November 17, 2025 • 47 mins
Hello girlies! We have a guest this week.. and it's a male.. and it's not producer Blake - it's my dear friend Tay Reid! Tay and I have been friends for years and whilst there has been a lot of discussion about our relationship online, we're here to debunk the rumours, tell you what REALLY happened and get to know the Tay that I know and love!
Let us know if you enjoyed having Tay on and we'll have him back to talk through dating and everything else you want to know.. ily xx
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
She's like, hey, I'm going to throw I go okay,
get it to a little bush.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Yeah, And I was like, I fucked it.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Could have gone to call on his party and instead
I'm sleeping his suitcase on the ground. All right, guys,
welcome to Jesday's episode of Hotter Than Yesterday. I have
a very serious guest on today. It's going to be
very deep, deeper, meaningful conversation.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It's a man. Welcome. Don't say hi yet.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
This man lives in Melbourne. He spends his day working
on the docks as a Steve Dare, a job that
screams extremely tough guy, may I think, but don't be fooled.
Underneath his high vis is a man who cries a
Pixar movies. Once a rockby League prodigy, he moved to
the Gold Coast to join the Melbourne Storm Nurl development squad,
(00:48):
only to realize chasing his dreams is extremely exhausting and
looking hot in photos pays way better. After his appearance
on the show this summer, the man walked out of
a three year relationship and straight into the Love Island
Ville as the first male bomb. There was no time
for therapy for him, absolutely none. Follong his deep spiritual
journey on Love Island, Australia. Super reliable sources of So
(01:09):
Dramatic and influencer updates AU have spotted him with a beautiful, funny,
show stopping kind, charismatic, funny, charming sam Goognomer humble, sparking
dating rumors as the two were seen bringing the air
in the same room.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Tay Reid, Welcome to Hot of Than yesterday.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Well done, that was great.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
You like that?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
That was good GPT really yeah, yeah, yeah, and I
like the part we said. Moving to play for Melbourne
in the Gold Coast. That's okay, that's all right.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Just let's see give me a ray, Let let it go,
let us welcome.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Welcome.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I feel like this is a long time coming.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah. Actually we've spoken about it here and there so.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Well we've been dating for a few years.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Well yeah, well on and off and ongoing.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It has been ongoing. So dramatic. Really love to think
that we're dating.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I mean, two beautiful people. They love. It is what
it is.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
We're giving the people what they want to hear exactly.
How are you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm good, I'm good. I'm busy, but I'm good. I'm good.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
What are you doing well as a steve?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
You know, just loading ships, unloading ships, you know, the
fun stuff. You do so much more than that I do.
I do. Yeah, that's just like that's like my that's
my grounding sort of little little job I do. So
but yeah, obviously doing a lot of my content and
all that stuff now, which is how's that as you
know it's doing really well? Can quite be? I don't know,
(02:35):
it's quite hard sometimes to like people always take the
piss out of like, you know, like even in my industry,
all the old fellows they get around me, but they're like, oh,
like taking photos and whatever. They don't actually understand that
it's a full time job and it as well and I.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Think something making it in Australia as an influencer male.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Is really really good.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yea, it is like you do a really good job
of it because it's not for the week.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
It is hard. It's definitely like we get sort of
boxed into like certain things. I think a lot of
the girls in the industry get like a massive variety
where us guys get like your basic sort of like
you know, cars, fragrances, alcohol.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, and you're quite a niche male you're a bit
of a chatting tatum of Australia.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Let's be real, mate, flirting with me already, get right,
I'll cook tonight. Done mate. No, but I appreciate that.
It's it's sort of been weird to navigate through because
they're going from both of these things completely different. So
you've got the the Steve Adoring is like the tough guy, gritty,
you know, sort of job. It's out in the conditions,
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so it's like it's quite dangerous, whereas like then I
go on and I'm like, oh this can yeah if
you're drinking it.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
But you're not a tough guy. You're such a.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Kind Yeah, I appreciate that. No, my yeah, bit of
I look a certain way, and I think that's sort
of gotten me in a bit of I wouldn't say trouble,
but people perceive me differently until they meet me, So yeah,
until they meet me. Then then they're kind of like, ah, yeah,
he's all right, he's palatable.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Should we tell them all how we actually met, because
I think everyone thinks everyone thinks that we became friends
after Love Island.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
No, No, no, no.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah, it was it was Are you agreeing or disagree?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
No? It was.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
It was we actually went on a date.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yes, it was. Actually it was actually date slash probably
like trauma bonding sort of.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Yeah, I was your therapist.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Yeah, so you're my therapist.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
No.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
So I was actually very fresh out of a quite
I was pressure were you, yes, bro? Well mine was ongoing.
Mine was back and forth and it is what it is.
But like, yeah, I wasn't quite ready to be dating.
But I was like, fuck it. I can swear, well,
fuck it. Hot tip boys girls do. Girls do check
(04:58):
the DMS, doesn't matter how many followers they have. Because
I remember going into the Emericon. I must have been
one night and I must have sat in time. It
was somewhere, and I went up to you and I
like was like hey, Like Morgan knew you, and I
was like, hey, hey, you goinge you?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
So Tay has two friends called Morgan and Kieran. Yes,
and you were with them that night and I was
recently sinkle, so like as you do when you're pressurely
out of a relationship, You're going out every Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
And I knew Kieran and Morgan, so I kind of
saw them and you were in the back.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, And I've come and introduced myself to you, and
I didn't get like a high nice to meet you
or hey. I was like, hey, Tay, you nice to
meet you. And You're like I know who you are,
and I was like you know me, and I'm like
I'm no one here and you're like, yeah, you sid
to my dams. You liked my stories, and I was
like really, I was like awesome, cool, like sweet, more
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nice to me.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
So up front of me, I was like, yeah, you
slid into my dams and liked my story.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I was when you saw it. I was like like obviously,
I'm just like read, yeah, I've noticed. I'm when your
close friends tom so I see. I was probably on
there once one time. Everyone.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
No, you weren't.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Okay, I was that guy look at this loser. No,
but that was funny.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
There were and then you played it off very well.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
I was like whatever, yeah, and you were lovely. We
chatted or something like that, and I kind of like,
mind you, guys. I was really going through it at
the time, like I had been out of a relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Mate was there too, like weird to navigate through.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yeah, old mate was there always, and you were always
like a touchy subject in that relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Why bris were dating the entire time.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Yeah, well apparently, and then I said like something being
like oh, yeah, I like hikes, Like let's go.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
On a hike.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
We're talking about the summit and I was like I
just did you were like yeah, and you were like yeah,
like let's go on a hike down I'm take me hiking.
I'm like, well, I'm not a hiking expert contrary to
hiking in New Zealand on television, but like, let's do it. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
So we actually did.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, so you to me up.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
One day we got a coffee literally peach, not really, oh,
come on, and then we went to what the Thousand
Steps or something? Did a hike that whole time Tay
talked about his ex I'm not even joking.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, I can.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Bully you for this.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Every I was therapy that.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Day, suchy subject. I was going through it and I
was just like I remember leaving that being like yeah,
like don't do.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
That, and it was just like I was the learning lesson.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
It was I think, I think like it like all
that stuff is sort of like putting myself out there again,
and all that stuff was sort of new to me.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
Because I was so like you your last relationship was
quite a long well yeah, it was quite serious too,
even like a short period of time.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So it was just sort of like a like even
I noticed when I would go on dates in public
with people after because you're so used to being with
someone something, I was like looking over my shoulder and like, yeah,
this felt guilty. Felt guilty in a way. I guess
it's just going through the motions of it all. But yeah,
it wasn't really exactly. The hike was good, the hip
was great.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I got a great sandwich after great sandwich, best, one
of the best sandwiches I've ever had. It was good
to it.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
And then with like we always then have been in
each other's lives. After it was kind of just like
I just looked at him. I was like, brodi, it's
a heal yeah, and that's and then next second he
was on Love Island.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Well that was that was healing. Nah.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yeah, I can remember when I found out that you
went on Love Island and.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
I was like, oh yeah, well I did like all
this work on myself, and I got to this point
where I was like finally like all good and like
cleared through everything, and I just felt like really good
obviously about myself and found myself again quote unquote. But
then then that opportunity came around, and I was just like,
I don't know, like it wasn't for me. I feel
like I'm not really like Love Island guy, Like I
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never have really been that sort of guy.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I never would like, out of all the people that
we know mutually, you would have been the last person
I expected exactly on it.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
And everyone sort of said that, and I even I
knew that, and I didn't want to be like portrayed
as that guy from Love Island. That's I'm so much
more than that. And I think it's not in a
way of being like I was better than that. I
just felt like it wasn't really me, even though people
can look at me physically like oh he could be
on a love one, but it''s just not me. Yeah,
That's why I knocked him back twenty times before, I
(09:17):
like literally before they like the producers meant to go overseas.
The next day he called me on the phone. He's like, mate,
I'm banking on you, Like, can you make it happen?
What can we do to make it happen, and we
figured it out and went on. So because you.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Went through quite a few couples, I'm an avid Love Island.
I could never go on the show ever, because I
put in as a contestant.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
If you need a host, let me know, need two hosts.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Yeah, we'd work really, but I could never do the show.
And when I found out that you went on it,
I was like, you were going.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
To be so well perceived. I just thought.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
I was like, I think, yeah, as like you visually
people can kind of think you're a bit of a cunt,
but like.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
In the nicest way possible. Yeah, yeah, all due respect.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Broker heart sort of thing.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, and that's just like the bad boy energy that
you kind of give off, you know, but you are
so kind. And I was like, he's going to do
so well, Like he's going to be perceived so well.
The edit came out and I was like, that is
not tite.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, yeah, it was pretty rough. Even like watching it
back now, it's like it's weird to relive that because like,
not everything you see is what it is, yeah, you know,
and I thought I actually left that show my head
held high, being like you know what, I stay true
to myself, and I was myself.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Yeah, I remember you saying that you like I did
it Like I didn't.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I wasn't worried at all how I'd be perceived. And
then like even watching it back myself, I was like,
who is this guy? Like that's what happened. There was
no context there, That's not how that happened. Like, and
I was being you could tell I was being shaped
to be someone they wanted me, Yeah, to fit the narrative.
And I get it because it is.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
Such a highly produced show.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
And I think that's what people don't really realize is like, yeah, producers,
don't they get in your ear being like, oh, you
should couple up with this person, or you should talk
to this person.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
It's not like so like everyone says the same thing,
is it scripted? Is it really like this? Like it's
not scripted. You'll say, you're saying these words. I said
all those things. There was a few things like I
would go back and change if I could, but a
lot of it wasn't as bad as that deep of
what it was. Yeah, so like they will prompt you
to be like hey you should go chat to them
or hey whatever. And there was a couple of times
I did feel somewhat pressured a couple with certain people. Yeah,
(11:22):
when I wasn't like feeling it or like whatever, but yeah,
like there's so much, Like there's so much it gainst
filmed in a day, crammed into like an hour episode
over like two and a half days. I think it's
per episode. Yeah, and they've got like a couple months
to edit it all, whereas usually it's live, right, Yeah,
you're kind of sitting there like not sure what's going
to happen. And I went from being like the most
loved character for two weeks and I was like okay, cool,
(11:44):
and then I went from like hate this guy like yeah,
fuck him off? Yeah, and I was like whoa, Like
the change was massive, and.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Because also you're going into public at that.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Time, yeah, like you're around like yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
So everything that they're depicting on the screen, they then
can see you out people.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
My TikTok once was just hate of me, and like,
like the funniest thing is is like I see some
of these guys and actually have quite a big like
following and stuff. I comment on someone's video the other day.
