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December 25, 2025 β€’ 37 mins

While Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae take the holidays off, they make sure listeners aren’t left hanging by serving up a Best Of Christmas episode packed with some of the most unforgettable, unhinged, and hilarious moments from past interviews. Think of it as a highlight reel of moments where the ladies briefly wondered, “Yeah… this might be the episode that gets us canceled.”

The episode revisits standout conversations with comedian and culture commentator KevOnStage, podcaster KikiSaidSo, and comedian Alton Walker, each bringing their own flavor of honesty and comedy. From Kev’s reflections on therapy, masculinity, and why men struggle with vulnerability, to Kiki’s sharp takes on dating, gender roles, and accountability, the clips balance humor with real insight. Alton Walker rounds things out with his signature comedy, effortlessly blending jokes with truth in a way that feels like laughing with your cousin who’s always a little too honest at Christmas dinner.

Whether you’re wrapping gifts, hiding from relatives, or just need a break from holiday chaos, Episode 84 is a reminder that laughter, honesty, and good conversation are the real reason for the season. πŸŽ„


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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm trying to get my grandma to drink hennessy.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Why are we escalating? Like, can't we start with a
it is crazy?

Speaker 3 (00:15):
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Kay Gerylyn lay.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
Checking in with my best before the rescue the name
one and you are listening to this, she said the
first podcast and every one podcast on the Urber one podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
I'm excited. Oh my god, we gotta gast it, we
gotta dance it. I'll never gets so we got to
the studio.

Speaker 4 (00:42):
Today's go ahead against You're not gonna get it right.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Welcome everybody.

Speaker 4 (00:46):
You've seen him on churchy, on be et, You've seen
him literally everywhere all over your TV screens, your phones,
anywhere you can see black people doing comedy and if
it's a little bit religious, sometimes you're gonna see this person.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Welcome to that, she said. The first podcast, Kevin say.

Speaker 5 (01:00):
Praise the Lord, Praise the Lord, Daughters of Zion.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
I feel the atmosphere is in here. We're gonna shake
the foundation of praise. Indescribable. Imagine.

Speaker 5 (01:09):
I don't know what the words are.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
Usual.

Speaker 5 (01:12):
You know my name, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
That's you better give a friend person.

Speaker 5 (01:19):
I saw your name, I was like, what I didn't
know because you had chosen a different letter.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
It's a different in the ask in the described yet
quicken and then you are waking the black name like Geral,
that's lord black man man. You know that jer Yeah,
very southern. Ain't nobody gonna gerald, That's what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Lamb. That is Lamb the name when she gets real
good into us a single jar Lamb. Thank you so much, Kem.

Speaker 4 (01:57):
I know you got a ton of things on yourself,
so so much of your time, but we appreciate you
so much for being here.

Speaker 5 (02:02):
Thank you for having me.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
I support black women from time to time. You know
that I get on some water. One of the people
in the room was like, he was like, I don't
deserve no water. You do your past, you get your
water afterward.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
Not my friends.

Speaker 5 (02:15):
Shut up, he said, He said he might push all
down the stairs.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
I said, I heard that talking behind. Wow, don't should
have worked together. He put my arm behind my back
of the elevator. I said, this is a this is
a crazy way in at least cost me in the elevator.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
That's crazy.

Speaker 5 (02:32):
That was crazy.

Speaker 4 (02:33):
Grouse for immedia dismissal. Man, you have to talk to
somebody than the physical assault.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
Everything else has.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Been grass also Joernal, don't come down and get you herself.
She said, somebody. That's great.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
I mean, you know we do got it?

Speaker 6 (02:45):
Like said.

Speaker 5 (02:48):
Like that, Lobby, You mean there, we don't do that. Man,
you will Like I'm talking right now, somebody will come
get you, Lobby.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
And I I was knee deep in some gossip too.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
That ain't nobody but God telling me you need to
keep your mouth off other people. If you love, we're
here doing Satan's work and you're got a blessing, and.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
So I know you do.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
I know you're on a book tour.

Speaker 4 (03:19):
You've got a lot of stuff going on, the ball
Brothers with Tony Baker, you all over the place.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
How is it launching this second book?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
You know it's crazy because I you know, I'm trying
to make the New York Times bestseller lists.

Speaker 5 (03:32):
Very important to me. I don't know why claiming it.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
I want to claim it. And this is different circumstances
than the first one. This is this book is successful failure.
It's my life story told from the point of view
of my losses. Because you know, wins ain't nothing but
stacked up losses. For the most part, I think a
lot of time social media, we've we focused on the
winds and the highlights, but like we take l's and
I think we shied away from those l's.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
So I wanted to share, like people consider me successful
and I consider myself sus ussful, but it's a lot.

