Kick the day off with real talk: from an icon’s private battle to a viral fashion rumor, from youth intimacy in crisis to a pulpit meltdown — welcome to the full-spectrum rundown.
In a brutally honest sit-down, Gucci Mane and his wife Keyshia Ka’oir opened up about his diagnosis of bipolar disorder and schizophrenia, revealing how she monitors his phone and behavior to intervene when episodes of psychosis strike. Meanwhile, a claim that Cardi B had struck a $55 million deal to become a brand ambassador for Louis Vuitton was quickly shot down by the brand, underscoring how celebrity-rumor culture and luxury marketing collide online.
During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the crew took on how teenage dating abuse looks in the digital age, noting that about 1 in 12 high-school students report physical violence from a partner and nearly 1 in 10 report sexual violence. Each story connects in its own way to power, expectation, and the impact of private actions made public.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
The show, Andy, Good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
This week found the morning show in the day is
going to be a good day. Let's welcome Pastor Reva
tims Sing, your pastor of the Majestic Life Church in Orlando, Florida.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Good morning, Pastor Riva.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Well, good morning to you, Ricky, and good morning to
the Ricky Smoley Morning Show family. We want to get
our days started off right in prayer. Father, thank you
for who you are in our lives. We come to
you with hearts full of gratitude, awe, and humility. You're
the God of mercy, the God of second chances, the
god who restores what was broken and brings light in
(00:45):
our darkest places. In a world that's quick to cancel
and quick to condemn, you remain constant in your love
and overflowing in your grace. Thank you Lord, that no
one is beyond your reach, no failure is too deep,
no past is too heavy for your red mean and Father,
you are the one who says, come, let us reason together.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be white
as snow. And you do not discard the broken, But
you men do you rebuild.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
Father.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
We take this moment as a reminder that grace still wins,
that the cross is still enough, that restoration is possible
when we come to you with honest hearts. Father, help
us right now to be a people who forgive as
we have been forgiven, to extend mercy as we have
received mercy. And Father, I pray for those under the
(01:32):
sound of my voice, those that are lost, that they
may return back to you, and those that are wounded.
Right now we pray that they will rise yet again
in your name. Thank you for being a God who restores,
and thank you for being a father who never gives
up on his children. And the mighty name of Jesus.
We pray, and everyone say, amen.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Hey, we appreciate you. Path Three, ladies and gentlemen. That
was Path Thrieve tim singing Path of the Majestic Life
Church in Amendo, Flaida.
Speaker 7 (02:03):
Entertaining on the freaking Smiling Morning Shot.
Speaker 8 (02:09):
Here's what's going on in the news.
Speaker 9 (02:11):
A potential tragedy was stopped at Atlanta's Heartsville Jackson, the
world's busiest airport. Police save forty nine year old Billy
Cagle threatening to shoot up the airport during a live stream.
Officers later found an AR fifteen in his car, investigators
say it was Kagle's own family who saw the threats
online and called police, a move that likely saved lives. Cagle,
(02:34):
a convicted felon, now faces multiple charges, and police believe
mental health issues may have played a role. A federal
appeals court says President Trump can deploy the Guard and
the courts can't stop him. Judges rule that presidential decisions
like this are not reviewable and Portland couldn't show any
harm since troops haven't actually been sent there yet. Governor
(02:56):
Kotek wants the full Ninth Century Court, or Ninth Circuit
Court that is.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
To revisit this case.
Speaker 9 (03:02):
She says the decision weakens constitutional rights and gives too
much power to Washington.
Speaker 10 (03:07):
These actions that deploy troops are a gross Unamerican abusive power.
The federal agents on the ground are essentilly instigating conflict
with folks who are lawfully protesting the shooting off of
tear gas and other things. Oregon remains united in the
fight against this unwonted, unneeded military intervention in Oregon.
Speaker 9 (03:29):
For now, the ruling only applies to the Western States
under the Ninth Circuit. But here's the thing. This could
set the stage and the precedent for a broader actually
president if higher courts uphold it. Amazon Web Services say
it finally got zack together after a massive outage had
the whole Internet glitching yesterday for hours. People were losing
(03:50):
their minds as Venmo would send outlooquid load zoom, calls,
froze mids sentence, even Alexas giving people the silent treatment
and ring cams went. By Monday night, though, AWS said
everything is back to normal, but experts say that little
digital meltdown could end up costing hundreds of billions of dollars.
For info on these stories and more, Goda, Rickie Smiley Show,
(04:13):
Ricky Smiley Morningshow dot Com.
Speaker 8 (04:16):
Now here's a look at sports rock.
Speaker 11 (04:18):
Te The sports genius is in the building. Right up,
be backout, Scars foot race, Greyfield tank kept there, touchdown.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Lions, come on music to my ears.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Right there?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Touchdown Detroit Lions.
Speaker 12 (04:36):
Man they beat the Bucks last night twenty forty nine
doubleheader on Monday Night football. The Seattle Seahawks beat the
Houston Texans in the second game.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Right there.
Speaker 12 (04:46):
Bad news for Tampa Bay Do they lose their star
wide receiver Mike Evans due to a broken collar bone.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
The World Series is set.
Speaker 12 (04:53):
Ladies and gentlemen, the LA Dodgers and the Toronto Blue
Jays will face off to be the Major League Baseball
Baseball champion.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
So we'll see what happens with that right there.
Speaker 12 (05:02):
And I got a little more information on Doug Martin's
fatal death. His family broke his side, broke their silence, man,
shedding some more light on his mental health issues, Like
they said, he had a lot of mental health issues.
And right before the police officers were called, he broke
into allegedly broke into a neighbor's home, but he was
(05:23):
something oriented, not really knowing where he was and what
he was doing or whatever. Then when they call the
cops and then they detained him, they put him in cups,
they put him in the car and he ended up
being non responsive like once he got in the car.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
So we still don't know what.
Speaker 12 (05:38):
The what the cause of death is man, So we'll
keep you posting on that man sad situation.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
That's my quick sports sport right there.
Speaker 12 (05:44):
Good morning, Brett, drop it, drop it like a good
morning Brett.
Speaker 13 (05:57):
Good morning m on to everybody. I'm your girl, Brett
ted Tad and this is the hot spot. But we
bring you music, movies and more. So let's get off
into it well, y'all. Doing a recent interview Gucci Mane
and Keisha Kyo opened up about his experience with schizophrenia
and psychosist management. Kisha broke down the various ways she
would help him, and he also revealed that he had
(06:17):
to cut off some of his friends from stealing from
him while he was having his episodes.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
He's what they had to say.
Speaker 14 (06:22):
I take his apps off his phone. First thing I do.
I delete Instagram, I delete everything.
Speaker 15 (06:27):
Even if I got to change his password, I'm changing
it because I don't need the public to know he's
diving an episode, because you're not going on Instagram.
Speaker 14 (06:33):
You're not going on Twitter. It's deleted, you know.
Speaker 15 (06:36):
And I just control everything at home and now before
the episodes come, I catch it. So that's why he
hasn't had another one. And how you catch that is
he doesn't speak to you. He wants to be left alone.
He don't eat, he does not sleep, and I'm like,
you're sick, and we snap out of it.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Right.
Speaker 16 (06:51):
I would give my friends jeried and like they know
I went, well, they'll take it I feelt like, damn,
they know I was someone's going on with me, but
they'll take it. So like when I got out of jail,
like I cut off all my friends friends, I'm like, damn,
never taking advantage man.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
That's crazy.
Speaker 13 (07:04):
Man, You never know what people are going through. And
kudos to Keisha k Off for Yeah, he got him
a real one.
Speaker 7 (07:11):
And she's beautiful and she's.
Speaker 13 (07:12):
Smart and she she she stands by her man too.
Speaker 7 (07:16):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 17 (07:18):
Spouse though, somebody that you know that's gonna look out
for you and make nobody else can.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
And I'm glad he cut those people off. That's so
why would you?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
That's so not.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Cool to steal from somebody?
Speaker 13 (07:28):
Want they having like an episode that ain't.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
Your friend nowhere? That's crazy, all right, y'all.
Speaker 13 (07:34):
Last, but not least, Bryceon Taylor, just give the Chris
Brown a brand new Lamborghinie.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Come on, bryceon Tylor.
Speaker 13 (07:41):
The gift marks the end of Chris Brown sold out
Breezy Bowl Stadium tour, which featured Bryson Taylor is one
of the special guests. The two artists have collaborated and
supported each other for years, and this gesture was Tiller's
way of showing gratitude for being part of one of
Brown's biggest career moments. He even shared a video of
the Black Lambert with the caption, thank you Chris Brown. No,
you didn't need another Landbow, but I'll forever be thankful
(08:03):
to you for bringing me on your first ever stadium tour,
Breezy Bowl Complete.
Speaker 7 (08:07):
I just want to.
Speaker 13 (08:08):
Reiterate to Team Breezy that this gift wouldn't be possible
without y'all. So it's not just for me, it's from us.
Oh my goodness, Ice, that'sh what's up. I love seeing it, y'all.
I love seeing love instead of hating people hating on
each other and going against each other.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
This is awesome.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I love this.
Speaker 13 (08:26):
Congratulations to bryceon Tiler and see Breezy. All right, y'all,
we're gonna wrap up the hotspital on that note, but
for more information on these stories and more, you can
go to Ricky Smiley Morning Show dot com and you
can catch me on all my social media and so
so Bratt.
Speaker 18 (08:40):
What's the problem, man, I kiss you them muggas you
ain't you ain't spawning no more.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
Three o'clock in the morning, shy, because.
Speaker 18 (08:48):
I will die in the country all we can. I
have a very good, very fun weekend. Well with my cousin.
Know they got a fall fun down at Waitquawd George.
You ever heard of Wakequaald, Georgie. Yeah, God, we want
down there. We went down there on Saturday morning and
I'm still down here waiting to get a right back
up the old.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
But make it.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
You can make it the way across Georgia.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
But you can't make it work.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
But listen, shouty.
Speaker 18 (09:11):
This was a real experience for me because you know,
I stayed in the hood shouting. I don't know, get
no chance to listen, Shoty.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
We did the farm.
Speaker 18 (09:21):
It was so it was so crazy because we were
now look Shoty. We were all hushing. We washed the
chicken or put down on edge. We slopped hogs, we
did everything. I had a cowboy hat and everything. But then, uh, yes,
yesterday afternoon they were laughing because they said, black Tony.
(09:42):
They said, you don't have such a good time. I said, y'all,
HAVENE had such a good time. I can't wait to
go back to work and tell Rick our French brought
cheer and everybody how much a good time I had
being a farm, being a farm now for the whole
weekend shot it. But then they asked me or to
go out there and milk and milk the cows and
get some fresh milk. And I went out there and
I got up under that old I got up on
(10:03):
the one that had horns on them, and I started
milking them. And I started like like you know, pulling
the punters and try.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
To get the milk. He was looking, he was looking
back at me. Shout.
Speaker 17 (10:11):
He was turning.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
He kept turning head looking back at me, and I
was saying for.
Speaker 18 (10:15):
A minute, but I said, now I'm gonna do this.
Speaker 7 (10:16):
I kept milking and then.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Oh that one don't county.
Speaker 7 (10:22):
It carried out, but it a little weird.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I said, what it is?
Speaker 9 (10:25):
So we mis buy.
Speaker 7 (10:28):
No that would not go.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Oh my god, no man, no man, oh man said
the day off, the day off.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
They're laughing, y'all laughing at the day off.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Man, the day off that morning.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Get many you like it, take the day off.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't worry about the black and then you good.
Speaker 7 (11:36):
Hold it half man, half woman. That's GARYE want to
help you to.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
As not in the morning show.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Hey, it is about that time broadcasting life from the time,
Join a Fantastic Voyage.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Y'all? Gary, got that tea in the color the other day?
Speaker 3 (11:54):
What up, Gary?
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Good morning, Rickie.
Speaker 19 (11:55):
Okay, now everybody's still talking about Brandy. Brandy just left
the cause of the say baby Brandy. Some people say
she was jealous somebody because I Outfield.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Oh no, yeah, they they don't have to be jealous
of nobody.
Speaker 19 (12:06):
Well, I'll tell you what her his. Brandy left the stage. Yeah,
she probably wasn't feeling well. Well, honey, you didn't feel well,
you should have went to work.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Sometime you're trying to do the show and you want
to go on stage to perform for the people that
pay money to come see.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
And sometimes when you get on stage and.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
You get the lights in your face and you get
hot and you get overwhelmed or over stimulated, sometimes you
have to take a step back where you want to
pass out on stage.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
You don't want that to happen.
Speaker 19 (12:29):
But how long you been performing unbranded and performan She
been performing a long time.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
She shouldn't know better than.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
That, Gary.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
She probably got sick. Then they released a statement.
Speaker 19 (12:38):
Yeah, but she didn't come back. If you think you
take some pepptal businessow you go back on stage.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Yeah, you know they went probably want to snow and
she probably felt faint.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
How many times you felt faint and leave a lot
of time?
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Really?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, I didn't know about that one.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you just have to You can't pass
out on stage because you yourself getting sick? Are you
feeling yourself getting busy? You just you just can't just
keep going.
Speaker 19 (13:00):
Fact, it would be beautiful if brand it was just
fell out on the stage and laid there by minicules performing.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
That's been some good do it for you and you
were the enjoying something because she mess it like that.
You know, we we treasured Brandy is a national treasure.
Don't ever forget that.
Speaker 19 (13:15):
She sure is now last night all that Ricky neil
is is it a consummate performing that's the right word.
Consonant I think so, yeah, he's a consonant with that. Yeah,
because Ricky, I mean he had all this. I was
wondering over those women all his probably so so you
got them work set me and he ain't taking care
of their working.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
I mean, hey, you know, everybody got to pay their due,
you know what I'm saying, so he get paid and
then they give a check.
