sharp Okay, perfect, let's go.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Okay. So I know that you mentioned that you're like
very much like in a career mindset at the moment,
like that's your main focus, right, yeah? Yeah, So is
that like you said, you've got big decisions coming up,
and you I know you said, do you want to
know for yourself as a person how to navigate challenging situations.
So do you mean decisions mostly is that where you

(05:16):
get stuck?

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah, or just like knowing and trusting like my opinion
on my career because I think, especially in social media,
you can get so consumed by other people's career and
what other people are doing because it's readily available to
you and just kind of like figuring out, like what's
the best move for me career wise? Like I love

(05:37):
being in London, I love doing like my thing on
the other side of the world, but like is that
the right choice for my career because majority of my
careers in Australia, like kind of just knowing if I'm
how to make and form the right decisions that's the
best for me without other people giving their opinions on it.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
Yeah, yeah, so okay, this will be This is going
to really help you, I think from the session. And
also like what you're talking about the other people's opinions,
that's the conditioning that I was mentioning before that like
really can get get in your way when you just
want to trust your own intuition about things. It's like,
oh no, but what does that person think of me?
Or like what would they do? Or you know, asking

(06:16):
different people's opinions, so this will be really supportive. But firstly,
like overall in your chart, you've got very strong energy,
like very powerful energy in terms of like just your energy,
your voice, being a leader. And also it's funny that
you said that you said to me earlier that like
in terms of life direction, you feel a bit like, oh,

(06:38):
how do I you know? What do I do next?
Like feeling like you don't really know what you're doing,
because there is an element of your chart that can
make you feel like you don't know where you're going.
But actually a huge part of your purpose is to
really be connected to your life direction and be someone
that can help other people with that too, So it's
a big part of your journey. But first we'll get
into what's called your energy type. And this is like

(07:00):
it's kind of like your son's sign in astrology, Like
it's the most important foundational part to understand, and you're
what's called a manifesta, so as a manifesto, So firstly,
your energy type, it's the way that your natural energy
levels work, your best ways of doing and resting, like
how to really balance doing and resting, and how to
use your energy to rap the greatest rewards. So as

(07:21):
a manifesto, in terms of your energy, we're looking at
your aura, and you have what's called what I call
a really inspirational and impactful aura, Like you've got this big,
bold energy that really like affects people, Like when you
walk into a room, your presence is really felt and
like almost makes people kind of sit more upright, be like, oh,
what's she up to, like get curious about you. And
the other part of your aura is that you have

(07:42):
a closed aura, which means that you kind of have
like these protective blinds of like if you imagine like
what a horse wears to not really be able to
see in your peripheral too much because you're someone who's
really here to do what you want when you want,
and you're not here to be affected by what other
people expect from you. So those blinds kind of help
you to focus on yourself and not get as affected

(08:06):
by other people's expectations as the average person. But obviously
that could still happen. So do you feel like that
does that resonate, Like do you feel like you do
get really affected still or you feel that resistant?

Speaker 2 (08:18):
I don't think I don't think it necessarily affects my
decision making because at the end of the day, like
as you kind of said, like I've always kind of
known what i want or where i want to end up,
so it won't like impact my ability to make the
decision at the end of the day. I think it
just makes me think and my head noise is really
bad because as you said, like I am a strong

(08:39):
personality and I do kind of hold a room sometimes
or everything like that, I worry that I'm too much,
or I'm asking for too much, or I'm embarrassing myself
or I'm making a full out of myself because maybe
I do speak with really big dreams and really big
aspirations and everyone kind of is like slow down, babe,
like you're too much, or like you're doing too much,

(08:59):
or you're asking too much, or those dreams are way
too big for you to be.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
Able to achieve them.

Speaker 2 (09:05):
Like I feel like I'm like sometimes do I look
like an idiot because I do have such big, crazy,
outgoing personality and dreams, Like when I'm in an.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Area that is like the most common conditioning for a
manifesto is to feel like you're too much, Like I'm
too much. I need to be smaller, I need to
like tone it down. Maybe when you were younger, like
you were already like this, you would have been because
we're born with this energy. And then maybe your parents
said like calm down, or like, oh, sorry about her,

(09:35):
she's just a bit intense, or you know, maybe a
teacher said something, made some comment to you, and that
creates that conditioning. But that is the tendency of a manifesto,
like I was saying, with the high expression being that
you are here to do what you want when you want,
but and have that bold energy. That is the high expression,
whereas the low expression is feeling like, oh, I'm too much.
I have to be smaller. I have to be like

(09:57):
you know, I'm too much for people then like falling
into people pleasing. So, really, as a manifestor, you're here
to be a trailblazer, you're here to be someone who
really like has these spontaneous urges, these inner callings that
just come out of you from nowhere, feel like they
come out of nowhere and make you want to either
create ideas or take action or something or do you know,

(10:20):
start a project. And it's really important to really honor
these urges because that's how you then create new ideas,
new newness for the world for then other people to
join in and follow your lead. And that's where like
a big part of your leadership energy comes from. Like
manifest is a super very much like a leadership energy type.
So it's really important to let yourself listen to those urges,

(10:43):
whether they're big or small. Sometimes they'll be really big things,
like when you decided to move to London, like maybe
you just had this spontaneous urge like I just got
this idea to move to London. Or sometimes they'll be
small things like you just want to get a tattoo
and you just spontaneously go do that.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
I do both of them.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
Both of them.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
Have literally got a tattoo last week, and I moved
to London and never been here before, so.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
I did both of them.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
Yeah yeah, yeah, see. And so it's really and it's
amazing that you're aware of it. So it's really important
to be aware of these things and to not let
those other people's opinions or that conditioning or you know what,
like your mind's chat to tell you that you shouldn't
do things when those impulses are there telling you what
to do and so a really important part of honoring

