October 25, 2025 • 14 mins
Girl Talk dives into everything from viral content boundaries to defending your mama in public (and almost going to jail over it). They cap things off with a passionate debate about tipping culture — when it’s deserved, when it’s not, and why asking for a tip on the card reader feels like robbery with a smile. By the end, you’ve gotten relationship advice, voter motivation, and a side of laughter so good you might just tip them.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Now let's have a little girl talk because you know,
you never got to get a little mess. So you know,
when we go out for girls nights, it's not this
ain't no issue with us, but the people want to
know who is paying for.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
What when we go out together.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, we don't give a damn about that.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Really talk about but he was really about to talk
about something because you know, people like to get on
the internet and they like to broth.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
People like to get on the internet to figure out
who gonna pay.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Well, I'm not in that category, and I'm sorry, like
time to think about stuff like that. I think it
matters who I'm with in the nature of the relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Get me and you what.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
No, I'm saying just in general.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
So when I go out with whoever, Yeah, because I
don't do large party stuff, let's just split everything evenly. No,
because I don't know what all y'all ate when I'm
out with you, it doesn't matter. Sometimes I'll pay, sometimes
you will pay, Sometimes we'll split it. Sometimes we'll get
our own check. Like it's that's not a thing that
comes up with us. But for a lot of people,
they're saying, well, if y'all go out to eat thing.
Y'allo just slit everything. If you order forty dollars with
(01:01):
a food and I ordered ten dollars worth of food,
why are we splitting the bill? So I have been
in that situation and I have split the bill just
because I don't feel like doing all that calculations, like
if we all cool, let's just say meet you and
like another person go on to other person. Yeah, that's
why I'm not And if it's like somebody's birthday, I'm
definitely not about to be like, girl, here go you chuck.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
No, if it's your birthday, you're not paying.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You know what I'm saying like this, So it's like,
I guess it's just like you said.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
It really depends on the people.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
If I'm being invited out with a bunch of people
I don't know, yeah I'm not there and I'm going
up to her, give me my shit, because I'm saying
before you even noticed, like whatever one hand and closed me.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I closed me out now.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
But when it comes to like when it comes to
like my friends and stuff, I don't be pressed about
the split and I just be like, just split it,
like that's how I feel.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
But if they are like adamant about like, no, I
don't want to.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I ain't gonna argue, right, you know, that's actually less
money that I have, less money that I have to
pay if you decide to do it that way. So
it's cool, but I don't know. I'm very specific when
it come to my friends. I don't like doing all
that splitting and stuff like that. That's not my jam.
I think it's just I'm not doing it. Like I
don't go to large birthday parties. I'm not doing all
of that because I think that's too much. If it's
three four people, yeah, let's just split it and keep
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it going. But people will go out and it'll be
twenty five people getting.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Around rig Because why you sit there and order a rack.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Of ri seafood Tower girl for six lemon drop flights,
explain yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Please all for you and talking about less split it
grid beat your ass for I put the tab.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Your ass, I will ask.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I will take you out back and wear you out
because you never thought you never thought you could eat
enough for a small village in Sound, and I was
gonna pay I go.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
To hair.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
That would get me tight too, Like absolutely, girl.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
People just be trying it. The people that want to
spend all the time.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I think that they're the ones that have have created
this this system where they go places and they order
too much and they know that they can get only
get on their own.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
That's what I'm saying. I'm immersed by me. I know
I eat a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Oh god, I'll be prepared to so much.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Whoa, you sure can't put it away a little lad.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Little lady is crazy, little miss muth.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Oh my god, you sure can't put it away? And
away I.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Put it because, oh my goodness, I know she'd be
tired of me because I'm like, you hungry.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I'm like, she can't always eat it?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Don't always hungry. I'm right now, Yeah, I'm hungry.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I have to think about it, he said.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
In the morning, Pat I already got a scheduled to
go to places and get Really, why she's here.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I don't play every time I know my girl in town.
