October 6, 2024 • 34 mins
This week Mikki chats to her friend and the Yoni Queen- Rosie Rees! Rosie is a sexual wellness and relationship coach, nude yoga instructor as well as the CEO and creator of majorly successful business Yoni Pleasure Place and the creator of the Splash Blanket. Rosie's story is incredible and the conversations that we get into about nude yoga, yoni massaging, healing trauma through connecting with your yoni, connecting to Spirit through your pu$$y and so much more will literally change your life! Also- peen owners, we didn't forget about you!
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
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Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm Mickey Fisher, and welcome to the Village Crazy Lady.
People are talking to me and they are not physically
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Speaker 1 (00:26):
Let's do it.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Crazy Crazy Crazy the Village Crazy Lay Podcast. Hello, Goodeous Legends,
and welcome to another episode of the Village Crazy Lady.
Today we've got part two of my chat with the
Yoni Queen herself, Rosy Rees. If you haven't listened to
the first part of the episode, make sure you go
back and listen to the first part because there is
(00:50):
just so much that we chat about. So let's get
into it. Like the concept of the over sexualizing is
so true, and I feel like that's a good segue
into like what I want to talk about next, which
is like teach this sort of stuff to our kids
or just children in general, right, because like I think
(01:11):
that the sexualization of everything starts so so young. There's
so many no you can't do this, No you can't
do that. But then where sort of like everything is
sexual like you know, over sexualized about our bodies and
how we're treated. And I mean, like, you know exactly
what I'm talking about, And something that I am always
(01:35):
trying to learn about and sort of really understand and
find the balance with is like, how do we help
our children understand I guess sex and our bodies and
everything about it in a really safe way. Yeah, and
(01:56):
like you've got you know, a step daughter, so you've
got like experience doing that, Like what do you recommend?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
It starts with the parents. People who feel shame around
their sexuality or their sex find it really hard to
be a role model for their children. And fair enough,
you know, but it really starts with the parents to
work on themselves. Because if like, and it makes so
much sense, Like my mom didn't tell me anything about
(02:27):
sex or menstruation, nothing, zero, zilch, absolutely nothing, And so
it was a big mystery. And you know, if something's silent,
it's you think it's okay with naughty or shameful. We
can't talk about that. So I think a big thing
is that it's starting to talk about it. But my
mum had a lot of sexual shame and body shame,
(02:49):
so of course she's not going to tell her kids
about this stuff. How the hell is she going to
speak up and teach her children to be sexually empowered.
She can't, and but her mum couldn't either, So it
makes sense. And you can't demonize parents who aren't doing
it because you know they have to work on them
else first to be able to educate their children. So really,
(03:09):
I just want to drive that home, like it starts
with you, and it starts with the home. You cannot
expect your child to be sexually like educated about sex
and consent and boundaries and all this stuff at school
because we just can't rely on school systems to do that.
Yet I don't think I think it is happening. Kenzi,
our eight year old daughter, did receive. It was more
(03:32):
just like it's my body, my choice kind of stuff,
which is great, that's fantastic. But we've driven home with
Kenzie like, this is your body. If it's not mummy
or Rosie or Daddy or your grandparents that we approve of,
you know, I don't know, wiping your barm or something.
She doesn't need that anymore, but no one else is
allowed to touch that. That's part of your body. And
(03:54):
I think also you have to go at the speed
of the child as well, Like, because I was a
very sexual little like I touched myself all the time
and it felt good, but there was no talking about it.
I wish someone had noticed maybe and just been like, oh,
like you go to your bedroom if you really want
to feel this kind of pleasure and you know, or
(04:15):
like just giving me some context around it. So if
your child is asking around like, oh, this feels really good,
or maybe they are rubbing down there or whatever it is,
first of all, do not shame them, yes, because that
just leads to a future of shutting down sexually. So
first of all, do not shame them. Let them know, yes,
(04:37):
it can feel really nice down there to touch yourself.
But if you can do that, just do it in
your bedroom in the privacy of you know, your own space,
or like put a little scarf on your door if
you don't want anyone to interrupt you, you don't want
someone to walk in, just you know, when where, don't
mind what you're doing as long as it's safe, you know.