(11:28):
these urges and really listening to yourself and to attract
opportunities and to really flow with your energy is by
using what's called your strategy. So each energy type has
a strategy, and yours is called inform me. So okay,
informing is all about knowing that because you are someone
who moves really quickly, who has these spontaneous urges, that

(11:50):
it's important to let the people know they're affected by
your decisions, letting them know what you plan to do
before you go ahead and do it. And so manifestors
often hate hearing that because you, as I said, you
are here to do what you want when you want,
with no one standing in your way. So it's not
to ask their opinions. It's firstly because of that close
or you have. It can make you hard for people

(12:12):
to read like they're intrigued by you because you've got
that impactful energy, but then they're like, oh, but I
can't really tell what she's going to do next. So
especially the people like loved ones in your life like
you know, boyfriend, family, people who get affected by your decisions,
maybe like people you work with, informing them of your ideas,
your decisions, things you're planning to do before you do them.

(12:34):
And that's there's two main reasons for that. You're not
doing it for them to get their opinion or their
validation or you know, ask their permission, because that's not
what you're here for. But it's purely number one to
help them feel included, because you can move so quickly
and just have this idea and then act on things
and then they're like, oh, why you know, where did

(12:55):
that come from? Like why didn't you tell me? Has
that happened to you before?

Speaker 2 (12:59):
I definitely think it's It happens a lot with my parents.
When I was growing up. I was raised quite an
independent person because my parents were both teachers and my
dad was a director of boarding, so he had a
lot going on, and I was kind of not like
pushed aside, but they were like, oh, well, she's got everything,
like she's good, Like I don't need to like control

(13:20):
her do whatever she wants. So I was always independent
and then I would do things sporadically and my parents
would be like, why didn't you tell us? Or like
sometimes my mum will look at my fire, my location
and she's like, why are you in Spain, like you
said you were in London, and I'm.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
Like, I do forget to tell people because.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
I'm like, well, I'm going to go do it anyway,
so like you either accept it or you don't and
you'll just see me there. And because I feel like
Australia kind of has a little bit of like a
tall poppy syndrome energy, I'm like, I'll do it and
then I'll.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
I'll prove it to you once I've done it.

Speaker 2 (13:52):
Instead of telling you that I'm going to go do
it and then maybe fail, I'm going to do it
and then be like, see he told you so mean sense.
So I do struggle to kind of tell people, yeah,
like maybe my movements or things like that, because I
don't want to prove them right or them yet tell
me that it's like a bad decision or I wasn't

(14:12):
considering them in my feelings. And then I think the
EmPATH in me makes me feel bad that I am
doing something for myself if I get their opinion and
they don't approve of it, If that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (14:22):
Yeah, So it's a little bit of like a bit
of rebelliousness as well.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Yeah, I think so, I think that comes from my
childhood of like proving people wrong.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
And that's another thing, like with manifestos, that can be
a tendency to be a bit of to be a
bit rebellious when you feel like there is a chance
that people will try and sounds in your way and
try and stop you, and and then like being feeling
like I don't want anyone else's opinion or their approval,
so you just go ahead and do it. So it's
really important to remember that you can still honor your

(14:52):
own boundaries, your own needs and desires without feeling like
you have to go towards that that rebellious side, because
it's actually a way that you kind of can get
in your own way. So you actually free up more
energy and something for you to experiment with. But you
free up your own energy to have more freedom and

(15:13):
to be more magnetic to more opportunities when you share
with the people around you before you take action, and
again not to get their opinion, not to let them
change your mind. And if you do find that there
are people that always like try, like maybe your parents
always saying the same things like trying to stop you,
then really trying to help them understand this that you're
trying to do this to you know, create a better dynamic,

(15:34):
and that you're not asking their opinion, but you want
them to know to inform them. And the other part
of it is that you're someone who's here to the
manifest a part of you. You're here to manifest energy
around you. So you when you use your voice to inform,
you actually rally people's support around you to then help
you fulfill your mission. So you know, just telling a

(15:55):
friends like hey, I'm you know, I've got this idea
for something, and then seeing how they might be like, oh,
I know the perfect person that can actually, you know,
you can collaborate with on this, and seeing how like
opportunities actually flow a lot more easily when you do that.
So I like to think of it as like if
you were if you were a train conductor and you
were going from London to Paris, then your job is

(16:17):
to just tell everyone on the platform like, Hey, come
on my train, I'm going to Paris. If you want
to come, You're not asking them during a survey of
like where do you feel like going? What do you think?
And so the ones that want to come on board
your train, they'll come with you to Paris. And the
ones that don't you leave behind and that's fine. So
it's not about it. So with that, it's not about
worrying about people's response and what they want. It's about

(16:37):
just informing and seeing how those people will support you
on your mission and come in your direction if they're
the right people. So practicing that informing is really important
and you can see, I'm sure you can see, like
in your personal life and in your work life how
that would be really really beneficial.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Yeah, I'm definitely like now playing and being like have
I done this right or don't right?

