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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Morning mixed with Matt Harrison, Liz.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Luda, Good morning, sixty nine now eighty six for your
high today. Rain overnight expected and a little bit tomorrow
and then the community is going to be down and
the due point and all that stuff gonna be a
little bit better as we had the weekend.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Good morning, Luda, morning, and good morning TJ. Good morning,
Good morning all.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Liz gets stuck behind one of those uh liquor sickles
a scooter.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah you never heard that before.

Speaker 4 (00:28):
No, yeah.

Speaker 5 (00:30):
And so the way I drive in, because you know,
I'm not taking interstates, I take back roads. There's not
even a bike lane. It's just ditches in the woods
on Oh yeah, for sure. And so once you get
behind that person, you have to commit to it. And
I don't think he breaks thirty three the entire time.

Speaker 4 (00:44):
No, I don't think the Yeah, I don't think he
can Dan Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (00:47):
So you just have to commit to knowing that what
normally takes about seven to eight minutes is going to
be a solid seventeen.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
To eight for those who don't know they're the liquor
sickle thing, which he didn't. It's it's like a mope
ish type thing or scooter that people ride. And the
story is because I got DUIs right.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Because you don't have to have a license, yeah, or
I haven't registered or anything.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
So it gets called the liquor sicle, and that might
be the case. There there's no way to get around him.

Speaker 6 (01:13):
Huh, there's no way.

Speaker 5 (01:14):
There's no way because I can't pass them. There's like
double lines Hervey, like I am.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
A lot of those guys are usually get way over
at least, and.

Speaker 6 (01:22):
Man does not.

Speaker 5 (01:23):
And there's a couple of times where we got pas
parking lots where he could very easily just maybe scadadle
over and let me pat.

Speaker 6 (01:29):
No, absolutely does not.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
You have to leave five minutes earlier to beat him.

Speaker 5 (01:34):
Yeah. But the thing is is like when I do,
then it's like I get here early.

Speaker 6 (01:37):
But then if I I can't, he doesn't follow his routine.

Speaker 5 (01:41):
Every time I thought I finally had it figured out,
and then this morning I was behind him again and I.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
Was like, no, it's frustrating.

Speaker 5 (01:47):
It's like the bane of my existence when it comes
to commuting.

Speaker 6 (01:49):
It's so silly.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Well, if you're out there listening, liquor sicle guy, we
we need to talk to you.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Get out of the way. It was just trying to
get to work morning.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
August Good Mornings, Birthday's Power by Mark Swain real Estate.

Speaker 5 (02:07):
And we're starting off strong with Demi Levado, who is
thirty three.

Speaker 6 (02:11):
I loved Princess Protection Program.

Speaker 5 (02:13):
I know you're gonna say I was entirely too old
to watch that when it came out.

Speaker 6 (02:16):
On the Disney Channel.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
You don't even know how it came out.

Speaker 5 (02:18):
I don't know either, what Selena Gomez, they were iconic
in it.

Speaker 6 (02:22):
It was so good. It was really good.

Speaker 5 (02:24):
Anyways, I've always appreciated Demi Levado from her Disney days
and then just a general you know, she's had some
good music, so let's let's have a moment.

Speaker 6 (02:37):
And the song came out.

Speaker 5 (02:38):
I was also in radio and we played this song constantly.

Speaker 4 (02:44):
I don't think we did, or I don't know it anyway.

Speaker 5 (02:45):
Oh I've locked it out A break.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
A break, Maybe you did. Yeah, yeah, it's it's very forgettable.

Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:56):
Also, Andrew Garfield is forty two. He was Spider Man,
so that's pretty exciting, right, good actor. He's also been
in a bunch of different stuff. Amy Adams is fifty one.
She was an enchanted. She was in an episode of
the Office, a huge, huge fan, and then now that
I live in Gaston County, I feel like this person
needs an extra shout out. But Fred Durst from Limp

(03:19):
Biscuit is fifty five and I've heard sometimes you can
run into him at the Chili's and Gastony.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
That's what I've heard too, in the Walmart. Yeah, he
was just I just saw a video.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
Of him punching a drone at a show in Germany. Yeah,
he's got a different look. He always has a different luck.

Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yeah, every tour. It seems like he's changing his look up.

Speaker 6 (03:38):
Last summer when he went on tour though, he had like, and.

Speaker 5 (03:41):
I say this as nicely as possible because he's only
fifty five, but he had like a grandpa vib. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:46):
Yeah, that was the that was the That was the
look yet for Durst. Is that you now he has
like big hair.

Speaker 6 (03:51):
Yeah, I haven't seen him recently.

Speaker 4 (03:53):
There was like a cowboy vibe too for a while. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
Need to go look and see what he looks like now,
just in case, just in case. There well, all roads
lead to Gastonia. Al Roker is seventy one and I
hold on to just the dumbest things. But my favorite
Al Roker memory is I love the Macy's Thanksgiving Parade

(04:17):
and I love Al.

Speaker 6 (04:18):
Roker, and he's always on the streets.

Speaker 5 (04:20):
And there was one time when I was watching it
and there was somebody dressed like a stick of butter
who got on his nerves so badly that.

Speaker 6 (04:27):
You could see him trying to not lose as cool.

Speaker 5 (04:30):
And then the stick of butter starts following him, and
you can tell that the people that also work in
like production or whatever, they're like, this is funny. Keep
on the stick of butter. R. And so this is
him interacting with it.

Speaker 4 (04:42):
By I hate.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
Okay, I can't.

Speaker 6 (04:52):
Like he's trying to be funny and funny.

Speaker 5 (04:54):
But like you can see, you can see he's like,
get out of my face.

Speaker 6 (05:00):
The only person that's ever angered him is butter.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
The way he says, yeh Butter, it's just so funny,
like it's an insult.

Speaker 6 (05:07):
That's an iconic moment.

Speaker 5 (05:08):
If you get bored today, YouTube literally like just you
have to put Al Roker butter Macy's parade, And they
even brought the butter person back the next year and
you can see it was like, haha, the joke.

Speaker 6 (05:20):
Is tired, and Al Roker also seemed tired with it.

Speaker 5 (05:24):
And then Robert Plant is seventy seven. So if you're
wearing a led Zeppelin T shirt today, yeah, that's who
that is.

Speaker 7 (05:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (05:32):
And then finally it's a National Radio Day.

Speaker 5 (05:35):
Thank you so much for listening to your radio. We
appreciate you. Thank you for thinking we're funny or just
giving us a pity listen, it doesn't really matter.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
We'll appreciate you funny, weird, interesting, pity.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
We'll take it off. Morning MiGs Man Harris Liz Luda
out of Fulton County, Georgia. Twenty six year old guy
Alton Oliver was on trial facing murder charges, accused of
killing off duty cop in twenty twenty two, but claimed
it was in self defense. The trial lasted three days
and wrapped up on Friday. If the jury quickly came
back with a verdict, they handed it to the judge

(06:07):
to read. Everyone's on the edge of their seat, and
this is what happened.

Speaker 8 (06:12):
The verdict. We the jury find that finit guilty as
to all six counts of the bill of indictment.

Speaker 4 (06:19):
I'm sure.

Speaker 8 (06:21):
Thanks Castle couldn't pass it over to I said, not sorry,
we the jury find that fin not guilty. I apologize
for my mispronunciation.

Speaker 6 (06:37):
Mis pronunciation, that's the whole word.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
He just got it wrong.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Yeah, but he says, miss prescients. But he said put
the cuffs on the guy, right, So he he obviously
read it wrong or thought it was going to be something. Yeah,
he didn't say right, he says at the beginning, I
think he's put the cuffs on the guy, and so
you wouldn't say that if you read not guilty.

