October 2, 2025 • 31 mins
Episode 72 of She Said It First is proof that even when the universe (and a fleet of airplanes) tries to sabotage them, Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae will still deliver the laughs. In What Irritated Me the Most This Week, the ladies start by venting about nonstop turbulence—literal and metaphorical. From loud planes drowning out their recording to people who just won’t stop blocking your blessings, the segment is basically therapy with punchlines. As Jerrilyn says, sometimes life really is just one long flight with no peanuts.
In Girl, What Happened, the conversation turns serious when they unpack a viral TikTok comparing doctors’ treatment of Black women to police treatment of Black men. The hosts share their own frustrating (and at times scary) medical experiences, dragging the racism baked into healthcare while clowning male OBGYNs who thought “fascinated with coochie” was a career goal. Between the jokes, they get real about how society confuses Black women’s strength with being pain-proof, and why more Black doctors—and more listening—are desperately needed. The ladies go in on Judge Lynn Toler’s revelation that she married a man with four kids and no money. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ respectfully disagree (read: roast it into the ground), pointing out that “companionship” doesn’t pay rent and love alone won’t keep the lights on.
Finally, Girl Talk takes us from the waiting room to the dating pool, with hilarious first-date horror stories, from a man battling chopsticks like it was Mortal Kombat to another comparing salmon to… well, let’s just say it wasn’t flattering. They round things out By the end, between the planes, the shade, and the jokes, this episode proves that no amount of background noise can drown out the chemistry of these two.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up, everybody, it's your Girl Indescribable aka jarl and
Lake checking in with the damn airport. We had her
to say the airplane up.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
The minute we get outside.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
No, no, no, no, got brand new routes right over the air. No,
I ain't gonna say, what's up everybody? It's the your
Girl in describable aka a j el and Lake checking
in with my vesty for the rest of the name
one and you are listening to that, she said the
first podcast and Urban one podcast on the Urban one
podcast network. You already know what time it is. We
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are back with another episode.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I love Feel Me Niverse.
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I know it's such a vite and now it's really
out of there. Y'all see where we are? Vi, I
p last see where we at? Okay, come on in?
Okay if you are not subscribed to the podcast, she said,
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Speaker 2 (00:51):
You gonna hate from outside the club? You can't eat
to get in? Okay, all, I'm trying to tall you now.
It's super secret.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Club information is about to be getting shared and we're
gonna start it.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Off like we do any other episode.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Absolutely, friend, I got to know what irritated you this week.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Friend, I don't know, you know, I'm just irritable, irritated
me this week?
Speaker 1 (01:16):
There we go, I just air a boo. You know
what I'm saying. It just happens, like I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Women go through so many of them, they said, men
go through about maybe like ten emotions to day.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
You rage being seven of them.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Them niggas, I nono, but anger, and we gonna go
about fifty a day, I believe it?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Can you? I met?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Do you know the type of toad we put on
our back? Do you know who's better be on that flight?
Barack Obama? You're flying through here and you're.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Fine too, Love, That's what I'm saying. We can hear
the people on the plane, I know.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
A little bisco. I can hear cars off with the sun.
You remember that combination?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Make less? You got to ask for both of them.
Make it.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Lets nap my god, apparently the Plians and let me
have the pliant irritating Yeah, now that I think about it,
I'm irritated when you're trying to do something and you
want to be successful, and you just got a goal
and somebody always in.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
A way messing it up. Here ain't come a distraction.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I ain't that two friends, I do turbulence. If you
will look, I like what she did with that got
you have a serious call to her. My gosh, you
want to check it out. Someone should go and take
a look. It's all I'm saying. But you know, we'll
we'll go ahead and get into the episode. Even though
Thomas the.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Train and engine and now everybody else up there is
doing the most.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So you know it's always something going on. But you
got to ask, finger girl, what have so? A black
woman influencer made the comment that doctors are to black
women what police are two black men. She went on
to list so many different reasons on why she agrees
with the statement, referring to the mortality rate black women
being higher than other women during child birth from crop
(03:03):
dusting and whatever. That almost like, what the hell not
coming all sizes of this whole clip. I'm so everything
that is a piece of media. This guy's plenty regardless,
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because why were fry the planes up for the rest
of You're gonna get coming here A little bit like
a crop I know that didn't leave a chim tree.
That is a crop dusting, and he and then he
liked he was doing tricks. He would flip, you know,
doing it looks like the one with the band, and
go across.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Y'all need a c y'all go in the house. You
flying that there right now? My god, I run like
planes are and police. At this point, the.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Grand mama is the baby Jesus.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Sorry, Lord, don't rush it up, but it got.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Turn that into an episode something, all right, it's a
partly into.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
A Delta partnership.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
They'll say, if you're if you happen to come across
this hello, perhaps the sound would be better.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Inside the plan.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I don't know. If it put us on a.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Flight with will to test that out, put the podcast
on another level.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
You will elevated. See what I did there. But how
do you feel about what the lady said about I
didn't hear nothing the ladies anything. The lady said. What
did the lady say? You know what? Yeah? I don't
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get to lik.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Bro. It's quiet, God, hold on the Lord, I don't
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know what's careful up there.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That me gonna look back at their footage and say,
this is.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
My gosh, Oh Lord, okay, I'm gonna try it again.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Okay, Okay. There was a black woman.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Influencer on TikTok who said that doctors are too black women,
black police are too black men. I mean she listed
plenty of reasons. Uh, you know, black women are three
times more likely to die during childbirth than any other
race of women from not being heard during pregnancy and
all the other reasons. There have been studies to show
that white doctors actually believe that black women have a
(05:51):
higher tolerance.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
For pain and are ignored, are ignored.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
So do you feel the same way about what she's
saying and have you experienced Okay, so yes, have you
you expect.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
A situation where you you feel like you weren't heard
in the doctor's office.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I feel like I have been an excruciating pain, and
I mean not normal pain. I think I had a
kidney infection actually, and it took them so long to
actually give me something for the kidney infection.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Girl, they were trying to give me.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Talanol for a kidney infection like that don't work, And she.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Was like, we can't give you.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I think it's just like the abuse of drugs, Like
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
But also if it were what I was.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
About to say, when it gave her whatever she needed
to subside the pain.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Like, it's just times that I have went to the
abuse and kidney infection trun.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Yes, like just when you can hi off the antibiotics, girl,
it was so bad. I have That has happened to
me several times where they will not prescribe me what
I need. They'll just say, oh, you can, we can
only give you talanol or something like that. And I
just think that that's crazy because I do know that
there's been plenty of times white women and other you know,
nationalities have went to the doctors and they don't have
those problems. So I do think that they believe we
(07:01):
can tolerate more pain. Also with given birth, I know
that was one of the things we're not even supposed
to lay on our backs when we give births.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
We're supposed to go it is gravity. It's supposed to
be all of them out, all of that.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Just as to the ever growing list of reasons why
I'm never going to have a child.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Because why why you got me on my back? Girls,
the Cicada's for me, and I need to be the cicada.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
They definitely caden, he said, I'm here right, pop out
and put up and hop out. Okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry,
but yeah, I agree, Like it's uh that Nigga said,
that's the CA said the fact that's crazy. But no,
I agree, you know, it's it's it's so hard to
(07:53):
I think people a lot of times they hear our complaints,
which are very very valid, and unfortunately all they see
it is nagging.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, because when you're not experiencing.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
It, people are like, oh, we have things that we're
going through to and I understand, but do you understand
that there are no laws regulating male bodies in the
entire my god. And you know what's crazy, it's always
men wanting to regulate women's bodies. They don't experience anything
that we experience. They don't know what it's like to
give birth, they don't know what it's like to exit.