Speaker 5 (04:01):
Of losses to get there, and we we ain't got
no target this time. And I know your phone. I
thought it was an eighteen winner, honking. I was shooting
your damn.

Speaker 7 (04:18):
Goodness that so.

Speaker 5 (04:20):
Woud I said, Lord, all money, Lord all mighty. But
no times have changed.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Like my first book, it was me and Melissa, we
had that going for us. It was our first book together.
So we had that going for us.

Speaker 5 (04:39):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
And Target was open and the blacks could go. Blacks
can't currently go and I'm with my people, right But
Target bought a lot of books, so I got to
go into the podcast. I got to hit the streets
like and that's part of the like if I make it,
it'll be in spite of which is really the story
of like my life, Like it's the things are not

(05:00):
always easy and you have to jump over, around, through
whatever you got to do to get around the obstacles.

Speaker 5 (05:05):
So this time I'm like, Okay, what can I do?
Who has podcasts?

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Maybe I can go to podcast route because the last
time I did a lot of my own podcasts, but
that's really just my audience over and over. So I
was like, let me see who I guess I could do.
Duraling got one with the urban one.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
That's one. They got a cool one. Yes, of course
we do and we so.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
I love to hear you talk about all of the
things that you're doing right and also overcoming failure and
still being successful. But me and Drelin love to talk
about going to go talk to the.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
Lady right therapy. We also get on some people here
about like men.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Just don't have those real, down to earth conversations like
women do so in reality, like how are.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
You for real?

Speaker 6 (05:50):
For real?

Speaker 5 (05:52):
I'm good? Am I I think I'm okay?

Speaker 8 (05:56):
Are you.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Now you're not.

Speaker 5 (06:02):
Listen?

Speaker 1 (06:02):
I'm a proponent of therapy. I went to individual therapy
for me and myself. I went to couples therapy for
my wife and I both were better. I was actually
just talking to one of my employees and I realized
the way I was handling that conversation. I was a
better person as a result of therapy. Right, I'm a

(06:26):
you know, I'm a funny person, excuse me, a funny person,
kind person. But I can be a bit of a
jerk sometimes at certain times. I can be a little bit,
you can cuss.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
I haven't seen an evidence of that.

Speaker 5 (06:39):
I can be a little bit.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
I love it, a little bit, a little bit of
dickhead sometimes, especially about my art.

Speaker 5 (06:47):
Right, Like, I'm very.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Uh protective over things that I don't do well yet,
And I was talking to my employee and he was,
you know, sharing something with me, and and it wasn't
anything I did wrong. It was just like he was like, Yo,
if you do this, it's easier for me to do that.
And as because I'm trying to be a better husband,
I recognize the same way my wife would be like,

(07:12):
when you do this, it makes me feel this way
or I felt this way when you did this. So
that approach can apply to other people, and in general,
therapy should make you a better person to others and
a better person to yourself, and a better understander of yourself.
So I think that's probably my thing as a man,
you know, growing up as a man and then as

(07:32):
a black man, therapy was kind of like a two strikes.
Like you as a man, you weak. As a black man,
you weak. There was a fear that you that women would,
you know, consider you weak. And also there's the like
actual problem of access. Therapy is not cheap and it's
often not covered by your interests. So there's a reason
why your pastor was your therapist and your financial advisor

(07:54):
and your doctor.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
Because niggas ain't got it.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
That's why only the Black churchs we need lawyer in
the courtroom, doctor in the sick room, because we need Jesus.

Speaker 5 (08:02):
To be everything. Yeah, we got why do you have
a lawyer?

Speaker 3 (08:09):
Target?

Speaker 5 (08:10):
Now that.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
You know?

Speaker 1 (08:16):
So, why are people men going to see the ladylople
been able to go see the lady and then you
have the stigma attached to that, and then you had,
you know, the stigma attached to being a man. It's
probably one of my favorite shows of the Sopranos. And
he was a mob boss who who was having panic attacks.
He was like, this job is strustful.

Speaker 5 (08:33):
Man, They'd be trying to kill me.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
He had mommy is shoes, he had stress from his job.
He was had panic attacks and it was highly like,
you can't do that in this line of business. Obviously
it's not that dangerous for us. But like men don't
want men to consider them weak, you know, so much
of being a man is the appearance of what other men.

Speaker 3 (08:53):
Yeah, literally had But where do woman fall on that
total post?