Whereas some kids don't even aren't that way inclined, Like
(05:01):
Kenzie's not even aware of that stuff. So obviously we
talk about it in our house because it's my business
and it's just very present. But we're not trying to
shove it down her throat or anything, like when she
comes to me and asks, because I really feel like
kids will ask when they're ready, and so many parents
will shut them down, and that's the complete wrong thing.
(05:23):
If they're asking or curious, they're ready. You do not
want your child to find out this shit at school
in the school yard, yes, or on worse, on the internet.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, from someone that's not you really, you know, Like
that's what I really like, Like just that concept that
you just said, Like if they ask, they're ready, and
like if they're asking the question and you're not going
to give them the answer, they're going to go looking
somewhere else.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
They will and they will get it from the worst
sources imaginable. So be the person to sit with them,
like get it. If you find it really uncomfortable to
talk about, get a book. There's someone came out I believe,
like just I can't remember the names of the books
right now, can ask his boot ken Zie once in
the past, and you know, she's not interested really yet,
(06:08):
but when she is, she knows they're there. So that's
a big one, if they're asking, if they're curious, do
not shut them down, try to have the conversation. It's
very innocent, yeah, like it's they're not It's not like
if you tell them about sex, they're gonna go do
it. It's just a natural, innocent curiosity and it's up to
(06:30):
us to really tell them.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yes. The removing the shame, I think is like really
important and something I guess as a parent, Like I've
had so many moments where I've noticed that I've noticed
the response in me first and gone, oh, that's really interesting,
like how you your automatic reaction, And it's a balance
(06:53):
I think of like wanting to protect them and like
a fear almost and then this sort of like and
then I've had to kind of go that it is
coming from the most innocent place of them just going
like this is literally just information.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
These are literally just bodies.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Like I'm just genuinely intrigued and like the I remember,
I think it must have been you were talking about,
you know, they like just encourage them to go to
their room, have their own space kind of thing, and
we did that with our kids as well, and it's
but it is interesting, like how you notice what your
first reaction is and it really is like a you thing.
(07:35):
That's the first thing. Like it is a you thing.
Whatever you're feeling, that is a you thing. It is
not a them thing because they're literally just like everything's
just new. They don't know. They haven't Yeah, they haven't
even like attached a charge to it.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
That's our charge, and that's our charge from our conditioning
and our upbringing totally. If you don't want to pass
that on to your child, then get the education that
you need from a sex educator. There's so many sex
educators out there now on how to best educate your children.
I think there's the traffic light system. So you can
look that up in terms of like what's healthy and
(08:10):
normal for children at their development and their certain age,
like what they maybe, you know, you can expect that
they're maybe touching themselves, or they're exploring with other children
like that kind of stuff. You can check what is
normal and healthy. But obviously there's a nuance there and
every kid's different. You just got a parent the kids
(08:30):
that you have, and if they're asking lots of questions,
you can always just say, oh, I don't know about that, sweetie,
but let's find out together, you know, make it a
bit of a you know, something that you can research together,
and maybe even having a volver I don't know, a
volve puppet or a revolver diagram. Show them what's what Like,
it's just a body part. It's only sexual if we
(08:54):
make it sexual.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yes, literally, Yeah, you're also.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
We from here and you bleed from here, and you
prove from here, and here are your three pelvic openings.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
You guys came out of here exactly shameful. How about though,
I guess it changes when they become like, not changes,
but when they become a bit older and you're actually
wanting to Because I was someone who grew up like
extremely religious, like I had a purity.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Ring, so I was that level of sheep.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
So my when it came to having sex for the
first time, it was like with an absolute douchebag, and
it was very just like no one. I'd never touched myself,
I'd never done anything, and all I knew was he
knew more than I did, so it was just I
just listened to whatever he told me. So everything I
(09:48):
learned about sex at the time was from this guy
who basically was just like using me like a sex doll.
I think it's so important that we empower, like we
actually bridged that that somewhere along the line, because we
don't want them learning about sex from somebody else. You know,
they like to be able to figure that out for themselves.