It was really funny. I was like miss you, bro,
and he's like he's like, oh, because you said something
about like, oh, you're making Taylor and Zane from last
season look good. And I was like, missy my man like,
but like, no one ever gave me hate in person.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
And people like I've never had a hater and really never.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
And it's like if you take your time out of
your day to give someone hate, even online, it's like
it's more of a reflection of you, like as a person,
I actually feel sorry for people sending like death threats
or like saying like you know, like you're a piece
of shit, like I hope you die. And I'm like
I actually would like and I see they've got like
kids and stuff, and I like, just send them a
message back. I mean like like seek help. I like,
I really think that you need to, like if you're
(12:45):
sent you don't know me at all. You don't know me,
and if you knew me, you wouldn't be saying that.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I'm literally a character on your TV screen at the
moment that happened months ago. It is television is for
entertainment purposes. They're not going to put something live if
it looks bad or if it's boring, No, and they're
going to manipulate things. They're going to do that, and like,
as a viewer, I know that, yeah, And I think
it's also because obviously I'm an influencer. As an influencer
(13:09):
as well, so I meet you guys at these events
and like, yes, I watch you on the screen, but
I'm not going to be like, oh, like it's like no, weird.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah, And like I feel like if you're like mentally
and emotionally mature enough, you can see through that shit,
you know, Like it's so easy to like I've had
nothing but love from people, Like there was there was
a bit where like I'm actually I think I'm pretty
thick skin Like I back myself up. But going through
that was hard. It was hard. It was like I
couldn't even defend myself. Like my family got involved, Like
(13:39):
my sister was trying to defend me at one point,
and then like people were like, oh, this is really
ancestry that you're doing that, and I'm like my sister's
like it's my brother, Like you're calling him a bad
person and saying these horrible things about it. I'm saying, like, hey,
like have some respect. You don't know him, yeah, and
you're saying comments like that, Like people are just so toxic.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
They just want you to buy it.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
That's and that's what they want. And I ended up
telling them like stop because like that's what they want.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Yeah, they're just getting they want someone a reaction and
they can't get it off you because you don't have
your fucking Instagram.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
They seeing they have one, and they're probably the same
people will come up and ask me for a photo
in the street. Yeah, and I'm like, come on, man,
like I'm just a human being. Like everyone, We're all
just like doing our best. Like I don't know, I
just think it's just sad on their behalf. So that's
their life, you know what I mean, Like who cares
if I'm dating someone for three days and we break
up and that's like what that's going to ruin your
(14:31):
like your whole your day, Like like you're serious.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yeah, but you didn't find love in the villa, Sadly, No.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I didn't find love. I found love with a lot.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
I have a lot of beautiful You made a lot
of friends, and I think your season is like one
of the seasons where like a lot of you really
became close. After the show, we saw a lot of
you guys are hanging out, like, and I've met a
lot of.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
The people post show. You guys are all good friends.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Like all of you are like really really good people,
and I love like all of you.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
And that's like an amazing thing.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
That's yeah, because so obviously you can you can attract
those certain types of like those people that like Froth, I.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Was a love iron like yeah, when their whole personality, Yeah,
like the entire personality, whereas I feel like we, like
most majority of us, didn't really have that.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah, and yeah, I we had a lot of really
good friendship. So I'm glad I did it. Like if
I'd go back ten times, and I'll do it every time.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
Really, would you go on another season?
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Well confidential, No, I was actually asked me to come
back this year.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
So well, I'll win. Someone goes on you can't. Can
we say this? I don't know, bleep it out, Blake.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
He does after they asked me. So they did ask me,
and I was like, hmm, but I was also in
the midst of doing it. I was in the final
stages of going on games. So I was like, I
wanted to focus on that opportunity because you know, I
think we've spoken about before that I'd love to get
over to the State of America. Yeah, And I looked
at that. It's like a really good opportunity for myself
(15:55):
out there in US production. And I also just think,
like my wife's elsewhere sides you of course, is she's elsewhere,
She's overseas somewhere fair enough, you know what I mean,
Like I just don't know, like that's where I'm at,
Like I find like I known that'd be a great
way for me to all my stuff out there, get
over there, meet someone.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Yeah, because so Tay and I hung out. We both
went to America in April this year and we hung
out in America.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Were you were cheating on me with Marlon?
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Oh, I fumbled that boy so bad.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I fumbled Malin and then girl.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Apparently that month was like a movie. But like that,
I had one fucking regret in my life about a male.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
It's fumbling Marlon.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
I didn't know who he was when I went on
like his fucking live stream.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Yeah, have you seen what this man looks like?
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Like he is gorgeous, Like honestly, he's made from like God.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
He can do everything. It's like really annoying.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
Because like when I met Marlon, he was like in
a little garage at the back of Nick's house.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
I was like, everyone's like.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Dude, he's so hot.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
He's so hot, And I was like, he can't be
that hot. He was like radiating around him.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Like like or I was so big.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
I've had to block the Marlin name on my TikTok
because it's like so annoying. Like everyone's like everyone was
like I was like, dude, Okay, I met him for
five minutes. I probably should have made more effort after
really fumbled the bag.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Well like yeah, like I guess, like I don't know.
It's so weird in terms of like being interested or
like dating anyone in the scene.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Yeah, I couldn't date.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I couldn't, you know what I mean, Like it'd be
so weird. Like his whole life is that. It's so
sick what he's doing. He's such a g Like he's
really good looking guy, he's got so many things going
for him, but like he puts a lot of work
in Like he's come from Like I was seeing videos
of him like in a storage unit back in Sweden
where he's from. Yeah, and he was like streaming from
there and now he's like by a house, his car,
got to these deals like good on him like a
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stream his whole life.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Yeah, yeah, I could never date him. His constant life
is constantly in a stream. He doesn't have a private life.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Like he's also too good looking available.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
If he's like if he likes you, Like, oh no,
he is too good looking. He's so good looking. Literally,
but like I think like if you date people because
I've like i mean I've seen people in the past
and like you think like you're going to be like
kind of like that's that's like, that's my girl.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
He has to have a small dick.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
No, he's probably hung like a moose too. The fuck
that guy.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
He's probably probably like he's so hot, but a.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
He's probably gonna come out next year and be like
I'm a robot. Yeah, I'm a sim I'm waiting for that.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
But yeah, I really fumbled the bag. But that's what
we caught in America at the same time.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
That was a fun trip. So I will give you
a little story, a little goosy.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
So we caught up actually told anyone, so we called out.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
We had a really fun like we had like like
it will catch up for drinks. We see each other
here and.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
I don't really remember this either. I don't think that.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Yeah, you probably don't remember this, remember me. So we
we went. I went to Barney's and I walked in
and there was karaoke going and as I'm coming in
as like this awful song playing, it was Sam singing
on stage. So Sam singing and there was a bunch
of because it was stagelicious. Yeah it was furglicious. Yeah yeah, yeah,
(19:16):
yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
And she also died, You're going to die when I
was in London. When I was in London just before again,
no I'm but this guy came up to me at
Much and he was like, oh my old Sam.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
I was like, who the fuck is this?
Speaker 3 (19:29):
He goes you were singing Furgolicia as a burglicious in
Barney's in la and I was like ah and he
was like. We spoke for like twenty minutes. I had
no recollection of what I was like that night doesn't exist.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yeah, so like that was pretty early on in the
night and you were gone. So as soon as I
saw you on stage singing, you saw me and you're like,
day you come down, big Cardo, Hello, and I'm like, yeah,
she's drunk. And then I had a couple of friends
with me. We were all dancing. There was a lot
of influences and a lot of like D grade celebrities
getting around me.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Influence a hot spot, but.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Also because like it was stage coach that weekend, so
everyone was in towns, everyone's flown in.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
And Coachella had just been like just finish.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Yeah everyone he goes coach other weekend, one gap coach
other weekend two stage It goes weekend one weekend to
stage coach. Yeah, so like everyone's weekends on brand deals whatever.
So we go to this club after.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
And so Easy and is kind to say we're going
and I was on one. I was like my last
night in La, I'm not going home, like uncle Tay's
got me, and Tay like goes to Easy Yep, it's fine,
like leap yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Yeah, yeah, it goes so badly.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
And then we went to the club and like you
were like, yeah, just on one, and I was like
far out, Like there was a group. There was two
groups of like a bunch of people like I sort
of knew of them are quite popular, like the.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Boys, right, I like go to Tay. I'm like he's
so hot.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Yeah. And then those boys were like sort of it's
very like, very similar vibe to them, so they were
kind of like, oh, you're like Australian brother. I think
one of them was referring to me is my cousin
from It was really funny.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
But girls were like folding at them like it was like, yeah, weird.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
It was something I had never seen before.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
My friend's Daisy and Ellie. I don't know if you
met them. They were there from the UK, yes, and
they were like ripping into them, which was kind of funny.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
Were taller, and I was like, I was with them
and we're all just like bullying them.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
But they're really cool dudes. They're cool guys. But that
night escalated got really fun for me, very hazy for Sammy.
And then she came up to me. She's like I
can't find like my bag, my wallet's been gone or whatever.
She lost her card. She was getting these notifications of
like getting like money spent from her account and I
was like, cancel it, like do this whatever, Like she'd
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go to the bathrooms. At this point, I was so
worried about you that I was like any girls that
I was with, I was like, can you take her
to the bathroom please, because I want to make sure
she gets it. They're like yeah, yeah, they're taking to
the bathrooms whatever. And then the end of the night
came and you were like, hey, I need to go.
I need to go. I'm going to throw up and
I don't throw up. And I was like, okay, I up.
I grabbed her. We went out side, and then it
must have been when the club finish, because we're outside
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out the front and I'm like about to escort her
to a little bush, and then everyone started coming outside
and cameras are out and people are around, so I
was like, I was like, no, come here. I literally
piffer over my shoulder, literally like literally over my shoulder,
like legs dangling. She's there. I'm holding her like this,
walking up the road like thirty forty meters. She's just
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like I was out cold, out cold. And then she's
like she's like, hey, I'm gonna throw I Okay, I
get it to a little bush. She's I'm rubbing her back,
make holding her hair.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Okay, it's okay.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
She's fuck me, but yeah, and then it was funny.
I remember at one point I was holding you up
like hugging you, like you were like passed out waiting
for the Uber. And I think Ellie or Daisy was
like she okay. I'm like, yeah, she's fine. She's like
she doesn't look like I look down. You're just like
I was asleep sleeping.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
I was asleep standing up.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Yeah, I took it. I took you back and got
the uber, took you back to your hotel, went to
the concierge. I'm like, this is my friend, she's staying here.
Can you please sure she gets her room?
Speaker 2 (23:00):
And yeah they didn't.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
They opened up my door. They like obviously like made
sure I got to my door. Say, that was like
my suitcase. I woke up in my suitcase.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
To be fair, quite small. Before we could have curled it,
I did.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
It was like a dog bed.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
It was that Honestly, that night I had never wanted
to get out of.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
La like faster in my life.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
And then I see Tay at the airport the next
day and we were on the same flight home and
I was like, I was trying to sneak you up
into Yeah, but you really looked after me that night.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Of course I made a promise. I said that. Plus
like obviously. You know we're friends, so I'm going.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
To obviously, and I can easily be stolen in those situations.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Plus you're tiny, Like I whipped you over my shoulder,
like it was like the groceries, so like.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
Uh oh, guys, it was so bad like that night actually,
like I fucked it so badly, like so badly.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
It was fun though, I had a really good night.
I ended up at some party.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
You ended up at Rita Or's party.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
No, no, Kilanie, kilanie. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
He was like, yeah, I was a Colonie's like playing. Yeah,
and I was like, I fucked it.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
Could have gone to Colardney's party and instead I'm sleeping
his suitcase on the ground.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Yeah, that was fun. That's out. That's la.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
That is la. I have a question for you, ask away.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
According to the Daily Mail, Love Island star Taylor Reid
enjoys a night with his hall pass nicky Ah. Taylor Reid,
twenty eight, turns head on Saturday night as he stepped
out in Melbourne for a cozy date night with Ozzie
actress Nikki, aged forty four.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, baby loves an older woman.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Don't be jealous, alright, jealousy doesn't look good on you, Sam,
But that's really funny. I was speaking to her about
that not too long ago. So we met there.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
She actually your Hall Pass, like had you said that?
