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Speaker 1 (00:01):
In the morning.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
It's The Morning mixed with Matt Harrison Liz Ludam.

Speaker 1 (00:04):
Mix nine Good morning, all forty four degrees. Right now,
it is really out there. I'm gonna get the.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
Seventy one today only in the sixties. Over the weekend
only in the fifties. The first part of next week
fall is here in time for Halloween.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Yes, good morning, Luda Morning and TJ Good morning. Yet, uh,
what week in a day away? Is your kid ready?

Speaker 4 (00:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Are you ready?

Speaker 5 (00:29):
Are ready for Halloween?

Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (00:30):
I mean like you have a do you dress up
when you take him around noon? And you don't know? Oh,
that is shocking to me. That is shocking because I'm.

Speaker 6 (00:37):
So exhausted because we spent the whole month of October
dressing up and by the time I get to Halloween, like,
I'll wear my one costume early on in the day
and then I'm like, all right, it's.

Speaker 1 (00:46):
About the kid that is shocking to be.

Speaker 5 (00:48):
He's supposed to be the center of attention, not me.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Well, you don't have to dress better or more amazing,
trust me, you won't be the kid's always going to be.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
The cuter one. You don't have to dress all.

Speaker 6 (00:57):
But I want people to like immediately see his cost
I don't want them to be trying to figure out
my pun.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Oh well, all right, all right, because because I know
that my kids always wanted me to oh did they?
Oh yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:09):
Uh and and and uh and I you know, because
I'm not a big costume person.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
I mean they get to certain ay, you know, they
running out along by themselves.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
But Avery especially would want me in something, so I'd
pull something together out of a tub in the garage,
right yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:22):
Yeah, And I was Elmo one year and he was
cookie Monster. But I also had to like carry him
up the stairs to ring the doorbells and those too.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
So yeah, it's been a little while. Yeah, have you
hit in the spirit Halloween's? Expect me a little busy
this weekend.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
A third of people over a third who plan address
up for Halloween still haven't picked out a costume.

Speaker 5 (01:43):
You can get inspiration off of my social media.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
It's gonna lead you to Liz Luda on Facebook. She
does cheap, puney costumes. Yeah, what was yesterday's I was.

Speaker 6 (01:54):
Really proud of yesterday's So I literally just had an
E on my shirt and.

Speaker 5 (01:58):
It was blue and I was blue E. Like the
popular cartoon dog.

Speaker 6 (02:05):
Very minimal work, not very much money to make, mostly
because I printed it here at work and then she
got take you attach it to my shirt, and uh,
I feel like it didn't get the love it deserved.

Speaker 5 (02:15):
I'm gonna honest.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean usually she gets millions and
millions of views and things one looped.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
Though blue flop.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Twenty five percent or so of adults say they are
dressing up for Halloween. Good, but thirty seven percent still
don't know what they're gonna do.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Uh. Forty percent of.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
Guys haven't picked it out yet, but only thirty percent
of women.

Speaker 6 (02:34):
I support the energy of like dressing up for work
if your workplace allows it, you know what I mean
that that's the main part I think that you should do.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
You should do.

Speaker 4 (02:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Oh yeah, that's what you're making me, aren't you. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:45):
We've got a costume.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah, I gotta get on that.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Harrison Liz Luda.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
Let's celebrate on the twenty second.

Speaker 5 (02:57):
The twenty third, Okay, I do.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
It's twenty third of October. Morning Makes Birthdays powered by
Mark's main real estate.

Speaker 5 (03:02):
And it's Amelia Clark's birthday. She's thirty nine. You watched
Game of Thrones. I cannot say it? Can you say
her name?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Uh? Target cease has been so long?

Speaker 6 (03:13):
Dangerous No Denarius, Target Targarian, Denarius Targarian.

Speaker 4 (03:21):
Why that is so difficult for me to say?

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Difficult for me?

Speaker 5 (03:24):
Was on Game of Throne.

Speaker 6 (03:25):
She also had this Christmas movie that no one else
saw but me and.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
I really really liked because she had such blonde hair
and Game of Thrones that we you see her sometimes
I'm like, is that is.

Speaker 5 (03:33):
That the same person?

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yeah, yeah? And then she also is an awkward dancer.
I still don't know how to do it. But I
did a funky chicken and I kind of moved into
the robot.

Speaker 6 (03:44):
And as I had, I had some laugh to going on,
and I thought, comedy girl, this is brilliant.

Speaker 5 (03:49):
And it turns out now everyone was laughing at her,
not with her.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Or they were saying, I got a woman doing the
funky chickens amazingly beautiful, right right right, And.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
Then they said, wait a second, is.

Speaker 5 (03:58):
That Amelia Klark?

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah? Does she have dragons here somewhere?

Speaker 5 (04:02):
And then also it's Ryan Reynolds' birthday.

Speaker 6 (04:04):
He is forty nine. He's best known for Deadpool. You guys,
a girl in a pizza place. You know, a lot
of different things.

Speaker 5 (04:11):
But you and.

Speaker 6 (04:12):
I are the only people that have ever heard of
this Christmas movie that is literally like if a Christmas
Carol met City of Angels, that stars Will Ferrell and
Ryan Reynolds and they get up and they sing.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
When you're done the dumps and neat some cues.

Speaker 5 (04:32):
And apples chop and sweet lace put off to you.
I never just Ryan Reynolds could.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Sing good afternoon, is h I mean a bleep bleep thing.

Speaker 5 (04:52):
Yeah, yeah, that's very freely edited.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Yeah, but they it is.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
It's on Apple TV, and it is great, like kids,
and I love it every year.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
It's very Octavia Spencer's in it.

Speaker 6 (05:04):
Yeah, because all these famous people, and every time I
bring it up, people go, what movie?

Speaker 1 (05:09):
It's really good?

Speaker 5 (05:10):
Yeah, I like it.

Speaker 6 (05:12):
And then it's also weird Al Yankovic's birthday.

Speaker 5 (05:15):
He is sixty six, and he has the best parodies
of all time, like a surgeon.

Speaker 7 (05:26):
Lack.

Speaker 6 (05:27):
And I never really.

Speaker 5 (05:28):
Thought about him very much until there was that. I'm
gonna call it a biopic.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
I'm gonna just say it.

Speaker 6 (05:34):
The biopic that had Daniel Radcliffe starring as him in it,
and I really thought I was going into it expecting
to see, like how Bohemian Rhapsody when it won the
Oscar and all that, and it is not. It's a
giant mess of just like things that.

Speaker 5 (05:50):
Never actually happened. It's like his parents like, you can't
play the accordion, we.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
Don't allow that in this house. And you're like what yeah,
and then very quickly you figure.

Speaker 5 (06:00):
Out, oh, oh, this is it.

Speaker 6 (06:02):
Okay, okay, okay, I know, which makes sense.

Speaker 8 (06:07):
It's like what he does professionally, and all of a sudden,
and then there's two national holidays today. One is National
Horror Movie Day, which if you like scary movies, today's
the day to watch them.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Apparently I feel the accent. I would say horror, and
people are like, horror because you just said that, said
very horror.

Speaker 6 (06:25):
Well that's because for years the way I was saying it,
people pointed out that I was.

Speaker 5 (06:29):
Saying it incorrectly.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Horror.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
Yeah, and so I am very self conscious now. And
then the other thing is it's National mold Day, and
so I if you've ever taken chemistry very far, you
have to start doing these mathematical equations. And I made
it pretty far in chemistry and college and I was
like in organic chem three and one day it dawned

(06:53):
on me that it was mole because it stood for
molecule that after I made it, and I like raised
my hand. I was like, I'm so sorry. Has anyone
ever noticed that before? And They're like, oh, wow, that's
why we call it that, and I was like, oh okay,
I just okay.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
So it's a National Molecule Day.

