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December 11, 2025 • 40 mins

Episode 82 of She Said It First, titled “Cardi Said It’s Up Forever,” is a full-on comedy sermon where Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae trade laughter and life lessons like verbal jabs at a roast. In What Irritated Me This Week, the ladies go in on “sit-down air” — yes, that mysterious funk cloud that follows certain people when they hit a chair. Between jokes about “thunderclap ghosts” and hygiene horror stories, the two deliver a PSA wrapped in pure foolishness: wash your whole body, not just the parts you can see.

In Girl, What Happened, the duo dives into the messy world of celebrity beefs, starting with Ray J’s claim that Beyoncé disrespected Brandy — because apparently, family loyalty runs thicker than logic. They unpack everything from old Soul Train shade to Cardi B’s “we got beef forever” energy, ultimately deciding that some people confuse “beef” with “irrelevance.” The conversation somehow spirals (as only She Said It First can) into Netflix’s explosive Diddy documentary, where the ladies drag everyone from enablers to jurors smiling too hard for the camera. “Nothing surprises us anymore,” they say — not even the idea of Diddy renting eight getaway cars or possibly a submarine.

By the end, things lighten up with talk of Thanksgiving food fatigue and overhyped family gatherings. From calling out folks who overshare about celebrity drama to roasting people who bring the same dry mac and cheese every year, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ prove once again that no topic is too sacred to clown. Whether it’s hygiene, holidays, or hip-hop scandals, Episode 82 reminds us that these two are equal parts hilarious and holy — dropping jokes so sharp they could carve the turkey.

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's up, everybody. It's your girl, Gerald Lake.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Aka Indescribable checking in with none other than my bestie
for the rest.

Speaker 1 (00:07):
Of Elyne Monet.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
And you are listening to this, she said, the first podcast,
an Urban one podcast and an Urban.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
One podcast network. Here here's me, it's me. Yes, well, well,
well we meet again. Look what we have here?

Speaker 2 (00:22):
My god wants today, y'all. You know, let's not even
let's not beat around the bush. Let's go ahead and
get into what irritated us this week. Friend, Oh my god,
where do I really I got about thirty five minutes.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Go ahead, y'all. Let me tell you.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
I don't really appreciate when people sit down is stink.
While you'll sit down is stink because it's like you
need to wash them paenel or something.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
I want to ask the ass and the pasty way.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
My phone wanted to run out the room. I didn't
like that today.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Two people that was really strong. That's a high air balloon.
Ass whoa the air was dead?

Speaker 3 (01:06):
It was.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
Age.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
I said, oh my god, this is too much fig
Oh why is that much like that?

Speaker 1 (01:13):
When you sit down? The only thing worse than sit
down air stand up?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Because that creates a world effect because when you know,
when you sit down, it pushes the air out. It's
when you when you stand up, look, it swirls like
a tornado because the hot air and the cold eir
merged and it does that twister of fixed And.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
That was that was a stressful moss when they call
it thunder clapt ghost.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
Oh okay, Well, you know what irritated me this week
with one two, one two three release Somebody speaking of
the EPTE files, H one Ryan, Why did that girl
get up at the people's whoever? I don't know if

(02:05):
it was a memorial service, I don't know if it
was at a burial balloony, I don't know what it was.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
But that girl got up there and said, I got.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
Something money you to say, I got some things say
and really sat up there and in the mid run
that girl said hey, one two, one two three released
some I said, baby, this has got to be Ashton
Country is to pop out from behind one of these
headstone and tell me that they're fucking us.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
I'm crying.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
That irritated me so bad this week because she was
so sincere with that big ass bow tie girl in
the city on the outfit was diabolical, heinous activity. Is
that how you dressed up to show your respect? This
that was spent on my grand I mean, oh god,

(02:59):
it's it's given, last resort.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
It's given. Nobody else was available. It's given. We run
out of Everybody was standing there with the balloon, waiting,
just waiting.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
But she had to give the Q though one two,
one two three releases.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
God, oh my god.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Okay, there's no reason for us to act like this that.
We have got to get it. Please get it together. Okay,
I'll pull it together. Now. Let's let's just let's try
to move on. Okay, A lot of stuff has been
going on here.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Enough girl laughing.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh friend, I'm so glad you asked me. Child, You're bestie, Ray.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Disrespect me? Please respect? What's happening girl?

