November 6, 2025 • 34 mins
Episode 77 of She Said It First is part comedy special, part group therapy session, and part reminder that self-love is the real plot twist. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae start off with What Irritated Me the Most This Week, where they admit they’re too tired to even be mad, but still find the strength to drag the 5 a.m. trash collectors who treat their neighborhood like a monster-truck rally.
In Girl, What Happened, things turn from funny to felony as the ladies talk about the epidemic of people popping up unannounced. From exes showing up at nail salons to surprise visits that belong in horror movies, they make it clear. If your name isn’t Amazon Prime, don’t deliver yourself to their door. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ unpack the deeper issue of boundaries and safety, reminding listeners that sometimes closure just means blocking them on everything. They then dive into relationships, self-worth, and the wild realization that sometimes we fall in love with how we make someone feel, not who they really are. The hosts get real about outgrowing situationships, “pretty punishment” (when men try to humble confident women), and why the only person you should be chasing this season is yourself
Finally, in Girl Talk , they hilariously talk about girl trip etiquette and traveling with bad friends, as well as smart devices that listen too much, proving once again that Jerrilyn and Lynee can turn even chaos, creeps, and conspiracy into catharsis—and a good laugh.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Aunties Going Wild. Why why Auntie? What's up? Everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
It's your girl in describable aka Gerland Lake checking in
with none other than my best sieve for.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
The rest of Monte and you are listening to that,
she said the first podcast and every one podcast on
the every one podcast network period.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Friends you podcast, Oh friend, It's so good to be
back together once again this week and as usual and true,
she said, at first fashion, we got to kick off
the episode a bout asking what did ever tell to
(00:46):
you this week?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Child? I don't even think I got nothing left to
be anything. I once rtated about child, I'm tired.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I don't even got I only got the energy to
be irritated, I thought.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I imagine you don't even got the energy to be irritated.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Everything's fine because the last thing you wanted somebody to
ask you to elaborate, I don't even have to stress to.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
An elaborate, because if I wanted to elaborate, I will
have you ask me.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Okay, I left right on my own. The last thing
I want you to do is pull it out of me.
Oh god, I don't even got the energy to be irritated.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
You know, I never run out of energy to be irritated.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
What irritated you was the question, girl, them trash people
coming at the ass crack or dawn. Now, I appreciate
the valet train service, but five thirty frand you got
to get on top. You got to put that trash
out the night before.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
That's what I do.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I learned that I missed them. Mama, got catch them tomorrow.
You got to put them out the night before. I'm
gonna catch it tomorrow. Then they come through all loud,
and it sounds like somebody breaking in the house, Like,
get the trash to go? All right?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Why is that so much commotion? You're right, why is
it so much commotion? But so much commotion girl, foolishness?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
But okay, But anyway, shout out to our sanitation workers
because we do the service that you give us. A
smell like booty every day has to be traded. I
mean imagine shrimp tails.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Oh my god, like, oh, it take a strong nose
to deal with that. It's take a strong nose.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
But I can't, respectfully, I can't do it. But they
pop up on time every time they do. And you
know what else is popping up?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
People? Relationships? Girl, you got to girl.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
They say that people are doing drive bys, and when
I say drive by, I don't mean gang activity.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Are you sure?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I mean popping up at somebody's house trying to see
where's my boot?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
I got you, I.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Text you, and you the answer I'm saying here way,
I'm all loud, and that didn't happened to me so many.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I know you. I was so loud. You had an
outer body experienced. When you say something, you be.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Like girl, and it's you, and it's you. You are
the weakest sleek come.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Girl.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
These people is out here saying it is okay to
pop up at somebody house. And I want you to
know if you ever do it to me, You're going
to jail. I'm calling them people before and after I
put something hot on your ass. You come here if
you think you you thinking about to come up here
and acting food with me.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
That happened in every relationship. I can't do it. That
is not God. Why is it normal? It's not normal.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It's only happened to me twice, and it scared the
hell out of me.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I don't like it is scary. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
It's definitely a scary. Situation and ten out of ten
would not recommend. I don't know, why do that happen
to me like that? Like that is very normalized in
my life, Like people will pop up because God.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Just ghost you.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I'm not popping pop up. If you want to, I
gotta pop for your ass. I'm telling you, don't do that.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Do that.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
But I've never done that to them. So I've never
done that to them. But that always happens to me.
Like the only I would say the craziest thing I
ever did was if I was saying somebody and I
thought they was cheating on me. This was back in
my early twins. If I thought they was she probably
a joe by the house. But I didn't say, hey
am outside, walk up to the door or anything like that.
I just want to see if that car that I
(04:06):
thought was in the driveway. I did do that too,
and so I've done that before. But I'm not I'm
not rolling up on nobody and actually making contact. No,
that's crazy, and especially the list girl, I don't be
having the energy for all that.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Even Amazon could send a notification.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
So if you if you are not Amazon, they be
notifying me or the Holy Spirit, don't come over here
on an outse.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
It'd be like, I'm if you're on answer the phone,
I'm coming. Oh okay, I just be in the house chilling.
That's what they say. I dare somebody just say that
to me.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
I ain't never had nobody break down my door though
to get to me. They wouldn't have to even if
I lived in a glass house. I would just be
sitting there looking because that's kind of what I did.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Is I open the door.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I ain't gonna see like I opened it. See.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I'm scared for that girl. Girl. I can't even tell y'all,
not child, what aund like top of head rolling around
like top Jerry in Okay, you.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Know that in cartoons it be that white cloud. That's
just why at my house, why we can't do this
at your tail?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Tap my stuff? I can't do it. Oh my god,
girl falling off, it was a mess. I don't want
to be involved in that.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
That.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I just if you are someone you love has been
affected by pop her Up. And I want you to
know that this episode of she said the first podcast
was sponsored by these.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Hands right yet?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
And and then third rounds that's bad? And I told
you my ex popped up on me at the Nelson.
That's why I don't never hear girl. I posted a
video about my nails, the ones I had before these
or whatever, and everybody's asking where you.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Get your nails done? At where you get your nails.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Done thet I said, why would I tall you this,
that's my thing, And I'm like They got so mad
at me because I wouldn't drop the exact location of
where I frequent because you know, I get my nails
done where I frequent often. They were like, oh, she gatekeeping.
She's not a girls girl. She don't want us to know,
first of all, my safety.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Why would I want to shop there?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
And I relax here like I don't want to have
to You're gonna be recorded. You know, people don't care
or just want to.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I just want to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Yes, they know where I'm at. So everybody got mad
about that. But either way, I stopped doing that.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
With my ex. We broke up and I stopped talking
to him. I cut him off like completely or whatever.
And I have posted girl, just try to get a
little relaxation after the breakdown. I'm stressed. My feet was
balled up. I need to put them as the water
that all attention in my big toe like this. I
was stressed.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
So I had one daddy get a little like a
lot basis and they give you wine and stuff. And girl,
he popped up in that Neil salon. It was the
most uncomfortable situation I had ever ever ever been in
ger He stayed the entire time harassing me, asking me everything.
And the fact that I sat there and continue to
get my nails done and my toes done was even
(06:53):
more crazy. And the lady was looking at me and
she was like, are you okay? She could tell my energy.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
This girl. I wanted.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I wanted to slip her a note like I would
have just said, can you please?
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Oh my god, you know what to deal? I ain't
know what because I don't want him to get locked up.
That's so psychotic.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I love be locked up because if you wanted to
stay out of Prince and you would be coming.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
But ladies, no, no, she don't mean that. She don't stay.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I have to call on Mama one time and tell
her if he come over here again. I know he
got two very small daughters. He they gonna be fatherless.
