Gary stirs up drama with Sharon Stone revealing she once dated Nelly—sparking questions now that he’s married to Ashanti. Wendy Williams speaks out against her leaked medical report, saying her attorneys are ready to fight. The trending topic gets real when a father confronts another dad for putting hands on his son after catching him in his daughter’s room—should anyone else discipline your child? Listeners flood the lines with heated takes as Ricky, Brat, and the team debate respect, boundaries, and parenting in today’s world.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Call it the chess man half woman.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
That's Gary.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
Wanna help you to the tea.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
It's Gary.
Speaker 4 (00:08):
Gary has the tea and the color on other day, Gary,
good morning, Good morning, Ricky, good morning to you.
Speaker 5 (00:13):
It's Tuesday, a beautiful, beautiful day in the neighborhood. And
here's what's happening it in celebrity news, y'all, Ricky Sharon
Stone Honey, women loose lips, think ships, well nevertheless hunting
Sharon Stone Hunter. She was recently on Watch What Happened Live,
y'all with Andy Coen and Ricky. She said some disparaging thing,
honey to me, it may break up a beautiful black family, y'all.
Now she talked about the honey that she went on
(00:35):
a date y'all with Nelly, that is a chante's husband.
That woman just had a baby with that man, honey,
and this woman hunting, this woman of European descind is
saying disparaging things, honey about this man honey publicly, y'all.
Speaker 6 (00:48):
And here's what she talked about with Andy.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
This is crazy enough that I actually might believe in Sharon.
Did you go on a date with Nelly?
Speaker 6 (01:01):
Did you have a second date? Oh? Wow? That's ricky.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Ain't she about seventy? She about seventy?
Speaker 6 (01:11):
How could she even do that?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Now, but she wouldn't the back then?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Oh they said it happened back in the day.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
She say't.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Now, yeah, this is old. He went on a date
with Sharon Stone.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
But she talking about it now? Why is she bringing
that up now? That man just got married to Shana,
they have a child together. Why would she say something
and do something about it if it was that?
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Why everybody got a pass.
Speaker 7 (01:34):
Maybe she just wanted to talk about somebody asked her
about it. I'm sure, I'm sure Shanty don't care what
he did in his past. She dated people, Nelly dated people. Oh, well,
it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Well, I'm glad you that dog on?
Speaker 6 (01:47):
Fore about it? Because my thing is this honey?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Yes, honey, And that's not a good look. And she's
a woman.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
And she didn't say he smashed.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Well, she just date Well okay, what did they consisted of?
Speaker 7 (02:01):
But it don't matter what it should Should a Shanty
care about everybody? Nell he went on a date with us,
Should he care about who she went on a date with?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
No, I was dating honey, when I was dating honey.
And I asked all the African American men, would.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
You date a white guy? And if he said yes,
go ahead on with him.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
We're done because, honey, I don't know what they do,
honey on the stop, just like on Jungle People, Honey,
And what is night with dating that damn woman on
Jungle fee his coworkney?
Speaker 6 (02:26):
She made him somebody get no white man?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
No, no way.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
I'm not gonna say I wouldn't know, but I mean,
but if I dated a black guy, I knew he
dated a white queen. Hunty, we're done because honey, you
could be could be working working with him or Lance
is my buddy. Yeah right, and you had.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Lance damn out coming coming to Aupa beast holding herk
Holgan hands.
Speaker 6 (02:47):
What do you say, ricking? Come on? Oh yeah right?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
But honey, I said, I feel so sorry because honey,
if they dated once, honey, hell could always slip back,
Honey on the day when he upsets where the chantelle
going through some honey, there goes miss Stone waiting their
honey with her fatal attraction. No, ma'am, so, honey, I
feel so bad for a shunning. Oh my god, honey,
she could have kept that to herself. Honey, if you
did that a long time ago, we do not need
to know about dead, honey, We do not need to
(03:13):
I would never be even dated. Chance don't like black men,
but now we know. But anyway, congratulations though whatever, honey,
you know, do what you gotta do, child, Do what
you gotta do.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Yeah, honey, no, ma'am.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
That would have never happened with meet child, No ma'am,
no path, no green eggs. I have all right, moving on, honey,
when did well? He was just speaking our baby? When
did that baby? These girls leath her medical report? Honey,
and she ain't feeling y'all. Here's what Miss Williams had
to say.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
Any reactions to the uh your medical report that does
hold up the dementia diagnosis?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Uh No.
Speaker 8 (03:44):
And my attorneys are highly upset. Yes, my attorneys. My
attorneys are highly upset.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Diamond.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
Yeah, do you have anything you want to say to
your conservative I.
Speaker 8 (03:54):
Want to say hi to my attorneys, Alan Diamond, All right, Joe,
and I look at Adam Baron shot.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Yes, lord, Honey. Miss Williams is angry, honey, and I'm
mad with you. Know, nothing honey, is secret, no more
or nothing is confidential, no more, honey. So if you
think you got some confidential, honey, look out, cause maybe
somebody out there looking through your record huney and posting it.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
And when I tell you, if I walk in the
doctor's office or a dentist officer and I see some
last years, I'm turning around, I hate to say it,
I can, I can it Just it just be a
certain energy. You know that it's going to be messy.
And yeah, the way they and the way they look
at you and get the whispering, or I'll be like, nah,
I'm good, I find a whole nother's doctor. Do calarready
(04:42):
know these medical records than to be on whatever information
you handle her ass.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
He somebody the jail behind releasing your medical record.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Yeah, but they don't know that.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
You should love your job and get sued.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
But it ain't.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
It ain't no way that you can prove that they
put it out there. Only thing you know, you walked
up to that there and gain that lady your driver's license,
and only thing she had to say. She didn't see nothing,
she didn't say nothing, and she didn't do it. And
then your information. Man, when I walk in certain places
and I see that right there. And this is from
the experience I ain't. I ain't trying to drag me
(05:18):
if you want to.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
I'm talking about experience being a public figure.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I know this for a fat or whatever. I had
to have a doctor. H h Go on the back
door and go right in a room. If it ain't
that kind of set up, I'm nothing to be in
no mess because there are some that work in them
little offices, real messy and nosy, and I ain't about
to do it.
Speaker 6 (05:40):
I don't play when I just put like I'm on
my phone, somebody just text me, and then I just
ease on out of that and bag got the driveway
and go somewhere else. I'm like, no, I'm good.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
When I go to my proctologies, honey. I don't want
these girls to even talk to me.
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Just play. You don't even know who I am, honey,
But don't leave, y'all don't need Is it just me?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
They say, hey, Gary, you should turn around.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
But some of them are genuine and sincere. But sometimes
it be one like, let let me give you an example.