Speaker 6 (06:56):
Well that the other thing to take them off.

Speaker 5 (06:57):
You're sitting in that little jury box. You're like, wait
a minute, I'm not really suppose I'm supposed to be quiet.
I'm supposed toy.

Speaker 6 (07:02):
No, this is not right.

Speaker 9 (07:04):
Now.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
Imagine the the up and down of your emotions. If
you're sitting there like guilty, oh, then twenty seconds later,
not guilty.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
Oh my gosh, mind blowing. You got to get that right.

Speaker 5 (07:16):
Well. Then, also the person that like had to hand
the thing to the judge, they're probably like, wait a second.

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Did I write the wrong day?

Speaker 5 (07:22):
Right?

Speaker 9 (07:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (07:23):
Did I Did I write this wrong? That judge wouldn't
get this wrong?

Speaker 4 (07:26):
Yeah, but indeed he did, so Joe, that is.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
I just can't imagine because you're thinking I'm going to
jail for life, then twenty seconds later I'm walking out
of here.

Speaker 4 (07:36):
Right, it's insane.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Well, and all day you're going to be stressing about
it regardless, like that before this and then it hits you. Yeah,
so like that's a terrible day.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Yeah, morning mixed Matt Harris and the Quirky One. Liz
Luda spends a million hours a day on socials so
you don't have to.

Speaker 4 (07:53):
And she found this.

Speaker 6 (07:54):
I found a guy fishing for fishing.

Speaker 5 (07:56):
And I left so hard and maybe this is Die
bought a bollicle and a terrible thing, but a little
bit yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (08:04):
Underneath the surface.

Speaker 5 (08:05):
I try to hide it. But apparently there is this
dude and his username is central dot Oregon dot fishing
on TikTok and he creates content.

Speaker 6 (08:17):
Of fishing spots to go to.

Speaker 5 (08:19):
But I used to live out there in the Pacific Northwest.
It's a very people keep their fishing spots like a
hidden secret. I never have really felt that same vibe
here in the Carolinas, but it's like, well they are
very secretive, Like this is a very special spot this
you know this year, you don't tell anyone you sneak
off whatever, right, And so this guy created a Hinge

(08:42):
profile where he is a woman catfishing other men, but
he only goes after other people that are clearly catfishing,
like if their image is like Gerard Butler or something, right,
and then he posts videos talking about how he compliments
them and builds these dudes up and then say, as
you know, I really like to go fishing. What's your

(09:02):
favorite fishing spot? And then the dudes just sing, they
tell them absolutely where they are. So this guy then
will go and film content in these different fishing spots,
take video pictures, rate it, let you know what kind
of fish are out there. And apparently a lot of
dudes are mad at them because they're like losing their
fishing spots to this dude and all the people that
are following.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Well, I guess you wouldn't know, but it's the case
because he doesn't shows real picture.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
But if you went to that spot, you might run into.

Speaker 5 (09:28):
That guy, yeah, guy, and you'd be like are you
are you?

Speaker 4 (09:32):
Maria?

Speaker 3 (09:33):
Are you?

Speaker 6 (09:34):
Is that is that you? And be like, no, I
don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 2 (09:36):
Or the guy who had the Gerard Butler voto. He's
going to be there too. Yeah, maybe it'll be a
real romantic ending at the end. You never know all.

Speaker 5 (09:44):
But like usually catfishing, I feel like is a bad thing.
But this is like catfishing for good because catfishing the
catfishers right then exploiting them for content. So maybe it's
not so good.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
Maybe it is a little time.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
It's fine if you're tricking a trickster. Yeah, it's like
a negative images.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
In the morning.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
It's the morning mixed with Matt Harrison Liz Luda.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
Guys be a little nervous about getting their haircut. Sometimes
was the last time you had a haircut?

Speaker 3 (10:13):
Let's see when my sister got married, so like ten
years ago.

Speaker 6 (10:16):
Wow, you know why you've got long, reddish.

Speaker 4 (10:20):
Shortest hair.

Speaker 5 (10:20):
Yeah, And when you show me pictures of you with
short hair, I'm like, I don't I don't know you.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Yeah, I've had it, really, I've had it, like buzz cut.

Speaker 5 (10:30):
Yeah, well it looks different, I mean hair old vibe
changes like a different person guy.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
Facial hair and length of hair changes so much.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
The twenty one percent amens that they feel nervous about
asking their barber hairstyle is for a new look. But
I don't think they want to change, because the average
guys at the same hairstyle for seven years. Yeah, but
we and the average person gets about once to three
five weeks.

Speaker 4 (10:55):
That's about what I do.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
But I don't really keep track, so it's it's got
to at least five weeks. I would think that your
husband is kind of a balding fella.

Speaker 5 (11:04):
He shaved it. He shaved bald right now. He's got
a nice beard, you know.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
Yeah, yeah, it looks different when you saw his pictures
without with hair, Yeah, with no beard.

Speaker 3 (11:14):
Yeah, without the beard.

Speaker 5 (11:16):
Yeah. So he always jokes that my son when he
was born, he took his hair no hair as a
result of having.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
My dad claims that too.

Speaker 6 (11:23):
Yeah. Well, stress.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
At least he's not trying to like he could be
doing the comb over back home over right.

Speaker 5 (11:28):
No, No, the way to go, he said, I'm putting
a baseball cap on this and keeping it a mystery.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
Percent of men feel confident with their current hair. Dude,
you think women would would be the same number.

Speaker 6 (11:42):
I think probably less. I think we are.

Speaker 5 (11:46):
I think in general, I can only speak for me,
and like the women that I interact with, I think
we are more quickly to just make a rash decision
and just be like, cut bangs.

Speaker 6 (11:55):
I need bangs. I need bangs.

Speaker 5 (11:57):
I need a new color, I need to feel brand new,
I need all the different.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
It feels pretty calmy.

Speaker 5 (12:00):
Yeah yeah, And then afterwards, when you're in the awkward
growing it out phase, you're like, oh, come.

Speaker 4 (12:05):
All, why did I do this?

Speaker 2 (12:06):
Over half of the guys never even considered changing their
hair due but maybe you should, fellas, maybe you should,
because there is a.

Speaker 4 (12:12):
Point where it's you've you've gotten older.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
The hair stign might not work, your hair, amount of
hair you have might not work.

Speaker 5 (12:21):
I always feel like men underutilize the fact that they
could get lightning bolts.

Speaker 6 (12:25):
Like shaved into the back of their head like some
vanilla ice style.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (12:29):
When I was a kid, I remember there were some
boys in the neighborhood that had that, and I always was.

Speaker 6 (12:32):
Like, I want that.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
Came back a little bit when my daughter's twenty olfs
maybe like ten, maybe eight years ago or some guy
I had it in the very the back of my head,
yeah shape, but I had a like triangles.

Speaker 3 (12:45):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying like, yeah, yeah, like
a greater than sign pointing out Okay, I had that.
I feel like that's so I was an adult, which
is ridiculous.

Speaker 6 (12:52):
No, but like you.

Speaker 5 (12:53):
Could put your initials in there, you know, like you
really shouldn't.

Speaker 4 (12:56):
You should not.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
You should not do that. You should not if you're
over the age of eight. Non't give you twenty.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
If you're not like a star true professional football player
or something like that, don't.

Speaker 4 (13:08):
Shave designs and don't do that.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
Yeah, you're right, that would the men said, they asked them,
these hairstyles would work for you. The highest percent of
was letting it grow out. Twenty eight percent think they
could pull it off. Full shaved or bold. Only twenty
two percent that they could pull off. I guess it's
because you might think you because I try to get my.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
Dad to shave his head.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
He's in his eighties and he's barely hanging on.

