October 23, 2025 • 7 mins
Ryder and Luna met in a spontaneous way, while each was out with friends, a dare from Ryder’s buddies led him to strike up a conversation with Luna. She thought it was cute, so they went on a chill dinner date, where Luna mentioned she had kids. Did Ryder's negative reaction get him ghosted? Or did Ryder's behavior elsewhere cost him a relationship? Find out on Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We welcome to the show this morning Rider. Good morning Rider, Hey,
good morning guys. Hey, So tell us how did you
meet Luna?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yes? Well, I met her the old fashioned way, and
I just saw her at a restaurant. She was like
ordering drinks with her friends.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, I don't know, I don't even know what old
fashioned way. Man, I'm like, hell, try and work.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Classified.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
No I was. I was just I was with my guys,
and uh, they kind of dared me to go up
and talk to her because there's no way that she's,
you know, gonna say yes. But she wound up saying yes.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Nice.
Speaker 5 (00:35):
So okay, okay, guy, that a guy that likes to
take charge. That's not I was going to say take charge.
Then I thought about it. They made they kind of
dared you. Unfortunate anyway, good for you. It ended up
working out. Where y'all go for the date?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Yeah, yes, So we just went to a local place.
It was like really kind of low key. I had
a burger, We we had dinner. I had a burger,
she had a salad. The conversation was really great, and
then she just kind of brought something up and it
just really didn't sit right with me and the mood
changed a bit.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Did you tell her about the dare No?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
No, no, no, no, I didn't say that. She actually found
that part charming. She kind of liked it. But yeah,
so she brought up that she has kids, so she
started talking about them. And when I say kids, I
mean kids more than one, and they're they're teenagers, all right.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
So what's wrong with it? I mean, you guys know
I have like one hundred kids, so I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Well, I mean, there's nothing wrong with it. I'm not
saying there's anything wrong with it. I just don't even
know if I can vibe with someone that has kids.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
I mean, I feel like that's not like kids aren't
for everyone, and obviously, like that's something you need to discuss.
Did you discuss that with her? Did you tell her that?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
No, I didn't say it to her first. I didn't
even mention it. But like, I'm just a little uneasy
about getting attached to them and them getting attached to me.
I tried it before in another relationship. I just told
myself I'd never do it.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Yeah, that's hard.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Would you make an exception for Luna?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yeah, I mean I think I would be willing. I
mean she does have something about her, so it's you know,
I'd like to get to know her better.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Do you think that's why she's not calling her back?
Because she picked up on that vibe you weren't really
happy she had kids.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I don't really know what it was.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Yeah, because if I catch that vibe, I'm done with you.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Yeah. Yeah, I mean I just kind of want to
try it over again, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Okay, Well, we're going to see if we can try
and get Luna to agree to try it over again
with you.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, that'd be awesome.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
All right, stay tuned, we're going to get here on
the line coming up at eight thirty seven. Right here
on ninety three.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Q, so writer took Luna on a day. Actually he
was dared to go talk to her, and she thought
that was cute that he was dared. Took her to
a local bar. Now, he wasn't too sure about her
saying that she had kids. He wasn't sure about his
feelings about that. Did she pick up on that or not?
Let's find out now. On I three Q second Date update, huh.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Hey is this Luna? Luna? It's Rigs Caitlin and Erica
from ninety three.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Oh my god, Hi, Hey, what's up.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
I listen to you all the time. Oh my god,
is this for real?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:08):
For real?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I've actually won the rodeo tickets earlier this year.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Nice?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Is that how you all got my number?
Speaker 5 (03:16):
No? But thank you for listening, and I'm happy we
could get you tickets. We're actually calling on behalf of someone.
You're probably gonna know what this is who wants to
go on a date with you, and if you agree
to go on a date with him again, we'll foot
the bill.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Oh okay, who is who's this person?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Were? It's somebody you already know?