(10:11):
So how do you think like you navigate that age.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
It's tricky because I'm just gonna say this, and this
might be controversial, but if you if you've left it
to to I don't know, the age of twelve thirteen,
it's too late. Yeah, okay, if you're going to start
a sex education or like a just a body education,
that it's possibly too late because I'm telling you they've
(10:36):
already been told or they've seen something or so this Honestly,
they say that it starts when the baby's born. You say,
you know, if you've met changing their diap or this
is her volver, just like basic things like that, like
just naming me anatomy what it is. Obviously, I call
it a yoni, but Kenzie knows it's a volver, and
she knows that. She calls it a glitterist. She thinks
(10:57):
it's like glitter. She doesn't know what it does, it
doesn't and it's not about that she just she just
knows that we have labia and that's whatever. But if
you're waiting till yeah, they're almost a teen too late.
And if you're uncomfortable teaching them or empowering them, find
someone who you can pass this kind of I guess
(11:17):
this process off too. So if you have a friend
that you think, oh, I just love her to share
a bit more about this stuff, or a coach or
I don't know, a therapist, it's counselor or something. But
in terms of high school, listen, I'm the worst person
because I yeah, I had a lot of that religious
shame as well, but I was boy crazy. My pussy
woke up when I was like second. It was the
(11:38):
first wake up call when I was fourteen, after I
got my first bleed. I just wanted to fuck. I
just wanted to be with every man. Honestly, I was
so horny love that for you, and I couldn't channel it.
I didn't, but I you know what, I didn't have
the didn't have the education, I didn't have the tools.
I didn't know, so I made a lot of bad choices.
(12:01):
And you know, and I've done a lot of healing
around that. Teens are going to make choices that they're
going to make. Yeah, but as long as you're that
safe space at home where they can come back and
you're going to not judge them, You're not going to
shame them, You're not going to ground them. I think
it's really important that at that age you kind of, yes,
you have to be a strict parent to some extent,
(12:22):
but you also need to be a safe space for
them to be like this is what happened. You know,
I don't know what to do. You just want to
get to make sure they get to that age and
they know that you're the person to go to. Yeah,
and you're not going to be like why did you
do that? Totally? Yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
What are some other things do you think that women
can do to sort of like help empower themselves? Like
what do you I guess you work with so many
women in this space, and I know, like we've been
talking for one hundred hours, so I and I've loved
every single still more I know exactly coming out because
(13:04):
I'm like you were with You've done this for so long,
and you've worked with so many women, and like you're
seeing them from so many different levels, Like say, say,
there's women and I'm sure you get this often who
are like I feel like I'm broken, I feel like
I don't work. Like how do women who you know
sexually or whatever, They're like, my pussy is not alive.
(13:25):
My pussy is like literally buried six feet underneath the
earth with a gravestone on top, say, rest in peace,
never worked, broken, dead, deceased. How do you help someone
with a dead pusse?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Yeah, well it's it's not uncommon actually, and my dms
are full of women just like that dead, Yes, who
feel broken. First thing I say is you're not broken. Yeah,
it's chances are. You know, we have coping mechanisms and
from experiences that we've had sexual birth whatever, even you
know endo and periods, and you do. There's so much
(14:08):
stuff that happens in this area of the body, and
we layer on coping mechanisms and often numbing is one
of them, and so numbing out it's easy, right, it's
easy to dissociate. Like you said, you were disconnected from
the chest down. That's not uncommon. You know, most women
are disconnected from the belly button down. And so it
is this process of resensitization, it's this process of reintegrating, learning,
(14:33):
reintroducing pussy into your body. You have a pussy and
it's not separate, it's not sexual all the time, and
it's it's part of you. It's and I think, like,
just slowly, slowly, gently, if it's just cupping, if it's
Yoni eggwork, if it's looking at your pussy in the mirror,
(14:53):
like something every day that you can do to eat.
If it's just when you wake up in the morning
and for one minute you take five breaths cupping your volver,
just be like I welcome you into my body. You
know I'm listening. Tell me what you need because it's yeah,
(15:14):
like I said, it's just it's not too late to
start this process. And I get a lot of messages
from women who've gone through the first or second divorce,
they've had a couple of kids, and they are just
so they're really lacking vitality, and they're lacking like bizzar,
(15:34):
not bizzars, but just like this life force energy, and
they do feel broken. And honestly, like your Yoni, your
sexuality is it is the home of your creative life
force energy. If you feel shit in your body, you
don't like the way your body looks or feels and
(15:55):
you know, and you don't like how you feel sexually,
that is going to influence everything in your life and
that goes hand in hand. So starting first, I guess
to connecting to your body. And that's why some people
come to the naked yoga. They've never even done yoga before.