Speaker 4 (13:29):
But he's like, I don't have the right headport.

Speaker 3 (13:30):
We can see your head, right, we can see it shape.

Speaker 5 (13:34):
Yeah, it's got to make sure son screen it up,
sun screwing it up.

Speaker 6 (13:37):
I make my husband always put sun scoring off.

Speaker 2 (13:40):
Then the third singing middle part long hair. But then
they asked, could you pull off and like greased back
hair ten percent mulle it eight percent.

Speaker 4 (13:49):
Mohawk.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
You shouldn't be pulling that off until unless they're certain I.

Speaker 4 (13:53):
Can pull that off. You could, Yeah, good, I can.

Speaker 3 (13:55):
I've done it and it was like long, but I
didn't like spike it up.

Speaker 6 (14:00):
Faux hawks, though they work, they're nice.

Speaker 4 (14:03):
Not an adult maybe an adult maybe, depending on you.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
Only if you're like only if you're a youth pastor.

Speaker 6 (14:08):
Or if you like a contestant on the bauchelor r. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (14:12):
The one that's always everywhere for the longest time was
the they call it the Lama hair.

Speaker 4 (14:16):
I think, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, the poofy.

Speaker 6 (14:20):
Kind of pop.

Speaker 3 (14:22):
No, it's like it's like shaved in the back and
then poofy on top. Okay, it's almost like a or something. Yeah,
it was a mushroom No, a little mushroomy.

Speaker 8 (14:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (14:32):
Well, Google, it's just like the lama hair cut.

Speaker 5 (14:35):
It was like every teenage boy for ages had it,
and I've already had a talk with it.

Speaker 3 (14:39):
It's still around.

Speaker 4 (14:40):
Yeah, I'm gonna try something new. I don't know what
it is.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
Maybe the Lama hair. Then okay, a bleached buzz cut.
This is the Morning.

Speaker 7 (14:47):
Thanks for starting your day with the Morning Miss.

Speaker 1 (14:50):
It's the Morning mixed with Matt Harrison.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
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gossip o their times with happening in the pop culture world.
What is happening in your stomach might be the bigger question.

Speaker 5 (15:04):
Radioactive shrimp that seems to be the big issue. So
the FDA is warning Americans not to eat, sell, or
serve Walmart's Great Value raw frozen shrimp due to radioactive contamination.
Now they're saying that there is a chance that there
was a possible contamination contamination with sesium one pint thirty seven,

(15:26):
which is a radioactive isotope. So they don't technically meet
the levels of where they would be considered radioactive, but
long term exposure, long term eating could lead to some damage.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Well, they're just they're being super careful because it's way
below whatever they have to report.

Speaker 5 (15:43):
And so they're saying if the best buy dates are
printed for March fifteenth, twenty twenty seven, and then they
have different codes which you can find on the FDA's website.
It's all at Walmart, great value, and the shrimp was
not sold here, but it was sold in Floororida and Georgia,
which are you know?

Speaker 2 (16:02):
I want the superpower that comes with radioctave shrimp Man.

Speaker 5 (16:06):
Yes, I don't think that that seems like the best superhero.

Speaker 4 (16:10):
I could back shrimp Man.

Speaker 8 (16:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, little shrimp.

Speaker 6 (16:13):
A lot of little tiny legs like that said.

Speaker 4 (16:15):
Well, nobody wants to be called the shrimp Man.

Speaker 5 (16:18):
I will just say though, not to find the silver
lining and things. But maybe if you know people eat
less shrimp, they'll stop selling at a fewer restaurants.

Speaker 6 (16:26):
And it was somebody with a shrimp allergy, that would
be kind of nicea.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
Just crushing you. Yeah you don't like shrimp or I'm
also allergic to people. So YouTube two decades old this year.
It debuted in November of five. It went online in May,
but that was just a beta version. And uh, there's
ten videos that helped put it on the map.

Speaker 10 (16:47):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
They have Leroy Jenkins, he remembered it well for two
thousand and five. A bunch of guys playing World of
Warcraft discussing a battle plan. But Leroy doesn't feel like
talking shouting his own name. That's one of them. Chocolate Rain.
Do you guys remember Chocolate Rain. That's a song drinking
out of cups. Yeah, a talking.

Speaker 3 (17:08):
Lizard, Yes, I love that one. That was an six
oh seven. Charlie bit my finger.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
They said they made have a million bucks off that,
and then they sold the n F t uh and
Charlie the Unicorn also, which is Candy Mountains.

Speaker 5 (17:20):
You said Candy Mountain. Yeah, that one takes a.

Speaker 4 (17:22):
Very doff remember that one.

Speaker 6 (17:24):
We're not going to relive that one, but we are
going to live some of the.

Speaker 4 (17:26):
Sounds of YouTube swap burn we usually do.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
All right, ready, guys, Oh my god, I just ran in.

Speaker 8 (17:39):
Let me.

Speaker 4 (17:41):
Sums me dry.

Speaker 9 (17:42):
And of those deals, the pain, chalk, the prisons make
you wonder where it when chocol lives me shy me.

Speaker 4 (18:09):
It kept putting the finger in his kid's mouth.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
It makes you wonder how some things are take off
and you have no idea why.

Speaker 5 (18:15):
And there's some things when you go back and rewatch
it like twenty years later and you go, oh my, oh, yeah,
that's not even funny.

Speaker 6 (18:22):
Why did we all okay?

Speaker 3 (18:24):
Well, because there it was limited on what was out
there and then.

Speaker 4 (18:28):
We also all evolved.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
I mean the thing right you found funding the twenties
or thirties or forties or shoes is on there?

Speaker 6 (18:34):
Oh my gosh that I still quote Shells.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
Let's Got some Shots Badger's animated music video.

Speaker 4 (18:39):
Many ended up dancing Badgers a keyboard.

Speaker 6 (18:42):
Cat, Oh yeah, keyboard How was huge?

Speaker 2 (18:45):
My new haircut pre Jersey short parody of New York
and Jersey Italian hair and Bros.

Speaker 4 (18:50):
Keys and Hide your kids, Hide your wife?

Speaker 5 (18:53):
As far as the light saber fight one to take
it on there because that.

Speaker 4 (18:57):
One shoes It was very big.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
I was talking to a friend that I was talking
about how in movies and TV shows the parents wait
up and the kid comes in and either they have
some heartfelt conversation or they get in trouble for breaking
curfew or whatever it is. And I'm like, I've never
waited up for my kid as a teen I'm talking
you know, teenagers.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
And he's like what, I always wait up? I'm like
you why what do you?

Speaker 8 (19:22):
What do you?

Speaker 2 (19:23):
What are you doing? They have a phone? Do you
have a phone? The phone's not turned off? He's like,
I just I don't know, I just do Like what
are you gonna do though, there's nothing you can do right, Like,
so when I get sleep, I love my sleep because
you want to.

Speaker 6 (19:37):
Confront them though, like if they were intentionally.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
If yeah, I mean maybe if you want to confront
them over breaking but let's say they're not breaking curfew
or they're even older, like seventeen eighteen, nineteen years old,
they don't even have a card.

Speaker 4 (19:50):
Yeah, I'm not worried.

Speaker 6 (19:52):
I think I still wait up.

Speaker 3 (19:53):
Once I was out of high school, it was not
an issue, Like my parents never stayed up.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
Liz will be going with kid to wherever he's going,
right following him, She's like.

Speaker 5 (20:02):
Oh, I heard there was a party tonight. Oh no,
I'm not that kind of cool. If I party, if
better involve cake and balloons. Other than that, no, to
be there. No, I feel like I would sit up
and wait because I would just want to. I don't
know something about the comfort of seeing them walk in
and you're like, okay, I can go to bed because
they're here.