Oh and oh y'all, tell him don't come on here.
He sat outside my house and he waited for me
to go to the gym. He knew I would go
to the gym around twelve o'clock, so we sat outside
my parking lot. He waited for me to come outside,
(07:42):
walked up on me. I know you're mad, and you
said you don't want to do with me. I just
wanted to let you know that I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
I said, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
How did you feel? So you don't feel no, like
you don't feel uncomfortable. It's not nothing like let me
not take my eyes off this man, but that part, yeah,
he might try something. I had cameras and started the
next day. Yeah, my daddy came down that we can, Yeah,
put cameras up there. Oh my god, because what there's
no there's no there's no scenario where I ask you
(08:12):
to leave me alone and you come back and win
me over.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
And I think that's I think romantic comedies.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
People watch stuff on TV and film and they think, oh,
I just need to try harder. I'm not that girl.
If I tell you to stop, that's what I mean. Yeah,
I don't want you to try harder. I don't want you.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
To me a long way, right, I have made my
decision very sturborn.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Once I once my mind is made up, there's nothing
you can do it sell that because.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I probably have stayed with you way too long.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Anyway, Oh my god, That's that's what we're not talking about.
It's how long we stay in these relationships knowing that
they're over, like and hopes that it will eventually go
back to what it was, or like they will have
a change your heart, so they will be someone who
you created in your mind, because sometimes we can create
the fantasy ourselves even though it never presented it. So
(08:59):
or people are face they show up one way, but
then that person is gone and you never see them again,
and hopes they'll return to that. So like, why are
we staying longer than we need to?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Like, well, it's what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
This is a perfect saveway to our next subject, which
is stop chasing things that aren't meant for you. And
I think we get into relationships with people in the
honeymoon phase. Yes, it's a beautiful phase. It's so beautiful.
It's oh, everything is fun. We're taking trips and they
called me all the time, and they helped me with
stuff around the house, and they buy me things, and
(09:30):
they laugh at my jokes and they're there for me
on my worst days. And then the good stops outweighing
the bad, and you are constantly trying to get back
to that honeymoon peace.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
But over it's done. It was just a honeymoon, and it.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Might not have existed at all, that thought that we
do as women sometimes, baby, we project our awesomeness and
our depth and our humor.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
We project all that onto people and we fall in love.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
But I oh, weep all in love with the way
we think somebody is making us feel? What really were
just doing? All the talking, all the planning, all the initiation. Girl,
what a therapist.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Saw me there?
Speaker 2 (10:12):
I said, oh my god, you got me really like
stay hold on because I got to go in the
memory back now. Oh no, but I'm awesome exactly, I
am exactly, I am pretty. And that person was responding
to your awesomeness and you was like, mmm, I love
the way they.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Love me.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Whole time, the whole time you love yourself. Dang, Jelen,
that is crazy, It's insane. Have y'all, ladies, I would
like to know how.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Do y'all feel about that?
Speaker 2 (10:42):
And have you actually like noticed that, like were you
in the thick of the relationship and realized like absolutely,
look absolutely, yeah, yeah, same, absolutely, And I mean sitting
up thinking like, oh wow, this person, this is in
love with me and they make me laugh whole time.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
I'm the one cracking out the joke. I didn't go
I had to think about this really hard.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Coron went back through like my mental role index of
conversations and time spent and trips taken, and I'm like, dang,
I was the funny one I was making.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Do you feel like you have to be with somebody
who's funny? Yeah? I do too. I need, I need
say I laughing. But I wonder, like is that superficial?
Speaker 2 (11:28):
I just don't want to be in those serious serious
I mean, I want to be in a serious relationship,
but I don't want to be in a relationship where
like we can't laught to be able to have fun. Yeah,
I want to be able to have fun with my person. Yes, absolutely, absolutely,
that's what I think. Yeah, and I can't do no
old stuff.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Everything's another joke.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Well, yes it is Greg, Yes it is Greg. And
you know that laughing to Greg, So like Greg, Greg's right,
everything is not funny, he's done seen enough and he tied.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Me squandering his fortunes because every time I come back,
you put a new charge on the car. Get off
my lawn. What greg? Lord?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
These gregs out here, they be wanting you to not laugh,
not go out, not dress dry or sex see. And
my thing is if you got a bad thank you,
she's gonna be bad all the time.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
But the issue was like, and I mean, correct me
if I'm wrong.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
You know what I'm saying. Most attractive women don't have personalities.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I can't relate. I know if you don't point, I know.
Oh I wish I could what I'm about to say.
I could just tell you right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
But I think we see that a lot on social
media too, even like with these women who are like
maybe we just don't know them. So maybe we just
don't know them. Maybe we're on seeing the interviews is
not it's not enough evidence. I'm just saying, when they
go on interviews.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
It's not enough evidence to see that this person literally
is a bird. Bring are now not having a personality
and being stupid.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
It's to totally different things because I don't think I
don't think we can use those we can't conflict those two.
I think being dumb you gonna have a personality. You
could be fun and I can have a great time
with you.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
No, not done dumb fun. I don't like that's you
have no recollection of consequences. No, I think people just
be dumb.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I think people understand consequences. But when I say dumb,
I mean like literally don't know things I'm not talking about,
don't know things I'm talking about. Dry, like justdry, we've.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Had fun, Oh my god, about to say we have
oh about mine? Nail on the head? I got it,
you get what I'm saying. Just like that type of
personality but so beautiful, but just like.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Right, okay, yeah you did you make the same thing.
She gets in there said, yeah, yeah, what you mean?
Speaker 1 (13:52):
So I don't like I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Most attracting people don't really have a personality. It's that
fair to say, though, And I want to go with this.
I'm glad you brought this up because I feel like,
have they relied on being pretty?
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Yes? Pretty privileged?
Speaker 2 (14:07):
You hear people hate to talk about pretty privilege like
strong And it's funny because Sweetie just said something about
pretty punishment so nobody is punishing sweet. We asked her
to rap better. We said, go back in the booth
and try it again.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Girl. Stop.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
I think people are trying to figure out how come
Karsha can get away with it but she can't. Like
it's Karisha getting away with I think Karsha is getting
away and road chase girl. We can dragged her. Karrishia
did not get away with that, that is true.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
She did we do, we do and.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
When she said flute out girl, girl, Karsha did not
get away with that. So weed He might be there
a little jealous because she ended up with a billionaire
who's now going to Okay, but let's know she's said
pretty punishment. She believes that people are punishing her because
she's attracted.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Could you just hold it together for I won't let
you get why.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
You don't think that girl is lying. We're punishing you
because you're attractive. Western society has never punished someone for
being pretty ever.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Think about it. People that aren't.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Now deemed beautiful okay because we all have a different
understanding of what pretty.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Yeah, beauty is definitely in the holder for sure.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
American Western American beauty standards nobody's being punished for looking
like Taylor Swift or Sweetie or Beyonce or lighter.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Let me, let me, let me, let me ask you,
Let me I wouldn't talking about them, but who is
talking about Think about it. Let me tell you this gerline.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Because you're saying punishment, I'm about to tell You're about
to break it down you and be like, hmm, you
never ever Ooh, I.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Got somebody I want to use to but I won't.