Speaker 1 (24:51):
So she's from the movie Hall Pass and I have
the biggest crush on her from that movie. Do you
know she's like so hot? She's still so hot. It's
great for fort she was she was on Hall Pass,
she like is the hot Australian waitress and then at
the end she like takes her clothes off and I
was like, oh my god, and your young kid. I
was like whoa. Anyways, she pulls up to this event
(25:12):
and sits next to me and was like, Hi, how
are you going. We're talking and I was just like
being me and I was like, hey, can I just
say like you would say something used to I used
to be obsessed with you on when you're on Hall Pass.
And she was like, oh my god, really, I'm like yeah,
And then I like leaned back and I was like
I still learn but I was like just like playing
around and she was like, oh stop, and we just
(25:32):
like were joking, but we actually spoke a lot about
like La and how I wanted to go over and
She's like oh, let me know when you have you're over.
She was lovely, but obviously getting papped everyone saying that
we were together because she put some stories up of
me and vice versa, like I reshared them, like.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
So did you sleep with that?
Speaker 1 (25:46):
No? No twice, no, no, no, no, I I didn't know, no, no.
But daily male likes to they do love to stir
the pot.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
Other rumors have you heard of yourself post love Island?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
To be honest, you hear a lot, but like none
that I really sort of take on. I think one
of the worst ones was that I was a Trump supporter.
That was the worst fucking thing.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
Where did that come from?
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Because I had I borrowed I won't say who's I
bowed someone's hat when I was snowboarding one day and
I was wearing it was just it was literally just
like a duck camo hat. I didn't even say vote Trump.
It was like said Trump and said no bullshit said
on it, and I was like, oh, yeah, cool. I
just wore because it was a cool heart. I didn't
care about the message, and then I didn't and I
didn't realize as well, and then like that was going
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on when I was on the show, and they were
posting it like Taylor's a Trump support. I'm like, dude,
he's a fucking loser, first of all. Second of all,
I don't care about American politics besides, like i'd want
to vote whoever, Like my sister supports she lives in America,
you know. But I was getting all these comments like
he's a racist, he's a Trump's porter. I'm like, first
of all, my brothers, my brother in law is African American,
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my nephew is half African American. Like, I'm not a
racist in anywhere whatsoever. I don't condone that sort of stuff.
I'm like, I definitely don't support Trump. Like it's just
like the power of the Internet. And I couldn't even
defend myself because I didn't have my socials back. I'm like,
this is just crazy. Yeah, but I've heard other like
you know, you hear rooms all the time, like dating things,
like you put one thing up You're like, oh, they're
dating us, for example.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yeah, guys, Like I think a big thing is that
people need to know if you post a story with a.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
Male, you're not dating, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (27:27):
No, Like, if I'm so overtly posting a male on
my story and like there's been no opposite.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah, there's been like no like.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Slow leaks or like what it is soft soft launches
of like me at dinner with a man or something
like that. And I'm randomly just like posting up with
like Tay on my story at the pub.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
I'm not how I'm launching a relationship.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
You're not doing it discreetly. You're more than likely either
one you don't care if people think, and two it's
like that's not the case. Yeah, it's probably the opposite.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Tay and I rage bait you guys like motherfuckers.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Yeah. I always comment on your stuff, will be like
oh miss you baby.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Yeah, it's funny because you guys like always up, yeah,
always eat it up. And it's just like like table
will be like, hey, I'm posting this TikTok of us
like singing to Drake, and it's yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Keep getting likes and like added to face, people keep
going back to that. It's funny.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
But then it's like you're also posted up with like
Mimi the next day, and then EM the next day,
and then it's like everybody else, but it's like say
with me.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
And EM like me and em have like a really
solid friendship. I literally just went to Sitney stayed with her, Like, yeah,
it's totally platonic. We're just like really good friends. People
obviously screamed for us to get back together, but like
we were never meant to be together in that way,
you know, like we just love we love each other
like so much, but just like as friends and it's
just all it is.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
So well, yeah, we'll back.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
Obviously, this whole Trump thing that you had, there was
a clip that we posted from the Just for Girls
thing once about that I would never go on a
date with the Trump supporter.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Obviously because the Internet thought that we were dating.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
Everyone was like, well, you date Tay Reid and you
like associate with Tay Reid and everything because of all
your Trump shit. So it's like so crazy that people
hold you accountable. But like I'm like, I'm not a
Trump supporter. I don't support anyone. And then I voiced
that I'm not a Trump supporter and I wouldn't go
on a date with someone. But everyone's like, well, you
eat your own words because you're on a Yeah, but
you've also then now stated that you're not no a
(29:17):
Trump supporter.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
People think they're eating with like the whole Yeah, like
I caught you out. It's like you're so far away,
and it's like no disrespect, like look the contrary to everything,
like no disrespect anyone who votes for anyone who believes
to anyone. No. But I'm saying like I don't I
don't really care like like you do. You if you
want to vote for someone you like, are so like
(29:38):
into all that stuff, That's cool. I'm not. I don't
really care, like I care for like what's right and
what's wrong whatever, but I don't, like I have my
beliefs and my opinions on things just like anyone else.
Stars But yeah, like I just that's I'm not interested
in that.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
But like everyone thinks they're so smart by catching But it's.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Also like again redit Reddit kills me.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
Oh my god, existence kills me.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
But like it's like everyone thinks, yeah, they're so smart
by outing you being like, oh, well, you said you
wouldn't go on a date with someone who supports Trump,
but then you're eating your own words because you went
on a date with Tay, and Tay posted a photo
of him wearing a Trump hat. But it's like everyone
knows this if everyone's posting it so blatantly online, read
a room and think like everyone's just like I think.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
The three seconds. No, they think they're clever and they're not.
And that's the thing is like it's just people are
so bored. People are so bored and they're trying to
pick anything. People just want to like people just want
to like hate for the sake of it, and it's
really sad. Like again, like that's it. Like when I
was watching My My Thing on Love Island, like towards
the end, like I actually wasn't doing anything wrong in
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the end, like I actually was just like existing, like
there was there was some niceness happening from people and whatever,
and there was really bad tension. Like em and I
like did not like each other in the show at all,
but there were still moments where they didn't really where
like in times where I was struggling with something like
we like she would be like, hey, you're okay, we're
actually laughing about that. The other night, like I went
to bedstad after like Hannah got dumped and I was like,
(31:09):
oh that sucks. I was really bummed, Like I really
wanted to get to know her and she could tell
I was upset, and this is when it was in
the height of like she didn't like me, and she
was like they gave me a cuddle and she's like
you're okay, and like we you know, like they don't
show that stuff. But I just think it's so funny,
like people just love love to hate and like all
the tip toks and and I.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Saying it was like, imagine hating me so much when
you haven't even heard my side. No, So it's like
people will hear one thing with it and absolutely run
with it. And you helped me quite a lot, especially
at the start of the year. I was going through
quite a bit and you had just come off the
show and you obviously like copied a lot of slack
online and you couldn't defend yourself. And I'm like one
to get a little quite a lot of hate, and
(31:50):
like you really helped me with my mindset with that
being like Sam, like, look who you're around, Like you've
got some amazing people, like we all love you, we
all want you here, like because I have this thing
now that I've never wanted, like I've never wanted to
be there, and like I not, this is not a
poor Me show. But like then I like self sabotage
and I'm like, oh, well, all you guys hate me anyway,
and you're like no, Sam, like that's not how it is, Like,
(32:12):
don't listen to what people say about you online, because
look at all of us here, like all of us.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
Want you and your outlook on that is really good.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Yeah. I think that's the best way to be, like
and to sort of guard yourself. Like even a couple
of people that are on the show now, like I'm like,
I've told them the same thing that I would tell you,
like take everything with the grain of salt. Everyone's going
to love you in life in general exactly, and like
it's always that thing. It's like if if you've got
a problem with me, text me or call me, and
if you don't have my number, then you probably don't
(32:40):
have a reason to have a problem with me. Yeah,
So it's kind of like that's how I like to.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
Live it, especially on a show like that where it's
like you're speaking to m that you're or like you're
speaking to me me me means your friend, and then
you're going to speaking to Hannah who you're romantically involved with,
and everything like that every way you change how you
speak to someone, like I'm not going to go tell
you a story that happened to me yesterday the same
way I tell my mom. I'm going to give you
(33:04):
way more detail. I'm going to be a bit more
blase about it with mum. I'm going to be a
bit more structured and kind of probably miss some details.
So it's like on the show, you're changing the way
you speak to everyone based on the relationship that you
have with them, and then they're all just going to
pin it together. Majority of the time, they might not
have the clip of what you're actually saying.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
They overlay it and then put a fucking photo of
the sunset on.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
It, and it's it's like and like the funniest thing
is with that is like you know exactly right, Like
why would I have so let's say, for example, and
would come up and ask me what I'm talking about
to one of the boys about talking about like oh,
like like let's say Chris, Chrissy, Chris is hot, she's
coming yet she's really hot, like blah blah blah. She
comes over, he goes, what are you talking about? I'm
not going to go, oh, just how hot? Chrissy is yeah,
(33:46):
you gotta also like and it can come across as
if I'm lying to where I was saying something like that,
But it's like there's also like that's just like why
would I go and say that, like to someone's like
why would I do that? That would just hurt her? Like
of course it's me televised, so it sucks. Yeah, But
like at the same time, it's like sometimes there is
a little bit where you got to sort of maneuver
those ways, but like editing's so funny. I think I've
told you this is. Like One example I always like
(34:08):
to say is when I was with Alisha at the
start and I dumped her for M and I went
up to her and I wanted to let her down
easy and be like listen, I just wanted to let
you know that I think you're great, but like, you know,
you showcase a lot of qualities. I like in a party,
you're very affectionate, you're very kind, and I like that.
But with M I just loved how, you know, she
(34:28):
is a lot of substance. We really gel. We just
have this like energy between us, like our banter. I
really love that. And then I said, if I can
put those two qualities together, like that's essentially my perfect girl,
because em was lacking in the affection sort of department
as well. And I was like, if I could like
put those together, that'd be my perfect girl. That's what
I said. That was the conversation. What was shown was
(34:51):
if I could put you two together, you'd be my
perfect girl.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
And I was like, brother, yeah, nah.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Done me dirty. But that happened a lot, So like
that's just one example of context there.
Speaker 3 (35:01):
It's just context is a massive thing. And then you
can't go online and then like explain it because.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
Then it because there's no proof. Oh there's no yeah,
well there's no proof. Ye. I could be like, oh
he's lying, so well, well, how's.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Your love life after Love Island? How's dating and navigating dating?
Like then kind of almost being like on a dating
show people kind of how do you go about?
Speaker 1 (35:22):
I think what I was worried about was sort of
being like, oh, he's a Love Island guy, maybe cringe
to something fair mature girls like you know, like I'm
twenty nine, I'm a bit older, so I think like
girls maybe my age or a bit more like emotionally
mature might think that's a bit of off putting, but
like that's why I try and like hold myself. I
don't introduce myself from Taylor from Love Island, you know,
I'll try and hold myself on a higher account of
(35:43):
who I am. So then dating for me has been hard,
like you know, trying to navigate through who's genuine who's not.
You know, like you don't know people like people come
out of the woodworks all of a sudden, You're like, oh,
like why are you trying to talk to me now,
or like whatever. But like I probably have just you know,
just recently sort of gone through a bit of a
split with someone that was probably the closest I've been
to in a relationship. Yeah, and you know, although things
(36:06):
didn't really work out, like it was like nothing malicious.