Speaker 19 (13:38):
If that, if that was then was that then? I
don't know that because it was four and I know
he has four allegedly so. But they were cute though
her they had no out, they had their bus out
and everything.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Child the child. All right, Neil, you go.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Bu Yeah he put on the Helifi show, HELFI show right. Sure.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
I was very pleased.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Yeah, man, Neil us a lot of our events by
our company, our Reach Media. I know we did a
show together when we did the upfronts or whatever, you know,
and uh, yeah, Neil, don't go all the way back.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
To the Apollo days. He was good.
Speaker 19 (14:13):
I was very pleased. I kind of had sometain kind
of feeling when he could. I love man Yella his
first baby mama. I like her, but a little bit boy. Yeah,
I kind of.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Well, you still come join the club. She got married?
Did she get married? She got me, she got a
wonderful European husband. Good for her, happy for her.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
We won't.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
We just want everybody happy. Everybody and speaking of happiness week.
Speaker 19 (14:34):
But I got this story just say in my heart whatever,
because you know, people were saying that Louis Baton gave
Cardi b a what eight million, fifty million dollar contract
and Louis said, no, what what you mean? They said
we didn't get her nothing. They say, we ain't give
her nothing. She had a Louis return out fires. People
say it was fake. Did they hold it up to
the light.
Speaker 7 (14:52):
She had it on.
Speaker 19 (14:53):
They said, we didn't give her that, We ain't put her.
She's not our brand ambassador. That was dirty. Well here
she's not. She's not.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Yeah, but I mean.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
But that again Lion said that she's the brand ambassador.
It's okay for her the weather outfit.
Speaker 19 (15:06):
Yeah, but they said how people say, oh, she got
all this money and missus lit Bitoana said.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
No, I don't think they was denying her. They were
denying that she was the ambassador for Lewis.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
It's a difference. Well, it's a difficulce who said that
she was.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 19 (15:21):
You know, people lie on the internet. Oh, I feel
so bad, Nick. If you're listening on watching baby, It's
gonna be all right. Had Michael Cole still got some
new stuff from.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Ambassador for Michael Cores?
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Now, Gary, well, are you spoiling on this on this
time showing a fantastic boys.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
What kind of shirt is that? Oh, this was a problem,
but they took the name tag out of it. Yeah
got it?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Oh yeah, because okay, we already know why.
Speaker 19 (15:48):
We know why, and we're gonna keep it death whine And.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Now you're gonna so you're gonna do your whole first
t savement with the prouder shirt on. That ain't product
to the p office what you got on. That's all right, baby,
I feel good all over.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
All right. So Riga the colue today says, we sell
in the set. This is this seventh scenes.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
We are in the in the middle of the Gulf
of Mexico on our way to Consomel. So we've been
out here on the ocean. We're gonna spend the entire
day traveling on the ocean, and tomorrow we will be
pouring in Consmell.
Speaker 19 (16:23):
Oh are you excited about that? I'm excited. So as
long as I can get out and buy something.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Yeah, you don't have no money, because I know they
got they got shops on it, they got a little
the son.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Yeah, they got a little baiton. I would the car
to be coming. Oh, yes see, that's real messing, that's
real messing and what's the clue of to day? The
colud to day rig is one of my favorite coloes.
Speaker 19 (16:42):
Honey, in honor of the tom join the cruise, I
did a colude to days that we're gonna start off
with ocean blue because that water is blue.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
It ain't but you scared of it. Yeah, we got that.
We got to talk about that. Yeah, you got to
get over your feel All.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Right, y'all give it up and Gary.
Speaker 20 (16:55):
With the tea, wake up, wake up, get you yell
against that.
Speaker 7 (17:09):
I get it against.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
You when you're high up.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
With the man.
Speaker 7 (17:16):
And you really does him?
Speaker 14 (17:17):
When beeB do you want to show.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
You call Ross, Come on, John, wake come morning.
Speaker 12 (17:24):
This is the show.
Speaker 16 (17:25):
And Charlotte, I'm from playing through New Jersey. I want
all my family and Charlotte, my son, my brother, my sister,
and my mother everybody to.
Speaker 7 (17:32):
Wake up, wake up, wake up, way up.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
Calling from roy City, Texas.
Speaker 21 (17:37):
Good morning, Rickie.
Speaker 11 (17:38):
I wish I was on that boat with y'all.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
I want to see wake up, wake up.
Speaker 13 (17:42):
Wake up to My husband Brad, my daughter Gabby, and
my son Christopher.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
Joined Lord Rita.
Speaker 22 (17:48):
Wake up, wake up, wake up, Good morning.
Speaker 16 (17:51):
Calling from Columbus Ohio with KEITHA.
Speaker 23 (17:54):
I'm calling the wake up black Tony.
Speaker 9 (17:56):
Wake up, wake up, wake.
Speaker 12 (17:57):
Up, somebody, wake up.
Speaker 7 (18:04):
Let's go wake up.
Speaker 24 (18:07):
Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, Cito,
wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up.
Speaker 15 (18:18):
Wake up?
Speaker 3 (18:20):
Bring y free? Is who you about to get ready
to be lying about?
Speaker 8 (18:24):
No, it's not me. Listen.
Speaker 9 (18:26):
A lot of people think that they know when somebody's lying,
but according to body language experts, some of those same
signs can also show up when somebody's telling the truth
because they're nervous about being believed.
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Right.
Speaker 9 (18:39):
So here are the top ten signs that somebody might
be lying. Number one we've all heard this one e direction. Apparently,
if a person looks to the right a lot, it
means they're making stuff up.
Speaker 8 (18:50):
They lying.
Speaker 9 (18:51):
If they're looking to the left, however, that means they're
like they're just trying to remember.
Speaker 25 (18:55):
Like what happens?
Speaker 3 (18:56):
That's interesting?
Speaker 7 (18:57):
Yes, interesting, and I.
Speaker 8 (18:58):
Feel like that seems true.
Speaker 9 (19:00):
Number two really long pauses because liars are trying to stall,
so they might repeat your question to buy them time.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
I don't know if I agree about that one. Yeah,
like what are you real?
Speaker 13 (19:12):
I think a real good liar ain't gonna do none
of that. They're not gonna look to the left of right,
because then they look like they lie. They're not gonna
fisht They're gonna look dead at you and be like,
I ain't do that.
Speaker 7 (19:23):
Contacting everything.
Speaker 12 (19:25):
Most people with a lot of wisdom they pause before
they respond, right, No, why.
Speaker 7 (19:31):
Would yeah, you'd be like no, why would you say
something like that? You know I ain't dead, not like that.
Speaker 8 (19:40):
The question again was like coming out of her bedroom
right now.
Speaker 12 (19:44):
Okay, so it's a lot to the police, real good, really,
and did you a lot of experience of that?
Speaker 3 (19:50):
I can make myself cry on command to see.
Speaker 7 (19:54):
The eye contact when you told them lies too, didn't you?
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (19:59):
Otherwise you don't. It's like otherwise you look like you lion.
Speaker 9 (20:02):
Okay, well, did your voice change? Because number three is
voice changes. Listen for a higher pitch tone. Usually this
is what stressed us to you.
Speaker 13 (20:10):
It causes that like what you mean right, like Brady Bunch,
Peter Brady, it's time to change.
Speaker 7 (20:18):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 9 (20:19):
Number four fidgeting, Yeah, like you're messing with your nails,
or you.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
Just can't see men show you, lion.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
You gotta be cool or you could be nervous.
Speaker 8 (20:29):
You could be nervous.
Speaker 7 (20:30):
You could be nervous, but you gotta be cool.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
If you lie, you can't anybody consider themself to be
a good liar.
Speaker 7 (20:36):
No, well, who wants to claim that?
Speaker 8 (20:38):
Yeah, I forget too much? Okay, so do you do this?
Number five is over compensation.
Speaker 9 (20:43):
A liar might puff up or act overly confident when
they're trying to get away with something. Number six they
cross their arms or do headshakes that can signal defensiveness.
And number seven too many filler words. If you're sentences
a star with yeah you know, or basically you're lying.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Oh man, that's not necessarily.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
True, because everybody time somebody say basically.
Speaker 7 (21:09):
Say basically, they just want to sound smart.
Speaker 8 (21:13):
Yeah, that's that's a.
Speaker 7 (21:16):
Yeah, basically actually right.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
Regardless, babies, you busy?
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Hey my mom at work right now?
Speaker 6 (21:27):
Can you?
Speaker 11 (21:27):
Well?
Speaker 22 (21:28):
Look here, I was thinking, if y'all was gonna come
over here this weekend, I could do some collar green,
some hot water corn bread, maybe some baked pork chops. Okay, well,
but if y'all not coming, I probably just make a
pot of spaghett it for me and honey, Well, we
probably will come over, Mama, But I gotta get back
to work.
Speaker 7 (21:42):
Yeah, I was just sitting here watching. You're not even
gonna believe what I'm watching.
Speaker 22 (21:46):
Once you're watching MoMA Rowboat Coop one they done in
the eighties. Oh okay, Well, let me get back to
work and I'll give you a Did you hear about
Paul and Maylee?
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Let me call you back on my lunch break.
Speaker 6 (21:59):
You can tell me God the house evicted from them?
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Evicted from them?
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Now?
Speaker 7 (22:03):
Baby, let me ask you something. Is your cousin pregnant?
Speaker 21 (22:07):
You talk?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Okay?
Speaker 22 (22:07):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, Okay, this is Vicky
beeping through. Let me call you back later, Mama, Love you, bye, Hello, Vicky. Hey,
did you hear about Paul and Maylee? Got they house
evicted from him?
Speaker 7 (22:21):
Hold? He's half man, half woman?
Speaker 6 (22:24):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (22:24):
Yeahie, wanna help you to.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It's garage?
Speaker 3 (22:29):
Why'all?
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Reason by the morning, So we are broadcasting line from
the time joining a fantastic voice. We are in the
middle of the Gulf of Mexico on our way to
cotton Mail. But Gary got the tea and the club
and they got right. Good morning, Riggy, Good morning to
you y'all. Okay, now, Ricky.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
This this is a set. Now you may feel a
different way. I do too about this next door. It's
being for y'all.
Speaker 19 (22:49):
Somebody said they thought of Chante laying out on the
beach because somebody said this is good in the game
about two hundred pounds.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Said she had that baby. She had a pink outfit
on and nobody knew she was salmon or what she was.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
But did she look, you gonna gain weight. You're gonna's
called baby fat or whatever. So you're gonna have a
little bit of baby fat. But she go, I'm sure
she gonna work that down a shunty look good. I
don't care what size, what size she is whatever, So yeah,
don't don't. Don't do that now when you.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Rich, Ricky, they take everything out when you have a baby.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Not right when you have the baby, you're already getting
over the complications of having the baby itself, and you
give your body a chance to heal from having the baby.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Then you go get the surgery for that who died?
Have made you an offstest? Yeah, you know, you know
I hang out or what obstetrician obstetrician anyway, y'all know
I hang with the one that on the Doctor m J.
Speaker 19 (23:35):
Cally Come on now, Yeah, but Ricky, I mean I
feel bad for you know, Nelly might leave it. You
know how y'all me and all y'all want a certain size.
She was a certain side when the emailing. Now she's
a bigger size. Yeah, I mean, but she gonna lose
the way Nellie work out. Nellie's strong or whatever, and
they've been together so long. He ain't going on it. See.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
The thing about being with somebody is trying to be
with somebody that you can't live with now, and I
don't think Nellie can live without the shun they look out.
They got back together, Nigga, that reunited. They did the
Peach Center.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
I just reunited and it feels so good.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
And they've been together ever since.
Speaker 19 (24:07):
And now she had got that baby fat, all that
stuff and not people say he might leave it because
you know, I just feel.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
That he ain't going away.
Speaker 19 (24:13):
Well we hope he don't go He was a lady
secure the bab Yes, better But anyway, moving on childhood,
Oh my god, now this next door here Now, Ricky,
I don't know if you watch on Real Housewives of Potomac,
I have said, well, old Wendy. One of the girl's
name is Wendy Windy old cellphond I did the tape
Parsons last name. She and her husband got busted for
insurance far I saw that God. And she's a doctor
(24:38):
is education. He's a lawyer. Allowed they want they wanted
extra money. They said something they listed somebody broke in
their house. They want some extra money for the show.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
I guess.
Speaker 19 (24:46):
And they lie said somebody broke it, and the people
did an investigation and huney. Now they may be going
to the pen. Oh wow, And I remember the girls
you do the back in the day hundred used to
call in and stuff. But then they also they can't
get arrested now. But you know you used to say
your stuff was stolen.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Girl. Everybody needs some damn money. Girl, they stole my
jewelry and the police came out. What did some of
the details in the case.
Speaker 19 (25:08):
Yeah, but I'm not talking about I'm talking about how
the sis you used to do back and damn you
used to call in stuff, right, and you didn't get caught.
Now these girls then got caught. Wendy and her husband Eddie. Yeah,
they wanted too much. They were greedy, right, but did
somebody break in the house. No, that's the killing team.
Oh that's what they're saying. Oh well, well you gotta
keep them nothing up. They are definitely being lift And
(25:28):
we loved when the Honey and Wendy, she was on
her Let everybody have it on the show. Now carry
this guy depending on when he's going in. It's a
barfing door, so we gotta pray get him bred. It's beautiful.
Everything is beautiful. No, it's not when you're going to jail. Yeah,
(25:49):
you saying it's beautiful, but not not well. But we
have two spots people that always talk about jail, and
they seemed like they were all right with.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
You went to jail too, But I jail was an
in and out, okay, residency in there.
Speaker 19 (26:03):
You did you did a few days in the jail
then well hell, Riggy wouldn't know dis okay, but you
did that two or three days? Yeah, yeah, okay, you
got you right out? Yeah, because I mean, but the
person that got you out of jail, Shirley, thank you.
Shirtyley got me when Rigg put it on the Red
Bady the girls zoom turning across the count to get
me out of jail. And they know I would been
like a praguice flower just flocked. So here I is, yes, honey.