You'll get it, okay.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So you've never been in a situation where a dude
try to humble you immediately only because you're attractive. He
has not talked to you, he don't know anything about
you nothing. It's specifically because you're attractive, and he feels
like you ain't gonna come over here and think you're
gonna get whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
I'm not giving you nothing. I'm not entertaining to you.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Or talk to you a certain type of way to
try to humble you. I they it's somebody who did this.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
I'm feeding it to you. I refuse because I already
know who you look at.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
It's all about humbling you because they know that you're
attractive and they think that you can get whatever you
want based off that. Not because you're funny as hell,
not because you have an amazing personality and you're pretty.
It's just because you're attractive. It's like, nah, I'm gonna
go on her and dudes.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Because everybody else is telling her that she's pretty.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
So it's pretty punishment. You haven't done anything. I don't
think that's pretty punishment. I think that's the low we wieze.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Okay, now you want to keep renaming. We're not gonna
keep renaming.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Why are you arguing with me because you mad?
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Pretty Like you're mad because I'm cute. You want to
be the man you want to be. Okay, see, I'm
train up, Like, let's be for real for the girl.
That is pretty punishment.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
I mean I can see that that's a real thing.
I've experienced it on numerous occasions. I'm about love, dudes
love telling me I need to keep you humble?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
No you don't, you really.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Don't they and they hate when you know that your
so they already have all of these thoughts, right, But
they also hate when you're aware of your attractiveness.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
Or don't you ever You're like, I look.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
So cute today, I don't mess around and also have
since that part like being pretty is one threat. Being
pretty and being able to say no or speak your
mind and have your own opinions, that's the biggest threat,
because how dare you sit over there and look cute
and be grateful that we got you in a space?
Been there, done that so many times. And so to
(17:49):
the to the ladies who understand what I'm talking about, keep.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Your foot on their neck, keep your foot if I
got to grab Okay, and that's.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
On, don't you let up like being smart, being attractive
and also having a sense of humor and since oh
you are the total package, and don't let no dude
come in and tell you anything other than because it's
just like that whole young thug thing. Mariah the scientist
is beautiful. He doesn't want her to talk to anyone
so that she.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Will know her value.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
It's like she he does not deserve her at all,
but he doesn't want anyone else to show her her
work or tell her, oh, you're so much more worth
than you have so much more value than.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
He wants her to talk to him so he can
keep her right worship nothing. So you got the big cats,
then you got another one, what's his name, Cam Newton,
who wants a list of your body count. He wants
all the people you ever had intercourse with. He by his.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
List is longer than a CVS receipt as because I'm
going to long agend Magic Johnson, Sonfee anything on that.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Don't ask me because I'm Michael Jordan.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Eddie Vie, Barack Obama and Eddie Griffin. I didn't want
to bring it up, but he's wild. I'm about to start,
how dare you? That's once again, but keeping keeping her
so he can have that list to mind her of
her work.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Oh you're remember you, You're not that valuable. You did
it to do it? This is and then this, this is.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
The craziness of the insecurity because you talking about I
need to see if somebody got.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
A one up on me.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
You were with her, you won, and you've impregnated her.
You didn't ask for the list before.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
We really, we really wish, we really and we genuinely
wish that Dad had never happened, and not twice fool me.
Want shame on you fool me twice?
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Shame on men like okay, No, it's it's actually terrible
to think about how men will try to bully you
into accepting the bare minimum because they know they can't
reach the st and they know they don't deserve you.
Like if this girl knew how much she deserved and
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she would ask me for it, And why should I
come out of my comfort zone to do more than
I've been doing to earn her. It reminds me of
the episode on Scamping when Olivia was you don't summon me,
you need to earn me. I said, now, Olivia, that
would work if you hadn't been screwing this man the
whole time. But the whole joint chiefs to staff, everybody
(20:26):
knows exactly, Like girl, please, you know your coochie size now?
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Threatening people with that? Yeah, Like no, that's one of
those things that you know.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
But once again, these are women we're talking about who
are attractive, and that is pretty punishment.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
They keep you right where they can see you.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Yeah, And the gag is I'm too big for whatever
box you try, I'm always going to be too big
you're trying to put me in. So shout out to
all the women that are breaking down the walls and
not letting people bury you in mediocrity, because they will
come on, and they will trying to tell you what
you can and can't preach up. Listen, you know what
(21:05):
we should do? We should This is a perfect segue
to what we have a girls trip coming up. We
do and on this girl's trip, of course, we're gonna
be poured into y'all, abe and letting y'all know all
the ways that you are amazing and not to be
taking no trash from from nobody.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
But we got to talk.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
About a girls trip etiquette because me and you learned
this quick in a ruber. What what type of travelers
are we? When it's time to turn up? It's time
to turn up. You want to go on an excursion.
Let's go on an excursion.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Do you need a nap? Let's take a nap.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
When you mix the friend group and you travel with
the wrong people, the trip ain't gonna go the way
you think. It's no, it's not no. There's always that
one person who, well, I only gotta.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
Want to do, girl, I don't want to do?
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Should said thank you? Why did you should have stayed
at the house? Why did you come because they knew
that you was going. You gotta watch people that's you
using you too. Because people will come on the trip knowing.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Knowing ain't paid wait for you say, oh girl, I
got you. Don't worry about this. Yes I got your girl.
It's my third day getting you. I'm about to get
your head. I'm about to get in about like why
are you out here with no money?
Speaker 2 (22:18):
So yeah, I just think like when it comes to
your friends group, you gotta be able to decipher who
can handle it because all them personalities don't always work together.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
You gotta know who's a chameleon in your who.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Can get along with anybody, like you gotta know that
person who is possessive over you. Because some people have
friends who are possessive over them and cannot see them
interacting with anyone but them.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
They get jealous.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Don't invite her, please, like she gonna be mad at
every little thing, y'all. Do somebody talking to your friends
too long?
Speaker 1 (22:45):
You got upset. You got the one, like she said,
that's broke. You got the one that is.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Man hungry, going because they want to and see them.
The one that I have you in a weird location,
being safe, comfortably proposition by somebody because oh they're buying
us strengths or oh they're getting us in this sestion,
and the men centered women are going to forever terrify
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the hell out of me. It's not that men aren't
great and we don't love them and need them.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
But if your entire existence it's because of a man
girl talking to hell, go to hell.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
You've got to go, and I mean, don't even pass
go or collect two hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Go straight there. I'm telling you, go straight there. Gotta
stop doing that.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
But yeah, them them friends groups, y'all gotta I'm blaming
you because you knew, you knew your you know your friends,
and you invited them all here for this to be
a disaster.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
And my birthday is room. It didn't go.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
You know, you know you wanted to ruin the birthday.
You wanted a ruin birthday. You you thought people was
gonna hold it. You ain't never seen these.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
People hold it together in any other setting. You thought
they was gonna do that for you.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Right, No facts, facts, You've seen how these people have
operated time and time again, and you thought that this
scenario was that's delusional, delusion, that's delusional. Yeah, So make
sure your girlfriends is on the same page, because I'm
I'm not that person. I don't have a whole lot of
friends anyway, but the two or three that I have,
I know that I can put them in a room
and it won't be fireworks.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
Yes, I have friends that.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Aren't jealous and aren't insecure, and they have their own
things going on, and so we're able to exist in
a space where you know, everybody's just having a good
time and it really is about the fun and the
experience and the journey and all that stuff. So I
think that just making sure be careful how you mix
the friend groups, because.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I remember that one situation, like I was trying to
steer clear. Maybe yeah, never again. But I like her.
I like to go on the ride.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I actually like her and all the time because I
think she's over to death once again, I'm a chameleon,
though I am famelion who can get along.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Well, it might be different if the situation happened.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
That is true, I would, but I still would like
her because I was just like she was told up.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Like I cannot hold that she I can't hold that.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Again, Listen, I said. My thing is, I'm just not
gonna put you all in the room together no more.
