October 9, 2025 • 41 mins
Episode 73 of She Said It First is a full-on comedy cookout featuring Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull), Lynee’ Monae, and special guest comedian Alton Walker—and let’s just say he came ready to cut up. Before the gossip and girl talk, they dive into What Irritated Me This Week, where the crew goes in on people who complain about navigating Atlanta’s airport (“if you can read, you can fly!”) and an unfortunate viral confession from a woman admitting she’s still “getting used to showering.” The lesson? Hygiene is not a hobby.
Then in Girl, What Happened, things take a turn for the petty as they unpack the never-ending Cardi B vs. Nicki Minaj drama. Between baby insults, fake apologies, and 3 a.m. Twitter rants, the trio agrees it’s time to hang it up—because the Barbs are now Barbra, and nobody wants to see aunties beefing on the timeline. They also spoke about Diddy being sentenced to 50 months in prison for the crimes he committed. Jerrilyn and Lynee, along with Alton Walker cannot see how people are still defending Diddy. They also spoke about the tragic story of a young New Jersey male being charged with murder for a hit in run that caused the death on two young girls. This was allegedly in the name of vengeance for Charlie Kirk.
Finally, Girl Talk takes the conversation to weddings, relationships, and whether love or money really holds a marriage together. From overpriced bridesmaid dresses to whether guests should follow a bride’s “suggested attire,” the hosts keep it hilariously honest. Alton admits he’s still “figuring marriage out,” Jerrilyn reminds everyone that weddings are really just expensive group projects, and Lynee’ says she’s fine as long as nobody shows up in white—or bills her for the champagne. Between laughter, real talk, and pure foolishness, Episode 73 proves that whether they’re debating soft life or soap life, the She Said It First crew always keeps it clean… mostly.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up, everybody, it's your girl indescribable a k a.
Jeralden Lake. I'm back with my vestie for the rest
of the dame onate and you are listening to that,
she said the.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
First podcast in Urban one podcast on the Urban one Podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Yes, make kind of all for everybody that's chacking me here.
We got a special guest today, and y'all, that's it.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Right there, We got a special and you look, if
you're watching on YouTube, you can already see him clowning.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Yes, welcome to the studio today for the She said
it first live taping after walking y'all.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Period, y'all, y'all do that? Okay, learned y'all, y'all.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
How you feeling today?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Y'all look amazing. I did a makeup telling people looking.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
At but Liza, it's crazy. You had a chance to
ask you.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Look at the camera. I'm trying to get a client
the crime you do. I'm trying to get my clientele up.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I don't know why, because they know that's a damn point.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Why you got to put the damn in it in
the middle of this and this.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Up by the time you get on the day, Okay,
you in.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
May are you putting damn in disappointed legal battle? Just
a damn pointed legal battle. You spell that, it's what
you're gonna have, a legal babes. So tell us what have.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
You been up to?
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Because I got off tour with Kevi on stage, Kelvi
on stage. Was made had them on the show? Yeah, man,
Kelvi on stage, solid dude. We did like a forty
seven city tour. He just does it right, man, So
shout off the cav He's back on tour actually too so.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
But you work with him, you know, it's surprised he
don't stop moving. Man.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
He's solid too. Like I said, he's one of the
people that will definitely take care of his people. That's
how I put it. Like that. A lot of time
people fly you out or you have to do something
for somebody and they just don't pull out the red
carpet man. And he does it right. Definitely, he does
it right, you know. So I love working with them. Yeah,
and on the morning hustle every morning, you know, you
(02:05):
know Radio one, Reach Media or so y'all make sure
y'all check it out with Kyle and Lareel. We're in
the city, like thirty something market so you know crazy
show going in.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, we love that one. Do you mind hanging out
with us?
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah? If somebody tell somebody that.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I refuse.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Like that is not to the people, not to the people.
I can't imagine neck and everything. Okay, we got it,
we got it anyway. Okay, so we have a we
have a segment where we got to get into some
really good gossip. But before I do it, I always
turn to my friends so she can ask.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Me, girl, we didn't say, did you. I'm gonna be
honest out.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I did entertate earlier. I was getting irritating earlier I
was going there.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Alison irritates me in general.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
So just how you guys know, every time you see
guests on here, it usually because one of us no depth,
and it's always the worst type of friendship. I want
you out to though Alison is not here by happenstance.
This was this was defined ordained it but no really though,
what irritided me this week was people talking trash about
the Atlanta Airport. Because if you can read, you can
(03:23):
get through, you can get through the gates, you can
get where you need to go. But people they'd be
so upset Thomas's too big, it's too busy, and what
do you expect them to do? They've made it as
simple as they possibly can. At this point, A B C.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
D E. F to get to your gate and go
sit down. You're in the way.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
And the people that stand at the airport like this,
in the middle of the chying for and stop right
in front of you, don't forget the ones that need
to stop directly in front of you before out that
with eight bad girls, two kids and adult, get.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
The hell out the way. The secret though, man International.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Oh yeah, I haven't done.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
If I don't have a checking bag, I'll go through
the side.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Okay, I'm gonna have to test that. Yeah, I don't
have a problem with Atlanta important.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
It depends, well, if you're on the north side. Yeah,
so if you're doing Delta south south side, it is
usually better your side than everybody else. Three inside, the
average people, you know, the people that ain't got no life,
far e spirit everybody.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
I think I might Yeah, scared, Okay, you can go
through the Delta side.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Even if you you know flying Spirit, you still go
through the south gate.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
You gotta trying to get to your gate anyway. That's
saying like, so you go through okay, period, it's easy.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Okay. So what irritated you this week?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Friend girl?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Because I already put a video up, but I'll give
y'all a quick recap.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Okay, because the way.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
That occasion woman got up on here it said day
nine of me showering until I get used to it.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I said, well, wait, what in the raisins and the
potato solad is going on here? Dads to be right
on off. It pisses me off.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
When they get online and have to tell us all
of the dirty and I mean filthy because you haven't
been bathing, so this is a dirty secret. Why would
you come online and tell everybody you haven't been bathing?
You gonna do it until you get used to it.
I told her we got to throw her in the
crock pot.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Put love.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
We got got some of that simmer. You got the
simmer on the load for a while. Yeah, grandma, Well
my mama is like, you know you got you got
the babe, that's not a quick jump in and jump out.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
You got the an soak and you got the soup.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
You getting that bathe and they put an ans on in
a bathe yes, got.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
The base, you got the souks.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Okay, you got to do bot and put a little
clorox in that wall ship. I know, no bacteria espesciment
on that body.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I don't take bad I take. I can't take bad.
I gotta.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I can't either. I don't think that you should be
sitting in your own body juice. Only take it back
if I get in a shower directly and I cannot
stay in there all day. I don't know how people
stay in there all day.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Comes just in.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
That cleaning, Yeah, yeah, yeah, because the brown going and
you know that they.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Jumped on me when I went on.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I went to the Saint Thomas and they had a
tub in there, and I said, I forgot if I
get in this tub, And people are like, it's nothing
wrong with getting in the tub if you a bunch
of black people. And this is all inclusive, which means
all butts was included in that tub as well.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
That's that's if you get in the tub, a public tub,
you did you gone ahead and die? Why would you
do that? All the can I say, as all the
ass is that.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I bear behind in no tub?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Come on, I start, Oh, you just gotta clean. I
don't care how much you cleaned it. It's no way
I'm ever ever ever saying no. No, I'm saying if you,
if you, if you want to clean it out yourself
and get in it, I can understand that, but I'm.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Not about to do that.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
I still want do that.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I cannot do that, and no public I can't do it.
I mean, but if you, I can't. I listen, I
can't hear me.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Good. I'm not telling anybody to do this. What I'm
saying is that I can.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Understand if somebody wanted to bring their n clean and
supplies and do it, I'll say people do it before.
I don't want to take the time. I'm just getting in,
washing my body off, and hopping right out.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
It's not that serious. I don't think I think people
missed that part.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Why are you it got so bad?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Why are you soaking at these people?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
You know what? Listen, my dad got me eating off
of plastic forks and spoons now at restaurants.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Yeah, I'm not mad at that.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
That's how bad it is, even civil. You know all
the mouths that have been on that. So when you
say the tub, it's been a lot of ass and
not just I mean we're talking about what people like
to do. We gotta really.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Think about what's been going down. I cannot do it.
I don't get if I clean clean up nobody else
stuff either, that's my thing. I'm not gonna do all
of that.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
If I feel like I got to do all that,
I'm gonna stay at home, Thank you, where I know
it's clean.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Thank you. But what irritated you this week?
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yes? Oh, what irritated me this week? God, you put
me on spot. I'm gonna tell y'all this whole uh,
Cardi B and Nikki joint been irritating me. That's been
irritating me. My little nephew been irritating me. I just
went through him my deaf because he's just getting on
(08:46):
my Instagram a lot, because man, doing he be doing.
