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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So an auntie intervened. Her fourteen year old nephew was
being bullied at school because of a foul scent he admitted,
you know, and she bought them to deodor, and his
mother got mad, said she overstepped their boundaries. I think,
(00:20):
and we've talked about this for I think kids have
to have somebody they can talk to or feel like
they're close to, or somebody that they feel like is
an advocate for them. And at some point, generally, even
if it's for a couple of years, and generally it
hits in the teen years where they don't really feel
like they can talk to their parents, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I think that, listen.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
I think that you know, you're right, someone has to
step in, and especially when you're growing up like that,
you know. I remember when I was a kid, I
have this terrible habit of eating onions, just raw, like
an apple. I love them. I pulled them right out
of the garden and munch on them. And it took
one of my cousins who was older, to say, you know,
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your breath is terrible. I was like, huh, my daddy does.
But you know, my mama didn't tell me. My Daddy
didn't tell me. But it took a cousin to say,
you gotta stop eating nineties like this.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
And thank God for that cousin. You know you're still
find enough to get knocked up.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
I know that your breath. Just think that damn bad.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
This was after I stopped eating. So yeah, I'm sorry,
See what happens? You should have Kevin nineties? What do
you think we wouldn't have Joey?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Yeah, I think I didn't used to wear a lotion
except on my arms.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I didn't know you.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I didn't know you're supposed to wear it.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
No, I didn't know you hit them Achilles.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, man, no, no, that was you then there, But
I'm talking about I wore loass on my legs then.
But then I just you know, this was a little
short on the Achilles part of it. But I think
personal hij and it's it's really and gen one of
the things that get you teased is when you're young
(02:04):
is your appearance, right your parents and your smell. And
you know that those are the things that generally get
you teased. How you dress and how you look, how
you smell, those are just if your breath stinks, if
you if you think, you know, we used to call
this dude.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
What was it? What was called pig pin?
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Man, he was discussing, there's always a pit boy. People
and kids can be so cruel, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So I can imagine the aunt was probably feeling bad
and maybe the little boy was crying.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I mean, I don't know what I know.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Kids can be really cruel in school.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
You know, you funking when they got to get all
over deodorant. You got you need the odor everywhere. Somebody
right now making some loomy when somebody been loomy. Somebody's
a funky ass boy. You need deodorant for every hole
you have. I ain't he't playing all over deodorant. So uh,
(03:02):
Auntie intervens her fourteen on nephews getting bullied at school
because he sinks and she bought him, and the mother
thinks that he she overstepped her bounds and that it
could cause irreparable damage to her self esteem.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
So could everybody call you pick van.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
For a long time by their way be going back
twenty year reunion?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Hey yeah, big man, I I.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Did a movie a long time ago. Part of this
movie right, and the actress was gorgeous, but the wardrobe
people used to pick her shirts up with tongs because
she stunk.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
That man, stop stop, I'm not playing tongs. She stunk
that bad, and nobody told her we were doing.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
A love scene where I was supposed to cry. It
wasn't hard to do to say that.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
God, you can stop crying.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Well okay, yeah, yeah, you know because she she used
one of those rocks, those stones. You know, everybody thought
that that was the thing when you used that rock.
You remember that stone.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
A little bit, and yes, yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Somebody whoever invented that, they didn't take this stone and
beat the person inside the head with Who thought that
was gonna work?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Well I tried.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
It did not work at all, Like a little Crystal right,
Crystal wasn't.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Doing nothing for me.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
No to myself, I said, if I don't get my
back home, start all over you ever.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Like I remember, I was in the airport and I
got up early. I had to run through the airport
and I had I just took a shop, but I
forgot the other about gate Sea.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
I ran into a gift shop.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Right about gate Sea by Man and I had to
stop in there. So Young Portier's getting teased at school
because he is he's smelly, and his auntie bought them
some deodorant, and the mother got mad, said she overstepped
their bounds. She said that could cause his self esteem.
I don't understand how that reasoning works. But do you
(05:12):
think the auntie was overstepped downs bounds? But was she
helping out? We're gonna go to phones.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
The aunt was absolutely right to buy her nephews some deodorant.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
I mean, why would you want someone walking around.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
Being musty after they're telling you that they're being teased.
Speaker 8 (05:27):
Better to fix the issue now than.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
To be like, I didn't know it was that bad,
because it was really that bad, you know what I mean?
Speaker 8 (05:33):
Man, I just want to say, Man, I don't know
where all this soft love is going to get us,
because we come from a generation of tough love and
to work for us. But I want y'all to know, man,
I got this African that can tell what tribe you
come from just by some of your under arms.
Speaker 9 (05:45):
Man.
Speaker 8 (05:45):
So that's a good little lick twenty dollars, I got you.
Speaker 10 (05:48):
I don't think she overstepped at all, not at all.
Speaker 11 (05:51):
I have a grandson. It's sometimesmell like little Gump, and
I stepped in all the time, somebody got to do it,
so she didn't over.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
Step that off. I mean the mama being a little
a little wild about this. I understand that.
Speaker 11 (06:06):
Now.