Speaker 6 (07:12):
Well it's Avagadre's number, which is the number that you
used to do the equation for what a molecule.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
Would be or a particle.

Speaker 6 (07:20):
But children who are who are going and doing chemistry
don't don't make mistakes like me.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
All right, more remixed.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
My here is Liz Luda and this La guy has
twenty two million views on this thing.

Speaker 6 (07:34):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Two burglars broke into his home and what saved him
was a wall of bottle, his water bottle.

Speaker 5 (07:41):
Oh yeah, you can swing that, I bet yes.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
Uh. Guy's name is Benoy like b O b I
n O y Benoy music. He shared the moment too.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
Burglar semped to break into his La home through his
patio door.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
He was sitting up pillows in his living room, just
steps away from the patio door. Here's the door handled shiggle.
He says.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
We luckily have an alarm, but as I was trying
to arm it, I could literally see the door handle
going in like violently shaking. As soon as he armed
the alarm, he says, he heard glass shattering and the
alarm began blaring. That's when Benoy says he grabbed the
closest object within reach, his o walla water bottle.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
If you don't know, Wala is like the new Stanley,
then this.

Speaker 6 (08:22):
But this guy like a little handle strapped thing at
the top, so I feel like that would make it.

Speaker 5 (08:26):
Extra easy for swinging.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
It was the closest thing to me undented at the time,
because he shows the video of it now dented.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
So I grabbed it, and I don't know what possessed me,
he says, but I got up and walked toward the door.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
Through the glassmist patio door, he said he could see
two men with their hoods up.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
One had a long pick and a hammer. He said
he started yelling at him.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
He says.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
The intruder with the pick and hammer immediately retreated toward defense,
but the second man decided to fight benoy or whatever.
But then he opened the door pammed the guy over
the head with the water bottom, and then he said,
the guy took the hit and just we kind of
awkwardly looked at each other for a couple of seconds,
and then he lunged him me again, and I hit
him again, and at this point he was out of there.

(09:08):
He hit him a couple more times in the head.
He did stumble backward and attempted to climb back over
the fence.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
And a weird thing, this guy says, the guy left
the burglar left the backpack behind, and the guy was
swinging the water bottle, so he grabbed the backpack and
threw over the fence. Oh come on, I kept that.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
I mean, like, look through this find out who this
person is.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
That's what he said.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
I thought you're gonna say he had.

Speaker 6 (09:30):
A water bottle in the back back year and I
could have got in a fight with the two of them.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
His friend said that, you know, why the backpack? Why
did you do?

Speaker 3 (09:37):
I said, well, my only thinking was if I threw whatever,
he won't come back for it, Like maybe he'll come.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Back for it. But yeah, so anyway, he says, shout
out to a walla for low ki saving my life
might be more than Loki, right, but there you go.
I guess there was a reason to carry forty eight
thousand ounces eighth water. And then this real quick floridiot.
We have to have a flora guy. Of course.

Speaker 3 (09:58):
John Moss, seventy six years old, has a signed in
front of his house that says, you know, one of
his big ones, absolutely no drugs. A lot on this premises.
I think we know where this is going. John was
arrested multiple charges after drug trafficking searched his house. Thirty
two ounces of cocaine, thirty six grams of boxing cotin cotton,
forty four two grams of marijuana, seventeen of out whatever

(10:19):
bunch of stuff morphine met that feta means bah blah
blah blah, and twenty thousand of cash, multiple handguns.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
There you go. We don't know what tipped them off,
but apparently they didn't walk up the door and go, well,
this kind of science has no drugs, right.

Speaker 6 (10:31):
Clearly, clearly, let's take home, guys, let's wrap this one up.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
The morning mixed Matt Harris, Liz Ludas quirky and finds
weird things on the social media.

Speaker 6 (10:41):
Including folks talking about their danger foods. So your danger
food is that one food that, no matter what, whenever
you get it, if there's someone else with you, you
have to say, I need you to take this away
from me because I physically cannot stop eating this.

Speaker 5 (10:56):
I cannot stop. I need help. And I think we
all have that food, some of us have more than others.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
But there's some dangerous say that just yeah, yeah, a
lot of things I have that I just don't even
put in the house because yeah, right, you did it.

Speaker 5 (11:10):
The other day.

Speaker 6 (11:11):
You had a bag of chips and you're like, take
them so that I don't eat them, And.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
I was like, so that I eat them?

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, yes, but you love it.

Speaker 6 (11:17):
Well, yeah, but that doesn't mean I should. But what's yours?

Speaker 1 (11:22):
Cereal?

Speaker 5 (11:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (11:23):
NonStop? Okay cereal?

Speaker 3 (11:25):
Even if it's like a you know, boring, semi healthy kind,
I'll a gazillion tons of it.

Speaker 7 (11:29):
Oh yeah, mine's gonna be chips and Q soo just
eat so much of it. Yeah, give me the biggest
bowl you have, I'll eat it.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (11:40):
You're gonna fill the entire crop pot to make your
caso and then just sit with it.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
Plugged in next to.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
The couch towards it.

Speaker 6 (11:46):
Yeah, mineus white cheddar popcorn, and so I cannot stop
once I open a bag.

Speaker 5 (11:52):
It doesn't matter what the brand is. I love it
so much.

Speaker 6 (11:55):
And my husband hates it because he says it smells
like dirty feet, which I don't get that smell at all,
but he's like, it smells like dirty socks. And so
when we're in the grocery store, whenever I go to
like get a bag, he always tries to be like, now,
baby baby bybey. You know you say you can't stop
eating that. You always get mad after you eat it.
Maybe we shouldn't get it trying to you.

Speaker 5 (12:17):
He's not trying to shame me. It's because he doesn't
want to smell it.

Speaker 4 (12:20):
And I want to go.

Speaker 6 (12:21):
Ahead and point out this is the same man that
left an open sour krout packet in my car the
other like that.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
Dare he?

Speaker 5 (12:29):
But there's all sorts of different ones.

Speaker 6 (12:31):
We made a video. We put it up on our
social media. Ronda said French onion dip.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Oh, yeah, I get started.

Speaker 5 (12:38):
Yeah you want to start?

Speaker 6 (12:39):
I mean the problem is okay, this is how I
know I have a problem. My hand's too big for
the jar, but I'll still keep trying to scoop. I'll
still try to get my hand in that space every time.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
I break the glass, and then and I'll try to.

Speaker 6 (12:57):
Use the spoon, but then I'm just like I can't
get it all out.

Speaker 5 (13:00):
And then Jack said.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
Salami, Oh, salami, that's a choice.

Speaker 5 (13:04):
Yeah, that's a real choice, Jack.

Speaker 7 (13:07):
I can eat a whole sleeve of Oreos without much effort, Like, yeah,
it's too easy.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
I have a problem with Trail mix. Ohrail mix.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
Yeah, mine's checks mix, which I think is in the same.

Speaker 3 (13:21):
Kind of handful handful handful the next Yeah, I might
have just dump the bag.

Speaker 7 (13:26):
It feels like you're not eating as much when they're
all mixed together like that.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
I don't know why it's it. Yeah, and it seems like, oh,
this is kind of healthy as a raisin in it.

Speaker 6 (13:34):
Yeah, candy, And then thing with the Chex mix is
like it's no shade. I'm always like, this isn't even
that good. Why did I buy it? And then the
whole family size bag is gone.

Speaker 1 (13:44):
Oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
In the morning, it's the Morning mixed with Matt Harrison,
Liz Luda, Little.

Speaker 3 (13:52):
Game Time action between Liz producer TJ.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Little background.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
I don't know Liz at the super competitive human being
like super super o.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Her husband will not play games with her.