She's great, like beautiful girl inside and out, but just
sort of things just went working. There was just things
I just wasn't feeling and had to sort of somewhat
put an end to it, which was hard because it's
hard to walk away from something that, like you see
so much potential in. Yeah, but it just sort of
showed me that, like I don't know if I'm really
quite there yet or maybe just things weren't not every
(36:26):
box is being ticked and I'm at the point where
the next person I want to date, I'd love to
settle down and have kids and marry and that's It's not.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Just for a little bit of fun, No, And.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
I'm over that. I'm over the whole like sleeping around
thing like a little bit of fun like because it
just ruins, like your rep and like everyone talks, everyone
knows someone, especially Melbourne, especially Melbourne. So but yeah, it
was actually like I try to look at it as
like a glass half full. It sort of showed me
that I can open up and be vulnerable and have
those feelings again. So that's good. Yeah, it's exciting. So
(36:54):
but I'm just just doing me again in the moment.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
What's the youngest your date?
Speaker 1 (36:58):
How do you for SI?
Speaker 3 (37:03):
What's the youngest and the oldest you date? And explain
your type in case the girls are out there.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
I don't really have a type. I love all shape,
sizes and colors.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
But it was blue?
Speaker 1 (37:16):
You were blue?
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Yeah? What if they were blue?
Speaker 1 (37:18):
I kind of fun with the avataras what are they
called the what are they called the nav I don't know.
Tall blue woman. Anyways, I think that like I obviously
love like I don't really physically have a type as well.
I like a girl who can dress well, takes care
of herself. Yeah, Like obviously we have to have a
(37:38):
little bit in common in terms of like our interests
and stuff. But someone who doesn't take everything too serious,
a bit of fun, a bit of serious, because that's
that's me. I can be serious, but I'm also just
a fucking dork, just a weirdo. So that's I'll make
a secret weirder. It's a lot of people don't know
about me.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
You are a little bit.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
I'm just like, I'm just like a freak, but in
the weirdest way, in the best way. No, But like
I just yeah, somebody who takes care of themself, someoney
dresses well yeah, and youngest, oldest and youngest. No, because
like I've met some girls who are like twenty four
(38:14):
to twenty five, and they're more mature than girls that
I've seen my age or older. So like it doesn't
really I don't.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Know, come on, just give us a little age bracket.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Scares me, Like i'd probably say for me right now,
I'd probably say, like twenty three youngest.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
I wouldn't go because then you think about, like, what,
in the next three years, you probably want to start
having kids. The twenty three year old, Yes, you may
be emotionally mature, but she's twenty three. In the next
three years she wants to start having kids.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
She's only twenty six.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
But I've met girls. I've met girls who have been like, like,
I'll have kids tomorrow. You're like, whoam oh steps back
for me? Please don't it, because like, I don't want
kids right now. If I met the perfect girl and
there's no such thing, like you know what I mean.
But if I met someone and they'll like, you'll have
kids tomorrow'll be like okay, Like I can consider it,
but the same things I want to do. People get
weird when I say, like I want to set it
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down and have kids and get married. I don't want
that tomorrow. I don't want that next year. Oh I
would like that, Like I'm thirty next year, and like
they're they're those like years are like going to be
the best years of my life.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
I think apparently the thirties are the best, yeah, because like.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
You can do everything you wanted to do when you
were twenty, but you have money for it, and like, so.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
Like I'm seven years away from that, I'm seven years
away from mental clarity.
Speaker 2 (39:23):
But do you know what I say?
Speaker 1 (39:24):
Are you trying to tell me that you're twenty three?
That's still like on the cast?
Speaker 2 (39:27):
I am twenty three?
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Well, clearly I do maths. You know, I might be
a rugby boy, but I've got some brain cells. Oh no,
but yeah, and old. I don't know. I probably would
go I'd go like under, I'd go under, like maybe
thirty five. Max.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
I don't see you dating someone older though, No, but
all my older you're a young.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
Soul I am. I like to keep young, but.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
I saw this thing and I think it might help
for you. Tell me, has anybody else felt like twenty
twenty five has been the worst fucking year of their life?
Oh okay, well shut up?
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Does end the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (40:05):
So twenty twenty five, guys, is the year of endings
nine in like astrology world or something like that.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Like I'm not explaining this, definitely correct.
Speaker 3 (40:14):
The nine is the year of ENDINGSKA nine is a
year of endings.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Two plus zero plus two plus.
Speaker 3 (40:20):
Five twenty twenty five equals nine year of endings it's
all coming to an end. So everything, whether your relationships ends,
your friendships have changed, your career is changing. Like, twenty
twenty six is going to be our year, guys, extra
year of endings this year.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
Well, I actually do. I do believe I've had a
lot of good things happen this year, a lot of
great opportunities and stuff like that. But I also feel
like I'm in a stage where like I'm like, do
I start doing content full time? Now's my chance? Like
the universe is like pushing me to do that with
a lot of it, but I'm sort of scared to
take that leap.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
End it all in twenty twenty five. You have two months,
less than six weeks.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
It's going to be like end at all.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Everything's ended for me.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
Let's not end at all with like physically rolling into.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
But yeah, ended all here, guys in twenty twenty five.
Y twenty six is going to be our year. My
voodoo doll is going to stop being shaken. It's happening.
Twenty twenty six is our year.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Yeah. I think everything is like what you what you
what you put into It sounds really lame, but like
my friend also preaches to me recently is like if
you keep thinking and this is something for you, maybe
if you keep thinking that things that negative happening around
you happened. Yeah, And it's not even like you know,
it sounds like all manifesting whatever, if you just look
at things in a different way, being like I used
to look at like I used to look around and
be like, you know, why is this happened to me?
(41:38):
Why did I go through that toxic breakup? Why did
I go through this? Why did that happen to me?
Instead of being like, you know, like that happened for
me and this has come from that, and this is
why I'm at now, Like I look back and I'm like,
thank fuck, yeah, done me a favor, don't mean the
biggest favor in the world. Yeah, And like I don't
wish them. I don't. I don't wish like even my
ex reism what it wish her any harm, but it
wish anything like good luck to her, Like part of
(41:58):
me once upon a time may not be able to
even say that like good luck to her, but she doesn't.
She's not going to gain my forgiveness. It's just a
matter of like I don't wish her any ill intent
because I just want to be positive and I just
want to like move forward. And I catch myself up
sometimes too, where I'm like everything's so overwhelmeding and there's
so much going on and like this is happening and
this is that. But like life's good. Yeah, life's good,
like when you actually stop stressing about like little things
(42:20):
realistically they might sound big in your head, but they're
not that big. Sometimes you need to call someone and
be like, hey, I'm struggling to be like, hey, you.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
Like, yeah, I haven't gone to take that point in
the brain yet.
Speaker 1 (42:28):
Yeah, like the frontal lobe is developing.
Speaker 2 (42:31):
Yeah, I've got two more years for that.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
I think we keep I'm probably still.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Yeah, men develop later than women.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
I don't think I'm ever fully developed.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
Yeah, honestly mine's probably gone.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
But yeah, well you know you can always call me
and chut up. I've always said, I always like I
see things like, hey, are you all good?
Speaker 2 (42:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (42:47):
I always just like because sometimes like that's all it takes,
and like guys don't really do it a lot, and
like I always tom my mates, I love them, always
tell them you're okay. I just feel like, well, it's
just like important, like how like often sometimes you hear
from someone like how are you how are you actually going?
Or like oh, I'm proud of you for doing that,
Like it hits this little thing in your heart you're like,
(43:08):
oh my god. Like guys don't really I mean, like
guys don't really hear that a lot. So I think
it's important.
Speaker 2 (43:14):
For especially men's more spoken about things.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
Yeah, I'm massive on it. I think it's super important.
I think like it's something that doesn't get spoken about
a whole lot. So you see a lot of podcasts
like guys podcasts are you know in the kind of
like we're just like, oh yeah, this chic bro like
talk about real shit, talk about like real stuff, Like.
Speaker 3 (43:36):
You know, maybe we should have you on again to
talk about like real stuff. Maybe you can be like
a uh yeah, you can do like a guy's perspective.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
Maybe we do.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Yeah. I love that. I get I've got a lot
of like girlfriends who are single and like in the
industry and call me like hey need your advice. Yeah,
Like what do I do in this situation? If you're
a guy, Well do you do this? I'm like, well,
I'm also different to like a lot of guys too,
but this is how I would react.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
Maybe they're doing this because maybe we should have you
on that for the next episode.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
Come on, Tommy and I get that with like Lucy
and Nikki was so funny because Tommy is like, oh,
you know, I reckon.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
Tommy Loki gets around more than he leads on.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
He's a ladies man, he's a womanizer.
Speaker 3 (44:13):
And last question Tay opinion. Can guys and girls really
be friends?
Speaker 1 (44:19):
Yes, Yes, there's obviously, like look, you know, I've like
I think I think it's all about like in moderation
in terms of like if there's nothing there, like if
it's like totally platonic, you can't tell anyone who they
can be friends with or can't be friends with. Like
I've had girl girlfriends that like you know, have sort
(44:40):
of maybe somewhat stepped away a little bit, and like
I understand because it's probably for like the respect of
their boyfriend. But it's also like, if nothing's happened between us,
there's no reason for us to be like weird. Yeah,
you know, like and like obviously I think if there's
like if there's a bit of history, whether they've slept
together or there's something there, I will naturally give respect
(45:00):
and pull away a little bit anyway. Yeah, but like
even if I kept that friendship and or if there
was nothing that happened, and you know, like let's say
you had a boyfriend and like I met him and
whatever and he made a fel a certain way, I
would naturally, as a man, make him feel secure that
like there's nothing to worry about it.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Yeah, I was just a navigating thing. And I think
it's always situational.
Speaker 3 (45:21):
Like I'm someone and I don't know this is sounding
like pick me, but I am naturally someone who has
a lot of guy friends.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
I grew up in a book boarding school.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Like you're close with your brothers.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
Yeah, I'm close with my brothers. It's just how it goes.
Speaker 3 (45:35):
So but I completely understand if then one of my
guy friends got a girlfriend. If we're not close, I'm
not going to go to the guy. Why aren't you
talking to me as much anymore? Like why aren't we texting?
Why aren't we catching up? I get that, Like I
can completely understand, like your priorities have changed, and like
you're not going to be as close with your girlfriends
that you were when when you were single.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
The dynamics do change. I'm never got.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
Respect in that live friend, but like you've got to
respect your your number one, which is your personal partner.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
I'm not going to be like, oh it, Taylort's all
go do this and this and this and this when
you've got like a girlfriend that's newly put you in
that position. Yeah, until it's like a dynamic where like
maybe then she might run into us all into a
group setting and then she's like.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
I've got nothing to worry about.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
But like if your friend's going like, oh my boyfriend's
not letting me go out for coffee with this guy
friend anymore, I kin'd of get that, yeah, And.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Like, to be honest with you, I think, like you know,
I think like it's all it is all situational, and
it's all like if you like I would want my
partner to be friends with all of my friends, Yeah,
I think it's so like I think like if you
if like if that's like a massive major like red
flag anyway, if they can't get along with your friends
or there's like there's like a bit of conflict, but like, yeah,
(46:46):
it can be really jarring when you're like you're trying
to navigate through that and there's like a bit of
pressure from both ends when that doesn't need to be obviously.
It just it's up to you really, like like again
to protect. If you're dating someone, they're your priority, so
like you protect them. And if you've been with someone
and you're friends with that person, you can still like
even have that conversation just like hey, like look like
obviously i'm dating blah blah blah. Now like we're very close,
(47:09):
but like I'm gonna have to just like I don't
want you to take a personal but I'm just going
to take a step back a little bit. Yeah, I'd
feel like if someone said that to me, which I've
been in that position multiple times, it's kind of like yeah,
too easy, man, Like all good, like no dramas, do
your things or respect yeaheah, all the best with it,
you know.
Speaker 2 (47:21):
Do you know what the solution is?
Speaker 1 (47:23):
Communicating communication?
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Clark, Well, thank you so.