I'm like, okay, so this we we're gonna go eat
it and it's good.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Car I said, she normal food, because well we're gonna
do is eat good.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
We're gonna eat good every time we go somewhere. But
I think that's that's the it has to be. It
has to be reciprocal, and I don't think people be
When people are trying to force folks to split stuff
or force people to take more than their share, I
don't think it's reciprocal because you probably wouldn't do that
for me. You wouldn't let me sit up and eat
two hundred dollars worth of food and then you pay
for half of it, even though you had a sailing
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in the water.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
You wouldn't do that.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
That's why you at her ordering like yes, So I
think that bottom line, if you ain't got no money,
thank your bro s head, because that's what the song says. Agreed,
Just just go ahead and take your broke heads home.
So now when it comes to them nail shops, y'all
gonna crucify me because I put a video up yesterday
and they ate my ass. I said, I'm not tipping
(04:46):
at the nailsop shop.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I'm not look at your nails and looking.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
About to say, well there is a thing difference. I'm
not tipping for this. I do be okay you. I
agree with you.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
If you if you're sitting at the nail shopping getting
this time, yes, I would till this is this is elaborate.
It is very this is custom designs, this is all
types of this is a lot of work. That.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yeah, that's why if you don't put two.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Colors of mandarin orange on these nails and let me
act just damn.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I agree, y'all agree with that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
I just think it depends on, like you said, what
type of nails are you getting?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I know, my nails take a long time.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
They be really like it's very intricate.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
But if you just getting polished, why do you have
to why do you have I already pay one hundred
and fifty dollars for my nails and my toes.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Yeah, if you wanted one seventy, you should have asked
me for what.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
They say in the comments, They say that you can't
afford to get your nails done.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Just stay help.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Here's the gag. I can't afford to get my nails done.
I just don't want to feel forced to tip. Now
I want to see those gnarl fingers. I need to
see the comments because now I want to see those
gnar and they and the judgment is based off of well,
you know a lot of times people that work in
salons like that, they don't get the full amount. They're
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almost know that like service. I ain't never seen a
black person behind the registered how they know, how they
know what's getting all of their money.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
And that's what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I just feel like, if you already charging me enough,
like girl, I'm not gonna argue with you, You're finna
take this money and swipe my car for what I said.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
You're gonna slip before.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That's it why I walk out of here. Your business
and you literally just.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Said if you were getting designs and everything, you would
have a different perspective. So it's not even that you
just feel like what they doing is not anything.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It's not enough for me.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
And you didn't say that I don't pay y'all missing
it Like she's not saying I'm not paying them at all.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
She's just saying, you didn't go the extra. You didn't
do anything outside of your job description that you were supposed.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
And anybody could have did. Yeah, I ain't got a
nigga in the back.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
That's just started last week. Last week, I got a
girl back there with three fingers knocking head out in
two seconds. I'm saying, elaborate. I feel that, and I
know that I felt so attacked.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Oh friend, I'm gonna get them.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Show me them narrow fingers they got because I know,
I know that's how they look. Somebody had to type
that like this, type them calm and just like with
their knuckles, show me wrong.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
But it's okay though.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
It's okay though because the nail still got done and
everybody in the comments can still be mad.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
But I'm still not gonna tip. I'm still not gonna
see it.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
And then, you know, I don't like the guilt trip
of it all because they make it feel like you
have to tip them, like, yeah, they make you feel
like you gotta tip them, or like asking me whenever
people ask me.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
For a tip.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Now I am going to tip for my nails. That's
a whole nother situation. But whenever people ask me for
a tip, I don't.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Let me do it because yeah, I hate I hate
these how much you want to tip? Right?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Showing me the screen is girl? Jump scared?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Okay, girl, I turned in the tip rubber band man
wild as a tailer band.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I gotta that's a tip for I gotta tip. I
got it. I got a tip for you.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
I gotta tip. Don't eat eggs out and ride the bus.