Speaker 2 (03:54):
Why is Ray J on the internet saying he felt
disrespected by Beyonce because she called up to the Boy's
Mind tour, she took pictures with Monica, she didn't come
speak to Brandy, and I mean he just mad that
he feels like that she should have gone out her
way to you know that she took pictures with Kelly
Rowland and Patty Label and all the other people and

(04:16):
just skipped completely over Brandy and so.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
And notice how she didn't take a picture with him either.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Notice how he too did not get a picture with Brandy. Okay,
I think I'm just so tired of hearing about rage.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
I think it's like everything.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
But he said before he's done interviews, and he said,
nobody talks about my my boys and girls club.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
You too with them.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
He said, every time he going virus for something.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
He said.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
I said, well, I don't know what to tell you,
ray Jester, because Brandy's brother, that's what we know. You asked,
Wait a minute, Oh, wait a time, man, wait a minute,
I missed the one with.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Like Brandy don't even like him. It's just like ray
j Please stop.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Trying to come to her defense so you can be
written in the wheel. Just let it go because at
this point you're not getting uh, you're not getting nothing, everything.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
Nothing.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
Let it God forget. That's her uncle, girl, and I
love some Oh surprise that did this up?

Speaker 1 (05:28):
You No leave it in sa.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
We love your girl, But your uncle be cloud You
don't be cloudy, girl, he'd be cloudy.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
Asks your mother about him.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
She at this point, she's she can google she can
google her uncle and she see the foolishni that come out.
So apparently there are rumors suggesting that Brandy and Beyonce
had beef previously. Now, I did see an old interview
where Kelly and Brandy were talking and Brandy was saying
something about they sounding so country and Kelly being really

(05:57):
dark skin and stuff like that. I do remember that clip.
I'm sure they can probably find that clip and insert it.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
The first time was that soul trained? Soul Train? What
did tell me?

Speaker 4 (06:07):
How?

Speaker 1 (06:07):
I was like, I want to know, please, I just
need to know. She was so obnoxious? You did you
tell me?

Speaker 2 (06:14):
Like?

Speaker 1 (06:15):
What was I saying to you? I don't know. You
were just asking me and the girl's a whole bunch
of questions. Way y'all did it? Way y'all did it?

Speaker 4 (06:23):
What y'all? Seven?

Speaker 1 (06:27):
It was a whole bunch of questions. Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (06:30):
And remember we just gotten back from Jamaica. I was like,
the color of just really really chopped up. And I
mean you were like, ooh girl, you are dark. No
house is not.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
I seriously, I swear I was like, did I say
dark or black?

Speaker 4 (06:47):
Black? So I.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
It don't sound far fish that they may have beef.
I didn't know if they did or not, but I
guess is that what ray J was I said about.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
I mean, we're Cardy Beza, we got beef. We gotta
be forever. That's how she said. She also said a
whole never gets cold. Thanks for that extra tidbit. She
also said.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
This card this segment is called Cardi Collectible. Yeah, party colloquial.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Listen.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
I feel like I feel like if we got do
we have Bee forever? I just don't be feels like
I'm putting energy into something. I mean, you might not
be relevant to me.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
That's it. It's it's not a beat. It's not on
site a beat. It's just not unless unless you want
it to be not. Then we can discuss further. I mean,
if I see I don't even you don't exist in
my world no more.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Bee feels like I ain't putting energy in it. And
it's like every time I see you it's on site
and that's not I don't.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
Have a beautiful people.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
I'm not doing all either either I don't fool with
you or I mean I don't know what the alternative
would be, because if I don't fool with you, it's
just that it's just and.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
I think that's how Beyonce is moving. It's like, I
just don't fool with you.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
So and you know what, this was a lot of
speculation for a situation that we have no clue, Like
we really don't have anybody.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
That's who the source is. When people give you information,
an check your contact. The guy got dog on circ
this so last. Oh my god, it's the reporter.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
Get it from him first of the team, which is crazy.
He wasn't even at at the concert.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Got be for everybody. Lord, you know that's that's y'all. Friend.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
I don't really know him like that. Obviously, it's j
a friend to the show.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
You guys have let us know, so maybe, but yeah, girl,
it's a lot of foolish that's going on. Speaking of jail,
Netflix Shine, Netflix partnered up EP the documentary That's Gonna
bring Down Sean Demon I mean Diddy Combs.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
No, you was right? You was right? Okay, because did
he Definitely he did it.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Indeed the show that joint was Honestly, it was so
well done to me, I think it was very informative
for people that didn't grow up and during the nineties.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Thank you to see a lot of this stuff when
you don't know all the receipts is there.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
And then like also you kind of get to understand
like the behind the scenes of what's going on in
the music industry right absolutely, because a lot of people
leave the music industry or don't want to be a
part of it, and you don't understand why they never
want to tell you.