Every time instead of asking me, hey, are you ricky?
Why everybody every time I.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Go to a hotel or airp where all the.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Black people want to come behind the desk and put
their eyes on my personal information that I did not
give to them, even the ts A Asian you got
other customers go over there and help them.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Why everybody running and.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Got eyes all these eyes on my drivers, like so
what do you what do you need to know?
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Why did they five people looking at my drivers? Like
when I own it? It's nosy. They just do it.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
They do it everywhere instead of and they look at
you and they stare at you. Then they run over
to your lice instead of asking you, hey, are you ricky,
Like yeah, nice to meet you, Nice to meet you.
But running over there, they want to look at your
license and all you man it are cringed.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
And they.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
They all do it. They all do it.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
So we're gonna keep all parties and what I said, And.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
If you don't like what I said, you can hit
me on because I'm telling you I'm not making this up.
I didn't wake up on the side of the bed
and decided that I was gonna attack people.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
That's working.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
I'm attacking the action. What people do when public figures
walk up and hand you their ID, they run with
a nosy ass nosy behind the kind of with their
auntie energy, with their hand on their hip and talking
about some when they're looking down at your information and
and I just take my information.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
And then now it's a problem if you say, hey,
what do you need? Nothing? And I said, Jesus, Rick,
here the color today, honey is mink.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
On the high you say mink and on the.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Lord just say beautiful to see me. And that's your
color for today. For more sturdy than more, go to ricking.
Somebody wants your dit COMA can follow me a Gary w.
Speaker 6 (07:51):
Dt E A go ahead. That thing. That thing triggered
me this morning. But when I tell you that's the
real trigger, you can't. You can't.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
You got to got to I got to find doctors
that come to the house from or get a helicopter
or something.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
I don't know. Y'all give it up. And Gary with
the teef you would.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Did you see that poster?
Speaker 6 (08:16):
People are talking?
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Here's what's trending on the Ricky Smiley Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Listen on the role of parents includes discipline, disciplining their children,
are guiding them and teaching them how to become responsible adult.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
But what happens when someone else decides to discipline your.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Child for you, Yeah, ricky.
Speaker 7 (08:36):
Two parents are going viral after a mother allegedly confronted
her son's girlfriend's father after the man put hands on
her son. And the man did this after he called
his daughter and her boyfriend alone in her room, and
the man immediately reacted. Listen to what went down?
Speaker 6 (08:51):
Will put your hands on my son? I caught him
in the bedroom my daughter.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
They don't give you a right to put your hands
on my son.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Rules and.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Child.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
You do not put your hands on They don't go
int the bedroom.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Understood he put his hands Are you correct? Do not
touch my child anymore? And I wouldn't touch.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Your child, don't.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
I didn't hit him. I didn't hit him.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Accusing my daughter.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
How would you like it if I put my hands
on your You.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Weren't like that at all.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
You wouldn't go with Okay, so you're not gonna put
your hands on my Wow.
Speaker 9 (09:37):
So that video went viral and it has the people talking.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Now.
Speaker 9 (09:41):
Some people are saying that the dad was right because
the boyfriend knew the rules.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
He was not supposed to be in his girlfriend's room
at all.
Speaker 9 (09:47):
Meanwhile, others are saying that the dad had no right
to lay his hands on him because he is somebody
else's kid. Now, surprisingly, a lot of people are condemning
the mom for not taking accountability for her son's actions,
and they even say that she lacked parenting skills.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
Absolutely and walking up on somebody's front porch on their property.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
First of all, Number two, with all that.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
Masculine energy, Okay, you know, talking to a man like you,
you can really whoop his ass with your voice, loud
yelling in somebody house. As I saw the video, somebody's porch.
No accountability for your son. Yeah, he should have snatched
his ass up by his collar and took bond his
ass out of there, and should have put him out
of the house.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
But you more mad.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But the fact that he told him, don't go to room,
go to the room, and he went to the room
shows the.
Speaker 6 (10:39):
Lack of discipline and respect that he have from you. Mother.
While you at the up there at the porch, raising
at the top of your lungs, you need to.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Be yelling at yourself, but not teaching him better when
the boundaries was already set to begin with, with all
that masculine energy.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Oh my god, I beg to differ. If it's that
girl's high house, the girl should have let the boy
in the room. She should respect the room. She should
respect the rooms. From what the father said, it's the
girl's fault for letting the boy. Even but the girl
said no, my daddy said, you can't go in the room.
It's her house, it's their house. Then he shouldn't have
went in the room. So, even though the boy know
(11:16):
the rules, the girl should not have let him in
the If it was my son and some man put
his hands on my.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Son, I run up on his ass to.
Speaker 10 (11:25):
The boy had a responsibility to respect. The father had
already told, but.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
It's the girl's house. Your daughter should not have let
that boy go go, don't go in the room.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Wait a minute, Wait a minute.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
I had a girlfriend in high school and when it
was said, do not come up those steps. I don't
care what she said or allowed it. It's not her house. Hey,
your dad said I can't go up the steps, so
I'm not gonna go up the steps. That's self discipline
and that's self home training.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
That girl invited him into that room and told him
to come in that room, then she was wrong.
Speaker 6 (12:04):
She was wrong. Yeah, both of them are wrong.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
He was equally wrong for his own actions.
Speaker 11 (12:10):
He to know not to do that.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
He ain't six seven years old. If you've grown enough
to go up in that.
Speaker 10 (12:15):
Room, you don't put Because at the end of the day,
I put a mortgage in the house, I draw the
boundaries in that house. And if I say don't bring
your ass in my house upstairs, don't come upstairs, and
you come upstairs.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
You get in trouble. Don't let him in the house. Period.
He shouldn't win the house. Then somebody let him in
the house.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
But brad that that that that is not the crux
of the matter, because he was allowed to come in
the house by the father.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
But with boundaries that don't mean don't come in the house.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Now you might not come back in the house because
you didn't respect the boundary that was set once you got.
Speaker 6 (12:49):
In the house. He nice enough to let you come
in the house.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Should absolutely listen.
Speaker 9 (12:54):
He's lucky because some dads like mine would have met
him with gun. It could have been it could have
been a lot different. Yeah, you you you can meet him.
You can meet him with a gun. Don't put your
hands on them, don't touch him. That is how I
feel don't put your hands on my child.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
You ain't finish snation nobody, because then I'm gonna see
somebody over there to you to snatch you up.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
It's gonna escalate. That's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
Well, what was the attitude once he once he went
up there?