They're not there for the fucking yoga.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
They're there to like get naked, you get they.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Can reacquaint themselves with their bodies that they've been so
fucking disconnected to their whole life. And so it's just
starting slowly. Okay, what does my body need today? What
does my yoni need today? And start from there.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It's time to wake up pussies up. When like, you know,
when people talk about pussy power, how would you describe
pussy power? What is pussy power to you?
Speaker 1 (16:41):
I feel like that is, Oh, it's different for every
woman because we all have different pussoirs and different and
it's like they all have different personalities, right, volvers kind
of like a face too, isn't it Like we all
have different faces and different volvers. They're like fingerprints, They're
all different. But like, I honestly feel like pussy power
is just someone who is embodied in their pussy. Their
(17:05):
pussy is not separate to them, and they listen and
they speak their boundaries. They know what they like. They're
not afraid to masturbate and self. And there's a difference
between masturbation and self pleasure. Masturbation is a goal getting
it done, and that's great, Like that's vibrators is great
for that. Like we sell a couple of vibrators on
(17:26):
your any Pleasure Palace and they just they're the suction
and the flicking ones and it gets the job done.
But self pleasure is being able to connect deeper with
like internal it's literally going inside your vagina is like
going within. You're literally going inside yourself. It's deep, it's vulnerable,
it's scary. I understand why a lot of women just
(17:48):
use vibrators on their click to get off. And I
sometimes I still do it and it feels great and
it's like that tension release. Yeah, but to actually like
so I feel like for me, my pussy power is
it comes deep within. It didn't always have, you know,
And this is why I want women to know. If
you don't if you feel completely numb, broken, you know, dead, puss.
(18:10):
It's you can wake that up, you can experience more pleasure.
And I do feel like when you start to feel
more sexual, a deeper sexual connection with yourself, I also
feel like you have a deeper connection to spirit. And
it wasn't a coincidence that when I became connected to
(18:30):
my pussy, I became a magnet for abundance. I became
a magnet for these business ideas just literally dropping in
my business is are seven figure businesses.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Now.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I had seven hundred dollars in my bank account when
I started Your Only Pleasure Palace, I was literally paying
my boyfriend's rent and my rent like I was paying
his way for a couple of years. I had nothing
to my name. I had like this beaten up red burina,
nothing wrong with red burinas, but like I didn't have
I wasn't surrounded with abundance. But honestly, when I started
(19:10):
to tap into my pleasure, started self pleasuring, I started
making sound while I self pleasure and during sex and
connecting to that part of my body. It's not a
coincidence that I started attracting in abundance through way of money, ideas,
creative energy, and now I am reaping the benefits of
(19:34):
creating those businesses really that were birthed from here. I
haven't birthed a baby, but I birthed I honestly believe
I birthed these businesses from my womb literally literally.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
I love that. Just that realization and the connection to
spirit is so interesting because you're not the first person
I've ever spoken to who has mentioned that when they
started doing that kind of work as far as like
literally they would just lie there with like a crystal
dildo inside of them or a crystal wand inside of
them and just use that as like a meditation and
(20:08):
they just lie there or they would like just spend
that time with themselves. All of a sudden they would
receive downloads, they'd connect to spirit. Like It's so fascinating
because it's not the first time I fucking heard that.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
No, Well, if you think about it, the womb is
that portal in the body that receives life like a baby,
a soul. Literally, it's insane when you think about it
comes through and lands in your womb, and you were
you you birthed that. And I feel like ideas are
kind of the same, Like what what do you really
(20:44):
want to create? I didn't even really know. I was
quite happy just coaching and working out a local cafe,
and then that made me really happy. But then yeah,
when these ideas came through, I need to because I
was about to start selling just this whole range of
just vibrators that were already on the market, and then
when I had that Jdegg experience, I was like, I
cannot do that. I literally can. I have to take
(21:06):
them all off the shop that I was about to
launch and just go with this, and I have to
trust myself. Can you imagine me telling my parents, by
the way, not going back to a corporate job, I'm
just gonna start selling crystal dildos and teaching naked yoga. Hope,
just letting you know. And by the way, I never asked,
like I never got anyone's opinion. This is a big thing.