Speaker 5 (14:05):
He absolutely refuses. No board games, no card games, because
he says he doesn't like the person I become getting married.

Speaker 6 (14:11):
Yeah, and I'm I'm feeling a little slow today.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
But I'm stretching over here.

Speaker 1 (14:15):
Great excuses already.

Speaker 4 (14:16):
No, No, I will win. I am going to win.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
Okay, get a blurt, okay, okay, all right, okay. So
like if I would say the things in the sky
the clouds start, you would lose because I haven't given
you a letter yet, son, things in that sky that
starts with the letter A airplanes.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
There you go. That's an example. There we go.

Speaker 5 (14:41):
I gave you that one.

Speaker 1 (14:43):
This is a bathroom round. Something in your bathroom that
starts with a p.

Speaker 7 (14:49):
Oh Man Purt conditioner, Sure, a plunge or whatever?

Speaker 1 (14:59):
Right, thinking, yeah, good, one something in your bathroom that
starts with S shampoo. Wow, something in your bathroom that
starts with R.

Speaker 5 (15:11):
Well, not a refrigerator, that would be weird game.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
Whoa good answer? I was thinking, you know, a rug
or a robe or something like that. Uh, something in
your bathroom that starts with an L laundry.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Sure, sure, I'll give you a laundry. Yeah, yeah, a
loofa would be good. There you go. Oh okay, something
in your bathroom that starts oh wait, you did that one,
all right, Something in your bathroom that starts with a
T toothbrush? Oh whatever, whatever new categories. It's it's not
over yet.

Speaker 4 (15:48):
It's not over.

Speaker 5 (15:50):
I'm coming back.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Uh. Things you take people to court for. Oh gosh,
something you go to court for that starts with C
oh crimes? Sure, sure, that's pretty broad. Child support? Yeah, okay.
Something you'd go to court or that starts with D divorce?

Speaker 6 (16:15):
Yeah yeah, and I'm the only one without that experience.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
By way, you need one to win TJ. No, No,
it's four to three.

Speaker 5 (16:24):
No, I need to win.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
Something you'd go to court for that starts with a alimony?

Speaker 6 (16:31):
Sure?

Speaker 3 (16:32):
Coming back strong. Wow, Something you'd go to court for
that starts with M murder.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
There you go. I'm also terrified of you, Liz. I
know she came by murder right out of the gate.
Thanks for starting your day with the.

Speaker 7 (16:48):
Morning, miss.

Speaker 2 (16:49):
It's the Morning mixed with Matt Harrison.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
No, here's your latest pop up. D okay.

Speaker 6 (16:55):
Well, first off, we're powered by Marsday in real estate
and Dakota Johnson as a red flag when it comes
to men. And her rule is absolutely no flip flops.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Oh okay, I've heard women say that.

Speaker 6 (17:09):
The first she did add the in public after the
first time she said it, so she did an interview
with Vogue Germany. She said, it's a non negotiable. If
you see a man in flip flops, she need to run.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
She's supposed to do with the pool or the beach.

Speaker 6 (17:21):
And my first thought I had is I know that
they've recently broken up, but she was with Chris Martin
for almost a decade, like eight years, and if there's
anybody that gives me flip flop vibes, it's Chris Martin.
So I thought, well, let's do some investigative journalism.

Speaker 5 (17:34):
And I started googling trying to find pictures of him
in flip flops. And it turns out.

Speaker 6 (17:38):
He doesn't wear flip flops. He just walks everywhere barefoot.

Speaker 5 (17:41):
Just on the roads.

Speaker 1 (17:44):
Yeah. Right, But she broke up with him, so maybe
he did wear him At one point, she says, she.

Speaker 4 (17:51):
Said, you know what. This is the final straw. Did
you wear those flip flops to the store? You are
out of here.

Speaker 3 (17:56):
I imagine him wearing very expensive sandal. Yes, that's where
I'm at a little pretentious.

Speaker 5 (18:03):
Everything I saw he had on slides or he.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
Was just slide barefoot.

Speaker 6 (18:07):
Yeah, yeah, which is so Chris Martin.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
I feel like, definitely, definitely it was like him.

Speaker 6 (18:15):
Like walking in la with like a shopping bag, just barefoot.
Like there's so many pictures of them over the years.
And you know who does wear flip flops, his ex wife,
Quyneth Paltrow.

Speaker 5 (18:24):
So I don't know, I don't know. Maybe he used
to wear.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
The flip flop, he said, for a man, not for
a woman. Yeah she did. Yeah, yeah right.

Speaker 3 (18:30):
I don't know what you're supposed to wear at the
pole of the beach if you don't have I guess slides.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
Swim shoes swim no, no, no, no no.

Speaker 5 (18:38):
I wear them everywhere in the pool and the ocean everywhere.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
That's very goofy. That's horrific. Well, swim shoes, yeah, that's
that's horrifying.

Speaker 5 (18:45):
You don't want to step on anything roads, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
But a flip lever or a slide will cover that.

Speaker 5 (18:51):
Yeah, but they'll float off in the ocean.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
Oh, you won't go in the air for the ocean barefoot?

Speaker 5 (18:55):
No, whoa you cut the bottom of your foot?

Speaker 1 (18:59):
Do you know how many people are in the ocean
every day and how many people cut their feet? Very
it happens, but not Yeah.

Speaker 6 (19:04):
I mean a lot of things happen in the ocean
I'd rather not experience.

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Speaker 1 (19:49):
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Speaker 4 (19:51):
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Speaker 6 (19:52):
Every time I have submitted so many times to be an.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
Extra all my friends.

Speaker 6 (19:56):
They pop up in the background Hallmark movies and Good Humor,
popsicle ads and all these things, and I never get
selected because I am too large for the sample size everything.
Oh I'm too tall, I stand out, I'm too large,
my feet are too big. I want one where I
can submit.

Speaker 5 (20:14):
With just the pictures and then it. Let it be
a mystery, you know.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
What I mean.

Speaker 5 (20:18):
Stand by something really tall so I look delicious.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Just leave out the shoe size. Maybe they'll come back
and ask.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
Also, they look at a car, so your vehicle information
there because they might need a specific car for filming.
And then you also put on the air your special skills.

Speaker 6 (20:33):
Happened my car would get a cameo and I would say, like,
oh you were so.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Your dog or something. Yeah, special skills or experience you
put in that, like you don't line dancer your motorcycle rider.

Speaker 5 (20:44):
One time I lied.

Speaker 6 (20:45):
On one of these and said I could roller skate
and I couldn't. And even that didn't get me a
call back.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
That's a weird one to pick though. Uh.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
And then you know all that sort of thing, and
you can also go there's a casting Facebook page for
the Hunting Wives.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
You can probably hunt that down.

Speaker 6 (20:59):
Let's see, it's been an extra like a million times.
Do you have any advice for me? Can I use
your pictures and just put my name?

Speaker 1 (21:05):
Hey? No, I.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
Was all just set up through context. I never went
through the process. So there's somebody out there.

Speaker 1 (21:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (21:16):
I will stand in the background.

Speaker 4 (21:17):
You know, I will be quiet.

Speaker 1 (21:19):
I will. I don't that's the problem. I know you
can't be quiet in.

Speaker 4 (21:25):
The background of a scene.

Speaker 6 (21:26):
I'll be fine, I promise, I'll behave I'll bring my
own quote.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
You know, it's almost cracked up to be It's pretty
boring day really.

Speaker 6 (21:33):
Yeah, but the idea that you like will always be
in that episode.

Speaker 5 (21:36):
That's so cool to me.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
Your your voice will always be on the air in
a podcast somewhere. Not the same, huh, it's not. There's
me for half a second show, Morning Mix, Matt Harris,
Liz Lutup, TJ. And rituals.