Speaker 4 (20:20):
Now, Like I get up, but you know, I like
my sleep.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
Yeah, but i'd be well, first off, what are they
doing out on a weeknight? But then second like I
would be I wouldn't sleep anyways.

Speaker 6 (20:31):
I'd just be laying in bed waiting for them.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
Because people agree with you, I don't.

Speaker 5 (20:36):
I'm afraid what if something happened and I slept through
the phone call or the text message.

Speaker 6 (20:41):
I would I've done it.

Speaker 4 (20:42):
Multiple times, but you but your husband wouldn't. So one
of you would get it.

Speaker 2 (20:47):
So some people you know are like you as other
people are like, yeah, I just fall asleep on the recliner.
I mean, why then you're falling asleep still? So what
differences to me?

Speaker 4 (20:57):
Right? She says, I usually know.

Speaker 2 (21:00):
Where time risis from Patricia a time range, but also
I need to or to text me at some point
so I can hear about it.

Speaker 4 (21:10):
I don't wait up.

Speaker 2 (21:11):
I don't purposely wait up, but sometimes I'm nervous and
stay awake. This person dozes off. This person, this one
worries a little bit too. They got to turn off
the TV.

Speaker 4 (21:21):
She says.

Speaker 2 (21:21):
I've seen too many dateline episodes where someone wakes up
and realizes their kid or spouse never came home. Yeah,
come on, that's that's weird. That's a tough way to live.

Speaker 5 (21:31):
Yeah, Like I said, my kid's only eight, so I'm
not in that realm yet, but I worry more about
teenage drivers.

Speaker 6 (21:38):
So I feel like that's why I would worry.

Speaker 4 (21:39):
What would you what help you by waiting up?

Speaker 5 (21:41):
What do you just seeing them walk in safe?

Speaker 6 (21:44):
I'd be like, all right, few, okay, how many of.

Speaker 4 (21:46):
You stayed to them?

Speaker 3 (21:46):
When you get in?

Speaker 4 (21:47):
Wake me up?

Speaker 5 (21:48):
It's different. I won't fall asleep. I'll be so worried.

Speaker 6 (21:51):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
The Julia says her husband waits up for their seventeen
year old and she's like, I'm going to bed.

Speaker 4 (21:57):
She'll call me if she needs me.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
So it's it's kind of back and forth and there,
and some people got in on do you wait up
for your spouse if they're not home.

Speaker 4 (22:05):
I never would do that.

Speaker 6 (22:06):
No, I've done that.

Speaker 4 (22:08):
I bet you would.

Speaker 8 (22:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (22:09):
Yeah, that's actually the reason why ended up. My husband
was a police officer for a long time, and I
have his little dot on my phone.

Speaker 6 (22:15):
And that's when I learned about fine friends.

Speaker 5 (22:16):
Because like i'd work in you know, like media, and
in the mornings when i'd be looking at headlines, sometimes
i'd see on the news site him in the background
of a picture and I'd.

Speaker 4 (22:25):
Be like, yeah, what are you doing there?

Speaker 5 (22:27):
Oh? No, And so I started getting worried, especially if
I would see different things.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Okay, maybe he's working, but if he was just at
with the boys, are you staying.

Speaker 6 (22:38):
I'm not worried about them?

Speaker 5 (22:39):
And that then and then like if somebody's running late, though, yeah,
I'd be like, where are you?

Speaker 6 (22:44):
Or if I wake up and it's two.

Speaker 2 (22:45):
Hours okay, yeah, if you wake up, and then you
might text him or something. But I don't see the
points staying wait to worry.

Speaker 3 (22:51):
Maybe in the old days we didn't have a phone
or something, and now I would be more likely to
stay up just because that's how I not to check
on them or anything, but just because I'm gonna stay up.

Speaker 4 (23:02):
You're off anyway anyway because of that? No, no, no, no, yeah.

Speaker 5 (23:05):
Oh I want them to come home and tell me
all about it. What happened? What'd you do?

Speaker 2 (23:09):
No one wants to talk when they get home. They do, Sure,
sure I do my kids like you don't. But no,
I would never I sleep vital And uh what am
I gonna solve by waiting for them to get there?

Speaker 3 (23:23):
Yeah? Mainly my parents Like when I came home late,
that's when they Yes.

Speaker 4 (23:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:29):
Also, you've made a good point. Now we have Life
three sixty five iPhone. I can see where they are.
I don't even have to worry. That makes it way easier.

Speaker 5 (23:37):
But then what if the DoPT doesn't move enough and
you're like, I know they're moving.

Speaker 3 (23:40):
Good luck with your kids are teens, You're gonna have
a hard time, Matt. Here is Liz Luda asking you
if you wait up for your teams to get home
or you just go to sleep and it'll all be
all right.

Speaker 4 (23:51):
Uh seven or four or five? Seven? One oh seven? Nine?

Speaker 3 (23:53):
Who's this?

Speaker 6 (23:55):
This is Anna?

Speaker 4 (23:56):
And do you wait up? Do you have teams?

Speaker 5 (23:59):
I do?

Speaker 10 (24:00):
And actually I heard about this one time and I.

Speaker 11 (24:03):
Used to wait up, but it's just too much. And
so we I set my alarm on my phone to
go off at their curfew time.

Speaker 4 (24:13):
Oh good idea, so I know if they.

Speaker 10 (24:16):
Come home, and I know if they don't come home,
because if my alarm goes off.

Speaker 11 (24:21):
And they're not home, then I know they're not there
and I don't have to, you know, wait until morning
if they're not home, like and something is.

Speaker 10 (24:27):
Wrong, you know, so it wakes me up. And then
also I have a focus set on my phone that
automatically turns on at like eleven o'clock at night and
then it goes off in the morning so that they
can get through to me anytime. But then other stuff
doesn't wake me.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
Yeah, I do that too. I do that too. Yeah,
that's the way. That's the way to do it. Or
even if you say to your kid, you got to
wake me up when you get home or whatever, But
that's better than why you lose all that sleep, Right,
you're not going to solve anything.

Speaker 10 (24:52):
Yeah, But the thing is, like I thought about telling
him to wake me up when he got home. Then
if he doesn't get home, then I won't.

Speaker 11 (25:00):
Know because I'm late. So if I set the alarm,
then I know if he's home or not.

Speaker 5 (25:04):
Oh yeah, I just played wandering the streets yelling his name,
calling for him.

Speaker 6 (25:11):
He's a minute late.

Speaker 10 (25:14):
When they're when they're like junior, like you know, when
they're a senior and stuff like that, and their curfew
is almost non existent close.

Speaker 11 (25:22):
To college something.

Speaker 10 (25:23):
Like that, like you can't wait up all night and
it turns into like a you know, kind of a
realistic thing and it thinks, but you just have to.

Speaker 6 (25:32):
I'm going to put the fear of my kid.

Speaker 5 (25:33):
I'm going to tell him that if he is late,
I'm showing up in my night out for a.

Speaker 6 (25:37):
Free and everything.

Speaker 5 (25:39):
That that is your punishment for not communicating.

Speaker 6 (25:41):
I will show up to where every wait.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Wait, wait another ten years and then you'll be like whatever, kid.

Speaker 11 (25:49):
I'm gonna say.

Speaker 10 (25:49):
With the alarm, though, then you know if they're there
by curfew and then three sixty two and they don't
have quite the curfew anymore. You can see if they
get home on time.

Speaker 4 (25:57):
Yep, yeah, exactly, you know, exactly.