I mean, he's getting rich, so he got it to it.
I don't want to embarrass him, but he getting grown.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Well you put it online, you are, but this.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Part I didn't. But he's starting to watch certain things
and I found okay yours how you know, I wouldn't mind,
you know, And so he did. He spent a lot
of time in the bathroom. They just say that, And
and my daddy lived with me, and he always said,
you know, I don't know why he in the bathroom
so long. And I want to tell my daddy the truth.
(09:22):
But I wanted I want him. Yeah, but I told him,
I say, man, he's supposed to do it, okay, So
he getting into here. I just told him, you got
to come a little faster, you know, because daddy did
the bathroom. So just come a little just if you
could come a little faster, that's all, because you're gonna
do it.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
You just about to get kicked off. You're literally thank you.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
That's not good.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Thank you for stopping about to get kicked off right now.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
You could come a little fast.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Thank you forgot We appreciate that. We're gonna wrap this episode.
Matter of fact, this is the end of the episode.
We're not even gonna talk about anything else. Episode. Oh well,
you can't take nowhere, not even to the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Not the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Lord my god, I'm glad you brought up Cardi B though,
because that far Now listen.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Friend, girl, Oh my god, I'm so glad that you
asked me this question.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Get to it, because Cardi B dropped what people are
saying a pretty decent follow up album. You know what
we've been to do it. I can't do it. I
listened to the first two songs, I can't do it.
Why you can't do I can't do it because I'm
trying to get into a place. And this is coming
from somebody who listens to Glareala. I'm okay, And I mean,
I don't know if y'all know, but we went to
a rootband. I was waking up eight am to It's
(10:41):
what You Know about Me? But I love but it's
a sophisticated ghetto in it. I love me some grea bad,
but I can't listen to Cardi B.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
And I think.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
I think the thing that I don't like about this
is because there's too much. It's the same situation we
had with Clarissa Shields when we really want to support her,
but all we know about her at this point is
she's an amazing fighter, top of her game, but she's
sleeping with this merry man and she's constantly in the
headlines for arguing with people and creating drama. And I
think I want Cardi B to do something else. And
(11:16):
this is not just a Cardi B. This is Also,
how about this, because Nikki is doing the bus right now,
and I, like, I don't understand why.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
First of all, we too old to be doing this.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
If they had any sense, they would just go ahead
and collaborate because the money gonna get spent regardless, the
money is going to get made regardless. Go ahead and
did this Beef and Hop on the track together, do
it one time for the one time.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
The culture beings that I just don't see it happening.
Then you talk.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
About my child culture vulture and Papa Park. Honey, once
we start throwing out the kids and saying wild stuff
about the children, you should not come to the studio.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
Trust me, it's a dollar on your head. Okay, I'm
not playing.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
I will set you up immediately. Don't come like I'm
telling you so. Like, I just feel like they took
it too far now to a point where they can't collaborate,
where they can't work together.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
And it's unfortunate because I do think that they will
make dope birth. They will. They were not seeing it.
It's not happening because Nikki is.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
So worried that somebody gonna forget about her that she
had to overshadow.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
O can with her.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Get if she's on, she's rambling at on except for
three or am in the morning, be like the bad
can't forget. And my thing is you're talking about your
all with birthday. This was on some birthday like that.
His daddy can't even come to because he can't be
around children. Oh there's that part.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
So that's that's what he was on. Zoom zoom. I
just feel like he has the wrong zoom man.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
They got the wrong priorities, like Nicky on the end
of the well, wait till March twenty twenty six. If
you wait six months to dis me, I promise you
I'll never reply to it because a girl go to
hell part I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
She's too old forty two years yes, one.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Throwing shots at everybody, everybody.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
And one like your your fan base are no longer
Barbs exactly, they're Barbara's. You got to change their name and.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Barbara come on, goes he were.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I buy, y'all right, come.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
On, you too old for this. You're way too old.
And I told Nikki listen you I mean Cardi B.
The kids like one Cardi B. You're pregnant. You gotta
somebody you know in your stomach, So you can't talk
about somebody else child. She didn't thought that she didn't.
But you gotta be careful because yours ain't came out yet.
I mean, come out, it don't matter, come out looking
(13:46):
like and I be like, I can't.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Let that just ride out. I don't know I understand
the pettiness.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
You know.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
I just was born on petty lane.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I don't know how to like get past that if
you talk about my child, I don't know how to
just be like, and then did a fake apology, went
on her total her gums.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Was like, was push the baby.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Just wait till your kid come out. That's all I'm saying.
I just don't think we said.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Correct, So now wait six months.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
A thing, the whole thing with this is, first of all,
do something else, you know what I'm saying. Like the
reason stuff like this thrives is because we continuously give
it attention. If CARTI had heard some slick stuff from
Nicki Minaj and disregarded it and moved on, NICKI would
be shouting into the void. But when you when you
entertain it, it grows. It's like a flying when you
get it life, it's gonna grow.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
But the reality is though nobody cares about the music
no more, so you have to create everything around it
to get the attention. It's good form, So we're gonna go.
And then when Nicki Minaj put out an album and
put out a song, we're gonna go just to hear
what she said about so I mean young thug and
why if in Luci did like a little drama beef
(14:59):
right before they put out of album and then they
was on each other album, so it was like a
fake beef. We thought you weren't rocking with each other.
I mean, they came together. But what I'm saying is
I think people are doing that now is just create
this beef, find somebody to go back and forth with.
I got an album coming out and brings attention. It
does work, but that's our fault that we make it
(15:19):
work and we go and and because I do tune
in every tweet, I was in it where she called
a heavy tongue hold and I think that was great.
She was good. I ain't gonna tell you Nikki got
down with the heavy tongue. That's the only part.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
But it was a lot.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
It was a lot, But that's a and I feel
like the tongue is heavy.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
They need to do something else? Did I feel so
bad for Quarty?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
I feel bad for card because girl, you just got
out of a situation where offset and now you're doing
here step and digs and you got this baby numberfore like,
oh my god.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I just want much better for us.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
I want us to chase our dreams and fulfill all
our desires and stop being somebody's baby mama or somebody's
oop or like, just can we do something else?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Black women? Y'all looking bad? Right now?
Speaker 1 (16:15):
That was it?
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I want to see.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Hold on just what I was feeling a bit Now
I'm not a.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Better okay, because but let's let's just make sure we
clarify them.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It's not the same type of the that's on C's
that's what.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
But this is what we need with black people when
we come at y'all. This is what we need. We
need like that for actions, you know what I'm saying,
like sticking together. It's still a whole let But that
was hilarious.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Stop trolling us now. I hopefully they can't get it together. Yeah,
I hope.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
So, I mean, I want the best for the but
I also Gerdi's Rich Froe brought that. I'm gonna keep
talking about him because I ain't no millionaire. Yes, so
I can talk about its problems.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
They still gonna get money, They still gonna get bread.
Album still gonna sell, like I mean.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
Well, I mean Cardi b I have to give her
her her credit, like her rollout and what she did,
you know, shaking. She came to Atlanta and they said
she stayed here for about about about eight hours. Like
she shook everybody hand wow, like signed every record, like
she literally did that. So I can't hate her. I
like Cardi, I really I do like I like Cardi.
(17:36):
I'm a fan, you know.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
I love I love Cardi the I love Bodac Yellow Cardi.
I love love a hip hop Cardi that was hungry
and was just trying to make it.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
That's the party b that I love. And now it
seemed like it's all too it's it's too manufactured.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Now it's a lot of I mean manufactured put together.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
I like it still though her album, not every with
those skips, not everything all the way through, but she
had some bombs on it. Old friend, I'm not to
blast that later when we leave, just how you did
me with glove real I'm gonna wake.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
You up to different.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
I got my free gir in my bag. That's different.
We had of me, that's different. We was in a room.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Yeah bad.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
Nobody couldn't leave you to go up. Yeah we're going out.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Because if I wake up and he jumping on my No,
somebody at my house. Oh okay, I is throwing the
house part and y'all got glow sticks up in there. Yeah,
it's everybody going to a hotel. Scooby Snacks, Storry Bard.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
You gotta friends come through.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
He in a group chat right now. My mama. See,
I love my son. That's my baby. Want to kick
but you know what I mean. Much success, power and
love to both the laces. Both of y'all put it together.
If not, if not, that's on y'all.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
Y'all got to deal with that JT standing down by
the way, Yo, I don't know what you come like.