That's your tip away from raw oyster. Look, let God
work it out. Jesus is on the main. That's my tip.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Okay, thou shalt not steal because I'm about to no ball,
I don't like that. I don't ask you.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I would tip a server if I feel like you
gave me great service. I'm gonna tip in general because
I'm gonna say I tip anyway.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
I don't know that that I do. They're not getting paid.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah, exactly, that's why I'm tipping like that. But if
you didn't do great service, oh I might tip you
a dollar. No, dre Lane, I'm so sorry. That's one
thing I cannot compromise on. If you are a nasty
person and you give me bottom of the barable service,
serve in the tip. Oh no, I can't even My
heart won't even let I'll take mediocre service and still
(08:41):
give you a tip. Right when you got McDonald's attitude?
Here do people at McDonald's get tips?
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Man?
Speaker 2 (08:47):
This is red licke exactly. Oh no, no, no, no no, I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Not dealing with no nasty attitude and tipping. You'm not
gonna encourage that activity. Like what I need you to know,
is you got to change that to get more money?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
No, I know.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
I knew a god one time when I worked at
a restaurant. He would come in like every Wednesday or something.
He would order the same thing, and he would sit
in the same seat, and he would leave one hundred
dollar bill on the table at the beginning of the meal,
and whoever had that table was going to get that
one hundred dollars as long as they gave him great service.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
If you messed up, he'll take one hundred off the table.
He'll put a fifth take out. And it was such
a mind f I was like, I never even want
to wait on him. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
That is like messing with your psyche. Yoah, I don't
like that because.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
I forgot to ring your desertger my anxiety crazy. Yeah,
but I thought that was such an interesting approach to it,
because I feel a way about people only wanting to
give me appropriate service or do the bare minimum or
do a great job if they're being tipped. Yeah, I
shouldn't have to tip you for you to give me
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good service and for you to remember me and be like,
oh she tipped me well last time.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Let me, let me treat her nice. You should treat
everybody you.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Should, you should, and those oh my god, the people
who do that, girl, they get all my money. The
ones who just treat people because I don't see it
just for me. I see how you treat people even
around me, Like if we let's use the Neilson since
that's where we're at, and like you're just sweet to everybody.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Like I'm watching you maybe help your colleague with something,
or you're picking up this, or maybe you see that
somebody is working on something so they couldn't get their station,
Like I'm watching how you just navigating through this space authentically,
just being yourself like that. Those are the people I
want to give extra money to and tip, like yes,
and I don't mind it. I think people think we
think it's a problem. Not a lot of love to
say black people don't tip, And I'm like, oh I tip.
(10:40):
All black people do tip. But if you gonna come
up here with stank attitude because I'm black and you
think I'm not gonna tap, then no, I'm not gonna tap.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Let me tell you who I didn't tip today this morning?
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Lord?
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Because uber driving? Oh let me tell you who I
didn't tip. First, I was nervous. I sent all the
information to Dreling. I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
I won't elaborate. I'll let you figure out why.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Secondly, why in the world, and hey, correct me if
I'm wrong, Why in the world would you pick a
woman up from the airport and not offer to put
her luggage in the bag. And you a man, you
sat right in the car, popped the trunk, not the trunk, disgusting,
and I had to get my luggage. And I'm not
saying that this is no limo service. I'm not saying
this is not. But the fact that you sat in
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the car, popped the trunk and had me really struggling
with this bag to put it in the trunk. Then
when I got out, you did not get out take
it out side. Those type of people don't get no
tip from me. And I don't care if you're doing uber.
That to me is a part of the service. That
is a part of your tip. And you not getting
my luggage and watching a woman do it, and you
popping the trunk and you sitting there with the seat
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all the way back is why chilling, chilling, chilling, chilling,
driving so fast.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I said, then you scaring me. I'm trying to get
to my location and safely, ain't. Girl.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
He dipp it, dip it in the little things on
the side, you could tell he's not serious about it.
