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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Real people, realize situations. We got the letter nine three
one's e ak to Sam su show available on an
urber one podcast or where you get your podcasts. Touchdown
with this man New Year's Eve. We do it at
a real big uh Sam superd wi dot com. He
was asking me what a unit ban at Unit Band
Rich Green. We had a comedy show and you got
the Unit band. You got DJ the Metroarinney Party Center.
Me us stare samsugerd y dot com. They're going fast
(00:22):
and the the the two for one is going as
well while they all last, get yours before they go.
And it's gonna be bananas. Man, that's gonna be good
and it's gonna be great, bringing twenty twenty six with
some good fun, good.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Food to laugh. All that good stuff's going down.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Man, meet me there, all right, what's going on with
today's letter?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
All right? Dear Sam, Am I wrong for telling a
grown woman she's not entitled to anything of mine, and
whatever I give her she should be grateful for. I
used to help this homeless woman near my job. Every payday,
I would give her a hotel room for a few days.
I also gave some food every work or every workday
that I cooked for from home. I get paid bi
(01:01):
weekly and I'm not rich, so I can't do more. Recently,
I found out my girlfriend and I were expecting and
I was over the moon. I decided that I wanted
to marry her, and that meant I had to budget
my money. That meant no more hotel rooms. I told
the homeless woman that things have changed for me and
I can no longer get her a hotel room. She
(01:22):
was disappointed, but seemed to understand at least that's what
I thought. One day, my now fiance and I were
walking in the neighborhood and we ran into her. She
started calling me a selfish person and a liar after
she saw my fiance's ring. The ring is literally a
mood ring. After ushering my fiance into a store, I
told this homeless woman that I don't have to do
(01:44):
anything for her and that whatever she gets, she needs
to be grateful. She began crying, but I wasn't done.
I also told her that she needs to stop feeling
sorry for herself, get a job, and take care of herself.
What I didn't know was that my fiance saw the
whole thing and is now mad because I made the
woman cry, was I really wrong?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Sounds like the homeless woman thought you was a woman?
Come in?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yeah, what was going on in that hotel room when.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
You're doing just just well, First of all, big, I'm
glad you were able to do that. First of all,
I'm glad that you able to do that. But but
what did your what did your fiance say about you
getting this homeless woman the hotel every weekend?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Right every pay day? You were getting a home?
Speaker 1 (02:31):
You get that. This don't shout right, I'm just yeah,
I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Well, maybe he just wanted to get her off the streets.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
And the homeless woman got jealous. I've never heard anything
like this. I'm sorry he called me off guard. I'm sorry, but.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
If somebody is doing something that you've come to expect,
you know, yes, your food, that you're getting the hotel room,
get off the street. She was probably looking forward to
taking a shower.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I get it. But still, well, you know, that's just
it's just I'm sorry, just me.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
It just sounds it's still mean though, to tell her
she needs to get a job, and you know you're
not feeling right.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
You know she didn't have it. You already knew what
was going on.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Right, the same empathy that would have caused you to
go ahead and feed this woman and house her, even temporarily,
is the same compassion that.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
You need this. I'm sorry, can't this sounds like something
else to me? It does?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It sounds like it might have been taken advantage.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I'm sorry. That don't make sense to me. She you
brought the fact about your ring, and I'm sorry, can't
that don't make sense to me? Right?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Because he said it was only a mood ring.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
He talking about Yes, I'm telling you don't sound right
to me.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
He was making the promises to that homeless one. He
was getting some promises, and he was getting something. I mean,
let's go to the comments. Shake what y'all got to say?
All right now? Dakavin said, I probably wouldn't have said
that last line only because you don't know why she
was homeless. You can't assume the reason someone is homeless
is because they don't want to work. Otherwise, you didn't
(04:03):
do anything wrong. You helped someone when you could, but
that should have That shouldn't be a lifelong commitment. You
did more than what most people have done. Way more, yeah,
way more, but still you'd never be cruel because of
things that you did, and KG said, no, you were
not wrong. She got comfortable with you helping her. Glad
(04:24):
you put a stop to it because it probably would
have gotten worse. Dang. Yeah, that's really rough, though. I
don't know for people who need something, Yeah, people who
are in need, I don't think you'd take the opportunity
to be cruel to them at any time.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
You don't. But again, why would you all of a
sudden it's flip like that, you've been doing this. You
just you flipped the behavior on her real quick. You
slipped out. Yeah, so she would be like, well, hold on,
I thought we was cool. You created a habit.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
He did create a habit, But what was the hap Like,
why was he specific creating this hotel room habit.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
I'm just trying to trying to tell.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You, right, but I don't think that. I don't. I
don't like when people do things for people and then
you throw it up in their face. Don't do that.