A lot of you know, cannot explain population administration. No,
(08:23):
they don't even know what that is or how to
even identify the right part doing sex to get to
I know a lot of men who think that we
pee the same hold. I said, I need you to
do a little bit more research A right now, you'renna
miss Ryan and get peed on't ok.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
If we gotta get the information fee you one way
or another for you to know, sometimes you've got to
be on the shot. I'm kidding. Please don't peel on it.
Please don't.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Please don't feel anybody do that. But I mean, like,
what at what links will we go to help educate people?
Because women aren't the only ones who need to know
how women's bodies work.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Yeah, people who are are having.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Babies, who are engaging in sexual activity, like you need
to understand what is happening. And so I feel like
in the you know, racism in medicine is one of
those things that just makes it more difficult for women
to lead healthy lives. Yeah, it makes it more difficult
specifically for black you know women when you know they
think that we can't feel paid. And I'm like, bro,
if I'm telling you, like, just believe me. I get
(09:21):
it that people come in here and live. But those
people be on mess right and you're a crackhead when
because that do cop don't they don't go to the
arf exactly?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
The ex lord math heads are usually.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
The ones abusing the mass loosely paper color.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I'm telling you, So, I just think you know, it's racism.
It's racism. It is.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
And every time I have this conversation, I always think
back to like slavery, Like how and what we were
just talking about, like the strong woman's syndrome right where
we put on so much and we I think people
look at us and think we can tolerate so much
that they don't understand a moment of weakness or vulnerability
or where we need help, So they don't even identify
(10:05):
that with us when we are going in there to
get more support, like we're in pain.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
It's like, how could you be in pain? You're so strong.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
That's literally what I think they see when they see
black women. It's like, there's no way she feels pain,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Well, I mean just because I'm carrying it, don't mean
it's not heavy. Thank you, Hello, that was a friend.
That was a bird.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Just think about when you go to the gym, people
are in there, oh right, and they're still putting the
reps up. So it's like there is pain is leaving
my body, yeah, and probably my soul sometimes is leaving
my body. But people don't really care about that. They
care about the results. They care about what you can
do for them. They care about how your labor is
going to benefit them, and so it's super unfortunate, but
(10:48):
that is the way that it is. And so I
do I do agree with her as well, like I
think it sucks. I never thought of the comparison though
that was the whoo that was, But these are comparison.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
The heavy hitter is these.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
These are two professions in which we are supposed to
seek help, two types of people where when we are
hurting or we need assistance, we call these people, and
we're going to these people and we're being done more
harm than have.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
We just not called them at all.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
And so I think that that is the thing for me,
you know, like it's not just oh they're hurting us,
because a lot of things hurt us, but if your
job is specifically to help protect me, like you're literally
supposed to being in this moment, I'm not saying, oh,
it's so scared.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
I'm just saying I would like you fired.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
So I think that you know, it is unfortunate, but
you know, they say, be the change that you want
to see. So fortunately for us, a lot of black
people have entered the medical field, a lot of black
people are becoming police officers against against my.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Right. I'm not telling to go do that, but you.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Know, I appreciate seeing the faces. You know, I have
all black doctors to say that same. I'm not saying, way,
I prefer black doctors, even though it's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Shift gears for a second.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Here come spearing airlines. They come, okay, all right, shifting
gears for a quick second. Right, Because I was talking
about that on my blogs or whatever, about like I
just only like female black doctors, like that's it. But
I thought, girl, I made the appointment. In side note, girl,
(12:25):
I made the appointment.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I thought she was a white woman. What's her name?
It's not about the name. It was the picture.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Now she was like to and I was right, poster.
I thought it wasn't a poster. And then I got
I said, that definitely is a black woman.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I was concerned.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
But AnyWho, I was trying to figure out when you
go to the doctors, are y'all specific around whether it's
male or female.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
When it comes to ob g y an, I have
to go see a woman. I saw a man.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
I didn't want to comments where women saying that they
prefer male obg yn and I just couldn't wrap my
head around why, Like, I'm not saying you're not qualified,
but if you think you're gonna get up in my
lady bitch, not on my watch, not with that probably
around a movie you made, Okay, you're gonna have to
be cut and that's in gayle me me like, so
(13:20):
I'm not just giving it up for free, and then
asked me.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I just came in the daze, and that's this. Don't
let it make you like I cannot.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Imagine having a male ob g y and I think
I would come so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
I don't even like.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
I was like getting maging for niggas regular, So I'm
not feeling come in here and drop by drawns for
some random Then.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
It always be it always be a weird dude.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Oh it's oh, it's always a old like why you
gotta be So if you was a little.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Cute, I'm like, girl might hot that. I'm like, think
about it and I tell you about it, ma'am. That's
not ma'am.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
That's not how you send the therubs. You got your
whole up, get out that man's therups like that you go,
that's you know what this one I got to go
Instagram because I need to see who is getting up
in the theraps, like why are you hiking?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
They saying they prefer I don't. I'm saying not prefer
I can't do no man.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
I have you my woman, because I feel like women
understand what's happening down there.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
In general, I don't think men should be any type
of lady doctors.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
I don't think they Why are you in this? It's
hard for me not to think you're a creepy that's
the thing. It's like, why did you want to? And
we were so fascinated with Kuchie that I just had
to I needed six more years.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
That's insane. But we just said that men need to
learn more. So is this a contradict now talk more
women need to.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Be giving more resources in order to take care of
women and women professions and and and in general. Yeah,
what I think, okay, because I'm like, oh, I don't
want that man, I don't want to know.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I'm feel comfortable with.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
But y'all let us know, okay, Because there was a
lot of people women in my comments saying they have
only had many doctors and got I know this plane
as a male doctor because he ain't got a blacket.