Speaker 1 (09:25):
It's like, nah, I just don't feel with that, but
people don't really like to tell you why. They can't
really fool with that.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
And this shit light on Everybody who knew and didn't
say anything, knew what this man was doing, bare witness
to a lot of things, even themselves were victims. It
still never came forth all because this man had power
and some man, you know, they were scared, you know,
they didn't know, and he was and some people were silenced.
A lot of people were silenced, people were threatened. You know,

(09:53):
if your favorite person goes missing because they try to
say something like our girls, I would say something either,
But I think I think we live in a different
time now, and in twenty twenty five, we can at
least try. I'm not excusing anybody who didn't say anything,
but Kirk Burrows, I think that's his name. Kirk Burrows

(10:16):
was the founding partner of Bad Boy. He sat up
through that entire documentary and said, I saw him do
that everything. I saw him do that everything. Put your
hands behind your back, absolutely, and then turn around was
like I was a victim too, which not taking away
you know what I'm saying from that, but I'm just
agree with you one hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
He wasn't a victim in the beginning, though.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
My thing is, in the beginning, you sat there and
you saw that man smack his mama, You saw him
beat up his girlfriends, You saw him cheating all the
time and just saying wild stuff. So you was cool
until he snatched them chairs. Yeah, he came to that
office with that bat, yeah, and said, give me signed
them shares over. You was cool with it, girl, and
signed them over. Now you want to assume something. It's
almost like I want to get hit with the bat.
I just want people get hit with backs and live

(10:57):
all the time. My thing is, whoop my ass? I
mean till I'm backing because now I got to sue
you for that, Okay, So I'm gonna get the shed
you're gonna you're gonna buy me out. You're gonna buy Okay,
I just I don't know would have took to be
And then even then if you kill me, the money
goes to my family.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
You know, it's a win win for you know, like
now you're left with nothing.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
It just and I've never broken a bone, so I'm
kind of trying to see what that's you.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Live? But did you die? Okay, Okay, that's how That's
the part.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
I just felt like it was a lot of it
was a lot of dry snitching throughout the dock.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
But but bro, you was in on it and he
knew everything.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
He even ordered the cars for them to drive when
talking about sup sir, have you ever ordered this man
eight different cars in four different states exactly for one
Vegas fight? Like, come on, man, that folks just be
I think peoples want to they want to.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Same.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
And attention is a hell of a drug because even
for the wrong reasons, people want to be in front
of the microphone, They want to be in front of
the camp they do they do that weird duror the girl,
oh my god, a fan, girl, full on fan. Then
the picture came out of her I'm guessing it was
the nineties. Took a picture with Diddy and just just

(12:18):
as ugly she was trying to hide her smile. She
was so happy she was she was happy to be
the juror. She was happy to be saying him. She
was happy to be in this netfix not you married?
She couldn't wait, Yep, she didn'tdn't wait.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
What about the.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Other girl who was with dirty money and ironic not
don the other one? I can't I can never remember
her name, Coleena, Coleeina, that's her name, Yeah, Coleina.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
What do you think about?

Speaker 2 (12:43):
I think for me to ask you for five grands
and keep custody on my kids and you tell me no,
why you are here killing people? It's crazy to write
a whole statement then call me and be like they're
gonna ask you about me?

Speaker 1 (12:55):
Can you tell somebody to do it and to do
it and to do it. It's just like allegedly allegedly
killing people. Yeah, we don't know, we don't know. I'm
a little I'm a little na.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
Because although I don't have any broke, that nigga allegedly
yeah white, they was pulling receipts and stuff just started
adding up. Now again, none of this has They haven't
gone to court and prosecuted him for any of the

(13:31):
the pocking biggie because he had twenty seven lawyers.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
Yeah, that's what a lot of money.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Hello, well you got that type of money, it's hard
to put him all the way under the jail. And
you know, the thing that really really really got me
about this documentary was.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
The man that they hired. Did he and Cassie hired
that man? Oh? God blocked that out? That man? Look,
I have lost that man, because what is that? The
only thing that I just was kind of like, I
just don't know. He looked like a fish out of water,
a large mouthed bass gasping for air. I said, what's

(14:15):
wrong with this man? I'm telling you, and you know what,
I don't put nothing. It's not that I don't believe.
I don't put nothing pass. Did it no more? You
could tell me?

Speaker 2 (14:24):
You could tell me did he stole a submarine and
drove it through the Capitol building in DC.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
I'm gonna be like, you know what, that sounds like
something he'll do. He could afford it. He could at
least at least go a nigga that the rent truck.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (14:38):
They can rent six vehicles to kill somebody in the nineties,
they could surely get a submarine show. So I mean,
I just that nothing is beyond did he I think
how much you think they pay people to do this documentary?

Speaker 1 (14:50):
I think they could pay people.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
Oh for real, I think people said they couldn't get
this is what I think. So I follow a few
attorneys and they were giving breakdowns of a lot of
the stuff. Did it actually issue the lawsuit? It wasn't
for defamation or slander. It was so he wasn't saying this.

(15:13):
He was saying, y'all got that that evidence illegally. So
he's suing Netflix and fifty cent for getting I guess
the the footage where he was with his sons in
the hotel room. Yeah, the last days leading up to
his arrest and the raids and stuff. He was saying
that they illegally obtained that footage?