Speaker 3 (16:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (16:58):
No, it's really interesting, and it's true because I then
kind of self sabotage and then end up being like
really really hyperdependent because I always believe that people won't
support it or people are gonna think the negative first,
so I end up feeling kind of alone or feeling
like I don't have the support around me. But I've
probably done that to myself and I've probably created that

(17:18):
environment for myself, which then ultimately makes me sad as well.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
At the end of the day. So yeah, that's really
interesting that I need to do that.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Yeah, And that's also like the reason why it's important
is because you ask someone who's here to have two.
When you have an urge to take to do something,
you get this burst of energy that gives you your
yours called an energy being, because you do get this
burst of energy every time you have an urge, every
time you get like this inner calling. But what happens
is once you've taken action on it, you might not
fully complete it. Sometimes you will, sometimes you won't. But

(17:49):
when you don't, sometimes you actually need the support of
other people around you because once you've fulfilled urge, then
you need more rest. So you kind of have these
like ebbs and flows of energy where you get the
burst of energy and then you need rest. So like
having your own you know, your own business, your own
personal brand, that is really amazing for Manifesto because it
means you can kind of be on your own schedule

(18:10):
and like take the rest when you need, like you know,
work really hard for three weeks, take a week off
that have that sort of flexibility. But also it gives
you freedom when you inform because it means people can
support you, people can help you finish things, and you're
not the one that's meant to always keep the fire going.
You're here to create the fire to get it started.
So always remembering that the more and more that you
sort of lean into that, like the informing, listening to

(18:33):
your urges every day, the more you're going to feel
what's called your signature feeling, and that's the feeling of peace.
So feeling like this inner peace just like wash over you.
That's that shows you when you're really in alignment and
things are flowing for you. Are you? Is that something
you like really desire, that feeling of peace.

Speaker 3 (18:51):
Like I've been earning and I've been looking for that
for years, for years.

Speaker 2 (18:55):
Like I always feel like I've got like a really
heavy feeling my chest, and like sometimes I get like
a little bit clearer, but then I don't know, maybe
I ruminate a lot and I catastrophize a lot, and
then another big feeling will come over me and like
weighs so heavy on my chest and it's like it's anxiety,
of course, but I just yeah, I never really I

(19:18):
know I need to trust my gut, but I'm afraid
of trusting my gut if it will lead me into
the wrong direction because I can, as you said, like
I can't be spontaneous. I can have these really crazy thoughts,
and it's like if I touch into that, am I
gonna have a Brittey Spears moment when I'm twenty six?
And like do you know what I mean? So it's
like what is rational compared to what's irrational? I really

(19:40):
struggle to decipher between myself and trusting my gut. I
really don't trust my gut.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
Yeah, And a lot of people will say that, Like
a lot of my clients will say that that they
like don't know firstly, like what's their conditioning like other
people's precious versus what they actually want? And they don't know, Yeah,
what's their minds versus like their intuition. So in human
design we always say that, like all obviously, like your
your mind is really powerful and amazing at supporting, analyzing

(20:09):
and processing things, but it's the what we call the
passenger in the car, whereas your body is like the
driver of the car. And so learning is just the
one that makes the decisions that actually like informs you
of like where to go next, what's right for you?
Whereas the mind wants to, you know, chime in, but
it's not the ultimate decision maker. So and for you

(20:30):
when it comes to like those smaller day to day decisions,
it's really important to listen to those urges. And so obviously,
like I said, this is for you to experiment with
and practice that. Like I can tell you as much
as possible that I know this works, like I've seen
how it works for you know, other people, for myself,
but you have to say, prove that to yourself by
playing with it. So really listening to those urges day

(20:50):
to day, and then when it comes to your big
life decisions, it's really important to listen to what's called
your authority. So this is another part of your human
design chart, and it tells us your specific intuition for
like what you might think of as your like how
to connect with your gut feeling, but we would in
human design language, it's called your authority, your specific intuition

(21:13):
and yours comes from the solar plexus energy center, and
this is where the emotions come from. You've got like
a knowing smile there.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
Like emotions. Okay, let's go.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
So firstly, having this as your authority, emotional authority, it
means that you have what's called a defined solar plexus,
So it means in your chart, this is one of
your colored in energy centers, and it's where you create
consistent energy. So okay, what that means for you is
you're someone that creates consistent emotions in your body regardless

(21:46):
of what's going on around you. So you're someone who
has these like waves of emotions, these ups and downs
that can be activated obviously by specific things or you know,
situations that happens you can cause emotions, but regardless, like
even if you're nothing's going on, everything in your life
seems perfect and easy. You can still wake up on
the wrong side of the bed one day, or you

(22:07):
could have like crazy stuff going on around you and
wake up really happy for no reason. It's just it's
actually your emotional way. Can you do you relate to
that feeling?

Speaker 2 (22:17):
Sometimes I'm like I should be really like upset about
this situation, but like I'm upset, but I'm it's not
debilitating or it's not like ruining my day and I
can carry on fine. And then sometimes like the littlest
things seem like.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
The end of the world.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
When I'm really tight, or like when I'm really overwhelmed
and everything like that, or like yeah, all to do
with maybe like my environment. That's when the hardest things
seem like the end of the world, but like I
could literally be told the worst news and if I'm
really good, it won't affect me and I can just
push it on and like carry on my day like

(22:56):
it wasn't anything.