Speaker 5 (21:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (21:53):
So there are all these psychologists and like relationship experts
and they are saying it is super important to have
relationship rituals and that that leads to stronger marriages, partners,
and that the reason is it gives consistency and connection.
And I love this the idea that there's something that

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you do together, just the two of you, that you
can look forward to, but you always know when the
next one's going to be, where you kind of like
plan ahead.

Speaker 1 (22:21):
Oh I don't know you had to plan ahead, because
I saw them and think one of the things they
listed was you like, you have a TV show you
watched together.

Speaker 6 (22:25):
Which you plan ahead on, Like, hey, if it's coming
on on Thursday.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
Oh, that's only back in the day we had to
watch it on a real one.

Speaker 6 (22:31):
Well yeah, but you're like, okay, it comes out on Thursday,
we can watch it on Friday.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
I don't like the setting an appointment thing, but I
do like a ritual.

Speaker 6 (22:38):
Okay, I mean I like the setting the appointment, So
I mean you wouldn't have to, but you.

Speaker 1 (22:42):
Know, because then I'm like, eh, what if something better
comes up?

Speaker 4 (22:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (22:45):
Yeah, But like I know people that did every Thursday
night they had pizza Thursday night and they watch TV
together and they eat pizza and they try and they
do the expensive pizza where it's not just like let's
use the coupon it's like, let's try this one that's themed.

Speaker 1 (23:01):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (23:01):
Yeah, and then the.

Speaker 6 (23:02):
One my husband and I we had for forever and
I actually miss it and it.

Speaker 5 (23:06):
Sounds so dumb.

Speaker 6 (23:07):
But before we live in Gaston County now, so we
have trash pickup, but we didn't have trash pickup, and
we had this date every week called domp Tuesday, and
we would lay down the seats in our vehicle and
fill it with our trash bags and drive to the
dump fifteen minutes away, making stupid jokes the entire time

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about the trash and then we have to sit in line.

Speaker 5 (23:30):
It was like a whole hour ordeal.

Speaker 6 (23:32):
And then there was a man with a hot dog
stand like down the road, and after we dropped the
trash at the dump, we'd go and have a romantic
lunch date of hot dogs.

Speaker 5 (23:42):
And then we'd go get the kid from school afterwards.

Speaker 3 (23:44):
Yes, I know it is harder as you get older
to get busier, like if you're both working, yeah right,
you got you multiple kids, you're running from here to
there or whatever, so it does become more difficult, but
you also need it in regular relationships too.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Went away. Yeah, some sort of like time you guys.

Speaker 3 (24:04):
The guys get together, the guys get together, get together
with a friend or yeah or whatever, that little thing.

Speaker 5 (24:08):
To look forward to.

Speaker 6 (24:09):
And so I did go and scour the comments section
to see if we could find like some good ideas
for some more and I like this one.

Speaker 5 (24:15):
It's called the Oreo.

Speaker 6 (24:16):
Deprief and it's this couple that every night, which maybe
maybe I just want oreos, but they have five oreos
and milk at the end of the day and they
take at least fifteen minutes to chat about what happened
at their day.

Speaker 3 (24:28):
Okay, yeah, I think that especially a short one, like
I was thinking of the dedication to like doing a
show together.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
But yeah, that's a good one.

Speaker 3 (24:35):
Every night whatever, nothing have to be over, but like
we're gonna take fifteen minutes or ten minutes or whatever
it is.

Speaker 6 (24:40):
And I think I gravitated towards the food ones because
this one they're in their marriage. They have something called
ice cream Sundays, and they eat Sundays together every Sunday
and then they like talk about their week. This one
she said that her and her husband they have kids,
young kids, and so when they go to bed, they
have cereal time together.

Speaker 1 (24:58):
Okay, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (25:00):
I'd be interested in how old or how long some
of these people have been together, right, yeah, right to see,
but it changes when you've got.

Speaker 6 (25:08):
I feel like this one hits a little harder Jeopardy
together every night.

Speaker 5 (25:12):
This one couple watches Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
I mean if you yeah, if you could do that,
that is cool.

Speaker 5 (25:17):
And then Costco dates.

Speaker 6 (25:18):
I love a good Costco Sam whatever. I can't any
of those walking with that giant oversized car.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
No, because well, I just feel like that.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Is one where one of the people doesn't like it,
but it's doing it because they're talked into it, like
there's some compromise.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
They're like, I'm gonna get them next time that they're
gonna do this with me because it positives are two
people in a relationship both love going to Yeah, the Costco.

Speaker 5 (25:44):
I hate shopping, but I love going to Sam's club.

Speaker 6 (25:47):
You love Yeah yeah it because there's so many things
to look out. There's samples, so it's like a free meal,
you know, and you stroll around. It sounds like it
ad I promise it's not my own.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
I can't. I can't do it.

Speaker 6 (25:59):
It's like, oh, do you want to look at the
fleece pullovers?

Speaker 1 (26:03):
That your kid.

Speaker 5 (26:06):
No, no, no, that's just our time.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
Good Okay, that makes more sense.

Speaker 5 (26:11):
Gosh no, with my kid, it would be miserable.

Speaker 3 (26:14):
Good morning mixed Matt Harris, Liz Luda and a producer TJ.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
And we want you to play long.

Speaker 3 (26:18):
You'll have to either mentally if you're driving, or write
the amount down that you might earn from each of
these things. Okay, would you not eat your favorite and
it's gonna build and money. Not eat your favorite food
for a year for ten thousand dollars, yes, one hundred percent.
Come in fifty thousand dollars to stay in one room

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of your house for ninety days, can't leave?

Speaker 5 (26:43):
Is that room? Got like in a bathroom with a shower?

Speaker 1 (26:47):
Like?

Speaker 6 (26:47):
Is it like? Well, you can pick the room, so
something like sleeping on the bathroom floor.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
Yeah, maybe that's just nice. Probably find a room that
you could do. I'm definitely doing it.

Speaker 5 (26:55):
Yeah, I mean I'm gonna do it. What am I
even quing questions?

Speaker 6 (26:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (26:59):
Yeah, what you gonna do it? You'll find a room, right, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
Legally change your name to something the Internet chooses at
random for four hundred thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, I'll do that. Yeah, forever. I'm in Oh, Liz
is on the bubble. I didn't have a name. Yeah,
you already go like, but men, I go buy a
radio name. That's not me. My last name is the same.

Speaker 5 (27:26):
But I'm doing it.

Speaker 3 (27:28):
Okay, after four hundred and sixty grand, Okay, for five
hundred grand, have a milk for one full year. You
wear nothing but black and white clothes, You watch black
and white TV, you eat black and white food.

Speaker 6 (27:41):
Yeah, yeah, I could watch Casablanca. I'm wearing a checkerboard
mix and I'm eating oreos.

Speaker 5 (27:46):
Yeah that's easy. That is hard on easier than changing
my name.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
No, no, no, that's harder because I mean, can I
watches I can't watch sports unless just retro fit a TV.
Okay maybe okay, but also, uh, what's black and one food?

Speaker 1 (28:00):
What is there? Oreos? Eat oreos for a year? Would
we live through it? That is a type of what
it would be. I guess we could come pasta right,
so right food rice? Okay, there you go? Uh four
million predicta. Liss is not doing this one permanently. Erase
every digital trace of you on the internet never easy, easy, Yeah,

(28:23):
no problem. I means you lose all your pictures all
your everything's fine, you're not you're out.

Speaker 5 (28:28):
Yeah because a kid, Yeah, because my kid. I want
them to be able to have pictures of me of you.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
Yeah. Oh, I don't care.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
If they have pictures of me, then it'll figure it out.
I think I'm probably going in for four mil. I'm
out on that five million. Quit your job and do
a random job for a full year.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
Can be any just just could be like some wheeliest
fin It could be anything you'd be digging, putting on
a roof.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
Could be, uh be anything I don't want. You don't
get any say it's uh five mil for one year.
I think I could do any job. I think I
could do it for a year, whatever it is, work
in the sewer system, you know whatever.