(26:29):
Oh and you know my quick for free Street. We
saw Cobar, you know Covar from Babyface brother. Yeah, he
was walking down the hall. I hardly recognize himcause he's
kind of gray, but he recognized me. But anyway, they
were talking and ye saw yeah, so they said they
really was glad to see.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah, he's gonna be performing, you know, on his cruise.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Oh okay, he's gonna be performing the night with after
seven they still again, yeah, they said, yeah, yeah, after
seven got some jams.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Man, what they mean? Seven home? What's the seven?
Speaker 2 (26:57):
Hold? No?
Speaker 3 (26:58):
Not seven hours?
Speaker 1 (26:58):
Thinking about twenty breakfast already or nothing? Get you every red?
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah you remember that?
Speaker 1 (27:07):
Oh yeah, come on.
Speaker 19 (27:08):
So it was a real good thing. So, I mean
everybody so far in the cruise, we're having a great time. Yes,
I would just look to deterred some of the way
the people's eat, but you know, you gotta eat. What
you mean? What what?
Speaker 3 (27:18):
What was you so deterred?
Speaker 1 (27:21):
I have never seen so many black people just place
just piled up with food. It just hurt me.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Yeah, you know, black people are gonna do that. And
they're gonna do that at a repast Thanksgiving. You know,
we don't know how to some of us don't know
how to eat and go back sometimes. Yeah, like your
grandma said, you got to act like you used to
something that has been somewhere, Yes, and Lord, I was,
Oh Jesus Lord. And then you think they are they
gonna make it till the tea brought out, and you
(27:45):
think they're gonna be laid out.
Speaker 19 (27:46):
They gonna be laid out, but they're gonna come to
the teapot. They're gonna be here. What about some of
the outfits you've seen me so far? Oh my god,
I saw all kinds of illusions. But anyway, because you
know who's who by the cause and the colode today, y'all, honey,
is one of my favorite. My coloraday, y'all is clothes, honey,
because these girls every color clothes you see.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
Out here, Honey. This girl's waiting, honey. They have so
looks done.
Speaker 13 (28:10):
You know.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
That's they close.
Speaker 26 (28:14):
One time Garry with the team. Did you see that
post time people are talking? Here's one on the Vicky
Smiley Morning Show.
Speaker 12 (28:26):
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, which is the time
to shed light on the issue that affects millions of
people every year, regardless of the age, the gender, or
the background. Now, last week we broke down with domestic
violence is and how it can affect men and women.
But today we want to die a little bit deeper
into how domestic violence can also affect teenagers.
Speaker 13 (28:46):
Yeah, Rock Tea, Domestic violence within teenagers is more common
than people think about. One in three teenagers in the
US experienced physical, emotional, or verbal abuse from a dating
partner before they turn eighteen. Now, teams are more likely
to experien emotional or digital abuse, such as controlling behavior, threats,
or harassment on social media. Now, technology plays a big
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role in team domestic violence because one in fourteens in
relationships report being digitally controlled or monitored by a partner,
such as constant texting, checking locations, or demanding passwords. And
although this is very common, only thirty three percent of
teens and abusive relationships report the situation to someone else.
Speaker 12 (29:27):
Man and we got Beyonce Alawitch's on the show. You
want to share it a quick story?
Speaker 25 (29:32):
Yeah, So you know this is very touching to me
because I've done a lot of work with teen domestic
violent charters here in Atlanta and big shot out to
PADV and I mentor a lot of young women because
you know, when I was sixteen, I met my first
love of my life and we worked at our job together.
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He was amazing. You know, I got the red carpet treatment.
You know, he was nineteen, I was sixteen. I thought
it was just you know, he was still in high school.
I thought it was perfect, and I wrapped myself so
much into him. I was a girls girl at the time. Like,
you know, we would hang out, we would have fun,
and then slowly but surely, it's not like and I
(30:13):
think that's one of the misconceptions that people make, because
this is you know, this is your person. It's not
like they just automatically start fighting or things get physical.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
You know.
Speaker 25 (30:24):
It started off with he wanted to know my location.
He wanted to know why I was hanging out with
certain guy friends who I had had for so many years.
I slowly started to isolate myself, and I think those
are some of the warning signs that people need to
watch out for. You're not hanging around your friends like
you used to. You're not going out to party like
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you used to, and you know, I for so long,
I've never shared this on air because even to this day,
I still get scared to what if he finds out
or what if he hears me talking about it and
he wants to come stop me. And that's one thing
I talked to these young ladies about, you know, when
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we do these events and these these teen talk events,
and you don't realize it, but it went from emotional
to physical shoving to full out fights to we were
living together because at the time, I felt like he
was the only person who knew me. I loved him,
(31:26):
I was the only person he had So yeah, we
were a young love.
Speaker 12 (31:31):
You know.
Speaker 25 (31:31):
We were so wrapped up and he would threaten to
hurt himself if I left, and I just I felt
so guilty and I didn't want that, and so it was.
It was just it was very pulling, and even now
I look back at it, and I asked myself, how
did I get wrapped up in that? Like I'm so smart,
but and I feel like I should know better. But
then when you're young, you don't, you know, you feel like.
Speaker 7 (31:53):
You in love and that feeling that you've never had before.
Speaker 9 (31:56):
And then I just want to thank you for your
courage and testimony, because there are people right now and
you're saying, listen, this is your person time talking about it.
So your courage right now is helping someone who is
in the situation right now.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
So thank you, Matt, absolutely.
Speaker 25 (32:10):
And you get scared, and so I didn't want to
tell anybody. I never told my friends, I never told
my grandmother. I felt like we were each other's Bonnie
and Clyde ride or die, and it did. It took
until I had I realized that I was hiding the
knives in the house because I was so scared that
he was going to hurt me or hurt himself that
(32:31):
I started to talk about it because I kept thinking
in my head, I was like, I'm going to be
like one of these people in the news one day.
And one day he did, you know, pull a knife.
And I talked to myself and I told myself, I
need to call my grandmother because I was so embarrassed,
you know, to call home and be like, hey.
Speaker 7 (32:53):
I knew at home, I think everything is so good.
You want them to feel like the person you picked
was a good person.
Speaker 25 (32:58):
I was so but I just remember my grandmother and
her being like, you will always have a place to
come home. We won't judge you. And that's how I
got out, and I just I want that for so
many other people.
Speaker 12 (33:11):
Thank you for that, absolutely, and thank you for sharing
that like that takes a lot of courage. So this
morning we got licensed therapist Spirit on the hell break
all this down for us. Good morning, Spirit, how you
doing man?
Speaker 7 (33:25):
Good morning?
Speaker 6 (33:26):
And I'm loving Beyonce right now, for she is talking
to millions of guys and girls right now. Beyonce, you
ex cis, thank you for saving people. I'm like, you
got me in tears because you're seeing the story. Girl,
you were telling the story today and you you got
folks sitting here right now going, oh my gosh.
Speaker 7 (33:47):
She's talking about me.
Speaker 6 (33:48):
She's talking about how we fight, She's talking about how
we love.
Speaker 7 (33:51):
Am I in trouble?
Speaker 2 (33:53):
Am I?
Speaker 6 (33:54):
Am I a domestic violence victim? Am I an abuser?
You you saving folks today?
Speaker 12 (33:59):
Sis, this is the conversation to be having absolutely absolutely Spirit,
What are some early red flags that parents, friends, or
even teachers should be looking out for.
Speaker 6 (34:10):
You know, it is the obsessive behavior. And I don't
mean it in the clinical sense. I mean it And
when you slowly watch somebody who goes from being vibrant
and full in their circles to being completely distracted and
caught up in their relationships, they really become isolated and
their sole focus is on how to keep their partner
(34:33):
calm and happy. Those are the two places in spaces,
and it's really rooted in insecurity. It's really rooted on
need for reassurance. And it doesn't start off with people
wanting to be abusive, I promise you that's not where
it's usually rooted, which is why abusers don't see themselves
as abusers, and victims don't see themselves as victims. They
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see themselves as two people doing whatever it takes to
make the relationship work and just to make sure that
their partner feels comfortable with what they're doing.
Speaker 9 (35:05):
So why is it that so many young people just
don't recognize certain behaviors like constant texting or jealousy as
forms of abuse.
Speaker 6 (35:16):
Well, because what we look at in that situation, it's
a slippery slope. Of course, I want to talk to
my partner.
Speaker 7 (35:22):
All the time.
Speaker 6 (35:23):
Of course I want them to know what I'm doing
and where I'm at and how I'm feeling, and so
we're caught up in this volley that at the point,
it sounds like we're just keeping each other involved in
our relationship when we're away from each other. So when
I'm in the car with my mom, or I'm at
a party, or I'm supposed to be doing my homework
(35:43):
or I'm in class, we're just maintaining our relationship. But
where it becomes abusive is where it starts to get controlling,
where we start to question each other's behavior or we
have to modify our behavior because the person questions our
love for them, are our respect for the relationship? Why
are you hanging out with that person? Are you still up?
(36:06):
I don't feel comfortable with you, like in their pictures.
Why are they talking to you over there? You have
me so mad, I'm thinking I'm going to hurt myself. Right,
And you get sucked into this cycle of care taking
and you don't see it as abuse. You just see
it as I love my partner enough to make them happy.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Wow.
Speaker 13 (36:27):
How does experiencing abuse at such a young age affect
a teen's mental health long term?
Speaker 7 (36:33):
Oh my gosh, Brad, it's seems how they do.
Speaker 6 (36:38):
Yes, it does, because without the proper help, we will
develop anxiety disorders, depression, post traumatic stress disorder. We are
dealing with abuse oftentimes, that abuse, like you said, is digital,
it's emotional, it's sexual, it's physical, it's social, it's financial,
it's so many different things. And how we love as
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children tells us and dictates how we go on to
love as adults. And so what we see is that
it's more common for individuals who have been in these
kinds of relationships in their adolescence to also choose partners
like this throughout their adulthood. So you will be in
controlling relationships. You will be in relationships where your partner
abuses you, violates you, disrespects you. You will develop code
(37:24):
dependency because you've already learned that it's imperative for your
survival that you make partners happy. You will also become
passive in your friendships and your co working relationships. It
really impacts every aspect of your life. And then as
you go on to become a parent, you will be
parenting from that place of not only mental health conditions,
(37:46):
but an inability to stand up and advocate for yourself.
As you then create intergenerational trauma cycles. Brat It is
really really interesting. And if you ever have the chance,
as folks are out there, to hear your parents' stories,
it would be mind blowing to know the number of
our parents who have sat in abusive relationships, or many
(38:08):
of us know that they have, and you don't recognize
how that impacts it. The way that they loved on
us and the way that we went on to do
relationships too.
Speaker 12 (38:17):
Man, my Spirit, my wife Crystal, she has an organization
called Pretty Insecure was his mental health program for girls,
and I hear a lot of these stories like it's
like she comes home crying sometimes about it. But so
thank you for sharing that and helping out. October is
domestic violence of wearing this month, and licensed therapist Spirit
is here to address all of your concerns. October is
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of course domestic violence are wearing this month, and we're
going to be talking about how it can also affect
teenagers and what we as parents and mentors should be
doing to help our teenagers escape these situations. Man, Also,
we got licensed therapists Spirit to help us break.
Speaker 1 (38:52):
It all down.
Speaker 6 (38:53):
Well, you know, one of the things that I tell
folks is if you recognize that you're having to decline
because it doesn't safe for healthy you have a bigger
problem in the relationship, so it's not enough to decline.
And at that point, I want to have a different
kind of conversation with teens because if we're not safe
in our relationships, we need to start questioning either how
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we get help to make the relationship safer. Most of
the time they don't want to leave brat, but ultimately
that's what needs to happen. So what we want to
do is we want to help people recognize and especially
as a kid, you can always throw your parents under
the bus and your parents will love you for that.
So just say my mom doesn't allow me to do that,
(39:35):
my father doesn't want me to do that. I'm only
able to share my locations with them. And if parents
and adults, whether we're aunties, uncles, teachers, coaches, friends of youth,
we need to be having these conversations with them so
they reugze that these are just facts of life. There's
nothing to be embarrassed or feel ashamed about, because the
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isolation makes the situation more dangerous for both of the
kids that are involved.
Speaker 9 (40:02):
Absolutely, I always tell my kids, let them know your
mom is crazy. It's not Alie okay, you know, okay,
But speaking of parents, you know you don't want to
invade your team's privacy. So how can parents or mentors address,
you know, or even monitor digital abuse without invading a
kids privacy?
Speaker 6 (40:19):
Well, what I like to help people understand, and this
is as a mom of seven, also, what I teach
my children is that there's a difference between privacy and secrecy. Right,
and so when your children are dating, especially in middle school,
unfortunately that's how early they're doing it. Some of them
got girlfriends and boyfriends in elementary school. So what we
(40:39):
want to help them do is recognize that they're practicing
healthy relationships for adulthood. So that's where we want to
have interjection. That's where we want to have conversation. Too
many parents are focused on discipline and restriction. I refuse
to let you have a boyfriend right now. I refuse
to let you date right now. Instead of being able
(41:00):
to have an open line of communication where you can
actually have influence, you drive your children further into isolation
because then they don't feel like they can talk to you.
If they recognize they're doing stuff that you told them
they shouldn't be doing anyway. So instead, what we want
to do is we want to talk to our children
about what healthy relationships look like, but also what dangers
(41:23):
look like in relationships, so that if they get in trouble,
they can start to recognize the signs as soon as possible.
Speaker 3 (41:30):
Spirit, we got a lot of people calling in.
Speaker 12 (41:32):
They got some questions for you, So let's go to
the phone line, says that's six' Nine Ricky Ricky's Monday
morning show Your own With.
Speaker 3 (41:37):
Spirit good.