Speaker 6 (26:00):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (26:00):
I appreciate it. Great call, Thank you, Thank you you too.

Speaker 4 (26:03):
By.

Speaker 5 (26:04):
I think technology is just kind of what's making a
real difference because now we see where our kids are
and you have like a thing on your doorbell, right,
well I have I.

Speaker 4 (26:11):
Have just a house alarm.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Yeah, so when the door is unlocked, their open, it
goes ding' You need you to chimes, okay. And some
people have the like a ring camera and camera and
that ding ding ding will wake up when they get time.

Speaker 4 (26:22):
Stand I'll tell you when they were there. Oh yeah,
I'm so glad they didn't have that when I was
in high school. What did you do?

Speaker 3 (26:29):
Like, I mean, you go in while your parents are
still awake and then sneak back out after you sneak
in before go in before curfew, and then I'd leave afterwards,
you dirty dog?

Speaker 6 (26:41):
What is this like? My parents did not worry about
this because I just didn't go on.

Speaker 2 (26:46):
When I was to do one morning mixed Matt Harris
Liz Luda seven or four, five, seven, one or seven nine?

Speaker 4 (26:51):
Question?

Speaker 5 (26:52):
Do you wait up for your kids until they get home.

Speaker 6 (26:54):
Or do you just go to sleep?

Speaker 4 (26:56):
And who is this? Hey, Sarah? Do you wait up
for the teen?

Speaker 7 (27:01):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 10 (27:02):
I knocked myself back with enough medication to knock an
elephant dead. And then I leave the door a crack open.

Speaker 6 (27:08):
And if that door when she.

Speaker 10 (27:10):
Comes home is not closed, then the locks are changed
on the door the next day.

Speaker 3 (27:14):
Oh that's hard, honestly, mess Iran.

Speaker 6 (27:18):
My sleep is important.

Speaker 4 (27:20):
I get it.

Speaker 6 (27:20):
I get that. I'm nervous.

Speaker 5 (27:22):
You're leaving your door slightly, Ajar. Though maybe I have
more wildlife in my yard. I feel like I would
wake up to a pack of dogs in.

Speaker 6 (27:29):
My kitchen bedroom. The bedroom door, oh, the front door.

Speaker 5 (27:34):
I was like, I'm nervous for critters.

Speaker 10 (27:39):
The bedroom door needs a crack open, so if I
get up you know, to go to the bathroom or whatever,
and it's not closed and it's past her curveew the
locks on the door.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
Are getting changed.

Speaker 4 (27:49):
Wow, stay somewhere.

Speaker 10 (27:51):
So if you could stay somewhere till three o'clock, she
could stay there till seven o'clock.

Speaker 4 (27:55):
Oh, there's a role like that. I like it. I
like it.

Speaker 3 (27:59):
Thank you, I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
In the morning, it's the Morning mixed with Matt Harrison
Liz Luda.

Speaker 2 (28:07):
Monkey barring is a new dating term. Well it's actually
not new, but it's spreading now. Monkey barring think of
the monkey bars, right, So you are one hand on
the other and a bar in the next hand, because
those are your relationships from one relationship to another relationship,
to another relationship to another relationship. Now, the the the
the downside of you do like the thing where you're

(28:31):
in a relationship and you're already bonding with someone and
then that's kind of emotional cheating at least.

Speaker 3 (28:36):
Right, So that's there's overlap. There's overlap on that.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
butN but we've all known that someone who's constantly in
a relationship, there's no downtime. It could be you know,
long term right into another one. Where they get divorced
and right into another one, or separated they go into
another one. It's the act of staying in one relationship
while forming another one, you know, and and and it
can be overlapping, which is problematic. But yeah, if it

(29:02):
just stems from a deep seated fear of being alone
or you don't have the they say you often lack
emotional growth moving around a fear based manner, this fear
of just I can't not have somebody. Yeah, no self reflection,
no establishing independence, And I think that is not great.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
Yeah, I'm the same way.

Speaker 6 (29:22):
I'm the same way. I think it's nice to have someone.

Speaker 5 (29:25):
I hope my husband and I are married until the
end of time, Like I am one hundred percent in
our relationship, but before him, like you, it's it's it's
a want, not a need, basically, like it would be
nice to be in a relationship, but I don't need
a relationship.

Speaker 6 (29:41):
And I feel, like you said, it's a fear of
being alone.

Speaker 5 (29:43):
I always feel kind of sorry for my friends, are
sad for them that have to always have somebody where
it's like, do you even like them?

Speaker 3 (29:50):
Right?

Speaker 8 (29:51):
Right?

Speaker 4 (29:51):
Right?

Speaker 5 (29:51):
How are you so quickly moving forward with this person, like,
you're kind of annoying.

Speaker 4 (29:55):
And I've talked to my daughters. I have two dogs.

Speaker 2 (29:58):
Yeah, so I've talked to them about it, and also
try to show them by example. Yeah, and I was
separated divorce and every and have not had a relationship
and you know, I've been out of dates or whatever,
but they don't know any of that. Yeah, just to
show them, Like, and I often will say, like when
she recently broke up with a boyfriend and not recently
the summer, I'm like, look, man, I'm great.

Speaker 4 (30:16):
Yeah, yeahlid you know what I.

Speaker 6 (30:17):
Need someone, it's just nice to have.

Speaker 5 (30:19):
And I feel the same way because like my extended
family on one side growing up, every time I think
it was starting in like fourth grade, So do you
have a boyfriend yet?

Speaker 6 (30:27):
Do you have a boyfriend?

Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (30:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (30:29):
And even when I went to.

Speaker 5 (30:29):
Visit some of them a couple of weeks back, a
sophomore in high school cousin, they were like, did you
check in with your boyfriend? And I was like, she
is fifteen, yes, and need to check in with anyone.
Excuse you, this is not something you need to have.
But I didn't meet my husband, Boubert until I was
like twenty seven and everybody thought I was a spinster,
so twenty yeah.

Speaker 4 (30:48):
That's crazy too.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
Yeah well you also, like my daughter will talk about
friends who they get in the relationship and they disappear.

Speaker 4 (30:54):
From the yeah oh yeah, from the girl of friendship
or whatever.

Speaker 5 (30:57):
I feel strongly if I, like actually gotten in a
relationship younger, that I wouldn't have accomplished all the things
that I wanted to because of me personally, because I
would have just been like, oh I'm mumby.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
And now again not judging someone who everyone Yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
Yeah, some people get into a relationship or early early
young and it works out and it's great and that's fine,
but that just never taking time to be alone with
your own.

Speaker 3 (31:18):
Self is enjoy your own company exactly. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (31:21):
If I'd met my my husband Boober like in my
early twenties, I would have never known how to take
my car to get the oil changed, you know what, right, Yeah,
I would have never cut my own produce. He would
have just done everything for me. So I needed those years.
So maybe that's part of it too, is I needed
that alone time, growth, learning time.

Speaker 3 (31:39):
Morning Mixed Matt Harris, Liz LUDIFUSHERDJ would you rather Wednesday
and Liz is firing off the first one we saw
Nate Bergazzi talk about.

Speaker 5 (31:46):
Yeah, this was a would you rather that they presented,
and it is would you rather go to space or
go to Myrtle Beach for a week, all expenses included.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
Now, the space thing is you know, the typical you.

Speaker 6 (31:59):
Go up for fish twenty minutes.

Speaker 5 (32:00):
Yeah, and the little Amazon designed rocket or whatever whoever
designed it yet, glorified plane, whatever it is. So what
would you choose? And I think the answer is super easy.
It's Myrtle Beach every single time.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
But it's not like I could see definitely people saying
I'm too afraid of the space Dame.

Speaker 6 (32:18):
I'm not afraid.