Speaker 5 (09:00):
Let me get to you. I'm gonna get to you.
I thought it was men. I thought it was women.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
I never thought it was well, I thought, don't know
where they fall at that.

Speaker 5 (09:08):
Beneath men, like how we loved, like the whole Pauset thing,
like give it a rest. I was.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
I made a video just yesterday talking about a roller coaster, right,
it's a new roller coaster in Cedars Point that went
down like this and was disconnected from the track and
then it tilted and reconnected to a broken track and
then like it was like that, it hungover and I said,
I love roller coasters. I want to ride that from
the front of the car and see. And this happened,

(09:41):
reinforcing black women come and reinforce that in because I'm.

Speaker 5 (09:48):
Talking about the roller coaster. You know what you did.
I didn't know what you did when I like me,
I don't like to be gay, got no guys, and
I got a lighter.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
I'm talking about the roller coaster, like we know if
it's scarious in the front seat of the car.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
Right.

Speaker 5 (10:05):
So it's like, although we're doing this in jest, like
that really be men? Really be? Like I can't even
know how I ain't no better. What are man gonna think? Like?

Speaker 1 (10:14):
It's it's it's low key. I've been toying with this idea.
I think it's actually not manly to let another man
decide how you react to so many different things, how.

Speaker 5 (10:28):
Much to the point where you don't even a man
don't even have to say it.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
What he might say is enough for you to know. Bro,
are you dumb? Like men be out here not even
drinking drinks they like because Martini lemon drop, because a
man supposed to drink old fashion, old fashions taking a drinking.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
I've seen your bed series. You've been cracking me up
with that.

Speaker 5 (10:55):
Terrible I know, and I don't care. Yes, it's awful.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
It's an acquirant and old acquired acquiring, she said.

Speaker 4 (11:02):
She said, it's inquiring, she said, sooner very.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
I know what I said, what I said?

Speaker 5 (11:11):
She just inquiring the next question.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
But like that part of his low key goes to
like part of my comedy, like I am silly, like
a lot of men can't be silly, right, And I
was my brother in law, perfect example. He from here
decater sol drugs hard like Beard had guns.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
You know what I'm saying, went to jail.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
He really is not that guy, but in this environment
he felt he had to be that guy because that's
what he was taught. That's how he was socialized. Like
you know what I'm saying, we trapped. That's how we
get it out here, you know, we trapped. He moved
to La his wife got a job of Netflix. He
started working with us. He's like, keV, you you trapping legally?

(12:09):
Like you making good money? You ain't got you can
make money selling jokes going on. He's my tour manager now,
amazing tour manager. He used to work in logistics as
a maintenance man. Used to have all these jobs. The
skill sets the same, really in selling drugs and running
a fortune five hundred company like those people. Because think
about it, you, Pablo Escobar, are you running a fortune

(12:30):
five hundred company that is also illegal?

Speaker 5 (12:32):
So you're twice as good again.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
You have all the skills of running a business and
then all the skills of avoiding capture twice the CEO.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
Yeah, so imagine if you didn't have to worry about police.

Speaker 6 (12:44):
The other show that I've recently launched is called Exoman Podcast,
and that one was not an idea of my own.

Speaker 3 (12:53):
I got hired to host it and produce it, and that's.

Speaker 6 (12:56):
In conjunction with Glow Packer Productions and Exoonocol Dot and
so on.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
That show it is a totally different vibe.

Speaker 6 (13:04):
I actually asked them, probably for the first ninety days
of us working together, are.

Speaker 3 (13:09):
Y'all sure about this? Because I have kind of given
men a hard time.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
Oh no, you sound like somebody I don't.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
I don't feel apologetic in anyway. Yeah. I just didn't
want to get tired. I don't care. Yeah, I mean,
you guys have so much in common already. Yeah, it's
like they feel like it's a hard time.

Speaker 6 (13:29):
I feel like I'm just calling a spade of spade,
asking for a sminge of accountability.

Speaker 3 (13:33):
But anyway, on the news show, I exclusively talk to
black men. I host it alone.

Speaker 6 (13:38):
I always have a guest, and I talk to the
black man, and I put the jokes aside. I say
that for cocktails, and we still joke lightly, but I
really do try to understand where they're coming from and
how they feel without them feeling like they're being attacked.
I don't want them to be telling me the performative
things that they do that makes them feel like a man,
or what they think men should do, Like what do

(13:59):
you actually think If you think, like many of them,
that certain things are outdated and you don't want to
do it, you can say that, but like tell me why,
and don't regurgitate things that you see online. While we
are exploring different ideas about like gender, femininity and masculinity
and what that all means to everyone as an individual.