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Did they illegally obtaining? Girl?

Speaker 2 (15:37):
Who cares we saw it? Because the yeah, it's like
we've seen it all. I think it's bout leg It's
it's not like you were saying, judge, we moved that
you strike that from the corporate No, we've seen it.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
Yeah, we know now.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
But I'm like, I thought that, so did his I
wonder if his videographer had him sign like an NDA
or a non disclosure something, because fifty cent paid his
videographer for that footage. Yeah, I mean, I feel like, honestly,
here's my thing. I feel like Diddy is such a narcissist.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
That girl's bad.

Speaker 2 (16:07):
He recorded all of it. First of all, you're you're
about to go to prison. You know you're about to
go to He looks shook, and the cameras are rolling.
He looks, why are the cameras rolling because you are
preparing yourself for a documentary of some kind. You're a narcissist.
You even want to put this party in.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, that's crazy. It's wild, if I'm.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
Thinking, when they don't think you did nothing wrong, I
was getting ready to go to prison. First of all,
I'm gonna be boo boo with my stomach is gonna
be so tow up. I'm gonna be at my mama house.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Boom away my mama.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
Girl. That mama though, because we want to be at
that mama's house. Big Mama in your arm, ain't nobody
cutting off my.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
That lady was crazy, you know what.

Speaker 2 (16:57):
You know what bothered me and I try to be
super official about stuff. But when she said she was like, well,
you know, I used to work in a in an
after hour spot and all the men thought I was glamorous.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
And then they did. They showed a flashback picture of her.
Is the glamorous in the room.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
And I said, I'm not saying that you were unattractive.
I think what I know about you is making me
think you yeah one. And now I was at the palace,
I was like, exactly because her being abusive. Let's be clear,
this is not in any way excusing anything did he
has done, but that mama being abusive like she was

(17:39):
and exposing him to that lifestyle even after his dad
has already deceased. Part ain' I'm telling what his daddy
was into while he but he wanted his daddy to
be in something so bad. He wanted them His mother
be like, we got food now? Was he be like
when I was young, I ain't have no food in
the house.

Speaker 1 (17:53):
She was cooking.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
My teacher told me I wasn't gonna be no Exactly,
she asked you to read out loud and you got
me thank you because the black cat n had passed the.

Speaker 1 (18:09):
Slow Yeah, but why he always has? I tell you
who wasn't glamorous? This was him, girl, that that wasn't glamorous.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
I was like, I've never seen a dumb you know
the Dunce Sins.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
Have you ever seen one? It's ditty everything. Girl.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
Every time he flashed on the screen, I got chills.
I said, the grim Reapers here. I'm so scared.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
Yeah, that wasn't glamorous, slow as hell, and I'm like,
how do you keep from drooling on yourself? I know
them teeth was cold? You're thinking about?

Speaker 2 (18:42):
I was so girl, why did Andre Harrel look at
that man like he wanted to put him on a
plane and stop him up with? Because it had me question.
The more I watched, the more people came in question
for me. And may that man rest in peace if
he's innocent. Andre Herrel looked like he had an inappropriate
relationship with DIDDI also absolute.

Speaker 1 (19:04):
It was not It was not.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
Giving father son. It was given a strange deliver. Give
you want to rise? To keep rising to?

Speaker 4 (19:12):
Now?

Speaker 2 (19:15):
I got a rise for your I'm trying to stupa
he said.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Did he move there before me? Sir? That should be impossible.
Thank you?

Speaker 2 (19:25):
How did he get the key? Your nasty? Because why
is you if they living and then somebody else was
living with him? Wasn't it another man? Yeah, that's another man.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
I can't remember who it was. I don't remember what
was a Craig mac He said it was living with him?
Who was living with him? That somebody else was living
with him? Who was it?

Speaker 2 (19:45):
All we need to know is that it was another man.
And this is already getting more and more suspicious as
the page. Okay, real, my god. Well I learned a
lot of things that I didn't necessarily need to learn.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
I wanted to learn, and thank you for letting me now.
But you know, we it's it's really an eye opener.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
And I don't think I don't think people really understand
the nature of truly abusive relationships.

Speaker 1 (20:12):
Why didn't you just leave? It's not that simple.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
When somebody literally controls every aspect of your life.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
He put Cassidy in a ten album. That's crazy. Contract, Beyonce,
don't even have I'm so sorry, but I only know
of one.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
You've been waiting so long, and she still was waiting.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
She waited so long, she waited so long. No, she waited,
she waited mad long. It was mad wait time. And
we all were we were waiting with.

Speaker 2 (20:50):
Gen albums, And I like this is that was a
trap at the door abuse aside.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
Okay, Cassie was not She was not a powerhouse vocalist.
She wasn't you know.

