October 8, 2025 • 13 mins
The Question of the Day sparked a fiery debate: a man asks his date to pay $250 for a babysitter so they can go out — should he cover that cost or is it unfair to expect it? The conversation touched on responsibility, courtship norms, and perception of value in modern dating.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is the deal.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
You can we show you a twenty twenty five edition.
Remember that if you are in Richmond, Virginia, will be
there this Friday Saturday. And Friday is Saturday, so I
think the Saturday shows already sold out the first Friday show,
so a couple tickets less for the later show, So
come check me out. If you take a notion of
Jasmine Sanders, is it a man's responsibility to pay for
a woman's babysit? Now we've had different iterations of this argument,
(00:22):
like should he pay for a uber? I think whatever
you whatever he feels comfortable doing. Well, first off, whatever
she feels comfortable asking for and he feels comfortable doing,
is that destined here and deal?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Right? That would be what it is.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Well, I don't like the word responsible. It's not your responsibility.
It's not your responsibility to pay for babysitters. Yeah, well,
I think if you want to, if you have the
money and you know that that's an issue for her
in terms of being able to go out, and you
really like her, right.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
You know, then hey, paper, that would make me look
it would make me look at her differently.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Well, of course that's why I said that if she
puts it on it says it's your responsibility to do it.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
I don't like that.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
But I think if you ask a woman out and
she said, well, I would love to go, but I
don't have a babysitter, and he offers, yeah, don't. That's
why it's two hundred and fifty dollars. But again, I
don't know what the're going right for the babysit.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You can't get more for babysitter than Chad before it.
You can't that. That can't happen. Bye, let me tell
you something.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
By That's what I surprised with it like two or
three hour day too, j there with two to four.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Hours sometime to figure out, like what is the price
per hour?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Fifty?
Speaker 4 (01:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Two hundred fifty dollars. You can get a good hooker
for that. I'm telling you. I have you ever been
on Instagram? I'm just telling out there will be no
I think, oh.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Wow, what national average rakes about nineteen fifty per hour nineteen.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So I'm an average. So you wont double the average?
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Now in California it's twenty three almost twenty four hours
an hour.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
But you want double the average?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
You do hell no, hell no? And how many kids
are we talking about? And who wouldn't do that? For
two hundred fifty? Most people don't make two on the
fifty thous a day. If it is the date, we're
just gonna stay at your.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yeah, that's your yeah something.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Most people in America do not make two on fifty
thousand a day, especially now.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
So, uh do you think it's worth it? It is
the deal can show you twenty twenty five edition. I
will say this so you know I did. I host
it to kamalas I moderate her book uh tour on
Saturday Sunday. Didn't she say that he would try to
invoke the inspiration? And she did, and he's trying to
do it.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
Words.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
We have truths that are leaving Texas going to other states.
I know that if if somebody came to Texas and
tried to tell them what to do, it would be
a problem. And you're gonna go to the wrong place,
and you're gonna have a problem with your with your.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Drawl and your accent and your air.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Nah, that ain't gonna work everywhere, baby boy, We're gonna
have a problem.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
And that's exactly what he's doing it for. He's trying
to antagonize you.
Speaker 7 (02:55):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Anyway back to the matter in hand, this traffling ass
chick hundred fifty dollars so.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
They can they can they can watch your kids. What
do you think, Junius, would you do it? That would
be new, But I think it's for two hundred and fifty.
It was probably for.
Speaker 8 (03:12):
A mama, you know, if you get a mama to
watch the kids. Look, you know, I got to suck
on the I don't care who was for. I could
see I could see a hundred. I could see a hundred. Yeah, yeah,
I could see a hundred.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
And you know what that just like Jasmine said, you
talk about that when I asked you out on the day.
Don't pull up and say all right we leave. Yeah,
say hey, I love to go out with you, but
I don't have a babysitter. And okay, we'll talk about that.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Imagine a kid, because a lot of people back in
the day used to make money babysitting, right, yep, right,
imagine a kid. If a kid got two hundred fifty
dollars for babysit kids that he wouldn't make that in
a in a day in a good job.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
He might make more than his daddy, right, just.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Saying he might a couple of hours and a couple
of hours he might.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
If I'd have known that, I'd have brought my teenage kid.
Watch these kids while I break off.