(14:21):
It's not a gender wars thing. It's not about arguing
about it. It's like, okay, for real, let's see where.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
The disconnect is.

Speaker 6 (14:27):
How did you get to this point so that anybody listening,
whether you're listening because you're dating somebody and you can't
connect your friends, your sons, your father, like whatever that is.
I think women and men can get something from it, and.

Speaker 3 (14:40):
I hope so. So right now we are eight episodes
in and I.

Speaker 6 (14:46):
Started working on this last year, and it was a
lot different because there was so much work leading up
to it. But I'm glad and so now it's out
every week new episodes. We've had some really good guests,
and I have been surprised by some of the things
that the guys said when they were being.

Speaker 3 (15:01):
Performative, and I was like, look at God.

Speaker 6 (15:03):
Because maybe I needed to hear this, Maybe I needed
to hear some more things just for my own life,
because if I rely on the internet social media, it's
just like lock them up and throw them in a dungeon.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
That hard, you know that part, And you know what
I'm thinking, Like when she said that, it's like, what
are some of it? Because me and Jerline also talked
heavy about men accountability and like you know where we stand.
But you said that when they weren't being performative, you
weren't shocked. Like could you give us like maybe one
or two things that you heard that yeah, like insight, Yeah,

(15:35):
let's see.

Speaker 6 (15:36):
One of my first guests, something that he said was
his name is daval Ellis.

Speaker 3 (15:40):
He's an actor. He also podcasts.

Speaker 6 (15:42):
He was talking about some of the things that he
has noticed with kids that he mentors boys that he mentors,
and he was like, you know what, A lot of
times they're doing this stuff. They're saying crazy things online,
they're doing all of this, and I've always felt like
it's very much attention seeking behavior, alcohol them in cells
and everything else. And he was like, I'm not saying
that's not true, but what I am saying is a

(16:02):
lot of times they just want to feel seen. The
only time somebody sees them sometimes they're scared of them
or they want nothing to do with them. So yeah,
they might not be handling it in the right way,
but when's the last time somebody did something crazy and
you tried to like correct them.

Speaker 3 (16:16):
Well, I ain't nobody's mama, so I haven't tried to
correct them.

Speaker 6 (16:19):
But it made me think, like how much people do
stuff because they really don't feel seen and they they
do want attention. And it's like, I can I can
sympathize empathize. I always get those mixed up with people
when it's like, oh, well.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
She didn't have a dad. Okay, well is that her fault?
I don't left her to the point that me and
are the problems.

Speaker 8 (16:43):
Right there?

Speaker 6 (16:43):
Yeah, But it's like, Okay, I can understand how a
woman could be or like if she didn't get that
guidance is I'm always like, that's not her fault, that's
somebody else's fault. Now, as an adult, you do have
to figure out how to work through those things. And
then I just had to check myself, why don't I
give anybody else, well not anybody else men that same
energy and I should sometimes so huh. It's a work

(17:04):
in progress, but like that's something. And then also just
admitting without an excuse that they were wrong, that they
hurt somebody. They knew what they were doing would hurt them,
but they underestimated how good everything else was. So many
of them, whether they're currently married or have already been
divorced because the wife wouldn't playing that, have talked about
like working so hard, right, and you want to provide.

(17:27):
They all have maintained that they really do want to
be able to provide for us, But some of them forgot,
Like everybody that you're dealing with in your family unit,
whether it's kids or your wife, whatever, they're people.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
They want something more than the money. What good is
the money?

Speaker 6 (17:40):
If you're never there, you could dive back, especially if
you've gotten to a point where you're wealthy and you
have all of these extras, y'all don't need ten cars. Okay,
who even wants to drive anyway? And if you're working
to keep up with this stuff dollar back, you don't
need all of that. Or maybe check with her and
see if there's that she wants to do that you

(18:00):
can help her with just some of that. And so
some of them have learned that lesson some of them,
I could tell that they still needed to learn it
because they still felt like, well, as long as I'm
doing this, she should shut up.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
And I'm like, well, good luck. But it was nice
to hear that some of them lived through.

Speaker 6 (18:15):
It and they were like, yeah, I gotta find more
balance because it's not just that and there are women
who do care about them.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (18:23):
Yeah, I think that's such a nice That's my word
of the year has been balanced.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
I'm terrible.