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Writer?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Do you remember writer?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
So you see the one who wants to go on
another date?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
I'm not interested?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
All right?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Was it his kid's comments? Because we actually had a
chance to speak with him, and it sounded like he
was willing to maybe give it a chance. But what happened.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Uh, he's on my list of people to never call
or let around my kids.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Oh oh, not even let around kids. That's that's pretty
extreme what happened there.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
So my oldest son is in a basketball camp and
Ryder is actually one of the coaches there, and one day.
My son came home in tears after his first day
because of Rider.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
So you know, he can definitely expect a complaint to
be filed with the organizers of the camp because what
he did was unacceptable.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Do you know what happened? Wow? Can we we can
we talk about it.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
On the air?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Yeah? Absolutely. My son was not hitting the free throws
and when he told Ryder that at the camp that
he wasn't practicing at home, Rider made him run laster
around the gym for an hour an hour. My son
is eleven, so he missed two full days of practice
because both days Rider made him run laps instead of
practice or play with the team. And I just want
(04:43):
to reiterate, my son is eleven.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
It's weird that he was like not interested in dating
someone with kids, but he's a youth.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Is your son, Kane, that's your kid?
Speaker 5 (04:54):
So that's writer.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
He's on the line as you know, second date up day,
he's been listening.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Yeah, my son is. And now he doesn't want to
go to basketball camp, but I paid for him to attend.
You know, Cain loves used to love basketball, and now
he's terrified to play because he doesn't want to run
for an hour every practice.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Wow. You know what, Cain completely lacks discipline at home,
and I can see that right now. All I ask
to do was practice his free throws at home, and
he couldn't do that. I mean, if you can't work
on okay, yeah, and he can't play on my team.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Okay, perfect, great, don't I don't want him playing on
your team. Clearly, with a person without kid would tell
me how to raise my son. So again, he's eleven
years old rider, he's not competing at an elite level.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
He honestly never will compete at an elite level, especially
if he doesn't know how to make his free throws simple.
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
I could care less at this point. I'm going to
go ahead and give you a hard path. You know,
I'm even considering moving Kine from basketball camp. I actually
I probably will. You know what I mean. I don't
want him to be around your toxicity. He shouldn't have
to be carefied of going to camp. It's a camp.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
This is actually why I don't date women that have kids,
because everybody's afraid to discipline their kid and they don't
have to give them any structure. Kane is the only
kid who doesn't listen to me on that team, So
just know that.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Look, I can see where you think that you're right,
But come on, dude, I mean, like a couple of
laps is good enough, right, I mean, you have to
run the lab two days.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I'm not No, I'm not coaching soft kid. I'm not
going to do that. They need to tough en up
and they need to do what they're told to do
if they want to play at any level. It doesn't
matter if it's an elite level or a loone level.
I mean, I'm sorry I've wasting you guys time, but
I mean it doesn't even like I changed my mind.
I don't even want a second date now. I mean,
especially if she's gonna have kids like that.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
So, I mean, I don't even understand the point of.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
This and structure.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I'm actually going to the camp and definitely let them
know about your attitude because you should not be around children.
You just shouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Do not let them do their homework when they go home.
All I said was do free frozen. He wasn't doing it.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
I'm going to be making a call in the basketball camp,
So good luck to.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
You all right, Well, okay, Well, try to working on
disciplining your kid a little bit more.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Wow, Okay, he's hung up now.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
No second date for either of you, guys. I think
you'll both made that pretty clear.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, you're not gonna believe this, but I actually sided
with him on this one. Really.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
All he had to do is free throws. That's part
of your work. You got to put the work in.