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Uh? Or what the attitude did he face from the
young man? Not the young man saying I'm sorry, I'm
sorry mister. Yeah, but but what but what if he
was met with an attitude and hostility and arrogance like
some of these kids do. Now, some of these kids,
you say anything to them, they feel entitled and they
talk crazy to you.
Speaker 6 (13:38):
And I just know that that man. And just what
unless and the other part is.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
Unless he's in there touching that in a program, they
laying on the bed kissing or something or whatever.
Speaker 6 (13:46):
Yeah, that's a quick snatch up. That's okay. That's when
I put you out. When I put you out, I'm
gonna deal with her.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Hands belongs to me, Ricky. Let me ask you this.
Speaker 10 (13:56):
Now, we both have sons that are roughly the same age,
Melissa a year older than now. If you tell Malik
that when you go to visit a young lady. You
follow the rules of that house, and he violates the
rules of that house. Are you gonna hold him more responsible?
Speaker 6 (14:11):
Are you?
Speaker 10 (14:11):
Are you gonna say well or is he gonna get
away with saying well, she invited me up there, dad,
or you're gonna hold him responsible trained him?
Speaker 6 (14:19):
Be all over his ass.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
I'm gonna be all over his ass because you're putting
yourself and you're putting me and your.
Speaker 6 (14:26):
Mom and her father.
Speaker 7 (14:27):
You should you're his father. That man was not his father.
Don't touch my son. Don't touch my son.
Speaker 6 (14:35):
Don't it don't matter.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
It does matter unless I gave you permission to touch
my son. Don't touch my son. Somebody over there to
touch you and your man and just touched my son.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
At what point is he responsible for the decisions that.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
He makes's father?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
You?
Speaker 7 (14:52):
You can touch your son when that son get back
over to his father or whoever, or the mother can
chastise him or whatever.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Don't put your hands on my child. It's gonna escalate.
Speaker 6 (15:05):
I'm gonna get you.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
That's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (15:07):
Right, I'm.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Lady, I'm lady.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
If if my son was up in a young lady's
bedroom after he was told not to go in the bedroom,
and the dad grabbed him up by his collar, lifted
him up and escorted him out the house by his
collar and pushed out of door. My son would be
scared to come home and tell me that. Tell me
because I would have been in this ass.
Speaker 6 (15:32):
Also. You know what I'm saying. Ain't saying the dad?
The thing isn't say that the dad jumped on the
sun to beat the sun up.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
If you grabbed him by his collar and escorted him
and put him out of the house or whatever, Oh well,
that's the consequence.
Speaker 7 (15:46):
Had that man just opened the door and they got caught,
that boy would have jumped up and got out of there.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
You don't have to touch him.
Speaker 7 (15:54):
You can cuss him out, You can say whatever, get
your ass othing my house, whatever it is you want
to say, have your gun in your hand with it
everything you want to do.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Don't put your hands on my child.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
Okay, all right, I need to know what y'all think.
Eight six six nine, eighty six six nine or.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
I c k e.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
Why call me now? Ricking them out in the morning show?
All right, sha ricked them out of the morning show.
Speaker 4 (16:13):
Ain't we having a good conversation because people are emotional
about this.
Speaker 6 (16:17):
So we're talking about the role of parents.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Includes disciplining their children or guiding them, teaching them how
to become responsible adult. What happens when somebody else decides
to discipline your child? Oh that's the person reading that
all over again. I'm sorry, all right? We talking about
the parents went viral after one parent in front of
another parent for putting in their hands on their son.
So this morning, we want to know is it ever
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okay to discipline someone else kids? And if somebody discipline
your child, it would you be okay with it?
Speaker 6 (16:45):
Or what was you?
Speaker 4 (16:46):
Now let me just say this just just from me
being a man, being on football team, playing little league
football my whole life.
Speaker 6 (16:53):
Every pattern that I got from Rose P. Haynes, every
pattern that I got from coach.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Gene Criton and coach Jones and Muster Bonner and anybody
else that had to snatch me up, I absolutely needed.
And my granddaddy told my grandmama, do not if you
can't take what's going on on that football field, you
need to stay in the car. Just drop him off
a football practice, because we got him out there to
make him tough and it does.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Now let me see somebody just uh uh.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
Brian White from Nashville Uh sent texts on Facebook said, uh,
regardless of the expectations that had been set, as long
as he did not strike the boy, he is all good.
He escorted him out, no harm file, and then he said,
what the blank Brett meet with a gun and not
(17:45):
get roughed up? So shooting his ass and waving a
gun is okay, but not to snatch up, he said
on confusing.
Speaker 6 (17:52):
But if you bring a gun into a situation anything.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Somebody else said. Somebody else on the show said.
Speaker 9 (17:57):
Sadad would have brought a gun.
Speaker 6 (18:01):
Your dad would have Yeah, my dad.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
I've seen my dad go after at least three guys,
boyfriends exes with guns, Me and my sisters.
Speaker 12 (18:09):
I mean yeah, from the information that we that we know,
if the father told this young man, hey, listen, I
get it. You and my daughter they are friends. Whenever
we don't go up into the bedroom and do nothing. Okay, Now,
if the son still go up there and do it,
what the mama should have did was asked her son.
Did the father instruct you not to go up to
her room?
Speaker 6 (18:29):
That's the first order, And the son would.
Speaker 12 (18:31):
Have said, yes he did. He said, okay, well let's
go over and talk to him, and the mother should
have said.
Speaker 6 (18:35):
And let's go over and apologize.
Speaker 12 (18:37):
Came and I'm sorry that my son disrespected your house
and didn't follow your rules, and it will never happen again.
Speaker 6 (18:44):
And then the next question is right to where is
his father?
Speaker 4 (18:49):
You understand what I'm saying, because his father should have
had a conversation with the other fathers that a mother.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
Doesn't have a father and if you don't, if you
don't have a father, I'm sorry.
Speaker 7 (19:00):
No, it's not I'm sorry because I'm a mother, so well,
I would definitely I would have to get it disass myself.
Speaker 4 (19:05):
Well, well, I shouldn't be arguing arguing with the man.
She should should have talked to the lady that was
standing there at the door of the mother.
Speaker 7 (19:11):
No, you talk to the person that put your hands
on them. I'm confused, like if somebody.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
Okay, but okay, well sit down and have a conversation,
because at the tone you that that that escalated the situation.
In her tone I was was was was officer, hey,
can I would have put them And then you have
these conversations with the child sitting in the car. Let
me go sit you in the car, so me and
this man could just go take a little walk and
(19:37):
have a one on one conversation, because when you have
that conversation in front of the sun, it undermines correction.