(21:27):
Like if if you're thinking of doing something in your life,
don't get anyone's opinion, don't ask permission, like maybe seek
forgiveness later if it doesn't work out. But trust, when
I booked my tickets to India, I didn't tell anyone.
I told them after the fat I love that and
after I launched my business, like, yeah, they found out
(21:47):
and it was all over the news, and you know,
it's so it's important to just follow that gut instinct
or that pussy instinct.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yes, follow the pussy. Before we finish up, I do
actually just have one more question. Obviously we've been talking
about the vulva, the vagina, the pussy, the yoni so much.
How about men or how about people who have a penis?
Speaker 1 (22:13):
It EXISTI.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
You're like, tell me against like just quickly, just a
quick description please, just same ship, Like not much has change,
but is there anything, like you know, if a man
is listening to this, and I know there are, like
(22:38):
I do have male listeners are thinking that they liked you,
and they're like, oh, that's be interesting. Then after a
while they're like, I'm not sure this is for me.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
My wife's your partners. Then you can let the man
come in now, well.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Exactly, yeah, now we welcome them in. Can men or
people with penises? Can they sort of do similarish work?
Speaker 1 (23:03):
Oh? Yeah, because I know for them especially, they're very
like finish line.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
They're just like like getting get out, especially like in
regards to masturbation, maybe not so much with sex because
like for men often that's like more of a connection
y type of thing and a connection opportunity. But masturbation
for men is definitely like it's just to get the
job done.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Yeah. Well, a couple of boyfriends that I had before
my wife, one of them was very tantric in his
love making and wouldn't need to climax, wouldn't need to
come to have an orgasm. And this is entirely possible
for men to reach leisure states climax without ejaculating, So
(23:48):
I think that's something if men are interested. There's a
few books on sacred sex and sacred sexuality and learning
to channel, because again, men are not taught this either. No,
they don't have like a head of the village kind
of man teaching them. There. No, like they just got
thrown into watching porn and then they think that's what's
(24:08):
normal totally. They just stick their dick places and it's
very friction based. It's very must get the tightest whole
kind of thing. And even their grip when they're masturbating
is usually very very tight, and so that's very hard
for a pussy to replicate. And like I've been told
once that I was too wet or too open. No, no, no,
a wet, open pussy is what you want. Like that
(24:29):
means she's turned on. That means she's aroused and wet
and like it's all happening. Yet men want this tight,
friction based kind of experience, So I think there's a
lot of rewiring for men to do, you know, so
slowing down self pleasure, having a looser grip. Potentially camphraises
the man for all of this stuff on the internet,
(24:50):
so check him out. But I think also like using
your breath, using your pelvic floor muscles if you're a man,
can really help and help to slow down, like rather
than having that vigorous sex, see if you can just
slow down the whole process, slowing down everything. Like when
I'm using my glass ones to self pleasure, I'm not
(25:11):
like ramming it in it. It's like whoa the slot.
Think about it. When you do something slower, you feel more. Yeah, totally,
Like if you were to touch your hand, if you
weren't really really slow, you can really really feel the
subtle tea and like the tickle and the sensation, you
can feel exactly where it's at, Whereas if you were
(25:32):
to vigorously rub eventually you just almost don't even feel
it like it's just really kind of send up with
like Chaffinger exactly, but not only that. A man's semen
is his life force energy, and in ancient teachings, they
would teach the men to not ejaculate or if because
(25:53):
I talked to my Kundalini yoga teacher about this actually,
because that's all about channeling your sexual energy, channeling your
kundliny energy, and he said that it's recommended for men
to ejaculate once a month. And I was like, okay,
what about women. You know what if we're coming every day,
because coming for us brings us often, it will bring
especially internal orgasms, it'll bring energy. And he was like
(26:15):
once a week for a woman. Listen, I don't. I
can potentially do it a lot more than that, and
it's not like you need to follow this, but he
was saying, yeah, that the semen is the that really
life force energy, and when a man ejaculates, he loses
that life force. And so the more a man can
practice it's called sublimation, it's recirculating the semen, and it's
(26:37):
obviously you need to be trained to do it and
read lots of books and do courses on this because
it's I would I would hate men to be listening
being like, oh god, I can't masthurbate. I'm gonna have
blue balls for like a month. But yeah, just starting
to maybe slow down, use your breath and watch less porn.