Speaker 4 (18:30):
I literally had this conversation with my one of my
best friends last night and I said, friend, do you
think I'm too hard on man? And he said this
particular guy, yes, but I think that you want what
you want and you're entitled to it. And I wanted
to make a video about this, but I'm not gonna
do it. I'm going to use this platform and to
stay because it's going to be significantly less because they

(18:54):
attacked me every time I have an opinion, And I
think to your point, you said, well, somebody does things
maybe if their father went at home. First of all,
daddy issues are not the girl's problem. That daddy was
the issue. So when I coming from a place where
I come from, I didn't have to settle for that.
Even as a kid, even as a child, my dad
was there. He provided, he was supportive. I got disciplined, structure, criticism, judgment. Sometimes,

(19:18):
I got love and care like I got all the
things that I felt like I needed to be around,
well around the individual, and I still need Therapy's let's
be clear, Like I felt like I had the best
dad in the world, and I still needed therapy. So
it's hard for me to go into a relationship at
thirty six and and y'all want to argue about some
of the things y'all want to argue about.

Speaker 3 (19:36):
I ain't never seen my daddy have a back and
forth about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's how it's back Now.

Speaker 4 (19:42):
It's like some men say, well, I ain't your daddy
I've been actual to be, but you could try to
do a.

Speaker 3 (19:46):
Little something now weird if you are. I'm not asking
you to be my daddy.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
But one one man dem a comedy nominated provision, compared
to their mama all the time.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
Every time we wake my mother, ain't wake up like that.
You wake up like that spaghetti make it like that.
I'm not doing that. That came from a ragou yard
that far. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (20:10):
But we.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
We can't compare, but they will compare. That reminds me.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
We just but I don't know if you've seen an
episode where this guy was critiquing his girlfriend wife or
something about her and really compare every single thing she did.

Speaker 3 (20:23):
To like what his mother did, and was like he
wasn't serious. He probably was dead serious. IM about to say.

Speaker 4 (20:29):
A lot of the thing is like, I don't think
men realize that what they want is a slave. I
don't think they realized when you ask them what they
value in partnership, it sounds they say they say be
by piece, they'd be number one.

Speaker 3 (20:45):
I want you to be my pace. I don't want
to argue with you.

Speaker 4 (20:47):
I want you to cook, I want you to clean.
I want you to give me some babies. That that
sounds like forced labor to me. I don't and I
don't know if they recognize. They never say anything about
her actual qualities, like hers not like nothing like it's
always because I don't care.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
What her hobbies are. Yeah, I want her to listen
forget that, which is so hard.

Speaker 4 (21:11):
Last something I don't I love natural hair. We just
had a video like, I love natural hair. I want
her to have natural hair. Baby, you don't like natural hair,
don't have hair, you don't have any hair. So I
think that's where my frustration comes with the whole gender wars.
It's like, I'm not interested in doing anything for anybody
that can't reciprocate, but they'll come so many times.

Speaker 3 (21:31):
It is it's like, bro, this is not even what
we need to be largued about. I'm not wash her ass.
And there are so many women who want to do
a lot of the traditional things.

Speaker 6 (21:43):
And something that always sticks out to me is you
still want her to work while she has this full
time drive as like the homemaker, but then she should
also have a full time job doing god knows what.
And you have the one job, but when you get home, you.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
Get your job, maybe you the yard, maybe somebody comes
in does it. Maybe if your kids are old.

Speaker 6 (22:04):
Enough, that's their responsibility and you get to kick back
and relax. But if we're both working and we're both
doing these things, when do I get a ram off,
you know? Or even if she doesn't work out all
of the home the fact that that is not the
home stuff isn't looked at as like real work.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
I don't have children, but I have baby. Been a
babysitter for my brothers and sisters around enough.

Speaker 6 (22:27):
Yeah, and those were kids that I could return and
it wouldn't be frowned upon, and I couldn't wait to.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
Get her back home now and it's never even been
a full week.

Speaker 9 (22:38):
So like.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
You have three hours, you have three hours, because I
think within three hours, I'm obligated to feed them. I'm
gonna feed that child once afom not even different than
a dog.

Speaker 3 (22:55):
You know, I can feed Andy exactly.

Speaker 2 (22:58):
If your child, I'm gonna feed it one time, Oh
my god, after that one meal, Like we're not doing
a whole lunch and dinner situations.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
I think I think it's the amount of entertainment. I
don't want to be like, yeah, that's a lot.

Speaker 5 (23:10):
That's the feeding I like to eat.

Speaker 3 (23:11):
I don't mind. Let's do a food review we're gonna do.
I don't mind that. But excessive energy, me having to
enter like what do we do?