Speaker 8 (04:01):
There there, Mama, wait a minute, or they some badass
kids and they need extra protection.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I don't know what's that eighty five dollars hour? Man,
come on?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
And I also think it was again very inconsiderate to
spring it on him at the last minute, like you
just show up. Of course, I'm fair you spring it
on at the last minute instead of when he asked
you. You should have said, well, I don't know, let me
see if I can get a babysitter, and if not,
you know, I have to work around that.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
And if I picked Cooke come to pick you up,
and you already know how much the baby's is gonna be,
then you already you're trying to hustle me, because if
you already know what the baby that means you already
arranged this person for this amount, And.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Why are you still paying this particular babysitter who's charging
you to undred and fifty dollars, you know, for a
couple of hours.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Why are you go get somebody up right? Jenmy down
the block, she's available.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
And then she wanted a high end restaurant. I thought
we go to a higher risk. Well, baby, you just
knocked it down to it. Try to got that.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Just knocked it down to Have you ever been have
you ever had steamy hot Church's chicken in the parking?
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Let me tell you? Let me no. No, First off,
I don't know if I like you at all? Right,
at all?
Speaker 2 (05:14):
That is very presumptuous. But what do you think? So
the question we're asking this is the scenario.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
You want to take me on a day?
Speaker 9 (05:20):
So these high end restaurants you can't pay to fifty
for a day.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And the money I got is for the date though,
one for your baby.
Speaker 10 (05:26):
So won don't you have your baby?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Daddy paid for the key?
Speaker 11 (05:28):
What?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Well do you think it was his responsibility going to
that right to the pharms?
Speaker 12 (05:32):
Hell to the non non absolutely not unless the guy
has offered in advance. I will pay your babysitter, you know,
whomever is going out with him. That is your responsibility,
the woman's responsibility to make arrangements. That is absolutely wrong
and it's wrong for anything mail to think that it's
(05:56):
okay that he should pay.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
No, what you should do?
Speaker 12 (06:00):
You should stay.
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Home if just at the date, you should be able
to have You should have a daycare, every set up.
The man's already paying for the dinner in the show,
you at least take care of her own kids. That's
what I feel about it.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
Absolutely not. And then what type of a woman?
Speaker 13 (06:15):
First off, she must got to have five or ten
kids talking about two hundred and fifty four dollars. First off,
who's gonna pay two hundred and fifty four dollars.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
To go out on the date? This is not his responsibilities.
Speaker 13 (06:27):
Those are not his children. And the first date, who
does that? He needs to leave her at the door
and keep it moving.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
I think that man should not be responsible for paying
for the babysitter. To say, the man shows interests, he
asks the woman out on the tea. Now the woman
needs to decide that she wants to go on the tea.
If he is interested in going, she needs to look
at her personal life and agenda in her personal world
and see if she is able to go on the date.
(06:56):
But that's not his responsibility. He just expressed interest for
her kids. Because she needs to figure out what she
wanted to do, to do what she wants to do.
Speaker 14 (07:05):
I have charged a man to, you know, to go
out on a date for him to watch my kids.
But the difference was when we went out, it had
to be the first date. I would choose a place
like Applebee's, you know, somewhere where tul could dine at
a minimum price, and that's how I compensated him paying
for the for the babysitter. But I wouldn't charge an
(07:25):
outrageous price like two hundred and fifty dollars.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
That's just crazy.
Speaker 15 (07:29):
Well, my whole thing is I mean, first of all,
two hundred and fifty dollars, that's an expensive babysitter in
my opinion. Now, you know, maybe the race have changed
since last time I had to have a babysitter. That
seems kind of expensive to me. But at the same time,
did this young lady tell this man that was that
he was gonna have to pay for a babysitter before
(07:51):
she agreed to go out with him? And I'm just
wondering if he went ahead and paid the two fifty
for the babysitter and then took out for a date,
because I know with me, I would probably have reservations
about taking this young lady out on a date if
she sprung this two hundred and fifty dollar thing on
me as I'm coming to the door to pick her up.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
So the question we're asking this is the scenario.
Speaker 10 (08:12):
Why don't you get in the car, like, come on you,
I can't just leave my kids. We were talking about
a week though, Okay, so you ain't got two fifty
the baby, so I'm paying for the day. No, I'm saying, listen,
I can't. I can't give you two fifty.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Now you want to take me on a day, So
these high y.