I keep going over and over and over again. Women
learned right the first time. We don't got to keep
going over over it and over and again.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Why do you think right there? Okay, we tried different brothers.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Too, to see maybe that'll work sometimes these he's ship
in any in any language.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Just know that's a black dollar in a pilot. You
know that pilot. Why black doctor pile That.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Pilot is white at to promise you did after his name,
Hank Jerry Chip Chup is a good one. Chip a pilot,
you know, Chip bout at sev Chip looked down and
salt trying to be successful.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
And he said that's what he said.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
He said that, all right, for sure said it speaking
of we're good. All right, okay, So what's crazy is
trying to I'm so sorry I watch.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Got end it all this year. You're bad.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Judge Lynn Judge lenn Tolda did an interview on a podcast,
and she spoke about her husband when she met him,
that he had four kids from his ex wife and
no money, but it didn't matter because he loved her.
She says that women today and the black community are
looking for value, and she was looking for a companionship.
She also went on to say that she ended up
making more money because she had that brother on her
side and that he loved her and he allowed her
(16:35):
to do things that she did and he was able
to be in a better position due to her. And
she said that that is how she hit the jackpot
and leney before because I can feel you about to
cook this lady hard on both sides.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
I know he passed, didn't he? Do you think he passed.
That's gonna be nice because you passed, she passed. I'm
gonna be nice because I know she's still grieving. But
I'll be got.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
I'll you could have stopped at four kid over here
with no children girl, no money?
Speaker 2 (17:08):
Well, how you taking Caddy's kids? You can't take care
of with no money? Your debby? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
So now you and when I want companionship, you know
what I do. I go get a tub of ice
cream and I watch my favorite show.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
I called my friend. You get total. She's a companion. Okay,
you're the company. I don't call it total, call you
I'm a total. Okay, thank you? Think I mean, I
obviously I know how you feel.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
You know how I said, this is just fluffed for
the camera at this point, because she know better than this.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
I don't see myself.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
I rebuked that in the name of Jesus for children
and no money and no money free. It's wild, like, man,
absolutely not. I think that I can't be with nobody
who I know cannot take care of themselves because I'm
able to take care of myself.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
And I need you to meet your bathbsoluteist.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Okay, can you meet your basic needs if you want
to talk to somebody, that's what therapy is for.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
You don't have to include me and your chaos.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
I just don't agree with that, like, and I understand,
but this is at a woman of a different time too, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
A woman I have a different time.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I think it's totally different because my whole thing is,
why the are you flying over again?
Speaker 2 (18:15):
You just came through here? Damn? Is it a sale
on flights? Is it two for what? Man? Because it's
traveling today? My god, you know, spirit going bankrupt. I
just need to merge spirit the front. You need to
merge and if you have it need to be spront here.
(18:39):
That's definitely Saren is.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Oh lord, okay, all right, and you know you're right.
She's from a different time period. And I'm not I'm
not saying what she should or should not have done,
but I think that let's just be a little bit
more realistic in twenty twenty five for you.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
To be a whole judge the judgment is all.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Okay, okay, I'm judging you.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
The judgments be off. I'm telling you, and I listened.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
And because I'll just refuse to tell somebody, hey, girl,
don't worry about it.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
If he can provide for you or not, that is crazy.
Love is all that matters. I can promise you, Hello,
can I pay my phone bill and my rent?
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Would love exact exactly? By the time you can't even
like love? Don't pay the big and cut them off.
And we said in the other episode that love is
an action. It is okay, And how you going to
spring in the action with no money? There's nothing to
pay for the spring? Okay, you spring? Listen matterkay, you
just sprung?
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Okay, that's it. That's it, Like, no, we gotta do
better with that. I don't. I mean, I understand her message,
but I just don't stand behind it. I don't. I
don't understand the message. It's gibberish to me.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
I don't think anybody should be looking at a dude.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Don't know how to except people for who they are.
Why are you like that? Don't why God accept you
for that? You couldn't do better than that.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
But my thing is one of you thinks, did I
want to exist like you accepted over there, but including
me in it?
Speaker 2 (20:04):
You want to be with somebody who will settle.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
I feel like you're asking me to settle, and you
know that you're asking me to sell it because the
kids with no money is crazy, that's yodum. And I
know she was paying that child support. I know she
was taking from from that legal salary. Gonna make good
my god, my god, the planes. But I do like
her though, Uh yeah, but I think she's pretty. I
(20:27):
don't know if I say she's a nice looking lady. Yeah,
I think she's because after that come in, I'm good. Uh,
I'm good on that. But yeah, I mean she says
that the you know, the standards may be a little outdated,
and uh, you know, women should try to tailor, you know,
what they want to, you know, not be so money driven.
(20:48):
I guess, and go to hell.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Yeah, go ahead and go to hell.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
I just okay, so I will say this, I'll play
Devil's advocate and he and I review this message. You
know this don't got nothing to do with me, right,
But I do see women who are too greedy for
y'all don't got no game.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
I think that's what I like. I want you to
figure out y'all game. But that's out of them.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
He gonna give it to you as stop begging and
being desperate, Like just let girl, you need you need
some classes one on one because you can get money
from dudes without You're gonna give me some money to
pay my rent. You got forty dollars, like I would
never pick up the phone and do that. Like you
gotta like be getting to your like feminine energy a
little bit more without looking desperate, like you really are
(21:30):
broke if you are, like, that's the only thing I done.
But my thing is you know what to solve all
of this, stop being broke and I and I say
that because Paus because they tried to eat Auntie tab up.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
That is true. And for Auntie Tag, I'm saying, go.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
Get your own money, because as soon as you're done
dealing with somebody you don't want to deal with, you
can stop dealing with them. Because you start dealing with
people just for the money, you're stuck in that site.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Hello, he can't pay my.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
Rents, so the rent's not getting paid and that's insane stuff.
So go ahead and have these things working for yourself,
pay your own bills, take care of yourself first. That way,
having the man is a bonus. But if you need
a man to survive, says, I just want you to know,
girl controlled, you got to.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Go to hell.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yeah, and he will take you to hell. That's exactly
where you're gonna drag you further. That's your first stop
with Gasoline Charles on. So, okay, you're ready for some
girls song.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
I am.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Girl. What is the worst first date you've ever been on?