Even if they could come they would have came to
a better agreement and a better understanding had it been
done a different way. Let's go sit down and have
a private conversation, or meet me over here at Taco
Bell and I'm gonna leave my son in the car
(19:58):
and they's gonna sit down and chop it up for
a second, and way they could get a better understanding.
Speaker 6 (20:04):
Asked to yeah, that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 7 (20:06):
But just like he was heated when he saw the
sun and snatched the sun, and he said he reacted wrong,
This man said he shouldn't have reacted like that.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
He reacted wrong when he put his hands on the sun.
Just like he was heated. The woman was heated when
she found out that this man put his hands on
her son.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
So she went over there, and maybe she reacted wrong
with the way she discussed it and how it played out.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
Maybe she did but she was upset. That was her
natural first reaction.
Speaker 7 (20:33):
She didn't get a chance to think, just like he
didn't get a chance to think before he snatched him
up and put his hands.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
But I want everybody to think about this when it
comes to boundaries and ruising regulations, no matter whether it's
going up to somebody's bedroom or your child being pulled
over by the police.
Speaker 6 (20:49):
Son, don't speed.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
You got a lot of cops out here that just
don't like all right, some of our young kids, young,
especially black male and so we have to con train
our children to always respect boundaries and do what we're
supposed to do.
Speaker 6 (21:06):
And don't put yourself because a snatch up versus on
the side of the.
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Road with a cop. My son got a whole list
of stuff. First of all, don't speed, number two, always
put your signal light on. Number three, don't smoke a
drink in the car. All of this stuff just to
keep you safe.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
And most importantly, don't argue with the police.
Speaker 6 (21:24):
You cannot.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
Road because them police are way more aggressive than that
dad was or whatever. Because a lot of our kids
don't make it home, and then we can't we can't
do nothing of something happens to them with the police.
Speaker 6 (21:37):
So we got to condition them to.
Speaker 4 (21:39):
Whatever boundary is being set, a bye by it. And
then my son don't buy a by the boundary. I'm
gonna beat his ass because the ass whipping is probably
gonna save its life, because I want you to be
scared to be disrespectful to anybody that's in authority, and
whether it's somebody's house or whether it's a cop or whatever,
this is the one thing that might save your life. Yeah,
(22:00):
I'm sensitive about my son. I don't want nobody yelling
at my son. But I had to stand behind the
bleachers when Alabama State University coach was out there and
my son's face cussing them out.
Speaker 6 (22:10):
I almost started laughing.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
My son just had to stay on his face because
they didn't bother him because he was used to me
cussing him out at the house and it bothered me.
But what it did was it made him toughness. That's
why he just got his master's degree three weeks ago.
All of that toughness and training discipline.
Speaker 6 (22:26):
Discipline.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Coaches are different. I agree with you on that. I
agree with you with structure little league football, all of
that there coaches think about this. That's to happen. This man,
this man has breath.
Speaker 6 (22:40):
Listen this what if what if it's the white check
this out. I just want you to think about it
for a second. What if it's a little white girl.
That's just listen.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
Just don't put your hands on him.
Speaker 6 (22:52):
That's listen. I understand what you're saying. Melisten for one second.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
If your son, Dama, white girl, your son go to
a school. A lot of these little kids they day
outside of they race. Sometimes right, white parents don't approve it.
White dad, White dad said, don't go upstairs. White dad
feels already feel some kind of way that you dating
his daughter. Okay, white dad go up the steps or whatever.
(23:19):
And daughter might say something, say that she felt uncomfortable
to something, and play the game.
Speaker 6 (23:25):
That's been some situations before.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
White dad pulled out a gun and then shoot your
son or shoot the kid.
Speaker 7 (23:32):
I understand that you act like everything you tell your son.
He's gonna abide by the rules every single time. They
all make mistakes and they all do things that and
and this might happen. He shouldn't have went in the room.
I'm not saying it was okay to go in the room.
He definitely should have been chastised. He definitely, but not
by that man. Don't put your hands just don't touch them,
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get them out of there, do whatever you need to do,
but you don't have to put your hands on them.
And that's and I'm gonna stand by that, so everybody
to feel how they want to feel.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
I don't give a damn. Just you don't have to
touch them. You could get him out of there.
Speaker 7 (24:05):
You can get him out of there, you can scam,
you can fuss at him, you can call his daddy,
you can call his mama, whatever you need to do.
But you just don't have to yoke him up, or
you don't have to put your hands on him. And
the man said, if you go back to the story,
he reacted. He shouldn't have reacted that way, he said.
The man said, he immediately reacted, so he stood thought
first and took a beat before he touched them.
Speaker 6 (24:27):
All right, let's go to the phones. A sixty six
nine ricking good morning.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
So my name is Monique and I'm calling from Middle Georgia.
I don't condone the man putting his hands on anyone
else's children, but I don't condone the mother as well
being so aggressive about the situation.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
My name is Angela and I live in College, Texas,
and I think.
Speaker 4 (24:49):
The mother was wrong.
Speaker 12 (24:51):
I'm from the old school.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
You reprimand the.
Speaker 6 (24:53):
Kids call the parents. Hey, your son is here.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
And he needs to go Hello.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Chicago by living Maryland right now. To be honest with you,
I always say the mother isn't wrong. At the end
of the day, if the father just touched.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
The kid, it's not like he's beating him up.
Speaker 7 (25:11):
He told that boy a rule of boundary and he
broke it, and everyone's trying to blame the little girl.
Speaker 10 (25:17):
The little girl's grown too.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
She ever asked WoT it from upstairs? But at the
end of the day, he had a rule where he
came over to somebody house.
Speaker 12 (25:24):
He dishes set the father out.
Speaker 11 (25:26):
Yeah this be from TuS to Luis, Alabama. Yeah, I'm
gonna just say that the father was absolutely right. When
you know, if you're a sign and the father give
you certain rules, you ought to know that if you violate,
someone else gonna demonstrate. And I mean that's just the rule,
so you don't do that.
Speaker 4 (25:45):
The father was.
Speaker 11 (25:46):
Absolutely right, and he can't take to the mother if
that's the case, so he did everything he was supposed
to do.
Speaker 6 (25:53):
The other thing is that that that snatch up might
be the one thing that might save his life.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
Make the can't make the young man understand the Hey,
there's consequences to boundaries, because.
Speaker 6 (26:03):
If you do some of the same things in the
same kind of behavior in another situation, it might cost
you your life. And that's that's real talk.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
That's why I take that stuff seriously, Like I be
so scared with my son driving back off the college,
making sure he abide by every rule, because sometimes something
as simple as.