Speaker 21 (41:38):
MORNING i guess my question is how do you know
THE i guess when you're crossing the line of really
just trying to respect your partner and their issues of
wanting to be respectful of you, know maybe they have
some insecurities behind things that you just want to really
be respectful of them and actually being controlled by. Them
like how when do you kind of know that you're
(41:58):
getting to the.
Speaker 6 (41:59):
Line, Okay so the line is WHERE i get to
love you and me, simultaneously AND i always have to
love me. First so in a, relationship we don't want
to be doing things to respect somebody else's. Wishes we
want to be building a healthy relationship that we both
agree works for. Us and, unfortunately most of us don't
(42:22):
learn how to negotiate. Relationships we just love you and
you love, me and we want to just keep this feeling.
Going but what we should really be talking about is
how DO i want to feel in this? Relationship how
do you want to feel in this? Relationship and can
we agree this is what works for both of. Us
if something doesn't work for, you you have to trust
(42:44):
your gut about, that and you have to ask, yourself
AM i sacrificing or betraying myself to respect their? Wishes
and why WOULD i respect somebody's wishes who doesn't care
THAT i feel betrayed Or i'm sick to myself?
Speaker 12 (43:00):
Theomach, Wow Rick's Mondy Morning, Show Good. MORNING i had a.
Speaker 27 (43:04):
Question, okay so my signs they and a girl and
they keep going off and on or. Whatever She's blacktown
and then she On. Blacktown how DO i keep them
away from each? Other because he's gotten to the point
to where he shows up at her, house don't stick
out her window and. Stuff so how DO i get
them from to stop talking to each?
Speaker 1 (43:26):
Other?
Speaker 6 (43:27):
Okay the hard part of this is that you're not
going to be able to get him to stop talking to.
Her what we need to do is get him some
help so that he will then make the choice to
stop talking to her because he recognizes how toxic and
dangerous the relationship. Is AND i want you guys to
recognize that when children or teens fall in love for
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the first, time they're experiencing a whole new rush of
hormones in their bodies that are literally changing their brain.
Chemistry that's why they become unrecognizable to you and to.
Themselves so that's why it's important to have. Information that's
why it's important to have, education and that's why it's
important for them to have support while they're navigating these
(44:12):
new relationship, dynamics these new, hormones these new flood of,
emotions because they really are out of. Control and what
we should be doing as adults is teaching them how
to manage. This but if we don't get it, together
and if we've never learned how to manage, it it's
really hard to stand in support of our children because
(44:32):
we don't know what to. Do so, understand if you
don't have what you, need that it's okay for you
all to learn healthy relationships and dating patterns. Together model
that for the, children but get that baby some help
before one of them get.
Speaker 12 (44:46):
Hurt, Man, Spirit first of, all we want to Thank
beyonce again for being so vulnerable and brave this morning
to share your.
Speaker 3 (44:55):
Story.
Speaker 12 (44:56):
Spirit we want to thank you for coming on and
helping breaking all this down son and understand this a
little bit. More how can people contact you and follow?
Speaker 3 (45:02):
You get more.
Speaker 6 (45:03):
Information listen if they are interested in participating in programs like.
This if you have an organization you want a partner
in the work that we, do you can email us
at the. Nonprofit we're info AT.
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know we read a question From Ricky smiley's SHOW dms
and you got something over.
Speaker 13 (46:01):
There, WELL i kind of, Do, okay here we. Go,
Okay so this young lady, said my name Is. Krishana
i'm From, Houston. Texas SO i live in WHAT i
(46:21):
like to call a decent. Neighborhood, recently the family living
next door moved out AND i just met my new.
Neighbor she seemed nice at, first AND i feel Like
i've been super chill about all the changes she's been.
Making she asked about cutting down a shared, tree, fences et.
Cetera but now she's installed floodlights that literally go into
my bedroom and she doesn't see an, issue and even
(46:44):
install the camera that is pointed towards my front door and.
Driveway it feels so awkward and that she's trying to
spy on us all the. TIME i don't know what
to do or HOW i should address it to her
without becoming. Hostile how DO i handle this? Situation you're
telling them.
Speaker 12 (47:01):
You just go, say, hey, man look these lights are
shining into my house and it's causing it a little
bit of a. Disruption can we tone the lights down
or maybe point them in a different.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
Direction and what about the.
Speaker 7 (47:11):
Camera and this camera is pointing directly at my?
Speaker 9 (47:15):
Door why would be pointed at her door instead of
like her, own you know WHAT i, mean why would
it be Pointed it has to.
Speaker 13 (47:20):
Be pointed at her door or something on her house.
Too why would you just be pointed at her neighbor's.
Speaker 7 (47:26):
Door that makes no.
Speaker 9 (47:27):
Sense, yeah but you know, what we got one of them.
Cameras BUT i tell you. Something our neighbors came in
AND i said. Somebody they were, like, hey did you?
Speaker 1 (47:35):
Somebody could?
Speaker 9 (47:37):
You i'm, like, oh now you want to know about the?
Cameras huh? Right SO i mean it could be. Helpful
maybe they're not trying to.
Speaker 3 (47:43):
Spy you just.
Speaker 17 (47:45):
Gotta be willing to just speak up and be an
adult about, it you, Know and they get, Upset they get,
upset but you, know you gotta you got, Her you
gotta speak.
Speaker 9 (47:55):
UP i feel like maybe they won't be mean because
they didn't come up ask about the, Fence they didn't
come ask about the sheared, tree so maybe they can
be adult about.
Speaker 18 (48:04):
It.
Speaker 12 (48:05):
Right and you don't want to jump to, conclusions BUT
i JUST i, mean if it's, bothering you just gotta
have a, conversation you, know and don't start.
Speaker 9 (48:13):
An argument just you, KNOW i think if you started with, concern, like,
Hey i'm just you, Know i'm obviously you're my new.
NEIGHBOR i want us to get, along But i'm just
a little bit concerned about blah blah.
Speaker 8 (48:23):
Blah you got to.
Speaker 3 (48:24):
Right and SO i don't know if you realize it or.
Speaker 17 (48:26):
Not but when floodlights come, on you, know it really
brightens up our, room and you, know we don't like.
Speaker 9 (48:31):
That, YEAH i don't know if you realize it or.
Not that's a great way to start the, Conversation like.
Speaker 3 (48:36):
Have you seen my? HUSBAND i don't want to see
him in the. LIGHT i need the darkness in that.
Room and on the, right continue being affection entering on
the Freaking Smiling Morning.
Speaker 9 (48:52):
Show here's what's going on in the. News another, day another.
Deadlock it's deja vu IN. Dc the government shut down
hits the three week mark, today tying the record set
back in The clinton era for the second longest IN us.
Speaker 8 (49:07):
History for the.
Speaker 9 (49:08):
Eleventh, time The senate failed to pass a plan to
reopen the. Government no new votes are on the. Calendar, today,
However Senate republicans are heading to The White house for,
lunch Where trump is expected to thank them for staying. United,
meanwhile around seven hundred and fifty thousand federal workers are still,
furloughed and plenty of others are showing up to work
(49:28):
without a. Paycheck North Carolina republicans just pushed through a
redistricting plan that basically wipes out the power of black voters.
Again the State senate gave early approval to a new
congressional map that redraws a majority black district and conveniently
adds another seat for THE.
Speaker 8 (49:46):
Gop in The.
Speaker 9 (49:46):
House trump is cheering it on From Truth social calling
it a new fare And improved congressional. Map THE gop
says it's about, party not, race but critics say you
don't need racial data and know which districts are a majority,
black especially ones that have elected black leaders for. Decades
they're calling it a blatant power grab dressed up as. Politics,
(50:08):
Meanwhile DIMMs Want trump to pull his pick for The
office Of Special, counsel and the reason is flat out.
Speaker 8 (50:16):
Vile y'all leaked a text.
Speaker 9 (50:18):
Show Nominee Paula gracia bragging about having a Quote nazi
streak in him from time to. Time he also Claimed
america needs quote competent white men in charge and that
the founding fathers were wrong about all men being created.
Speaker 8 (50:32):
Equal, yeah he said the quiet part out, loud or
at least in.
Speaker 9 (50:36):
Text the irony is that both The gracia and his
Buddy nick quint has a white nationalist who's by the, Way,
mexican align themselves with an ideology that would have once
and in some cases still reject. Them italians like A
gracia were seen as, uneducated criminal and definitely not, white
And mexicans Like quintes still face that bias. Today yet
(50:58):
here they are cozying up to white. Nationalism oh And
aggressia is also under a sexual harassment probe At Homeland
security right. Now Even republicans Like John, Thune Rick scott
And Ron johnson won his. Nomination pull this guy seems
to be a toxic cocktail of, racism.
Speaker 8 (51:16):
Sexism and pure.
Speaker 9 (51:17):
Delusion for info on these stories and more At Rickism
Miily Morning show dot. Com now here's the look at
sports rock Te.
Speaker 11 (51:24):
The sports genius is in the building right up that
skarts foot race winning for Real Tank yet there Touchdown.
Speaker 3 (51:35):
Lions ah music to my, ears Touchdown Detroit. Lions you
Know i'm.
Speaker 12 (51:42):
Saying they beat The bucks last night twenty four to
nine On Monday Night. Football but The buccaneers lose their
star wide Receiver Mike evans due to a broken collar.
Speaker 3 (51:51):
Bone he's out for the rest of the. Season doubleheader.
Speaker 12 (51:54):
Man Seattle seahawks beat The Houston texans also last, night
twenty seven to, nineteen and on series is set in,
baseball The dodgers in The Toronto Blue.
Speaker 3 (52:04):
Jays it's gonna be a. Matchup.
Speaker 12 (52:05):
Man if y'all ain't big fans of, BASEBALL i, mean
this is where y'all need to tune. In like when
a lot of people say baseball's a boring, SPORT i.
Don't this is the time to watch it. Though during
The World, series it gets really. EXCITING La lakers super
Fan Andrew, garcia who filed a lawsuit claim Against Lebron
james for eight hundred and sixty five dollars and sixty six.
Speaker 3 (52:27):
Cents well he dropped that. Case let me tell y'all what, happened.
Speaker 12 (52:30):
Man he said that he was tricked By lebron for
the second decision That bron, made which turned out to
be a marketing campaign that introduced a partnership That lebron
did with a liquor. Brand andrew Thought bron was going
to be announcing his, retirement and he went and purchased
an eight hundred dollars ticket that would have Been lebron's
last ever matchup with his former, team The Cleveland. Cavaliers
(52:53):
so he's, like, Man i'm just gonna charge that to
the game So michig can still go to the game
and watch him.
Speaker 3 (52:57):
Play, yeah is what it. Is it's my sports report right.
Speaker 12 (53:01):
There follow me on social media at rocksy holler The
brett got the hot spot right.
Speaker 3 (53:05):
Now drop it like it's. Hard drop it like it's hard.
Speaker 1 (53:13):
Spot it's the all.
Speaker 7 (53:15):
At bring it.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
Tat you got some warm tea for my. Throat, Man.
Speaker 7 (53:20):
I'm drinking a little coffee with some honey and some
honey in.
Speaker 3 (53:24):
IT i can give you some of that hot right.
Speaker 7 (53:27):
There that honey and hennessy make that good hot. Tidy,
okay all, right, y'all good. Morning.
Speaker 13 (53:32):
Everybody come your Girl brat ta tat and excuse, me
my boys to damn a little bit.
Speaker 7 (53:38):
HORSE i don't know what's going. On the weather's changed
and it's definitely affecting.
Speaker 13 (53:41):
Me All, right y'alllet's get into the hotspot where we
bring you, music movies and more so check this. Out
Pastor Marvin Wine Whining jall is under fire after scolding
a church member for the amount of money she.
Speaker 7 (53:52):
Gave oh here we go, again close the.
Speaker 13 (53:55):
Doors on the day of giving A detroit Perfecting Church,
winings was outraged when a woman came up short of
the donation he asked. For the confusion happened after one
has asked members to donate one thousand plus, one so
while one is continued to repeat the, phrase many of
the members approached the center aisle to give two separate
(54:16):
one thousand dollars. Donations there, was, however one woman who
came forward with one, thousand two hundred and thirty five.
Speaker 7 (54:23):
Dollars and here's how he. Reacted HI.
Speaker 23 (54:26):
Roberta, McCoy giving faith and stand in unity with the
vision of perfecting church or sewing this seed of one
thousand dollars plus two hundred and thirty five dollars and
receiving the blessings succumb to all that.
Speaker 7 (54:39):
Participating now that's only twelve hundred.
Speaker 1 (54:42):
Dollars, yes y'all not listening to What i'm.
Speaker 7 (54:45):
Saying if you have a thousand plus one, Thousand i'm
gonna work on the other.
Speaker 2 (54:52):
Hunt, well that ain't WHAT.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
I ask you to.
Speaker 2 (54:54):
Do is that? Real is that?
Speaker 8 (54:57):
Real?
Speaker 17 (54:58):
YEAH i would have told and to move that decimal
point two spots over and take this twelve.
Speaker 3 (55:03):
Hours who's got that much?
Speaker 13 (55:05):
Money the, congregation they don't really be getting offended because
they're familiar with the. Pastor it's, like and that's you,
know that's HOW i guess they may all communicate with each,
other but us on the outside look it and it
sounds like he's being you, know maybe harsh or asking
for more. Money but you, know when they make these
offers in the and the church wants a certain amount or,
whatever they can communicate with their their congregation like that
(55:28):
because you, know they know each. Other SO i hate
when this happens because it makes the pastor or the
preacher look kind of. Bad but they're a, family so
they communicate how they communicate.
Speaker 9 (55:38):
It When.
Speaker 13 (55:40):
I'm sure he knows this, woman and he was not being,
like OH i don't want to you, Know i'm sure
he wasn't being.
Speaker 7 (55:46):
MEAN i, mean he's a man Of. GOD i really don't,
no it.
Speaker 13 (55:51):
Don't it don't look good and it don't sound, good
just like they tried to say to close the. Doors
thing you know was bad because he didn't say locked the.