That is that just wipes out everything that you did
good to make her cry like that and make her
feel like less.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Than Yeah, but I'm just saying you in the rooms. Yeah,
that's amazing quick cutback, bro.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
It is it is so she.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
A homeless person looking forward to that hotel every weekend.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Absolutely, and then you.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Just cut it and you was cooking her food every day.
I'm lost with Yeah, I'm still trying to understand this letter.
Its just it's just not adding up to me. Yeah,
it doesn't make that that that it don't make sense.
All right, let's recap it and then we go back
to these comments.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
All right, So this man wants to know that is
he wrong for telling a grown woman that she's not
entitled to anything of his and whatever that he gives her,
it should be she should be grateful for now. He
said he used to help this homeless woman near his job.
Every payday. He would get her a hotel room for
a few days and food that he cooked from home.
(06:18):
And he said that he found out that his girlfriend
was expecting, so he was excited about it. But he
has to budget his money differently, so he cut off
the homeless woman. He's no longer getting her the hotels
and all of that, and him and his now fiance
they were walking through the neighborhood and saw the homeless
lady and the homeless lady started calling him a liar,
(06:39):
and when she saw the fiance's ring, and he put
his fiance in the store so he could tell the
homeless woman that he doesn't have to do anything for
her and she should be grateful for what she gets.
She started crying and he told her she needed to
stop feeling sorry for herself, get a job, and take
care of herself. Now, he said that the fiance saw
(07:01):
the whole thing and it is now mad because he
made this woman cry, and he wants to know is
he really wrong?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Did the fiance now you just cooking to her for
some need every day? Ain't got a hotel room?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I think it could sound really sweet unless it's something
else to the whole hotel room situation and calling him
a liar, like why what was the liar?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Like?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Did he promise that he was going to do this
for the unforeseeable future or what?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Tell you? I just did this sound suspect to me?
Because those last comments?
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Will we go all right now? Elizabeth said, I feel
like it's more to this story. Thank you when you
got the hotel room for the homeless woman, were you
sleeping with this homeless woman? Because when she saw you
with another woman, She became irate. Inquiring minds would like
to know. Yeah, and Deanna said, thank you for being
a being kind to a person in need. But you
(07:52):
were giving and giving and she became depending dependent on you.
You made this what it was a hotel a hotel.
You was doing too much.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Way too much. He probably he probably was doing doing
way too much. Yeah, I'm just saying no, I mean,
how much was that hotel every.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Weekend at this point? Don't be cruel. If you do
something for someone from your heart, then there's no need
to ever be cruel to them. Just leave it at that,
say you can't do it.
Real people, realize situations. We got the letter nine three
one's e ak to Sam su show available on an
urber one podcast or where you get your podcasts. Touchdown
with this man New Year's Eve. We do it at
a real big uh Sam superd wi dot com. He
was asking me what a unit ban at Unit Band
Rich Green. We had a comedy show and you got
the Unit band. You got DJ the Metroarinney Party Center.
Me us stare samsugerd y dot com. They're going fast
(00:22):
and the the the two for one is going as
well while they all last, get yours before they go.
And it's gonna be bananas. Man, that's gonna be good
and it's gonna be great, bringing twenty twenty six with
some good fun, good.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Food to laugh. All that good stuff's going down.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Man, meet me there, all right, what's going on with
today's letter?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
All right? Dear Sam, Am I wrong for telling a
grown woman she's not entitled to anything of mine, and
whatever I give her she should be grateful for. I
used to help this homeless woman near my job. Every payday,
I would give her a hotel room for a few days.
I also gave some food every work or every workday
that I cooked for from home. I get paid bi
(01:01):
weekly and I'm not rich, so I can't do more. Recently,
I found out my girlfriend and I were expecting and
I was over the moon. I decided that I wanted
to marry her, and that meant I had to budget
my money. That meant no more hotel rooms. I told
the homeless woman that things have changed for me and
I can no longer get her a hotel room. She
(01:22):
was disappointed, but seemed to understand at least that's what
I thought. One day, my now fiance and I were
walking in the neighborhood and we ran into her. She
started calling me a selfish person and a liar after
she saw my fiance's ring. The ring is literally a
mood ring. After ushering my fiance into a store, I
told this homeless woman that I don't have to do
(01:44):
anything for her and that whatever she gets, she needs
to be grateful. She began crying, but I wasn't done.
I also told her that she needs to stop feeling
sorry for herself, get a job, and take care of herself.
What I didn't know was that my fiance saw the
whole thing and is now mad because I made the
woman cry, was I really wrong?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Sounds like the homeless woman thought you was a woman?
Come in?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yeah, what was going on in that hotel room when.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
You're doing just just well, First of all, big, I'm
glad you were able to do that. First of all,
I'm glad that you able to do that. But but
what did your what did your fiance say about you
getting this homeless woman the hotel every weekend?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Right every pay day? You were getting a home?