And did you give him a second chance? I hate
the second part because you did. I hate the second fine.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
The worst day.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
It wasn't even friend, it was just irritation. I told
you I'm irritable. So like we went out to get sushi, okay, okay,
it was his suggestion. Like I never said I wanted sushi,
although I do like sushi.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
I do enjoy us. You know what, thank you?
Speaker 1 (22:54):
You know what I'm saying. And it's a little quick,
little bite. It's something cheap and expensive but still cute
or whatever. So I was like, all right, cool, so
we go and he ordered all this. I mean, he
really did his biggest one, right, So I'm eating with
my chops to get stuff, but I almost cald you.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
It's related that friend. It was.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
He just kept picking and dropping it, picking up dropp girl.
He did that like thirty times girl. Yes, what the
fork was right there?
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Yes, I knew it, Charline because ask for help. You
didn't help, Charline you and you know what that means
for me.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
He doesn't know how exact as, he don't know how
to ask for help, and he's gonna stress you around.
We're gonna stress out and don't know when to stop.
When you've gotten ahead of yourself. You have obviously gotten
ahead of yourself. You don't know how to do it,
you have no but he can't let you know. Failing
when I tell you she thought on that, that's me
(23:51):
out of it, out of it right, he dropping it.
I'm like, if this stayed on one thirty minutes, stress
me out, Like I'm like, okay, that like I didn't
want it. And then he was like I told him
I can't not tell people while they get on my nerves, right,
I don't know how to do that.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I had to tell him.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
I feel like you told him because you wanted to
give him another thing. I did because me, when I
don't care whether we keep going or not, I'm not
correcting anything.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
I liked him, I did, and we went out and
we went for a regular dinner regular. He got the steak.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
He knew how to use falking, because that was the problem.
Like Disney, you don't even know how to He was
fucking my thing. Why would you come to the sushi
spot and you can't use it? But it's a friend
right there. It didn't have to be complicated. It didn't complication.
It's so simple.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
That was crazy, girl.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
I listen, I can't understand because stuff like that, really
it's it's annoying. But this one practice this. I've had
so many bad first days, but this one was probably
the worst. First of all, he showed up. He I
knew him through someone, so I wasn't getting in the
car with the stranger. He picked me up from my
house start to finish. The date was forty five minutes,
and I mean driving to the restaurant room driving to
(25:07):
the restaurant ordering the food, and I mean door to
door forty five minutes wow, because we went up there.
He was he wasn't a very good conversationalist, so it
was quiet.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
It was quiet in the car, it was quiet at
the dinner.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
And then when he did open his mouth, he said,
they gave him uh salmon, and he said that it
tasted like vagina because it wasn't all the way cook
the way he wanted it to be cooked. Most places
when you order salmon, they cook and medium, just off
the rim.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
He said, he wanted it like well done, so he
could be shaking the table. Why are you cutting it?
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I mean, and I'm not, Hey, have your fish however
you want to have it, but don't go done, because
if that's what the fish tastes like that you're getting,
we don't want you to have your fish like.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Don't have one of those. They're both a little taint,
neither one of us so exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
And so he said that, and I was just like,
I am totally embarrassed, and I.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Never want to see this man again. And he had
hips so.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Crawl because some hips pissed me off too, And I said,
when I seen him throwing at wham in a circle.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Come on, I uh, I said, You're not gonna be
a batter at me. That's nuther one. You up the steps. Okay, friend, Okay,
I want to try something real quick. You know how
to be doing the mean tweets?
Speaker 1 (26:28):
Yeah, okay, I'm gonna read through some stuff that people
have said on the Apple reviews, at the YouTube reviews.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
Oh my god, friend.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Now, well, our producers picked out some of the best ones, okay,
and I just want to get your your honest reaction
to them.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Let's see. Let's see.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Somebody said, I came across this podcast because of a
TikTok video I've seen, and it had this podcast name
on the TikTok video. But once I got hooked, it
had me going, and it had me going a week
at work. It got me all the way. Good.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
Thank you Queenns for a podcast that just that just
does my soul good. Oh that was nice. It was
thank you that hold on, hold on because they're come
hold on to your love, you gotcha, hold on because
that these niggas is getting a little gressed. Got damn.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Someone said, not bad, but seems one side of the
negative stance on every topic related to me, and I
would like more of a Devil's Advocate objectivity, call out
women who are not good women as well.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
Friend, all right, because what gender am I? That's all.
That's the only question I have for you.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
If you want to get a male's perspective, go talk
to a man because they always got a mic. You
can at anyone that got a mic. They always have
something to say about women. If that's what you are
looking for. It's available to the Nurse podcast if you
can get them for They on sell at the barbershop, Walgreens, everywhere.
You can catch them everywhere as a podcast everywhere that
you can go check out. Yes, I'm biased, I'm a woman,
(28:08):
so I don't care. And I did a Devil's Advocate
today with Judge Toler.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I mean, okay, that was still some DS.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
But you know about y'all being broke, just in case
you didn't see, Okay, I said, what bro broke?
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Don't deserve No, I know that's right.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Oh, somebody said this is a solid podcast. I had
to chuckle during the Bonded episode for a few reasons
because as an educator, I see the outcome of kids
not enduring any level of struggle.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Please.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
A little of that goes a long way in life,
and too down has always been interesting. I don't know
who don is, but another plane. As soon as we
get going good, I can't wait. And you know what
I been telling my parents, I don't be cussing on
the podcast, but I know they hear this the podcast playing.
(29:06):
I'm getting the podcast. Okay, the podcast, but fuck everything else.
That man gonna look at their cameras and never invite
us bag.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
We're gonna be like, oh oh, oh my god. Okay.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
And then just to end on the positive though, I
love this chemistry between y'all.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
Ladies.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
Keep up the excellent job. This is my second episode.
I'm listening to you. Keep it a one hundred percent.
Y'all are fantastic.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
Thank you. I love that. Yeah, I love that we
have genuine fans. I appreciate we love each and every
one for tuning in and taking time to comment. I
know everybody doesn't do that.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
You know, people watch things and like keep scrolling, so
to take time out to comment, baby, appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Everybody, yo, except that that one.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Guy I want to tell again he talking about I
want you to take up for the man, baby, get
your own taker up, thank you, get your I'm done
and take up for the man I'm taking who do it?