Doors he said closed the. Doors and then that got
blown all out of. Proportion BUT i don't, KNOW.
Speaker 1 (56:04):
I guess what.
Speaker 7 (56:05):
Happens he didn't.
Speaker 13 (56:08):
A problem with, that but she said she was gonna
come up with the other the other eight, hundred because
the donation he was asking for it was a thousand plus.
Speaker 8 (56:16):
ONE i, mean, HONESTLY i couldn't go to that church BECAUSE.
Speaker 13 (56:19):
I guess if you couldn't donate, It i'm sure everybody
didn't donate it because they didn't have.
Speaker 7 (56:23):
It how could?
Speaker 3 (56:24):
You how could you just got me get what you?
Speaker 8 (56:26):
Can that's, wow?
Speaker 3 (56:28):
Okay taking away food, stamp it.
Speaker 7 (56:32):
Just it don't look good and then didn't sound. GOOD
i wish we could have.
Speaker 3 (56:35):
Heard more of.
Speaker 21 (56:36):
It right.
Speaker 3 (56:38):
Taking away food, stamp you would have, said, here take
the twelve, dollars give my. Money what you would have, said, right.
Speaker 7 (56:48):
All, right, y'all we're gonna wrap up the hospital on
that you go To Riggie Smiley Morning show dot. Com
you can catch me on all my social.
Speaker 13 (56:55):
Media so So.
Speaker 7 (56:56):
Brett it's The Rickie Smiley Morning.
Speaker 17 (56:58):
Show
The show, Andy, Good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
This week found the morning show in the day is
going to be a good day. Let's welcome Pastor Reva
tims Sing, your pastor of the Majestic Life Church in Orlando, Florida.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Good morning, Pastor Riva.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Well, good morning to you, Ricky, and good morning to
the Ricky Smoley Morning Show family. We want to get
our days started off right in prayer. Father, thank you
for who you are in our lives. We come to
you with hearts full of gratitude, awe, and humility. You're
the God of mercy, the God of second chances, the
god who restores what was broken and brings light in
(00:45):
our darkest places. In a world that's quick to cancel
and quick to condemn, you remain constant in your love
and overflowing in your grace. Thank you Lord, that no
one is beyond your reach, no failure is too deep,
no past is too heavy for your red mean and Father,
you are the one who says, come, let us reason together.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be white
as snow. And you do not discard the broken, But
you men do you rebuild.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
Father.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
We take this moment as a reminder that grace still wins,
that the cross is still enough, that restoration is possible
when we come to you with honest hearts. Father, help
us right now to be a people who forgive as
we have been forgiven, to extend mercy as we have
received mercy. And Father, I pray for those under the
(01:32):
sound of my voice, those that are lost, that they
may return back to you, and those that are wounded.
Right now we pray that they will rise yet again
in your name. Thank you for being a God who restores,
and thank you for being a father who never gives
up on his children. And the mighty name of Jesus.
We pray, and everyone say, amen.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Hey, we appreciate you. Path Three, ladies and gentlemen. That
was Path Thrieve tim singing Path of the Majestic Life
Church in Amendo, Flaida.
Speaker 7 (02:03):
Entertaining on the freaking Smiling Morning Shot.
Speaker 8 (02:09):
Here's what's going on in the news.
Speaker 9 (02:11):
A potential tragedy was stopped at Atlanta's Heartsville Jackson, the
world's busiest airport. Police save forty nine year old Billy
Cagle threatening to shoot up the airport during a live stream.
Officers later found an AR fifteen in his car, investigators
say it was Kagle's own family who saw the threats
online and called police, a move that likely saved lives. Cagle,
(02:34):
a convicted felon, now faces multiple charges, and police believe
mental health issues may have played a role. A federal
appeals court says President Trump can deploy the Guard and
the courts can't stop him. Judges rule that presidential decisions
like this are not reviewable and Portland couldn't show any
harm since troops haven't actually been sent there yet. Governor
(02:56):
Kotek wants the full Ninth Century Court, or Ninth Circuit
Court that is.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
To revisit this case.
Speaker 9 (03:02):
She says the decision weakens constitutional rights and gives too
much power to Washington.
Speaker 10 (03:07):
These actions that deploy troops are a gross Unamerican abusive power.
The federal agents on the ground are essentilly instigating conflict
with folks who are lawfully protesting the shooting off of
tear gas and other things. Oregon remains united in the
fight against this unwonted, unneeded military intervention in Oregon.
Speaker 9 (03:29):
For now, the ruling only applies to the Western States
under the Ninth Circuit. But here's the thing. This could
set the stage and the precedent for a broader actually
president if higher courts uphold it. Amazon Web Services say
it finally got zack together after a massive outage had
the whole Internet glitching yesterday for hours. People were losing
(03:50):
their minds as Venmo would send outlooquid load zoom, calls,
froze mids sentence, even Alexas giving people the silent treatment
and ring cams went. By Monday night, though, AWS said
everything is back to normal, but experts say that little
digital meltdown could end up costing hundreds of billions of dollars.
For info on these stories and more, Goda, Rickie Smiley Show,
(04:13):
Ricky Smiley Morningshow dot Com.
Speaker 8 (04:16):
Now here's a look at sports rock.
Speaker 11 (04:18):
Te The sports genius is in the building. Right up,
be backout, Scars foot race, Greyfield tank kept there, touchdown.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Lions, come on music to my ears.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Right there?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Touchdown Detroit Lions.
Speaker 12 (04:36):
Man they beat the Bucks last night twenty forty nine
doubleheader on Monday Night football. The Seattle Seahawks beat the
Houston Texans in the second game.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Right there.
Speaker 12 (04:46):
Bad news for Tampa Bay Do they lose their star
wide receiver Mike Evans due to a broken collar bone.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
The World Series is set.
Speaker 12 (04:53):
Ladies and gentlemen, the LA Dodgers and the Toronto Blue
Jays will face off to be the Major League Baseball
Baseball champion.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
So we'll see what happens with that right there.
Speaker 12 (05:02):
And I got a little more information on Doug Martin's
fatal death. His family broke his side, broke their silence, man,
shedding some more light on his mental health issues, Like
they said, he had a lot of mental health issues.
And right before the police officers were called, he broke
into allegedly broke into a neighbor's home, but he was
(05:23):
something oriented, not really knowing where he was and what
he was doing or whatever. Then when they call the
cops and then they detained him, they put him in cups,
they put him in the car and he ended up
being non responsive like once he got in the car.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
So we still don't know what.
Speaker 12 (05:38):
The what the cause of death is man, So we'll
keep you posting on that man sad situation.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
That's my quick sports sport right there.
Speaker 12 (05:44):
Good morning, Brett, drop it, drop it like a good
morning Brett.
Speaker 13 (05:57):
Good morning m on to everybody. I'm your girl, Brett
ted Tad and this is the hot spot. But we
bring you music, movies and more. So let's get off
into it well, y'all. Doing a recent interview Gucci Mane
and Keisha Kyo opened up about his experience with schizophrenia
and psychosist management. Kisha broke down the various ways she
would help him, and he also revealed that he had
(06:17):
to cut off some of his friends from stealing from
him while he was having his episodes.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
He's what they had to say.
Speaker 14 (06:22):
I take his apps off his phone. First thing I do.
I delete Instagram, I delete everything.
Speaker 15 (06:27):
Even if I got to change his password, I'm changing
it because I don't need the public to know he's
diving an episode, because you're not going on Instagram.
Speaker 14 (06:33):
You're not going on Twitter. It's deleted, you know.
Speaker 15 (06:36):
And I just control everything at home and now before
the episodes come, I catch it. So that's why he
hasn't had another one. And how you catch that is
he doesn't speak to you. He wants to be left alone.
He don't eat, he does not sleep, and I'm like,
you're sick, and we snap out of it.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Right.
Speaker 16 (06:51):
I would give my friends jeried and like they know
I went, well, they'll take it I feelt like, damn,
they know I was someone's going on with me, but
they'll take it. So like when I got out of jail,
like I cut off all my friends friends, I'm like, damn,
never taking advantage man.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
That's crazy.
Speaker 13 (07:04):
Man, You never know what people are going through. And
kudos to Keisha k Off for Yeah, he got him
a real one.
Speaker 7 (07:11):
And she's beautiful and she's.
Speaker 13 (07:12):
Smart and she she she stands by her man too.
Speaker 7 (07:16):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 17 (07:18):
Spouse though, somebody that you know that's gonna look out
for you and make nobody else can.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
And I'm glad he cut those people off. That's so
why would you?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
That's so not.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Cool to steal from somebody?
Speaker 13 (07:28):
Want they having like an episode that ain't.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
Your friend nowhere? That's crazy, all right, y'all.
Speaker 13 (07:34):
Last, but not least, Bryceon Taylor, just give the Chris
Brown a brand new Lamborghinie.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Come on, bryceon Tylor.
Speaker 13 (07:41):
The gift marks the end of Chris Brown sold out
Breezy Bowl Stadium tour, which featured Bryson Taylor is one
of the special guests. The two artists have collaborated and
supported each other for years, and this gesture was Tiller's
way of showing gratitude for being part of one of
Brown's biggest career moments. He even shared a video of
the Black Lambert with the caption, thank you Chris Brown. No,
you didn't need another Landbow, but I'll forever be thankful
(08:03):
to you for bringing me on your first ever stadium tour,
Breezy Bowl Complete.
Speaker 7 (08:07):
I just want to.
Speaker 13 (08:08):
Reiterate to Team Breezy that this gift wouldn't be possible
without y'all. So it's not just for me, it's from us.
Oh my goodness, Ice, that'sh what's up. I love seeing it, y'all.
I love seeing love instead of hating people hating on
each other and going against each other.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
This is awesome.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I love this.
Speaker 13 (08:26):
Congratulations to bryceon Tiler and see Breezy. All right, y'all,
we're gonna wrap up the hotspital on that note, but
for more information on these stories and more, you can
go to Ricky Smiley Morning Show dot com and you
can catch me on all my social media and so
so Bratt.
Speaker 18 (08:40):
What's the problem, man, I kiss you them muggas you
ain't you ain't spawning no more.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
Three o'clock in the morning, shy, because.
Speaker 18 (08:48):
I will die in the country all we can. I
have a very good, very fun weekend. Well with my cousin.
Know they got a fall fun down at Waitquawd George.
You ever heard of Wakequaald, Georgie. Yeah, God, we want
down there. We went down there on Saturday morning and
I'm still down here waiting to get a right back
up the old.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
But make it.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
You can make it the way across Georgia.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
But you can't make it work.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
But listen, shouty.
Speaker 18 (09:11):
This was a real experience for me because you know,
I stayed in the hood shouting. I don't know, get
no chance to listen, Shoty.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
We did the farm.
Speaker 18 (09:21):
It was so it was so crazy because we were
now look Shoty. We were all hushing. We washed the
chicken or put down on edge. We slopped hogs, we
did everything. I had a cowboy hat and everything. But then, uh, yes,
yesterday afternoon they were laughing because they said, black Tony.
(09:42):
They said, you don't have such a good time. I said, y'all,
HAVENE had such a good time. I can't wait to
go back to work and tell Rick our French brought
cheer and everybody how much a good time I had
being a farm, being a farm now for the whole
weekend shot it. But then they asked me or to
go out there and milk and milk the cows and
get some fresh milk. And I went out there and
I got up under that old I got up on
(10:03):
the one that had horns on them, and I started
milking them. And I started like like you know, pulling
the punters and try.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
To get the milk. He was looking, he was looking
back at me. Shout.
Speaker 17 (10:11):
He was turning.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
He kept turning head looking back at me, and I
was saying for.
Speaker 18 (10:15):
A minute, but I said, now I'm gonna do this.
Speaker 7 (10:16):
I kept milking and then.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Oh that one don't county.
Speaker 7 (10:22):
It carried out, but it a little weird.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I said, what it is?
Speaker 9 (10:25):
So we mis buy.
Speaker 7 (10:28):
No that would not go.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Oh my god, no man, no man, oh man said
the day off, the day off.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
They're laughing, y'all laughing at the day off.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Man, the day off that morning.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Get many you like it, take the day off.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't worry about the black and then you good.
Speaker 7 (11:36):
Hold it half man, half woman. That's GARYE want to
help you to.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
As not in the morning show.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Hey, it is about that time broadcasting life from the time,
Join a Fantastic Voyage.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Y'all? Gary, got that tea in the color the other day?
Speaker 3 (11:54):
What up, Gary?
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Good morning, Rickie.
Speaker 19 (11:55):
Okay, now everybody's still talking about Brandy. Brandy just left
the cause of the say baby Brandy. Some people say
she was jealous somebody because I Outfield.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Oh no, yeah, they they don't have to be jealous
of nobody.
Speaker 19 (12:06):
Well, I'll tell you what her his. Brandy left the stage. Yeah,
she probably wasn't feeling well. Well, honey, you didn't feel well,
you should have went to work.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Sometime you're trying to do the show and you want
to go on stage to perform for the people that
pay money to come see.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
And sometimes when you get on stage and.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
You get the lights in your face and you get
hot and you get overwhelmed or over stimulated, sometimes you
have to take a step back where you want to
pass out on stage.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
You don't want that to happen.
Speaker 19 (12:29):
But how long you been performing unbranded and performan She
been performing a long time.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
She shouldn't know better than.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
That, Gary.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
She probably got sick. Then they released a statement.
Speaker 19 (12:38):
Yeah, but she didn't come back. If you think you
take some pepptal businessow you go back on stage.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Yeah, you know they went probably want to snow and
she probably felt faint.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
How many times you felt faint and leave a lot
of time?
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Really?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, I didn't know about that one.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you just have to You can't pass
out on stage because you yourself getting sick? Are you
feeling yourself getting busy? You just you just can't just
keep going.