Speaker 5 (29:01):
I mean.

Speaker 6 (29:01):
I guess I could retire after that one year. So
I just have to work really hard. But like what
if you ended up like there's some really there's some
jobs I don't think I could do well.

Speaker 1 (29:09):
I'm assuming you can do the job.

Speaker 6 (29:11):
No, No, I mean like emotionally, oh hell yeah, you
know what I mean, like a corner.

Speaker 5 (29:16):
Or Yeah, I don't want to do that. I don't
want to be the person that that picks.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
You're out.

Speaker 6 (29:21):
Yeah, the stuff off the road, like the roadkill Yeah.
Oh yeah, yeah, I don't want I couldn't do that,
So you're out on that one.

Speaker 1 (29:28):
I'm in for five mil. I can do anything for
a year, Yeah, definitely, I'm out.

Speaker 3 (29:33):
Okay, ten million live like it's the eighteen hundreds for
five years. That means you've got electricity and no.

Speaker 6 (29:41):
No noogy based on the lack of penicillin and antibiotics.

Speaker 5 (29:44):
I'm out.

Speaker 7 (29:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (29:45):
I don't think I'd make it the full five years
without any medical I did it for a year.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Would you tough it out for a year? I do
it for a year.

Speaker 4 (29:53):
I think I'd worry a little too much.

Speaker 5 (29:55):
I know, I don't even get allergy medicine. Then you
know how miserable that year would Yeah?

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Miserable? For ten million? Yeah, uh, thirty million? This is
I think that we we this. This is stupid one
on here. You can never lie ever, you cannot five,
you cannot exaggerate. Everything has to be straight up truth.

Speaker 5 (30:12):
Yeah, no, I got that.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Yeaheah.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
Oh we've had an easy peasy and then fifty million,
Liz might be a tough one for you. Disappear for
a year, no contact with family, friends, relatives, anything, Absolutely
not one hundred.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
And yet you can come back after that year. After
the year, you can come back. Yeah, I'm what you never.

Speaker 5 (30:30):
Get that time back.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
Time is the most.

Speaker 5 (30:31):
Valuable thing you have.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Fifty million.

Speaker 5 (30:33):
Your time is worth more than anything else in this world.

Speaker 6 (30:36):
It is.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
But my kids will be set for life.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
So I took care of them, right, and uh, you
know they I'm probably not gonna be that great in
this next.

Speaker 6 (30:44):
Year, right yeah, yeah, yeah, fifty million, absolutely not fifty
one year.

Speaker 5 (30:50):
I cannot do.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
You ask six months a week.

Speaker 5 (30:56):
For fifty million. A week, I can do a week, six.

Speaker 1 (30:58):
Months for fifty million. No, really, wow.

Speaker 5 (31:03):
I think a month is the most I can give you.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
I might give you more than a year, but a
year I could do a year, yeah, a year, yeah yeah,
fifty mail for a year.

Speaker 7 (31:11):
It would be miserable again, like working the miserable job.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
But like, but you can do stuff you don't just
from the planet. You just different people, you know.

Speaker 3 (31:19):
Right, yeah, so you have interactions, you're still traveling.

Speaker 6 (31:22):
You miss so many special moments in their lives. And
you were like, no, absolutely not. Time is too valuable.

Speaker 2 (31:29):
In the morning, It's the Morning mixed with Matt Harrison Liz.

Speaker 3 (31:32):
Luda Deeply passive aggressive people almost always send these texts.

Speaker 6 (31:39):
I always feel so attacked though when we do these,
because I don't realize things are passive aggressive, and I'm like, oh,
I meant this genuinely.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
Well, they do say that sometimes older people don't get it.

Speaker 6 (31:50):
Well, that didn't feel passive aggressive. That sounds very direct,
but okay, sir.

Speaker 3 (31:54):
Fine, Yeah, it checks the disengage box that passive aggressive
people tend to fall into but avoids any you know,
real conversation.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
Uh so fine, Okay, that makes I can see that. Yeah,
I guess that's one way to look at it.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
Oh yeah, that doesn't even seem passive aggressive.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
That almost seems that's a little aggressive.

Speaker 5 (32:18):
I think I've said that before.

Speaker 6 (32:20):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can be like, oh, well, you know,
I guess it's all gonna work out because.

Speaker 5 (32:24):
This, and I guess that's one way to look at it. Yeah,
that is good. Like I think I've done that.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
I think that I take it as I guess that's
one way to look at it. Like you're the wrong
old way.

Speaker 5 (32:35):
See, this is why I don't text. Youre always like
Liz just text people.

Speaker 6 (32:38):
Don't call them, and I'm like, I'm not good with
a written word.

Speaker 5 (32:41):
I need to be verbal.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
I don't care.

Speaker 5 (32:45):
That's direct.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
Passive aggresive people will sent text like I don't care
during a conversation, even though when someone's actively hurting feelings.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
They then they can say like what I just said,
I mean it didn't matter to me. I don't care.
Then they're the victim. But yeah, I don't. I can
see that. I can. I'm sure I've done that. Where
do you want to eat? I don't care? Yeah, yeah,
obviously it can be taking it away. Uh, good for you,
they say, they condescending.

Speaker 5 (33:12):
I say that one.

Speaker 6 (33:13):
Like it's in congratulations sometimes.

Speaker 4 (33:15):
Good for you?

Speaker 1 (33:16):
Yeah for you?

Speaker 7 (33:17):
Right, Yeah, you can mean that genuinely and it's still
sound terrible.

Speaker 4 (33:22):
You know what.

Speaker 6 (33:22):
There's another one and I don't know I made the list,
but I love that for you. That can be misconstrued,
but like I would, I have said that.

Speaker 4 (33:30):
I genuinely mean, like I.

Speaker 5 (33:32):
Love this for you, Like this is why you need my.

Speaker 3 (33:35):
Tone're good for you? Yeah, well, they don't use it.
This is a weird one, and I do this. Wow,
this is our passive aggressive person is not actually surprised.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
They're just trying to make you feel bad.

Speaker 5 (33:47):
What is this passive aggressive or just missing social cues?

Speaker 1 (33:50):
But I don't know about that. But I think though
that maybe if it's just wow, most people would write
like wow, that's awesome or wow whatever.

Speaker 3 (34:00):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
And my daughter has yelled at me about this.

Speaker 5 (34:03):
Well they have k here oh yeah, that one I know.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
Or even Okay, I've told my daughter. She says, you
have to do KK.

Speaker 3 (34:12):
And I'm like, I'll do KK to you, but I
feel like a child right in K Yeah, I don't like,
but I do it to her. It's even more so
traditionally passive of course that things are sure good for you,
things like that noted.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Oh I used that one a lot. Yeah, they noted.

Speaker 3 (34:30):
It's uh again, it's it's another person responds poorly to
this language, and they can go like, hey, I just
said noted, getting all bent out of shape for so
noted don't bother?

Speaker 5 (34:42):
Okay, well, don't bother feels direct.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
I know, not yeah, but it could mean but if
I put it this way, I can swing by and
pick you up, but don't bother, you know, or I'll
bring you oversea. You you neant you to bring you
some food, don't bother. I mean it doesn't necessarily mean it,
but yes it could be. Well why would you think that? Uh,
that's the way of them gasolating you. Whatever you want

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can be thoughtful, in innocent. But if you are PASSI
aggressive person, you use that a lot.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
Whatever you want, you're getting mad about that you use
that one. I take it.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
Yeah, I know.

Speaker 4 (35:14):
I just like you.

Speaker 1 (35:15):
Want all of these things.