Speaker 3 (47:29):
Much ty Reef for coming on today's episode. I really
appreciate you coming on and hopefully we'll see you soon
here on the seat.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Don see you guys next Tuesday.
Speaker 1 (47:38):
Love me,
She's like, hey, I'm going to throw I go okay,
get it to a little bush.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Yeah, And I was like, I fucked it.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Could have gone to call on his party and instead
I'm sleeping his suitcase on the ground. All right, guys,
welcome to Jesday's episode of Hotter Than Yesterday. I have
a very serious guest on today. It's going to be
very deep, deeper, meaningful conversation.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It's a man. Welcome. Don't say hi yet.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
This man lives in Melbourne. He spends his day working
on the docks as a Steve Dare, a job that
screams extremely tough guy, may I think, but don't be fooled.
Underneath his high vis is a man who cries a
Pixar movies. Once a rockby League prodigy, he moved to
the Gold Coast to join the Melbourne Storm Nurl development squad,
(00:48):
only to realize chasing his dreams is extremely exhausting and
looking hot in photos pays way better. After his appearance
on the show this summer, the man walked out of
a three year relationship and straight into the Love Island
Ville as the first male bomb. There was no time
for therapy for him, absolutely none. Follong his deep spiritual
journey on Love Island, Australia. Super reliable sources of So
(01:09):
Dramatic and influencer updates AU have spotted him with a beautiful, funny,
show stopping kind, charismatic, funny, charming sam Goognomer humble, sparking
dating rumors as the two were seen bringing the air
in the same room.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Tay Reid, Welcome to Hot of Than yesterday.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Well done, that was great.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
You like that?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
That was good GPT really yeah, yeah, yeah, and I
like the part we said. Moving to play for Melbourne
in the Gold Coast. That's okay, that's all right.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Just let's see give me a ray, Let let it go,
let us welcome.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Welcome.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I feel like this is a long time coming.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah. Actually we've spoken about it here and there so.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Well we've been dating for a few years.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Well yeah, well on and off and ongoing.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It has been ongoing. So dramatic. Really love to think
that we're dating.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I mean, two beautiful people. They love. It is what
it is.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
We're giving the people what they want to hear exactly.
How are you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm good, I'm good. I'm busy, but I'm good. I'm good.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
What are you doing well as a steve?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
You know, just loading ships, unloading ships, you know, the
fun stuff. You do so much more than that I do.
I do. Yeah, that's just like that's like my that's
my grounding sort of little little job I do. So
but yeah, obviously doing a lot of my content and
all that stuff now, which is how's that as you
know it's doing really well? Can quite be? I don't know,
(02:35):
it's quite hard sometimes to like people always take the
piss out of like, you know, like even in my industry,
all the old fellows they get around me, but they're like, oh,
like taking photos and whatever. They don't actually understand that
it's a full time job and it as well and I.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Think something making it in Australia as an influencer male.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Is really really good.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yea, it is like you do a really good job
of it because it's not for the week.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
It is hard. It's definitely like we get sort of
boxed into like certain things. I think a lot of
the girls in the industry get like a massive variety
where us guys get like your basic sort of like
you know, cars, fragrances, alcohol.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, and you're quite a niche male you're a bit
of a chatting tatum of Australia.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Let's be real, mate, flirting with me already, get right,
I'll cook tonight. Done mate. No, but I appreciate that.
It's it's sort of been weird to navigate through because
they're going from both of these things completely different. So
you've got the the Steve Adoring is like the tough guy, gritty,
you know, sort of job. It's out in the conditions,
(03:40):
so it's like it's quite dangerous, whereas like then I
go on and I'm like, oh this can yeah if
you're drinking it.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
But you're not a tough guy. You're such a.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Kind Yeah, I appreciate that. No, my yeah, bit of
I look a certain way, and I think that's sort
of gotten me in a bit of I wouldn't say trouble,
but people perceive me differently until they meet me, So yeah,
until they meet me. Then then they're kind of like, ah, yeah,
he's all right, he's palatable.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Should we tell them all how we actually met, because
I think everyone thinks everyone thinks that we became friends
after Love Island.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
No, No, no, no.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah, it was it was Are you agreeing or disagree?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
No? It was.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
It was we actually went on a date.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yes, it was. Actually it was actually date slash probably
like trauma bonding sort of.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Yeah, I was your therapist.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Yeah, so you're my therapist.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
No.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
So I was actually very fresh out of a quite
I was pressure were you, yes, bro? Well mine was ongoing.
Mine was back and forth and it is what it is.
But like, yeah, I wasn't quite ready to be dating.
But I was like, fuck it. I can swear, well,
fuck it. Hot tip boys girls do. Girls do check
(04:58):
the DMS, doesn't matter how many followers they have. Because
I remember going into the Emericon. I must have been
one night and I must have sat in time. It
was somewhere, and I went up to you and I
like was like hey, Like Morgan knew you, and I
was like, hey, hey, you goinge you?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
So Tay has two friends called Morgan and Kieran. Yes,
and you were with them that night and I was
recently sinkle, so like as you do when you're pressurely
out of a relationship, You're going out every Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
And I knew Kieran and Morgan, so I kind of
saw them and you were in the back.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, And I've come and introduced myself to you, and
I didn't get like a high nice to meet you
or hey. I was like, hey, Tay, you nice to
meet you. And You're like I know who you are,
and I was like you know me, and I'm like
I'm no one here and you're like, yeah, you sid
to my dams. You liked my stories, and I was
like really, I was like awesome, cool, like sweet, more
(05:54):
nice to me.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
So up front of me, I was like, yeah, you
slid into my dams and liked my story.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I was when you saw it. I was like like obviously,
I'm just like read, yeah, I've noticed. I'm when your
close friends tom so I see. I was probably on
there once one time. Everyone.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
No, you weren't.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Okay, I was that guy look at this loser. No,
but that was funny.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
There were and then you played it off very well.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
I was like whatever, yeah, and you were lovely. We
chatted or something like that, and I kind of like,
mind you, guys. I was really going through it at
the time, like I had been out of a relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Mate was there too, like weird to navigate through.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yeah, old mate was there always, and you were always
like a touchy subject in that relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Why bris were dating the entire time.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Yeah, well apparently, and then I said like something being
like oh, yeah, I like hikes, Like let's go.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
On a hike.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
We're talking about the summit and I was like I
just did you were like yeah, and you were like yeah,
like let's go on a hike down I'm take me hiking.
I'm like, well, I'm not a hiking expert contrary to
hiking in New Zealand on television, but like, let's do it. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
So we actually did.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, so you to me up.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
One day we got a coffee literally peach, not really, oh,
come on, and then we went to what the Thousand
Steps or something? Did a hike that whole time Tay
talked about his ex I'm not even joking.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, I can.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Bully you for this.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Every I was therapy that.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Day, suchy subject. I was going through it and I
was just like I remember leaving that being like yeah,
like don't do.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
That, and it was just like I was the learning lesson.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
It was I think, I think like it like all
that stuff is sort of like putting myself out there again,
and all that stuff was sort of new to me.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
Because I was so like you your last relationship was
quite a long well yeah, it was quite serious too,
even like a short period of time.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So it was just sort of like a like even
I noticed when I would go on dates in public
with people after because you're so used to being with
someone something, I was like looking over my shoulder and like, yeah,
this felt guilty. Felt guilty in a way. I guess
it's just going through the motions of it all. But yeah,
it wasn't really exactly. The hike was good, the hip
was great.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I got a great sandwich after great sandwich, best, one
of the best sandwiches I've ever had. It was good
to it.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
And then with like we always then have been in
each other's lives. After it was kind of just like
I just looked at him. I was like, brodi, it's
a heal yeah, and that's and then next second he
was on Love Island.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Well that was that was healing. Nah.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yeah, I can remember when I found out that you
went on Love Island and.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
I was like, oh yeah, well I did like all
this work on myself, and I got to this point
where I was like finally like all good and like
cleared through everything, and I just felt like really good
obviously about myself and found myself again quote unquote. But
then then that opportunity came around, and I was just like,
I don't know, like it wasn't for me. I feel
like I'm not really like Love Island guy, Like I
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never have really been that sort of guy.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I never would like, out of all the people that
we know mutually, you would have been the last person
I expected exactly on it.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
And everyone sort of said that, and I even I
knew that, and I didn't want to be like portrayed
as that guy from Love Island. That's I'm so much
more than that. And I think it's not in a
way of being like I was better than that. I
just felt like it wasn't really me, even though people
can look at me physically like oh he could be
on a love one, but it''s just not me. Yeah,
That's why I knocked him back twenty times before, I
(09:17):
like literally before they like the producers meant to go overseas.
The next day he called me on the phone. He's like, mate,
I'm banking on you, Like, can you make it happen?
What can we do to make it happen, and we
figured it out and went on. So because you.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Went through quite a few couples, I'm an avid Love Island.
I could never go on the show ever, because I
put in as a contestant.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
If you need a host, let me know, need two hosts.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Yeah, we'd work really, but I could never do the show.
And when I found out that you went on it,
I was like, you were going.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
To be so well perceived. I just thought.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
I was like, I think, yeah, as like you visually
people can kind of think you're a bit of a cunt,
but like.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
In the nicest way possible. Yeah, yeah, all due respect.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Broker heart sort of thing.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, and that's just like the bad boy energy that
you kind of give off, you know, but you are
so kind. And I was like, he's going to do
so well, Like he's going to be perceived so well.
The edit came out and I was like, that is
not tite.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, yeah, it was pretty rough. Even like watching it
back now, it's like it's weird to relive that because like,
not everything you see is what it is, yeah, you know,
and I thought I actually left that show my head
held high, being like you know what, I stay true
to myself, and I was myself.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Yeah, I remember you saying that you like I did
it Like I didn't.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I wasn't worried at all how I'd be perceived. And
then like even watching it back myself, I was like,
who is this guy? Like that's what happened. There was
no context there, That's not how that happened. Like, and
I was being you could tell I was being shaped
to be someone they wanted me, Yeah, to fit the narrative.
And I get it because it is.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
Such a highly produced show.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
And I think that's what people don't really realize is like, yeah, producers,
don't they get in your ear being like, oh, you
should couple up with this person, or you should talk
to this person.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
It's not like so like everyone says the same thing,
is it scripted? Is it really like this? Like it's
not scripted. You'll say, you're saying these words. I said
all those things. There was a few things like I
would go back and change if I could, but a
lot of it wasn't as bad as that deep of
what it was. Yeah, so like they will prompt you
to be like hey you should go chat to them
or hey whatever. And there was a couple of times
I did feel somewhat pressured a couple with certain people. Yeah,
(11:22):
when I wasn't like feeling it or like whatever, but yeah,
like there's so much, Like there's so much it gainst
filmed in a day, crammed into like an hour episode
over like two and a half days. I think it's
per episode. Yeah, and they've got like a couple months
to edit it all, whereas usually it's live, right, Yeah,
you're kind of sitting there like not sure what's going
to happen. And I went from being like the most
loved character for two weeks and I was like okay, cool,
(11:44):
and then I went from like hate this guy like yeah,
fuck him off? Yeah, and I was like whoa, Like
the change was massive, and.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Because also you're going into public at that.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Time, yeah, like you're around like yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
So everything that they're depicting on the screen, they then
can see you out people.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
My TikTok once was just hate of me, and like,
like the funniest thing is is like I see some
of these guys and actually have quite a big like
following and stuff. I comment on someone's video the other day.