Speaker 1 (22:57):
That makes sense because you've got new So there are
four types of what we call four types of emotional waves,
and you've got two different types. Some people just have one,
some have like three or four. You've got two, and
one of them is very much like a sort of
it builds and builds and builds over time, like let's
say over like a week period, it will build and
then once you get to that point of it being

(23:17):
like feeling like it's kind of like an intense emotion
of like pressure that you kind of need to like
express it, like maybe need to cry it out, maybe
you need to like scream or like let it out
with I don't know, some dancing. But if someone says
something to you at that moment, when you're already at
that point, it's like the straw that broke the cammel's back,
and you can have a disproportionate reaction. And so that's

(23:39):
what triggers it. And it's coming from a place of
like needing more connection, needing to feel emotionally understood and supported.
So sometimes just like affection or someone saying like I'm
here for you, I understand you, Like that gives you
that support that you need to make that intense emotion
sort of either come back to a neutral or just
not last as long.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
And see, I think that that's probably where I go
wrong because I struggle to tell people how I feel.
I really struggle to open up to people. Not because
I think it's a weakness, but subconsciously I probably think
it's a weakness. Like I know it's the right thing
to do, but I don't want people to see a
weak side of me. And I always want people to
think that I'm okay. I'm always someone that people open

(24:23):
up to. But I'd never really seen myself opening up
to other people and like telling people how I feel
or what's going on in my mind. Like I cannot
remember the last time I did that, to be honest.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yeah, Like you find easier to support other people than
to receive the support. Yeah, yeah, And that's the thing
I can see.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
I really just.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
Started opening up to my mum recently. Out of twenty
three years, I only just kind of started up being
up to my mum. But I would only do it
over the phone. I will never do it in person.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Yeah, it's really interesting. So now that you know this,
hopefully like it's something you can bring more awareness to that.
It's really helpful for you because it helps alleviate that
intensity of emotions when it just feels like kind of
like an irrational build up and it's something that you're
meant to experience. It's actually a way that you gain wisdom.
Like I know you you mentioned that, like you're an

(25:12):
empathetic person, and so this is the way that you
empathize because you've experienced all these like this intense depth
of emotions that the highs and the lows, and so
you don't have to be going through something that someone's
going through to empathize and to understand because you can
relate to the emotion from the way you've been there
on your emotional wave.

Speaker 3 (25:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:32):
So it's a really beautiful gift. It's just about knowing like, Okay,
so when I feel this way, I can sit with it.
I can you know, flow with that feeling and practice
sharing with people that how I'm feeling. And sometimes because
I mentioned you've got two emotional waves. The other one
is more related to sometimes it can it can prolong
your emotional wave just by being around other people, and

(25:54):
sometimes you need to be alone. So feeling into like
do I just need to be alone right now as well?
And will that help it dissipate? Like even if you're
like out at a party and it's kind of hard
to like, can I just step outside for five minutes
to just be alone or can I lock myself in
the toilet for five minutes to just try and like
let this pass, and that can really help that depth
of the loan not be not go for as long.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
Yeah, And I.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Do realize that in myself of like sometimes something will
just click and I'm like, no, I need to go
home now. Like I'm one of those people that's like
you cannot convince me to stay out, You cannot convince
me to change my mind. If I'm like experiencing that
low emotion, I know I need to be at home
and I know I need to like just be by
myself because being around me is painful and I.

Speaker 1 (26:38):
Can recognize something myself.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
I'm like, you need to go home and just like
put yourself in time out and like no one can
convince me and or like change that mood around, no
one can make it better. I'm like, no, I just
need to sit alone right now.

Speaker 1 (26:51):
Yeah, And that's such amazing self awareness because that is
your emotional wave, one of them telling you like I
need to be alone, Like being around people's actually just
going to make it worse. And so listening to that
is so important. So that's amazing. So and the way
this relates to making decisions, making big decisions, so as
I said, smaller day to day ones, when you have
those urges or those feelings like go for it, like

(27:13):
you can be more impulsive with it. But when it's
a really big life decision like moving countries or you know,
something really huge like that, it's really important to listen
to your emotional authority, which means waiting until you feel cool,
calm and collected, so feeling like you've got into a
neutral in your emotional wave, and then asking yourself your
leading question, which is does this decision make me happy?

(27:35):
Does it bring a smile to my face? And so
that process can take It could take an hour, it
could take a day, it could take a week. It's
about not pressuring putting a time pressure on it, but
knowing that you do need time, like always buying yourself
a bit of time to make big decisions. So even
though you'll feel that immediate impulse that comes from being
a manifesto, still when it being like, Okay, if this

(27:57):
is like a big life changing decision or something that's
going to really impact my life, then I need to
give myself time and so really tune in to like firstly,
a really good way to track your emotional waves, So
you could visually, like you know, draw that on a
piece of paper and do like a line horizontally that's
like you're neutral, and then morning and night checking in

(28:17):
like how do I feel about this decision? Am I
like above? Like? Am I feeling the high overly excited
impulsive emotions? Am I in the low? Am I feeling
like pessimistic about it? Doing dots above and below the line?
And once you get to the neutral, then you know
that you can go to the next stage, which is
being alone. Just close your eyes, envisioning yourself making that
decision and asking yourself that question of does this decision

(28:40):
make me happy? And like does it bring a smile
to your face? And that gives your answer. In the past,
have you made decisions that way, like do you give
yourself time or are you always just impulsive?

Speaker 2 (28:53):
I'm like, yeah, definitely go through the waves of like
this is a good idea, this is a bad idea,
and then when it comes to the dis vision making,
I'll go off what I'm thinking that that second. Like
everything is last minute, nothing is ever A lot of
it's always thought out, but a lot of it's always
very logical. Not sometimes again like not necessarily what I

(29:16):
want to be doing, but logically it makes the most sense.
I'm a very logical thinker, like critical thinker, like it's
a or B, like there's no gray area. So a
lot of it is like maybe not necessarily what Sam
wants to do, but what's logical for that time.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
And so for you it's and again this is for
you to explore yourself. But like I was saying, in
human design, it's said that the mind is the passenger
and the body is the driver. So what I'm saying
is your emotional authority is what should be leading your decisions.
And so instead of getting in the minds, it's about
not weighing out pros and cons, not asking opinions from

(29:54):
people being like does that make sense? Like or like
rationalizing something to try and identify, like what's the next
step going to be? Like where's this going to lead?
It's really about tuning into that emotional wave, getting to
that neutral and then then making a decision from decision
from that place, so like in your body, like a
yes will feel should feel like this really joyful, happy,

