November 21, 2025 • 4 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Kenya. Half a day's letter. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
All right? Dear Sam? I can't believe how much of
my life I wasted on him. Ten years ten years gone.
I stood by his side, waiting for the moment we'd
finally settle down, get married, start a family, And just
when I was ready, just when I thought it was
finally happening, happening, he walked away. No explanation that could
ever justify it. Now I'm forty, my childbearing years are
(00:26):
behind me, and I feel like he stole them. He
took my time, my trust, my future, and left me
with a thing but regret. I'm furious he owes me
for what I can never get back, and I'm seriously
thinking about taking him to court. He thinks I'm just
being a hater now that missed her chance and my tripping.
Do you have any advice?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
She want to take him to court for what?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
You take him in court for.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Nothing?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Hell, he dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I don't know about that. But why do we surrender
our power to other people and relationships? Like you? Literally,
unless somebody is holding you captive in a situation, you
always have the opportunity to do something different.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
She chose that you chose the life.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
You had every sign, every red flag, right, and so
you thought that one day it would happen, And so
he walked out.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
He walked out.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So, but I'm still trying to figure out what are
you trying to take him to quot over your heart?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Right? She said she missed her childbearing years, but I
have my last child at forties.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Okay, you can still have a baby, mama, if it's
for you to have one. Yeah, and so Ke.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
What is that question?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I mean, I don't understand your question.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
I think maybe she's just upset about the fact that
this ten year relationship is over. She was trying to
hang in there and you know it's done, have her
happy ending.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
You had the signs. Yeah, you waited around. This is
all your fault. Did he tell you? Did he string
you along? Noh, You was doing it out of hope.
And guess what, him walking out your life, Ma, could
be some good for you. It could really be a
good thing. You saw, you saw the signs, and you
just kept trying.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
To have hope.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, that was on you. I mean ten years worth
of sign you saw.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You saw hell the first year, two years, yes, the
third year, what year?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Fourth to fifth? When you got to the fifth.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Year, Yes, you knew then you for shelf for show
new then, but you wanted to stick in there.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Now you chopped this one up, swallow hill. It hurts.
You're gonna just have to go through the pain. You
know what I'm saying. Don't be calling him and if
he called you back, yes.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Come on now, don't let this man take any more
of your time. You you were with him for ten years.
It didn't work out, he left, so don't let him
consume any more of your years. You know, focus on
your life, focus on your happiness, and you need to
really figure out what that is instead of, you know,
catering to someone else's idea of a relationship. Because I'm
(03:03):
guessing that's why you're upset about the whole situation, because
you didn't honor what you actually wanted out of a relationship,
waiting on somebody else. Well, now you get a chance
to do it differently. You can honor yourself this time
and follow and demand the things that you want. But
you'll be beating a dead horse with that one.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah, yeah, all right, comment section.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Once you got all right now, Kimberly said, he doesn't
know you anything. You stay because you wanted to, not
because he made you. At this point, you need to
take responsibility for your own actions. Your childbearing years are
not behind you. You must let go of the bitterness
before you can truly move on and be happy. Don't
wait too long to get yourself together. You also need therapy, absolutely, Yeah,
(03:53):
and Minyon said the red flags were their sis, so
it's on you too, not for reading them, but now
it's time to heal. And it's not too late for kids.
Imagine if you did have them by him, you'd be
a single mom, which can be very challenging. So counter blessings.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, man, chop this one up.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's always a bright side.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
He walked up out of there. It was meant to be.
You allowed it to go on for ten years, you
did
Speaker 2 (04:20):
So don't do that no more, all right,
Kenya. Half a day's letter. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
All right? Dear Sam? I can't believe how much of
my life I wasted on him. Ten years ten years gone.
I stood by his side, waiting for the moment we'd
finally settle down, get married, start a family, And just
when I was ready, just when I thought it was
finally happening, happening, he walked away. No explanation that could
ever justify it. Now I'm forty, my childbearing years are
(00:26):
behind me, and I feel like he stole them. He
took my time, my trust, my future, and left me
with a thing but regret. I'm furious he owes me
for what I can never get back, and I'm seriously
thinking about taking him to court. He thinks I'm just
being a hater now that missed her chance and my tripping.
Do you have any advice?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
She want to take him to court for what?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
You take him in court for.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Nothing?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Hell, he dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I don't know about that. But why do we surrender
our power to other people and relationships? Like you? Literally,
unless somebody is holding you captive in a situation, you
always have the opportunity to do something different.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
She chose that you chose the life.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
You had every sign, every red flag, right, and so
you thought that one day it would happen, And so
he walked out.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
He walked out.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So, but I'm still trying to figure out what are
you trying to take him to quot over your heart?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Right? She said she missed her childbearing years, but I
have my last child at forties.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Okay, you can still have a baby, mama, if it's
for you to have one. Yeah, and so Ke.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
What is that question?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I mean, I don't understand your question.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
I think maybe she's just upset about the fact that
this ten year relationship is over. She was trying to
hang in there and you know it's done, have her
happy ending.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
You had the signs. Yeah, you waited around. This is
all your fault. Did he tell you? Did he string
you along? Noh, You was doing it out of hope.
And guess what, him walking out your life, Ma, could
be some good for you. It could really be a
good thing. You saw, you saw the signs, and you
just kept trying.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
To have hope.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, that was on you. I mean ten years worth
of sign you saw.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You saw hell the first year, two years, yes, the
third year, what year?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Fourth to fifth? When you got to the fifth.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Year, Yes, you knew then you for shelf for show
new then, but you wanted to stick in there.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Now you chopped this one up, swallow hill. It hurts.
You're gonna just have to go through the pain. You
know what I'm saying. Don't be calling him and if
he called you back, yes.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Come on now, don't let this man take any more
of your time. You you were with him for ten years.
It didn't work out, he left, so don't let him
consume any more of your years. You know, focus on
your life, focus on your happiness, and you need to
really figure out what that is instead of, you know,
catering to someone else's idea of a relationship. Because I'm
(03:03):
guessing that's why you're upset about the whole situation, because
you didn't honor what you actually wanted out of a relationship,
waiting on somebody else. Well, now you get a chance
to do it differently. You can honor yourself this time
and follow and demand the things that you want. But
you'll be beating a dead horse with that one.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah, yeah, all right, comment section.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Once you got all right now, Kimberly said, he doesn't
know you anything. You stay because you wanted to, not
because he made you. At this point, you need to
take responsibility for your own actions. Your childbearing years are
not behind you. You must let go of the bitterness
before you can truly move on and be happy. Don't
wait too long to get yourself together. You also need therapy, absolutely, Yeah,
(03:53):
and Minyon said the red flags were their sis, so
it's on you too, not for reading them, but now
it's time to heal. And it's not too late for kids.
Imagine if you did have them by him, you'd be
a single mom, which can be very challenging. So counter blessings.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, man, chop this one up.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's always a bright side.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
He walked up out of there. It was meant to be.
You allowed it to go on for ten years, you
did
Speaker 2 (04:20):
So don't do that no more, all right,
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