Speaker 4 (32:19):
You're not afraid.

Speaker 5 (32:20):
No, I just think it seems boring, pointless.

Speaker 4 (32:23):
Well, you know how much fun.

Speaker 6 (32:24):
I could have at Myrtle Beach?

Speaker 5 (32:25):
Have you seen all those putt put courses?

Speaker 6 (32:28):
If I wasn't having to pay for every individual game?

Speaker 5 (32:31):
Absolutely, if you go up to space, it's like, oh,
here's fifteen minutes of like travel time.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
But you're one of only life.

Speaker 2 (32:38):
I don't know, I know, let's see how many people here?
Six hundred and eighty two people? I guess I've done
the altitude of space.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
Yeah, that would be so cool, or that wins over
Myrtle Beach any day. No, I've been to Myrtle Beach.
I've never been to space.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
And if you are in around people, right, no one
wants to hear about your Myrtle Beach story. No, I
do nothing do You'll tell them, but they don't want
to hear.

Speaker 3 (33:01):
The only reason somebody wants to hear about your Myrtle
Beach story is if something went terribly wrong.

Speaker 4 (33:07):
Oh good point.

Speaker 3 (33:08):
They want to hear about your space trip regardless, right,
you hope it didn't go to yeah, yeah, if it
goes terribly wrong, well that's it.

Speaker 4 (33:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (33:16):
Yeah, Because if I'm going to be the one of
only you know a handful of people have done something,
I'm taking that over.

Speaker 6 (33:22):
But you don't get to have the memories.

Speaker 5 (33:23):
You're not like taking up your family with you. You know,
I bring my husband, my kid, all expense paid, you know,
people like hotel room.

Speaker 3 (33:32):
I'd still take Myrtle Beach. It's not all expense page.
You just look pay your hotel and drive you down there.

Speaker 5 (33:37):
I'm still piking Myrtle Beach really fun and that's a
week worth of memories versus fifteen minutes of like we're
beginning our final descent whatever. Like I it's the most
boring part of travel. You're literally just going for the ride.

Speaker 4 (33:53):
Now, for my rocket is an experience.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
It's an experience, and they always say you're supposed to
do experience.

Speaker 4 (34:00):
It's more than you know.

Speaker 5 (34:01):
Are you saying Myrtle Beach is not an experience? You
need to come on my next family vacation with me.
I think you're just not doing it right.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
I've got another Would you rather for you one more?
Would you rather walk around all the time twenty four.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
Hours a day barefoot or in six inch heels barefoot?

Speaker 6 (34:19):
Barefoot?

Speaker 4 (34:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (34:20):
Now the only downs? I mean, that's pretty dirty. But
also you might not go to get in places. That's yeah,
it's fine.

Speaker 4 (34:27):
I don't need to go anywhere.

Speaker 6 (34:28):
Establishments I'm going to they don't care.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
They don't the other let bare feet are fine.

Speaker 3 (34:33):
Even I would go barefoot and over shoes if I
could noh, like, if it was socially, yeah, I would
probably do.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
I'm barefoot at home constantly. Are your barefoot at home?
It's slippers okay, but not barefoot? Like, I can't imagine
wearing socks at home. Oh I do wear socks sometimes. Yeah,
that's because you have cold to get cold feet all
the time. Maybe yeah, yeah, yeah that was so. But anyway,
myrtle beach is out.

Speaker 6 (34:58):
You didn't answer that your own question.

Speaker 5 (35:00):
Your shoes, No, bare I already have bunions. Which is
the outcome?

Speaker 2 (35:07):
I mean, I like, I guess it's barefoot because I
I'd rather be barefoot. Although people are gonna look at you,
oh man, because you're dirty feet like all day.

Speaker 4 (35:14):
They're not gonna look at you wearing heels.

Speaker 3 (35:16):
Not as like you're walking into a bar with filthy
feet because you've been walking around all day.

Speaker 5 (35:21):
Why are you adding all of a sudden the caveat
that you can't wash your feet.

Speaker 6 (35:24):
Your feet can be clean.

Speaker 3 (35:25):
What if you're uptown, let's say your bar up and
you're you're going to the stadium, going to a game.

Speaker 2 (35:29):
They're not gonna stay clean very long. No, they're not
go to a festival whatever.

Speaker 5 (35:33):
You're gonna dirty feet, yeah, probably, but like on the bottom,
it's not anything's like on the top of them.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
Like right, no, I mean yes, if you're walking mud
or puddle or whatever. You you're gonna be in the
urinals and not in the urnal, but you're gonna be
in the bathroom. Oh that's oh bathroom.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
I said, These carpets here haven't been you know, washed,
their shampooed or vacuums.

Speaker 6 (35:56):
I mean, I'm not saying it's my first choice in life.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
I'm just saying I know, Mad Harris, Liz Luda, and
yesterday I pulled up something about motivation and they only
gave you three choices.

Speaker 4 (36:07):
It was motivated by money, fame, or power, power, and
a little.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
Over half went with money then, but there was a
big forty percent or something where like none of it
motivates me, which I think is fooled.

Speaker 3 (36:19):
But the problem with this job is it causes me
to have a lot of self reflection because.

Speaker 5 (36:25):
I talk about myself a lot, which honestly, I probably
do no matter what workforce.

Speaker 4 (36:30):
Yes, I have no doubt.

Speaker 5 (36:31):
But I have this thing where like, we'll have these conversations,
we'll have these topics, and then I'll just be sitting in.

Speaker 6 (36:37):
The car alone and I.

Speaker 5 (36:39):
Take it to the next level and I started internalizing things,
and that's when I came to the conclusion not necessarily
based on those three things, but that I am motivated
by food and spite.

Speaker 6 (36:53):
And I'm in perfect very much.

Speaker 5 (36:55):
I recognize the craziness in that, but it's one.

Speaker 6 (36:59):
Hundred percent what it is.

Speaker 5 (37:00):
And so I did this whole thing in my brain
where I went through and figured it out, and then
I called my husband and I said, what two things do.

Speaker 6 (37:08):
You think motivate me?

Speaker 5 (37:09):
And without skipping a beat, he goes easy food in spite.

Speaker 4 (37:13):
I said, wow, the game.

Speaker 6 (37:15):
Yeah, no, he knows me. He knows me because I
never stopped talking. So yeah, you'll pick it up. And
so I think part of it is the food thing.

Speaker 5 (37:23):
When I was in school, they'd motivate you with like.

Speaker 6 (37:26):
Pizza, party, Friday, work hard. I'm gonna be honest.

Speaker 5 (37:30):
If you like, promise me like a good snack three
weeks from now, that's all I'm gonna do is think
about it, and I will work towards that goal.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
Well, I mean that's like a kid gets motivated by
a yeah or something. I mean, you know, it still works,
and it's really you know, I guess it gives you
bad relationship with food when it's used.

Speaker 5 (37:50):
Oh yeah, no, that relationship is it is back and
forth is crazy. Now the spy part where I go
a little crazy, and this is gonna make me sound crazy.
And I'm going to keep this story very generic, even
though I don't have to, I'm gonna keep it generic.
But so I hate being underestimated. The biggest way to

(38:13):
motivate me is to tell me I can't do something,
and I turn into Michael Scott and I say, you
have no idea how high I can fly? And I
will be propelled by that. That will light a fire
within me.

Speaker 6 (38:24):
And I don't know if it's left over from child
to drama.

Speaker 5 (38:27):
I don't know if it's like, oh, there's fat lish,
she can't do anything right.

Speaker 6 (38:31):
But it bothers me. And my husband pointed out a.

Speaker 5 (38:35):
Story because he said, baby, what about that selfie you
have saved in your camera role.