(30:16):
sort of light energizing feeling, whereas a no can feel
like heavy and contracted and like a pit in your
stomach and even make you feel sad about that decision.
Whereas if you're just neutral, it's like a no for now,
like you feel calm, but you're not really clear on
like will it make me happy or unhappy? And then
also choosing between a no. Distinguishing between a no and

(30:36):
a fear is really important because sometimes and this is
where the minds can definitely kick in and the anxiety.
It's like if you can feel really similar to a
know when you're when something feels scary, like a pit
in your stomach and that contracted feeling in your gut,
but then behind it when it's a yes, sorry, when
it's a fear, it really is a yes, because you
still feel happy about it. You just feel scared, and

(30:59):
so that's when the mind can definitely be like, oh,
but like you should be scared, and then that means
you should say no because that doesn't make sense, or
like I don't know, like what are you going to
do in London? Like you're just going to London and
you've got nothing lines up. That's just amazing.

Speaker 3 (31:12):
Normally, if I'm scared of something, I have to do it.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
I have to prove a point to like to prove
to myself that it's not scary, Like if I have
a fear or like a rational fear, I'm just like, well,
now you have to do it because it's actually not
that scary, which is like what I'm like. That's probably
where my impulse comes from, because I'm like, if I
have a slight fear, like I was like skydiving, like
I was scared of jumping out of a plane, where

(31:36):
I'm like, now.

Speaker 3 (31:36):
You have to do it to prove to yourself that
it's not scary.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
Yeah, Well that's amazing, And that's brave because it is
about being brave and pushing past the fear. It's just
about making the decisions from the right place, Like you're not,
for example, not doing it from a rebellious place because
you're trying to prove something to someone else. It's because
it really.

Speaker 2 (31:53):
I think I'm trying to preke myself though, Like I
don't think I'm trying to prove it to anybody else.

Speaker 3 (31:58):
I'm just trying to prove it to myself.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
Yeah, and that's amazing because like that, ultimately, I'm guessing
will make you feel happy as well. Okay, but I
would say give it when it is a big decision,
like skydiving depends like how scare it feels to someone.
But like you could say that's not actually a big
life decision, like it's not going to impact the.

Speaker 3 (32:15):
Rest London is a big life decision.

Speaker 1 (32:17):
Yeah, Like it impacts, like it has a whole domino
effect on the rest of your life, whereas like skydiving
might not doesn't, but it's I mean, it's all a
really crazy thing to do. So someone could be like
not agreeing with what I'm saying that I would say
that's a more like lighthearted decision, whereas a big one is, yeah,
like the move like buying a property or entering into

(32:40):
like I don't know getting engaged or you know those
like really big things that change your life.

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
And also another science to look out for for yourself
as a manifesto is when you get your feel You're
not self theme, which is the feeling that's like the
opposite of that inner piece. It's the feeling that lets
you know when you're out of alignment. And for you,
that's the feeling of anger. So if when you anger,
like often for manifest as, it comes from a place
of feeling like, yeah, I'm too much and I need

(33:06):
to just play. It's like I need to stop playing
so big, like I'm I'm too much people they can't
hance my energy, so and that's when they can go
into the rebelliousness or some going to people pleasing as well.
It can kind of go either way. So have do
you ever have that kind of anger come up for you?

Speaker 3 (33:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (33:24):
I always just say I was quite an angry kid.
But the older I've gotten, the less that anger comes out.
I think in my family growing up, anger was a
very commonly expressed emotion in my house. So I've always
been kind of surrounded by anger. And I know when
I'm feeling angry and when I'm angry. I'm really really angry,
but it's all internalized.

Speaker 3 (33:45):
It's all in my head.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
But as you said, like they will sometimes with my emotions.
That is something that pops.

Speaker 3 (33:51):
And I never want to express that anger because I
know it can be not scary, like I'm not a
threat to society, but like I don't like who I
am when I'm angry, and it does.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
There is an emotional build up and a lot of
the time when I do pop, it is expressed as anger.

Speaker 1 (34:08):
Yeah, that's interesting. So it's important to notice when the
anger comes up because it's just showing you that there's
somewhere that you're out of alignment with your energy. So
you know, maybe it's that you're doing things for other people,
or that you're not you're feeling like you have to
repress yourself, or like that you have to hide your
emotions because other people can't handle it, or feeling like

(34:31):
someone's trying to stop you from you know, someone's trying
to get in the way of like a decision you're
trying to make or a project you're trying to start.
So again, it's always about like coming back to using
your voice and informing, like expressing your needs your feelings,
your impulses, like your idea is really expressing all of
these things as much as possible, even doing it, practicing
it out loud to yourself, if it feels scary to

(34:52):
say it to other people, because sometimes it can feel
like it sounds like for you, that's kind of there's
a bit of a block there, saying that's yourself, and
seeing like as you hear your voice, hearing it kind
of become more and more natural for you, and then
starting to practice more with other people.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Yeah, it's something that I don't I think it's the
thing I'd like the least about myself, the anger that
I have an angry side, and it's something that i've
like really really suppressed over the last couple of years.
But now I'm like, as you're telling me this, I'm
putting it into situations where the times I have felt angry,
maybe over the last couple of months, is the times

(35:29):
where I felt restrained. That's when I've felt.

Speaker 3 (35:33):
Anger or there's like a blockage there and it's stopping
me from pushing past it.