It was really funny. I was like miss you, bro,
and he's like he's like, oh, because you said something
about like, oh, you're making Taylor and Zane from last
season look good. And I was like, missy my man like,
but like, no one ever gave me hate in person.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
And people like I've never had a hater and really never.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
And it's like if you take your time out of
your day to give someone hate, even online, it's like
it's more of a reflection of you, like as a person,
I actually feel sorry for people sending like death threats
or like saying like you know, like you're a piece
of shit, like I hope you die. And I'm like
I actually would like and I see they've got like
kids and stuff, and I like, just send them a
message back. I mean like like seek help. I like,
I really think that you need to, like if you're
(12:45):
sent you don't know me at all. You don't know me,
and if you knew me, you wouldn't be saying that.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I'm literally a character on your TV screen at the
moment that happened months ago. It is television is for
entertainment purposes. They're not going to put something live if
it looks bad or if it's boring, No, and they're
going to manipulate things. They're going to do that, and like,
as a viewer, I know that, yeah, And I think
it's also because obviously I'm an influencer. As an influencer
(13:09):
as well, so I meet you guys at these events
and like, yes, I watch you on the screen, but
I'm not going to be like, oh, like it's like no, weird.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah, And like I feel like if you're like mentally
and emotionally mature enough, you can see through that shit,
you know, Like it's so easy to like I've had
nothing but love from people, Like there was there was
a bit where like I'm actually I think I'm pretty
thick skin Like I back myself up. But going through
that was hard. It was hard. It was like I
couldn't even defend myself. Like my family got involved, Like
(13:39):
my sister was trying to defend me at one point,
and then like people were like, oh, this is really
ancestry that you're doing that, and I'm like my sister's
like it's my brother, Like you're calling him a bad
person and saying these horrible things about it. I'm saying, like, hey,
like have some respect. You don't know him, yeah, and
you're saying comments like that, Like people are just so toxic.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
They just want you to buy it.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
That's and that's what they want. And I ended up
telling them like stop because like that's what they want.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Yeah, they're just getting they want someone a reaction and
they can't get it off you because you don't have
your fucking Instagram.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
They seeing they have one, and they're probably the same
people will come up and ask me for a photo
in the street. Yeah, and I'm like, come on, man,
like I'm just a human being. Like everyone, We're all
just like doing our best. Like I don't know, I
just think it's just sad on their behalf. So that's
their life, you know what I mean, Like who cares
if I'm dating someone for three days and we break
up and that's like what that's going to ruin your
(14:31):
like your whole your day, Like like you're serious.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yeah, but you didn't find love in the villa, Sadly, No.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I didn't find love. I found love with a lot.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
I have a lot of beautiful You made a lot
of friends, and I think your season is like one
of the seasons where like a lot of you really
became close. After the show, we saw a lot of
you guys are hanging out, like, and I've met a
lot of.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
The people post show. You guys are all good friends.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Like all of you are like really really good people,
and I love like all of you.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
And that's like an amazing thing.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
That's yeah, because so obviously you can you can attract
those certain types of like those people that like Froth, I.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Was a love iron like yeah, when their whole personality, Yeah,
like the entire personality, whereas I feel like we, like
most majority of us, didn't really have that.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah, and yeah, I we had a lot of really
good friendship. So I'm glad I did it. Like if
I'd go back ten times, and I'll do it every time.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
Really, would you go on another season?
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Well confidential, No, I was actually asked me to come
back this year.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
So well, I'll win. Someone goes on you can't. Can
we say this? I don't know, bleep it out, Blake.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
He does after they asked me. So they did ask me,
and I was like, hmm, but I was also in
the midst of doing it. I was in the final
stages of going on games. So I was like, I
wanted to focus on that opportunity because you know, I
think we've spoken about before that I'd love to get
over to the State of America. Yeah, And I looked
at that. It's like a really good opportunity for myself
(15:55):
out there in US production. And I also just think,
like my wife's elsewhere sides you of course, is she's elsewhere,
She's overseas somewhere fair enough, you know what I mean,
Like I just don't know, like that's where I'm at,
Like I find like I known that'd be a great
way for me to all my stuff out there, get
over there, meet someone.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Yeah, because so Tay and I hung out. We both
went to America in April this year and we hung
out in America.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Were you were cheating on me with Marlon?
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Oh, I fumbled that boy so bad.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I fumbled Malin and then girl.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Apparently that month was like a movie. But like that,
I had one fucking regret in my life about a male.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
It's fumbling Marlon.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
I didn't know who he was when I went on
like his fucking live stream.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Yeah, have you seen what this man looks like?
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Like he is gorgeous, Like honestly, he's made from like God.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
He can do everything. It's like really annoying.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
Because like when I met Marlon, he was like in
a little garage at the back of Nick's house.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
I was like, everyone's like.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Dude, he's so hot.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
He's so hot, And I was like, he can't be
that hot. He was like radiating around him.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Like like or I was so big.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
I've had to block the Marlin name on my TikTok
because it's like so annoying. Like everyone's like everyone was
like I was like, dude, Okay, I met him for
five minutes. I probably should have made more effort after
really fumbled the bag.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Well like yeah, like I guess, like I don't know.
It's so weird in terms of like being interested or
like dating anyone in the scene.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Yeah, I couldn't date.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I couldn't, you know what I mean, Like it'd be
so weird. Like his whole life is that. It's so
sick what he's doing. He's such a g Like he's
really good looking guy, he's got so many things going
for him, but like he puts a lot of work
in Like he's come from Like I was seeing videos
of him like in a storage unit back in Sweden
where he's from. Yeah, and he was like streaming from
there and now he's like by a house, his car,
got to these deals like good on him like a
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stream his whole life.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Yeah, yeah, I could never date him. His constant life
is constantly in a stream. He doesn't have a private life.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Like he's also too good looking available.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
If he's like if he likes you, Like, oh no,
he is too good looking. He's so good looking. Literally,
but like I think like if you date people because
I've like i mean I've seen people in the past
and like you think like you're going to be like
kind of like that's that's like, that's my girl.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
He has to have a small dick.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
No, he's probably hung like a moose too. The fuck
that guy.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
He's probably probably like he's so hot, but a.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
He's probably gonna come out next year and be like
I'm a robot. Yeah, I'm a sim I'm waiting for that.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
But yeah, I really fumbled the bag. But that's what
we caught in America at the same time.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
That was a fun trip. So I will give you
a little story, a little goosy.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
So we caught up actually told anyone, so we called out.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
We had a really fun like we had like like
it will catch up for drinks. We see each other
here and.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
I don't really remember this either. I don't think that.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Yeah, you probably don't remember this, remember me. So we
we went. I went to Barney's and I walked in
and there was karaoke going and as I'm coming in
as like this awful song playing, it was Sam singing
on stage. So Sam singing and there was a bunch
of because it was stagelicious. Yeah it was furglicious. Yeah yeah, yeah,
(19:16):
yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
And she also died, You're going to die when I
was in London. When I was in London just before again,
no I'm but this guy came up to me at
Much and he was like, oh my old Sam.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
I was like, who the fuck is this?
Speaker 3 (19:29):
He goes you were singing Furgolicia as a burglicious in
Barney's in la and I was like ah and he
was like. We spoke for like twenty minutes. I had
no recollection of what I was like that night doesn't exist.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yeah, so like that was pretty early on in the
night and you were gone. So as soon as I
saw you on stage singing, you saw me and you're like,
day you come down, big Cardo, Hello, and I'm like, yeah,
she's drunk. And then I had a couple of friends
with me. We were all dancing. There was a lot
of influences and a lot of like D grade celebrities
getting around me.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Influence a hot spot, but.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Also because like it was stage coach that weekend, so
everyone was in towns, everyone's flown in.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
And Coachella had just been like just finish.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Yeah everyone he goes coach other weekend, one gap coach
other weekend two stage It goes weekend one weekend to
stage coach. Yeah, so like everyone's weekends on brand deals whatever.
So we go to this club after.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
And so Easy and is kind to say we're going
and I was on one. I was like my last
night in La, I'm not going home, like uncle Tay's
got me, and Tay like goes to Easy Yep, it's fine,
like leap yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Yeah, yeah, it goes so badly.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
And then we went to the club and like you
were like, yeah, just on one, and I was like
far out, Like there was a group. There was two
groups of like a bunch of people like I sort
of knew of them are quite popular, like the.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Boys, right, I like go to Tay. I'm like he's
so hot.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Yeah. And then those boys were like sort of it's
very like, very similar vibe to them, so they were
kind of like, oh, you're like Australian brother. I think
one of them was referring to me is my cousin
from It was really funny.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
But girls were like folding at them like it was like, yeah, weird.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
It was something I had never seen before.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
My friend's Daisy and Ellie. I don't know if you
met them. They were there from the UK, yes, and
they were like ripping into them, which was kind of funny.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
Were taller, and I was like, I was with them
and we're all just like bullying them.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
But they're really cool dudes. They're cool guys. But that
night escalated got really fun for me, very hazy for Sammy.
And then she came up to me. She's like I
can't find like my bag, my wallet's been gone or whatever.
She lost her card. She was getting these notifications of
like getting like money spent from her account and I
was like, cancel it, like do this whatever, Like she'd
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go to the bathrooms. At this point, I was so
worried about you that I was like any girls that
I was with, I was like, can you take her
to the bathroom please, because I want to make sure
she gets it. They're like yeah, yeah, they're taking to
the bathrooms whatever. And then the end of the night
came and you were like, hey, I need to go.
I need to go. I'm going to throw up and
I don't throw up. And I was like, okay, I up.
I grabbed her. We went out side, and then it
must have been when the club finish, because we're outside
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out the front and I'm like about to escort her
to a little bush, and then everyone started coming outside
and cameras are out and people are around, so I
was like, I was like, no, come here. I literally
piffer over my shoulder, literally like literally over my shoulder,
like legs dangling. She's there. I'm holding her like this,
walking up the road like thirty forty meters. She's just
(22:25):
like I was out cold, out cold. And then she's
like she's like, hey, I'm gonna throw I Okay, I
get it to a little bush. She's I'm rubbing her back,
make holding her hair.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Okay, it's okay.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
She's fuck me, but yeah, and then it was funny.
I remember at one point I was holding you up
like hugging you, like you were like passed out waiting
for the Uber. And I think Ellie or Daisy was
like she okay. I'm like, yeah, she's fine. She's like
she doesn't look like I look down. You're just like
I was asleep sleeping.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
I was asleep standing up.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Yeah, I took it. I took you back and got
the uber, took you back to your hotel, went to
the concierge. I'm like, this is my friend, she's staying here.
Can you please sure she gets her room?
Speaker 2 (23:00):
And yeah they didn't.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
They opened up my door. They like obviously like made
sure I got to my door. Say, that was like
my suitcase. I woke up in my suitcase.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
To be fair, quite small. Before we could have curled it,
I did.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
It was like a dog bed.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
It was that Honestly, that night I had never wanted
to get out of.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
La like faster in my life.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
And then I see Tay at the airport the next
day and we were on the same flight home and
I was like, I was trying to sneak you up
into Yeah, but you really looked after me that night.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Of course I made a promise. I said that. Plus
like obviously. You know we're friends, so I'm going.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
To obviously, and I can easily be stolen in those situations.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Plus you're tiny, Like I whipped you over my shoulder,
like it was like the groceries, so like.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
Uh oh, guys, it was so bad like that night actually,
like I fucked it so badly, like so badly.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
It was fun though, I had a really good night.
I ended up at some party.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
You ended up at Rita Or's party.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
No, no, Kilanie, kilanie. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
He was like, yeah, I was a Colonie's like playing. Yeah,
and I was like, I fucked it.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
Could have gone to Colardney's party and instead I'm sleeping
his suitcase on the ground.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Yeah, that was fun. That's out. That's la.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
That is la. I have a question for you, ask away.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
According to the Daily Mail, Love Island star Taylor Reid
enjoys a night with his hall pass nicky Ah. Taylor Reid,
twenty eight, turns head on Saturday night as he stepped
out in Melbourne for a cozy date night with Ozzie
actress Nikki, aged forty four.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, baby loves an older woman.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Don't be jealous, alright, jealousy doesn't look good on you, Sam,
But that's really funny. I was speaking to her about
that not too long ago. So we met there.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
She actually your Hall Pass, like had you said that?