He's just trying to make some money. That's and that's
why you won't make any laundering business.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
You laundering exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
I know a laundering business. When I see why, I
was scared for my life.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I seen everything, his face, his car, his license plate
where I was to jerling because I said, I don't
know what's about to happen.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Girl, we know you was like that.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
You was not gonna go within.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
I was gonna say, you was not gonna go down
without a fight, because we was gonna call Carmeen San Diego,
Willie Walka, the Chocolate Factor. He's gonna call the FBI, everybody, whoever,
Greta Thornberg. He was gonna call everybody. Girl, I ain't
like that, but those type of people. Don't you have
to help me with my luggage?
Speaker 3 (12:46):
I mean, that's what I feel like. That's beear man.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Woman said, you're a man.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I don't know if I'm expecting the same from a woman,
But I am I was expecting that from a man.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm expecting it from an uber driver.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, if you are coming to pick me up from
the airport and I have bags, get out and put
my backs in the car.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Why would you be in the back seat with me?
Because that's how far the see went back?
Speaker 1 (13:04):
While here in the back seat with me drop playing
Patty I can look at him playing Patty Cake about one.
Oh my god, what you say you was?
Speaker 3 (13:20):
You were shocked in apalled? Who is you? Got a way? Thanks?
Be driving by theyself? I can I say? My friend
got picked up from my crib by way more.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
It pulled up gird the lights started flashing like it's
trying to get in, but when he got in, it
immediately locked out the doors.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
I said. I was terrified.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
That's what I don't be liking to do when I
go places, and we be trying to get rental cars
everywhere we go if we travel somewhere, because I don't
like being at the mercy of someone else, especially in
another country when I don't speak the language, and I
can't even I'm not familiar where I'm going or none
of that. Got to have a rental car, you got
to and one man I suggest you do that, like
you need a rental car, stop getting in the car
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with strangers, or I don't care if you don't drink,
that's the issue, yall, Like we're gonna be don't don't
or no, you're element sober up before you get in
the car. But I just don't agree with going to
other countries and getting a taxi uber I don't care.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I'm not and then gets sop up like what the don't.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Then all the signs is up, but you can't read
them because you don't know the language, so you can't
even
Now let's have a little girl talk because you know,
you never got to get a little mess. So you know,
when we go out for girls nights, it's not this
ain't no issue with us, but the people want to
know who is paying for.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
What when we go out together.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, we don't give a damn about that.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Really talk about but he was really about to talk
about something because you know, people like to get on
the internet and they like to broth.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
People like to get on the internet to figure out
who gonna pay.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Well, I'm not in that category, and I'm sorry, like
time to think about stuff like that. I think it
matters who I'm with in the nature of the relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Get me and you what.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
No, I'm saying just in general.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
So when I go out with whoever, Yeah, because I
don't do large party stuff, let's just split everything evenly. No,
because I don't know what all y'all ate when I'm
out with you, it doesn't matter. Sometimes I'll pay, sometimes
you will pay, Sometimes we'll split it. Sometimes we'll get
our own check. Like it's that's not a thing that
comes up with us. But for a lot of people,
they're saying, well, if y'all go out to eat thing.
Y'allo just slit everything. If you order forty dollars with
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a food and I ordered ten dollars worth of food,
why are we splitting the bill? So I have been
in that situation and I have split the bill just
because I don't feel like doing all that calculations, like
if we all cool, let's just say meet you and
like another person go on to other person. Yeah, that's
why I'm not And if it's like somebody's birthday, I'm
definitely not about to be like, girl, here go you chuck.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
No, if it's your birthday, you're not paying.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You know what I'm saying like this, So it's like,
I guess it's just like you said.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
It really depends on the people.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
If I'm being invited out with a bunch of people
I don't know, yeah I'm not there and I'm going
up to her, give me my shit, because I'm saying
before you even noticed, like whatever one hand and closed me.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I closed me out now.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
But when it comes to like when it comes to
like my friends and stuff, I don't be pressed about
the split and I just be like, just split it,
like that's how I feel.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
But if they are like adamant about like, no, I
don't want to.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I ain't gonna argue, right, you know, that's actually less
money that I have, less money that I have to
pay if you decide to do it that way. So
it's cool, but I don't know. I'm very specific when
it come to my friends. I don't like doing all
that splitting and stuff like that. That's not my jam.