It's actually very simple. It's actually very simple for me
and the people you know that does now that i'm
thinking about it. People that want all their friends to interact,
that's annoying. It's so annoying.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
We don't all have to to get along.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Come on now, Barney and I know somebody that I
think y'all will hit it all. And now we're hitting
each other exactly. Yeah, we're really hitting it on. Look
you look what you've done.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Now I'm doing twenty by life made up food.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Tell me what girl out here in another country being
held for bond that we don't have in a different currency,
like you got to be careful on these girls trips
and you got to make sure that it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Absolutely. But all that to promote ours and will come,
we're not gonna be doing. We ain't.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
We don't even tolerate have a this time. And to
be honest, I'm not gonna hold you. If you go
out there and get locked up, that's you press on you.
That's not a me problem because I won't because I'm
not myself like that jail and thank you, and I'm
not going to use my money to get you out
because I feel like that's what you wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
If you go to Thailand and get locked up, you
want to be putting.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
You didn't have your own bailment, a man hold, because
that's from sure where you're going to be, and a
man hold somewhere, that's what you want to send a
shoe bot. I would not suggest you do that. Hold
that anger till you get back on us soil. Right,
what is that about? But then and then remember that
you have stuff to lose. Yes, but that's not something
that we're trying to do anyway. But March fourteenth through
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the twentieth, we will be going to Thailand. Click the
link in either of our biols. The trip is almost
sold out. Some securi your spot. You can travel alone
and meet people there. Yeah, you can bring me us,
bring your bestee. Will be there, so don't think you're
gonna be by yourself. We'll be there. The flight is
not included, just let y'all know, but you can make
payments on it through December, so click the link thebody
else let us know. We do have one more thing
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to talk about, and I think it's important to talk
about because it happens all the time.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Before we get out of here. Let's talk about how
these phones be listening to us.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Girl, the way I unplug Alexa, I have to unplug her.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I don't like her highlighting while I'm talking. What are
you doing?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Because I say, hey, Alexa when I'm talking to you.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
When I'm not talking business. Oh no, I have to
I'm scared, like it scares me.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
And then also, just like us talking right all the
stuff that we talked about, we're.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
Gonna get an advertisement for whatever. I do not like that.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
The minute you get on Instagram or you just be
on whatever, it's going to pop up immediately. And I
just don't feel comfortable with that. Even like the little
stuff I noticed when I text about certain things, I
get ads for the text messages and girl, you're get
into an argument or you beefing, gir it's gonna show
you all of it.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
You need to trust this person is a narcissists, I'll say,
don't want exactly.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
And also, if you beefing with somebody, they're gonna be
the first person that comes up on your timeline. That's
the most annoying thing to me because if.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
I said I don't want to see them, you don't
want to see them.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
But yeah, so that's I think that's such a weird thing.
And I know that cybersecurity is such an important issue,
but I'm wondering what we can do, if anything other
than turn the election. Turn everything off. It's so crazy,
turn it off, rand turn it all, bro. I got
a whole smart house. They told me if I plug
anything into this one outlet, I can control it from
my phone. That's crazy, greline. And imagine how much they're
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controlling here. Now it's sounding crazy, but I'm not. But
it's all programming. I'm telling you, it's all programming. And
I think that they're they're trying to make us buy.
If me and you are having a conversation about going
to Thailand, I guarantee I'm about to get a notification
from Expedia because they know I'm gonna get on it.
Oh my god, I'm like, it makes me feel like
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I don't have no privacy. It also like rips you
of your own personal thoughts. It feeds you whatever, even
if you're not in the right state of mind. I
can only imagine how dangerous this is for younger old
people who are mentally unstable or in a heightened emotional state.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Like having something that will feed.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Whatever it is that you're dealing with and have you
gnaw at. It can really drive you crazy or make
you make like irrational decisions.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
This is signed exactly because I'm such a signed girl.
I don't want to people like exact exactly.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
But it's like if you don't, if you can't rationalize this,
like hold on, wait a minute, I know this is
Let me.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
Get up off of here. People can't detach from social media.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
They think it's real life Thank you TV and tell
you know, movies and stuff they'll see and they're like, oh,
I want my man to be like this. Your man
don't have a high school diploma.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
But why you want a man like somebody else?
Speaker 2 (29:39):
But that's people don't know that on social and they
think this is how life goes. Stuff like what you're
gonna do with that man? When you get you can't
even keep Jerome have like together, You ain't.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
You can't even keep look at the white shoes.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
At okay, you can't even get Jerome together or help
Jerome or be there for Jerome.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
Whatever you're trying to do with Jerome, it's not working.
And you want this man. You want somebody who can
shower you you're gonna establish You're not ready. You're not ready.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
You haven't even even developed in a way where you
can attract that type of person.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Y'all don't realize energy is serious.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
A lot of times we are attracting sometimes will we
project so Like if you are certain people are lashing
on to you, it's because of the state that you're in.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
You know what I'm saying, takes a strength. It's you're ugly.
I think I think that happens. I just want you
to leave me alone.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
No, I'm saying, I don't hear me, o, friend, we're
both gorgeous.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
We attract everyone. True.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
The problem is about are the ones who's let in
water we allowing Yeah, that's why I said. The ones
we are allowing in are not are not seeking us out?
It might be what we're you know, we attract everybody.
It's up to you to cut them off for a
little stake. But unfortunately, I don't want nobody else relationship
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because I'm telling you, you don't never.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Know what they could thank you. You don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
Licking Rashida and Kirk devastating news. Devastating, I mean devastating news.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Got back her husband and a girl, her career is over,
little Uzzi and j C.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
It's devastating, Lors devastating. I don't want to go back
to THEE. I don't I can't go back to the
y'all want relationship and I don't want.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
I don't want them. I just want to.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Should there be something said about us calling out love
and hip hop relationships because they was all you said, Kasha,
that was about the only one, but the rest of
them was definitely.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
I mean j C and Uzzi.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
Oh, yeah, him, you mean you mean the party being
all I mean, we could just it's never stop.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
It's just not something that we I know that we
do have positive role models, but these are not the ones. No,
these are not.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
Just because you see somebody all the time does not
mean you model your life after thank you.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
So.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
I think that's because people are only going to show
you what they want you to see, especially the.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
People were talking about girl, especially them.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
So and they't a different tax bracket too, mind your wage,
mind your own wage.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Then people ain't got nothing.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
To do with you, and we can't afford to be
doing stuff that they ain't your tax bracket, please, thank you?