You put out that record. I couldn't believe you put out.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
That left field.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
That was one fish to fish man. I'm just glad
Karisha didn't get on that girl.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Karsha was saucy Santanah her up here.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
You can you can't go back before with saucy.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
That but had a little because you know, Ouzy and
saucy kind of in the same. I ain't going to
Uzzi Saucy.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
I thought she would be able to help her out
with a little comeback. Know that man looked this interested.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
I don't know. I seen a clip of them recently.
He's like he didn't give a damn.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
Staying out of that.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Okay, warm man, that's why you would be you think
he came.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
If he ain't, he the one that get's not.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
He definitely leading us on, and I don't know why
in that direction.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
He rolled his eyes a lot.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
You right, he rolled his eyes a line. It's the
person Ruffles saw.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Listen, they did that back in the day. Now, as
I say, that was the thing that was the whole
school of singers. Look, they had halt the tops and
bail bottoms and bail bottom tight jean.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
And let's be clear, Prince would take your girl. Prince
is different. We never and Prince saying I'm Prince that
there had to be I'm saying clothing. What I'm saying
what To Alton's point, there was a time when men
were that way and it was acceptable, and girls were
passing out when they saw it, I went pretty Prince
(20:34):
na UZI yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
Prince Prince said he wasn't a woman of a man
with some of you will never understand. He said that
in the song So Prince is the only concert I
kept watching. He had jazz cheak out and I ain't
I ain't come my eyes. I mean you cover your eyes.
Every man can say that, what is prince? But he
had both budda cheeks out and we kept singing because
(20:56):
if it was, if it was saucy, I do this now,
I'm I'm not looking at that saucy ass, but prince
ass I looked at that whole concert both cheeks. Man,
he still had them out. The crack to the cracked
one out, but he had his cheeks out and nobody closed.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
Part of the cup because you know the bottom part
be darker.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
But he didn't get it was it was. I don't
want to explain another man ass cheek what it is.
I mean, you see what verse Well, here's the thing,
it's Prince. Yeah, and as a man, you can you
can look at a concert with Prince as out because
it's Prince. You see what I'm saying. We can we
can move on.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
Okay, we can move on.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
We can move on, but I just want to am
all right. He could tell you just the man looked
at that concert and soon the whole song you, I Will.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Go for you. That's where I said that too, with
the butt cheeks out. Speaking of Danny was sentenced to yikes,
(22:04):
this is an this is an episode for y'all. Yeah,
last Friday, we finally about out. He's doing fifty months.
What y'all think about the herder? He's doing fifty months
for the booty.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I'm fighting tears.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
Y'all was.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Telling me like, Okay, dang, what I saying. I'm trying
to do the episode. Just got bring it back. I
just was trying to do the episode.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Okay, I'm back.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Go ahead, Okay. So Dinny was sentenced to fifty months
in prison. He was found guilty of two counts of
transporting women to engage in prostitution four years and two
months specifically, along with five years of supervised released and
a half a billion oh jesus sorry, half a million
dollar five He does get credit with tom served, which
(22:59):
he has since he's been in prison since September of
last year. Now, they said he could have been sentence
to eleven years, but he would sending to only four.
People like dj Envy are still defending Diddy and stating
that he was railroaded.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
His sending seat was unfair.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
And I have a bunch of stuff to say about
dj Envy, but I will say, how can you say
that a man who abused people trafficked people for year decades?
Speaker 2 (23:27):
At this point, how how light should we go on
the sentence?
Speaker 3 (23:32):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Like, what are we thinking here? A slap on the rest?
Speaker 1 (23:35):
We want him out free in the streets, on him
just being his friend. It don't matter. That's about facts.
People are just like that.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
But that's my friend. I don't want my friend to
go jail. It's just flying as a rapist that part.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
It's literally the friends you're online little cockbrokes don killed
thirty people, stab two of them, rob the pregnant woman.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
No, am, stay in there, he's a minute to society. Okay,
you need to set out.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
I don't get squashed somewhere up in there, like we
just don't have time for this, like the friend thing,
and not stay in the facts or dealing with the
facts of what he's actually done, and then him doing
the time for what. We don't have time for this.
I don't, I don't, I don't think anything about it.
I think he got less than. I think he should
write in prison.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
That's what I'm saying. He got less than with his
third but he still got to do the time.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
Yes, sure, after looking at that video with Cassie, don't
I don't see how anybody can take up for him,
you know what I'm saying. I just I just don't
see it. And then Donald Trump was you know that.
You know, they asked him if he's gonna partner them
and all that, and I'm like, he got to think
about it, so he may pardon them. I heard he
(24:40):
got a job for him.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
I'm not surprised.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, he's supposed to be like doing He's supposed to
be all over domestic oil or something like that. He's
supposed because he they say, you know where the oil at,
So he supposed to be all both all the domestic
all because you know, they drilled it, drill, baby, drill,
and so they so they're trying to get him out.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
So a seventeen year old boy in New Jersey who
charged with murder at a hicky in support of Charlie
Kirk ran over two girls that he stalked for days.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
What yeah, yeah, what happened again?
Speaker 2 (25:18):
He stopped him.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
The seventeen year old boy he ran up, He drove
to uh, well, he sawved these two girls that were
basically they were not in support of anything that Charlie
Kirk had said and after his past and you know,
people had some less than favorable things to say about
Charlie Kirk, and this guy just decided that he was
going to plow them down. The two girls, Maria Neotis
(25:40):
and Isabella Salas. Yeah, we're basically ran over with his vehicle.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
He did.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
They did pass away. Where is he in jail?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
They said that he's being tried. He said he vowed
that vengeance. He said that he vowed vengeance on two girls,
and he's in jail for murder. So I think that
I think that the over the bigger issue here is
white men are the problem. Now I'm gonna look at
the camera when I say this, camera, before you question
(26:15):
who the shooter was, or who the serial killer was,
or who the whatever was, you have to consider these facts.
Because they like to put trans people in this conversation.
They like to put black and brown people in these conversations,
and it's just not us. It is straight white men. Okay,
it's sis hetero white males. They are losing their minds.
(26:40):
They're sitting behind computers all day and they are probably
don't engage with people on a regular basis. And so
when they see someone Charlie Kirk, who they think embodies
all the things that they wish they could do or
say they ride for him, did the wills fall off?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Literally? Literally, this is crazy.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
I can't stand people that because when you give to
like the black on black crime, like I said, it's
a lot of white men. I'm scared of white man.
Sometimes I'm terrifying because when black people, when we have
our violence, it's because either black people are hungry so
they're going to rob you, or if they kill you,
it's because they got some beef with you. They're not
(27:20):
we're usually not going around killing random people eat or
we're not killing people because you hate them that it's right,
or I'm just saying, but I'm just saying, we're not.
We're not killing for a race because the color of
your skin. It's either because I'm broke, I got beef
with you, that's usually main reason why black on black
(27:41):
crime happened. But to kill somebody because of the color
of their skin is a whole nother beast. That's that's
we can't compare that. We don't operate like that. So
while y'all doing all this stuff for black people, yes,
you need to check these white boys that's going into
these high schools mass killing, they sniping people, they're going
into movie theaters and they.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Just killing them. The State University.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Come on, you just find out that Trey read this
autopsy came back and of course it was not a suicide.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
But that because black people don't hang themselves from trees.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Right, so we need to we need to stop that.
You know, we need to stop that first. And any
black person that say that just bothers me. What about
black on black crime?
Speaker 1 (28:21):
What about the cargo like black people don't live close
to black people, the chances of crime being against another
black person? Okay, well we haven't Georgia guys today.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
Uh that got end on the light because that was
pretty bad.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
It was hard.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Like that was.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Say, that's scared. Talk about one more thing. Okay, okay,
just let's scared cunouns and just wants to derailed.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
This slight bad.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Okay, So just we absolutely don't leave in there because
if you didn't want it to be recording, you shouldn't
say it. So there's that. I'm crying.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
That was scary.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
That was very I'm nervous about it. He said that.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
I mean what I'm saying, if we don't want to
do that period, that's but I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
You know, yeah, okay, let's just let's just transitions. We
gotta go. We're gonna do a little segment.
Speaker 3 (29:17):
No transition you had.
Speaker 2 (29:21):
My transition was off the change. That's what I do that. No,
we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
We're gonna do a session called girls talk. That's how
we're gonna close it down. Let's talk out with a
little bit of girl talk. You eaves dropping right now,
you gotta we gonna have a little segment. Should you
suggest what your wedding party should wear? Not the party,
I'm sorry, the guests, the people that come and support
you at your wedding. Should you suggest what they wear?
Because the social media influenced her name, Danielle Bernstein.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
She's getting married.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
She's very popular, and she said that she has some
suggestions about her engagement party and her wedding, so she
gave her guests some options of what she wanted them
to wear, and she she said, she's not paying for
the wardrobe, but she want to be clear the attire
is not mandatory.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
So I personally think she should go to hell. That's me.