Speaker 5 (35:17):
I'm now going to have even more.

Speaker 6 (35:18):
Of a complex about rights and texting people like I
already struggle with it.

Speaker 1 (35:23):
I know you do. I maybe I don't care. I'll
remember the last one is ill remember that next time?

Speaker 6 (35:32):
What?

Speaker 1 (35:32):
No, how is that manipulating? Uh?

Speaker 3 (35:36):
I don't know, holds in hints, phrases like they are
encouraging people.

Speaker 1 (35:40):
To walk on eggs shells or something. I don't know.
I'll remember that next time.

Speaker 7 (35:44):
Oh man, I think I'm super passive aggressive and I
don't mean to at all.

Speaker 6 (35:48):
Vers ever thought I'm passive aggressive. I promise I meant
it genuinely.

Speaker 1 (35:53):
Genuine passive aggressiveness.

Speaker 5 (35:55):
I just can't aggressively like I meant good for you.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
The other day that I'm not nearly as excited enough
as my kids still me that when when I'm responding right,
And that was an article about that you're supposed to
be if you're just like, that's.

Speaker 5 (36:09):
Great, you know what it is. I think you will
read into anything anyway that they want to.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
Well that yeah, that killed keen peel feeling key keen
peel key and Bill, So that is a really good
what are they text back and forth and they totally misunderstand. Yeah,
one thinks it's a fight and the other guy thinks
it's laid back.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
But yeah, so you just I use your charge to
give people a break.

Speaker 5 (36:29):
This is why I call in FaceTime everyone.

Speaker 3 (36:30):
Oh god, Oh I'd rather be thought as a pascif aggressive.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Absolutely and talk to people on the phone.

Speaker 3 (36:37):
Morning Mixed Matt Harris, Liz Luna. We're supposed to avoid
some people.

Speaker 6 (36:41):
Yeah, so there's five people you should avoid. It's according
to a psychologist named Carl Jung. They did like a
big write up on it in Your Tango. The number
one person you should avoid is someone who is a
perpetual victim. They're always like the person that's like, oh
my gosh, all this happened, and then you always feel
bad for them, and apparently it's not good for your
sense of self because you'll start to identify yourself in

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the same way, and you might start to pick up
some of that behavior, and then you feel like everyone's
out to get you too.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
Or or you spend all your time trying to save
them from perceived Yeah. Uh you know what it was
word only perceived wrong?

Speaker 5 (37:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (37:21):
The second one is people that act like they're morally superior,
And the way you can usually quickly identify them is
they don't get mad, they're just disappointed.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
Oh yeah, yeah, I know. I know that to feel
like that look or whatever.

Speaker 6 (37:35):
And I felt a little attacked because I think I've
said that to my Steve before.

Speaker 5 (37:39):
Buddy, I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
That's the kids, that's for your kid. Yeah, that's a classic,
is a classic parenting.

Speaker 6 (37:48):
And as soon as I saw that line, I went, oh, no,
that's okay soul searching.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
I say, it's okay for parenting.

Speaker 3 (37:55):
It's okay for parenting to say you're disappointed, but the yeah,
the morally superior, Yeah, that is a problem. Also, you
can be morally superior but not but give people grace. Yeah,
or give people bad like you know you obviously I'm
morally better than some people, you know something.

Speaker 1 (38:14):
Not a lot of them, but just somewhere in jail. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (38:17):
The third one is the taker.

Speaker 6 (38:19):
They're always gonna take, take, take, as long as you
have something to give, and as soon as you need
to take, they're not gonna have anything.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
Oh yeah, usually you know who they are.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
Usually, and you still do it because you're like, I
don't know why, but yeah, you through life, as you
get older, you start to drop some of these people off.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
But you've had we.

Speaker 5 (38:34):
Start to recognize the pattern, like you Yeah, you're.

Speaker 6 (38:38):
Like reaching out to them because you've been going through
a tough time and all they want to do is
be like, well let me tell you about you know which,
Yet again I need to do some soul searching. The
performer who lives behind a mask, they said, is the
fourth one, And it says because everything can appear a
little too perfect and scripted, you never really know them,
like it's like.

Speaker 5 (38:56):
They're putting on a show at all times.

Speaker 3 (38:59):
Yeah, yeah, yes, and it's hard to prove right. You're like, yeah,
just can't possibly be this, can't it's right?

Speaker 6 (39:05):
And the answer is usually know in fact it is
not trust that gut feeling yes and.

Speaker 3 (39:10):
Run, but is probably the opposite, like that grouchy fello
over there.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
There's no way it can be that bad.

Speaker 5 (39:17):
What I like, I think there's like comfort in that person.

Speaker 6 (39:20):
I was just like, all right, all right, that's a
very real person.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
An humorous like I like to mock my car breaking,
like I just like to make it a thing, right right, silly? Yeah? Yeah.

Speaker 5 (39:33):
And then the last one that you.

Speaker 6 (39:34):
Need to avoid is the critic who has no self awareness.
So they're very critical of you, but then they never
turn that back on themselves for any growth.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
Oh, even handle that with. Somebody's always critical to you,
just even if they.

Speaker 3 (39:45):
Don't turn it around. I don't, I know what, right,
I know all my shortcomings.

Speaker 5 (39:49):
And yeah what doesn't nobody can be as mean to
you as you are?

Speaker 1 (39:53):
Yes, yes, yes, that's a fair list.

Speaker 6 (39:56):
And it's not just like romantic. I mean it could
be in the workplace, be friendship, yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
Oh yeah, I would think more so in those things.

Speaker 3 (40:03):
Yeah, I would hope you because you're more likely to
hang on to I think a friend who does some
of those things than a romantic partner that does some
of the most of those things. Yeah, you're yeah, you're right,
because you're just like, oh, you know, it's that's that's Joe.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
I've known him for fifty years, right, he does that,
you know, that's how he is. Yeah, you just deal
with it.

Speaker 3 (40:21):
But if it's a relationship, a lot worse to your
self esteem.

Speaker 6 (40:26):
I'm just taking a job. It's the worst because then
you're just kind of trapped because you're like, I'd like
this paycheck.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
Yeah, but your in and out. It's hours of your
day compared to the rest of life. Right, Yeah, are
you're saying TJ and I are on? Come on? I mean,
is that passive aggressive.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
Morning MANX Matt Harris, Liz lout up yesterday and I
told us it's on my matter of Facebook page too,
this story about the crowning out of gas and then
slammed the trunk down into my phone, broke my phone
a little bit, and then I could not find my keys.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
And I want to know.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
If you've ever lost your keys in like in a
weird type situation, or you found him. We had looked
for him seven oh four five seven seven nine seven
four five seven seven eight because I.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Knew they had to be there. I drove there. I
don't know how I'm gone anywhere.

Speaker 6 (41:16):
You need to share that you lost your keys between
getting out of the car and pumping gas getting back
in the car.

Speaker 5 (41:22):
Yes, that's like three steps.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
That is three steps, and so it's a skill. My
buddy was just sitting in a car laughing at me,
which I think is I mean, that's what I would
have done, right, Yeah, until eventually I think he got
hungry and it's like, all right, I'll help you and
found the like in a little crevice like where the
trunk is and whatnot. And I tell this story. TJ
had a what he thought was lost key story. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (41:47):
So I go to the bar to meet some friends.
This is I don't know, ten more than ten years ago.
And as I'm walking in the bar, I like threw
away some trash from my car. And then I walk
in and I realized I don't have my keys, and
I'm like, oh no, like you know, you go to
lock it, you know, as you're walking in, just a

(42:07):
little paranoid, and then it's like, oh no, did I
just throw those keys away? So I like go in,
I get some gloves from the restaurant. Oh you got
gloves and well, yeah, I'm not gonna just dig through
the trash.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
And I saw digging through the trash. First I looked.