Speaker 9 (08:27):
Restaurants, you can't pay to fifty for a day.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
And the money I got is for the date though,
one for your baby.
Speaker 7 (08:32):
So why don't you have your baby?
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Daddy paid for the kids?
Speaker 9 (08:34):
Okay, so then he should be taking me on the day.
Speaker 15 (08:36):
There, I'm saying, like, come on, you should have had
that care before I.
Speaker 10 (08:39):
Pull it up.
Speaker 9 (08:39):
What okay, So then I think you should pull off.
Speaker 10 (08:42):
Course that's how you feel, right, because that's not my responsibility.
Speaker 9 (08:48):
Yeah, if you want to take me on to day,
it's going to be your responsibility. What you're talking about,
it is not your responsible.
Speaker 8 (08:53):
You know what.
Speaker 9 (08:54):
Yes, you can't pull off because you alread talking about
my kids. That's your responsibility, obviously, not flag obviously, Ye goodbye.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Do you think he was responsible? I was going to
the phones.
Speaker 12 (09:10):
I don't think she.
Speaker 13 (09:11):
Really wanted to go, not with not with two hundred
and fifty dollars on the sleeve.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
She didn't want to go.
Speaker 13 (09:16):
That was a red flag for him to run. If
I came to a man and said two fifty before
my children before, if you take me out, I'm fitting.
Speaker 12 (09:23):
I'm fick to play you.
Speaker 16 (09:24):
I'm fitting.
Speaker 13 (09:25):
I'm figuring rope with dopes, you brother. So he need
to go ahead and run while he got a chance,
because that was a red flag.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
It all depends.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
This is the first date or not.
Speaker 12 (09:33):
It was the first day.
Speaker 7 (09:34):
Yeah, I go and pay the babysit.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
Like I'm trying to hit. But that that hit ain't
no more babysitting's not going out my pocket.
Speaker 16 (09:41):
I do believe he has a point. But I will
tell you one thing. Women and men who leave with
their money now, they open themselves up for a whole
loot of usury. Now, if I was a man, I
would take a woman out and I would spend a
minimum amount, you know, a reasonable amount, just to see
where her head is really it. Because these women out
here are ferocious. I mean, they don't give a damn.
(10:03):
Some of them, not all now huns. Some of them
will just take and take and take and take and
expect you to pay for.
Speaker 17 (10:09):
Them, their children and their friends, which is ridiculous.
Speaker 16 (10:13):
You know, the man, he's dating you, he's trying to
get to date you.
Speaker 17 (10:16):
You know, you know everything else comes secondary, you don't,
you have to get chanced at first. But anyways, I say,
you know, just be careful because no matter who you are,
these people out here nowadays, they will rip you all
the way off.
Speaker 11 (10:28):
That's crazy when the dating becomes such a chore.
Speaker 7 (10:31):
Now why it's a.
Speaker 11 (10:33):
Woman whoever has the kid, that's your responsibility, or maybe
you shouldn't be going on dates if you can't you
know what I mean. I mean, but it's not the
man's responsibility to do it. It's absurd things that I
see these young people go through now in dating. It's
like they forgot what the whole purpose of dating is for.
So no, you need to tell you need someone to
(10:56):
babysit your kids, stay home and stay with your kids.
Speaker 7 (10:59):
To stop dating.
Speaker 5 (11:00):
I think that's insane. Why someone pay a babysitter just
to take them out or just to pay the girls
babysitter to take them out there, that's asking for way
too much. Does he even know the kid? Like? Why
am I paying for the child services? And this this
is not my child? Like, that's crazy, that's crazy.
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It is the deal.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
You can we show you a twenty twenty five edition.
Remember that if you are in Richmond, Virginia, will be
there this Friday Saturday. And Friday is Saturday, so I
think the Saturday shows already sold out the first Friday show,
so a couple tickets less for the later show, So
come check me out. If you take a notion of
Jasmine Sanders, is it a man's responsibility to pay for
a woman's babysit? Now we've had different iterations of this argument,
(00:22):
like should he pay for a uber? I think whatever
you whatever he feels comfortable doing. Well, first off, whatever
she feels comfortable asking for and he feels comfortable doing,
is that destined here and deal?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Right? That would be what it is.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Well, I don't like the word responsible. It's not your responsibility.