Speaker 1 (02:31):
You get that. This don't shout right, I'm just yeah,
I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Well, maybe he just wanted to get her off the streets.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
And the homeless woman got jealous. I've never heard anything
like this. I'm sorry he called me off guard. I'm sorry, but.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
If somebody is doing something that you've come to expect,
you know, yes, your food, that you're getting the hotel room,
get off the street. She was probably looking forward to
taking a shower.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I get it. But still, well, you know, that's just
it's just I'm sorry, just me.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
It just sounds it's still mean though, to tell her
she needs to get a job, and you know you're
not feeling right.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
You know she didn't have it. You already knew what
was going on.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Right, the same empathy that would have caused you to
go ahead and feed this woman and house her, even temporarily,
is the same compassion that.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
You need this. I'm sorry, can't this sounds like something
else to me? It does?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It sounds like it might have been taken advantage.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I'm sorry. That don't make sense to me. She you
brought the fact about your ring, and I'm sorry, can't
that don't make sense to me? Right?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Because he said it was only a mood ring.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
He talking about Yes, I'm telling you don't sound right
to me.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
He was making the promises to that homeless one. He
was getting some promises, and he was getting something. I mean,
let's go to the comments. Shake what y'all got to say?
All right now? Dakavin said, I probably wouldn't have said
that last line only because you don't know why she
was homeless. You can't assume the reason someone is homeless
is because they don't want to work. Otherwise, you didn't
(04:03):
do anything wrong. You helped someone when you could, but
that should have That shouldn't be a lifelong commitment. You
did more than what most people have done. Way more, yeah,
way more, but still you'd never be cruel because of
things that you did, and KG said, no, you were
not wrong. She got comfortable with you helping her. Glad
(04:24):
you put a stop to it because it probably would
have gotten worse. Dang. Yeah, that's really rough, though. I
don't know for people who need something, Yeah, people who
are in need, I don't think you'd take the opportunity
to be cruel to them at any time.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
You don't. But again, why would you all of a
sudden it's flip like that, you've been doing this. You
just you flipped the behavior on her real quick. You
slipped out. Yeah, so she would be like, well, hold on,
I thought we was cool. You created a habit.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
He did create a habit, But what was the hap Like,
why was he specific creating this hotel room habit.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
I'm just trying to trying to tell.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You, right, but I don't think that. I don't. I
don't like when people do things for people and then
you throw it up in their face. Don't do that.
That is that just wipes out everything that you did
good to make her cry like that and make her
feel like less.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Than Yeah, but I'm just saying you in the rooms. Yeah,
that's amazing quick cutback, bro.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
It is it is so she.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
A homeless person looking forward to that hotel every weekend.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Absolutely, and then you.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Just cut it and you was cooking her food every day.
I'm lost with Yeah, I'm still trying to understand this letter.
Its just it's just not adding up to me. Yeah,
it doesn't make that that that it don't make sense.
All right, let's recap it and then we go back
to these comments.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
All right, So this man wants to know that is
he wrong for telling a grown woman that she's not
entitled to anything of his and whatever that he gives her,
it should be she should be grateful for now. He
said he used to help this homeless woman near his job.
Every payday. He would get her a hotel room for
a few days and food that he cooked from home.
(06:18):
And he said that he found out that his girlfriend
was expecting, so he was excited about it. But he
has to budget his money differently, so he cut off
the homeless woman. He's no longer getting her the hotels
and all of that, and him and his now fiance
they were walking through the neighborhood and saw the homeless
lady and the homeless lady started calling him a liar,
(06:39):
and when she saw the fiance's ring, and he put
his fiance in the store so he could tell the
homeless woman that he doesn't have to do anything for
her and she should be grateful for what she gets.
She started crying and he told her she needed to
stop feeling sorry for herself, get a job, and take
care of herself. Now, he said that the fiance saw
(07:01):
the whole thing and it is now mad because he
made this woman cry, and he wants to know is
he really wrong?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Did the fiance now you just cooking to her for
some need every day? Ain't got a hotel room?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I think it could sound really sweet unless it's something
else to the whole hotel room situation and calling him
a liar, like why what was the liar?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Like?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Did he promise that he was going to do this
for the unforeseeable future or what?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Tell you? I just did this sound suspect to me?
Because those last comments?
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Will we go all right now? Elizabeth said, I feel
like it's more to this story. Thank you when you
got the hotel room for the homeless woman, were you
sleeping with this homeless woman? Because when she saw you
with another woman, She became irate. Inquiring minds would like
to know. Yeah, and Deanna said, thank you for being
a being kind to a person in need. But you
(07:52):
were giving and giving and she became depending dependent on you.
You made this what it was a hotel a hotel.
You was doing too much.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Way too much. He probably he probably was doing doing
way too much. Yeah, I'm just saying no, I mean,
how much was that hotel every.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Weekend at this point? Don't be cruel. If you do
something for someone from your heart, then there's no need
to ever be cruel to them. Just leave it at that,
say you can't do it.
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