Speaker 19 (13:00):
Fact, it would be beautiful if brand it was just
fell out on the stage and laid there by minicules performing.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
That's been some good do it for you and you
were the enjoying something because she mess it like that.
You know, we we treasured Brandy is a national treasure.
Don't ever forget that.
Speaker 19 (13:15):
She sure is now last night all that Ricky neil
is is it a consummate performing that's the right word.
Consonant I think so, yeah, he's a consonant with that. Yeah,
because Ricky, I mean he had all this. I was
wondering over those women all his probably so so you
got them work set me and he ain't taking care
of their working.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
I mean, hey, you know, everybody got to pay their due,
you know what I'm saying, so he get paid and
then they give a check.
Speaker 19 (13:38):
If that, if that was then was that then? I
don't know that because it was four and I know
he has four allegedly so. But they were cute though
her they had no out, they had their bus out
and everything.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Child the child. All right, Neil, you go.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Bu Yeah he put on the Helifi show, HELFI show right. Sure.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
I was very pleased.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Yeah, man, Neil us a lot of our events by
our company, our Reach Media. I know we did a
show together when we did the upfronts or whatever, you know,
and uh, yeah, Neil, don't go all the way back.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
To the Apollo days. He was good.
Speaker 19 (14:13):
I was very pleased. I kind of had sometain kind
of feeling when he could. I love man Yella his
first baby mama. I like her, but a little bit boy. Yeah,
I kind of.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Well, you still come join the club. She got married?
Did she get married? She got me, she got a
wonderful European husband. Good for her, happy for her.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
We won't.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
We just want everybody happy. Everybody and speaking of happiness week.
Speaker 19 (14:34):
But I got this story just say in my heart whatever,
because you know, people were saying that Louis Baton gave
Cardi b a what eight million, fifty million dollar contract
and Louis said, no, what what you mean? They said
we didn't get her nothing. They say, we ain't give
her nothing. She had a Louis return out fires. People
say it was fake. Did they hold it up to
the light.
Speaker 7 (14:52):
She had it on.
Speaker 19 (14:53):
They said, we didn't give her that, We ain't put her.
She's not our brand ambassador. That was dirty. Well here
she's not. She's not.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Yeah, but I mean.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
But that again Lion said that she's the brand ambassador.
It's okay for her the weather outfit.
Speaker 19 (15:06):
Yeah, but they said how people say, oh, she got
all this money and missus lit Bitoana said.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
No, I don't think they was denying her. They were
denying that she was the ambassador for Lewis.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
It's a difference. Well, it's a difficulce who said that
she was.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 19 (15:21):
You know, people lie on the internet. Oh, I feel
so bad, Nick. If you're listening on watching baby, It's
gonna be all right. Had Michael Cole still got some
new stuff from.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Ambassador for Michael Cores?
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Now, Gary, well, are you spoiling on this on this
time showing a fantastic boys.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
What kind of shirt is that? Oh, this was a problem,
but they took the name tag out of it. Yeah
got it?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Oh yeah, because okay, we already know why.
Speaker 19 (15:48):
We know why, and we're gonna keep it death whine And.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Now you're gonna so you're gonna do your whole first
t savement with the prouder shirt on. That ain't product
to the p office what you got on. That's all right, baby,
I feel good all over.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
All right. So Riga the colue today says, we sell
in the set. This is this seventh scenes.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
We are in the in the middle of the Gulf
of Mexico on our way to Consomel. So we've been
out here on the ocean. We're gonna spend the entire
day traveling on the ocean, and tomorrow we will be
pouring in Consmell.
Speaker 19 (16:23):
Oh are you excited about that? I'm excited. So as
long as I can get out and buy something.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Yeah, you don't have no money, because I know they
got they got shops on it, they got a little
the son.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Yeah, they got a little baiton. I would the car
to be coming. Oh, yes see, that's real messing, that's
real messing and what's the clue of to day? The
colud to day rig is one of my favorite coloes.
Speaker 19 (16:42):
Honey, in honor of the tom join the cruise, I
did a colude to days that we're gonna start off
with ocean blue because that water is blue.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
It ain't but you scared of it. Yeah, we got that.
We got to talk about that. Yeah, you got to
get over your feel All.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Right, y'all give it up and Gary.
Speaker 20 (16:55):
With the tea, wake up, wake up, get you yell
against that.
Speaker 7 (17:09):
I get it against.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
You when you're high up.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
With the man.
Speaker 7 (17:16):
And you really does him?
Speaker 14 (17:17):
When beeB do you want to show.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
You call Ross, Come on, John, wake come morning.
Speaker 12 (17:24):
This is the show.
Speaker 16 (17:25):
And Charlotte, I'm from playing through New Jersey. I want
all my family and Charlotte, my son, my brother, my sister,
and my mother everybody to.
Speaker 7 (17:32):
Wake up, wake up, wake up, way up.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
Calling from roy City, Texas.
Speaker 21 (17:37):
Good morning, Rickie.
Speaker 11 (17:38):
I wish I was on that boat with y'all.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
I want to see wake up, wake up.
Speaker 13 (17:42):
Wake up to My husband Brad, my daughter Gabby, and
my son Christopher.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
Joined Lord Rita.
Speaker 22 (17:48):
Wake up, wake up, wake up, Good morning.
Speaker 16 (17:51):
Calling from Columbus Ohio with KEITHA.
Speaker 23 (17:54):
I'm calling the wake up black Tony.
Speaker 9 (17:56):
Wake up, wake up, wake.
Speaker 12 (17:57):
Up, somebody, wake up.
Speaker 7 (18:04):
Let's go wake up.
Speaker 24 (18:07):
Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, Cito,
wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up.
Speaker 15 (18:18):
Wake up?
Speaker 3 (18:20):
Bring y free? Is who you about to get ready
to be lying about?
Speaker 8 (18:24):
No, it's not me. Listen.
Speaker 9 (18:26):
A lot of people think that they know when somebody's lying,
but according to body language experts, some of those same
signs can also show up when somebody's telling the truth
because they're nervous about being believed.
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Right.
Speaker 9 (18:39):
So here are the top ten signs that somebody might
be lying. Number one we've all heard this one e direction. Apparently,
if a person looks to the right a lot, it
means they're making stuff up.
Speaker 8 (18:50):
They lying.
Speaker 9 (18:51):
If they're looking to the left, however, that means they're
like they're just trying to remember.
Speaker 25 (18:55):
Like what happens?
Speaker 3 (18:56):
That's interesting?
Speaker 7 (18:57):
Yes, interesting, and I.
Speaker 8 (18:58):
Feel like that seems true.
Speaker 9 (19:00):
Number two really long pauses because liars are trying to stall,
so they might repeat your question to buy them time.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
I don't know if I agree about that one. Yeah,
like what are you real?
Speaker 13 (19:12):
I think a real good liar ain't gonna do none
of that. They're not gonna look to the left of right,
because then they look like they lie. They're not gonna
fisht They're gonna look dead at you and be like,
I ain't do that.
Speaker 7 (19:23):
Contacting everything.
Speaker 12 (19:25):
Most people with a lot of wisdom they pause before
they respond, right, No, why.
Speaker 7 (19:31):
Would yeah, you'd be like no, why would you say
something like that? You know I ain't dead, not like that.
Speaker 8 (19:40):
The question again was like coming out of her bedroom
right now.
Speaker 12 (19:44):
Okay, so it's a lot to the police, real good, really,
and did you a lot of experience of that?
Speaker 3 (19:50):
I can make myself cry on command to see.
Speaker 7 (19:54):
The eye contact when you told them lies too, didn't you?
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (19:59):
Otherwise you don't. It's like otherwise you look like you lion.
Speaker 9 (20:02):
Okay, well, did your voice change? Because number three is
voice changes. Listen for a higher pitch tone. Usually this
is what stressed us to you.
Speaker 13 (20:10):
It causes that like what you mean right, like Brady Bunch,
Peter Brady, it's time to change.
Speaker 7 (20:18):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 9 (20:19):
Number four fidgeting, Yeah, like you're messing with your nails,
or you.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
Just can't see men show you, lion.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
You gotta be cool or you could be nervous.
Speaker 8 (20:29):
You could be nervous.
Speaker 7 (20:30):
You could be nervous, but you gotta be cool.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
If you lie, you can't anybody consider themself to be
a good liar.
Speaker 7 (20:36):
No, well, who wants to claim that?
Speaker 8 (20:38):
Yeah, I forget too much? Okay, so do you do this?
Number five is over compensation.
Speaker 9 (20:43):
A liar might puff up or act overly confident when
they're trying to get away with something. Number six they
cross their arms or do headshakes that can signal defensiveness.
And number seven too many filler words. If you're sentences
a star with yeah you know, or basically you're lying.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Oh man, that's not necessarily.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
True, because everybody time somebody say basically.
Speaker 7 (21:09):
Say basically, they just want to sound smart.
Speaker 8 (21:13):
Yeah, that's that's a.
Speaker 7 (21:16):
Yeah, basically actually right.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
Regardless, babies, you busy?
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Hey my mom at work right now?
Speaker 6 (21:27):
Can you?
Speaker 11 (21:27):
Well?
Speaker 22 (21:28):
Look here, I was thinking, if y'all was gonna come
over here this weekend, I could do some collar green,
some hot water corn bread, maybe some baked pork chops. Okay, well,
but if y'all not coming, I probably just make a
pot of spaghett it for me and honey, Well, we
probably will come over, Mama, But I gotta get back
to work.
Speaker 7 (21:42):
Yeah, I was just sitting here watching. You're not even
gonna believe what I'm watching.
Speaker 22 (21:46):
Once you're watching MoMA Rowboat Coop one they done in
the eighties. Oh okay, Well, let me get back to
work and I'll give you a Did you hear about
Paul and Maylee?
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Let me call you back on my lunch break.
Speaker 6 (21:59):
You can tell me God the house evicted from them?
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Evicted from them?
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Now?
Speaker 7 (22:03):
Baby, let me ask you something. Is your cousin pregnant?
Speaker 21 (22:07):
You talk?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Okay?
Speaker 22 (22:07):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, Okay, this is Vicky
beeping through. Let me call you back later, Mama, Love you, bye, Hello, Vicky. Hey,
did you hear about Paul and Maylee? Got they house
evicted from him?
Speaker 7 (22:21):
Hold? He's half man, half woman?
Speaker 6 (22:24):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (22:24):
Yeahie, wanna help you to.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It's garage?
Speaker 3 (22:29):
Why'all?
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Reason by the morning, So we are broadcasting line from
the time joining a fantastic voice. We are in the
middle of the Gulf of Mexico on our way to
cotton Mail. But Gary got the tea and the club
and they got right. Good morning, Riggy, Good morning to
you y'all. Okay, now, Ricky.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
This this is a set. Now you may feel a
different way. I do too about this next door. It's
being for y'all.
Speaker 19 (22:49):
Somebody said they thought of Chante laying out on the
beach because somebody said this is good in the game
about two hundred pounds.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Said she had that baby. She had a pink outfit
on and nobody knew she was salmon or what she was.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
But did she look, you gonna gain weight. You're gonna's
called baby fat or whatever. So you're gonna have a
little bit of baby fat. But she go, I'm sure
she gonna work that down a shunty look good. I
don't care what size, what size she is whatever, So yeah,
don't don't. Don't do that now when you.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Rich, Ricky, they take everything out when you have a baby.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Not right when you have the baby, you're already getting
over the complications of having the baby itself, and you
give your body a chance to heal from having the baby.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Then you go get the surgery for that who died?
Have made you an offstest? Yeah, you know, you know
I hang out or what obstetrician obstetrician anyway, y'all know
I hang with the one that on the Doctor m J.
Speaker 19 (23:35):
Cally Come on now, Yeah, but Ricky, I mean I
feel bad for you know, Nelly might leave it. You
know how y'all me and all y'all want a certain size.
She was a certain side when the emailing. Now she's
a bigger size. Yeah, I mean, but she gonna lose
the way Nellie work out. Nellie's strong or whatever, and
they've been together so long. He ain't going on it. See.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
The thing about being with somebody is trying to be
with somebody that you can't live with now, and I
don't think Nellie can live without the shun they look out.
They got back together, Nigga, that reunited. They did the
Peach Center.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
I just reunited and it feels so good.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
And they've been together ever since.
Speaker 19 (24:07):
And now she had got that baby fat, all that
stuff and not people say he might leave it because
you know, I just feel.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
That he ain't going away.
Speaker 19 (24:13):
Well we hope he don't go He was a lady
secure the bab Yes, better But anyway, moving on childhood,
Oh my god, now this next door here Now, Ricky,
I don't know if you watch on Real Housewives of Potomac,
I have said, well, old Wendy. One of the girl's
name is Wendy Windy old cellphond I did the tape
Parsons last name. She and her husband got busted for
insurance far I saw that God. And she's a doctor
(24:38):
is education. He's a lawyer. Allowed they want they wanted
extra money. They said something they listed somebody broke in
their house. They want some extra money for the show.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
I guess.
Speaker 19 (24:46):
And they lie said somebody broke it, and the people
did an investigation and huney. Now they may be going
to the pen. Oh wow, And I remember the girls
you do the back in the day hundred used to
call in and stuff. But then they also they can't
get arrested now. But you know you used to say
your stuff was stolen.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Girl. Everybody needs some damn money. Girl, they stole my
jewelry and the police came out. What did some of
the details in the case.
Speaker 19 (25:08):
Yeah, but I'm not talking about I'm talking about how
the sis you used to do back and damn you
used to call in stuff, right, and you didn't get caught.
Now these girls then got caught. Wendy and her husband Eddie. Yeah,
they wanted too much. They were greedy, right, but did
somebody break in the house. No, that's the killing team.
Oh that's what they're saying. Oh well, well you gotta
keep them nothing up. They are definitely being lift And
(25:28):
we loved when the Honey and Wendy, she was on
her Let everybody have it on the show. Now carry
this guy depending on when he's going in. It's a
barfing door, so we gotta pray get him bred. It's beautiful.