Speaker 1 (24:51):
So she's from the movie Hall Pass and I have
the biggest crush on her from that movie. Do you
know she's like so hot? She's still so hot. It's
great for fort she was she was on Hall Pass,
she like is the hot Australian waitress and then at
the end she like takes her clothes off and I
was like, oh my god, and your young kid. I
was like whoa. Anyways, she pulls up to this event
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and sits next to me and was like, Hi, how
are you going. We're talking and I was just like
being me and I was like, hey, can I just
say like you would say something used to I used
to be obsessed with you on when you're on Hall Pass.
And she was like, oh my god, really, I'm like yeah,
And then I like leaned back and I was like
I still learn but I was like just like playing
around and she was like, oh stop, and we just
(25:32):
like were joking, but we actually spoke a lot about
like La and how I wanted to go over and
She's like oh, let me know when you have you're over.
She was lovely, but obviously getting papped everyone saying that
we were together because she put some stories up of
me and vice versa, like I reshared them, like.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
So did you sleep with that?
Speaker 1 (25:46):
No? No twice, no, no, no, no, I I didn't know, no, no.
But daily male likes to they do love to stir
the pot.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
Other rumors have you heard of yourself post love Island?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
To be honest, you hear a lot, but like none
that I really sort of take on. I think one
of the worst ones was that I was a Trump supporter.
That was the worst fucking thing.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
Where did that come from?
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Because I had I borrowed I won't say who's I
bowed someone's hat when I was snowboarding one day and
I was wearing it was just it was literally just
like a duck camo hat. I didn't even say vote Trump.
It was like said Trump and said no bullshit said
on it, and I was like, oh, yeah, cool. I
just wore because it was a cool heart. I didn't
care about the message, and then I didn't and I
didn't realize as well, and then like that was going
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on when I was on the show, and they were
posting it like Taylor's a Trump support. I'm like, dude,
he's a fucking loser, first of all. Second of all,
I don't care about American politics besides, like i'd want
to vote whoever, Like my sister supports she lives in America,
you know. But I was getting all these comments like
he's a racist, he's a Trump's porter. I'm like, first
of all, my brothers, my brother in law is African American,
(26:56):
my nephew is half African American. Like, I'm not a
racist in anywhere whatsoever. I don't condone that sort of stuff.
I'm like, I definitely don't support Trump. Like it's just
like the power of the Internet. And I couldn't even
defend myself because I didn't have my socials back. I'm like,
this is just crazy. Yeah, but I've heard other like
you know, you hear rooms all the time, like dating things,
like you put one thing up You're like, oh, they're
dating us, for example.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yeah, guys, Like I think a big thing is that
people need to know if you post a story with a.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
Male, you're not dating, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (27:27):
No, Like, if I'm so overtly posting a male on
my story and like there's been no opposite.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah, there's been like no like.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Slow leaks or like what it is soft soft launches
of like me at dinner with a man or something
like that. And I'm randomly just like posting up with
like Tay on my story at the pub.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
I'm not how I'm launching a relationship.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
You're not doing it discreetly. You're more than likely either
one you don't care if people think, and two it's
like that's not the case. Yeah, it's probably the opposite.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Tay and I rage bait you guys like motherfuckers.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Yeah. I always comment on your stuff, will be like
oh miss you baby.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Yeah, it's funny because you guys like always up, yeah,
always eat it up. And it's just like like table
will be like, hey, I'm posting this TikTok of us
like singing to Drake, and it's yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Keep getting likes and like added to face, people keep
going back to that. It's funny.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
But then it's like you're also posted up with like
Mimi the next day, and then EM the next day,
and then it's like everybody else, but it's like say
with me.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
And EM like me and em have like a really
solid friendship. I literally just went to Sitney stayed with her, Like, yeah,
it's totally platonic. We're just like really good friends. People
obviously screamed for us to get back together, but like
we were never meant to be together in that way,
you know, like we just love we love each other
like so much, but just like as friends and it's
just all it is.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
So well, yeah, we'll back.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
Obviously, this whole Trump thing that you had, there was
a clip that we posted from the Just for Girls
thing once about that I would never go on a
date with the Trump supporter.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Obviously because the Internet thought that we were dating.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
Everyone was like, well, you date Tay Reid and you
like associate with Tay Reid and everything because of all
your Trump shit. So it's like so crazy that people
hold you accountable. But like I'm like, I'm not a
Trump supporter. I don't support anyone. And then I voiced
that I'm not a Trump supporter and I wouldn't go
on a date with someone. But everyone's like, well, you
eat your own words because you're on a Yeah, but
you've also then now stated that you're not no a
(29:17):
Trump supporter.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
People think they're eating with like the whole Yeah, like
I caught you out. It's like you're so far away,
and it's like no disrespect, like look the contrary to everything,
like no disrespect anyone who votes for anyone who believes
to anyone. No. But I'm saying like I don't I
don't really care like like you do. You if you
want to vote for someone you like, are so like
(29:38):
into all that stuff, That's cool. I'm not. I don't
really care, like I care for like what's right and
what's wrong whatever, but I don't, like I have my
beliefs and my opinions on things just like anyone else.
Stars But yeah, like I just that's I'm not interested
in that.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
But like everyone thinks they're so smart by catching But it's.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Also like again redit Reddit kills me.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
Oh my god, existence kills me.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
But like it's like everyone thinks, yeah, they're so smart
by outing you being like, oh, well, you said you
wouldn't go on a date with someone who supports Trump,
but then you're eating your own words because you went
on a date with Tay, and Tay posted a photo
of him wearing a Trump hat. But it's like everyone
knows this if everyone's posting it so blatantly online, read
a room and think like everyone's just like I think.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
The three seconds. No, they think they're clever and they're not.
And that's the thing is like it's just people are
so bored. People are so bored and they're trying to
pick anything. People just want to like people just want
to like hate for the sake of it, and it's
really sad. Like again, like that's it. Like when I
was watching My My Thing on Love Island, like towards
the end, like I actually wasn't doing anything wrong in
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the end, like I actually was just like existing, like
there was there was some niceness happening from people and whatever,
and there was really bad tension. Like em and I
like did not like each other in the show at all,
but there were still moments where they didn't really where
like in times where I was struggling with something like
we like she would be like, hey, you're okay, we're
actually laughing about that. The other night, like I went
to bedstad after like Hannah got dumped and I was like,
(31:09):
oh that sucks. I was really bummed, Like I really
wanted to get to know her and she could tell
I was upset, and this is when it was in
the height of like she didn't like me, and she
was like they gave me a cuddle and she's like
you're okay, and like we you know, like they don't
show that stuff. But I just think it's so funny,
like people just love love to hate and like all
the tip toks and and I.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Saying it was like, imagine hating me so much when
you haven't even heard my side. No, So it's like
people will hear one thing with it and absolutely run
with it. And you helped me quite a lot, especially
at the start of the year. I was going through
quite a bit and you had just come off the
show and you obviously like copied a lot of slack
online and you couldn't defend yourself. And I'm like one
to get a little quite a lot of hate, and
(31:50):
like you really helped me with my mindset with that
being like Sam, like, look who you're around, Like you've
got some amazing people, like we all love you, we
all want you here, like because I have this thing
now that I've never wanted, like I've never wanted to
be there, and like I not, this is not a
poor Me show. But like then I like self sabotage
and I'm like, oh, well, all you guys hate me anyway,
and you're like no, Sam, like that's not how it is, Like,
(32:12):
don't listen to what people say about you online, because
look at all of us here, like all of us.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
Want you and your outlook on that is really good.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Yeah. I think that's the best way to be, like
and to sort of guard yourself. Like even a couple
of people that are on the show now, like I'm like,
I've told them the same thing that I would tell you,
like take everything with the grain of salt. Everyone's going
to love you in life in general exactly, and like
it's always that thing. It's like if if you've got
a problem with me, text me or call me, and
if you don't have my number, then you probably don't
(32:40):
have a reason to have a problem with me. Yeah,
So it's kind of like that's how I like to.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
Live it, especially on a show like that where it's
like you're speaking to m that you're or like you're
speaking to me me me means your friend, and then
you're going to speaking to Hannah who you're romantically involved with,
and everything like that every way you change how you
speak to someone, like I'm not going to go tell
you a story that happened to me yesterday the same
way I tell my mom. I'm going to give you
(33:04):
way more detail. I'm going to be a bit more
blase about it with mum. I'm going to be a
bit more structured and kind of probably miss some details.
So it's like on the show, you're changing the way
you speak to everyone based on the relationship that you
have with them, and then they're all just going to
pin it together. Majority of the time, they might not
have the clip of what you're actually saying.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
They overlay it and then put a fucking photo of
the sunset on.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
It, and it's it's like and like the funniest thing
is with that is like you know exactly right, Like
why would I have so let's say, for example, and
would come up and ask me what I'm talking about
to one of the boys about talking about like oh,
like like let's say Chris, Chrissy, Chris is hot, she's
coming yet she's really hot, like blah blah blah. She
comes over, he goes, what are you talking about? I'm
not going to go, oh, just how hot? Chrissy is yeah,
(33:46):
you gotta also like and it can come across as
if I'm lying to where I was saying something like that,
But it's like there's also like that's just like why
would I go and say that, like to someone's like
why would I do that? That would just hurt her? Like
of course it's me televised, so it sucks. Yeah, But
like at the same time, it's like sometimes there is
a little bit where you got to sort of maneuver
those ways, but like editing's so funny. I think I've
told you this is. Like One example I always like
(34:08):
to say is when I was with Alisha at the
start and I dumped her for M and I went
up to her and I wanted to let her down
easy and be like listen, I just wanted to let
you know that I think you're great, but like, you know,
you showcase a lot of qualities. I like in a party,
you're very affectionate, you're very kind, and I like that.
But with M I just loved how, you know, she
(34:28):
is a lot of substance. We really gel. We just
have this like energy between us, like our banter. I
really love that. And then I said, if I can
put those two qualities together, like that's essentially my perfect girl,
because em was lacking in the affection sort of department
as well. And I was like, if I could like
put those together, that'd be my perfect girl. That's what
I said. That was the conversation. What was shown was
(34:51):
if I could put you two together, you'd be my
perfect girl.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
And I was like, brother, yeah, nah.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Done me dirty. But that happened a lot, So like
that's just one example of context there.
Speaker 3 (35:01):
It's just context is a massive thing. And then you
can't go online and then like explain it because.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
Then it because there's no proof. Oh there's no yeah,
well there's no proof. Ye. I could be like, oh
he's lying, so well, well, how's.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Your love life after Love Island? How's dating and navigating dating?
Like then kind of almost being like on a dating
show people kind of how do you go about?
Speaker 1 (35:22):
I think what I was worried about was sort of
being like, oh, he's a Love Island guy, maybe cringe
to something fair mature girls like you know, like I'm
twenty nine, I'm a bit older, so I think like
girls maybe my age or a bit more like emotionally
mature might think that's a bit of off putting, but
like that's why I try and like hold myself. I
don't introduce myself from Taylor from Love Island, you know,
I'll try and hold myself on a higher account of
(35:43):
who I am. So then dating for me has been hard,
like you know, trying to navigate through who's genuine who's not.
You know, like you don't know people like people come
out of the woodworks all of a sudden, You're like, oh,
like why are you trying to talk to me now,
or like whatever. But like I probably have just you know,
just recently sort of gone through a bit of a
split with someone that was probably the closest I've been
to in a relationship. Yeah, and you know, although things
(36:06):
didn't really work out, like it was like nothing malicious.