Speaker 7 (42:25):
I did a first sweep of the car to make
sure I didn't leave them in the car, and then
after almost emptying out the whole trash can, I go
and get somebody to bring me my keys. Like, I
could not find these keys anywhere. I just assumed they
were gone, and then I eventually find them the next day,
maybe two days later. They're in that crevice between the

(42:48):
middle console and my seat, like actually where the seat
track is where you can slide it. Yeah, it's like
in there, and you know it's there the whole time.

Speaker 6 (42:59):
Yes, be honest, the fact that you had someone you
could call that had an extra set of your keys,
I would have avoided the trash can completely.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
Well, I would have just there.

Speaker 5 (43:08):
Yeah, I immediately I'd have been like.

Speaker 1 (43:10):
The trash trash, I mean it's trash. I wouldn't even
have gotten gloves. I can tell you that.

Speaker 5 (43:16):
I know you would have dove and head first, got
a snack on the way.

Speaker 1 (43:19):
Hell yeah, but that is that is a place that
I always tell people they've got to look because.

Speaker 3 (43:23):
I've done that before too. Yeah, that is because your
keys are sometimes black. It's black or whatever color. Its
stark down there and it's right in that sick right,
And it was nice the way forward and all the
way back yep, to try to find it.

Speaker 7 (43:34):
Yes, And I did that on the on the initial
and it was just like nothing.

Speaker 6 (43:38):
Yeah, has a magnet on a ring and she like
if she can't find her keys, she like puts it
in between the seat and looks to see if it
feels like magnet ketch.

Speaker 1 (43:47):
That's smart.

Speaker 3 (43:48):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I know we were playing football
in the snow and one of the guys lost their.

Speaker 1 (43:53):
Keys in that big field. Yeah, and uh, I don't
know how, but we found them after. Oh, I was
like maybe just was in the door. So the snow
was I don't know, four or five inches of snow right, yeah,
and it's like actual snow and it was dark. We
parked all the cars around the field because it had
gotten dark, right, and then just went through it and

(44:14):
you found that so dedicated.

Speaker 6 (44:15):
I'd be like, wow, belongs to nature. Now when the
snow melts, I will come back.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
Thanks for starting your day with the morning miss, it's.

Speaker 2 (44:23):
The morning mixed with Matt Harrison, Liz and now here's your.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
Latest pop up, dated by Mark's been in real estate.

Speaker 5 (44:30):
Kevin James is out here being real weird.

Speaker 6 (44:32):
I saw I scrolling through TikTok yesterday and I came
upon a video of an art teacher talking about like
how he reaches his students and how he likes to
paint and technique. But it looks suspiciously like Kevin James.
His name on there is Matt Taylor, and I was like, this,
that's Kevin James. That's not There's no way there's a
doppelganger that's like that close.

Speaker 5 (44:54):
So I went through and like watched the videos, and then.

Speaker 6 (44:57):
My husband, who's like really good at being for se
and like recognizing people.

Speaker 1 (45:01):
How do you not recognize him? Well?

Speaker 6 (45:04):
I know, but like you have to think, like maybe
there's just somebody out there now that we have a.

Speaker 5 (45:08):
I did somebody like do something where they put him
in this thing. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (45:13):
But so I played one of the videos for my husband.

Speaker 6 (45:14):
I was like, oh, this is cool our teacher and
he laughed and he's like, oh, it's Kevin James. And
I was like, oh, thank goodness, it's not just me,
and so he's grown to over one hundred thousand followers. Now,
yesterday when I was on there, it was like thirty
seven thousand, and there's five videos, most of them have
over a million views, and I swear it's Kevin James
just talking about his students. So I have a couple

(45:35):
of conspiracy theories.

Speaker 5 (45:37):
One, he's working on a movie or.

Speaker 6 (45:39):
A project and this is his way of getting free publicity.

Speaker 5 (45:42):
Two, he has a really weird sense of humor and thought,
you know, it.

Speaker 6 (45:45):
Would be funny if I just made a fake account,
change my names and went.

Speaker 5 (45:49):
Really deep on this. Or Three maybe there's somebody out
there that.

Speaker 6 (45:53):
Does look like him and maybe you know, used some
form of AI to help them.

Speaker 5 (45:57):
You're crazy, but do you sell the clip over their TJ?

Speaker 4 (46:00):
This is the class class beast is enough.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
If anybody else has any more questions about aren't throw
him in here?

Speaker 4 (46:05):
Throw him in here because I can help you with
your projects.

Speaker 1 (46:08):
And again, nothing to be a shame though, but I'll
answer all questions with.

Speaker 5 (46:10):
That, Kevin James, what's going on?

Speaker 6 (46:14):
Yeah, so I haven't seen this in any of the
gossip sites, So maybe I'm just the person that's being
taken for a ride right now?

Speaker 1 (46:20):
Why are you being I mean, it's just him goofing around.

Speaker 3 (46:23):
I mean he might be a movie or something, or
it could be just him just being goofy. It's like, yes,
seventy million posts or something like that. Uh yeah, is there,
it's it's it's him, I mean, unless, but I don't
know how you did not note that was him.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
Kevin James, I.

Speaker 6 (46:41):
Like questioned myself though. It's just like, this man's not
got that many followers. Like his name is Matt Taylor.

Speaker 1 (46:47):
Maybe he's taken off on that.

Speaker 3 (46:49):
Uh you know that other comedian that did that with
a weird voice and the mustache and sh yeah shit.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Like he's just like, I'll be somebody else and do
it later it lady j. He's just like, yeah, I'll
do this and see what happens. But uh yeah, uh,
let's see what else they have.

Speaker 3 (47:08):
Oh uh the crayola. I'm gonna make this a pop thing.
The favorite color has been announced, which is weird to me.
They asked one hundred and eighty three different countries. Uh
and this if you watch Devilwaar's proud.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Of you know this And I don't even know how
to say the thing, say it Cerulian.

Speaker 5 (47:23):
It's because I told you, yes, yeah, otherwise I.

Speaker 1 (47:26):
Said Kaurullian or something. Yeah, Ceruleans.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
Anne Hathaway's blue sweater with Meryl streep shames her or
if you're here.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
My life, Yeah you have, but only from the crayon.

Speaker 4 (47:36):
Yeah, from the crayon, I know.

Speaker 1 (47:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (47:38):
In the nineties it was real big. That's the color
we used to color the sky.

Speaker 3 (47:41):
In the top three crayon colors are the Zerulian blue,
Robin's Egg blue, and Wistaria purple.

Speaker 1 (47:49):
Oh uh.

Speaker 3 (47:50):
And if you break them down by age, Cerulian number
one for gen Zer's millennial and gen X baby boomers
went with purple heart and the favorite crown color for
kids these Mac and Cheese skyblue.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
Is there a mac and Cheese color? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (48:04):
They got like retired and then they brought it back.
There was like a whole thing, and there's people that
collect them, just the craons, Yeah, trying to find the discontinued.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
Ones, Crans, Crans, crayons, grange. Everybody says a different.

Speaker 5 (48:17):
My husband says crowns and I'm like, oh gosh, yeah.

Speaker 6 (48:21):
Nails on the trackboard. I want to say Crans, but
I know it's crayons.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
So I like, I didn't even notice crayons.

Speaker 5 (48:28):
Sometimes I give the why. Sometimes I don't, Oh, Craans,
I say Krans, but I know that it's crayons. In
the morning, it's.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
The Morning mixed with Matt Harrison, Liz Ludo.

Speaker 3 (48:43):
Someone said Jelly Rolls super kind and generous on his
uh tour.

Speaker 5 (48:47):
I would rather have the gift of being left alone.