Speaker 7 (06:06):
The thing about the ordering, I think they illumine him
or something in it.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
But that makes safe the orderance now too.
Speaker 7 (06:11):
She shouldn't have her son up in school smell like
no onion.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
I think that mom is very wrong for allowing her
son to be teased.
Speaker 7 (06:19):
If you see a problem that she should.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Have fixed it.
Speaker 11 (06:21):
A aunt shouldn't have to step in and fix the
problem that you have in your home.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That meaning you're not allowing that.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Boy to wash his goood at home.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
Aunt, he had to step in.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
It's just run the wrong and he's got head bad.
Speaker 7 (06:32):
So the stake to keep his house people, that's gonna
do the most irreparable damage to him as a schoolmate,
especially girl. They gonna be avoiding him, calling him funky, stinky, nasty.
That's what's gonna do the most harm to him. Not
what I did, is I did what she did out
of responsibility and love for what his mother didn't do.
(06:55):
And that's not hurting that's helping him the boy needs
a learned personal hight g before he is made an
outpass at school, and then his teacher going to get
in bull and his mother is letting.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
Him come and parents letting him come to work, meet
school bonky and smelly. So it's a whole big old
bunch of snowball and things. I'll go behind that. But
the world doesn't actually going to make him feel the worst.
It's the schoolmates, especial in her.
Speaker 12 (07:24):
I am a life contributor to mental health. With all
the suicides that are occurring in our younger kids now,
it is just a blessing that this young man did
not turn to social media. He could have done that
and who knows where he'd be today.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
So we need to.
Speaker 12 (07:38):
Thank God that he was able to reach out to
his family. If he discuss developed a relationship with his aunt,
so be it that is phenomenal. He at least knew
how to speak up and who the belchim.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
So Auntie interviews are working on nephews getting bullied at
school because he thinks and she bought himsejura and the
mother thinks that he she overstepped bounce.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
My mother was so like so much about in the
hygiene if.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
She if we ran out of soap in the house,
I ain't no telling him what she throw ajax comet
in the water, pine salt.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
You're gonna get cleaned some kind of way. You might
be itching ashy when it's over, but you're gonna be
clean that it'd be some dish. We're gonna go to
the phones.
Speaker 11 (08:25):
I would want somebody to tell me that I'm funking,
and I would want somebody to help me out because
it takes a village, and she's a part of that village.
So I don't feel no type of way she did right, Yes,
nobody want to be smelling. No stinks.
Speaker 9 (08:38):
I don't understand why did we get mad about somebody
doing something nice for us? He was thinking or he
get teased, so he stays, it's a good thing that
grandmother bought the order, and oh man, you smells. Why
you want to get teased at school?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Like?
Speaker 9 (08:56):
Why is the parent even mad? But hey, God, do
what we gotta do.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
I don't think that the mother should have gotten mad
at the auntie. I don't think that Auntie overstepped her bounds.
If the mother wanted to be bad mad with somebody,
she should be mad with herself for not checking her son,
and like I said, it takes a village, and if
she don't want her son to be part of the village,
that she needs to do what she needs to do
as a mother to make sure her child is you know,
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that his hygiens are in order. I would have done
the same thing that auntie did. Probably would have said
something to the mother first, and if it continued, then
I would have did exactly what the auntie did. You know,
he's getting bullied at school, and evidently the mama didn't
take it serious. So I commend the auntie for doing
what she did.
Speaker 10 (09:40):
I think that she could have asked a parent first
if she could provide him with the odorant, because I
find that sometimes it's not like what people do is
like the parent just wants to know. They want to
be involved in that decision because.
Speaker 12 (09:54):
Otherwise they need to.
Speaker 10 (09:55):
Like and barries are like they have a loss of control.
Me personally, I wouldn't have like care. I'd be like,
thank you for getting made and fyodorant.
Speaker 11 (10:04):
And like I appreciate you good looking out.
Speaker 10 (10:06):
But I think sometimes like parents just want to know
ahead of time before you take any action. Involving with
their child.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
You know what's interesting, all of us have relayed stories
of our youth. I think the thing that changes behavior
like that is getting teased about it.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
It is.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
It has a corrective mechanism because the things you know
about hygiene, you generally know because somebody told your breath
was bad, or you stink or something.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
That's that's generally how it happens, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I think so, I think that or either you smell
yourself and you're like, we gotta make we gotta make
some changes around here.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
I can't walk around like this something.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
But I think that whatever it is, generally you're embarrassed
about something, yes, or or or or or have the
fear of being embarrassed about it.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, so I think as the stronger encouragement for change.
When I was little, I had buck teeth, very very big,
big buck teeth, and I was teased quite a bit.
And you know what I did. I put some braces
on those teeth. Now they're still big, but there they
just don't jut out as much.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
So because your face grew. That's why, you know what,
Because unless around your teeth.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Teased quite a bit. They got me Bucky Beaver. I
will never forget that.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
But it caused me to say, you know what, because
my mama was not going to get me braces. She
was like, I will find that for you.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
You have to deal with those teeth.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
And so when I got to college.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Was your daddy a domino? Damn looking at them teeth
right there and outside.
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