Speaker 1 (32:31):
Yeah? And education level ooh and education argument every night,
Oh God, to prove your love.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Because I'm somebody who likes to be mentally right. So
if you cannot do that for me, I'm not even
interested anyway. Like I love to have intellectual just like
really deep conversations.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
And that's what gets me going, you know.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
But like if you can't do that and all you
care about is things that I don't, you know what
I like, It's just I can't even go there with you,
Like I'm not interested. You can't even fake it because
I'm gonna ask you stuff and you can't fake your
way through real conversation.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Not if you know what you're talking about. You know
what you're talking about, that part, that part can't make
You can't make that up. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
The glitz and glam ain't gonna get me because when
I talk to you and it ain't nothing there, I'm
off that.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
Okay, cool, you're dummy, but off that.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Now that I know you're right, I'm off that I
can go to something else, not no facts.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I'd be the same way. I think. The older you get,
the quicker it happens, you're just like, oh, this is
an idiot. It's gonna be something else, right.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
And I and I and I'm glad that, uh you know,
we're we're getting to that space because sometimes you just
gotta end things.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
Yeah, yeah, like this.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
I know.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
I'm sorry, y'all, but I'm.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Tired, So I'm not that I'm not tired. Okay, all right,
why is me naps too? Okay, We're definitely tired, but
it's fun. We've enjoyed y'all as always, absolutely, and you
know you can catch us here every Thursday on YouTube
for the visuals or for the audio. You can listen
to us wherever you listen to your podcast. Just make
sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit that notification
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bills of you'll know every time we update.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
We gonna cat y'all in the next one. Be fine,
Welcome to Aunties Going Wild. Why why Auntie? What's up? Everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
It's your girl in describable aka Gerland Lake checking in
with none other than my best sieve for.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
The rest of Monte and you are listening to that,
she said the first podcast and every one podcast on
the every one podcast network period.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Friends you podcast, Oh friend, It's so good to be
back together once again this week and as usual and true,
she said, at first fashion, we got to kick off
the episode a bout asking what did ever tell to
(00:46):
you this week?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Child? I don't even think I got nothing left to
be anything. I once rtated about child, I'm tired.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I don't even got I only got the energy to
be irritated, I thought.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I imagine you don't even got the energy to be irritated.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Everything's fine because the last thing you wanted somebody to
ask you to elaborate, I don't even have to stress to.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
An elaborate, because if I wanted to elaborate, I will
have you ask me.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Okay, I left right on my own. The last thing
I want you to do is pull it out of me.
Oh god, I don't even got the energy to be irritated.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
You know, I never run out of energy to be irritated.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
What irritated you was the question, girl, them trash people
coming at the ass crack or dawn. Now, I appreciate
the valet train service, but five thirty frand you got
to get on top. You got to put that trash
out the night before.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
That's what I do.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I learned that I missed them. Mama, got catch them tomorrow.
You got to put them out the night before. I'm
gonna catch it tomorrow. Then they come through all loud,
and it sounds like somebody breaking in the house, Like,
get the trash to go? All right?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Why is that so much commotion? You're right, why is
it so much commotion? But so much commotion girl, foolishness?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
But okay, But anyway, shout out to our sanitation workers
because we do the service that you give us. A
smell like booty every day has to be traded. I
mean imagine shrimp tails.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Oh my god, like, oh, it take a strong nose
to deal with that. It's take a strong nose.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
But I can't, respectfully, I can't do it. But they
pop up on time every time they do. And you
know what else is popping up?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
People? Relationships? Girl, you got to girl.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
They say that people are doing drive bys, and when
I say drive by, I don't mean gang activity.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Are you sure?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I mean popping up at somebody's house trying to see
where's my boot?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
I got you, I.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Text you, and you the answer I'm saying here way,
I'm all loud, and that didn't happened to me so many.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I know you. I was so loud. You had an
outer body experienced. When you say something, you be.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Like girl, and it's you, and it's you. You are
the weakest sleek come.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Girl.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
These people is out here saying it is okay to
pop up at somebody house. And I want you to
know if you ever do it to me, You're going
to jail. I'm calling them people before and after I
put something hot on your ass. You come here if
you think you you thinking about to come up here
and acting food with me.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
That happened in every relationship. I can't do it. That
is not God. Why is it normal? It's not normal.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It's only happened to me twice, and it scared the
hell out of me.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I don't like it is scary. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
It's definitely a scary. Situation and ten out of ten
would not recommend. I don't know, why do that happen
to me like that? Like that is very normalized in
my life, Like people will pop up because God.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Just ghost you.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I'm not popping pop up. If you want to, I
gotta pop for your ass. I'm telling you, don't do that.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Do that.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
But I've never done that to them. So I've never
done that to them. But that always happens to me.
Like the only I would say the craziest thing I
ever did was if I was saying somebody and I
thought they was cheating on me. This was back in
my early twins. If I thought they was she probably
a joe by the house. But I didn't say, hey
am outside, walk up to the door or anything like that.
I just want to see if that car that I
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thought was in the driveway. I did do that too,
and so I've done that before. But I'm not I'm
not rolling up on nobody and actually making contact. No,
that's crazy, and especially the list girl, I don't be
having the energy for all that.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Even Amazon could send a notification.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
So if you if you are not Amazon, they be
notifying me or the Holy Spirit, don't come over here
on an outse.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
It'd be like, I'm if you're on answer the phone,
I'm coming. Oh okay, I just be in the house chilling.
That's what they say. I dare somebody just say that
to me.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
I ain't never had nobody break down my door though
to get to me. They wouldn't have to even if
I lived in a glass house. I would just be
sitting there looking because that's kind of what I did.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Is I open the door.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I ain't gonna see like I opened it. See.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I'm scared for that girl. Girl. I can't even tell y'all,
not child, what aund like top of head rolling around
like top Jerry in Okay, you.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Know that in cartoons it be that white cloud. That's
just why at my house, why we can't do this
at your tail?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Tap my stuff? I can't do it. Oh my god,
girl falling off, it was a mess. I don't want
to be involved in that.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
That.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I just if you are someone you love has been
affected by pop her Up. And I want you to
know that this episode of she said the first podcast
was sponsored by these.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Hands right yet?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
And and then third rounds that's bad? And I told
you my ex popped up on me at the Nelson.
That's why I don't never hear girl. I posted a
video about my nails, the ones I had before these
or whatever, and everybody's asking where you.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Get your nails done? At where you get your nails.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Done thet I said, why would I tall you this,
that's my thing, And I'm like They got so mad
at me because I wouldn't drop the exact location of
where I frequent because you know, I get my nails
done where I frequent often. They were like, oh, she gatekeeping.
She's not a girls girl. She don't want us to know,
first of all, my safety.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Why would I want to shop there?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
And I relax here like I don't want to have
to You're gonna be recorded. You know, people don't care
or just want to.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I just want to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Yes, they know where I'm at. So everybody got mad
about that. But either way, I stopped doing that.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
With my ex. We broke up and I stopped talking
to him. I cut him off like completely or whatever.
And I have posted girl, just try to get a
little relaxation after the breakdown. I'm stressed. My feet was
balled up. I need to put them as the water
that all attention in my big toe like this. I
was stressed.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
So I had one daddy get a little like a
lot basis and they give you wine and stuff. And girl,
he popped up in that Neil salon. It was the
most uncomfortable situation I had ever ever ever been in
ger He stayed the entire time harassing me, asking me everything.
And the fact that I sat there and continue to
get my nails done and my toes done was even
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more crazy. And the lady was looking at me and
she was like, are you okay? She could tell my energy.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
This girl. I wanted.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I wanted to slip her a note like I would
have just said, can you please?
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Oh my god, you know what to deal? I ain't
know what because I don't want him to get locked up.
That's so psychotic.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I love be locked up because if you wanted to
stay out of Prince and you would be coming.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
But ladies, no, no, she don't mean that. She don't stay.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I have to call on Mama one time and tell
her if he come over here again. I know he
got two very small daughters. He they gonna be fatherless.
Oh and oh y'all, tell him don't come on here.
He sat outside my house and he waited for me
to go to the gym. He knew I would go
to the gym around twelve o'clock, so we sat outside
my parking lot. He waited for me to come outside,
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walked up on me. I know you're mad, and you
said you don't want to do with me. I just
wanted to let you know that I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
I said, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
How did you feel? So you don't feel no, like
you don't feel uncomfortable. It's not nothing like let me
not take my eyes off this man, but that part, yeah,
he might try something. I had cameras and started the
next day. Yeah, my daddy came down that we can, Yeah,
put cameras up there. Oh my god, because what there's
no there's no there's no scenario where I ask you
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to leave me alone and you come back and win
me over.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
And I think that's I think romantic comedies.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
People watch stuff on TV and film and they think, oh,
I just need to try harder. I'm not that girl.