But what do y'all think? I think, just don't show
up in white? I think I think that's the only thing.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yeah, yeah, like red, nothing too out, but like white specifically,
I could deal.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
With the red. White. Don't piss me off because now
you got to go that's gonna piss me off. But like,
I don't know, I guess she's talking about, like you know,
Jesus all, is that what she's talking about?
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Like being too but IM shooting because if you got
a certain body type, it no matter what you put on,
you still gonna show up. I think she just wanted
to control like the I mean, I think people understand
in general the dress code for a wedding, but I mean,
somebody did wear a red suit to my wedding and I'm.
Speaker 3 (30:50):
Divorced again, you got you was married. I feel like
this dope because I was in a wedding and my
first wedding. I didn't know I had to pay for
my own suit. Thought they were gonna pay it. I
was like my homeboy, he asked me to be in
the wedding, He's gonna give a suit I had, but
he got divorced. But no, I just want my money back.
(31:12):
I want my money.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
I did the same for my cousin wedding and I
could barely fit in it.
Speaker 3 (31:16):
Girl, you still got it.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Barely fit in it.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
I didn't know. Man, that was my first time in
the wedding, and I was like, dang, and he was
not jeerrying. So I had to get too. I had
to get a suit and it was crazy. Oh wow,
No I can't.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
I didn't spend a whole lot for my wedding. But also,
I mean, I'm just not I'm not over the top
kind of person. I'm not gonna do the most. My
whole time planning the wedding, I was remembering, this is
a party so people can come and celebrate us, and
they probably not.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
We're not gonna hear from them after the wedding.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
I do the most, you know, and that's only you
can do whatever you want to ever tell anybody what
to wear, like it only got that one rule.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
It's like, just don't wear white. I don't care what
you wear like. I don't think that's what I want.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
You need to be in a drinking room exactly. We
are your seekers, okay, because us is it bounceable? All right,
that's the only requirement I have. I don't care nothing
about that.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
But what was her like? Do you know what her
dressed like?
Speaker 1 (32:16):
And it just says that she has suggestions about her
and she she says she's not paying for it and
it's not mandatory, but she has some suggestions. And my
thing is, if it's not mandatory and you're not paying
for it, and why do you have suggestions? That's why
I said she's gonna help. I'm an advocate for people
just eloping. Just go somewhere and do your thing by itself,
and they have a party somewhere. Have a party somewhere
so people can come and celebrate you later, because I
(32:38):
promise you. I think my wedding costs five grand to
book the space. My dress was like seven fifty.
Speaker 2 (32:43):
My mom bought it. Yep, my aunt's friend.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
It was like a It was a It was a
bridle shop shop in South Haven Mississippi and my aunt
she did floral arrangements for all the tops.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Wow, and so I saved a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Of course I got here efice, but I didn't have
zero debt when I came out of that mayor.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
You shouldn't. And there's people that spending hundreds of thousand
dollars on wedding.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
It's not that bray to me.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
You going down you, I wouldn't suggest you do.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
I'm so extra.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Would you need gonna help me? Please help up?
Speaker 2 (33:15):
I'm not because I feel like my friend deserved whatever
she like. I'm so hundred.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
I don't want you spend one hundred thousand dollars on wedding.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
If I like her something I am like, just because
it's not something that I would do. I'm never gonna say, friend,
I don't think it should now. If you can't pay
your rent, then I don't want you to do that.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Like, but I don't need to have that conversation because
you're marry rich now you could None of this would
be a problem. It would matter. This is that in
this set up, what limit there? I love a car
with no limit?
Speaker 3 (33:48):
Me too, Yes, women, because I did do a love
I got could I looked at her. I looked at
her do this, and then ed off just.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
To what's your thing? You're gonna tell me what.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
I don't think I'm getting married, Okay, I can see that,
moving on, getting divorced out. I don't know, man. Fact,
I think once we figure out what is what marriage
is about again and figuring out what's the purpose of it,
(34:26):
because I think society and the world just messed it up,
you know, until we figure it out again, I think
I'm a I'm ana wait because I really don't.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
It's a it's a bit when people understand that marriage
first was introduced as a business.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
Okay, I take it.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
It's a business, and if you keep that in mind,
you don't stop trying to go into business with people.
I'm speaking from personal experience. Think about your business. Think
about doing group projects in high school.
Speaker 2 (34:50):
Think about it.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
It was always somebody in your group that wasn't doing nothing,
but y'all got the same grade, whether they put in
any effort or not.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
Right, Yeah, okay, that's marriage.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
And biblically, if you think about all that was business,
it was really just to have some babies and to
keep the money in the family and ownership. You got
a point that it wasn't no love involved that.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
So and I'm not saying that you can't get married
for love. I'm saying that love is not enough.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
Love ain't working, Love is not going to be enough.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
You have to make sure that you're going into business
with the right partner. Yeah, I feel that. I like
that mindset you do.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
You got to know how they spend money. I learned
that you know their their account, like how do you
get your credit? Credit cards? Can people? But how do
you spend money? How do you budget money? Stuff? I
think that's very important. You know what I'm saying. Because
you dave somebody that can't pay rent, you be in trouble.
That's now pay your.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
Car note because how long you got to take somebody
to find out that they're not paying their rent.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
You got to pay attention.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
I don't get evicted around me. You can't stay here.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
You got to pay attention. And dudes be using credit
cards like hell, I didn't know that, Like dude, Yeah,
I didn't know everything.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
Just to keep up with the masses, like keep up
with the Joneses shoes.
Speaker 3 (35:57):
I've seen the dude with a credit card stack this
much one time, and he was paying for our hotel
because it was you know, and he was a promoter.
I ain't asked no questions. But he had a credit card.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
You use this one, she said, Oh, shove it through
credit card. That's crazy. Ain't no way, No, that's wild.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
I know what credit cards.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
Some people use credit I use credit cards, but I'm
using it to build traffiled points.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
I'm not using it to just lilligas.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
These dudes cammen scamming on the all time. I just
put it like that. I also know that from so
you just got to be covered. Like my thing is
with a woman, I do want to you didn't got
to be rich, but I do want to know how
you handle money.
Speaker 2 (36:39):
Yeah, what you hold on? But what's just real quick?
What's wrong?
Speaker 1 (36:44):
Why would you block that if you did meet a
rich woman? Why you mean she got to be But
like what if that is? We mine need to be
real real man. I'm gonna say that, but women, women, Okay,
it's okay for women to say That's not okay for
men to say that. Why, I'm not even gonna say
it's not okay. It's just something that we don't look for.
We don't look for a woman to be rich. You know,
we just don't want to.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
Didn't care about her being financially stable.
Speaker 3 (37:06):
I want her to be financially financially stable. I want
her to have her own thing going. I want to
build my woman, I do. I don't want a woman
to have to Most time, this is usually happened in relationships.
A woman would get a rich man and then she'll
put her stuff on the back burner. And now you
take care of this kids. You're doing all that. I mean,
you just howsed to carry his head. You know what
I'm saying. What I don't want is a woman to
(37:27):
put all her eggs in my basket and then we
don't work out, and now she left trying to.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Figure life podcast telling people that she trying.
Speaker 3 (37:35):
To feed their life. Why but that's the truth. So
you've married these rich men and women put their stuff
on the back burner. Now he's taking care of everything.
He taking care of your bills. You forget how to
pay bills. Now he don't cheat it where you're gonna go.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
That's why I'm played them, gun. I just don't for myself.
But I don't see.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
But that's what happened.
Speaker 1 (37:57):
Yeah, I'm about to say, I know that's a normal thing.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
I'm never not working money in the world, and I'm
going to be hiding it. And how did I get
that allowance? It's under the mattress.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
Don't worry about this.
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Absolute here's the thing. Don't put it in Switzerland. Don't
do a Swiss bank account. Okay, do what it now?
Speaker 3 (38:15):
So soft life come with a callid stupid okay, but
soft light come with the costs. I always say that
it depends on the man, but soft light come shu.
But most of the time it comes with a cost.
This money because I got to it's just in my blood.
Want woman to do that.
Speaker 1 (38:31):
That's what I'm saying for women, though, I have benefited
so greatly from just having options and options give you, Hey,
I don't like this, I can walk away. You don't
have to stay with some of the weather. It'sn't even
gonna be to somebody that cheating. It could just be
this is we're not aligned, is not working out this
and I have options.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
I can walk away, and most women don't. Yeah, I've
been there.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
Let the dude pay the bill.
Speaker 3 (38:53):
Yeah, I mean the soft life they doing everything and
now you're doing why.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
Can't you have a soft life in that situation and
still be working, like you have the option to work
with you because the issue is this, It's like, okay,
you with somebody who making money and we're saying a
soft life, like she forgets everything.