Speaker 10 (23:23):
Now?

Speaker 5 (23:23):
What do we do?

Speaker 2 (23:24):
What do you like?

Speaker 3 (23:26):
That stresses me. Now on top of that, I'll bring
him in the kitchen with me too.

Speaker 6 (23:30):
I even bought one of those Montossori school chef kid
things for the little kids, signing nobody going back with
half a finger right when I so, we all don't
get in the kitchen. It's the melt down, the anxiety.
The other sell well, we all got anxiety.

Speaker 3 (23:43):
What you want to do? Sitting scream I'm hungry.

Speaker 4 (23:45):
The kids are mad because you won't let him climb
into the oven right right, I'm like, I don't.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
Like the kitchen up and you're not allowing it. You're
a bad person. McDonald's. I just slaged over this meal.
We eating this? Or you and you cry about it,
I don't care. I got noise canceling headphones to you.

Speaker 6 (24:04):
Or if you're helping them through something and they're a
little bit of an older kid and then you realize,
oh my god, these aren't the kids that when Houston
was singing about these are those other kids.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
This cannot be the future.

Speaker 6 (24:13):
You can't read, can't count well, And I'm like, you
go too old for some time. So I phoned my
sister because she got a bunch of kids, and I'm like, well,
is this normal?

Speaker 3 (24:24):
And I'm just like, oh god, I just don't know
what you do. I just feel tired. I'm glad you
brought up Cardi B though, because that far.

Speaker 4 (24:32):
Now listen, friend girl, Oh my god, I'm so glad
that you asked me this question. Get to it because
Cardi B drops what people are saying, a pretty decent
follow up album.

Speaker 3 (24:44):
You know, I can't do it. I listened to the
first two songs. I can't do it. Why you can't
do it? I can't do it because I'm trying to
get into a place. And this is coming from somebody
who listens to glareal. I'm a guy, and I mean,
I don't know if y'all know, but we went to
a ROOTB. I was waking up eight am. What you
know about me?

Speaker 4 (25:08):
It's a sophisticated ghetto in the I love me, but
I can't listen to Cardi B. And I think I
think The thing that I don't like about this is
because there's too much. It's the same situation we had
with Clarissa Shields when we really wanted to support her,
but all we know about her at this point is
she's an amazing fighter, top of her game, but she's
sleeping with this merry man and she's constantly in the

(25:29):
headlines for arguing with people and creating drama.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
And I think I want Cardi B to do something else.
And this is not just a Cardi B. This is
also to.

Speaker 4 (25:39):
Nikki, because Nikki is doing the bulls right now and
I and I like, I don't understand why. First of all,
we too old to be doing this. If they had
any sense, they would just go ahead and collaborate because
the money gonna get spent regardless. Yeah, the money is
going to get made regardless. Go ahead, and did this
Beef and Hop on the track together?

Speaker 3 (26:00):
Do it one time? For the one time? The culture
beings that I just don't see it happening. Minute you
talk about my child culture vulture and Papa Park. Honey,
once we start throwing out the kids and saying wild
stuff about the children, you should not come to the studio.
She ast me. It's a dollar about your head. Okay,
I'm not playing. I will set you up immediately.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
Don't come like I'm telling you so like, I just
feel like they took it too far now to a
point where they can't collaborate, where they can't work together.
And it's unfortunate because I do think that they will
make dope birth.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
They will. They were not seeing it. It's not happening
because Nikki is.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
So worried that somebody gonna forget about her that she
had to overshadow.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
Okay, we forget if she's she's rambling it on except
for three or am in the morning. I've been like
to Bed, I can't forget. And my thing is you're
talking about you all with birthday.

Speaker 3 (26:49):
This is that's on some.

Speaker 4 (26:49):
Birthday like that his daddy can't even come to because
he can't be around children.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
Oh that's that part.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
So soon.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Zoomo. I just feel like you have the wrong zoomer man.
They got the wrong priorities.

Speaker 4 (27:08):
Like nicky on is in the well, wait till March
twenty twenty six. If you wait six months to dis me,
I promise you I'll never reply to it, because girl,
don't go to hell, I'm sure.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
She's too old, like Nick forty two years old. Yes,
one don't shot at everybody.

Speaker 10 (27:23):
Everybody and one like your your fan base are no
longer Barbs exactly, they're Barbara's.

Speaker 3 (27:31):
You got to change their name and Barbara come the
clothes he were? I buy ya? All right, come on,
you too old for this.