Speaker 4 (38:39):
But that's not anybody telling you can't do anything.

Speaker 5 (38:41):
No, And I said, you're right, the selfie, And so
what happened was not anyone who works here, not any.

Speaker 6 (38:48):
I feel like I have to throw that out here.
Safe never worked here.

Speaker 5 (38:52):
There was a thing where I thought everyone was like
vibing and I was new and all I wanted to
do was just fit in and make friends and make connections.

Speaker 6 (39:01):
And we were in a room and the person wanted to.

Speaker 5 (39:04):
Take a selfie with the three of us that were
in the room at the time and themselves, and I
remember smiling in the selfie. I was so excited. I thought,
Oh my gosh, I've made a new friend. I went
and found them on Instagram because I was going to
follow them and like the selfie maybe like free posted
like I was so excited, and then when I saw it.

(39:26):
In the selfie, their body is blocking me. I am
smiling in a picture that you can't see anything except
my feet.

Speaker 4 (39:33):
I wouled or cared.

Speaker 5 (39:35):
I know that it looks like they intentionally blocked me.
And I gonna be anybody or famous, No, not absolutely gotten.
It bothered me. I don't understand like that I wasn't
important enough to be included in this picture. And so
part of what motivates me every day is to prove
that person wrong. That person does not care at all.

Speaker 6 (39:58):
It's so unhealthy.

Speaker 2 (40:01):
Yeah, I think I haven't it. Maybe it took me
a while, but I'm not there like that. I think,
is you care too much? You gotta stop caring?

Speaker 3 (40:08):
Yeah, I guess about what other people think or a little.

Speaker 6 (40:12):
Care about what they think?

Speaker 3 (40:13):
Oh yeah you do? Do you definitely do? How can
you you hear yourself?

Speaker 5 (40:18):
But I mean like like I can understand if you're like, oh,
you know what they well, like not about like my
clothes or like that kind of stuff, but like my
person what they think, like why would you?

Speaker 7 (40:27):
Why would you?

Speaker 6 (40:27):
Why would you intentionally take me out? He did? He did,
There's no way he didn't.

Speaker 3 (40:31):
But even he didn't, new cares I do? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (40:35):
Did you care what people think? People think?

Speaker 5 (40:38):
You know that I was underestimated, like, oh, she's not emboded, that's.

Speaker 3 (40:42):
Not doesn't you're putting in the things in that person's head.

Speaker 6 (40:46):
Yeah, I sure am. Because I'm not going to talk
to them again.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
Things won't be so personal. Laughter, you'll get beat down
in a few more. You'll call me in five years.
They'll be five five. Ye your joy a thea you'd
be like me, No.

Speaker 6 (40:59):
You have joy. You're doing better with it.

Speaker 5 (41:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (41:02):
I don't care as much as you do about things,
that's for sure.

Speaker 6 (41:05):
I just want to be like, yeah, good luck with it.

Speaker 7 (41:09):
Thanks for starting your day with the morning.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
Miss It's the Morning mixed with Matt Harris and LIZLDO.

Speaker 7 (41:15):
Now here's your latest pop up date.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
Powered by Mark Spain Real Estate. Was it yesterday we
played the Jonas Brothers.

Speaker 6 (41:22):
Yeah, they brought out Hanson.

Speaker 4 (41:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:23):
They played it in Virginia Beach, I think last Friday,
and then over the weekend they brought another band up.
Here's some of that sho you know what this is.
Bubastack came on with them in Hersheypa.

Speaker 6 (41:40):
That's cool, which I love that.

Speaker 5 (41:43):
They're choosing the random cities to bring people out. You
know a lot of times when you see people bringing
out other folks on stage, it's like New York, LA,
like really big cities and they're like Hershey Park, Pennsylvania,
We're really gonna we're gonna get lit tonight, guys.

Speaker 2 (41:56):
Well I think that's where the Jonas Brothers are appearing
places like that.

Speaker 6 (41:59):
No, they've had.

Speaker 5 (42:00):
Like a bunch of really big cities and then like
Virginia Beach, Like, I mean, these are great cities.

Speaker 6 (42:05):
I'm not in any way putting them down.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
Like yeah, the uh, but I think if you are
on the bubble of going, maybe you like and you're like, hey, maybe.

Speaker 4 (42:12):
I'll go because you never was gonna show up right,
Definitely do it.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
I mean I were a band, I think I would
want to pull people up if I could, right, as
often as possible.

Speaker 5 (42:22):
If I were like a band, I would literally be like, Okay,
where are the Jonas brothers going to be next?

Speaker 6 (42:26):
Can I have my people reach out to their people?
I would like to have this moment.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
But it also gives you a break from playing your
regular stuff, which I assume even if you love your
you could be even not in this for as Yeah.

Speaker 3 (42:38):
Right, if you're doing any job the same thing every day. Yeah, yeah,
I think that's a cool thing.

Speaker 2 (42:43):
I don't know of other I mean maybe this is
just a short little two times in a weekend, but yeah,
they continue it.

Speaker 3 (42:51):
It's pretty cool.

Speaker 4 (42:52):
Definitely.

Speaker 5 (42:52):
It's almost like a music festival for the price of
just a regular ticket, right, I.

Speaker 4 (42:56):
Mean I assume they only do like two songs or something. Right,
That's cool? What do you have?

Speaker 3 (43:00):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (43:00):
So, Luke Holmbs explained what a Nashville know is.

Speaker 5 (43:03):
He was on Dak Shepherd's podcast, and uh yeah.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Hurricane kind of blows up and then from this Sony
does sign you and then they released this One's for You.

Speaker 4 (43:14):
They passed me the first time well they did.

Speaker 3 (43:16):
I always call it the Nashville know, which is like, well,
we'll be in touch, which is just we're not going
to be in toun.

Speaker 6 (43:22):
We're not going to be which is you know, I
wish that's a Southern thing.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
It's like just tell me now, I'd just.

Speaker 4 (43:27):
Right, we'll be in touch. And by that I mean
we will not be in touch.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
By that, I mean it's another for us, right, he
said the interview, Luke comes seems like a cool Yeah.

Speaker 4 (43:36):
He just seems like a regular Caroy line and chairline
of guy. And uh, he's right.

Speaker 2 (43:40):
Like the saying or whatever is that you move into
a new neighborhood or whatever. In the South, they came, hey,
we got to do dinner sometime, but didn't really mean
let's do dinner.

Speaker 6 (43:49):
What's the problem is I think they do mean that,
and then.

Speaker 5 (43:51):
I'm disappointed, and when it doesn't come to fruition, I'm like,
what did I do wrong between the initial meeting and
now why don't they like me?

Speaker 2 (43:59):
You've been in the South long enough. Yeah, yeah, I know.

Speaker 5 (44:03):
Any direct statements like you don't want to do dinner,
don't don't put it out there on the table, don't
don't leave me that little inkling of hope.

Speaker 6 (44:11):
Just go ahead and dash the dreams now. And it's
easier to move on.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
From because I'll give you earlier.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
With people you're like, hey, we should do this again
sometime doesn't necessarily mean anything.

Speaker 4 (44:20):
It's what you say.

Speaker 3 (44:22):
It means you would enjoy it, yes, but it doesn't
necessarily mean you're going to put the effort.

Speaker 4 (44:27):
In to make it happen, right, or even like the
dinner I think it might.

Speaker 2 (44:29):
It's like you've never I refused to have dinner, but
you're just like, if it happens, it happens.

Speaker 4 (44:33):
It's just not on the priority kind.

Speaker 6 (44:35):
Of were a country singer and I were Luke Holmes though,
and they were like, oh, yeah, yeah we should, we
should get together. I would literally be like, oh, yeah, no,
they're calling any day now.