Everything is beautiful. No, it's not when you're going to jail. Yeah,
(25:49):
you saying it's beautiful, but not not well. But we
have two spots people that always talk about jail, and
they seemed like they were all right with.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
You went to jail too, But I jail was an
in and out, okay, residency in there.
Speaker 19 (26:03):
You did you did a few days in the jail
then well hell, Riggy wouldn't know dis okay, but you
did that two or three days? Yeah, yeah, okay, you
got you right out? Yeah, because I mean, but the
person that got you out of jail, Shirley, thank you.
Shirtyley got me when Rigg put it on the Red
Bady the girls zoom turning across the count to get
me out of jail. And they know I would been
like a praguice flower just flocked. So here I is, yes, honey.
(26:29):
Oh and you know my quick for free Street. We
saw Cobar, you know Covar from Babyface brother. Yeah, he
was walking down the hall. I hardly recognize himcause he's
kind of gray, but he recognized me. But anyway, they
were talking and ye saw yeah, so they said they
really was glad to see.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah, he's gonna be performing, you know, on his cruise.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Oh okay, he's gonna be performing the night with after
seven they still again, yeah, they said, yeah, yeah, after
seven got some jams.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Man, what they mean? Seven home? What's the seven?
Speaker 2 (26:57):
Hold? No?
Speaker 3 (26:58):
Not seven hours?
Speaker 1 (26:58):
Thinking about twenty breakfast already or nothing? Get you every red?
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah you remember that?
Speaker 1 (27:07):
Oh yeah, come on.
Speaker 19 (27:08):
So it was a real good thing. So, I mean
everybody so far in the cruise, we're having a great time. Yes,
I would just look to deterred some of the way
the people's eat, but you know, you gotta eat. What
you mean? What what?
Speaker 3 (27:18):
What was you so deterred?
Speaker 1 (27:21):
I have never seen so many black people just place
just piled up with food. It just hurt me.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Yeah, you know, black people are gonna do that. And
they're gonna do that at a repast Thanksgiving. You know,
we don't know how to some of us don't know
how to eat and go back sometimes. Yeah, like your
grandma said, you got to act like you used to
something that has been somewhere, Yes, and Lord, I was,
Oh Jesus Lord. And then you think they are they
gonna make it till the tea brought out, and you
(27:45):
think they're gonna be laid out.
Speaker 19 (27:46):
They gonna be laid out, but they're gonna come to
the teapot. They're gonna be here. What about some of
the outfits you've seen me so far? Oh my god,
I saw all kinds of illusions. But anyway, because you
know who's who by the cause and the colode today, y'all, honey,
is one of my favorite. My coloraday, y'all is clothes, honey,
because these girls every color clothes you see.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
Out here, Honey. This girl's waiting, honey. They have so
looks done.
Speaker 13 (28:10):
You know.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
That's they close.
Speaker 26 (28:14):
One time Garry with the team. Did you see that
post time people are talking? Here's one on the Vicky
Smiley Morning Show.
Speaker 12 (28:26):
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, which is the time
to shed light on the issue that affects millions of
people every year, regardless of the age, the gender, or
the background. Now, last week we broke down with domestic
violence is and how it can affect men and women.
But today we want to die a little bit deeper
into how domestic violence can also affect teenagers.
Speaker 13 (28:46):
Yeah, Rock Tea, Domestic violence within teenagers is more common
than people think about. One in three teenagers in the
US experienced physical, emotional, or verbal abuse from a dating
partner before they turn eighteen. Now, teams are more likely
to experien emotional or digital abuse, such as controlling behavior, threats,
or harassment on social media. Now, technology plays a big
(29:07):
role in team domestic violence because one in fourteens in
relationships report being digitally controlled or monitored by a partner,
such as constant texting, checking locations, or demanding passwords. And
although this is very common, only thirty three percent of
teens and abusive relationships report the situation to someone else.
Speaker 12 (29:27):
Man and we got Beyonce Alawitch's on the show. You
want to share it a quick story?
Speaker 25 (29:32):
Yeah, So you know this is very touching to me
because I've done a lot of work with teen domestic
violent charters here in Atlanta and big shot out to
PADV and I mentor a lot of young women because
you know, when I was sixteen, I met my first
love of my life and we worked at our job together.
(29:52):
He was amazing. You know, I got the red carpet treatment.
You know, he was nineteen, I was sixteen. I thought
it was just you know, he was still in high school.
I thought it was perfect, and I wrapped myself so
much into him. I was a girls girl at the time. Like,
you know, we would hang out, we would have fun,
and then slowly but surely, it's not like and I
(30:13):
think that's one of the misconceptions that people make, because
this is you know, this is your person. It's not
like they just automatically start fighting or things get physical.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
You know.
Speaker 25 (30:24):
It started off with he wanted to know my location.
He wanted to know why I was hanging out with
certain guy friends who I had had for so many years.
I slowly started to isolate myself, and I think those
are some of the warning signs that people need to
watch out for. You're not hanging around your friends like
you used to. You're not going out to party like
(30:44):
you used to, and you know, I for so long,
I've never shared this on air because even to this day,
I still get scared to what if he finds out
or what if he hears me talking about it and
he wants to come stop me. And that's one thing
I talked to these young ladies about, you know, when
(31:05):
we do these events and these these teen talk events,
and you don't realize it, but it went from emotional
to physical shoving to full out fights to we were
living together because at the time, I felt like he
was the only person who knew me. I loved him,
(31:26):
I was the only person he had So yeah, we
were a young love.
Speaker 12 (31:31):
You know.
Speaker 25 (31:31):
We were so wrapped up and he would threaten to
hurt himself if I left, and I just I felt
so guilty and I didn't want that, and so it was.
It was just it was very pulling, and even now
I look back at it, and I asked myself, how
did I get wrapped up in that? Like I'm so smart,
but and I feel like I should know better. But
then when you're young, you don't, you know, you feel like.
Speaker 7 (31:53):
You in love and that feeling that you've never had before.
Speaker 9 (31:56):
And then I just want to thank you for your
courage and testimony, because there are people right now and
you're saying, listen, this is your person time talking about it.
So your courage right now is helping someone who is
in the situation right now.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
So thank you, Matt, absolutely.
Speaker 25 (32:10):
And you get scared, and so I didn't want to
tell anybody. I never told my friends, I never told
my grandmother. I felt like we were each other's Bonnie
and Clyde ride or die, and it did. It took
until I had I realized that I was hiding the
knives in the house because I was so scared that
he was going to hurt me or hurt himself that
(32:31):
I started to talk about it because I kept thinking
in my head, I was like, I'm going to be
like one of these people in the news one day.
And one day he did, you know, pull a knife.
And I talked to myself and I told myself, I
need to call my grandmother because I was so embarrassed,
you know, to call home and be like, hey.
Speaker 7 (32:53):
I knew at home, I think everything is so good.
You want them to feel like the person you picked
was a good person.
Speaker 25 (32:58):
I was so but I just remember my grandmother and
her being like, you will always have a place to
come home. We won't judge you. And that's how I
got out, and I just I want that for so
many other people.
Speaker 12 (33:11):
Thank you for that, absolutely, and thank you for sharing
that like that takes a lot of courage. So this
morning we got licensed therapist Spirit on the hell break
all this down for us. Good morning, Spirit, how you
doing man?
Speaker 7 (33:25):
Good morning?
Speaker 6 (33:26):
And I'm loving Beyonce right now, for she is talking
to millions of guys and girls right now. Beyonce, you
ex cis, thank you for saving people. I'm like, you
got me in tears because you're seeing the story. Girl,
you were telling the story today and you you got
folks sitting here right now going, oh my gosh.
Speaker 7 (33:47):
She's talking about me.
Speaker 6 (33:48):
She's talking about how we fight, She's talking about how
we love.
Speaker 7 (33:51):
Am I in trouble?
Speaker 2 (33:53):
Am I?
Speaker 6 (33:54):
Am I a domestic violence victim? Am I an abuser?
You you saving folks today?
Speaker 12 (33:59):
Sis, this is the conversation to be having absolutely absolutely Spirit,
What are some early red flags that parents, friends, or
even teachers should be looking out for.
Speaker 6 (34:10):
You know, it is the obsessive behavior. And I don't
mean it in the clinical sense. I mean it And
when you slowly watch somebody who goes from being vibrant
and full in their circles to being completely distracted and
caught up in their relationships, they really become isolated and
their sole focus is on how to keep their partner
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calm and happy. Those are the two places in spaces,
and it's really rooted in insecurity. It's really rooted on
need for reassurance. And it doesn't start off with people
wanting to be abusive, I promise you that's not where
it's usually rooted, which is why abusers don't see themselves
as abusers, and victims don't see themselves as victims. They
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see themselves as two people doing whatever it takes to
make the relationship work and just to make sure that
their partner feels comfortable with what they're doing.
Speaker 9 (35:05):
So why is it that so many young people just
don't recognize certain behaviors like constant texting or jealousy as
forms of abuse.
Speaker 6 (35:16):
Well, because what we look at in that situation, it's
a slippery slope. Of course, I want to talk to
my partner.
Speaker 7 (35:22):
All the time.
Speaker 6 (35:23):
Of course I want them to know what I'm doing
and where I'm at and how I'm feeling, and so
we're caught up in this volley that at the point,
it sounds like we're just keeping each other involved in
our relationship when we're away from each other. So when
I'm in the car with my mom, or I'm at
a party, or I'm supposed to be doing my homework
(35:43):
or I'm in class, we're just maintaining our relationship. But
where it becomes abusive is where it starts to get controlling,
where we start to question each other's behavior or we
have to modify our behavior because the person questions our
love for them, are our respect for the relationship? Why
are you hanging out with that person? Are you still up?
(36:06):
I don't feel comfortable with you, like in their pictures.
Why are they talking to you over there? You have
me so mad, I'm thinking I'm going to hurt myself. Right,
And you get sucked into this cycle of care taking
and you don't see it as abuse. You just see
it as I love my partner enough to make them happy.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Wow.
Speaker 13 (36:27):
How does experiencing abuse at such a young age affect
a teen's mental health long term?
Speaker 7 (36:33):
Oh my gosh, Brad, it's seems how they do.
Speaker 6 (36:38):
Yes, it does, because without the proper help, we will
develop anxiety disorders, depression, post traumatic stress disorder. We are
dealing with abuse oftentimes, that abuse, like you said, is digital,
it's emotional, it's sexual, it's physical, it's social, it's financial,
it's so many different things. And how we love as
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children tells us and dictates how we go on to
love as adults. And so what we see is that
it's more common for individuals who have been in these
kinds of relationships in their adolescence to also choose partners
like this throughout their adulthood. So you will be in
controlling relationships. You will be in relationships where your partner
abuses you, violates you, disrespects you. You will develop code
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dependency because you've already learned that it's imperative for your
survival that you make partners happy. You will also become
passive in your friendships and your co working relationships. It
really impacts every aspect of your life. And then as
you go on to become a parent, you will be
parenting from that place of not only mental health conditions,
(37:46):
but an inability to stand up and advocate for yourself.
As you then create intergenerational trauma cycles. Brat It is
really really interesting. And if you ever have the chance,
as folks are out there, to hear your parents' stories,
it would be mind blowing to know the number of
our parents who have sat in abusive relationships, or many
(38:08):
of us know that they have, and you don't recognize
how that impacts it. The way that they loved on
us and the way that we went on to do
relationships too.
Speaker 12 (38:17):
Man, my Spirit, my wife Crystal, she has an organization
called Pretty Insecure was his mental health program for girls,
and I hear a lot of these stories like it's
like she comes home crying sometimes about it. But so
thank you for sharing that and helping out. October is
domestic violence of wearing this month, and licensed therapist Spirit
is here to address all of your concerns. October is
(38:39):
of course domestic violence are wearing this month, and we're
going to be talking about how it can also affect
teenagers and what we as parents and mentors should be
doing to help our teenagers escape these situations. Man, Also,
we got licensed therapists Spirit to help us break.
Speaker 1 (38:52):
It all down.
Speaker 6 (38:53):
Well, you know, one of the things that I tell
folks is if you recognize that you're having to decline
because it doesn't safe for healthy you have a bigger
problem in the relationship, so it's not enough to decline.
And at that point, I want to have a different
kind of conversation with teens because if we're not safe
in our relationships, we need to start questioning either how
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we get help to make the relationship safer. Most of
the time they don't want to leave brat, but ultimately
that's what needs to happen. So what we want to
do is we want to help people recognize and especially
as a kid, you can always throw your parents under
the bus and your parents will love you for that.
So just say my mom doesn't allow me to do that,
(39:35):
my father doesn't want me to do that. I'm only
able to share my locations with them. And if parents
and adults, whether we're aunties, uncles, teachers, coaches, friends of youth,
we need to be having these conversations with them so
they reugze that these are just facts of life. There's
nothing to be embarrassed or feel ashamed about, because the
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isolation makes the situation more dangerous for both of the
kids that are involved.
Speaker 9 (40:02):
Absolutely, I always tell my kids, let them know your
mom is crazy. It's not Alie okay, you know, okay,
But speaking of parents, you know you don't want to
invade your team's privacy. So how can parents or mentors address,
you know, or even monitor digital abuse without invading a
kids privacy?
Speaker 6 (40:19):
Well, what I like to help people understand, and this
is as a mom of seven, also, what I teach
my children is that there's a difference between privacy and secrecy. Right,
and so when your children are dating, especially in middle school,
unfortunately that's how early they're doing it. Some of them
got girlfriends and boyfriends in elementary school. So what we
(40:39):
want to help them do is recognize that they're practicing
healthy relationships for adulthood. So that's where we want to
have interjection. That's where we want to have conversation. Too
many parents are focused on discipline and restriction. I refuse
to let you have a boyfriend right now. I refuse
to let you date right now. Instead of being able
(41:00):
to have an open line of communication where you can
actually have influence, you drive your children further into isolation
because then they don't feel like they can talk to you.