Speaker 6 (26:21):
Just being in the wrong place at the wrong time,
it can cost you your life.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
That there is some good costs. Y'all can hit us
up if you aren't able to get through eight six
six nine, Ricky eight six sixty nine or I c
k E.
Speaker 6 (26:35):
Why hit me up? Can spin in the Morning Show
Call it the chess man half woman.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
That's Gary.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
Wanna help you to the tea.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
It's Gary.
Speaker 4 (00:08):
Gary has the tea and the color on other day, Gary,
good morning, Good morning, Ricky, good morning to you.
Speaker 5 (00:13):
It's Tuesday, a beautiful, beautiful day in the neighborhood. And
here's what's happening it in celebrity news, y'all, Ricky Sharon
Stone Honey, women loose lips, think ships, well nevertheless hunting
Sharon Stone Hunter. She was recently on Watch What Happened Live,
y'all with Andy Coen and Ricky. She said some disparaging thing,
honey to me, it may break up a beautiful black family, y'all.
Now she talked about the honey that she went on
(00:35):
a date y'all with Nelly, that is a chante's husband.
That woman just had a baby with that man, honey,
and this woman hunting, this woman of European descind is
saying disparaging things, honey about this man honey publicly, y'all.
Speaker 6 (00:48):
And here's what she talked about with Andy.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
This is crazy enough that I actually might believe in Sharon.
Did you go on a date with Nelly?
Speaker 6 (01:01):
Did you have a second date? Oh? Wow? That's ricky.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Ain't she about seventy? She about seventy?
Speaker 6 (01:11):
How could she even do that?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Now, but she wouldn't the back then?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Oh they said it happened back in the day.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
She say't.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Now, yeah, this is old. He went on a date
with Sharon Stone.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
But she talking about it now? Why is she bringing
that up now? That man just got married to Shana,
they have a child together. Why would she say something
and do something about it if it was that?
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Why everybody got a pass.
Speaker 7 (01:34):
Maybe she just wanted to talk about somebody asked her
about it. I'm sure, I'm sure Shanty don't care what
he did in his past. She dated people, Nelly dated people. Oh, well,
it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Well, I'm glad you that dog on?
Speaker 6 (01:47):
Fore about it? Because my thing is this honey?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Yes, honey, And that's not a good look. And she's
a woman.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
And she didn't say he smashed.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Well, she just date Well okay, what did they consisted of?
Speaker 7 (02:01):
But it don't matter what it should Should a Shanty
care about everybody? Nell he went on a date with us,
Should he care about who she went on a date with?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
No, I was dating honey, when I was dating honey.
And I asked all the African American men, would.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
You date a white guy? And if he said yes,
go ahead on with him.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
We're done because, honey, I don't know what they do,
honey on the stop, just like on Jungle People, Honey,
And what is night with dating that damn woman on
Jungle fee his coworkney?
Speaker 6 (02:26):
She made him somebody get no white man?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
No, no way.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
I'm not gonna say I wouldn't know, but I mean,
but if I dated a black guy, I knew he
dated a white queen. Hunty, we're done because honey, you
could be could be working working with him or Lance
is my buddy. Yeah right, and you had.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Lance damn out coming coming to Aupa beast holding herk
Holgan hands.
Speaker 6 (02:47):
What do you say, ricking? Come on? Oh yeah right?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
But honey, I said, I feel so sorry because honey,
if they dated once, honey, hell could always slip back,
Honey on the day when he upsets where the chantelle
going through some honey, there goes miss Stone waiting their
honey with her fatal attraction. No, ma'am, so, honey, I
feel so bad for a shunning. Oh my god, honey,
she could have kept that to herself. Honey, if you
did that a long time ago, we do not need
to know about dead, honey, We do not need to
(03:13):
I would never be even dated. Chance don't like black men,
but now we know. But anyway, congratulations though whatever, honey,
you know, do what you gotta do, child, Do what
you gotta do.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Yeah, honey, no, ma'am.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
That would have never happened with meet child, No ma'am,
no path, no green eggs. I have all right, moving on, honey,
when did well? He was just speaking our baby? When
did that baby? These girls leath her medical report? Honey,
and she ain't feeling y'all. Here's what Miss Williams had
to say.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
Any reactions to the uh your medical report that does
hold up the dementia diagnosis?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Uh No.
Speaker 8 (03:44):
And my attorneys are highly upset. Yes, my attorneys. My
attorneys are highly upset.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Diamond.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
Yeah, do you have anything you want to say to
your conservative I.
Speaker 8 (03:54):
Want to say hi to my attorneys, Alan Diamond, All right, Joe,
and I look at Adam Baron shot.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Yes, lord, Honey. Miss Williams is angry, honey, and I'm
mad with you. Know, nothing honey, is secret, no more
or nothing is confidential, no more, honey. So if you
think you got some confidential, honey, look out, cause maybe
somebody out there looking through your record huney and posting it.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
And when I tell you, if I walk in the
doctor's office or a dentist officer and I see some
last years, I'm turning around, I hate to say it,
I can, I can it Just it just be a
certain energy. You know that it's going to be messy.
And yeah, the way they and the way they look
at you and get the whispering, or I'll be like, nah,
I'm good, I find a whole nother's doctor. Do calarready
(04:42):
know these medical records than to be on whatever information
you handle her ass.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
He somebody the jail behind releasing your medical record.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Yeah, but they don't know that.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
You should love your job and get sued.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
But it ain't.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
It ain't no way that you can prove that they
put it out there. Only thing you know, you walked
up to that there and gain that lady your driver's license,
and only thing she had to say. She didn't see nothing,
she didn't say nothing, and she didn't do it. And
then your information. Man, when I walk in certain places
and I see that right there. And this is from
the experience I ain't. I ain't trying to drag me
(05:18):
if you want to.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
I'm talking about experience being a public figure.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I know this for a fat or whatever. I had
to have a doctor. H h Go on the back
door and go right in a room. If it ain't
that kind of set up, I'm nothing to be in
no mess because there are some that work in them
little offices, real messy and nosy, and I ain't about
to do it.
Speaker 6 (05:40):
I don't play when I just put like I'm on
my phone, somebody just text me, and then I just
ease on out of that and bag got the driveway
and go somewhere else. I'm like, no, I'm good.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
When I go to my proctologies, honey. I don't want
these girls to even talk to me.
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Just play. You don't even know who I am, honey,
But don't leave, y'all don't need Is it just me?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
They say, hey, Gary, you should turn around.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
But some of them are genuine and sincere. But sometimes
it be one like, let let me give you an example.
Every time instead of asking me, hey, are you ricky?