If I tell you to stop, that's what I mean. Yeah,
I don't want you to try harder. I don't want you.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
To me a long way, right, I have made my
decision very sturborn.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Once I once my mind is made up, there's nothing
you can do it sell that because.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I probably have stayed with you way too long.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Anyway, Oh my god, That's that's what we're not talking about.
It's how long we stay in these relationships knowing that
they're over, like and hopes that it will eventually go
back to what it was, or like they will have
a change your heart, so they will be someone who
you created in your mind, because sometimes we can create
the fantasy ourselves even though it never presented it. So
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or people are face they show up one way, but
then that person is gone and you never see them again,
and hopes they'll return to that. So like, why are
we staying longer than we need to?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Like, well, it's what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
This is a perfect saveway to our next subject, which
is stop chasing things that aren't meant for you. And
I think we get into relationships with people in the
honeymoon phase. Yes, it's a beautiful phase. It's so beautiful.
It's oh, everything is fun. We're taking trips and they
called me all the time, and they helped me with
stuff around the house, and they buy me things, and
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they laugh at my jokes and they're there for me
on my worst days. And then the good stops outweighing
the bad, and you are constantly trying to get back
to that honeymoon peace.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
But over it's done. It was just a honeymoon, and it.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Might not have existed at all, that thought that we
do as women sometimes, baby, we project our awesomeness and
our depth and our humor.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
We project all that onto people and we fall in love.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
But I oh, weep all in love with the way
we think somebody is making us feel? What really were
just doing? All the talking, all the planning, all the initiation. Girl,
what a therapist.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Saw me there?
Speaker 2 (10:12):
I said, oh my god, you got me really like
stay hold on because I got to go in the
memory back now. Oh no, but I'm awesome exactly, I
am exactly, I am pretty. And that person was responding
to your awesomeness and you was like, mmm, I love
the way they.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Love me.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Whole time, the whole time you love yourself. Dang, Jelen,
that is crazy, It's insane. Have y'all, ladies, I would
like to know how.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Do y'all feel about that?
Speaker 2 (10:42):
And have you actually like noticed that, like were you
in the thick of the relationship and realized like absolutely,
look absolutely, yeah, yeah, same, absolutely, And I mean sitting
up thinking like, oh wow, this person, this is in
love with me and they make me laugh whole time.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
I'm the one cracking out the joke. I didn't go
I had to think about this really hard.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Coron went back through like my mental role index of
conversations and time spent and trips taken, and I'm like, dang,
I was the funny one I was making.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Do you feel like you have to be with somebody
who's funny? Yeah? I do too. I need, I need
say I laughing. But I wonder, like is that superficial?
Speaker 2 (11:28):
I just don't want to be in those serious serious
I mean, I want to be in a serious relationship,
but I don't want to be in a relationship where
like we can't laught to be able to have fun. Yeah,
I want to be able to have fun with my person. Yes, absolutely, absolutely,
that's what I think. Yeah, and I can't do no
old stuff.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Everything's another joke.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Well, yes it is Greg, Yes it is Greg. And
you know that laughing to Greg, So like Greg, Greg's right,
everything is not funny, he's done seen enough and he tied.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Me squandering his fortunes because every time I come back,
you put a new charge on the car. Get off
my lawn. What greg? Lord?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
These gregs out here, they be wanting you to not laugh,
not go out, not dress dry or sex see. And
my thing is if you got a bad thank you,
she's gonna be bad all the time.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
But the issue was like, and I mean, correct me
if I'm wrong.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
You know what I'm saying. Most attractive women don't have personalities.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I can't relate. I know if you don't point, I know.
Oh I wish I could what I'm about to say.
I could just tell you right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
But I think we see that a lot on social
media too, even like with these women who are like
maybe we just don't know them. So maybe we just
don't know them. Maybe we're on seeing the interviews is
not it's not enough evidence. I'm just saying, when they
go on interviews.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
It's not enough evidence to see that this person literally
is a bird. Bring are now not having a personality
and being stupid.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
It's to totally different things because I don't think I
don't think we can use those we can't conflict those two.
I think being dumb you gonna have a personality. You
could be fun and I can have a great time
with you.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
No, not done dumb fun. I don't like that's you
have no recollection of consequences. No, I think people just
be dumb.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I think people understand consequences. But when I say dumb,
I mean like literally don't know things I'm not talking about,
don't know things I'm talking about. Dry, like justdry, we've.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Had fun, Oh my god, about to say we have
oh about mine? Nail on the head? I got it,
you get what I'm saying. Just like that type of
personality but so beautiful, but just like.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Right, okay, yeah you did you make the same thing.
She gets in there said, yeah, yeah, what you mean?
Speaker 1 (13:52):
So I don't like I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Most attracting people don't really have a personality. It's that
fair to say, though, And I want to go with this.
I'm glad you brought this up because I feel like,
have they relied on being pretty?
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Yes? Pretty privileged?
Speaker 2 (14:07):
You hear people hate to talk about pretty privilege like
strong And it's funny because Sweetie just said something about
pretty punishment so nobody is punishing sweet. We asked her
to rap better. We said, go back in the booth
and try it again.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Girl. Stop.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
I think people are trying to figure out how come
Karsha can get away with it but she can't. Like
it's Karisha getting away with I think Karsha is getting
away and road chase girl. We can dragged her. Karrishia
did not get away with that, that is true.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
She did we do, we do and.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
When she said flute out girl, girl, Karsha did not
get away with that. So weed He might be there
a little jealous because she ended up with a billionaire
who's now going to Okay, but let's know she's said
pretty punishment. She believes that people are punishing her because
she's attracted.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Could you just hold it together for I won't let
you get why.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
You don't think that girl is lying. We're punishing you
because you're attractive. Western society has never punished someone for
being pretty ever.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Think about it. People that aren't.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Now deemed beautiful okay because we all have a different
understanding of what pretty.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Yeah, beauty is definitely in the holder for sure.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
American Western American beauty standards nobody's being punished for looking
like Taylor Swift or Sweetie or Beyonce or lighter.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Let me, let me, let me, let me ask you,
Let me I wouldn't talking about them, but who is
talking about Think about it. Let me tell you this gerline.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Because you're saying punishment, I'm about to tell You're about
to break it down you and be like, hmm, you
never ever Ooh, I.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Got somebody I want to use to but I won't.
You'll get it, okay.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So you've never been in a situation where a dude
try to humble you immediately only because you're attractive. He
has not talked to you, he don't know anything about
you nothing. It's specifically because you're attractive, and he feels
like you ain't gonna come over here and think you're
gonna get whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
I'm not giving you nothing. I'm not entertaining to you.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Or talk to you a certain type of way to
try to humble you. I they it's somebody who did this.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
I'm feeding it to you. I refuse because I already
know who you look at.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
It's all about humbling you because they know that you're
attractive and they think that you can get whatever you
want based off that. Not because you're funny as hell,
not because you have an amazing personality and you're pretty.
It's just because you're attractive. It's like, nah, I'm gonna
go on her and dudes.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Because everybody else is telling her that she's pretty.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
So it's pretty punishment. You haven't done anything. I don't
think that's pretty punishment. I think that's the low we wieze.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Okay, now you want to keep renaming. We're not gonna
keep renaming.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Why are you arguing with me because you mad?