Speaker 2 (39:09):
But let's just say you still can have a soft
life where you can work.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
But now you have the option if you gotta work
every day, if you got to grind all the time,
if you don't have to.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
See, you have options on like I can do this tomorrow.
Yeah I could pay an editor to.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
That, but that's what I want. Like, if I'm gonna
give you the soft life, at least work on the
things that you want to for you. You know what
I'm saying now, is.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
This position open? And do we have to do the sex?
Speaker 3 (39:35):
I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (39:37):
I just hope no, and God please to be there.
And you know what, I take my head out the ring. Well,
so well we tried. I was trying to get us
set up specific I'm saying. He said, he said, if
(40:02):
you give somebody the soft life, he wants you to
be able to work on your own stuff.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
I said, okay, cool, because soft to me, soft life
mean I could just take my girl out to Barbados
or soft I mean.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
We could get you for a month, but soft light
also come with.
Speaker 2 (40:17):
I don't want to do no six. I don't want
to do no sex. Even if I like you, y'all
have ben't get on my nerves. I don't want to do.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
Because some people be like, oh, well you should you
get yourself if it's attached to a nigga. I don't
want to take me out the group chat. Please holler
bite it, burn it.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
I don't want to see it.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
There's that guy you heard it here on she said
that he actually actually he said it first. Well, I mean, hey,
I guess we're gonna go ahead.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
And close out, close out. That's good, No, we did.
Speaker 1 (41:03):
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Because I got off tour with Kevi on stage, Kelvi
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Kelvi on stage, solid dude. We did like a forty
seven city tour. He just does it right, man, So
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But you work with him, you know, it's surprised he
don't stop moving. Man.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
He's solid too. Like I said, he's one of the
people that will definitely take care of his people. That's
how I put it. Like that. A lot of time
people fly you out or you have to do something
for somebody and they just don't pull out the red
carpet man. And he does it right. Definitely, he does
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Yeah, we love that one. Do you mind hanging out
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Yeah? If somebody tell somebody that.
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I can't imagine neck and everything. Okay, we got it,
we got it anyway. Okay, so we have a we
have a segment where we got to get into some
really good gossip. But before I do it, I always
turn to my friends so she can ask.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Me, girl, we didn't say, did you. I'm gonna be
honest out.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I did entertate earlier. I was getting irritating earlier I
was going there.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Alison irritates me in general.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
So just how you guys know, every time you see
guests on here, it usually because one of us no depth,
and it's always the worst type of friendship. I want
you out to though Alison is not here by happenstance.
This was this was defined ordained it but no really though,
what irritided me this week was people talking trash about
the Atlanta Airport. Because if you can read, you can
(03:23):
get through, you can get through the gates, you can
get where you need to go. But people they'd be
so upset Thomas's too big, it's too busy, and what
do you expect them to do? They've made it as
simple as they possibly can. At this point, A B C.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
D E. F to get to your gate and go
sit down. You're in the way.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
And the people that stand at the airport like this,
in the middle of the chying for and stop right
in front of you, don't forget the ones that need
to stop directly in front of you before out that
with eight bad girls, two kids and adult, get.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
The hell out the way. The secret though, man International.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Oh yeah, I haven't done.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
If I don't have a checking bag, I'll go through
the side.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Okay, I'm gonna have to test that. Yeah, I don't
have a problem with Atlanta important.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
It depends, well, if you're on the north side. Yeah,
so if you're doing Delta south south side, it is
usually better your side than everybody else. Three inside, the
average people, you know, the people that ain't got no life,
far e spirit everybody.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
I think I might Yeah, scared, Okay, you can go
through the Delta side.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Even if you you know flying Spirit, you still go
through the south gate.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
You gotta trying to get to your gate anyway. That's
saying like, so you go through okay, period, it's easy.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Okay. So what irritated you this week?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Friend girl?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Because I already put a video up, but I'll give
y'all a quick recap.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Okay, because the way.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
That occasion woman got up on here it said day
nine of me showering until I get used to it.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I said, well, wait, what in the raisins and the
potato solad is going on here? Dads to be right
on off. It pisses me off.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
When they get online and have to tell us all
of the dirty and I mean filthy because you haven't
been bathing, so this is a dirty secret. Why would
you come online and tell everybody you haven't been bathing?
You gonna do it until you get used to it.
I told her we got to throw her in the
crock pot.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Put love.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
We got got some of that simmer. You got the
simmer on the load for a while. Yeah, grandma, Well
my mama is like, you know you got you got
the babe, that's not a quick jump in and jump out.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
You got the an soak and you got the soup.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
You getting that bathe and they put an ans on in
a bathe yes, got.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
The base, you got the souks.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Okay, you got to do bot and put a little
clorox in that wall ship. I know, no bacteria espesciment
on that body.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I don't take bad I take. I can't take bad.
I gotta.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I can't either. I don't think that you should be
sitting in your own body juice. Only take it back
if I get in a shower directly and I cannot
stay in there all day. I don't know how people
stay in there all day.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Comes just in.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
That cleaning, Yeah, yeah, yeah, because the brown going and
you know that they.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Jumped on me when I went on.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I went to the Saint Thomas and they had a
tub in there, and I said, I forgot if I
get in this tub, And people are like, it's nothing
wrong with getting in the tub if you a bunch
of black people. And this is all inclusive, which means
all butts was included in that tub as well.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
That's that's if you get in the tub, a public tub,
you did you gone ahead and die? Why would you
do that? All the can I say, as all the
ass is that.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I bear behind in no tub?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Come on, I start, Oh, you just gotta clean. I
don't care how much you cleaned it. It's no way
I'm ever ever ever saying no. No, I'm saying if you,
if you, if you want to clean it out yourself
and get in it, I can understand that, but I'm.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Not about to do that.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
I still want do that.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
I cannot do that, and no public I can't do it.
I mean, but if you, I can't. I listen, I
can't hear me.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Good. I'm not telling anybody to do this. What I'm
saying is that I can.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Understand if somebody wanted to bring their n clean and
supplies and do it, I'll say people do it before.
I don't want to take the time. I'm just getting in,
washing my body off, and hopping right out.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
It's not that serious. I don't think I think people
missed that part.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Why are you it got so bad?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Why are you soaking at these people?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
You know what? Listen, my dad got me eating off
of plastic forks and spoons now at restaurants.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Yeah, I'm not mad at that.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
That's how bad it is, even civil. You know all
the mouths that have been on that. So when you
say the tub, it's been a lot of ass and
not just I mean we're talking about what people like
to do. We gotta really.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Think about what's been going down. I cannot do it.
I don't get if I clean clean up nobody else
stuff either, that's my thing. I'm not gonna do all
of that.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
If I feel like I got to do all that,
I'm gonna stay at home, Thank you, where I know
it's clean.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Thank you. But what irritated you this week?
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yes? Oh, what irritated me this week? God, you put
me on spot. I'm gonna tell y'all this whole uh,
Cardi B and Nikki joint been irritating me. That's been
irritating me. My little nephew been irritating me. I just
went through him my deaf because he's just getting on
(08:46):
my Instagram a lot, because man, doing he be doing.
I mean, he's getting rich, so he got it to it.
I don't want to embarrass him, but he getting grown.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Well you put it online, you are, but this.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Part I didn't. But he's starting to watch certain things
and I found okay yours how you know, I wouldn't mind,
you know, And so he did. He spent a lot
of time in the bathroom. They just say that, And
and my daddy lived with me, and he always said,
you know, I don't know why he in the bathroom
so long. And I want to tell my daddy the truth.
(09:22):
But I wanted I want him. Yeah, but I told him,
I say, man, he's supposed to do it, okay, So
he getting into here. I just told him, you got
to come a little faster, you know, because daddy did
the bathroom. So just come a little just if you
could come a little faster, that's all, because you're gonna
do it.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
You just about to get kicked off. You're literally thank you.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
That's not good.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Thank you for stopping about to get kicked off right now.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
You could come a little fast.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Thank you forgot We appreciate that. We're gonna wrap this episode.
Matter of fact, this is the end of the episode.
We're not even gonna talk about anything else. Episode. Oh well,
you can't take nowhere, not even to the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Not the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Lord my god, I'm glad you brought up Cardi B though,
because that far Now listen.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Friend, girl, Oh my god, I'm so glad that you
asked me this question.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Get to it, because Cardi B dropped what people are
saying a pretty decent follow up album. You know what
we've been to do it. I can't do it. I
listened to the first two songs, I can't do it.