He's there to teach you and help you. That's all
you have to do at home. And you like i'd
be mad at my son, I do.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
I definitely agree with be mad at him.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Like you were supposed to do this.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
He do you think you can your word? You think
it can helped me with my free throws? I got
terrible game, man, I.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Can help you.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
He hung up already, so he's not even listening to
you anymore. I'm sorry to report that.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Well, we're sorry that didn't work out, Luna, but glad
you dodgedable out there. I think she hung up too.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, I think she's mad at me now it was
you or if he says to do something, he needs
to do it
We welcome to the show this morning Rider. Good morning Rider, Hey,
good morning guys. Hey, So tell us how did you
meet Luna?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yes? Well, I met her the old fashioned way, and
I just saw her at a restaurant. She was like
ordering drinks with her friends.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, I don't know, I don't even know what old
fashioned way. Man, I'm like, hell, try and work.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Classified.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
No I was. I was just I was with my guys,
and uh, they kind of dared me to go up
and talk to her because there's no way that she's,
you know, gonna say yes. But she wound up saying yes.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Nice.
Speaker 5 (00:35):
So okay, okay, guy, that a guy that likes to
take charge. That's not I was going to say take charge.
Then I thought about it. They made they kind of
dared you. Unfortunate anyway, good for you. It ended up
working out. Where y'all go for the date?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Yeah, yes, So we just went to a local place.
It was like really kind of low key. I had
a burger, We we had dinner. I had a burger,
she had a salad. The conversation was really great, and
then she just kind of brought something up and it
just really didn't sit right with me and the mood
changed a bit.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Did you tell her about the dare No?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
No, no, no, no, I didn't say that. She actually found
that part charming. She kind of liked it. But yeah,
so she brought up that she has kids, so she
started talking about them. And when I say kids, I
mean kids more than one, and they're they're teenagers, all right.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
So what's wrong with it? I mean, you guys know
I have like one hundred kids, so I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Well, I mean, there's nothing wrong with it. I'm not
saying there's anything wrong with it. I just don't even
know if I can vibe with someone that has kids.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
I mean, I feel like that's not like kids aren't
for everyone, and obviously, like that's something you need to discuss.
Did you discuss that with her? Did you tell her that?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
No, I didn't say it to her first. I didn't
even mention it. But like, I'm just a little uneasy
about getting attached to them and them getting attached to me.
I tried it before in another relationship. I just told
myself I'd never do it.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Yeah, that's hard.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Would you make an exception for Luna?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yeah, I mean I think I would be willing. I
mean she does have something about her, so it's you know,
I'd like to get to know her better.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Do you think that's why she's not calling her back?
Because she picked up on that vibe you weren't really
happy she had kids.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I don't really know what it was.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Yeah, because if I catch that vibe, I'm done with you.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Yeah. Yeah, I mean I just kind of want to
try it over again, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Okay, Well, we're going to see if we can try
and get Luna to agree to try it over again
with you.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, that'd be awesome.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
All right, stay tuned, we're going to get here on
the line coming up at eight thirty seven. Right here
on ninety three.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Q, so writer took Luna on a day. Actually he
was dared to go talk to her, and she thought
that was cute that he was dared. Took her to
a local bar. Now, he wasn't too sure about her
saying that she had kids. He wasn't sure about his
feelings about that. Did she pick up on that or not?
Let's find out now. On I three Q second Date update, huh.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Hey is this Luna? Luna? It's Rigs Caitlin and Erica
from ninety three.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Oh my god, Hi, Hey, what's up.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
I listen to you all the time. Oh my god,
is this for real?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:08):
For real?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I've actually won the rodeo tickets earlier this year.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Nice?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Is that how you all got my number?
Speaker 5 (03:16):
No? But thank you for listening, and I'm happy we
could get you tickets. We're actually calling on behalf of someone.
You're probably gonna know what this is who wants to
go on a date with you, and if you agree
to go on a date with him again, we'll foot
the bill.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Oh okay, who is who's this person?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Were? It's somebody you already know?