Speaker 2 (21:04):
It's not like she was gonna be the next you
know what I'm saying. I think that he he did.
He gave her hits, she had writing partners and things
like that, not taking away from her success, but he
definitely dangled a carriage, absolutely, And the girl was nineteen
and she was looking at him as powerful. I imagine
being that so many people famous. Imagine being a kid

(21:24):
and somebody is like, oh, we're going to get.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
You all the fame.

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Yeah, And it's something so sickening about this industry. People
are literally bloodthirsty for attention, not necessarily not specifically him. Yeah,
now you got what a like vulture, somebody who really
needs to be in the limelight some of all the time,
all the time to murder your biggest murders and then
get right on the stage and every time and made

(21:50):
him pay for his funeral or I can't even talk
about it. Making him pay for his funeral was crazy?
Did he was a wild guy?

Speaker 4 (21:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (21:56):
He was, and people was laying him get away. And
that's why you.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
Just feed the east when you never get caught. Yeah,
a lot of people tried to sue him, try to
do things.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
But he never did any time.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
For even Shine took the dip for the gun situation
like he just never did.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
And it's time. And I want to just say this too,
Like the black.

Speaker 2 (22:13):
Community, we have to let go of that Oh, ain't
no snitch mentality, because that's how children get abused, that's
how murderers go free, that's how drugs keep infiltrating our
homes and all these other it's so many negative results.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
Yeah, when you sweep stuff under the rug and hide.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Things, black people are we are notorious for keeping secrets.
I'm telling you, because what goes on in my house
needs to stay in my house, right And that's the problem.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
That's true, that's.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
True, that's how you raise and to be And I'll
be honest with you now, fifty cent is not my
favorite person. But to be mad at fifty cent and
not Diddy, that's right, Fine, that's what scares me about y'all.
Y'all are very mad at I don't care how petty
he is. Yes, we know fifty cent is petty. We're
seeing how he moved. But either way, the fact that
people needed to know who this person was, and y'all

(23:02):
so mad and decent for putting this information out here
and not mad and Diddy speaks volume.

Speaker 4 (23:08):
Well.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
The thing is, y'all need to stop tearing down our
black icons. It's that an icon, girl, the way I
feel like black men are the demolition crew.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
Y'all know, y'all love telling us.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
Y'all tear down black men like all these white men
get away with it.

Speaker 1 (23:22):
So you want to.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
Be excused for rape, murder and abuse like white men
because white men.

Speaker 1 (23:28):
Can get you. That's what you want, so just justice
be damned.

Speaker 2 (23:32):
You don't care about right, So that's nobody showed you
accounta because the white man can do it.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
But then, y'all, that's our part, not to be like
the white man. Man.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
But then you want to be like the white man
all the time. Make it make sense all the time.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
I think it's that.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
And they don't even want to be like the white man.
I think it's this proximity to power that they're chasing.
They want to be able to do whatever unchecked. No,
and me personally, I'm gonna check you every time. Yeah,
I've got that's a no. I got to check check,
Mike check. I got to check you every time. Funky Fresh. Sure,

(24:04):
there was no reason for me to say I'm so sorry, guys,
but yeah, that you know, I hope he honestly, I
hope they find a way to charge him with too.
He don't get is not need to forever, like seriously,
he needs to die in prison.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
And there's some people they didn't talk about. But we
can move on. How does she do? We never dated that.

Speaker 2 (24:29):
I was hoping they gave us some information about that.
But when she I remember when she passed, Alby Sure
was on Instagram, posted some very cryptic message I'll be sure.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Almost died too, and said did he did it? And
it was something Jamie Fox. Now Jamie plays too much?

Speaker 2 (24:44):
Though, No, I don't think he was playing well. I
don't think he was playing for I think well he
laughed about it on stage. Yeah, he laughed about it.
I don't think he was playing really, I'm dead serious,
he said, to.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
He's not gonna answer. You don't know that. J What
if I just called him, don't to Jamie. Shame over there.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
Because I will say, man, quickest way to get blocked
by somebody. But you know what, fifty is petty. But
I don't think he's too petty. I think let's do
a fifty cent documentary too, because that baby mama that
you got and that one kid that you don't see
the way remember because he was like yes my son, yes,
but your wife.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
He was sitting a bride McKnight. It was throwing you off.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
It was a lot of foolishness going on. And I
think the only thing pettier than fifty cent is that
lady on TikTok that drove three hours with an apology
in hand for this man to read because he left
the racist comment under her post.

Speaker 1 (25:51):
She drove.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
She she pulled up on him and said, see how
easy it was for me to find. Now, now read
this apology. I'm to tell your wife about your grindery.
That'll clench my boot hold right on up.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
That's one of them. Go to your mama house and
boom boo.

Speaker 2 (26:03):
Okay, got got to get it out of a chair. One, two, one,
two three, releasing the way he sat there and said.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
I am so sorry for he says this, Mike, which
camera smile. Here is this thing. He was scared.