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Check it up with the Lord? Have I Grandpa? That's
two damn bad. Hello, y'all. Look, we're gonna get y'all.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Don't know what we went through for this episode. Y'all
got the tune into this night. You don't tune into
any other one. Myself, I can't wait, okay, because we'll
be tuning in as well. Just right here. It was
going through the jungle. I've been tried, okay, So we're
gonna head out. Man, y'all, let me get out.
Speaker 2 (30:34):
Here for saying, come Jason, another one coming down? Oh child?
Speaker 1 (30:37):
All right, y'all, well we're at the end. Like I said,
please tune into this one because we work really hard
on this one. Okay, and the turn and hit my face.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I'm hot mailing it hot.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
Still be here every Thursday on YouTube is where you
can see the visuals. If not, you can listen to
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Speaker 2 (31:04):
H
What's up, everybody, it's your Girl Indescribable aka jarl and
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
The minute we get outside.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
No, no, no, no, got brand new routes right over the air. No,
I ain't gonna say, what's up everybody? It's the your
Girl in describable aka a j el and Lake checking
in with my vesty for the rest of the name
one and you are listening to that, she said the
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podcast network. You already know what time it is. We
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are back with another episode.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I love Feel Me Niverse.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I know it's such a vite and now it's really
out of there. Y'all see where we are? Vi, I
p last see where we at? Okay, come on in?
Okay if you are not subscribed to the podcast, she said,
at first, you gott how are.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
You gonna hate from outside the club? You can't eat
to get in? Okay, all, I'm trying to tall you now.
It's super secret.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Club information is about to be getting shared and we're
gonna start it.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Off like we do any other episode.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Absolutely, friend, I got to know what irritated you this week.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Friend, I don't know, you know, I'm just irritable, irritated
me this week?
Speaker 1 (01:16):
There we go, I just air a boo. You know
what I'm saying. It just happens, like I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Women go through so many of them, they said, men
go through about maybe like ten emotions to day.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
You rage being seven of them.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Them niggas, I nono, but anger, and we gonna go
about fifty a day, I believe it?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Can you? I met?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Do you know the type of toad we put on
our back? Do you know who's better be on that flight?
Barack Obama? You're flying through here and you're.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Fine too, Love, That's what I'm saying. We can hear
the people on the plane, I know.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
A little bisco. I can hear cars off with the sun.
You remember that combination?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Make less? You got to ask for both of them.
Make it.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Lets nap my god, apparently the Plians and let me
have the pliant irritating Yeah, now that I think about it,
I'm irritated when you're trying to do something and you
want to be successful, and you just got a goal
and somebody always in.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
A way messing it up. Here ain't come a distraction.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I ain't that two friends, I do turbulence. If you
will look, I like what she did with that got
you have a serious call to her. My gosh, you
want to check it out. Someone should go and take
a look. It's all I'm saying. But you know, we'll
we'll go ahead and get into the episode. Even though
Thomas the.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Train and engine and now everybody else up there is
doing the most.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So you know it's always something going on. But you
got to ask, finger girl, what have so? A black
woman influencer made the comment that doctors are to black
women what police are two black men. She went on
to list so many different reasons on why she agrees
with the statement, referring to the mortality rate black women
being higher than other women during child birth from crop
(03:03):
dusting and whatever. That almost like, what the hell not
coming all sizes of this whole clip. I'm so everything
that is a piece of media. This guy's plenty regardless,
(03:24):
because why were fry the planes up for the rest
of You're gonna get coming here A little bit like
a crop I know that didn't leave a chim tree.
That is a crop dusting, and he and then he
liked he was doing tricks. He would flip, you know,
doing it looks like the one with the band, and
go across.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Y'all need a c y'all go in the house. You
flying that there right now? My god, I run like
planes are and police. At this point, the.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Grand mama is the baby Jesus.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Sorry, Lord, don't rush it up, but it got.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Turn that into an episode something, all right, it's a
partly into.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
A Delta partnership.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
They'll say, if you're if you happen to come across
this hello, perhaps the sound would be better.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Inside the plan.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I don't know. If it put us on a.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Flight with will to test that out, put the podcast
on another level.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
You will elevated. See what I did there. But how
do you feel about what the lady said about I
didn't hear nothing the ladies anything. The lady said. What
did the lady say? You know what? Yeah? I don't
(04:50):
get to lik.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Bro. It's quiet, God, hold on the Lord, I don't
(05:17):
know what's careful up there.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That me gonna look back at their footage and say,
this is.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
My gosh, Oh Lord, okay, I'm gonna try it again.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Okay, Okay. There was a black woman.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Influencer on TikTok who said that doctors are too black women,
black police are too black men. I mean she listed
plenty of reasons. Uh, you know, black women are three
times more likely to die during childbirth than any other
race of women from not being heard during pregnancy and
all the other reasons. There have been studies to show
that white doctors actually believe that black women have a
(05:51):
higher tolerance.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
For pain and are ignored, are ignored.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
So do you feel the same way about what she's
saying and have you experienced Okay, so yes, have you
you expect.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
A situation where you you feel like you weren't heard
in the doctor's office.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I feel like I have been an excruciating pain, and
I mean not normal pain. I think I had a
kidney infection actually, and it took them so long to
actually give me something for the kidney infection.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Girl, they were trying to give me.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Talanol for a kidney infection like that don't work, And she.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Was like, we can't give you.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I think it's just like the abuse of drugs, Like
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
But also if it were what I was.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
About to say, when it gave her whatever she needed
to subside the pain.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Like, it's just times that I have went to the
abuse and kidney infection trun.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Yes, like just when you can hi off the antibiotics, girl,
it was so bad. I have That has happened to
me several times where they will not prescribe me what
I need. They'll just say, oh, you can, we can
only give you talanol or something like that. And I
just think that that's crazy because I do know that
there's been plenty of times white women and other you know,
nationalities have went to the doctors and they don't have
those problems. So I do think that they believe we
(07:01):
can tolerate more pain. Also with given birth, I know
that was one of the things we're not even supposed
to lay on our backs when we give births.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
We're supposed to go it is gravity. It's supposed to
be all of them out, all of that.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Just as to the ever growing list of reasons why
I'm never going to have a child.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Because why why you got me on my back? Girls,
the Cicada's for me, and I need to be the cicada.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
They definitely caden, he said, I'm here right, pop out
and put up and hop out. Okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry,
but yeah, I agree, Like it's uh that Nigga said,
that's the CA said the fact that's crazy. But no,
I agree, you know, it's it's it's so hard to
(07:53):
I think people a lot of times they hear our complaints,
which are very very valid, and unfortunately all they see
it is nagging.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, because when you're not experiencing.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
It, people are like, oh, we have things that we're
going through to and I understand, but do you understand
that there are no laws regulating male bodies in the
entire my god. And you know what's crazy, it's always
men wanting to regulate women's bodies. They don't experience anything
that we experience. They don't know what it's like to
give birth, they don't know what it's like to exit.