Why you can't do I can't do it because I'm
trying to get into a place. And this is coming
from somebody who listens to Glareala. I'm okay, And I mean,
I don't know if y'all know, but we went to
a rootband. I was waking up eight am to It's
(10:41):
what You Know about Me? But I love but it's
a sophisticated ghetto in it. I love me some grea bad,
but I can't listen to Cardi B.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
And I think.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
I think the thing that I don't like about this
is because there's too much. It's the same situation we
had with Clarissa Shields when we really want to support her,
but all we know about her at this point is
she's an amazing fighter, top of her game, but she's
sleeping with this merry man and she's constantly in the
headlines for arguing with people and creating drama. And I
think I want Cardi B to do something else. And
(11:16):
this is not just a Cardi B. This is Also,
how about this, because Nikki is doing the bus right now,
and I, like, I don't understand why.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
First of all, we too old to be doing this.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
If they had any sense, they would just go ahead
and collaborate because the money gonna get spent regardless, the
money is going to get made regardless. Go ahead and
did this Beef and Hop on the track together, do
it one time for the one time.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
The culture beings that I just don't see it happening.
Then you talk.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
About my child culture vulture and Papa Park. Honey, once
we start throwing out the kids and saying wild stuff
about the children, you should not come to the studio.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
Trust me, it's a dollar on your head. Okay, I'm
not playing.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
I will set you up immediately. Don't come like I'm
telling you so. Like, I just feel like they took
it too far now to a point where they can't collaborate,
where they can't work together.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
And it's unfortunate because I do think that they will
make dope birth. They will. They were not seeing it.
It's not happening because Nikki is.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
So worried that somebody gonna forget about her that she
had to overshadow.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
O can with her.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Get if she's on, she's rambling at on except for
three or am in the morning, be like the bad
can't forget. And my thing is you're talking about your
all with birthday. This was on some birthday like that.
His daddy can't even come to because he can't be
around children. Oh there's that part.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
So that's that's what he was on. Zoom zoom. I
just feel like he has the wrong zoom man.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
They got the wrong priorities, like Nicky on the end
of the well, wait till March twenty twenty six. If
you wait six months to dis me, I promise you
I'll never reply to it because a girl go to
hell part I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
She's too old forty two years yes, one.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Throwing shots at everybody, everybody.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
And one like your your fan base are no longer
Barbs exactly, they're Barbara's. You got to change their name and.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Barbara come on, goes he were.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I buy, y'all right, come.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
On, you too old for this. You're way too old.
And I told Nikki listen you I mean Cardi B.
The kids like one Cardi B. You're pregnant. You gotta
somebody you know in your stomach, So you can't talk
about somebody else child. She didn't thought that she didn't.
But you gotta be careful because yours ain't came out yet.
I mean, come out, it don't matter, come out looking
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like and I be like, I can't.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Let that just ride out. I don't know I understand
the pettiness.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
You know.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
I just was born on petty lane.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I don't know how to like get past that if
you talk about my child, I don't know how to
just be like, and then did a fake apology, went
on her total her gums.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Was like, was push the baby.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Just wait till your kid come out. That's all I'm saying.
I just don't think we said.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Correct, So now wait six months.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
A thing, the whole thing with this is, first of all,
do something else, you know what I'm saying. Like the
reason stuff like this thrives is because we continuously give
it attention. If CARTI had heard some slick stuff from
Nicki Minaj and disregarded it and moved on, NICKI would
be shouting into the void. But when you when you
entertain it, it grows. It's like a flying when you
get it life, it's gonna grow.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
But the reality is though nobody cares about the music
no more, so you have to create everything around it
to get the attention. It's good form, So we're gonna go.
And then when Nicki Minaj put out an album and
put out a song, we're gonna go just to hear
what she said about so I mean young thug and
why if in Luci did like a little drama beef
(14:59):
right before they put out of album and then they
was on each other album, so it was like a
fake beef. We thought you weren't rocking with each other.
I mean, they came together. But what I'm saying is
I think people are doing that now is just create
this beef, find somebody to go back and forth with.
I got an album coming out and brings attention. It
does work, but that's our fault that we make it
(15:19):
work and we go and and because I do tune
in every tweet, I was in it where she called
a heavy tongue hold and I think that was great.
She was good. I ain't gonna tell you Nikki got
down with the heavy tongue. That's the only part.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
But it was a lot.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
It was a lot, But that's a and I feel
like the tongue is heavy.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
They need to do something else? Did I feel so
bad for Quarty?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
I feel bad for card because girl, you just got
out of a situation where offset and now you're doing
here step and digs and you got this baby numberfore like,
oh my god.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I just want much better for us.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
I want us to chase our dreams and fulfill all
our desires and stop being somebody's baby mama or somebody's
oop or like, just can we do something else?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Black women? Y'all looking bad? Right now?
Speaker 1 (16:15):
That was it?
Speaker 3 (16:15):
I want to see.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Hold on just what I was feeling a bit Now
I'm not a.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Better okay, because but let's let's just make sure we
clarify them.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It's not the same type of the that's on C's
that's what.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
But this is what we need with black people when
we come at y'all. This is what we need. We
need like that for actions, you know what I'm saying,
like sticking together. It's still a whole let But that
was hilarious.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Stop trolling us now. I hopefully they can't get it together. Yeah,
I hope.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
So, I mean, I want the best for the but
I also Gerdi's Rich Froe brought that. I'm gonna keep
talking about him because I ain't no millionaire. Yes, so
I can talk about its problems.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
They still gonna get money, They still gonna get bread.
Album still gonna sell, like I mean.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
Well, I mean Cardi b I have to give her
her her credit, like her rollout and what she did,
you know, shaking. She came to Atlanta and they said
she stayed here for about about about eight hours. Like
she shook everybody hand wow, like signed every record, like
she literally did that. So I can't hate her. I
like Cardi, I really I do like I like Cardi.
(17:36):
I'm a fan, you know.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
I love I love Cardi the I love Bodac Yellow Cardi.
I love love a hip hop Cardi that was hungry
and was just trying to make it.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
That's the party b that I love. And now it
seemed like it's all too it's it's too manufactured.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Now it's a lot of I mean manufactured put together.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
I like it still though her album, not every with
those skips, not everything all the way through, but she
had some bombs on it. Old friend, I'm not to
blast that later when we leave, just how you did
me with glove real I'm gonna wake.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
You up to different.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
I got my free gir in my bag. That's different.
We had of me, that's different. We was in a room.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Yeah bad.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
Nobody couldn't leave you to go up. Yeah we're going out.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Because if I wake up and he jumping on my No,
somebody at my house. Oh okay, I is throwing the
house part and y'all got glow sticks up in there. Yeah,
it's everybody going to a hotel. Scooby Snacks, Storry Bard.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
You gotta friends come through.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
He in a group chat right now. My mama. See,
I love my son. That's my baby. Want to kick
but you know what I mean. Much success, power and
love to both the laces. Both of y'all put it together.
If not, if not, that's on y'all.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
Y'all got to deal with that JT standing down by
the way, Yo, I don't know what you come like.
You put out that record. I couldn't believe you put out.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
That left field.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
That was one fish to fish man. I'm just glad
Karisha didn't get on that girl.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Karsha was saucy Santanah her up here.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
You can you can't go back before with saucy.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
That but had a little because you know, Ouzy and
saucy kind of in the same. I ain't going to
Uzzi Saucy.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
I thought she would be able to help her out
with a little comeback. Know that man looked this interested.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
I don't know. I seen a clip of them recently.
He's like he didn't give a damn.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
Staying out of that.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Okay, warm man, that's why you would be you think
he came.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
If he ain't, he the one that get's not.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
He definitely leading us on, and I don't know why
in that direction.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
He rolled his eyes a lot.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
You right, he rolled his eyes a line. It's the
person Ruffles saw.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Listen, they did that back in the day. Now, as
I say, that was the thing that was the whole
school of singers. Look, they had halt the tops and
bail bottoms and bail bottom tight jean.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
And let's be clear, Prince would take your girl. Prince
is different. We never and Prince saying I'm Prince that
there had to be I'm saying clothing. What I'm saying
what To Alton's point, there was a time when men
were that way and it was acceptable, and girls were
passing out when they saw it, I went pretty Prince
(20:34):
na UZI yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
Prince Prince said he wasn't a woman of a man
with some of you will never understand. He said that
in the song So Prince is the only concert I
kept watching. He had jazz cheak out and I ain't
I ain't come my eyes. I mean you cover your eyes.
Every man can say that, what is prince? But he
had both budda cheeks out and we kept singing because
(20:56):
if it was, if it was saucy, I do this now,
I'm I'm not looking at that saucy ass, but prince
ass I looked at that whole concert both cheeks. Man,
he still had them out. The crack to the cracked
one out, but he had his cheeks out and nobody closed.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
Part of the cup because you know the bottom part
be darker.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
But he didn't get it was it was. I don't
want to explain another man ass cheek what it is.