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Pretty Like you're mad because I'm cute. You want to
be the man you want to be. Okay, see, I'm
train up, Like, let's be for real for the girl.
That is pretty punishment.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
I mean I can see that that's a real thing.
I've experienced it on numerous occasions. I'm about love, dudes
love telling me I need to keep you humble?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
No you don't, you really.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Don't they and they hate when you know that your
so they already have all of these thoughts, right, But
they also hate when you're aware of your attractiveness.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
Or don't you ever You're like, I look.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
So cute today, I don't mess around and also have
since that part like being pretty is one threat. Being
pretty and being able to say no or speak your
mind and have your own opinions, that's the biggest threat,
because how dare you sit over there and look cute
and be grateful that we got you in a space?
Been there, done that so many times. And so to
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the to the ladies who understand what I'm talking about, keep.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Your foot on their neck, keep your foot if I
got to grab Okay, and that's.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
On, don't you let up like being smart, being attractive
and also having a sense of humor and since oh
you are the total package, and don't let no dude
come in and tell you anything other than because it's
just like that whole young thug thing. Mariah the scientist
is beautiful. He doesn't want her to talk to anyone
so that she.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Will know her value.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
It's like she he does not deserve her at all,
but he doesn't want anyone else to show her her
work or tell her, oh, you're so much more worth
than you have so much more value than.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
He wants her to talk to him so he can
keep her right worship nothing. So you got the big cats,
then you got another one, what's his name, Cam Newton,
who wants a list of your body count. He wants
all the people you ever had intercourse with. He by his.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
List is longer than a CVS receipt as because I'm
going to long agend Magic Johnson, Sonfee anything on that.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Don't ask me because I'm Michael Jordan.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Eddie Vie, Barack Obama and Eddie Griffin. I didn't want
to bring it up, but he's wild. I'm about to start,
how dare you? That's once again, but keeping keeping her
so he can have that list to mind her of
her work.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Oh you're remember you, You're not that valuable. You did
it to do it? This is and then this, this is.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
The craziness of the insecurity because you talking about I
need to see if somebody got.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
A one up on me.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
You were with her, you won, and you've impregnated her.
You didn't ask for the list before.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
We really, we really wish, we really and we genuinely
wish that Dad had never happened, and not twice fool me.
Want shame on you fool me twice?
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Shame on men like okay, No, it's it's actually terrible
to think about how men will try to bully you
into accepting the bare minimum because they know they can't
reach the st and they know they don't deserve you.
Like if this girl knew how much she deserved and
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she would ask me for it, And why should I
come out of my comfort zone to do more than
I've been doing to earn her. It reminds me of
the episode on Scamping when Olivia was you don't summon me,
you need to earn me. I said, now, Olivia, that
would work if you hadn't been screwing this man the
whole time. But the whole joint chiefs to staff, everybody
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knows exactly, Like girl, please, you know your coochie size now?
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Threatening people with that? Yeah, Like no, that's one of
those things that you know.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
But once again, these are women we're talking about who
are attractive, and that is pretty punishment.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
They keep you right where they can see you.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Yeah, And the gag is I'm too big for whatever
box you try, I'm always going to be too big
you're trying to put me in. So shout out to
all the women that are breaking down the walls and
not letting people bury you in mediocrity, because they will
come on, and they will trying to tell you what
you can and can't preach up. Listen, you know what
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we should do? We should This is a perfect segue
to what we have a girls trip coming up. We
do and on this girl's trip, of course, we're gonna
be poured into y'all, abe and letting y'all know all
the ways that you are amazing and not to be
taking no trash from from nobody.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
But we got to talk.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
About a girls trip etiquette because me and you learned
this quick in a ruber. What what type of travelers
are we? When it's time to turn up? It's time
to turn up. You want to go on an excursion.
Let's go on an excursion.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Do you need a nap? Let's take a nap.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
When you mix the friend group and you travel with
the wrong people, the trip ain't gonna go the way
you think. It's no, it's not no. There's always that
one person who, well, I only gotta.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
Want to do, girl, I don't want to do?
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Should said thank you? Why did you should have stayed
at the house? Why did you come because they knew
that you was going. You gotta watch people that's you
using you too. Because people will come on the trip knowing.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Knowing ain't paid wait for you say, oh girl, I
got you. Don't worry about this. Yes I got your girl.
It's my third day getting you. I'm about to get
your head. I'm about to get in about like why
are you out here with no money?
Speaker 2 (22:18):
So yeah, I just think like when it comes to
your friends group, you gotta be able to decipher who
can handle it because all them personalities don't always work together.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
You gotta know who's a chameleon in your who.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Can get along with anybody, like you gotta know that
person who is possessive over you. Because some people have
friends who are possessive over them and cannot see them
interacting with anyone but them.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
They get jealous.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Don't invite her, please, like she gonna be mad at
every little thing, y'all. Do somebody talking to your friends
too long?
Speaker 1 (22:45):
You got upset. You got the one, like she said,
that's broke. You got the one that is.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Man hungry, going because they want to and see them.
The one that I have you in a weird location,
being safe, comfortably proposition by somebody because oh they're buying
us strengths or oh they're getting us in this sestion,
and the men centered women are going to forever terrify
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the hell out of me. It's not that men aren't
great and we don't love them and need them.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
But if your entire existence it's because of a man
girl talking to hell, go to hell.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
You've got to go, and I mean, don't even pass
go or collect two hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Go straight there. I'm telling you, go straight there. Gotta
stop doing that.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
But yeah, them them friends groups, y'all gotta I'm blaming
you because you knew, you knew your you know your friends,
and you invited them all here for this to be
a disaster.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
And my birthday is room. It didn't go.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
You know, you know you wanted to ruin the birthday.
You wanted a ruin birthday. You you thought people was
gonna hold it. You ain't never seen these.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
People hold it together in any other setting. You thought
they was gonna do that for you.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Right, No facts, facts, You've seen how these people have
operated time and time again, and you thought that this
scenario was that's delusional, delusion, that's delusional. Yeah, So make
sure your girlfriends is on the same page, because I'm
I'm not that person. I don't have a whole lot of
friends anyway, but the two or three that I have,
I know that I can put them in a room
and it won't be fireworks.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
Yes, I have friends that.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Aren't jealous and aren't insecure, and they have their own
things going on, and so we're able to exist in
a space where you know, everybody's just having a good
time and it really is about the fun and the
experience and the journey and all that stuff. So I
think that just making sure be careful how you mix
the friend groups, because.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I remember that one situation, like I was trying to
steer clear. Maybe yeah, never again. But I like her.
I like to go on the ride.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I actually like her and all the time because I
think she's over to death once again, I'm a chameleon,
though I am famelion who can get along.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Well, it might be different if the situation happened.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
That is true, I would, but I still would like
her because I was just like she was told up.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Like I cannot hold that she I can't hold that.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Again, Listen, I said. My thing is, I'm just not
gonna put you all in the room together no more.
It's actually very simple. It's actually very simple for me
and the people you know that does now that i'm
thinking about it. People that want all their friends to interact,
that's annoying. It's so annoying.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
We don't all have to to get along.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Come on now, Barney and I know somebody that I
think y'all will hit it all. And now we're hitting
each other exactly. Yeah, we're really hitting it on. Look
you look what you've done.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Now I'm doing twenty by life made up food.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Tell me what girl out here in another country being
held for bond that we don't have in a different currency,
like you got to be careful on these girls trips
and you got to make sure that it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Absolutely. But all that to promote ours and will come,
we're not gonna be doing. We ain't.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
We don't even tolerate have a this time. And to
be honest, I'm not gonna hold you. If you go
out there and get locked up, that's you press on you.