Speaker 6 (48:50):
But yeah, so according to Alexandra Ka, who went with
him on one of his tours, the Beautifully Broken Tour,
she said he would give these really extravagant gifts, like
and it was just free T shirts.

Speaker 5 (49:01):
It was like, oh, you get a YETI cooler, you get.

Speaker 6 (49:04):
A smoker that's pretty cool, which that I would love, right.
But she did say that the big gifts and the
really cool things would usually come at night when everyone
was already asleep, and she said she'd quote be in bed,
face mask on, makeup, off, hair extensions out, and then
she'd get a call like, hey, I rented out the
Space Needle.

Speaker 5 (49:23):
Everybody come on.

Speaker 6 (49:24):
And then it would be so exciting because then you
get to go to the Space Needle. I would be
so irritated because as soon as I take my bra off,
my shoes off, it's been a long day.

Speaker 5 (49:36):
Don't be expecting me to come back out right.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
Yeah, Like.

Speaker 6 (49:41):
That's a cool experience when you still have your bra on,
you know, don't don't make that a thing. I feel
like that's like, hey, guys, we're not we're not coworkers.

Speaker 5 (49:52):
We're like a family.

Speaker 6 (49:53):
And it's just like, yeah, no boundaries, Okay, sure we
are like a family.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
I'm that would be cool.

Speaker 3 (50:00):
I'm guessing you know, obviously their schedules are different, so
they're not getting up early in the morning, and Jelly
Roll might have to go when there's no one there
to these plays, true, right, so he's got to do
it at a weird are you recognizable?

Speaker 6 (50:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (50:11):
Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 6 (50:13):
And I mean that's like a giant tourist attractions. You
probably have to wait to a certain hour to shut
it down from everybody. You don't care about the space
A late concerts run though, I know, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
So like age, it's like.

Speaker 6 (50:28):
Eleven PM, you finally get home, you put on like
a rerun of the Office. You're on the hotel bed,
the air conditioners blowing, a little too hard and then
come on.

Speaker 5 (50:39):
Out to the space needle. The last thing I want
to do with socialize at that point.

Speaker 1 (50:42):
It's hard to get off the couch most people when
they get home.

Speaker 5 (50:45):
Yeah, don't you that to that.

Speaker 1 (50:46):
I don't want to go to space needle.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
But if it was something cooler than that, well it's jelly.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
But I guess you work with them every day.

Speaker 6 (50:51):
You know what, though, don't I don't need the element
of surprise. If you're going to do it, you already
know you're going to do it. Tell me before I
get all, you know, minded down for the day.

Speaker 3 (51:01):
But that'd be like someone saying to you at noon
or one o'clock. It would be the same time, like, Hey,
I got this thing. I'm gonna go do this cool thing.

Speaker 6 (51:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (51:10):
I would rather you tell me at noon or one o'clock.

Speaker 6 (51:12):
If you tell me at two pm, though, and you're like, hey,
I know you're already out in Gaston County and you
took your brother.

Speaker 5 (51:18):
No I'm not coming.

Speaker 1 (51:19):
Nope. Even some special food item, it's gotta.

Speaker 5 (51:23):
Be real special, real special.

Speaker 6 (51:25):
And I'm still showing up in my pajamas.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
And I thought maybe she was super young, but she's
like in her early thirties or something, because when you're younger,
you're definitely up for anything. And oh yeah for sure.

Speaker 5 (51:36):
Yea, no, I'm too tired now.

Speaker 3 (51:38):
Morning minutes about Airsliz Luda, How much do you think
you spend a year on tips?

Speaker 1 (51:41):
So you don't think are warranted just because you feel
like you're like, but they didn't really do anything. Uh.
The new report the average person's paid around one hundred
and fifty bucks in tips. I think my numbers higher
me too. They're not totally comfortable with I don't know.

Speaker 3 (51:57):
I mean, it's just these are the little situations where
people are a little uncomfortable. They don't think you, like
a tip should be expected, like for a dog groomer
or an oil.

Speaker 1 (52:08):
Change, which I think are two different things. Yeah, yeah,
je seems like a tip. Oil change doesn't seem like
a tip.

Speaker 6 (52:12):
Agree, Yeah yeah, I would tip a dog groomer for
certain an oil change.

Speaker 5 (52:17):
I don't think they've ever given me the option. That's
the thing is, if you've like flipped a little screen around,
yeah yeah, or if it.

Speaker 6 (52:23):
Has the option that shows ten, fifteen, twenty percent or other,
I'm going to always give you a tip because I'm like, oh,
I guess I'm supposed to.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
Right, I've not seen in the oil change thing, but
I guess it very well could show up at some
point where you feel pressure at tipping more than you want,
like at a casual counter service restaurant, yeah, or at
but I don't think they should be in the same
category they say at a casual counter service restaurant for
a ride service or a hair salon, but I think, oh.

Speaker 6 (52:54):
No, that was a little different because like a hair salon, yeah,
I'm absolutely tipping you, and then at the casual checker.

Speaker 3 (53:00):
Are tipping, but they say tipping more than you want
because of pressure. I guess I think that I just
do the normal number of a hair salon, ride service.

Speaker 1 (53:09):
There's a little bit of pressure sometimes, yeah, because you
want you're good rating to survive.

Speaker 6 (53:16):
I don't even know what my rating is, honestly, but
I I never I always.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
Tip, Well, yeah I do, but sometimes I'm afraid of this.

Speaker 4 (53:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (53:26):
But the thing is is like there are so many
times where I tip for just like picking my own
food up, which is cool, but then I'm like, I
almost feel bad for the people that wait tables though,
because I'm tipping just as much to the other people
as I was tipping the people waiting tables.

Speaker 1 (53:40):
Okay, I see what you're saying.

Speaker 6 (53:42):
I'll be like, oh, yeah, I'm picking up my order.
Oh it says twenty percent, okay, twenty.

Speaker 3 (53:46):
Well, I don't know if I I don't know if
I always do twenty on the pickup. But sometimes the
server is boxing up the bag, right, so you are,
So they're getting a tip for actually doing less. Yeah,
so you don't feel after the server if you're the
one boxing it up, if it does take some time.

Speaker 1 (54:03):
But I don't know, I gue. Yeah, let's see what do.
Sixty percent of people said fed up with tipping. That's
up from fifty three percent just two years ago.

Speaker 6 (54:14):
That's because it's everywhere. There are places where you're like,
I don't think this, like like there are some I
don't know, Like there are some places I'm trying to
think of one off the top of my head where
you're just.

Speaker 5 (54:25):
Like, does that? Does that get one?

Speaker 1 (54:26):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (54:27):
It's the counter service things I think sometimes where you
went and got drinks out of a cooler, you got
your sandwich out of somewhere, and then you walk over Yeah.

Speaker 5 (54:36):
Seem like a jerk.

Speaker 4 (54:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (54:37):
If you go to a food truck and it's the
owner of the food truck who is making the food
that is expensive to be coming out of a food truck,
and then you tip on top of the food truck
food to the owner who is cooking, and.

Speaker 5 (54:49):
Do I don't know sometimes that I'm like, I feel
like now, but.

Speaker 1 (54:53):
You're tip because they're still doing the work, and that's
you know, they're still to.

Speaker 5 (54:57):
Make the price higher.

Speaker 3 (54:58):
You're the boss, which all the time though you might
be just doing a shift or a shift here and
a shift there. And they've tried some of those things
where you experimented restaurants with reason the price in the
but it doesn't usually work out correct. Yeah, forty say
they're to be a restaurant service twenty percent or more,
but it doesn't tell me I'm hoping that another percentage.

Speaker 1 (55:19):
Are that's still low? Right?

Speaker 6 (55:22):
It should be a restaurant, I guess usually like my,
oh that's my that's.

Speaker 1 (55:28):
My low too. Yeah,