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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We in reality. Yeah, reality, people realize situation.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Man. All right, Dear Sam, my husband of two years
found out he had a three year old baby recently.
He found out because the mother needs him to co
sign for her apartment, but says she doesn't want child support.
I say, hell no, but he wants to What do
you think?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
That was real? Quick? Short and sweet like that? So
let me so, let me understand. Yeah, how long they
be married? Two years? They've been married for two years, okay,
with a three year old baby. Three year old baby?
He was getting it in a whole relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Well that might have been some you know, breakup sex
or something like that. It's nothing more fertile. Nobody more
fertile than somebody breaking up. And she want him to
co sign for her apartment.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, you might as well just get a one sin. No.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Yeah, we're not doing that, none of that, because that's
a different type.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Of bill, I mean, and the woman don't want to
know what.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
So she's saying that the woman doesn't want any child
support but wants him to sign for this apartment.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Listen, once you sign that paper, that's it. That's it.
You're on the hook. You already know that. Yeah, and
why why.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Is he just taking care? Why does he just give
us some money to take care of the baby? You
mean she don't want no money?
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You should?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
You know, when women say stuff like that, it makes
me wonder, like how do y'all can be with somebody
with a child, they got a child, and then you
okay with him not paying child support, without him not
taking care of his child, Like how do you think
(01:45):
that's gonna turn out for you? Like how do cause?
Someone please tell me, how do you date a whole
man and you never see him.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
With his kids?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
That's what they want, and you.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Know he don't do nothing and for his kids.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You okay, the coach siund we get that, but you okay.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
With the fact that he don't have to pay house support.
You said that in the letter.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Well, I mean, if you think about it, if she's
just now finding out about this three year old and
they've been married for two years, she probably was planning
on having her own child and pregnancy.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
And I'm with all.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
That, but at the end of the day, she just shocked.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Okay, we'll turn key Mica off, turn your mic off
right now.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Look, everybody always says how things should be, things should
be this way. If she accepted this, she should accept.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
That or whatever.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
But I mean people have emotions too. She got emotions.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I didn't say that she should not have any emotions
to feeling no type of way. That's not what I'm saying. Okay,
she has every right to feel like Dad, I didn't
get a chance to have a baby with you yet. Right,
and you find out about this one. However, you ain't
got to pay your sport the right.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah, right, Yeah, that's what I heard. Please, that's I
heard that.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Yeah, until he say no to something and then.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Right here it's gonna happen. That's my whole point. Just
just take care it shorty. Send us some bread. Yeah,
that's it.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Because that co signing situation, that that involves everybody, that
involves the whole marriage. You know, I could change your
credit worthiness all of that stuff.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
So I don't know about that.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, I'm good. Let's go to common section. I almost
forget about the had to.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Say all right now, Dakavin said, Nah, you shouldn't co
sign for anyone. If they don't pay, then that's your
credit ruined. Also, I questioned the mother's character for never
telling him that he might be the father of the
child until she needs something she need. He needs to
first get a DNA test to make sure the kid
is his. If the child is his, then he needs
(04:04):
to take full responsibility for his child. But that does
not mean getting an apartment for the mother, who again
didn't even tell him until she needed something. That's what
he told his wife. That's what he told his new
wife that hey, she just popped us up on me
and now she wanted.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Well okay, but yeah, we'll go with that story. Let's
tell you what y'all think about that family. Five seven
dights Zeroonapter one. Let me know.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Tell us how you feel helped us this wife out
and how they should move.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Okay, he's not marriage material. The question we need to
ask was they together for two years or three years
before they got married, or did he jump right into
that new relationship when he found out she was pregnant.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He knew it was a little overleapt.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
That's why I say, you know, oh, by the way,
he had a baby, Yeah, she do surprise.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Yeah, he knew.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
And the bad part is she didn't know nothing about
this man.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Obviously she don't. She don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
That's not married material because you get the whole package.