I think it's just I'm not doing it. Like I
don't go to large birthday parties. I'm not doing all
of that because I think that's too much. If it's
three four people, yeah, let's just split it and keep
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it going. But people will go out and it'll be
twenty five people getting.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Around rig Because why you sit there and order a rack.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Of ri seafood Tower girl for six lemon drop flights,
explain yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Please all for you and talking about less split it
grid beat your ass for I put the tab.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Your ass, I will ask.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I will take you out back and wear you out
because you never thought you never thought you could eat
enough for a small village in Sound, and I was
gonna pay I go.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
To hair.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
That would get me tight too, Like absolutely, girl.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
People just be trying it. The people that want to
spend all the time.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I think that they're the ones that have have created
this this system where they go places and they order
too much and they know that they can get only
get on their own.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
That's what I'm saying. I'm immersed by me. I know
I eat a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Oh god, I'll be prepared to so much.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Whoa, you sure can't put it away a little lad.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Little lady is crazy, little miss muth.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Oh my god, you sure can't put it away? And
away I.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Put it because, oh my goodness, I know she'd be
tired of me because I'm like, you hungry.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I'm like, she can't always eat it?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Don't always hungry. I'm right now, Yeah, I'm hungry.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I have to think about it, he said.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
In the morning, Pat I already got a scheduled to
go to places and get Really, why she's here.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I don't play every time I know my girl in town.
I'm like, okay, so this we we're gonna go eat
it and it's good.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Car I said, she normal food, because well we're gonna
do is eat good.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
We're gonna eat good every time we go somewhere. But
I think that's that's the it has to be. It
has to be reciprocal, and I don't think people be
When people are trying to force folks to split stuff
or force people to take more than their share, I
don't think it's reciprocal because you probably wouldn't do that
for me. You wouldn't let me sit up and eat
two hundred dollars worth of food and then you pay
for half of it, even though you had a sailing
(04:24):
in the water.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
You wouldn't do that.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
That's why you at her ordering like yes, So I
think that bottom line, if you ain't got no money,
thank your bro s head, because that's what the song says. Agreed,
Just just go ahead and take your broke heads home.
So now when it comes to them nail shops, y'all
gonna crucify me because I put a video up yesterday
and they ate my ass. I said, I'm not tipping
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at the nailsop shop.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I'm not look at your nails and looking.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
About to say, well there is a thing difference. I'm
not tipping for this. I do be okay you. I
agree with you.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
If you if you're sitting at the nail shopping getting
this time, yes, I would till this is this is elaborate.
It is very this is custom designs, this is all
types of this is a lot of work. That.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yeah, that's why if you don't put two.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Colors of mandarin orange on these nails and let me
act just damn.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I agree, y'all agree with that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
I just think it depends on, like you said, what
type of nails are you getting?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I know, my nails take a long time.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
They be really like it's very intricate.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
But if you just getting polished, why do you have
to why do you have I already pay one hundred
and fifty dollars for my nails and my toes.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Yeah, if you wanted one seventy, you should have asked
me for what.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
They say in the comments, They say that you can't
afford to get your nails done.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Just stay help.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Here's the gag. I can't afford to get my nails done.
