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October 13, 2024 • 41 mins

In this episode of Radical Reframe, host Vashti Whitfield engages in a deep conversation with Kiz Harvey, a reinvention coach, about her transformative journey through divorce, grief, and personal growth. We explore how she is finding new paths to intimacy, love, and fulfilment, and creating a new vision for personal and professional success. Kiz shares her experiences of estrangement from her son, the emotional toll of divorce, and the importance of self-care and mindfulness in navigating life's challenges. The discussion emphasises the significance of understanding one's identity post-divorce and the role of shame in the healing process. Ultimately, Kiz encourages listeners to embrace their journey of reinvention and to find joy amidst the struggles.

🔖 resilience, divorce, grief, self-care, emotional healing, family dynamics, personal growth, mindfulness, relationship

Key Takeaways:

  • Kiz faced profound transformation after her divorce at 49.
  • Estrangement from her son was a significant emotional challenge.
  • Shame often accompanies the end of a marriage.
  • Self-care is crucial during times of emotional upheaval.
  • Reinvention involves understanding who you are without your partner.
  • Mindfulness can aid in navigating relationships post-divorce.
  • It's important to allow yourself moments of joy.
  • The journey of healing is not linear; it involves ups and downs.
  • You have permission to thrive after hardship.

    Join the Radical Reframe - https://www.vashti-whitfield.com/

    Follow the journey and learnings - https://www.instagram.com/vashtiwhitfield/

    Continue the conversation with Kiz - https://www.instagram.com/kizmet.me/

    https://www.kizmet.me/

    Series Produced by - www.sessioninprogress.com.au

     

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Reinvention and Resilience

    02:50 The Journey of Transformation

    06:06 Navigating Grief and Loss

    09:01 The Impact of Divorce on Family Dynamics

    11:52 Understanding Divorce and Its Emotional Toll

    15:01 Reinventing Self After Divorce

    17:56 The Role of Shame in Divorce

    20:58 Finding Purpose and Intention

    24:10 The Importance of Self-Care

    27:14 Creating a New Identity

    29:50 Mindfulness in Relationships

    33:01 Final Thoughts on Reinvention

     

     

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