If they recognize they're doing stuff that you told them
they shouldn't be doing anyway. So instead, what we want
to do is we want to talk to our children
about what healthy relationships look like, but also what dangers
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look like in relationships, so that if they get in trouble,
they can start to recognize the signs as soon as possible.
Speaker 3 (41:30):
Spirit, we got a lot of people calling in.
Speaker 12 (41:32):
They got some questions for you, So let's go to
the phone line, says that's six' Nine Ricky Ricky's Monday
morning show Your own With.
Speaker 3 (41:37):
Spirit good.
Speaker 21 (41:38):
MORNING i guess my question is how do you know
THE i guess when you're crossing the line of really
just trying to respect your partner and their issues of
wanting to be respectful of you, know maybe they have
some insecurities behind things that you just want to really
be respectful of them and actually being controlled by. Them
like how when do you kind of know that you're
(41:58):
getting to the.
Speaker 6 (41:59):
Line, Okay so the line is WHERE i get to
love you and me, simultaneously AND i always have to
love me. First so in a, relationship we don't want
to be doing things to respect somebody else's. Wishes we
want to be building a healthy relationship that we both
agree works for. Us and, unfortunately most of us don't
(42:22):
learn how to negotiate. Relationships we just love you and
you love, me and we want to just keep this feeling.
Going but what we should really be talking about is
how DO i want to feel in this? Relationship how
do you want to feel in this? Relationship and can
we agree this is what works for both of. Us
if something doesn't work for, you you have to trust
(42:44):
your gut about, that and you have to ask, yourself
AM i sacrificing or betraying myself to respect their? Wishes
and why WOULD i respect somebody's wishes who doesn't care
THAT i feel betrayed Or i'm sick to myself?
Speaker 12 (43:00):
Theomach, Wow Rick's Mondy Morning, Show Good. MORNING i had a.
Speaker 27 (43:04):
Question, okay so my signs they and a girl and
they keep going off and on or. Whatever She's blacktown
and then she On. Blacktown how DO i keep them
away from each? Other because he's gotten to the point
to where he shows up at her, house don't stick
out her window and. Stuff so how DO i get
them from to stop talking to each?
Speaker 1 (43:26):
Other?
Speaker 6 (43:27):
Okay the hard part of this is that you're not
going to be able to get him to stop talking to.
Her what we need to do is get him some
help so that he will then make the choice to
stop talking to her because he recognizes how toxic and
dangerous the relationship. Is AND i want you guys to
recognize that when children or teens fall in love for
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the first, time they're experiencing a whole new rush of
hormones in their bodies that are literally changing their brain.
Chemistry that's why they become unrecognizable to you and to.
Themselves so that's why it's important to have. Information that's
why it's important to have, education and that's why it's
important for them to have support while they're navigating these
(44:12):
new relationship, dynamics these new, hormones these new flood of,
emotions because they really are out of. Control and what
we should be doing as adults is teaching them how
to manage. This but if we don't get it, together
and if we've never learned how to manage, it it's
really hard to stand in support of our children because
(44:32):
we don't know what to. Do so, understand if you
don't have what you, need that it's okay for you
all to learn healthy relationships and dating patterns. Together model
that for the, children but get that baby some help
before one of them get.
Speaker 12 (44:46):
Hurt, Man, Spirit first of, all we want to Thank
beyonce again for being so vulnerable and brave this morning
to share your.
Speaker 3 (44:55):
Story.
Speaker 12 (44:56):
Spirit we want to thank you for coming on and
helping breaking all this down son and understand this a
little bit. More how can people contact you and follow?
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Speaker 3 (45:30):
Spirit love. It appreciate Your, Spirit.
Speaker 12 (45:32):
Man and if you are someone or know anyone that's
experiencing domestic, violence you can also reach out to The
National Domestic Violence hotline eight hundred and seventy ninety nine,
safe or you can text the word start to eight
eight seven eight. Eight you can also chat online at
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(45:55):
know we read a question From Ricky smiley's SHOW dms
and you got something over.
Speaker 13 (46:01):
There, WELL i kind of, Do, okay here we. Go,
Okay so this young lady, said my name Is. Krishana
i'm From, Houston. Texas SO i live in WHAT i
(46:21):
like to call a decent. Neighborhood, recently the family living
next door moved out AND i just met my new.
Neighbor she seemed nice at, first AND i feel Like
i've been super chill about all the changes she's been.
Making she asked about cutting down a shared, tree, fences et.
Cetera but now she's installed floodlights that literally go into
my bedroom and she doesn't see an, issue and even
(46:44):
install the camera that is pointed towards my front door and.
Driveway it feels so awkward and that she's trying to
spy on us all the. TIME i don't know what
to do or HOW i should address it to her
without becoming. Hostile how DO i handle this? Situation you're
telling them.
Speaker 12 (47:01):
You just go, say, hey, man look these lights are
shining into my house and it's causing it a little
bit of a. Disruption can we tone the lights down
or maybe point them in a different.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
Direction and what about the.
Speaker 7 (47:11):
Camera and this camera is pointing directly at my?
Speaker 9 (47:15):
Door why would be pointed at her door instead of
like her, own you know WHAT i, mean why would
it be Pointed it has to.
Speaker 13 (47:20):
Be pointed at her door or something on her house.
Too why would you just be pointed at her neighbor's.
Speaker 7 (47:26):
Door that makes no.
Speaker 9 (47:27):
Sense, yeah but you know, what we got one of them.
Cameras BUT i tell you. Something our neighbors came in
AND i said. Somebody they were, like, hey did you?
Speaker 1 (47:35):
Somebody could?
Speaker 9 (47:37):
You i'm, like, oh now you want to know about the?
Cameras huh? Right SO i mean it could be. Helpful
maybe they're not trying to.
Speaker 3 (47:43):
Spy you just.
Speaker 17 (47:45):
Gotta be willing to just speak up and be an
adult about, it you, Know and they get, Upset they get,
upset but you, know you gotta you got, Her you
gotta speak.
Speaker 9 (47:55):
UP i feel like maybe they won't be mean because
they didn't come up ask about the, Fence they didn't
come ask about the sheared, tree so maybe they can
be adult about.
Speaker 18 (48:04):
It.
Speaker 12 (48:05):
Right and you don't want to jump to, conclusions BUT
i JUST i, mean if it's, bothering you just gotta
have a, conversation you, know and don't start.
Speaker 9 (48:13):
An argument just you, KNOW i think if you started with, concern, like,
Hey i'm just you, Know i'm obviously you're my new.
NEIGHBOR i want us to get, along But i'm just
a little bit concerned about blah blah.
Speaker 8 (48:23):
Blah you got to.
Speaker 3 (48:24):
Right and SO i don't know if you realize it or.
Speaker 17 (48:26):
Not but when floodlights come, on you, know it really
brightens up our, room and you, know we don't like.
Speaker 9 (48:31):
That, YEAH i don't know if you realize it or.
Not that's a great way to start the, Conversation like.
Speaker 3 (48:36):
Have you seen my? HUSBAND i don't want to see
him in the. LIGHT i need the darkness in that.
Room and on the, right continue being affection entering on
the Freaking Smiling Morning.
Speaker 9 (48:52):
Show here's what's going on in the. News another, day another.
Deadlock it's deja vu IN. Dc the government shut down
hits the three week mark, today tying the record set
back in The clinton era for the second longest IN us.
Speaker 8 (49:07):
History for the.
Speaker 9 (49:08):
Eleventh, time The senate failed to pass a plan to
reopen the. Government no new votes are on the. Calendar, today,
However Senate republicans are heading to The White house for,
lunch Where trump is expected to thank them for staying. United,
meanwhile around seven hundred and fifty thousand federal workers are still,
furloughed and plenty of others are showing up to work
(49:28):
without a. Paycheck North Carolina republicans just pushed through a
redistricting plan that basically wipes out the power of black voters.
Again the State senate gave early approval to a new
congressional map that redraws a majority black district and conveniently
adds another seat for THE.
Speaker 8 (49:46):
Gop in The.
Speaker 9 (49:46):
House trump is cheering it on From Truth social calling
it a new fare And improved congressional. Map THE gop
says it's about, party not, race but critics say you
don't need racial data and know which districts are a majority,
black especially ones that have elected black leaders for. Decades
they're calling it a blatant power grab dressed up as. Politics,
(50:08):
Meanwhile DIMMs Want trump to pull his pick for The
office Of Special, counsel and the reason is flat out.
Speaker 8 (50:16):
Vile y'all leaked a text.
Speaker 9 (50:18):
Show Nominee Paula gracia bragging about having a Quote nazi
streak in him from time to. Time he also Claimed
america needs quote competent white men in charge and that
the founding fathers were wrong about all men being created.
Speaker 8 (50:32):
Equal, yeah he said the quiet part out, loud or
at least in.
Speaker 9 (50:36):
Text the irony is that both The gracia and his
Buddy nick quint has a white nationalist who's by the, Way,
mexican align themselves with an ideology that would have once
and in some cases still reject. Them italians like A
gracia were seen as, uneducated criminal and definitely not, white
And mexicans Like quintes still face that bias. Today yet
(50:58):
here they are cozying up to white. Nationalism oh And
aggressia is also under a sexual harassment probe At Homeland
security right. Now Even republicans Like John, Thune Rick scott
And Ron johnson won his. Nomination pull this guy seems
to be a toxic cocktail of, racism.
Speaker 8 (51:16):
Sexism and pure.
Speaker 9 (51:17):
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Speaker 12 (51:42):
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nine On Monday Night. Football but The buccaneers lose their
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this is where y'all need to tune. In like when
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Fan Andrew, garcia who filed a lawsuit claim Against Lebron
james for eight hundred and sixty five dollars and sixty six.
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Speaker 12 (52:30):
Man he said that he was tricked By lebron for
the second decision That bron, made which turned out to
be a marketing campaign that introduced a partnership That lebron
did with a liquor. Brand andrew Thought bron was going
to be announcing his, retirement and he went and purchased
an eight hundred dollars ticket that would have Been lebron's
last ever matchup with his former, team The Cleveland. Cavaliers
(52:53):
so he's, like, Man i'm just gonna charge that to
the game So michig can still go to the game
and watch him.
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Speaker 13 (53:32):
Everybody come your Girl brat ta tat and excuse, me
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Pastor Marvin Wine Whining jall is under fire after scolding
a church member for the amount of money she.
Speaker 7 (53:52):
Gave oh here we go, again close the.
Speaker 13 (53:55):
Doors on the day of giving A detroit Perfecting Church,
winings was outraged when a woman came up short of
the donation he asked. For the confusion happened after one
has asked members to donate one thousand plus, one so
while one is continued to repeat the, phrase many of
the members approached the center aisle to give two separate
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one thousand dollars. Donations there, was, however one woman who
came forward with one, thousand two hundred and thirty five.
Speaker 7 (54:23):
Dollars and here's how he. Reacted HI.
Speaker 23 (54:26):
Roberta, McCoy giving faith and stand in unity with the
vision of perfecting church or sewing this seed of one
thousand dollars plus two hundred and thirty five dollars and
receiving the blessings succumb to all that.
Speaker 7 (54:39):
Participating now that's only twelve hundred.
Speaker 1 (54:42):
Dollars, yes y'all not listening to What i'm.
Speaker 7 (54:45):
Saying if you have a thousand plus one, Thousand i'm
gonna work on the other.
Speaker 2 (54:52):
Hunt, well that ain't WHAT.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
I ask you to.
Speaker 2 (54:54):
Do is that? Real is that?
Speaker 8 (54:57):
Real?
Speaker 17 (54:58):
YEAH i would have told and to move that decimal
point two spots over and take this twelve.
Speaker 3 (55:03):
Hours who's got that much?
Speaker 13 (55:05):
Money the, congregation they don't really be getting offended because
they're familiar with the. Pastor it's, like and that's you,
know that's HOW i guess they may all communicate with each,
other but us on the outside look it and it
sounds like he's being you, know maybe harsh or asking
for more. Money but you, know when they make these
offers in the and the church wants a certain amount or,
whatever they can communicate with their their congregation like that
(55:28):
because you, know they know each. Other SO i hate
when this happens because it makes the pastor or the
preacher look kind of. Bad but they're a, family so
they communicate how they communicate.
Speaker 9 (55:38):
It When.
Speaker 13 (55:40):
I'm sure he knows this, woman and he was not being,
like OH i don't want to you, Know i'm sure
he wasn't being.
Speaker 7 (55:46):
MEAN i, mean he's a man Of. GOD i really don't,
no it.
Speaker 13 (55:51):
Don't it don't look good and it don't sound, good
just like they tried to say to close the. Doors
thing you know was bad because he didn't say locked the.
Doors he said closed the. Doors and then that got
blown all out of. Proportion BUT i don't, KNOW.
Speaker 1 (56:04):
I guess what.
Speaker 7 (56:05):
Happens he didn't.
Speaker 13 (56:08):
A problem with, that but she said she was gonna
come up with the other the other eight, hundred because
the donation he was asking for it was a thousand plus.
Speaker 8 (56:16):
ONE i, mean, HONESTLY i couldn't go to that church BECAUSE.
Speaker 13 (56:19):
I guess if you couldn't donate, It i'm sure everybody
didn't donate it because they didn't have.
Speaker 7 (56:23):
It how could?
Speaker 3 (56:24):
You how could you just got me get what you?
Speaker 8 (56:26):
Can that's, wow?
Speaker 3 (56:28):
Okay taking away food, stamp it.
Speaker 7 (56:32):
Just it don't look good and then didn't sound. GOOD
i wish we could have.
Speaker 3 (56:35):
Heard more of.
Speaker 21 (56:36):
It right.
Speaker 3 (56:38):
Taking away food, stamp you would have, said, here take
the twelve, dollars give my. Money what you would have, said, right.
Speaker 7 (56:48):
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