Speaker 1 (35:38):
Yeah, and so instead of because it sounds like you're
hard on yourself about the anger, but realizing that that's
actually your energetic body's natural response to being told like
no you can't do that, or like I'm going to
try and stop you, like that kind of threat. And
because you really are here to be that fire starter,
So instead of seeing it as a bad thing, I

(35:58):
would suggest you try like start saying it as a
sign post that's a gift showing you Okay, well, like
what's actually going on here that's causing that and making
me feel that way, because instead of placing that blame
on yourself that you're angry, then maybe it's actually like
the other person is doing the wrong thing by you
by saying that to you and bringing out that reaction,

(36:20):
and that's just your natural reaction. As a manifesto, yeah wow,
So it can really help with self love as well,
like doing this, doing this work and having this awareness.
Yeah I need a bit of that. Yeah we all do.

Speaker 3 (36:33):
Interesting, Yeah, we all need some self love.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Look at your chart as well, like look at your
energy centers. There's one that really stands out to me.
You know how I talked about your being with someone
who might sometimes feel like you don't know where you're
going in life, like your direction, but you also are
here to have a really strong purpose of direction. So
I'm going to explain that to you. So your sense

(36:55):
of direction in life comes from the G center energy
center in your chart. It's like this diamond shape one
that's right in the middle. It's like your heart space,
and it's where identity, direction in life, passions, sense of
self identity, like they all come from this place. So
it's like it's a really big, like core part of
the human design chart. And so I for you, you

(37:16):
have this what we call an undefined or open G center.
It means it's white in your chart. And so firstly,
it means that you're someone that you're really adaptable and
sensitive to the people around you in your environment, like
the energy in your environment, the personalities and the interests
of the people around you. So you're someone who's here
to kind of flow with your life direction, to maybe

(37:37):
never feel this certainty of like I know where I'm going,
like I know the next step and where I'm going next.
You're actually here to be really organic with that. And
when you and like lean into your urges, lean into
your emotional authority to like make those decisions along the way,
but kind of like letting different environments and different people
draw that direction out of you, like maybe a friend

(37:58):
being like, hey, have you tried this? Be thought of
like exploring this, or would you want to do this
project together, and it gives you a chance to say
like yes or no, or like sort of taste test
different opportunities. So sometimes you might feel directionless because you
might feel like, oh, I'm so like influenced by like
other people are sort of taking me. But it's actually
your way of creating your own life direction. So it's

(38:21):
not your direction list, but it can feel that way
internally for you, So you're actually not supposed to feel like, yep,
I always go the next step. I always know what
my next interest is going to be, or my next
passion or where I'm going because other people often introduce
those things to you, or the environments that you find
yourself in will introduce you to that. See.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
I've always really struggled with that, Like ever since I
was a kid. When anyone would ask me what I
wanted to do when I grew up, my mostated question
is where.

Speaker 3 (38:46):
Do you want to be in five years?

Speaker 2 (38:48):
I'm like, I don't know where I want to be
in three months, like, let alone in five years. So
I hate when people ask me that, or like I
always am kind of envious of people that being like
all I want to do when I grow up is
a mom, or all I want to do when I
grow up is be a doctor, and like they have
an end goal that they want to be at, and
I'm like, I don't have that end goal, and I

(39:09):
think that that's where I get so worried and in
my head is like am I asking too much? Am
I being too aspirational about what I want because it
might be out of touch or everything like that, because
I'm like, anything I feel like I want to do,
I will just go and do it if that makes sense,
Like it's not like, oh this is going to help me,

(39:31):
this job is going to help me to get me
to that job where I want to end up, because
I don't know where I want to end up, Like
I don't know what career is going to make me
happy or what life path is going to make me happy.
So that's why I just like do all of them
and hoping one will land.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
Yeah, And so I mean that makes a lot of
sense because like I said, do I hear to taste,
test and sample many different things. It's just about like
when you try something. Let's say, you know, someone introduces
a particular I don't know, like a type of yoga class,
let's say, and you're like, yeah, that sounds really interesting,
but then like you kind of get over it then
just moving on when you're ready to move on, like

(40:09):
not feeling like you have to stick with things. It's
about just like I sample things. My interests are really varied,
Like I have lots of interest in that. That's an
amazing thing, and that's how you find like what sticks
and what doesn't. Yeah, So I think it's funny like
you said that he finds it. You found that sort
of like irritating when other people would say, like they

(40:29):
know what they want to do. And so one part
of that is like some people just don't, like they
have this like the opposite of you, where they just
they do know their direction and feel that strong pull.
But then there's also so much conditioning in society around
like if you don't know who you are, if you
don't know what you're doing next, or like you know,
when you're like we're like eighteen at school and we're
told like pick your career for the rest of your life.

(40:51):
It's like most people's career changes, like my career change,
and like most people I know, like they don't stick
with what they studied, so that can be really frustrating.
So it's a huge conditioning and that's why it's really
important to know this about yourself and to remember, like
to have some mantles for yourself, like I'm designed to
have lots of interest, and you know that you kind
of allow yourself to connect with the passion love something

(41:13):
for maybe a short period of time, and then move
on when you're ready, not feeling like you have to
stick with it and that makes you flaky or there's
something wrong with you, or why am I not more
like that person that decided they want to be a
doctor in L five and they're a doctor.

Speaker 3 (41:26):
You know, yep, that's exactly what I've been doing.

Speaker 2 (41:30):
But I just bet then I get kind of worried
of like I get bored very easily, and I don't
like that about myself, Like even when.

Speaker 3 (41:40):
It comes to relationships.