Speaker 10 (27:46):
You're way too old. And I told Nikki, listen you,
I mean Cardi B. The kids like one, Cardi B.
You're pregnant. You gotta somebody, you know in your stomach,
so you can't talk about somebody else child. She didn't
thought that though, she didn't. But you gotta be careful
because yours ain't came out yet.

Speaker 3 (28:04):
I mean, don't matter.

Speaker 8 (28:08):
And I.

Speaker 3 (28:09):
Can't let that just ride out. I don't know I
understand the pettiness.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
You know.

Speaker 3 (28:14):
I just was born on petty lane. I don't know
how to like get.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Past that if you talk about my child, I don't
know how to just be like and then did a
fake apology, went on her tot her her gums was like.

Speaker 10 (28:26):
Was pushed the baby baby? Just wait till your kid
come out. That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
I just don't think we said correct. So now wait
six months I.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
Come.

Speaker 3 (28:37):
The whole thing with this is, first of all, do
something else.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
You know what I'm saying, Like the reason stuff like
this thrives is because we continuous to give it attention. Yeah,
if Carti had heard some slick stuff from Nicki Minaja
and disregarded it and moved on, Nicki would be shouting
into the void. But when you when you entertain it,
it grows. It's like a flame. When you get it life,
It's gonna grow.

Speaker 10 (28:57):
The reality is, though nobody cares about the music no more,
so you have to create everything around it to get
the attention.

Speaker 3 (29:04):
It's good. So we're gonna go.

Speaker 10 (29:06):
And then when Nicki Mina put out an album, put
out a song, we're gonna go just to hear what
she said about so I mean young thug and why
if n Luci did like a little drama beef right
before they put out an album, and then they was
on each other album, so it was like a fake
beef rocking with each other. I mean they came together.

(29:28):
But what I'm saying is I think people are doing
that now. It just create this beef, find somebody to
go back and forth with. I got an album coming out,
it brings attention, it does work, but that's our fault
that we make it work and we.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
Go And because I do tone in every tweet, I
was in it. Yeah, she called a heavy tongue hold
and I think that was great. She was good. Nikky
got down with the heavy tongue. That's the only part.

(30:01):
But it was a lot. It was a lot. But
and I feel like they need, they need to do
something else.

Speaker 5 (30:08):
I did.

Speaker 3 (30:08):
I sound so bad for Guardy. I feel bad for.

Speaker 4 (30:11):
Cardon because girl, you just got out of a situation
where offset and now you're doing with stuff I digs
and you got this baby numberfore like, oh my god.

Speaker 3 (30:20):
I just want so much better for us.

Speaker 4 (30:21):
I want us to chase our dreams and fulfill all
our desires and stop being somebody's baby mama or somebody's
oop or.

Speaker 3 (30:30):
Like, just can we do something else? Y'all looking bad
right now? Hold on?

Speaker 9 (30:40):
Just a better Okay, not because but let's let's just
mention we clarify that it's not the same type of.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
That's on that's but this one we need with black
people when we come back, yob, this is what we need.

Speaker 10 (31:05):
We need like that for actions you know what I'm saying,
like sticking together, instill a whole that.

Speaker 3 (31:10):
But that was hill stop ting U. I mean hopefully
they can't get it together.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
Yeah, I hope So, I mean, I want the best
of them, but I Alsodi's rich fro bro.

Speaker 2 (31:23):
I don't keep talking about them because I ain't no
millionaire yet, so I can talk about its problems. They
still gonna get money, they still gonna get bread, albums
still gonna sell, like.

Speaker 3 (31:34):
I mean, well, I mean Cardi b I have to
give her her her credit, like her rollout and what
she did, you know, shaking.

Speaker 10 (31:42):
She came to Atlanta and they said she stayed here
for about about about eight hours. Like she shook everybody
hand wow, like signed every record, Like she literally did that.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
So I can't hate her. I like Cardiff I really
I do. Like I like Cardis. I'm a fan, you know.

Speaker 4 (31:58):
I love I love Cardi the I love bow that
yellow Cardy. I love love and hip hop Cardi that
was hungry and was just trying to make it. That's
the part of Bee that I love. And now it
seems like it's all too it's it's too manufactured. Now
it's a lot of manufactured.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
I like it still though we're album not every it
was no skips, not everything all the way through. But
she had some bobs on it though. Friends, I'm not
the blast that later when we leave, just how you
did me with glove Real, I'm gonna wake up a
different Yeah. I got my free girl, my bag. That's different.
We had of me, that's different.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
We was in a room. Yeah, and nobody couldn't leave
you one total going out.

Speaker 5 (32:37):
Yeah, we're going up.