Speaker 2 (26:20):
He was He said, please don't tell Susan about this grind.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
That is kill me. He did not want that type
of petty.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
I mean, I've never seen anything like it, and I've
never been more proud.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
I mean, as an African American black letter raise a
glass to that. Okay, I think she.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
Deserves a drinks. Cheers to that woman right there. I
think she deserves a stiff drink. I love that lady,
because you know.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
I love a little I like what I like. I
love a little little yes.

Speaker 2 (26:55):
But yeah, girl, you know people lease stuff like that
on our pages all the time, and I girl, we
get bread for filth, honey, baby, the way I be
reading them right back, and I'm gonna still say what
I gotta say because y'all lucky, I'm not saying what
I gotta say right now, or yeah, that.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
One's for you, chicken nutgigs. She got something.

Speaker 2 (27:28):
Ed that out it right in there, put it right
in there, like they said, she got some things she
needs to say. Why people be trying to girl, ain't
beat in them comments. You know, I told you, I
told you how I feel about the comments. I'm going
to take that and make more content and make more
money off of it. So you could come off here
talk crazy if you want to. But if you might
be famous, yeah, so I don't know. I mean I

(27:50):
feel that, But it's like, why should we be so censor?
I think, like that's the only thing I don't like.
When people are telling the truth or they got something
to say, it's like people want to flip it on you,
like you're wrong for bringing this to the lamp line.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
That's only even with the race what I'm.

Speaker 2 (28:01):
Talking about with the racist it's just like, why are
you attacking me for bringing something like this to the limelight,
Like now I'm the villain because they wanted attention, Because
when we think.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
About these people, a lot of stuff they do's rage bake.

Speaker 2 (28:14):
Naturally, you wouldn't have put it online if you didn't
think that people was gonna have something.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
It's absolutely you're so pressed to be famous, to be.

Speaker 2 (28:20):
Known, to get those views up that you're literally doing
stuff to get the attention. So you really should now
you're ting so now you're mad because I gave you attention. Crazy,
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
Crazy.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
People don't be upset at the action, they be upset
at the reaction. Yeah, and that's what I don't understand. Yeah,
because the whole the girl that I posted, it's over
a million views now, shout out to y'all. Money made,
So we're good with that. But the way the people
in the comments was like.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
I can't believe you. You're just as racist as her.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
And I said, first of all, black people cannot be right,
thank you, what I am as prejudiced, and that with
good reason.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
History. Shall we take a look for one hundred years ago.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
But it's it's so crazy to watch people in real
time just crash out.

Speaker 1 (29:06):
Oh my literally crashed out.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
I mean crash out in the comments, like they get
so passionate. And the thing is, it's like, I don't
even think y'all realize that a lot of times Be
and Joline are serious, but we're really we're.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Really that serious.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
We're saying stuff to bring it to y'all senship, but
we're not at home pondering on this thing, writing a
journal or any like.

Speaker 1 (29:28):
We just say it, put it out there, bring it
to you at sens and we move. It's just content, guys.
That's it. That's what we do. That's it. You even
don't understand that. They don't. It's not your it's not
your life, it's not your job.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Yeah, people got a lot of people can't get it,
can understand that because they wouldn't, you know, do something
like that.

Speaker 1 (29:45):
But I mean they haven't done anything.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
I don't know you, you know me, So you haven't
put out any cause you're the thing is you're over
here on my page coming in.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
On something that I did. Go to hell exactly, okay, because.

Speaker 2 (29:57):
You could have just crawled by, you could have just
because what's wrong with that? What's wrong with just scrolling
too much? Like right, they can't do that. They need
to tell you, They need to tell.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
You about yourself. I gotta get this this insult off.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
Gotten to get it off because my girlfriend don't respect me,
my mama don't respect my husband, and ran over me
for the last twelve years of our marriage. Like, people
have their own things going on, and when I learned that,
I started treating them comments differently. If you say something
that's just wild, I'm gonna blove it. Like, but if
you say something goofy screenshot posts that my followers eat
you up.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
Yeah, And I said, I might either start taking one
out because I.

Speaker 2 (30:32):
Mean, I'm gonna get if white people can monetize their racism.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
Yes, surely I can monetize it. Whytch you not that
this is ever gonna happen. But why should you be
the one to get flagged?