I mean, you see what verse Well, here's the thing,
it's Prince. Yeah, and as a man, you can you
can look at a concert with Prince as out because
it's Prince. You see what I'm saying. We can we
can move on.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
Okay, we can move on.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
We can move on, but I just want to am
all right. He could tell you just the man looked
at that concert and soon the whole song you, I Will.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Go for you. That's where I said that too, with
the butt cheeks out. Speaking of Danny was sentenced to yikes,
(22:04):
this is an this is an episode for y'all. Yeah,
last Friday, we finally about out. He's doing fifty months.
What y'all think about the herder? He's doing fifty months
for the booty.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I'm fighting tears.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
Y'all was.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Telling me like, Okay, dang, what I saying. I'm trying
to do the episode. Just got bring it back. I
just was trying to do the episode.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Okay, I'm back.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Go ahead, Okay. So Dinny was sentenced to fifty months
in prison. He was found guilty of two counts of
transporting women to engage in prostitution four years and two
months specifically, along with five years of supervised released and
a half a billion oh jesus sorry, half a million
dollar five He does get credit with tom served, which
(22:59):
he has since he's been in prison since September of
last year. Now, they said he could have been sentence
to eleven years, but he would sending to only four.
People like dj Envy are still defending Diddy and stating
that he was railroaded.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
His sending seat was unfair.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
And I have a bunch of stuff to say about
dj Envy, but I will say, how can you say
that a man who abused people trafficked people for year decades?
Speaker 2 (23:27):
At this point, how how light should we go on
the sentence?
Speaker 3 (23:32):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Like, what are we thinking here? A slap on the rest?
Speaker 1 (23:35):
We want him out free in the streets, on him
just being his friend. It don't matter. That's about facts.
People are just like that.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
But that's my friend. I don't want my friend to
go jail. It's just flying as a rapist that part.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
It's literally the friends you're online little cockbrokes don killed
thirty people, stab two of them, rob the pregnant woman.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
No, am, stay in there, he's a minute to society. Okay,
you need to set out.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
I don't get squashed somewhere up in there, like we
just don't have time for this, like the friend thing,
and not stay in the facts or dealing with the
facts of what he's actually done, and then him doing
the time for what. We don't have time for this.
I don't, I don't, I don't think anything about it.
I think he got less than. I think he should
write in prison.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
That's what I'm saying. He got less than with his
third but he still got to do the time.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
Yes, sure, after looking at that video with Cassie, don't
I don't see how anybody can take up for him,
you know what I'm saying. I just I just don't
see it. And then Donald Trump was you know that.
You know, they asked him if he's gonna partner them
and all that, and I'm like, he got to think
about it, so he may pardon them. I heard he
(24:40):
got a job for him.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
I'm not surprised.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, he's supposed to be like doing He's supposed to
be all over domestic oil or something like that. He's
supposed because he they say, you know where the oil at,
So he supposed to be all both all the domestic
all because you know, they drilled it, drill, baby, drill,
and so they so they're trying to get him out.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
So a seventeen year old boy in New Jersey who
charged with murder at a hicky in support of Charlie
Kirk ran over two girls that he stalked for days.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
What yeah, yeah, what happened again?
Speaker 2 (25:18):
He stopped him.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
The seventeen year old boy he ran up, He drove
to uh, well, he sawved these two girls that were
basically they were not in support of anything that Charlie
Kirk had said and after his past and you know,
people had some less than favorable things to say about
Charlie Kirk, and this guy just decided that he was
going to plow them down. The two girls, Maria Neotis
(25:40):
and Isabella Salas. Yeah, we're basically ran over with his vehicle.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
He did.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
They did pass away. Where is he in jail?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
They said that he's being tried. He said he vowed
that vengeance. He said that he vowed vengeance on two girls,
and he's in jail for murder. So I think that
I think that the over the bigger issue here is
white men are the problem. Now I'm gonna look at
the camera when I say this, camera, before you question
(26:15):
who the shooter was, or who the serial killer was,
or who the whatever was, you have to consider these facts.
Because they like to put trans people in this conversation.
They like to put black and brown people in these conversations,
and it's just not us. It is straight white men. Okay,
it's sis hetero white males. They are losing their minds.
(26:40):
They're sitting behind computers all day and they are probably
don't engage with people on a regular basis. And so
when they see someone Charlie Kirk, who they think embodies
all the things that they wish they could do or
say they ride for him, did the wills fall off?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Literally? Literally, this is crazy.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
I can't stand people that because when you give to
like the black on black crime, like I said, it's
a lot of white men. I'm scared of white man.
Sometimes I'm terrifying because when black people, when we have
our violence, it's because either black people are hungry so
they're going to rob you, or if they kill you,
it's because they got some beef with you. They're not
(27:20):
we're usually not going around killing random people eat or
we're not killing people because you hate them that it's right,
or I'm just saying, but I'm just saying, we're not.
We're not killing for a race because the color of
your skin. It's either because I'm broke, I got beef
with you, that's usually main reason why black on black
(27:41):
crime happened. But to kill somebody because of the color
of their skin is a whole nother beast. That's that's
we can't compare that. We don't operate like that. So
while y'all doing all this stuff for black people, yes,
you need to check these white boys that's going into
these high schools mass killing, they sniping people, they're going
into movie theaters and they.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Just killing them. The State University.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Come on, you just find out that Trey read this
autopsy came back and of course it was not a suicide.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
But that because black people don't hang themselves from trees.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Right, so we need to we need to stop that.
You know, we need to stop that first. And any
black person that say that just bothers me. What about
black on black crime?
Speaker 1 (28:21):
What about the cargo like black people don't live close
to black people, the chances of crime being against another
black person? Okay, well we haven't Georgia guys today.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
Uh that got end on the light because that was
pretty bad.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
It was hard.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Like that was.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Say, that's scared. Talk about one more thing. Okay, okay,
just let's scared cunouns and just wants to derailed.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
This slight bad.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Okay, So just we absolutely don't leave in there because
if you didn't want it to be recording, you shouldn't
say it. So there's that. I'm crying.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
That was scary.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
That was very I'm nervous about it. He said that.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
I mean what I'm saying, if we don't want to
do that period, that's but I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
You know, yeah, okay, let's just let's just transitions. We
gotta go. We're gonna do a little segment.
Speaker 3 (29:17):
No transition you had.
Speaker 2 (29:21):
My transition was off the change. That's what I do that. No,
we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
We're gonna do a session called girls talk. That's how
we're gonna close it down. Let's talk out with a
little bit of girl talk. You eaves dropping right now,
you gotta we gonna have a little segment. Should you
suggest what your wedding party should wear? Not the party,
I'm sorry, the guests, the people that come and support
you at your wedding. Should you suggest what they wear?
Because the social media influenced her name, Danielle Bernstein.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
She's getting married.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
She's very popular, and she said that she has some
suggestions about her engagement party and her wedding, so she
gave her guests some options of what she wanted them
to wear, and she she said, she's not paying for
the wardrobe, but she want to be clear the attire
is not mandatory.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
So I personally think she should go to hell. That's me.
But what do y'all think? I think, just don't show
up in white? I think I think that's the only thing.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yeah, yeah, like red, nothing too out, but like white specifically,
I could deal.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
With the red. White. Don't piss me off because now
you got to go that's gonna piss me off. But like,
I don't know, I guess she's talking about, like you know,
Jesus all, is that what she's talking about?
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Like being too but IM shooting because if you got
a certain body type, it no matter what you put on,
you still gonna show up. I think she just wanted
to control like the I mean, I think people understand
in general the dress code for a wedding, but I mean,
somebody did wear a red suit to my wedding and I'm.
Speaker 3 (30:50):
Divorced again, you got you was married. I feel like
this dope because I was in a wedding and my
first wedding. I didn't know I had to pay for
my own suit. Thought they were gonna pay it. I
was like my homeboy, he asked me to be in
the wedding, He's gonna give a suit I had, but
he got divorced. But no, I just want my money back.
(31:12):
I want my money.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
I did the same for my cousin wedding and I
could barely fit in it.
Speaker 3 (31:16):
Girl, you still got it.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Barely fit in it.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
I didn't know. Man, that was my first time in
the wedding, and I was like, dang, and he was
not jeerrying. So I had to get too. I had
to get a suit and it was crazy. Oh wow,
No I can't.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
I didn't spend a whole lot for my wedding. But also,
I mean, I'm just not I'm not over the top
kind of person. I'm not gonna do the most. My
whole time planning the wedding, I was remembering, this is
a party so people can come and celebrate us, and
they probably not.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
We're not gonna hear from them after the wedding.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
I do the most, you know, and that's only you
can do whatever you want to ever tell anybody what
to wear, like it only got that one rule.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
It's like, just don't wear white. I don't care what
you wear like. I don't think that's what I want.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
You need to be in a drinking room exactly. We
are your seekers, okay, because us is it bounceable? All right,
that's the only requirement I have. I don't care nothing
about that.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
But what was her like? Do you know what her
dressed like?