I just don't want to feel forced to tip. Now
I want to see those gnarl fingers. I need to
see the comments because now I want to see those
gnar and they and the judgment is based off of well,
you know a lot of times people that work in
salons like that, they don't get the full amount. They're
(06:00):
almost know that like service. I ain't never seen a
black person behind the registered how they know, how they
know what's getting all of their money.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
And that's what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I just feel like, if you already charging me enough,
like girl, I'm not gonna argue with you, You're finna
take this money and swipe my car for what I said.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
You're gonna slip before.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That's it why I walk out of here. Your business
and you literally just.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Said if you were getting designs and everything, you would
have a different perspective. So it's not even that you
just feel like what they doing is not anything.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It's not enough for me.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
And you didn't say that I don't pay y'all missing
it Like she's not saying I'm not paying them at all.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
She's just saying, you didn't go the extra. You didn't
do anything outside of your job description that you were supposed.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
And anybody could have did. Yeah, I ain't got a
nigga in the back.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
That's just started last week. Last week, I got a
girl back there with three fingers knocking head out in
two seconds. I'm saying, elaborate. I feel that, and I
know that I felt so attacked.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Oh friend, I'm gonna get them.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Show me them narrow fingers they got because I know,
I know that's how they look. Somebody had to type
that like this, type them calm and just like with
their knuckles, show me wrong.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
But it's okay though.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
It's okay though because the nail still got done and
everybody in the comments can still be mad.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
But I'm still not gonna tip. I'm still not gonna
see it.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
And then, you know, I don't like the guilt trip
of it all because they make it feel like you
have to tip them, like, yeah, they make you feel
like you gotta tip them, or like asking me whenever
people ask me.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
For a tip.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Now I am going to tip for my nails. That's
a whole nother situation. But whenever people ask me for
a tip, I don't.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Let me do it because yeah, I hate I hate
these how much you want to tip? Right?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Showing me the screen is girl? Jump scared?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Okay, girl, I turned in the tip rubber band man
wild as a tailer band.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I gotta that's a tip for I gotta tip. I
got it. I got a tip for you.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
I gotta tip. Don't eat eggs out and ride the bus.
That's your tip away from raw oyster. Look, let God
work it out. Jesus is on the main. That's my tip.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Okay, thou shalt not steal because I'm about to no ball,
I don't like that. I don't ask you.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I would tip a server if I feel like you
gave me great service. I'm gonna tip in general because
I'm gonna say I tip anyway.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
I don't know that that I do. They're not getting paid.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah, exactly, that's why I'm tipping like that. But if
you didn't do great service, oh I might tip you
a dollar. No, dre Lane, I'm so sorry. That's one
thing I cannot compromise on. If you are a nasty
person and you give me bottom of the barable service,
serve in the tip. Oh no, I can't even My
heart won't even let I'll take mediocre service and still
(08:41):
give you a tip. Right when you got McDonald's attitude?
Here do people at McDonald's get tips?
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Man?
Speaker 2 (08:47):
This is red licke exactly. Oh no, no, no, no no, I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Not dealing with no nasty attitude and tipping. You'm not
gonna encourage that activity. Like what I need you to know,
is you got to change that to get more money?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
No, I know.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
I knew a god one time when I worked at
a restaurant. He would come in like every Wednesday or something.
He would order the same thing, and he would sit
in the same seat, and he would leave one hundred
dollar bill on the table at the beginning of the meal,
and whoever had that table was going to get that
one hundred dollars as long as they gave him great service.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
If you messed up, he'll take one hundred off the table.
He'll put a fifth take out. And it was such
a mind f I was like, I never even want
to wait on him. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
That is like messing with your psyche. Yoah, I don't
like that because.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
I forgot to ring your desertger my anxiety crazy. Yeah,
but I thought that was such an interesting approach to it,
because I feel a way about people only wanting to
give me appropriate service or do the bare minimum or
do a great job if they're being tipped. Yeah, I
shouldn't have to tip you for you to give me
(09:56):
good service and for you to remember me and be like,
oh she tipped me well last time.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Let me, let me treat her nice. You should treat
everybody you.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Should, you should, and those oh my god, the people
who do that, girl, they get all my money. The
ones who just treat people because I don't see it
just for me. I see how you treat people even
around me, Like if we let's use the Neilson since
that's where we're at, and like you're just sweet to everybody.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Like I'm watching you maybe help your colleague with something,
or you're picking up this, or maybe you see that
somebody is working on something so they couldn't get their station,
Like I'm watching how you just navigating through this space authentically,
just being yourself like that. Those are the people I
want to give extra money to and tip, like yes,
and I don't mind it. I think people think we
think it's a problem. Not a lot of love to
say black people don't tip, And I'm like, oh I tip.