A lot of you know, cannot explain population administration. No,
(08:23):
they don't even know what that is or how to
even identify the right part doing sex to get to
I know a lot of men who think that we
pee the same hold. I said, I need you to
do a little bit more research A right now, you'renna
miss Ryan and get peed on't ok.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
If we gotta get the information fee you one way
or another for you to know, sometimes you've got to
be on the shot. I'm kidding. Please don't peel on it.
Please don't.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Please don't feel anybody do that. But I mean, like,
what at what links will we go to help educate people?
Because women aren't the only ones who need to know
how women's bodies work.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Yeah, people who are are having.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Babies, who are engaging in sexual activity, like you need
to understand what is happening. And so I feel like
in the you know, racism in medicine is one of
those things that just makes it more difficult for women
to lead healthy lives. Yeah, it makes it more difficult
specifically for black you know women when you know they
think that we can't feel paid. And I'm like, bro,
if I'm telling you, like, just believe me. I get
(09:21):
it that people come in here and live. But those
people be on mess right and you're a crackhead when
because that do cop don't they don't go to the
arf exactly?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
The ex lord math heads are usually.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
The ones abusing the mass loosely paper color.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I'm telling you, So, I just think you know, it's racism.
It's racism. It is.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
And every time I have this conversation, I always think
back to like slavery, Like how and what we were
just talking about, like the strong woman's syndrome right where
we put on so much and we I think people
look at us and think we can tolerate so much
that they don't understand a moment of weakness or vulnerability
or where we need help, So they don't even identify
(10:05):
that with us when we are going in there to
get more support, like we're in pain.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
It's like, how could you be in pain? You're so strong.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
That's literally what I think they see when they see
black women. It's like, there's no way she feels pain,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Well, I mean just because I'm carrying it, don't mean
it's not heavy. Thank you, Hello, that was a friend.
That was a bird.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Just think about when you go to the gym, people
are in there, oh right, and they're still putting the
reps up. So it's like there is pain is leaving
my body, yeah, and probably my soul sometimes is leaving
my body. But people don't really care about that. They
care about the results. They care about what you can
do for them. They care about how your labor is
going to benefit them, and so it's super unfortunate, but
(10:48):
that is the way that it is. And so I
do I do agree with her as well, like I
think it sucks. I never thought of the comparison though
that was the whoo that was, But these are comparison.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
The heavy hitter is these.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
These are two professions in which we are supposed to
seek help, two types of people where when we are
hurting or we need assistance, we call these people, and
we're going to these people and we're being done more
harm than have.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
We just not called them at all.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
And so I think that that is the thing for me,
you know, like it's not just oh they're hurting us,
because a lot of things hurt us, but if your
job is specifically to help protect me, like you're literally
supposed to being in this moment, I'm not saying, oh,
it's so scared.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
I'm just saying I would like you fired.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
So I think that you know, it is unfortunate, but
you know, they say, be the change that you want
to see. So fortunately for us, a lot of black
people have entered the medical field, a lot of black
people are becoming police officers against against my.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Right. I'm not telling to go do that, but you.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Know, I appreciate seeing the faces. You know, I have
all black doctors to say that same. I'm not saying, way,
I prefer black doctors, even though it's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Shift gears for a second.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Here come spearing airlines. They come, okay, all right, shifting
gears for a quick second. Right, Because I was talking
about that on my blogs or whatever, about like I
just only like female black doctors, like that's it. But
I thought, girl, I made the appointment. In side note, girl,
(12:25):
I made the appointment.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I thought she was a white woman. What's her name?
It's not about the name. It was the picture.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Now she was like to and I was right, poster.
I thought it wasn't a poster. And then I got
I said, that definitely is a black woman.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I was concerned.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
But AnyWho, I was trying to figure out when you
go to the doctors, are y'all specific around whether it's
male or female.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
When it comes to ob g y an, I have
to go see a woman. I saw a man.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
I didn't want to comments where women saying that they
prefer male obg yn and I just couldn't wrap my
head around why, Like, I'm not saying you're not qualified,
but if you think you're gonna get up in my
lady bitch, not on my watch, not with that probably
around a movie you made, Okay, you're gonna have to
be cut and that's in gayle me me like, so
(13:20):
I'm not just giving it up for free, and then
asked me.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I just came in the daze, and that's this. Don't
let it make you like I cannot.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Imagine having a male ob g y and I think
I would come so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
I don't even like.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
I was like getting maging for niggas regular, So I'm
not feeling come in here and drop by drawns for
some random Then.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
It always be it always be a weird dude.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Oh it's oh, it's always a old like why you
gotta be So if you was a little.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Cute, I'm like, girl might hot that. I'm like, think
about it and I tell you about it, ma'am. That's
not ma'am.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
That's not how you send the therubs. You got your
whole up, get out that man's therups like that you go,
that's you know what this one I got to go
Instagram because I need to see who is getting up
in the theraps, like why are you hiking?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
They saying they prefer I don't. I'm saying not prefer
I can't do no man.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
I have you my woman, because I feel like women
understand what's happening down there.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
In general, I don't think men should be any type
of lady doctors.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
I don't think they Why are you in this? It's
hard for me not to think you're a creepy that's
the thing. It's like, why did you want to? And
we were so fascinated with Kuchie that I just had
to I needed six more years.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
That's insane. But we just said that men need to
learn more. So is this a contradict now talk more
women need to.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Be giving more resources in order to take care of
women and women professions and and and in general. Yeah,
what I think, okay, because I'm like, oh, I don't
want that man, I don't want to know.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I'm feel comfortable with.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
But y'all let us know, okay, Because there was a
lot of people women in my comments saying they have
only had many doctors and got I know this plane
as a male doctor because he ain't got a blacket.
I keep going over and over and over again. Women
learned right the first time. We don't got to keep
going over over it and over and again.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Why do you think right there? Okay, we tried different brothers.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Too, to see maybe that'll work sometimes these he's ship
in any in any language.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Just know that's a black dollar in a pilot. You
know that pilot. Why black doctor pile That.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Pilot is white at to promise you did after his name,
Hank Jerry Chip Chup is a good one. Chip a pilot,
you know, Chip bout at sev Chip looked down and
salt trying to be successful.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
And he said that's what he said.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
He said that, all right, for sure said it speaking
of we're good. All right, okay, So what's crazy is
trying to I'm so sorry I watch.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Got end it all this year. You're bad.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Judge Lynn Judge lenn Tolda did an interview on a podcast,
and she spoke about her husband when she met him,
that he had four kids from his ex wife and
no money, but it didn't matter because he loved her.