It's not your responsibility to pay for babysitters. Yeah, well,
I think if you want to, if you have the
money and you know that that's an issue for her
in terms of being able to go out, and you
really like her, right.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
You know, then hey, paper, that would make me look
it would make me look at her differently.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Well, of course that's why I said that if she
puts it on it says it's your responsibility to do it.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
I don't like that.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
But I think if you ask a woman out and
she said, well, I would love to go, but I
don't have a babysitter, and he offers, yeah, don't. That's
why it's two hundred and fifty dollars. But again, I
don't know what the're going right for the babysit.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You can't get more for babysitter than Chad before it.
You can't that. That can't happen. Bye, let me tell
you something.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
By That's what I surprised with it like two or
three hour day too, j there with two to four.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Hours sometime to figure out, like what is the price
per hour?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Fifty?
Speaker 4 (01:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Two hundred fifty dollars. You can get a good hooker
for that. I'm telling you. I have you ever been
on Instagram? I'm just telling out there will be no
I think, oh.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Wow, what national average rakes about nineteen fifty per hour nineteen.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So I'm an average. So you wont double the average?
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Now in California it's twenty three almost twenty four hours
an hour.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
But you want double the average?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
You do hell no, hell no? And how many kids
are we talking about? And who wouldn't do that? For
two hundred fifty? Most people don't make two on the
fifty thous a day. If it is the date, we're
just gonna stay at your.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yeah, that's your yeah something.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Most people in America do not make two on fifty
thousand a day, especially now.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
So, uh do you think it's worth it? It is
the deal can show you twenty twenty five edition. I
will say this so you know I did. I host
it to kamalas I moderate her book uh tour on
Saturday Sunday. Didn't she say that he would try to
invoke the inspiration? And she did, and he's trying to
do it.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
Words.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
We have truths that are leaving Texas going to other states.
I know that if if somebody came to Texas and
tried to tell them what to do, it would be
a problem. And you're gonna go to the wrong place,
and you're gonna have a problem with your with your.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Drawl and your accent and your air.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Nah, that ain't gonna work everywhere, baby boy, We're gonna
have a problem.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
And that's exactly what he's doing it for. He's trying
to antagonize you.
Speaker 7 (02:55):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Anyway back to the matter in hand, this traffling ass
chick hundred fifty dollars so.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
They can they can they can watch your kids. What
do you think, Junius, would you do it? That would
be new, But I think it's for two hundred and fifty.
It was probably for.
Speaker 8 (03:12):
A mama, you know, if you get a mama to
watch the kids. Look, you know, I got to suck
on the I don't care who was for. I could
see I could see a hundred. I could see a hundred. Yeah, yeah,
I could see a hundred.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
And you know what that just like Jasmine said, you
talk about that when I asked you out on the day.
Don't pull up and say all right we leave. Yeah,
say hey, I love to go out with you, but
I don't have a babysitter. And okay, we'll talk about that.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Imagine a kid, because a lot of people back in
the day used to make money babysitting, right, yep, right,
imagine a kid. If a kid got two hundred fifty
dollars for babysit kids that he wouldn't make that in
a in a day in a good job.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
He might make more than his daddy, right, just.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Saying he might a couple of hours and a couple
of hours he might.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
If I'd have known that, I'd have brought my teenage kid.
Watch these kids while I break off.
Speaker 8 (04:01):
There there, Mama, wait a minute, or they some badass
kids and they need extra protection.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I don't know what's that eighty five dollars hour? Man,
come on?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
And I also think it was again very inconsiderate to
spring it on him at the last minute, like you
just show up. Of course, I'm fair you spring it
on at the last minute instead of when he asked
you. You should have said, well, I don't know, let me
see if I can get a babysitter, and if not,
you know, I have to work around that.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
And if I picked Cooke come to pick you up,
and you already know how much the baby's is gonna be,
then you already you're trying to hustle me, because if
you already know what the baby that means you already
arranged this person for this amount, And.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Why are you still paying this particular babysitter who's charging
you to undred and fifty dollars, you know, for a
couple of hours.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Why are you go get somebody up right? Jenmy down
the block, she's available.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
And then she wanted a high end restaurant. I thought
we go to a higher risk. Well, baby, you just
knocked it down to it. Try to got that.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Just knocked it down to Have you ever been have
you ever had steamy hot Church's chicken in the parking?
