Reality Hour : Getting Over Him By Getting Under Them

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We're about to dive in today's letter.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
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Speaker 1 (00:13):
I don't know. Just like reading a few minutes ago.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
She says, I was dating a guy for five months.
I know five months may not seem like a long
time to some, but to me it was. I had
been single since twenty fifteen, and he came along when
I was peaceful. All of a sudden, he cut off
all the communication and is now dating someone else.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
We weren't on bad terms or anything. I think it
would be.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Easier to get over it if I knew what changed.
But to just walk away with no explanation and living
his best life.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Is really bothering me. How do I get over this?

Speaker 3 (00:56):
All? Right?

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Ladies, I need your to call to help her out.
What do you do when somebody comes into your life
while you're mounting your business. This woman's been for ten years,
she was chilling, no relationship, she said, single since twenty fifteen.
Met this guy and he was going strong, doing that thing,

(01:21):
and then all of.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
A sudden he gone.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Not returning calls and nothing. I guess she's seeing him
on Facebook living his best life and she feels some
type of way, which you should. I get it, and
she wants some closure. She want to know why. I
think it's whack for him not to say anything. I
think it is, But I also think that this might

(01:48):
be helping you for something else to out of line.
This probably saved you. You never know, like, do y'all
really need closure all the time? That is wold go
ahead and hurt, be human, feel your pain, and you're

(02:11):
gonna have to get over it. Yeah, get over it, Sam,
How can you say that because she got to ask
God to give you just enough that this dude had
just to walk away. Don't say a word. But you
can't stress yourself out over this clown. Then, had he

(02:34):
would have told you his reason, why would you have
tried to convince him.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
He gone?

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Mingle is what Reese says. Recy says, smile treats yourself mingle.
God removes what is now for you. See I just
said that. Yep, this this probably is a blessing in disguise.
Someone just said. Angela said fact, thank God he gone,
and forgive yourself for getting involved and move on. Don't

(03:06):
ever talk to him on that dating level ever again.
Ignore I'm with y'all. He pop up, you don't want
to hear nothing. You're good? What's up, Helen? Obviously you
weren't you. You was not what he was looking for
and a partner, and he didn't know how to tell you. Yeah,

(03:27):
there's some guys don't know how to open the mouth
and talk. Go ahead and say, hey, look, you know
this is just not what's happening for me. So that's
says lady. He had another woman when you were dating
him because he wasn't dating you. He got what he
wanted from you, and it was time for him to

(03:47):
move on to his next victim. Make sure you lock
the door and don't let him back in. Follow God's
path to peace.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Any ladies been this?

Speaker 2 (04:01):
What dude you was digging just just just just disappeared
and started living his best life. You see him on
social see him moving, He don't respond to you. What
do you do when a grown.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Adult plays you like that? Is it?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Is it easier set than done? Is it easier set
than done? What you got to say about it? I
say this, move on man, that door That chapter's closed.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
I know her.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
You wanna answer. The answer is he's not for you,
him not for you, blessed in the sky.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
With the next guy who she gonna put him through it.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
I got a question, what did what did? What did
he do to make her change her ways and give
her our stuff all the way to him? She didn't
explain a lot in that letter.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Now she didn't. She did not.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
I mean, did he iron it or did you just
get it to him?

Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah? That could be because.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
You you're losing as easy as you get it. So
if he didn't put in no work to get it
and you gave it to him. I don't want to
blame her. I don't want a victim sham because I'm
sorry that happened to her. But yeah, I just that's
just a serious question, like what did what did he
do to change because for ten years you said you
went from twenty fifteen twenty twenty five and could nobody

(05:28):
crack it?

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:30):
He did. He cracked it with mean.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
And went on about his business. That's why she that's
why she messed up on her.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
She probably told me with nobody in ten years, Yeah,
and then he went on and za.

Speaker 3 (05:43):
I got one more question, how much did that suck
away because she just lost weight better than no zimpic.
You know what I'm saying, Telling the move on to
get it right next time and love herself all right,
appreciate it