She says that women today and the black community are
looking for value, and she was looking for a companionship.
She also went on to say that she ended up
making more money because she had that brother on her
side and that he loved her and he allowed her
(16:35):
to do things that she did and he was able
to be in a better position due to her. And
she said that that is how she hit the jackpot
and leney before because I can feel you about to
cook this lady hard on both sides.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
I know he passed, didn't he? Do you think he passed.
That's gonna be nice because you passed, she passed. I'm
gonna be nice because I know she's still grieving. But
I'll be got.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
I'll you could have stopped at four kid over here
with no children girl, no money?
Speaker 2 (17:08):
Well, how you taking Caddy's kids? You can't take care
of with no money? Your debby? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
So now you and when I want companionship, you know
what I do. I go get a tub of ice
cream and I watch my favorite show.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
I called my friend. You get total. She's a companion. Okay,
you're the company. I don't call it total, call you
I'm a total. Okay, thank you? Think I mean, I
obviously I know how you feel.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
You know how I said, this is just fluffed for
the camera at this point, because she know better than this.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
I don't see myself.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
I rebuked that in the name of Jesus for children
and no money and no money free. It's wild, like, man,
absolutely not. I think that I can't be with nobody
who I know cannot take care of themselves because I'm
able to take care of myself.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
And I need you to meet your bathbsoluteist.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Okay, can you meet your basic needs if you want
to talk to somebody, that's what therapy is for.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
You don't have to include me and your chaos.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
I just don't agree with that, like, and I understand,
but this is at a woman of a different time too, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
A woman I have a different time.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I think it's totally different because my whole thing is,
why the are you flying over again?
Speaker 2 (18:15):
You just came through here? Damn? Is it a sale
on flights? Is it two for what? Man? Because it's
traveling today? My god, you know, spirit going bankrupt. I
just need to merge spirit the front. You need to
merge and if you have it need to be spront here.
(18:39):
That's definitely Saren is.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Oh lord, okay, all right, and you know you're right.
She's from a different time period. And I'm not I'm
not saying what she should or should not have done,
but I think that let's just be a little bit
more realistic in twenty twenty five for you.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
To be a whole judge the judgment is all.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Okay, okay, I'm judging you.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
The judgments be off. I'm telling you, and I listened.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
And because I'll just refuse to tell somebody, hey, girl,
don't worry about it.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
If he can provide for you or not, that is crazy.
Love is all that matters. I can promise you, Hello,
can I pay my phone bill and my rent?
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Would love exact exactly? By the time you can't even
like love? Don't pay the big and cut them off.
And we said in the other episode that love is
an action. It is okay, And how you going to
spring in the action with no money? There's nothing to
pay for the spring? Okay, you spring? Listen matterkay, you
just sprung?
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Okay, that's it. That's it, Like, no, we gotta do
better with that. I don't. I mean, I understand her message,
but I just don't stand behind it. I don't. I
don't understand the message. It's gibberish to me.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
I don't think anybody should be looking at a dude.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Don't know how to except people for who they are.
Why are you like that? Don't why God accept you
for that? You couldn't do better than that.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
But my thing is one of you thinks, did I
want to exist like you accepted over there, but including
me in it?
Speaker 2 (20:04):
You want to be with somebody who will settle.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
I feel like you're asking me to settle, and you
know that you're asking me to sell it because the
kids with no money is crazy, that's yodum. And I
know she was paying that child support. I know she
was taking from from that legal salary. Gonna make good
my god, my god, the planes. But I do like
her though, Uh yeah, but I think she's pretty. I
(20:27):
don't know if I say she's a nice looking lady. Yeah,
I think she's because after that come in, I'm good. Uh,
I'm good on that. But yeah, I mean she says
that the you know, the standards may be a little outdated,
and uh, you know, women should try to tailor, you know,
what they want to, you know, not be so money driven.
(20:48):
I guess, and go to hell.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Yeah, go ahead and go to hell.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
I just okay, so I will say this, I'll play
Devil's advocate and he and I review this message. You
know this don't got nothing to do with me, right,
But I do see women who are too greedy for
y'all don't got no game.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
I think that's what I like. I want you to
figure out y'all game. But that's out of them.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
He gonna give it to you as stop begging and
being desperate, Like just let girl, you need you need
some classes one on one because you can get money
from dudes without You're gonna give me some money to
pay my rent. You got forty dollars, like I would
never pick up the phone and do that. Like you
gotta like be getting to your like feminine energy a
little bit more without looking desperate, like you really are
(21:30):
broke if you are, like, that's the only thing I done.
But my thing is you know what to solve all
of this, stop being broke and I and I say
that because Paus because they tried to eat Auntie tab up.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
That is true. And for Auntie Tag, I'm saying, go.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
Get your own money, because as soon as you're done
dealing with somebody you don't want to deal with, you
can stop dealing with them. Because you start dealing with
people just for the money, you're stuck in that site.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Hello, he can't pay my.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
Rents, so the rent's not getting paid and that's insane stuff.
So go ahead and have these things working for yourself,
pay your own bills, take care of yourself first. That way,
having the man is a bonus. But if you need
a man to survive, says, I just want you to know,
girl controlled, you got to.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Go to hell.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yeah, and he will take you to hell. That's exactly
where you're gonna drag you further. That's your first stop
with Gasoline Charles on. So, okay, you're ready for some
girls song.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
I am.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Girl. What is the worst first date you've ever been on?
And did you give him a second chance? I hate
the second part because you did. I hate the second fine.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
The worst day.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
It wasn't even friend, it was just irritation. I told
you I'm irritable. So like we went out to get sushi, okay, okay,
it was his suggestion. Like I never said I wanted sushi,
although I do like sushi.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
I do enjoy us. You know what, thank you?
Speaker 1 (22:54):
You know what I'm saying. And it's a little quick,
little bite. It's something cheap and expensive but still cute
or whatever. So I was like, all right, cool, so
we go and he ordered all this. I mean, he
really did his biggest one, right, So I'm eating with
my chops to get stuff, but I almost cald you.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
It's related that friend. It was.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
He just kept picking and dropping it, picking up dropp girl.