Speaker 4 (32:40):
Because if I wake up and he jumping on my
with you know something at my house? Oh okay, I
is throwing a house part and y'all got glow sticks
up in there. Yeah, it's an everybody going to Scooby Snacks.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
Sorry Bard friends come through. He in a group chat
right now. My mama, See I love my spun. That's
my bad.

Speaker 4 (33:04):
I want to kick, but you know what I mean
much success power and love to about the la both.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
Of y'all together. If not, if not, that's on y'all.
Y'all got to deal with that.

Speaker 10 (33:19):
JT is standing down by the way yo out on
the wood. You like you put out that record. I
couldn't believe and put out that left field that was
one fish to fish man. I'm just glad Karrisha didn't
get on that girl. Karsha was Saucy Santana.

Speaker 3 (33:36):
He ate her up. You can you can't go back
before Saucy. But had a little because you know, Ouzy
and Saucy kind of in the same. I ain't going
to Uzzi Saucy.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
I thought she would be able to help her out
with a little comeback. I don't know that man looked
this interested.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (33:55):
I seen a clip of them recently. He's like he
didn't give a damn that. Okay, woe man, that's why
you would be wid you think you came if you
ain't the one that get if he's not.

Speaker 2 (34:08):
He definitely leading us on. And I don't know why
in that direction. Why he rolled his eyes at you, right,
he rolled his eyes a line. I think person ruffle socks, leggings.

Speaker 3 (34:22):
Listen back in the day, now I was. I say
that was the thing that was the old school of singers.

Speaker 10 (34:28):
Look, they had hault the tops and boom and bail bottom,
tight jean.

Speaker 4 (34:33):
And let's be clear, Prince would take your girl. Prince
is different. We never and Prince saying I'm slow with Prince.
That had to be I'm saying clothing. What I'm saying
what to out this point. There was a time when
men were that way and it was acceptable, and girls
were passing out when they saw it.

Speaker 3 (34:53):
I went definitely old Prince not UZI.

Speaker 10 (34:56):
Yeah, Prince. Prince said he wasn't a woman of a man.
You will never understand. He said that in the song
So Prince is the only concert I kept watching. He
had his ass teak out and I ain't I ain't
come my eyes. I mean you cover your eyes. Every
man can say that with this Prince. Well, he had
both Buddha cheeks out and we kept singing us because

(35:17):
it was if it was saucy I do this.

Speaker 3 (35:20):
I'm not white.

Speaker 8 (35:21):
I'm not looking at saucy ass, but Prince ass. I
looked at that whole concerto. Cheeks, man, he still had
them out that cracked t crack one out, but cheeks
out and nobody closed.

Speaker 3 (35:34):
Part of the cup because you know, the bottom party darkned. Well,
he didn't get it was.

Speaker 5 (35:37):
It was.

Speaker 10 (35:38):
I don't want to explain another man ass cheek, but
it is. I mean, you say, well, verse, well, here's
the thing. It's Prince yeah, and as a man, you can.
You can look at a concert with Prince as out
because it's Prince You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (35:50):
We can we can move on. Okay, we can move on.

Speaker 5 (35:54):
We can move on.

Speaker 3 (35:55):
But I just want to all right. He can tell
you just the man looked at that concert is sung
the whole song you I will go too, with the
butt cheeks out. Speaking of the movie, Dinny was sentenced
to thikes.

Speaker 4 (36:24):
This is a this is an episode for y'all. Yeah,
last Friday, we finally about out.

Speaker 7 (36:31):
He's doing fifty months. What y'all think about the herding?
He's doing fifty months for the moody I'm fighting tears, y'all.
Me like, okay, dang, what.

Speaker 8 (36:45):
I say you?

Speaker 5 (36:48):
Is there another one?

Speaker 2 (36:48):
In?

Speaker 3 (36:49):
Anything else you want to talk about?

Speaker 2 (36:50):
I really like nah, y'all. Happy, Happy Merry Christmas, Mary
christ okay for las Noveda, Please snunny, please snunty down.

Speaker 3 (37:08):
Hey, I don't know it's you are, Mary, Ris Muss.

Speaker 5 (37:12):
I don't know it's you are. Marry Regrets.

Speaker 3 (37:15):
I'm not some Moroccas. I don't know it's you are.

Speaker 8 (37:17):
Mary.

Speaker 3 (37:18):
Find up about him?

Speaker 4 (37:22):
Take a verse, police Love be done, Shoulder please snubby.

Speaker 3 (37:29):
Girl please throws us out all right, John, So, thank you.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
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