That's not a me problem because I won't because I'm
not myself like that jail and thank you, and I'm
not going to use my money to get you out
because I feel like that's what you wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
If you go to Thailand and get locked up, you
want to be putting.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
You didn't have your own bailment, a man hold, because
that's from sure where you're going to be, and a
man hold somewhere, that's what you want to send a
shoe bot. I would not suggest you do that. Hold
that anger till you get back on us soil. Right,
what is that about? But then and then remember that
you have stuff to lose. Yes, but that's not something
that we're trying to do anyway. But March fourteenth through
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the twentieth, we will be going to Thailand. Click the
link in either of our biols. The trip is almost
sold out. Some securi your spot. You can travel alone
and meet people there. Yeah, you can bring me us,
bring your bestee. Will be there, so don't think you're
gonna be by yourself. We'll be there. The flight is
not included, just let y'all know, but you can make
payments on it through December, so click the link thebody
else let us know. We do have one more thing
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to talk about, and I think it's important to talk
about because it happens all the time.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Before we get out of here. Let's talk about how
these phones be listening to us.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Girl, the way I unplug Alexa, I have to unplug her.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I don't like her highlighting while I'm talking. What are
you doing?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Because I say, hey, Alexa when I'm talking to you.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
When I'm not talking business. Oh no, I have to
I'm scared, like it scares me.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
And then also, just like us talking right all the
stuff that we talked about, we're.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
Gonna get an advertisement for whatever. I do not like that.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
The minute you get on Instagram or you just be
on whatever, it's going to pop up immediately. And I
just don't feel comfortable with that. Even like the little
stuff I noticed when I text about certain things, I
get ads for the text messages and girl, you're get
into an argument or you beefing, gir it's gonna show
you all of it.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
You need to trust this person is a narcissists, I'll say,
don't want exactly.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
And also, if you beefing with somebody, they're gonna be
the first person that comes up on your timeline. That's
the most annoying thing to me because if.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
I said I don't want to see them, you don't
want to see them.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
But yeah, so that's I think that's such a weird thing.
And I know that cybersecurity is such an important issue,
but I'm wondering what we can do, if anything other
than turn the election. Turn everything off. It's so crazy,
turn it off, rand turn it all, bro. I got
a whole smart house. They told me if I plug
anything into this one outlet, I can control it from
my phone. That's crazy, greline. And imagine how much they're
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controlling here. Now it's sounding crazy, but I'm not. But
it's all programming. I'm telling you, it's all programming. And
I think that they're they're trying to make us buy.
If me and you are having a conversation about going
to Thailand, I guarantee I'm about to get a notification
from Expedia because they know I'm gonna get on it.
Oh my god, I'm like, it makes me feel like
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I don't have no privacy. It also like rips you
of your own personal thoughts. It feeds you whatever, even
if you're not in the right state of mind. I
can only imagine how dangerous this is for younger old
people who are mentally unstable or in a heightened emotional state.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Like having something that will feed.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Whatever it is that you're dealing with and have you
gnaw at. It can really drive you crazy or make
you make like irrational decisions.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
This is signed exactly because I'm such a signed girl.
I don't want to people like exact exactly.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
But it's like if you don't, if you can't rationalize this,
like hold on, wait a minute, I know this is
Let me.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
Get up off of here. People can't detach from social media.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
They think it's real life Thank you TV and tell
you know, movies and stuff they'll see and they're like, oh,
I want my man to be like this. Your man
don't have a high school diploma.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
But why you want a man like somebody else?
Speaker 2 (29:39):
But that's people don't know that on social and they
think this is how life goes. Stuff like what you're
gonna do with that man? When you get you can't
even keep Jerome have like together, You ain't.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
You can't even keep look at the white shoes.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
At okay, you can't even get Jerome together or help
Jerome or be there for Jerome.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
Whatever you're trying to do with Jerome, it's not working.
And you want this man. You want somebody who can
shower you you're gonna establish You're not ready. You're not ready.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
You haven't even even developed in a way where you
can attract that type of person.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Y'all don't realize energy is serious.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
A lot of times we are attracting sometimes will we
project so Like if you are certain people are lashing
on to you, it's because of the state that you're in.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
You know what I'm saying, takes a strength. It's you're ugly.
I think I think that happens. I just want you
to leave me alone.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
No, I'm saying, I don't hear me, o, friend, we're
both gorgeous.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
We attract everyone. True.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
The problem is about are the ones who's let in
water we allowing Yeah, that's why I said. The ones
we are allowing in are not are not seeking us out?
It might be what we're you know, we attract everybody.
It's up to you to cut them off for a
little stake. But unfortunately, I don't want nobody else relationship
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because I'm telling you, you don't never.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Know what they could thank you. You don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
Licking Rashida and Kirk devastating news. Devastating, I mean devastating news.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Got back her husband and a girl, her career is over,
little Uzzi and j C.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
It's devastating, Lors devastating. I don't want to go back
to THEE. I don't I can't go back to the
y'all want relationship and I don't want.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
I don't want them. I just want to.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Should there be something said about us calling out love
and hip hop relationships because they was all you said, Kasha,
that was about the only one, but the rest of
them was definitely.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
I mean j C and Uzzi.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
Oh, yeah, him, you mean you mean the party being
all I mean, we could just it's never stop.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
It's just not something that we I know that we
do have positive role models, but these are not the ones. No,
these are not.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
Just because you see somebody all the time does not
mean you model your life after thank you.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
So.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
I think that's because people are only going to show
you what they want you to see, especially the.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
People were talking about girl, especially them.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
So and they't a different tax bracket too, mind your wage,
mind your own wage.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Then people ain't got nothing.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
To do with you, and we can't afford to be
doing stuff that they ain't your tax bracket, please, thank you?
Speaker 1 (32:31):
Yeah? And education level ooh and education argument every night,
Oh God, to prove your love.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Because I'm somebody who likes to be mentally right. So
if you cannot do that for me, I'm not even
interested anyway. Like I love to have intellectual just like
really deep conversations.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
And that's what gets me going, you know.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
But like if you can't do that and all you
care about is things that I don't, you know what
I like, It's just I can't even go there with you,
Like I'm not interested. You can't even fake it because
I'm gonna ask you stuff and you can't fake your
way through real conversation.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Not if you know what you're talking about. You know
what you're talking about, that part, that part can't make
You can't make that up. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
The glitz and glam ain't gonna get me because when
I talk to you and it ain't nothing there, I'm
off that.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
Okay, cool, you're dummy, but off that.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Now that I know you're right, I'm off that I
can go to something else, not no facts.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I'd be the same way. I think. The older you get,
the quicker it happens, you're just like, oh, this is
an idiot. It's gonna be something else, right.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
And I and I and I'm glad that, uh you know,
we're we're getting to that space because sometimes you just
gotta end things.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
Yeah, yeah, like this.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
I know.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
I'm sorry, y'all, but I'm.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Tired, So I'm not that I'm not tired. Okay, all right,
why is me naps too? Okay, We're definitely tired, but
it's fun. We've enjoyed y'all as always, absolutely, and you
know you can catch us here every Thursday on YouTube
for the visuals or for the audio. You can listen
to us wherever you listen to your podcast. Just make
sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit that notification
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Speaker 1 (34:09):
We gonna cat y'all in the next one. Be fine,
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