You got to be a mama when you with their daddy,
no matter what the circumstance. And yes, you're supposed to
have him pay support.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah, you can't be supporting that. Well, he ain't got
to pay the child support.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
If she got a chest stuck out and got a
three year old step child, some messed.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
And queen or she could or she could have been
the one that messed that whole relationship with him and
this one with this baby.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I don't believe pretty much.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
You know how the world work.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
I believe it. I'm telling you, I don't believe it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
It wasn't as much as a surprise as as she
married three years.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
So they've been married for two years and then the
baby is three years old and he just found.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Out that, don't nah smell of rack?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, look they say the math, not math. That's right, man,
thin walk to the show. What's up?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Damn Yo, he ain't feel about that baby.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
He knew to play me for jump.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I'm sorry he knew, and then she just pop up.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
I know we're talking about I got a three year
old baby, and I.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Want you to coach that.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
And I don't want to move in with her. How
about that?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah, there you go. It makes more sense. And for him,
it was for him to even bring it to.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
It though, I want a divorce and you go live
with her in your new baby period?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
All right, silk, what upy it was going on?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Sam? Kids? Yeah? Can you set it off? Sam?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Man?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
She set it off? Man like he's been knew about that.
He's just not telling her.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Yeah, he had to know. Ain't no way that baby
just all of someding bam.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
It popped up out of popped up like springtime flowers
in the spring time.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Many may you don't believe it, my son, I.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Just found out the bad man.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
She got in contact with me on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
She better be ready for some more surprises. The whole
life you're gonna find out about.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
The truth.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Man, and the crazy part about it. He waited to
the two days.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
So uh.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
She can't even get Annoman though, And she and she
and I questioned her, she better, she better, she better
get a good lawyer on speed now because it might
be coming.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
All right, man, much love, all right time, that's up,
all right, last comments?
Speaker 4 (07:57):
What you got?
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Latania said woo. First of all, he should allow himself
to be out on child support or support his child
and keep receipts if he co signs for her and
him and you and him are on the hook if
she doesn't pay and she still can't hit him for
child support.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Yeah, yeah, like what you're talking about. He's gonna have
to pay something. That's why all girl got in contact
with him.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Ain't no way. They ain't about to. He already knew though. Divorce.
Baby just popped up married, We were married two years
and then you got a three year old that you
just found out about.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Nah, I ain't going
We in reality. Yeah, reality, people realize situation.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Man. All right, Dear Sam, my husband of two years
found out he had a three year old baby recently.
He found out because the mother needs him to co
sign for her apartment, but says she doesn't want child support.
I say, hell no, but he wants to What do
you think?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
That was real? Quick? Short and sweet like that? So
let me so, let me understand. Yeah, how long they
be married? Two years? They've been married for two years, okay,
with a three year old baby. Three year old baby?
He was getting it in a whole relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Well that might have been some you know, breakup sex
or something like that. It's nothing more fertile. Nobody more
fertile than somebody breaking up. And she want him to
co sign for her apartment.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, you might as well just get a one sin. No.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Yeah, we're not doing that, none of that, because that's
a different type.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Of bill, I mean, and the woman don't want to
know what.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
So she's saying that the woman doesn't want any child
support but wants him to sign for this apartment.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Listen, once you sign that paper, that's it. That's it.
You're on the hook. You already know that. Yeah, and
why why.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Is he just taking care? Why does he just give
us some money to take care of the baby? You
mean she don't want no money?
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You should?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
You know, when women say stuff like that, it makes
me wonder, like how do y'all can be with somebody
with a child, they got a child, and then you
okay with him not paying child support, without him not
taking care of his child, Like how do you think
(01:45):
that's gonna turn out for you? Like how do cause?
Someone please tell me, how do you date a whole
man and you never see him.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
With his kids?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
That's what they want, and you.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Know he don't do nothing and for his kids.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You okay, the coach siund we get that, but you okay.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
With the fact that he don't have to pay house support.