Why everybody every time I.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Go to a hotel or airp where all the.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Black people want to come behind the desk and put
their eyes on my personal information that I did not
give to them, even the ts A Asian you got
other customers go over there and help them.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Why everybody running and.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Got eyes all these eyes on my drivers, like so
what do you what do you need to know?
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Why did they five people looking at my drivers? Like
when I own it? It's nosy. They just do it.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
They do it everywhere instead of and they look at
you and they stare at you. Then they run over
to your lice instead of asking you, hey, are you ricky,
Like yeah, nice to meet you, Nice to meet you.
But running over there, they want to look at your
license and all you man it are cringed.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
And they.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
They all do it. They all do it.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
So we're gonna keep all parties and what I said, And.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
If you don't like what I said, you can hit
me on because I'm telling you I'm not making this up.
I didn't wake up on the side of the bed
and decided that I was gonna attack people.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
That's working.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
I'm attacking the action. What people do when public figures
walk up and hand you their ID, they run with
a nosy ass nosy behind the kind of with their
auntie energy, with their hand on their hip and talking
about some when they're looking down at your information and
and I just take my information.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
And then now it's a problem if you say, hey,
what do you need? Nothing? And I said, Jesus, Rick,
here the color today, honey is mink.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
On the high you say mink and on the.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Lord just say beautiful to see me. And that's your
color for today. For more sturdy than more, go to ricking.
Somebody wants your dit COMA can follow me a Gary w.
Speaker 6 (07:51):
Dt E A go ahead. That thing. That thing triggered
me this morning. But when I tell you that's the
real trigger, you can't. You can't.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
You got to got to I got to find doctors
that come to the house from or get a helicopter
or something.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
I don't know. Y'all give it up. And Gary with
the teef you would.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Did you see that poster?
Speaker 6 (08:16):
People are talking?
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Here's what's trending on the Ricky Smiley Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Listen on the role of parents includes discipline, disciplining their children,
are guiding them and teaching them how to become responsible adult.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
But what happens when someone else decides to discipline your.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Child for you, Yeah, ricky.
Speaker 7 (08:36):
Two parents are going viral after a mother allegedly confronted
her son's girlfriend's father after the man put hands on
her son. And the man did this after he called
his daughter and her boyfriend alone in her room, and
the man immediately reacted. Listen to what went down?
Speaker 6 (08:51):
Will put your hands on my son? I caught him
in the bedroom my daughter.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
They don't give you a right to put your hands
on my son.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Rules and.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Child.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
You do not put your hands on They don't go
int the bedroom.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Understood he put his hands Are you correct? Do not
touch my child anymore? And I wouldn't touch.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Your child, don't.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
I didn't hit him. I didn't hit him.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Accusing my daughter.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
How would you like it if I put my hands
on your You.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Weren't like that at all.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
You wouldn't go with Okay, so you're not gonna put
your hands on my Wow.
Speaker 9 (09:37):
So that video went viral and it has the people talking.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Now.
Speaker 9 (09:41):
Some people are saying that the dad was right because
the boyfriend knew the rules.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
He was not supposed to be in his girlfriend's room
at all.
Speaker 9 (09:47):
Meanwhile, others are saying that the dad had no right
to lay his hands on him because he is somebody
else's kid. Now, surprisingly, a lot of people are condemning
the mom for not taking accountability for her son's actions,
and they even say that she lacked parenting skills.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
Absolutely and walking up on somebody's front porch on their property.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
First of all, Number two, with all that.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
Masculine energy, Okay, you know, talking to a man like you,
you can really whoop his ass with your voice, loud
yelling in somebody house. As I saw the video, somebody's porch.
No accountability for your son. Yeah, he should have snatched
his ass up by his collar and took bond his
ass out of there, and should have put him out
of the house.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
But you more mad.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But the fact that he told him, don't go to room,
go to the room, and he went to the room
shows the.
Speaker 6 (10:39):
Lack of discipline and respect that he have from you. Mother.
While you at the up there at the porch, raising
at the top of your lungs, you need to.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Be yelling at yourself, but not teaching him better when
the boundaries was already set to begin with, with all
that masculine energy.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Oh my god, I beg to differ. If it's that
girl's high house, the girl should have let the boy
in the room. She should respect the room. She should
respect the rooms. From what the father said, it's the
girl's fault for letting the boy. Even but the girl
said no, my daddy said, you can't go in the room.
It's her house, it's their house. Then he shouldn't have
went in the room. So, even though the boy know
(11:16):
the rules, the girl should not have let him in
the If it was my son and some man put
his hands on my.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Son, I run up on his ass to.
Speaker 10 (11:25):
The boy had a responsibility to respect. The father had
already told, but.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
It's the girl's house. Your daughter should not have let
that boy go go, don't go in the room.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Wait a minute, Wait a minute.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
I had a girlfriend in high school and when it
was said, do not come up those steps. I don't
care what she said or allowed it. It's not her house. Hey,
your dad said I can't go up the steps, so
I'm not gonna go up the steps. That's self discipline
and that's self home training.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
That girl invited him into that room and told him
to come in that room, then she was wrong.
Speaker 6 (12:04):
She was wrong. Yeah, both of them are wrong.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
He was equally wrong for his own actions.
Speaker 11 (12:10):
He to know not to do that.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
He ain't six seven years old. If you've grown enough
to go up in that.
Speaker 10 (12:15):
Room, you don't put Because at the end of the day,
I put a mortgage in the house, I draw the
boundaries in that house. And if I say don't bring
your ass in my house upstairs, don't come upstairs, and
you come upstairs.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
You get in trouble. Don't let him in the house. Period.
He shouldn't win the house. Then somebody let him in
the house.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
But brad that that that that is not the crux
of the matter, because he was allowed to come in
the house by the father.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
But with boundaries that don't mean don't come in the house.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Now you might not come back in the house because
you didn't respect the boundary that was set once you got.
Speaker 6 (12:49):
In the house. He nice enough to let you come
in the house.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Should absolutely listen.
Speaker 9 (12:54):
He's lucky because some dads like mine would have met
him with gun. It could have been it could have
been a lot different. Yeah, you you you can meet him.
You can meet him with a gun. Don't put your
hands on them, don't touch him. That is how I
feel don't put your hands on my child.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
You ain't finish snation nobody, because then I'm gonna see
somebody over there to you to snatch you up.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
It's gonna escalate. That's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
Well, what was the attitude once he once he went
up there?
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Uh? Or what the attitude did he face from the
young man? Not the young man saying I'm sorry, I'm
sorry mister. Yeah, but but what but what if he
was met with an attitude and hostility and arrogance like
some of these kids do. Now, some of these kids,
you say anything to them, they feel entitled and they
talk crazy to you.