He did that like thirty times girl. Yes, what the
fork was right there?
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Yes, I knew it, Charline because ask for help. You
didn't help, Charline you and you know what that means
for me.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
He doesn't know how exact as, he don't know how
to ask for help, and he's gonna stress you around.
We're gonna stress out and don't know when to stop.
When you've gotten ahead of yourself. You have obviously gotten
ahead of yourself. You don't know how to do it,
you have no but he can't let you know. Failing
when I tell you she thought on that, that's me
(23:51):
out of it, out of it right, he dropping it.
I'm like, if this stayed on one thirty minutes, stress
me out, Like I'm like, okay, that like I didn't
want it. And then he was like I told him
I can't not tell people while they get on my nerves, right,
I don't know how to do that.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I had to tell him.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
I feel like you told him because you wanted to
give him another thing. I did because me, when I
don't care whether we keep going or not, I'm not
correcting anything.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
I liked him, I did, and we went out and
we went for a regular dinner regular. He got the steak.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
He knew how to use falking, because that was the problem.
Like Disney, you don't even know how to He was
fucking my thing. Why would you come to the sushi
spot and you can't use it? But it's a friend
right there. It didn't have to be complicated. It didn't complication.
It's so simple.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
That was crazy, girl.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
I listen, I can't understand because stuff like that, really
it's it's annoying. But this one practice this. I've had
so many bad first days, but this one was probably
the worst. First of all, he showed up. He I
knew him through someone, so I wasn't getting in the
car with the stranger. He picked me up from my
house start to finish. The date was forty five minutes,
and I mean driving to the restaurant room driving to
(25:07):
the restaurant ordering the food, and I mean door to
door forty five minutes wow, because we went up there.
He was he wasn't a very good conversationalist, so it
was quiet.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
It was quiet in the car, it was quiet at
the dinner.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
And then when he did open his mouth, he said,
they gave him uh salmon, and he said that it
tasted like vagina because it wasn't all the way cook
the way he wanted it to be cooked. Most places
when you order salmon, they cook and medium, just off
the rim.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
He said, he wanted it like well done, so he
could be shaking the table. Why are you cutting it?
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I mean, and I'm not, Hey, have your fish however
you want to have it, but don't go done, because
if that's what the fish tastes like that you're getting,
we don't want you to have your fish like.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Don't have one of those. They're both a little taint,
neither one of us so exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
And so he said that, and I was just like,
I am totally embarrassed, and I.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Never want to see this man again. And he had
hips so.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Crawl because some hips pissed me off too, And I said,
when I seen him throwing at wham in a circle.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Come on, I uh, I said, You're not gonna be
a batter at me. That's nuther one. You up the steps. Okay, friend, Okay,
I want to try something real quick. You know how
to be doing the mean tweets?
Speaker 1 (26:28):
Yeah, okay, I'm gonna read through some stuff that people
have said on the Apple reviews, at the YouTube reviews.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
Oh my god, friend.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Now, well, our producers picked out some of the best ones, okay,
and I just want to get your your honest reaction
to them.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Let's see. Let's see.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Somebody said, I came across this podcast because of a
TikTok video I've seen, and it had this podcast name
on the TikTok video. But once I got hooked, it
had me going, and it had me going a week
at work. It got me all the way. Good.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
Thank you Queenns for a podcast that just that just
does my soul good. Oh that was nice. It was
thank you that hold on, hold on because they're come
hold on to your love, you gotcha, hold on because
that these niggas is getting a little gressed. Got damn.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Someone said, not bad, but seems one side of the
negative stance on every topic related to me, and I
would like more of a Devil's Advocate objectivity, call out
women who are not good women as well.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
Friend, all right, because what gender am I? That's all.
That's the only question I have for you.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
If you want to get a male's perspective, go talk
to a man because they always got a mic. You
can at anyone that got a mic. They always have
something to say about women. If that's what you are
looking for. It's available to the Nurse podcast if you
can get them for They on sell at the barbershop, Walgreens, everywhere.
You can catch them everywhere as a podcast everywhere that
you can go check out. Yes, I'm biased, I'm a woman,
(28:08):
so I don't care. And I did a Devil's Advocate
today with Judge Toler.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I mean, okay, that was still some DS.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
But you know about y'all being broke, just in case
you didn't see, Okay, I said, what bro broke?
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Don't deserve No, I know that's right.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Oh, somebody said this is a solid podcast. I had
to chuckle during the Bonded episode for a few reasons
because as an educator, I see the outcome of kids
not enduring any level of struggle.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Please.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
A little of that goes a long way in life,
and too down has always been interesting. I don't know
who don is, but another plane. As soon as we
get going good, I can't wait. And you know what
I been telling my parents, I don't be cussing on
the podcast, but I know they hear this the podcast playing.
(29:06):
I'm getting the podcast. Okay, the podcast, but fuck everything else.
That man gonna look at their cameras and never invite
us bag.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
We're gonna be like, oh oh, oh my god. Okay.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
And then just to end on the positive though, I
love this chemistry between y'all.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
Ladies.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
Keep up the excellent job. This is my second episode.
I'm listening to you. Keep it a one hundred percent.
Y'all are fantastic.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
Thank you. I love that. Yeah, I love that we
have genuine fans. I appreciate we love each and every
one for tuning in and taking time to comment. I
know everybody doesn't do that.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
You know, people watch things and like keep scrolling, so
to take time out to comment, baby, appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Everybody, yo, except that that one.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Guy I want to tell again he talking about I
want you to take up for the man, baby, get
your own taker up, thank you, get your I'm done
and take up for the man I'm taking who do it?
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Check it up with the Lord? Have I Grandpa? That's
two damn bad. Hello, y'all. Look, we're gonna get y'all.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Don't know what we went through for this episode. Y'all
got the tune into this night. You don't tune into
any other one. Myself, I can't wait, okay, because we'll
be tuning in as well. Just right here. It was
going through the jungle. I've been tried, okay, So we're
gonna head out. Man, y'all, let me get out.
Speaker 2 (30:34):
Here for saying, come Jason, another one coming down? Oh child?
Speaker 1 (30:37):
All right, y'all, well we're at the end. Like I said,
please tune into this one because we work really hard
on this one. Okay, and the turn and hit my face.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I'm hot mailing it hot.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
Still be here every Thursday on YouTube is where you
can see the visuals. If not, you can listen to
the audio wherever you listen to your podcast. Just make
sure you like comment and subscribe and hear that notification.
Bell Sie know every sound that blow
Speaker 2 (31:04):
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