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Let me tell you? Let me no. No, First off,
I don't know if I like you at all? Right,
at all?
Speaker 2 (05:14):
That is very presumptuous. But what do you think? So
the question we're asking this is the scenario.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
You want to take me on a day?
Speaker 9 (05:20):
So these high end restaurants you can't pay to fifty
for a day.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And the money I got is for the date though,
one for your baby.
Speaker 10 (05:26):
So won don't you have your baby?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Daddy paid for the key?
Speaker 11 (05:28):
What?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Well do you think it was his responsibility going to
that right to the pharms?
Speaker 12 (05:32):
Hell to the non non absolutely not unless the guy
has offered in advance. I will pay your babysitter, you know,
whomever is going out with him. That is your responsibility,
the woman's responsibility to make arrangements. That is absolutely wrong
and it's wrong for anything mail to think that it's
(05:56):
okay that he should pay.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
No, what you should do?
Speaker 12 (06:00):
You should stay.
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Home if just at the date, you should be able
to have You should have a daycare, every set up.
The man's already paying for the dinner in the show,
you at least take care of her own kids. That's
what I feel about it.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
Absolutely not. And then what type of a woman?
Speaker 13 (06:15):
First off, she must got to have five or ten
kids talking about two hundred and fifty four dollars. First off,
who's gonna pay two hundred and fifty four dollars.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
To go out on the date? This is not his responsibilities.
Speaker 13 (06:27):
Those are not his children. And the first date, who
does that? He needs to leave her at the door
and keep it moving.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
I think that man should not be responsible for paying
for the babysitter. To say, the man shows interests, he
asks the woman out on the tea. Now the woman
needs to decide that she wants to go on the tea.
If he is interested in going, she needs to look
at her personal life and agenda in her personal world
and see if she is able to go on the date.
(06:56):
But that's not his responsibility. He just expressed interest for
her kids. Because she needs to figure out what she
wanted to do, to do what she wants to do.
Speaker 14 (07:05):
I have charged a man to, you know, to go
out on a date for him to watch my kids.
But the difference was when we went out, it had
to be the first date. I would choose a place
like Applebee's, you know, somewhere where tul could dine at
a minimum price, and that's how I compensated him paying
for the for the babysitter. But I wouldn't charge an
(07:25):
outrageous price like two hundred and fifty dollars.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
That's just crazy.
Speaker 15 (07:29):
Well, my whole thing is I mean, first of all,
two hundred and fifty dollars, that's an expensive babysitter in
my opinion. Now, you know, maybe the race have changed
since last time I had to have a babysitter. That
seems kind of expensive to me. But at the same time,
did this young lady tell this man that was that
he was gonna have to pay for a babysitter before
(07:51):
she agreed to go out with him? And I'm just
wondering if he went ahead and paid the two fifty
for the babysitter and then took out for a date,
because I know with me, I would probably have reservations
about taking this young lady out on a date if
she sprung this two hundred and fifty dollar thing on
me as I'm coming to the door to pick her up.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
So the question we're asking this is the scenario.
Speaker 10 (08:12):
Why don't you get in the car, like, come on you,
I can't just leave my kids. We were talking about
a week though, Okay, so you ain't got two fifty
the baby, so I'm paying for the day. No, I'm saying, listen,
I can't. I can't give you two fifty.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Now you want to take me on a day, So
these high y.
Speaker 9 (08:27):
Restaurants, you can't pay to fifty for a day.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
And the money I got is for the date though,
one for your baby.
Speaker 7 (08:32):
So why don't you have your baby?
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Daddy paid for the kids?
Speaker 9 (08:34):
Okay, so then he should be taking me on the day.
Speaker 15 (08:36):
There, I'm saying, like, come on, you should have had
that care before I.
Speaker 10 (08:39):
Pull it up.
Speaker 9 (08:39):
What okay, So then I think you should pull off.
Speaker 10 (08:42):
Course that's how you feel, right, because that's not my responsibility.
Speaker 9 (08:48):
Yeah, if you want to take me on to day,
it's going to be your responsibility. What you're talking about,
it is not your responsible.
Speaker 8 (08:53):
You know what.
Speaker 9 (08:54):
Yes, you can't pull off because you alread talking about
my kids. That's your responsibility, obviously, not flag obviously, Ye goodbye.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Do you think he was responsible? I was going to
the phones.