Speaker 2 (41:42):
Something I've always noticed about myself is I'm very easily bored,
and I'm always like what more, and that there has
to be something exciting, Like I think I'm a bit
of a thrill seeker that I then struggle to sit
in normalcy, like being normal or just like have things
flow through life because I'm like I've always got to

(42:03):
be trying something or always going to be doing something.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
Yeah, And so I guess like, because you are here
to like try lots of different things and you do
have that like strong manifested energy of like wanting to
explore and you know, experiment with things, then it's important
to be in a relationship with someone who helps you
do that as well. Yeah, and because the person you're
within a relationship, like they will be one of the
biggest people influencing you know, which direction that you go,

(42:29):
like what do you try? So I guess if you're
with someone who doesn't bring out that exciting fun side
that what you're looking for in terms of exploring your
your varied interests, then that's probably going to feel dull
and boring. Okay, but you know what, it's actually really
great that you're I guess instead of seeing it as
like you're too like you move on too quickly, like

(42:52):
seeing it as the right person will actually bring out
that excitement and passion in you. And also because something
that can happen with having an undefined g censor like
you do is that often people with this quality will
see the best in someone and see the person's potential
in a relationship instead of seeing them for who they

(43:12):
really are. So I also think you the time you
do that too, because I was going to say, maybe
if you're someone who's so aware of like, no, this
person's not like, you know, exciting me anymore or you know,
this relationship.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
See, like when I really struggle to like people and
I really struggle to open up to people, So then
when I have like and then that's kind of when
maybe surface level situationships or things kind of evolve. And
then that's when I'll get bored and I'll move on
really quickly. And I'm very easy, like I'm okay to
drop them. But once I like someone, I will cling

(43:48):
onto you and you could be the king of Egypt
if you need it to be, Like, I will always
see your potential even if you don't see it, and
I will like, will not leave your side until you
become the king of.

Speaker 1 (43:59):
Beat And that's obviously makes people feel really special and seeing,
which is beautiful, but then also remembering that if someone's
not showing that part of themselves yet that just seeing
their potential, like it's a potential that might never come,
so never sort of I guess, like not abandoning yourself

(44:20):
to think that, like, no, I should stick it through
with this person because I can see their potential if
they are the person that you want to be with
now yeah, okay, yeah, does that spark any No.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
It's just like I think so much in my head
that it's like I sometimes can't distinguish between like rational
and irrational thoughts. I have OSAD, and my OSAD comes
up in really compulsive and really intrusive thoughts and about
myself and about other things. So it's like so debilitating

(44:53):
that it's like, yeah, I can't really decipher. And that's
what you said, when it comes down to my emotions,
what's deciphering what's real and what's not.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Yeah. Yeah, so that so just like you said, I
was gonna say, like always coming back to your authority,
Like that's why, like your energy type, your strategy, and
your authority the biggest parts to take away from this reading,
because it even if you whether you know this about
your g center or not, if you don't know how
to use your authority, then it almost becomes irrelevant. So

(45:20):
it's always like coming back to that, and a good
practice if you do, like get caught in your mind
and like that OCD is coming up, you could do
like just a nice little visualization for yourself, a practice
of just closing your eyes and visualizing like a white
light at the center of your forehead and thinking of
that as like those your thoughts, like the chatter, like
the over stimulated mind, and letting that gradually drop down

(45:42):
through your core, down down down into your solar plexus,
which is like kind of a bit above the navel,
between the navel and the rib cage, so letting it
drop in there and feeling that wisdom come back to
that place. And so whether you know whether you're spiritual
and you really believe that you move energy or you
just find that grounding because it's a moment to be
present with your body and like feel into your body.

(46:03):
Either way, that will really help to ground you again
into your wisdom and help you then to connect back
to like, okay, the emotions like am I feeling calm? Yes? No?
Like am I feeling happy about this? Yes? No? That
gives you your answer. But the reason why I said
it was really interesting that you talked about feeling like
you don't know where you're going because you obviously have
this open g center. It's interesting because your life purpose

(46:27):
is all about direction in life. So in everyone's human
sign chart, we all have something called an incarnation cross,
and it's your like really specific life purpose made up
of your strongest your four strongest gifts in your child
and like kind of how they mix together to give
you a specific purpose. So it's not specific in terms
of like this is the career you're going to have, well,
this is like when you're gonna get married, or you know,

(46:48):
like those sorts of it's not predictive like for the futures.
This is the energy you're here to be in everything
that's in alignment for you in your life. So yours
is called it's called the right angle cross of the
Sphinx have crazy names, and it's really about it tells
you that you're really here to allow direction to be
your life purpose, so you're here to direct both have

(47:10):
strong sense of direction for both yourself and other people.
It's like if you think of this analogy of like
you being this lighthouse, it's like shining this light that
allows other people to find their bearings, So that could
be a big part of why you feel so like
you're so going through this journey in life of like
your direction being a big theme because it is part
of your purpose and it's a way that you're going

(47:31):
to connect more to your own your own direction in
life to then be that light bearer for other people.
So obviously it's quite deep. So when you're really true
to yourself and your creative impulses connecting to those urges,
then you always know the right direction for yourself, even
when you can't explain it and when it defines logic.

(47:51):
So you'll often find with having this purpose, you'll often
find that you can't explain why you choose certain directions,
and when people try and ask you for a rational
explanation of how you got their why or if you
try and do that to yourself, it's probably going to
make you feel like angry or like confused. So I
don't know, I just did it, yeah, And so it's

(48:11):
and always do that, and so it's really important to
just like, firstly, when people do ask you that, like
explain to them like it's just an intuitive thing, Like
I just feel that it's right, and like I'm not
going to try and explain it, you know, because it's
really about like you were here to guide yourself and
other people, Like there's a strong connection to this, like
being this guide like guidance, and you are then able

(48:35):
to show other people all the possibilities of life and
like the way that you can create this beautiful life
yourself in this amazing world, like with all these opportunities,
all this potential, Like you said, you're a dreamer, and
you show other people that they can follow your lead
in that when you at that leading example. So it's

(48:56):
really about like trying not to feel like you have
to explain it and then also remembering that when I
say you're here to guide other people as well and
be that life ero, it's not in the way that
you're here to like hold people's hands and you know,
show them every step of the way, because that will
be quite draining for you. It's about doing it in
a way that you encourage them to engage with their
own abilities, and you do that best by being that

(49:18):
leading example.