Speaker 2 (30:43):
Well, I mean, because like I didn't stop that the
girl was putting out. It was crazy, it was wild,
It was bad, y'all, Like it was the most racist thing.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
And you can go to let me run her numbers
up real quick hand because the thing that the girl
was saying was so great. And then you comment and you.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
Be the one to get flagged, and they say you're
a bully, right, you're the one, and I and I
resemble that remark. Call me a bully all you want to,
because it's like people don't understand nothing they do wrong
until you do it back to them. And I don't
feel sorry for you. This girl knew exactly what she
was doing when she did this. She wanted the attention.
You got the platter, here, you got it. Here you go,

(31:26):
So don't have your feelings hurt now, that. I guess
who's coming to dinner.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Thank you? Okay, speaking of dinner.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
Speaking of dinner, we got one more holiday to get through. Friends, Frank,
I don't want the same thing.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
I'm tired of that. Men, you eat another ham.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
We got to eat another pot of chiplings, more greens,
f collars, mustard.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
I'm having to seafood boil. I don't want to. I
don't want it. I put collar greens in there.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
If you put greens in the bag of sea food,
I'm gonna be a sou I'm gonna make a video
at this. I'm gonna be writing the comments. Save me up,
back right, save me up. I want that girl, y'a
don't want to Jamaica eat like anything but that girl.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
You can't big on your arm. You can't.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
You can't contradict black people's traditions. We got to get
these candy game. I don't want it, mac and cheese.
Ain't nobody cutting off my hot roast.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
I just don't want it.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
Sweep potato pots, cake, lemon. My stomach is hurting. Got
to have some chiplings. Got to you're about to get
up because that's some boot boom.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
I'm not eating.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
Baby before I stopped eating pork. I haven't had pork
in maybe four or five years. I'm from the country.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
Baby.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
We eat the pig from the root to the tutor.
You hear me, I see why you stop eating pork.
Yep for you.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
From the room. We turn that pig inside out.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
We need everything off that pig, the ears that snout,
the feet, the tail they're leting.

Speaker 1 (33:01):
We don't waste no hog. I just can't. I don't
want this.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
I think it'd be different if you grew up theren
here because it's a lot of it's a lot of
stuff that we just do in the country, you know, But.

Speaker 1 (33:12):
People be taking that with them, you know, I know.
I mean, we're no longer slaves. You don't have the.

Speaker 2 (33:18):
Like you can definitely. I don't know if you're heard,
but we's freeing now.

Speaker 1 (33:24):
Massa said, we can go, we can breath and everything.

Speaker 2 (33:29):
Yeah, we don't friend. I just I want something else.
I don't know whoever feels that way. Maybe y'all are
cool with eat, but.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
It's like, why we didn't switch it up. I mean,
I don't know the same thing. Again.

Speaker 2 (33:40):
I think it's just we're all communing together as a family.
Let's just do the's just running back, we're just spending
time together.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
So let's just I'm not gonna put them.

Speaker 2 (33:51):
Well, there's that, okay, some of the hell So who
do you invite for holidays?

Speaker 1 (33:58):
Who can come to your house? People?

Speaker 4 (34:00):
I like?

Speaker 1 (34:01):
Just so that so two people got it? All right,
we're gonna wrap this showing up.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
No, but I uh, there was a story, you know,
former former NFL player was invited to Russell Wilson's home
for the holiday, and he got his fish mouth behind
on the internet and told people Russell Wilson family, his
mama didn't come, his sister didn't come, and and my
thing is, and it's the problem.

Speaker 1 (34:29):
Thank you. I invited you thinking you was a.

Speaker 2 (34:31):
Good person that had all the people I didn't invite.
You didn't even realize how lucky you were. And then
my thing is, you are talking about who didn't come
to my Where are your family at? Exactly why you
ain't go to your mama? Where their sister? Keisha Militia?
Soandra all about.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
Three Kim, like.

Speaker 2 (34:49):
Everybody, I don't like what people do that. I don't
like when people do that. And that's why people don't.
I'm you know, how I feel. I don't mind going
to visit people, but my family knows I will see
y'all a few hours and a year.

Speaker 1 (35:03):
Yeah, she goes, I'm gonna see you a few hours
a year.

Speaker 2 (35:05):
I'm coming in the day before, I'm staying the day,
and then I'm out of there. Everybody knows this about that.
I don't mean no harm, but I can't. I can't
take than forty eight hours.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
Yeah, girl. This year I had Thanksgiving at my house.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
It was a lot that went on overall, but I
decided to have mine and I was just with my friends,
Like I didn't do the whole fit my cousin. I
had three cousins there, okay, and my sister was supposed
to come, but she didn't buy. I was just surrounded
by friends and that was like the best things Giving
I've had in a long time. And I'll tell you why,
because wasn't nobody hassling me about what I was going

(35:40):
through in the moment. Everybody wasn't get me when you're
gonna settle down, like when you're gonna have a kid,
Like where's how you feeling last year? Ain't a little
wait then you Oh my gosh, where your mama at
who's your friend?

Speaker 1 (35:52):
That is agree stressful, It is fait stressful. I just
didn't have to deal with that. I just hung out
a blessing.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
Oh my god, it was such a vibe and that
was the best Thanksgiving I've ever had.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
So I will probably run that back with a seafood
boy and greens. You know, I had to house hot girl.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
I have a My family is huge, So that's another
reason why people don't understand.

