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December 26, 2023 106 mins

The viral IG & TikTok sensation Eli Harwood (aka AttachmentNerd) joins us on today’s episode of The Open Relationships Podcast to talk all things Attachment, Lasting Bonds, Relationship Health, and SO MUCH MORE! How can we discover LOVE and SUCCESS? Find out in this episode!

 

Chapters:

00:00 - Welcome to The Open Relationships Podcast

01:24 - Who is AttachmentNerd?

02:55 - What DOGS can TEACH US about PARENTING?

11:00 - Why are SO MANY people having a RELATIONSHIP CRISIS?

22:20 - Making the HARD CHOICE to GET HELP

30:00 - What Happens When You DON’T MAKE CHANGES in LIFE?

36:11 - Saying YOU’RE PROUD of your CHILDREN

41:20 - The PARENTS I WISHED I HAD

48:00 - The SCIENCE of ATTACHMENT

59:25 - Choosing between SHAME, CONTEMPT, and GRIEF

1:05:20 - How CHILDREN learn to EMOTIONALLY REGULATE

1:12:50 - The SNOWFLAKE FALLACY

1:21:20 - COMPARISON CULTURE

1:34:35 - SHUT DOWN vs CALM DOWN

1:39:00 - Needing Validation is OKAY

 

Attachment Nerd Videos referenced:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrDuXfsAJpX/?hl=en - Puppy Love

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cr0uPiqAaO7/?hl=en - Snowflake Fallacy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvAHZJuAYTd/?hl=en - Boy Moms

 

“Open Relationships: Transforming Together” is a new podcast aimed at helping people truly open up to one another and to themselves by digging into hard truths and varying perspectives. We offer expert-approved relationship advice to help you grow emotionally through sharing compelling stories, vulnerable discussions, and personal insights we hope will spark inspiration. 

 

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