She's great, like beautiful girl inside and out, but just
sort of things just went working. There was just things
I just wasn't feeling and had to sort of somewhat
put an end to it, which was hard because it's
hard to walk away from something that, like you see
so much potential in. Yeah, but it just sort of
showed me that, like I don't know if I'm really
quite there yet or maybe just things weren't not every
(36:26):
box is being ticked and I'm at the point where
the next person I want to date, I'd love to
settle down and have kids and marry and that's It's not.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Just for a little bit of fun, No, And.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
I'm over that. I'm over the whole like sleeping around
thing like a little bit of fun like because it
just ruins, like your rep and like everyone talks, everyone
knows someone, especially Melbourne, especially Melbourne. So but yeah, it
was actually like I try to look at it as
like a glass half full. It sort of showed me
that I can open up and be vulnerable and have
those feelings again. So that's good. Yeah, it's exciting. So
(36:54):
but I'm just just doing me again in the moment.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
What's the youngest your date?
Speaker 1 (36:58):
How do you for SI?
Speaker 3 (37:03):
What's the youngest and the oldest you date? And explain
your type in case the girls are out there.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
I don't really have a type. I love all shape,
sizes and colors.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
But it was blue?
Speaker 1 (37:16):
You were blue?
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Yeah? What if they were blue?
Speaker 1 (37:18):
I kind of fun with the avataras what are they
called the what are they called the nav I don't know.
Tall blue woman. Anyways, I think that like I obviously
love like I don't really physically have a type as well.
I like a girl who can dress well, takes care
of herself. Yeah, Like obviously we have to have a
(37:38):
little bit in common in terms of like our interests
and stuff. But someone who doesn't take everything too serious,
a bit of fun, a bit of serious, because that's
that's me. I can be serious, but I'm also just
a fucking dork, just a weirdo. So that's I'll make
a secret weirder. It's a lot of people don't know
about me.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
You are a little bit.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
I'm just like, I'm just like a freak, but in
the weirdest way, in the best way. No, But like
I just yeah, somebody who takes care of themself, someoney
dresses well yeah, and youngest, oldest and youngest. No, because
like I've met some girls who are like twenty four
(38:14):
to twenty five, and they're more mature than girls that
I've seen my age or older. So like it doesn't
really I don't.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Know, come on, just give us a little age bracket.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Scares me, Like i'd probably say for me right now,
I'd probably say, like twenty three youngest.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
I wouldn't go because then you think about, like, what,
in the next three years, you probably want to start
having kids. The twenty three year old, Yes, you may
be emotionally mature, but she's twenty three. In the next
three years she wants to start having kids.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
She's only twenty six.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
But I've met girls. I've met girls who have been like, like,
I'll have kids tomorrow. You're like, whoam oh steps back
for me? Please don't it, because like, I don't want
kids right now. If I met the perfect girl and
there's no such thing, like you know what I mean.
But if I met someone and they'll like, you'll have
kids tomorrow'll be like okay, Like I can consider it,
but the same things I want to do. People get
weird when I say, like I want to set it
(39:03):
down and have kids and get married. I don't want
that tomorrow. I don't want that next year. Oh I
would like that, Like I'm thirty next year, and like
they're they're those like years are like going to be
the best years of my life.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
I think apparently the thirties are the best, yeah, because like.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
You can do everything you wanted to do when you
were twenty, but you have money for it, and like, so.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
Like I'm seven years away from that, I'm seven years
away from mental clarity.
Speaker 2 (39:23):
But do you know what I say?
Speaker 1 (39:24):
Are you trying to tell me that you're twenty three?
That's still like on the cast?
Speaker 2 (39:27):
I am twenty three?
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Well, clearly I do maths. You know, I might be
a rugby boy, but I've got some brain cells. Oh no,
but yeah, and old. I don't know. I probably would
go I'd go like under, I'd go under, like maybe
thirty five. Max.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
I don't see you dating someone older though, No, but
all my older you're a young.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
Soul I am. I like to keep young, but.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
I saw this thing and I think it might help
for you. Tell me, has anybody else felt like twenty
twenty five has been the worst fucking year of their life?
Oh okay, well shut up?
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Does end the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (40:05):
So twenty twenty five, guys, is the year of endings
nine in like astrology world or something like that.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Like I'm not explaining this, definitely correct.
Speaker 3 (40:14):
The nine is the year of ENDINGSKA nine is a
year of endings.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Two plus zero plus two plus.
Speaker 3 (40:20):
Five twenty twenty five equals nine year of endings it's
all coming to an end. So everything, whether your relationships ends,
your friendships have changed, your career is changing. Like, twenty
twenty six is going to be our year, guys, extra
year of endings this year.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
Well, I actually do. I do believe I've had a
lot of good things happen this year, a lot of
great opportunities and stuff like that. But I also feel
like I'm in a stage where like I'm like, do
I start doing content full time? Now's my chance? Like
the universe is like pushing me to do that with
a lot of it, but I'm sort of scared to
take that leap.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
End it all in twenty twenty five. You have two months,
less than six weeks.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
It's going to be like end at all.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Everything's ended for me.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
Let's not end at all with like physically rolling into.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
But yeah, ended all here, guys in twenty twenty five.
Y twenty six is going to be our year. My
voodoo doll is going to stop being shaken. It's happening.
Twenty twenty six is our year.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Yeah. I think everything is like what you what you
what you put into It sounds really lame, but like
my friend also preaches to me recently is like if
you keep thinking and this is something for you, maybe
if you keep thinking that things that negative happening around
you happened. Yeah, And it's not even like you know,
it sounds like all manifesting whatever, if you just look
at things in a different way, being like I used
to look at like I used to look around and
be like, you know, why is this happened to me?
(41:38):
Why did I go through that toxic breakup? Why did
I go through this? Why did that happen to me?
Instead of being like, you know, like that happened for
me and this has come from that, and this is
why I'm at now, Like I look back and I'm like,
thank fuck, yeah, done me a favor, don't mean the
biggest favor in the world. Yeah, And like I don't
wish them. I don't. I don't wish like even my
ex reism what it wish her any harm, but it
wish anything like good luck to her, Like part of
(41:58):
me once upon a time may not be able to
even say that like good luck to her, but she doesn't.
She's not going to gain my forgiveness. It's just a
matter of like I don't wish her any ill intent
because I just want to be positive and I just
want to like move forward. And I catch myself up
sometimes too, where I'm like everything's so overwhelmeding and there's
so much going on and like this is happening and
this is that. But like life's good. Yeah, life's good,
like when you actually stop stressing about like little things
(42:20):
realistically they might sound big in your head, but they're
not that big. Sometimes you need to call someone and
be like, hey, I'm struggling to be like, hey, you.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
Like, yeah, I haven't gone to take that point in
the brain yet.
Speaker 1 (42:28):
Yeah, like the frontal lobe is developing.
Speaker 2 (42:31):
Yeah, I've got two more years for that.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
I think we keep I'm probably still.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Yeah, men develop later than women.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
I don't think I'm ever fully developed.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
Yeah, honestly mine's probably gone.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
But yeah, well you know you can always call me
and chut up. I've always said, I always like I
see things like, hey, are you all good?
Speaker 2 (42:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (42:47):
I always just like because sometimes like that's all it takes,
and like guys don't really do it a lot, and
like I always tom my mates, I love them, always
tell them you're okay. I just feel like, well, it's
just like important, like how like often sometimes you hear
from someone like how are you how are you actually going?
Or like oh, I'm proud of you for doing that,
Like it hits this little thing in your heart you're like,
(43:08):
oh my god. Like guys don't really I mean, like
guys don't really hear that a lot. So I think
it's important.
Speaker 2 (43:14):
For especially men's more spoken about things.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
Yeah, I'm massive on it. I think it's super important.
I think like it's something that doesn't get spoken about
a whole lot. So you see a lot of podcasts
like guys podcasts are you know in the kind of
like we're just like, oh yeah, this chic bro like
talk about real shit, talk about like real stuff, Like.
Speaker 3 (43:36):
You know, maybe we should have you on again to
talk about like real stuff. Maybe you can be like
a uh yeah, you can do like a guy's perspective.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
Maybe we do.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Yeah. I love that. I get I've got a lot
of like girlfriends who are single and like in the
industry and call me like hey need your advice. Yeah,
Like what do I do in this situation? If you're
a guy, Well do you do this? I'm like, well,
I'm also different to like a lot of guys too,
but this is how I would react.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
Maybe they're doing this because maybe we should have you
on that for the next episode.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
Come on, Tommy and I get that with like Lucy
and Nikki was so funny because Tommy is like, oh,
you know, I reckon.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
Tommy Loki gets around more than he leads on.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
He's a ladies man, he's a womanizer.
Speaker 3 (44:13):
And last question Tay opinion. Can guys and girls really
be friends?
Speaker 1 (44:19):
Yes, Yes, there's obviously, like look, you know, I've like
I think I think it's all about like in moderation
in terms of like if there's nothing there, like if
it's like totally platonic, you can't tell anyone who they
can be friends with or can't be friends with. Like
I've had girl girlfriends that like you know, have sort
(44:40):
of maybe somewhat stepped away a little bit, and like
I understand because it's probably for like the respect of
their boyfriend. But it's also like, if nothing's happened between us,
there's no reason for us to be like weird. Yeah,
you know, like and like obviously I think if there's
like if there's a bit of history, whether they've slept
together or there's something there, I will naturally give respect
(45:00):
and pull away a little bit anyway. Yeah, but like
even if I kept that friendship and or if there
was nothing that happened, and you know, like let's say
you had a boyfriend and like I met him and
whatever and he made a fel a certain way, I
would naturally, as a man, make him feel secure that
like there's nothing to worry about it.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Yeah, I was just a navigating thing. And I think
it's always situational.
Speaker 3 (45:21):
Like I'm someone and I don't know this is sounding
like pick me, but I am naturally someone who has
a lot of guy friends.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
I grew up in a book boarding school.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Like you're close with your brothers.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
Yeah, I'm close with my brothers. It's just how it goes.
Speaker 3 (45:35):
So but I completely understand if then one of my
guy friends got a girlfriend. If we're not close, I'm
not going to go to the guy. Why aren't you
talking to me as much anymore? Like why aren't we texting?
Why aren't we catching up? I get that, Like I
can completely understand, like your priorities have changed, and like
you're not going to be as close with your girlfriends
that you were when when you were single.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
The dynamics do change. I'm never got.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
Respect in that live friend, but like you've got to
respect your your number one, which is your personal partner.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
I'm not going to be like, oh it, Taylort's all
go do this and this and this and this when
you've got like a girlfriend that's newly put you in
that position. Yeah, until it's like a dynamic where like
maybe then she might run into us all into a
group setting and then she's like.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
I've got nothing to worry about.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
But like if your friend's going like, oh my boyfriend's
not letting me go out for coffee with this guy
friend anymore, I kin'd of get that, yeah, And.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Like, to be honest with you, I think, like you know,
I think like it's all it is all situational, and
it's all like if you like I would want my
partner to be friends with all of my friends, Yeah,
I think it's so like I think like if you
if like if that's like a massive major like red
flag anyway, if they can't get along with your friends
or there's like there's like a bit of conflict, but like, yeah,
(46:46):
it can be really jarring when you're like you're trying
to navigate through that and there's like a bit of
pressure from both ends when that doesn't need to be obviously.
It just it's up to you really, like like again
to protect. If you're dating someone, they're your priority, so
like you protect them. And if you've been with someone
and you're friends with that person, you can still like
even have that conversation just like hey, like look like
obviously i'm dating blah blah blah. Now like we're very close,
(47:09):
but like I'm gonna have to just like I don't
want you to take a personal but I'm just going
to take a step back a little bit. Yeah, I'd
feel like if someone said that to me, which I've
been in that position multiple times, it's kind of like yeah,
too easy, man, Like all good, like no dramas, do
your things or respect yeaheah, all the best with it,
you know.
Speaker 2 (47:21):
Do you know what the solution is?
Speaker 1 (47:23):
Communicating communication?
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Clark, Well, thank you so.
Speaker 3 (47:29):
Much ty Reef for coming on today's episode. I really
appreciate you coming on and hopefully we'll see you soon
here on the seat.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Don see you guys next Tuesday.
Speaker 1 (47:38):
Love me,
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