You said that in the letter.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Well, I mean, if you think about it, if she's
just now finding out about this three year old and
they've been married for two years, she probably was planning
on having her own child and pregnancy.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
And I'm with all.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
That, but at the end of the day, she just shocked.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Okay, we'll turn key Mica off, turn your mic off
right now.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Look, everybody always says how things should be, things should
be this way. If she accepted this, she should accept.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
That or whatever.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
But I mean people have emotions too. She got emotions.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I didn't say that she should not have any emotions
to feeling no type of way. That's not what I'm saying. Okay,
she has every right to feel like Dad, I didn't
get a chance to have a baby with you yet. Right,
and you find out about this one. However, you ain't
got to pay your sport the right.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah, right, Yeah, that's what I heard. Please, that's I
heard that.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Yeah, until he say no to something and then.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Right here it's gonna happen. That's my whole point. Just
just take care it shorty. Send us some bread. Yeah,
that's it.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Because that co signing situation, that that involves everybody, that
involves the whole marriage. You know, I could change your
credit worthiness all of that stuff.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
So I don't know about that.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, I'm good. Let's go to common section. I almost
forget about the had to.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Say all right now, Dakavin said, Nah, you shouldn't co
sign for anyone. If they don't pay, then that's your
credit ruined. Also, I questioned the mother's character for never
telling him that he might be the father of the
child until she needs something she need. He needs to
first get a DNA test to make sure the kid
is his. If the child is his, then he needs
(04:04):
to take full responsibility for his child. But that does
not mean getting an apartment for the mother, who again
didn't even tell him until she needed something. That's what
he told his wife. That's what he told his new
wife that hey, she just popped us up on me
and now she wanted.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Well okay, but yeah, we'll go with that story. Let's
tell you what y'all think about that family. Five seven
dights Zeroonapter one. Let me know.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Tell us how you feel helped us this wife out
and how they should move.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Okay, he's not marriage material. The question we need to
ask was they together for two years or three years
before they got married, or did he jump right into
that new relationship when he found out she was pregnant.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He knew it was a little overleapt.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
That's why I say, you know, oh, by the way,
he had a baby, Yeah, she do surprise.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Yeah, he knew.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
And the bad part is she didn't know nothing about
this man.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Obviously she don't. She don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
That's not married material because you get the whole package.
You got to be a mama when you with their daddy,
no matter what the circumstance. And yes, you're supposed to
have him pay support.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah, you can't be supporting that. Well, he ain't got
to pay the child support.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
If she got a chest stuck out and got a
three year old step child, some messed.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
And queen or she could or she could have been
the one that messed that whole relationship with him and
this one with this baby.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I don't believe pretty much.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
You know how the world work.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
I believe it. I'm telling you, I don't believe it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
It wasn't as much as a surprise as as she
married three years.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
So they've been married for two years and then the
baby is three years old and he just found.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Out that, don't nah smell of rack?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, look they say the math, not math. That's right, man,
thin walk to the show. What's up?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Damn Yo, he ain't feel about that baby.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
He knew to play me for jump.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I'm sorry he knew, and then she just pop up.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
I know we're talking about I got a three year
old baby, and I.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Want you to coach that.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
And I don't want to move in with her. How
about that?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah, there you go. It makes more sense. And for him,
it was for him to even bring it to.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
It though, I want a divorce and you go live
with her in your new baby period?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
All right, silk, what upy it was going on?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Sam? Kids? Yeah? Can you set it off? Sam?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Man?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
She set it off? Man like he's been knew about that.
He's just not telling her.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Yeah, he had to know. Ain't no way that baby
just all of someding bam.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
It popped up out of popped up like springtime flowers
in the spring time.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Many may you don't believe it, my son, I.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Just found out the bad man.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
She got in contact with me on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
She better be ready for some more surprises. The whole
life you're gonna find out about.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
The truth.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Man, and the crazy part about it. He waited to
the two days.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
So uh.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
She can't even get Annoman though, And she and she
and I questioned her, she better, she better, she better
get a good lawyer on speed now because it might
be coming.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
All right, man, much love, all right time, that's up,
all right, last comments?
Speaker 4 (07:57):
What you got?
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Latania said woo. First of all, he should allow himself
to be out on child support or support his child
and keep receipts if he co signs for her and
him and you and him are on the hook if
she doesn't pay and she still can't hit him for
child support.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Yeah, yeah, like what you're talking about. He's gonna have
to pay something. That's why all girl got in contact
with him.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Ain't no way. They ain't about to. He already knew though. Divorce.
Baby just popped up married, We were married two years
and then you got a three year old that you
just found out about.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Nah, I ain't going
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