Speaker 2 (49:19):
Then that's what I feel like where my position in
social media and like being an influencer content creator kind
of shows is like I want to be that person
that pushes girls to live their best life or to
follow a feeling that they have and to like not
let any other people's opinions get in the way of that.
And that's like what my biggest goal is to influence

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young women to be like, follow that feeling that you have,
follow that by the plane ticket and like all of
those things, because I'm like, if you have that sense,
you need to follow it. And like I'm following that
sense and you're seeing me live my best life, so
like you can do that too, And I think that
that's like a massive message I try to portray on line.

Speaker 1 (50:00):
Yeah, that's and that's so beautiful because that really ties
in with what your purpose is. So it's just about
knowing like to so like to really tie it all together,
like really leaning in more to that trust in yourself
that you know, you don't need to rationalize things. You know,
just just feeling happy, knowing that you feel happy about
a decision or that you followed an urge. That's all

(50:23):
you need to know that you're going in the right direction.
And even if that's something someone else introduced you to
or something that you started that you're ready to quit.
Like always asking yourself those questions to tune into your
own inner guidance, like that's you know, that's your version
of like a gut feeling and that will always guide
you in the right direction and help you lean more
into that purpose that as you keep growing as an

(50:44):
influencer and you know in your career, you're going to
be that guiding like for more and more people, and
you'll even see how you do that in your personal
relationships as well. Yeah, very interesting. Yeah, so do you
have any questions from anything?

Speaker 2 (50:57):
How would you say, like even for young girls or
anything like that to find out more about themselves.

Speaker 3 (51:01):
Obviously you just told me about mine.

Speaker 2 (51:04):
Is there a way that girls can find out or
maybe have to reach out to you? Like, what is
something that people can find out about their energy types
and how it can help them in life?

Speaker 1 (51:13):
Yeah? Yeah, so I have. I mean, I have so
much content on my instagram. So my Instagram's at love
my Design with an underscore at the end, and you can,
you know, look for content about your energy type. But first,
actually you'll need to get your human design chart, which
again you can do on my website, which is lovemydesign
dot com. You can get your chart for free and
see like your human design chart, which won't really make

(51:36):
much sense to you and you just look at it
because obviously, like everything I've explained is like deciphering, you know,
a language from a really abstract looking chart. But yeah,
you can definitely look through my content and then otherwise
I do one on one readings, which are definitely what
I would recommend if you want to like really deep
dieve and really understand this, like what we've just done today.

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I have thirty minute or one hour sessions where you
can really understand like what is your what are the
decisions you're making at the moment, or what transitions are
you navigating in your career, You're inner world, your relationships,
and then what is the conditioning that could be stopping
you from making those decisions in the most aligned way
for yourself and like creating opportunities and then really like

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how can you then move forward make the right decisions
for yourself without having that self doubt without looking back.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
It is super beneficial as well just to kind of
know where you kind of sit in the world and
be like, oh, that's why I kind of take that
end of the group or everything like that.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
It's just good to know.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
Yeah, for sure, and then like, because obviously I've said
to you, like you're meant to give yourself a bit
of time to make big decisions. But then there are
people like myself who have like immediately immediate instincts in
the moment, and that's how I'm meant to make big decisions,
Like I'm not meant to wait a second, and if
I'm not present in my body in that moment, then
like I can miss that sense, that whisper that comes
up for me. So we all have. There are eight

(52:55):
different types of authorities, and there are also like five
of the different energy types, Like you're a manifest I'm
a different type called a projector, and then there are
still three others. So just understanding those things, yeah, yourself
is so amazing. Yeah, So definitely like a one or
one reading I would really recommend or the other option
if you're more of someone who likes to kind of

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read things in your own time and like you know,
take your time exploring and doing it wherever you are.
I also have a personalized human Design guidebook which is
literally personalized to your unique chart, and you just put
in your chart on my website, you click, you know,
the buy guidebook button and you can download it right
away and you can just start reading all these things
we've talked about today. You can read those about yourself

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just in your own time.

Speaker 2 (53:38):
So, yeah, maybe I need to do that just to
like remind myself of my journey that I'm on, that
I'm doing the right thing.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
Yeah, it's a great like addition to a reading or
like even as a gift for someone that they can
just you know, it's like like designs really nicely and
then you know, you can just take your time, have
it on your iPad or your phone.

Speaker 2 (53:55):
Yeah, thank you so much Aviva for coming on hotter
than yesterday. If you loved this episode, I definitely recommend
checking out her instagram. I'll have it tagged and everything
in the podcast notes as well on the Instagram, And
maybe you can get your own human Design chart.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
Reading, reading or guidebook.

Speaker 2 (54:12):
Yeah, and Aviva has kindly said that she will give
us a little promo code for the podcast listeners that
you guys can use on her website, So that will
also be in the show notes below and you guys
can use that and find out your own human Design chart.

Speaker 3 (54:28):
Well, thank you so much for joining us.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
I've loved having you on and learning more about myself
and yeah, thank you, so.

Speaker 1 (54:33):
So glad, thank you for having me. It was so
much fun.