(10:40):
All black people do tip. But if you gonna come
up here with stank attitude because I'm black and you
think I'm not gonna tap, then no, I'm not gonna tap.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Let me tell you who I didn't tip today this morning?
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Lord?
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Because uber driving? Oh let me tell you who I
didn't tip. First, I was nervous. I sent all the
information to Dreling. I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
I won't elaborate. I'll let you figure out why.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Secondly, why in the world, and hey, correct me if
I'm wrong, Why in the world would you pick a
woman up from the airport and not offer to put
her luggage in the bag. And you a man, you
sat right in the car, popped the trunk, not the trunk, disgusting,
and I had to get my luggage. And I'm not
saying that this is no limo service. I'm not saying
this is not. But the fact that you sat in
(11:30):
the car, popped the trunk and had me really struggling
with this bag to put it in the trunk. Then
when I got out, you did not get out take
it out side. Those type of people don't get no
tip from me. And I don't care if you're doing uber.
That to me is a part of the service. That
is a part of your tip. And you not getting
my luggage and watching a woman do it, and you
popping the trunk and you sitting there with the seat
(11:51):
all the way back is why chilling, chilling, chilling, chilling,
driving so fast.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I said, then you scaring me. I'm trying to get
to my location and safely, ain't. Girl.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
He dipp it, dip it in the little things on
the side, you could tell he's not serious about it.
He's just trying to make some money. That's and that's
why you won't make any laundering business.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
You laundering exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
I know a laundering business. When I see why, I
was scared for my life.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I seen everything, his face, his car, his license plate
where I was to jerling because I said, I don't
know what's about to happen.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Girl, we know you was like that.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
You was not gonna go within.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
I was gonna say, you was not gonna go down
without a fight, because we was gonna call Carmeen San Diego,
Willie Walka, the Chocolate Factor. He's gonna call the FBI, everybody, whoever,
Greta Thornberg. He was gonna call everybody. Girl, I ain't
like that, but those type of people. Don't you have
to help me with my luggage?
Speaker 3 (12:46):
I mean, that's what I feel like. That's beear man.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Woman said, you're a man.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I don't know if I'm expecting the same from a woman,
But I am I was expecting that from a man.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm expecting it from an uber driver.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, if you are coming to pick me up from
the airport and I have bags, get out and put
my backs in the car.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Why would you be in the back seat with me?
Because that's how far the see went back?
Speaker 1 (13:04):
While here in the back seat with me drop playing
Patty I can look at him playing Patty Cake about one.
Oh my god, what you say you was?
Speaker 3 (13:20):
You were shocked in apalled? Who is you? Got a way? Thanks?
Be driving by theyself? I can I say? My friend
got picked up from my crib by way more.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
It pulled up gird the lights started flashing like it's
trying to get in, but when he got in, it
immediately locked out the doors.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
I said. I was terrified.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
That's what I don't be liking to do when I
go places, and we be trying to get rental cars
everywhere we go if we travel somewhere, because I don't
like being at the mercy of someone else, especially in
another country when I don't speak the language, and I
can't even I'm not familiar where I'm going or none
of that. Got to have a rental car, you got
to and one man I suggest you do that, like
you need a rental car, stop getting in the car
(14:10):
with strangers, or I don't care if you don't drink,
that's the issue, yall, Like we're gonna be don't don't
or no, you're element sober up before you get in
the car. But I just don't agree with going to
other countries and getting a taxi uber I don't care.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I'm not and then gets sop up like what the don't.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Then all the signs is up, but you can't read
them because you don't know the language, so you can't
even
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