Speaker 6 (13:38):
And I just know that that man. And just what
unless and the other part is.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
Unless he's in there touching that in a program, they
laying on the bed kissing or something or whatever.
Speaker 6 (13:46):
Yeah, that's a quick snatch up. That's okay. That's when
I put you out. When I put you out, I'm
gonna deal with her.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Hands belongs to me, Ricky. Let me ask you this.
Speaker 10 (13:56):
Now, we both have sons that are roughly the same age,
Melissa a year older than now. If you tell Malik
that when you go to visit a young lady. You
follow the rules of that house, and he violates the
rules of that house. Are you gonna hold him more responsible?
Speaker 6 (14:11):
Are you?
Speaker 10 (14:11):
Are you gonna say well or is he gonna get
away with saying well, she invited me up there, dad,
or you're gonna hold him responsible trained him?
Speaker 6 (14:19):
Be all over his ass.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
I'm gonna be all over his ass because you're putting
yourself and you're putting me and your.
Speaker 6 (14:26):
Mom and her father.
Speaker 7 (14:27):
You should you're his father. That man was not his father.
Don't touch my son. Don't touch my son.
Speaker 6 (14:35):
Don't it don't matter.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
It does matter unless I gave you permission to touch
my son. Don't touch my son. Somebody over there to
touch you and your man and just touched my son.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
At what point is he responsible for the decisions that.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
He makes's father?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
You?
Speaker 7 (14:52):
You can touch your son when that son get back
over to his father or whoever, or the mother can
chastise him or whatever.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Don't put your hands on my child. It's gonna escalate.
Speaker 6 (15:05):
I'm gonna get you.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
That's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (15:07):
Right, I'm.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Lady, I'm lady.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
If if my son was up in a young lady's
bedroom after he was told not to go in the bedroom,
and the dad grabbed him up by his collar, lifted
him up and escorted him out the house by his
collar and pushed out of door. My son would be
scared to come home and tell me that. Tell me
because I would have been in this ass.
Speaker 6 (15:32):
Also. You know what I'm saying. Ain't saying the dad?
The thing isn't say that the dad jumped on the
sun to beat the sun up.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
If you grabbed him by his collar and escorted him
and put him out of the house or whatever, Oh well,
that's the consequence.
Speaker 7 (15:46):
Had that man just opened the door and they got caught,
that boy would have jumped up and got out of there.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
You don't have to touch him.
Speaker 7 (15:54):
You can cuss him out, You can say whatever, get
your ass othing my house, whatever it is you want
to say, have your gun in your hand with it
everything you want to do.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Don't put your hands on my child.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
Okay, all right, I need to know what y'all think.
Eight six six nine, eighty six six nine or.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
I c k e.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
Why call me now? Ricking them out in the morning show?
All right, sha ricked them out of the morning show.
Speaker 4 (16:13):
Ain't we having a good conversation because people are emotional
about this.
Speaker 6 (16:17):
So we're talking about the role of parents.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Includes disciplining their children or guiding them, teaching them how
to become responsible adult. What happens when somebody else decides
to discipline your child? Oh that's the person reading that
all over again. I'm sorry, all right? We talking about
the parents went viral after one parent in front of
another parent for putting in their hands on their son.
So this morning, we want to know is it ever
(16:39):
okay to discipline someone else kids? And if somebody discipline
your child, it would you be okay with it?
Speaker 6 (16:45):
Or what was you?
Speaker 4 (16:46):
Now let me just say this just just from me
being a man, being on football team, playing little league
football my whole life.
Speaker 6 (16:53):
Every pattern that I got from Rose P. Haynes, every
pattern that I got from coach.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Gene Criton and coach Jones and Muster Bonner and anybody
else that had to snatch me up, I absolutely needed.
And my granddaddy told my grandmama, do not if you
can't take what's going on on that football field, you
need to stay in the car. Just drop him off
a football practice, because we got him out there to
make him tough and it does.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Now let me see somebody just uh uh.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
Brian White from Nashville Uh sent texts on Facebook said, uh,
regardless of the expectations that had been set, as long
as he did not strike the boy, he is all good.
He escorted him out, no harm file, and then he said,
what the blank Brett meet with a gun and not
(17:45):
get roughed up? So shooting his ass and waving a
gun is okay, but not to snatch up, he said
on confusing.
Speaker 6 (17:52):
But if you bring a gun into a situation anything.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Somebody else said. Somebody else on the show said.
Speaker 9 (17:57):
Sadad would have brought a gun.
Speaker 6 (18:01):
Your dad would have Yeah, my dad.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
I've seen my dad go after at least three guys,
boyfriends exes with guns, Me and my sisters.
Speaker 12 (18:09):
I mean yeah, from the information that we that we know,
if the father told this young man, hey, listen, I
get it. You and my daughter they are friends. Whenever
we don't go up into the bedroom and do nothing. Okay, Now,
if the son still go up there and do it,
what the mama should have did was asked her son.
Did the father instruct you not to go up to
her room?
Speaker 6 (18:29):
That's the first order, And the son would.
Speaker 12 (18:31):
Have said, yes he did. He said, okay, well let's
go over and talk to him, and the mother should
have said.
Speaker 6 (18:35):
And let's go over and apologize.
Speaker 12 (18:37):
Came and I'm sorry that my son disrespected your house
and didn't follow your rules, and it will never happen again.
Speaker 6 (18:44):
And then the next question is right to where is
his father?
Speaker 4 (18:49):
You understand what I'm saying, because his father should have
had a conversation with the other fathers that a mother.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
Doesn't have a father and if you don't, if you
don't have a father, I'm sorry.
Speaker 7 (19:00):
No, it's not I'm sorry because I'm a mother, so well,
I would definitely I would have to get it disass myself.
Speaker 4 (19:05):
Well, well, I shouldn't be arguing arguing with the man.
She should should have talked to the lady that was
standing there at the door of the mother.
Speaker 7 (19:11):
No, you talk to the person that put your hands
on them. I'm confused, like if somebody.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
Okay, but okay, well sit down and have a conversation,
because at the tone you that that that escalated the situation.
In her tone I was was was was officer, hey,
can I would have put them And then you have
these conversations with the child sitting in the car. Let
me go sit you in the car, so me and
this man could just go take a little walk and
(19:37):
have a one on one conversation, because when you have
that conversation in front of the sun, it undermines correction.
Even if they could come they would have came to
a better agreement and a better understanding had it been
done a different way. Let's go sit down and have
a private conversation, or meet me over here at Taco
Bell and I'm gonna leave my son in the car
(19:58):
and they's gonna sit down and chop it up for
a second, and way they could get a better understanding.
