Kathy & Jamie - All Business - 11-04-25

Kathy and Jaime went on a very "mature date" as Kathy put it and she thought they had a great time. So we had to get Jaime's side of things and he had a different take on the way things went. Find out what Kathy did to scare off Jaime on Second Date Update!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, this morning, we've got Kathy joining the show.
Hi Kathy, how are you?

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Hi?

Speaker 3 (00:05):
How are you.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Pretty all right? We're doing good. You're the one that
needs some help. What's going on? Yes?

Speaker 3 (00:10):
So I went on this date and it went really
really well. We went to dinner, we had a really
nice walk and had coffee afterwards uptown. And we're both older,
so it was pretty straightforward and to the point we
had a conversation about Yeah, it was really really nice
about our likes and dislikes. It was very mature, mature.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (00:33):
I don't think I've ever had anybody describe their date
as a very mature date.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
Well, you know, I've tried a lot of dating apps,
and I always seem to find the most immature men.
They're really like boys. And I'm you know what I am.
I'm a very mature woman at this point in my life.
I'm a businesswoman and I'm looking for the same in
my partner.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Okay, Now, Jamie was his name, right, Jamie? I think
did anything go wrong on the date with this very
mature day that you can think of?

Speaker 5 (01:02):
Right yet?

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Going back in your head?

Speaker 3 (01:04):
No, I mean it was really really positive. It was
really pleasant and I had a great time. I can't
think of anything but that went awry. So to speak
such a.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Good word a rye, it sounds very like horrible. Everything
went awry? What went wrong? Would you like it on
a sour dough or a rye? No, that was so bad.
I am so sorry, Kathy. We're just gonna go ahead.
And it was actually really good. I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
I appreciate a good pun.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Oh good, good, Well, Kathy, We're gonna go ahead and
call Jamie and try and find out why he didn't
call you back.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, okay, thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
You're welcome.

Speaker 1 (01:38):
We're gonna do that. Coming up at eight thirty five
on ninety three.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
Q, Kathy went on a date with Jamie and she
says it was very nice. They went to go eat,
they had a walk in the park, and it was
very mature, she said, So what happened on this very
mature date that didn't get her a callback? We're gonna
find out right now and I three Q second date update.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Hello, Hi, looking for Jamie. Hey Jamie, It's Riggs, Caitlin
and Erica at ninety three Q Country here in Houston.
Good morning, Hi. He's so confused right now? Are you okay?

Speaker 5 (02:13):
I'm fine, Yeah, I'm sorry. What is this about?

Speaker 1 (02:15):
Well, we've got someone special that would like to go
on a date with you, so special in fact, that
she called us to help her try and get this
date with you.

Speaker 5 (02:25):
This is a radio station.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah ninety three Q man.

Speaker 5 (02:29):
Uh okay, all right, do well? Oh I know this person.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Well her name is Kathy. Apparently you've been on a
date before with Kathy.

Speaker 5 (02:40):
Oh okay, yeah, no, that's a that's a big note,
thank you on that one. I'm uh, I'm really bounished,
see Kathy?

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yeah? Sorry?

Speaker 1 (02:50):
Why not?

Speaker 4 (02:51):
What happened on the day to make you ghost her?

Speaker 3 (02:52):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (02:53):
Well yeah, she just basically I mean this is weird.
All right, Well, so she is really weird. She treated
our dates to me, it was like a business proposal,
and it was like, okay, we're going to treat this
relationship just like it's a business deal.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
What like how yeah, what do you mean by that?

Speaker 5 (03:13):
Like she gave me her rules rules we ran down,
Like yeah, she's like running down a list of rules.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
Like dating rules.

Speaker 5 (03:22):
I'm okay, So, like I'm supposed to get rid of
all my female friends, my phone needs to be available
for her to look through anytime I need to. I
need to have a job. I need to have a
nine to five job, very little work on the weekends.
I'm sorry, I'm just.

Speaker 4 (03:40):
She literally said all these rules to you.

Speaker 5 (03:43):
Wait. I didn't even get to the best part. She said,
we can only have am I on the radio.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Right, we'll call it the hokey pokey if you're talking
about it, you're talking about it.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
Yeah, once a month, once a month?

Speaker 2 (03:55):
What whyay?

Speaker 5 (03:59):
And it should be sketuled in advance and put on
the calendar.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well that's sexy and it.

Speaker 5 (04:06):
Only and it can only be missionary.

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Why can you imagine your calendar like alertogy.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Boring hokey pokey once a month? So wait, so we're
gonna do we have we actually have Kathy on the line.
Kathy is is all of this true? Did you make
this like a business proposal?

Speaker 3 (04:24):
Yes, I mean I did. This is why so many
marriages end in divorce because they never discussed stuff like this.
This way, we know exactly, we know what our expectations are.
I asked him to want to meet, but he wasn't
interested in sharing. So clearly he's not as sure as
I thought.

Speaker 5 (04:39):
He was No, No, Kathy, No, that's that's not how
it works, Kathy. I'm the first date, not a business proposal.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
Do you think that people who are married do it
all the time. No. I have a lot of married
friends and pretty standard, Kathy.

Speaker 5 (04:53):
No one wants to put it down as an appointment. Okay,
it should be done when passion strikes and you can't
stop yourself, you know, like you want you want to
you have to have each other at that moment, that
type of love I want, not like, well in two days,
I get my once a month nookie.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
What happens then, Kathy, if there's some role, like if
there's passion, do you just say nope, this has not
been scheduled. I'm shutting this down.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
No, No, I'm not saying that. I'm just saying that
you you have I listen. I have a lot of
Mary friends whose libidos they have. They they ebb and
flow and sometimes they're I don't know. Their therapists have
told them to schedule.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
Listen, Kathy, the police are coming to take you. That's
how serious this is. That's how serious this is. We're
not okay with your rules. So you're just saying you're
laying down a solid foundation.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
Yeah, what Jamie is saying that he wants more of
a like passionate relationship, Right, Jamie, it sounds.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
Like you wants.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
It sounds like a tendency. And and you know what
I'm gonna have to say there the second date.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
You're you know, yeah, okay, Well okay, then so good
thing we helped you get to that.

Speaker 5 (06:00):
Okay, Well I'm sorry, Katy. I guess I should have
put ghosting you on your schedule. And you know, I'll
work on that.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
That's kind of it's kind of a good burn. And
we will not be having a second date.