Speaker 12 (09:10):
I don't think she.
Speaker 13 (09:11):
Really wanted to go, not with not with two hundred
and fifty dollars on the sleeve.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
She didn't want to go.
Speaker 13 (09:16):
That was a red flag for him to run. If
I came to a man and said two fifty before
my children before, if you take me out, I'm fitting.
Speaker 12 (09:23):
I'm fick to play you.
Speaker 16 (09:24):
I'm fitting.
Speaker 13 (09:25):
I'm figuring rope with dopes, you brother. So he need
to go ahead and run while he got a chance,
because that was a red flag.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
It all depends.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
This is the first date or not.
Speaker 12 (09:33):
It was the first day.
Speaker 7 (09:34):
Yeah, I go and pay the babysit.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
Like I'm trying to hit. But that that hit ain't
no more babysitting's not going out my pocket.
Speaker 16 (09:41):
I do believe he has a point. But I will
tell you one thing. Women and men who leave with
their money now, they open themselves up for a whole
loot of usury. Now, if I was a man, I
would take a woman out and I would spend a
minimum amount, you know, a reasonable amount, just to see
where her head is really it. Because these women out
here are ferocious. I mean, they don't give a damn.
(10:03):
Some of them, not all now huns. Some of them
will just take and take and take and take and
expect you to pay for.
Speaker 17 (10:09):
Them, their children and their friends, which is ridiculous.
Speaker 16 (10:13):
You know, the man, he's dating you, he's trying to
get to date you.
Speaker 17 (10:16):
You know, you know everything else comes secondary, you don't,
you have to get chanced at first. But anyways, I say,
you know, just be careful because no matter who you are,
these people out here nowadays, they will rip you all
the way off.
Speaker 11 (10:28):
That's crazy when the dating becomes such a chore.
Speaker 7 (10:31):
Now why it's a.
Speaker 11 (10:33):
Woman whoever has the kid, that's your responsibility, or maybe
you shouldn't be going on dates if you can't you
know what I mean. I mean, but it's not the
man's responsibility to do it. It's absurd things that I
see these young people go through now in dating. It's
like they forgot what the whole purpose of dating is for.
So no, you need to tell you need someone to
(10:56):
babysit your kids, stay home and stay with your kids.
Speaker 7 (10:59):
To stop dating.
Speaker 5 (11:00):
I think that's insane. Why someone pay a babysitter just
to take them out or just to pay the girls
babysitter to take them out there, that's asking for way
too much. Does he even know the kid? Like? Why
am I paying for the child services? And this this
is not my child? Like, that's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
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Speaker 18 (11:22):
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says time me, time me tim Oh?
Speaker 19 (11:32):
Then my home brother, what's that a liber the holiday season?
It's almost upon our Yes, this is the time of
the year when everyone start planning to spend time with
the Chettish friends. Anti family. You sit around the dinner
table and you're lioming in this about the all the
days and as you know, I am from a water family.
(11:53):
We were completely different. I was a water from my
first breath. After I cut my own Billy cocord, the
doctor cried, I'm Siria. I arrived at home.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
In the first words I undered, was Dad is home?
I'm Siria.
Speaker 19 (12:09):
When I was six years of age, I started telling
my parents the bedtime stories of my conquest and when
I would give them an allowance, they all thanked me
so much. Oh oh, when my older sister lost her virginity,
I found it and gave it back to her.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
I'm cirere to ja.
Speaker 19 (12:28):
He's about the fact that the movie is one battle
after another, starting Leonardo de Cappuccino and Tianna Taylor. In
this movie, a group of ex revolutionaries must reunite when
the evil enemy their services after the sixteen years. They
(12:49):
must come together because they must rescue one of their
own daughter. You see Leonardo de Cappuccino and Tiana a couple,
and Tiana gives an no meaning to determine ride or
the dye cheek. She's riding and a lot of people
are dying because the daughter that was kidnapping was has
(13:09):
and leonardos. The movie is stilled with action and a
lot of blood. Leonardo de Cappuccino, he's very good in
this film, but Tiana steals the film. She is turning
into a good actress. She kicks ass with her fine ass.
I'm Siria. I did this movie. Four handbags and my newport.
(13:33):
Game Water a family fuel. It's a game where two
families start, but only one family finishes the game.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I'm Siria.
Speaker 19 (13:42):
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