Speaker 1 (36:14):
They be like, you don't never want to go home.
It's so many of them.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
It's so many and everybody's kids have it's kids everywhere
and out. Please don't I know my mama is listening
to this. Please know that I love y'all very dearly.
But it's a lot of us. So I have to
go see my mom's side. Then I have to go
see my dad's side.

Speaker 1 (36:33):
Doing all of this, okay.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
So we'll get in the car every holiday, well, Thanksgiving,
the Christmas, if I go, we'll just get in the car.
We'll stop by my aunty house, my auntie. Usually just
everybody comes to her house. They chee cooks, I mean
lasagn Ya, greens, macaroni cheese. Girl five a Talian this
year five.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
It'd be good.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
She does all of that, so I know when I
go over there, that's where you getting the good, good food.
Now my brother his wife goes down. Oh so you're
eating at all these different places.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Over the house.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yes, she'd be making a bomb pot roast. The pot
roast was this year she made. I don't know if
it was her first time making mac and cheese. Was good,
busting my niece were her little cute self. She made
a kool a pie.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
Oh t T.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Couldn't eat that, diabetes, but it was adorable. I was like,
look at my baby cooking.

Speaker 1 (37:26):
So she was proud of he kool a pie.

Speaker 2 (37:28):
My brother did a turkey and then we had to
go to my cousin house.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
My daddy is so we had to go. We was
are you eating in every single house? Yes, jure lying.
I can't. Yes, I cannot, but this one because.

Speaker 2 (37:42):
Then when I go to now, when I go to
my cousin house, which is on my dad's side, my auntie,
that's where the desserts is at. Okay, hair, I'm okay.
Lemon pound cake. We put hate up this lady. Make
a chocolate cake. Make you want to slap your mother
because not mine. Hello, because never mind, let's but I mean,
like the lady just throws down, and so it's like

(38:04):
I have to go to each house.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Okay, so you have a plan. I got to have
them because what I'm hearing is that you go specific
places for specific things. You're not getting the same plate
over and over and ooh.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
Damn, little lady, my god, where's Geraldin's back in the kitchen?

Speaker 1 (38:23):
Back in the kitchen? The trick?

Speaker 2 (38:24):
And with my head held high because I'm not ashamed
and I wanted to go play.

Speaker 1 (38:28):
I bring my own tupperware. Okay, yep, but.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
I do that we house because we have to like
our like everybody's doing that. I can't expect my dad's
side on my mom's side to necessarily get together because
they're different sides.

Speaker 1 (38:42):
You know, I have y'all ever just tried it? I mean,
we do? What is that the thing you're doing? Mad? Like?
Have y'all ever just tried that on a Thanksgiving level? No?
I would refuse. You don't want to be around? No,
that's too much. How many? Give me a number? Just
give me a number. So when we do the thing
in May, it's probably like seventy people. That's a lot

(39:02):
of pep. There's a lot of people a lot, but
we have land. So my parents they have land. Yeah,
well you know, come on, generational wealth.

Speaker 2 (39:11):
Yes, I'm glad, No, this is fine, but I just
had a really sad thought. I was like, I'm going
to miss those two when they go.

Speaker 1 (39:20):
Friend, I know, I know, I'm grieving. I know, I know,
I know. Okay, let's reset.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
I'm sorry, I had a really sad thought. I'm sorry,
I'm really sorry. All right, everything's fine, everyone's okay, okay, okay,
well you know, I mean, no, we don't finish it differently.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
So younger, I go.

Speaker 2 (39:42):
To everybody house and I eat as much as I
can because I because I can.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
Likely there's literally no other reason. I just be eating.

Speaker 2 (39:50):
Friend, God lord, you but you can't go to my
aunt house and not get the lasagna. You can't go
to my other aunt house and not get the caramel cake.
You can't go to my brother house and not get
the pot rolls. Like like I wish I could just
go to each place, have my plate ready, and then
when I get home all the stuff I love.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
That's fire. I mean, you're welcome to come on, of.

Speaker 2 (40:10):
Course, you invited me to the thing, and ma'am coming.
We're white hand, so I mean we got to go
to grease stuff. Oh yeah, I will go to grease
and then we'll come back and we'll do that.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
Okay, cool.

Speaker 2 (40:20):
I think that's more than enough.

Speaker 1 (40:23):
Episode complete.

Speaker 2 (40:26):
All right, y'all, Well, now that I'm being kicked out,
you've got to go home.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
You got to get the hell about it. You hear
me Boots Scout game.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
So if you want to see the visuals, we are
here on Thursdays on YouTube. If you want to hear
the audio, you can listen to us wherever you listen
to your podcast. Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe,
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