Speaker 6 (20:04):
Asked to yeah, that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 7 (20:06):
But just like he was heated when he saw the
sun and snatched the sun, and he said he reacted wrong,
This man said he shouldn't have reacted like that.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
He reacted wrong when he put his hands on the sun.
Just like he was heated. The woman was heated when
she found out that this man put his hands on
her son.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
So she went over there, and maybe she reacted wrong
with the way she discussed it and how it played out.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
Maybe she did but she was upset. That was her
natural first reaction.
Speaker 7 (20:33):
She didn't get a chance to think, just like he
didn't get a chance to think before he snatched him
up and put his hands.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
But I want everybody to think about this when it
comes to boundaries and ruising regulations, no matter whether it's
going up to somebody's bedroom or your child being pulled
over by the police.
Speaker 6 (20:49):
Son, don't speed.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
You got a lot of cops out here that just
don't like all right, some of our young kids, young,
especially black male and so we have to con train
our children to always respect boundaries and do what we're
supposed to do.
Speaker 6 (21:06):
And don't put yourself because a snatch up versus on
the side of the.
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Road with a cop. My son got a whole list
of stuff. First of all, don't speed, number two, always
put your signal light on. Number three, don't smoke a
drink in the car. All of this stuff just to
keep you safe.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
And most importantly, don't argue with the police.
Speaker 6 (21:24):
You cannot.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
Road because them police are way more aggressive than that
dad was or whatever. Because a lot of our kids
don't make it home, and then we can't we can't
do nothing of something happens to them with the police.
Speaker 6 (21:37):
So we got to condition them to.
Speaker 4 (21:39):
Whatever boundary is being set, a bye by it. And
then my son don't buy a by the boundary. I'm
gonna beat his ass because the ass whipping is probably
gonna save its life, because I want you to be
scared to be disrespectful to anybody that's in authority, and
whether it's somebody's house or whether it's a cop or whatever,
this is the one thing that might save your life. Yeah,
(22:00):
I'm sensitive about my son. I don't want nobody yelling
at my son. But I had to stand behind the
bleachers when Alabama State University coach was out there and
my son's face cussing them out.
Speaker 6 (22:10):
I almost started laughing.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
My son just had to stay on his face because
they didn't bother him because he was used to me
cussing him out at the house and it bothered me.
But what it did was it made him toughness. That's
why he just got his master's degree three weeks ago.
All of that toughness and training discipline.
Speaker 6 (22:26):
Discipline.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Coaches are different. I agree with you on that. I
agree with you with structure little league football, all of
that there coaches think about this. That's to happen. This man,
this man has breath.
Speaker 6 (22:40):
Listen this what if what if it's the white check
this out. I just want you to think about it
for a second. What if it's a little white girl.
That's just listen.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
Just don't put your hands on him.
Speaker 6 (22:52):
That's listen. I understand what you're saying. Melisten for one second.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
If your son, Dama, white girl, your son go to
a school. A lot of these little kids they day
outside of they race. Sometimes right, white parents don't approve it.
White dad, White dad said, don't go upstairs. White dad
feels already feel some kind of way that you dating
his daughter. Okay, white dad go up the steps or whatever.
(23:19):
And daughter might say something, say that she felt uncomfortable
to something, and play the game.
Speaker 6 (23:25):
That's been some situations before.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
White dad pulled out a gun and then shoot your
son or shoot the kid.
Speaker 7 (23:32):
I understand that you act like everything you tell your son.
He's gonna abide by the rules every single time. They
all make mistakes and they all do things that and
and this might happen. He shouldn't have went in the room.
I'm not saying it was okay to go in the room.
He definitely should have been chastised. He definitely, but not
by that man. Don't put your hands just don't touch them,
(23:54):
get them out of there, do whatever you need to do,
but you don't have to put your hands on them.
And that's and I'm gonna stand by that, so everybody
to feel how they want to feel.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
I don't give a damn. Just you don't have to
touch them. You could get him out of there.
Speaker 7 (24:05):
You can get him out of there, you can scam,
you can fuss at him, you can call his daddy,
you can call his mama, whatever you need to do.
But you just don't have to yoke him up, or
you don't have to put your hands on him. And
the man said, if you go back to the story,
he reacted. He shouldn't have reacted that way, he said.
The man said, he immediately reacted, so he stood thought
first and took a beat before he touched them.
Speaker 6 (24:27):
All right, let's go to the phones. A sixty six
nine ricking good morning.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
So my name is Monique and I'm calling from Middle Georgia.
I don't condone the man putting his hands on anyone
else's children, but I don't condone the mother as well
being so aggressive about the situation.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
My name is Angela and I live in College, Texas,
and I think.
Speaker 4 (24:49):
The mother was wrong.
Speaker 12 (24:51):
I'm from the old school.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
You reprimand the.
Speaker 6 (24:53):
Kids call the parents. Hey, your son is here.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
And he needs to go Hello.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Chicago by living Maryland right now. To be honest with you,
I always say the mother isn't wrong. At the end
of the day, if the father just touched.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
The kid, it's not like he's beating him up.
Speaker 7 (25:11):
He told that boy a rule of boundary and he
broke it, and everyone's trying to blame the little girl.
Speaker 10 (25:17):
The little girl's grown too.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
She ever asked WoT it from upstairs? But at the
end of the day, he had a rule where he
came over to somebody house.
Speaker 12 (25:24):
He dishes set the father out.
Speaker 11 (25:26):
Yeah this be from TuS to Luis, Alabama. Yeah, I'm
gonna just say that the father was absolutely right. When
you know, if you're a sign and the father give
you certain rules, you ought to know that if you violate,
someone else gonna demonstrate. And I mean that's just the rule,
so you don't do that.
Speaker 4 (25:45):
The father was.
Speaker 11 (25:46):
Absolutely right, and he can't take to the mother if
that's the case, so he did everything he was supposed
to do.
Speaker 6 (25:53):
The other thing is that that that snatch up might
be the one thing that might save his life.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
Make the can't make the young man understand the Hey,
there's consequences to boundaries, because.
Speaker 6 (26:03):
If you do some of the same things in the
same kind of behavior in another situation, it might cost
you your life. And that's that's real talk.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
That's why I take that stuff seriously, Like I be
so scared with my son driving back off the college,
making sure he abide by every rule, because sometimes something
as simple as.
Speaker 6 (26:21):
Just being in the wrong place at the wrong time,
it can cost you your life.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
That there is some good costs. Y'all can hit us
up if you aren't able to get through eight six
six nine, Ricky eight six sixty nine or I c
k E.
Speaker 6 (26:35):
Why hit me up? Can spin in the Morning Show
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