Speaker 4 (44:42):
Yeah in touch.

Speaker 2 (44:43):
You're like, yeah, you'd be telling all your friends, Oh,
they're going to be in touch any day.

Speaker 4 (44:46):
Your friends be like, what a crazy person?

Speaker 5 (44:48):
Yeah, three days I'm sending follow up, going to get
a card in the mail, like, hey, you said we'd.

Speaker 6 (44:53):
Be in touch. Has something happened?

Speaker 4 (44:56):
Yes, we meant no the whole time.

Speaker 2 (45:01):
Large giant Python no longer in the loose in Newberry
County and the town of Prosperity kind of Columbia, Lake
Murray that area. The Newberry County Sheriff Lee Foster said
on social media that several friends were a will safely
capture the snake after it's spotting the slithering near the

(45:22):
campus of Mid Carolina High School in Prosperity. I would
guess by looking at it it's ten to fifteen feet
maybe maybe. Yeah, it's pretty big, big, big enough, big one. Yeah,
it's not clear just how long it was, they say,
but it looks there's three people holding it, maybe bigger.
The sheriff says it believed it was someone's pet and release.

(45:43):
I mean it's not native here, of course, a python.
It's an albino python to be specific. And the police,
the chief said that the people who captured quote as
their brave people and great Americans.

Speaker 4 (45:56):
They got a little far there.

Speaker 5 (45:57):
I mean it looks like a pet though, because it
doesn't look like a snake you would see here, like, yes,
it does look like it could eat a pony, you
know what I mean, easily. But it also looks like
its name would be Beauregard. You know he gives good vibes.

Speaker 3 (46:10):
He gives good vibes.

Speaker 6 (46:11):
He gives good vibes.

Speaker 4 (46:12):
Would you wrangle it?

Speaker 5 (46:13):
I don't think I would wrangle it, but I don't
think i'd freak out. I wouldn't be scared of it,
but I'd be like, but butterfly, Well that just makes
sense if I would be like, somebody should be called
for this, because somebody else would probably freak out.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
And in Florida, just recently they were addressing their Burmese
python problem. The state holds annual competition that gives members
of the public the opportunity to lend a hand. This
was the twenty twenty five Florida Python Challenge had set
a record. By the time it wrapped, had one woman
walked away the ten thousand dollars prize. She uh caught
more than twenty percent of the total. They fought two

(46:50):
hundred and ninety four pythons, a new record.

Speaker 4 (46:53):
Well she got sixty pythons. Whoa.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
The longest python caught was a fifteen footer.

Speaker 4 (47:01):
Fifteen feet Yeah, no, no, thank They look.

Speaker 5 (47:03):
Longer than that. Maybe it's because they're so girthy. I
don't know what they do look like. It looks like
you know when you see like firemen in a cartoon
and they're holding the fire hose, and it takes like
four of them.

Speaker 6 (47:13):
To hold it.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
Yes, that's what it looks like.

Speaker 6 (47:15):
They're holding the snake.

Speaker 2 (47:17):
There are hundreds of unique species native to Florida that
have found a home in the Evergladesh. There's one that
should not be there, but it just keeps piper proliferating,
which is the Burbies python. They grow up to nineteen
feet in length and they can weigh over two hundred pounds. Oh,
usually in Southeast Asia, but they're all over there. They
believe an exotic animal farm that was ravaged by Hurricane

(47:38):
Andrew in ninety two as the primary primarily the primary culprit.
But some say you can go back, you know, to
people just releasing them as you know, they got pets,
they got too big, and they right them in there.

Speaker 6 (47:50):
Oh yeah, two pound pad like that's.

Speaker 3 (47:53):
A lot of that's a lot of feed, and so
they don't know the.

Speaker 5 (47:57):
Hal you know, is it a terrarium? Pretty buy a
terrium that large. At that point they just get the
guest room, right.

Speaker 4 (48:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
Snake people are a different reptile people are different people.

Speaker 4 (48:07):
This is true.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
I mean, I don't know what the reptile people. They
probably have some sorts in their wall too, It's possible.

Speaker 9 (48:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (48:13):
My buddy Dave is a huge snake guy like he
does like the conventions stuff.

Speaker 4 (48:18):
Does he have sorts? I don't know if he has
the sorts, but he is a huge weirdo.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
He's your friends you can see. Yeah, definitely, Yes, the
morning makes Matt Harris Liz Luda. I'm gonna tell you
how much your friends are costing you in a second.

Speaker 4 (48:30):
But we have a new friend because we gave her something.

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Speaker 2 (48:52):
Before eleven fifty nine, tonight they pulled gen z and
millennials and found that having friends cost you about two
hundred and fifty bucks a month. Oh love that money
spent on going out bunches, dinners late night's general hangs.
It's a lot more for the guy than it is
for the moment. It's like almost three hundred for the
guy and about two hundred for the woman or women,

(49:13):
forty four percent of people have skipped an event with
friends because of the cost.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
Oh yeah, definitely, And.

Speaker 2 (49:18):
And about twenty five percent say it's hard to even
be social because of the cost. Yeah, they definitely definitely spend.
But would you go out? Like I go out by myself,
but I don't spend as much probably right?

Speaker 5 (49:29):
Friends though, are the ones that'll just like come over
and like chill on the couch with you and watch
reruns of Gray's Anatomy while you text each other TikTok
videos sitting next to each other.

Speaker 4 (49:37):
That's what you're hoping for.

Speaker 6 (49:38):
That's my goals.

Speaker 4 (49:39):
Yeah, yeah, uh, that's not my goal, but i'd be
I like to go out. It's fun.

Speaker 3 (49:44):
It is hard to find something to go do that
doesn't cost anything.

Speaker 4 (49:48):
No, yeah, yeah, like disc golf. Disc golf is one, yeah,
for sure. Hiking or something beating.

Speaker 5 (49:53):
Outside, Like you hate picnics, but like I am not
above packing like a little shark cooterie and a picnic
basket and meeting out of park.

Speaker 6 (50:01):
I do that with people.

Speaker 4 (50:02):
Yeah, I don't want to do that. Yeah, because the
bugs and me to do that. Also, nobody wants to
play disc golf with me.

Speaker 2 (50:10):
That's product I will someday, maybe potentially I'll.

Speaker 6 (50:15):
Play disc golf.

Speaker 4 (50:15):
Wow, So you don't do things for fun? There's bugs?
Oh yeah, you hate the outside?

Speaker 6 (50:21):
No, no, no, I have to put some rules out there.

Speaker 5 (50:23):
One, if there's a bug that is bothering me, you
are responsible for killing it. If if I get really
mean and I start to victory dance as I will
clearly defeat you having never played before, but we know
this going in.

Speaker 6 (50:37):
I won't win. You can't hold a grudge against me.

Speaker 7 (50:40):
No never.

Speaker 5 (50:41):
Okay, So bugs and grudges, you want to go? I
got you, I got I'll bring a snack for the end.
I will do that discolf.

Speaker 4 (50:49):
Would then why haven't you?

Speaker 5 (50:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (50:52):
I don't really know anybody in the place. You know what?
You know what this is? This is really bad?

Speaker 4 (50:58):
Do you know what?

Speaker 5 (50:59):
Like p E class I took in college to graduated.

Speaker 3 (51:03):
Really his golf car we got a base level then
WESN Carolina overwhelmed you.

Speaker 5 (51:10):
But my we had baskets make sense. Was a little
flag on it? Yeah, I hit the basket many a time.

Speaker 4 (51:16):
Okay, well, there you go. It is on now. I
can't wait to hear about this