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Writer?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Do you remember writer?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
So you see the one who wants to go on
another date?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
I'm not interested?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
All right?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Was it his kid's comments? Because we actually had a
chance to speak with him, and it sounded like he
was willing to maybe give it a chance. But what happened.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Uh, he's on my list of people to never call
or let around my kids.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Oh oh, not even let around kids. That's that's pretty
extreme what happened there.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
So my oldest son is in a basketball camp and
Ryder is actually one of the coaches there, and one day.
My son came home in tears after his first day
because of Rider.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
So you know, he can definitely expect a complaint to
be filed with the organizers of the camp because what
he did was unacceptable.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Do you know what happened? Wow? Can we we can
we talk about it.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
On the air?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Yeah? Absolutely. My son was not hitting the free throws
and when he told Ryder that at the camp that
he wasn't practicing at home, Rider made him run laster
around the gym for an hour an hour. My son
is eleven, so he missed two full days of practice
because both days Rider made him run laps instead of
practice or play with the team. And I just want
(04:43):
to reiterate, my son is eleven.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
It's weird that he was like not interested in dating
someone with kids, but he's a youth.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Is your son, Kane, that's your kid?
Speaker 5 (04:54):
So that's writer.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
He's on the line as you know, second date up day,
he's been listening.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Yeah, my son is. And now he doesn't want to
go to basketball camp, but I paid for him to attend.
You know, Cain loves used to love basketball, and now
he's terrified to play because he doesn't want to run
for an hour every practice.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Wow. You know what, Cain completely lacks discipline at home,
and I can see that right now. All I ask
to do was practice his free throws at home, and
he couldn't do that. I mean, if you can't work
on okay, yeah, and he can't play on my team.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Okay, perfect, great, don't I don't want him playing on
your team. Clearly, with a person without kid would tell
me how to raise my son. So again, he's eleven
years old rider, he's not competing at an elite level.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
He honestly never will compete at an elite level, especially
if he doesn't know how to make his free throws simple.
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
I could care less at this point. I'm going to
go ahead and give you a hard path. You know,
I'm even considering moving Kine from basketball camp. I actually
I probably will. You know what I mean. I don't
want him to be around your toxicity. He shouldn't have
to be carefied of going to camp. It's a camp.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
This is actually why I don't date women that have kids,
because everybody's afraid to discipline their kid and they don't
have to give them any structure. Kane is the only
kid who doesn't listen to me on that team, So
just know that.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Look, I can see where you think that you're right,
But come on, dude, I mean, like a couple of
laps is good enough, right, I mean, you have to
run the lab two days.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I'm not No, I'm not coaching soft kid. I'm not
going to do that. They need to tough en up
and they need to do what they're told to do
if they want to play at any level. It doesn't
matter if it's an elite level or a loone level.
I mean, I'm sorry I've wasting you guys time, but
I mean it doesn't even like I changed my mind.
I don't even want a second date now. I mean,
especially if she's gonna have kids like that.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
So, I mean, I don't even understand the point of.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
This and structure.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I'm actually going to the camp and definitely let them
know about your attitude because you should not be around children.
You just shouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Do not let them do their homework when they go home.
All I said was do free frozen. He wasn't doing it.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
I'm going to be making a call in the basketball camp,
So good luck to.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
You all right, Well, okay, Well, try to working on
disciplining your kid a little bit more.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Wow, Okay, he's hung up now.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
No second date for either of you, guys. I think
you'll both made that pretty clear.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, you're not gonna believe this, but I actually sided
with him on this one. Really.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
All he had to do is free throws. That's part
of your work. You got to put the work in.
He's there to teach you and help you. That's all
you have to do at home. And you like i'd
be mad at my son, I do.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
I definitely agree with be mad at him.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Like you were supposed to do this.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
He do you think you can your word? You think
it can helped me with my free throws? I got
terrible game, man, I.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Can help you.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
He hung up already, so he's not even listening to
you anymore. I'm sorry to report that.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Well, we're sorry that didn't work out, Luna, but glad
you dodgedable out there. I think she hung up too.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, I think she's mad at me now it was
you or if he says to do something, he needs
to do it
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