Speaker 1 (32:16):
And it just says that she has suggestions about her
and she she says she's not paying for it and
it's not mandatory, but she has some suggestions. And my
thing is, if it's not mandatory and you're not paying
for it, and why do you have suggestions? That's why
I said she's gonna help. I'm an advocate for people
just eloping. Just go somewhere and do your thing by itself,
and they have a party somewhere. Have a party somewhere
so people can come and celebrate you later, because I
(32:38):
promise you. I think my wedding costs five grand to
book the space. My dress was like seven fifty.
Speaker 2 (32:43):
My mom bought it. Yep, my aunt's friend.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
It was like a It was a It was a
bridle shop shop in South Haven Mississippi and my aunt
she did floral arrangements for all the tops.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Wow, and so I saved a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Of course I got here efice, but I didn't have
zero debt when I came out of that mayor.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
You shouldn't. And there's people that spending hundreds of thousand
dollars on wedding.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
It's not that bray to me.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
You going down you, I wouldn't suggest you do.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
I'm so extra.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Would you need gonna help me? Please help up?
Speaker 2 (33:15):
I'm not because I feel like my friend deserved whatever
she like. I'm so hundred.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
I don't want you spend one hundred thousand dollars on wedding.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
If I like her something I am like, just because
it's not something that I would do. I'm never gonna say, friend,
I don't think it should now. If you can't pay
your rent, then I don't want you to do that.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Like, but I don't need to have that conversation because
you're marry rich now you could None of this would
be a problem. It would matter. This is that in
this set up, what limit there? I love a car
with no limit?
Speaker 3 (33:48):
Me too, Yes, women, because I did do a love
I got could I looked at her. I looked at
her do this, and then ed off just.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
To what's your thing? You're gonna tell me what.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
I don't think I'm getting married, Okay, I can see that,
moving on, getting divorced out. I don't know, man. Fact,
I think once we figure out what is what marriage
is about again and figuring out what's the purpose of it,
(34:26):
because I think society and the world just messed it up,
you know, until we figure it out again, I think
I'm a I'm ana wait because I really don't.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
It's a it's a bit when people understand that marriage
first was introduced as a business.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
Okay, I take it.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
It's a business, and if you keep that in mind,
you don't stop trying to go into business with people.
I'm speaking from personal experience. Think about your business. Think
about doing group projects in high school.
Speaker 2 (34:50):
Think about it.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
It was always somebody in your group that wasn't doing nothing,
but y'all got the same grade, whether they put in
any effort or not.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
Right, Yeah, okay, that's marriage.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
And biblically, if you think about all that was business,
it was really just to have some babies and to
keep the money in the family and ownership. You got
a point that it wasn't no love involved that.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
So and I'm not saying that you can't get married
for love. I'm saying that love is not enough.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
Love ain't working, Love is not going to be enough.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
You have to make sure that you're going into business
with the right partner. Yeah, I feel that. I like
that mindset you do.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
You got to know how they spend money. I learned
that you know their their account, like how do you
get your credit? Credit cards? Can people? But how do
you spend money? How do you budget money? Stuff? I
think that's very important. You know what I'm saying. Because
you dave somebody that can't pay rent, you be in trouble.
That's now pay your.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
Car note because how long you got to take somebody
to find out that they're not paying their rent.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
You got to pay attention.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
I don't get evicted around me. You can't stay here.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
You got to pay attention. And dudes be using credit
cards like hell, I didn't know that, Like dude, Yeah,
I didn't know everything.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
Just to keep up with the masses, like keep up
with the Joneses shoes.
Speaker 3 (35:57):
I've seen the dude with a credit card stack this
much one time, and he was paying for our hotel
because it was you know, and he was a promoter.
I ain't asked no questions. But he had a credit card.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
You use this one, she said, Oh, shove it through
credit card. That's crazy. Ain't no way, No, that's wild.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
I know what credit cards.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
Some people use credit I use credit cards, but I'm
using it to build traffiled points.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
I'm not using it to just lilligas.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
These dudes cammen scamming on the all time. I just
put it like that. I also know that from so
you just got to be covered. Like my thing is
with a woman, I do want to you didn't got
to be rich, but I do want to know how
you handle money.
Speaker 2 (36:39):
Yeah, what you hold on? But what's just real quick?
What's wrong?
Speaker 1 (36:44):
Why would you block that if you did meet a
rich woman? Why you mean she got to be But
like what if that is? We mine need to be
real real man. I'm gonna say that, but women, women, Okay,
it's okay for women to say That's not okay for
men to say that. Why, I'm not even gonna say
it's not okay. It's just something that we don't look for.
We don't look for a woman to be rich. You know,
we just don't want to.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
Didn't care about her being financially stable.
Speaker 3 (37:06):
I want her to be financially financially stable. I want
her to have her own thing going. I want to
build my woman, I do. I don't want a woman
to have to Most time, this is usually happened in relationships.
A woman would get a rich man and then she'll
put her stuff on the back burner. And now you
take care of this kids. You're doing all that. I mean,
you just howsed to carry his head. You know what
I'm saying. What I don't want is a woman to
(37:27):
put all her eggs in my basket and then we
don't work out, and now she left trying to.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Figure life podcast telling people that she trying.
Speaker 3 (37:35):
To feed their life. Why but that's the truth. So
you've married these rich men and women put their stuff
on the back burner. Now he's taking care of everything.
He taking care of your bills. You forget how to
pay bills. Now he don't cheat it where you're gonna go.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
That's why I'm played them, gun. I just don't for myself.
But I don't see.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
But that's what happened.
Speaker 1 (37:57):
Yeah, I'm about to say, I know that's a normal thing.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
I'm never not working money in the world, and I'm
going to be hiding it. And how did I get
that allowance? It's under the mattress.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
Don't worry about this.
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Absolute here's the thing. Don't put it in Switzerland. Don't
do a Swiss bank account. Okay, do what it now?
Speaker 3 (38:15):
So soft life come with a callid stupid okay, but
soft light come with the costs. I always say that
it depends on the man, but soft light come shu.
But most of the time it comes with a cost.
This money because I got to it's just in my blood.
Want woman to do that.
Speaker 1 (38:31):
That's what I'm saying for women, though, I have benefited
so greatly from just having options and options give you, Hey,
I don't like this, I can walk away. You don't
have to stay with some of the weather. It'sn't even
gonna be to somebody that cheating. It could just be
this is we're not aligned, is not working out this
and I have options.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
I can walk away, and most women don't. Yeah, I've
been there.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
Let the dude pay the bill.
Speaker 3 (38:53):
Yeah, I mean the soft life they doing everything and
now you're doing why.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
Can't you have a soft life in that situation and
still be working, like you have the option to work
with you because the issue is this, It's like, okay,
you with somebody who making money and we're saying a
soft life, like she forgets everything.
Speaker 2 (39:09):
But let's just say you still can have a soft
life where you can work.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
But now you have the option if you gotta work
every day, if you got to grind all the time,
if you don't have to.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
See, you have options on like I can do this tomorrow.
Yeah I could pay an editor to.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
That, but that's what I want. Like, if I'm gonna
give you the soft life, at least work on the
things that you want to for you. You know what
I'm saying now, is.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
This position open? And do we have to do the sex?
Speaker 3 (39:35):
I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (39:37):
I just hope no, and God please to be there.
And you know what, I take my head out the ring. Well,
so well we tried. I was trying to get us
set up specific I'm saying. He said, he said, if
(40:02):
you give somebody the soft life, he wants you to
be able to work on your own stuff.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
I said, okay, cool, because soft to me, soft life
mean I could just take my girl out to Barbados
or soft I mean.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
We could get you for a month, but soft light
also come with.
Speaker 2 (40:17):
I don't want to do no six. I don't want
to do no sex. Even if I like you, y'all
have ben't get on my nerves. I don't want to do.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
Because some people be like, oh, well you should you
get yourself if it's attached to a nigga. I don't
want to take me out the group chat. Please holler
bite it, burn it.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
I don't want to see it.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
There's that guy you heard it here on she said
that he actually actually he said it first. Well, I mean, hey,
I guess we're gonna go ahead.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
And close out, close out. That's good, No, we did.
Speaker 1 (41:03):
Good. Lord.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
Let's listen y'all. You know we're gonna be here every Thursday.
You can catch the visuals on YouTube or you can
listen to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
Just make sure you like comment and subscribe and hit
that notification bill so you know every time you go,
we'll catch out the next one.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
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