The men that I was with, they both of them
(27:00):
stopped watching porn, and you know what, our sex life
changed completely.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
I remember one day my boyfriend picked me up from
work when I was working out this little cafe and
I said, to you, as soon as I got in
the car, I felt his energy and I just said
to him, I'm like, did you watch porn and masturbate today?
He's like, how did you know? And I could just
feel it. His life boss was not as vibrant and
alive and energetic.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
And so after that experience, actually that was really big
for him. And he'd had an addiction to porn for
many years and he stopped. And we can't underestimate the
mind and had the role of the mind and the
brain and witnessing something like that plays in sex. If
your partner's watching a lot of porn, it's very hard
to switch into like a sensual, erotic, intimate experience with
(27:48):
your partner. That you've been with save for twenty five years,
and so cutting porn out or down is really beneficial, man.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
I mean that's its own conversation itself is like just
so true, just the disconnection and the like so used
to and like it really is an Instagram versus like
reality sort of situation, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
It is because when you're on porn, if something's not working,
you go to the next one and she's got bigger
boobs and she's doing this crazy shit and then it's
like really violent and then you need all this crazy
fucking shit to get off hotally go back to your
wife that you've been with for twenty years, and obviously
she's not going to do that, Like that's not realistic.
This person is born and it's you know, she's performing.
(28:33):
That's what her job is, that's her role. But you
don't want to performer in the bedroom. Sex isn't about performance,
it's about connection. Well for me anyway, if I want
to have sex, yes, like once a month with ovulation,
I'm like I just need an orgasm. I'm really horny.
But around that it's connecting. I want to connect and
(28:54):
I want to feel my partner. I want to feel bonded.
Women need to feel bonded. We need that eye contact.
We need, you know. And I always say, like, start
from the top down, Okay, look into her eyes, look
into each other's eyes first. It's amazing, how because I
practiced eye gazing in naked yoga. Not much we don't
do with naked yoga yoga on everything. I do some
(29:18):
eye gazing, and most women are like, I have never
even done this with my partner that I've been with
for decades. Yeah, you know. It's just sitting looking into
each other's left eye the window to the soul, and
just breathing, and then like kiss actually do some open
mouth kissing every day ideally, and then breasts maybe, like
just focus on her heart and her breasts, and then
(29:40):
go to the pussy.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
That is the last place you've done all this, have
the checklist, check everything, add in a few more other
body parts, and then land the pussy. Very finally, I
feel like everyone, I hope everyone listening is taking notes
and we've got some things to practice. I know for me,
I'm like, the looking like they're actually looking at my
(30:05):
in the mirror is something that I'm like, all right,
that's my challenge. To myself. I've also been so slack
with the egg because that's like how we first connected,
because I was like, oh, guys, I got this egg
and like I'm gonna put it inside me. And then
they were like is it one of rosies? And then
you were like you need one of my eggs? And
then we had a conversation and like even you saying
(30:26):
like you know, for thirty days you use the egg.
I'm like, that's gonna be my challenge for everyone listening.
Keep me accountable for thirty days once I've finished bleeding.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Yes, not when you're bleeding, so like twenty one days
or so.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
And I also already like literally two days ago, well
actually not two days ago. Yesterday I didn't I couldn't
find my menstrual cup and I.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
Was like, where did it go?
Speaker 2 (30:49):
This is so weird, And I shoved a tampon, in
which I normally don't, but I was like, I can't
find it and I need to go to the beach.
And then it wasn't until I was like halfway to
my destination. I was like, ah, it's already in me.
I've got them both in me. I'm chokers.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
I've done that with a yonia egg in there with
like a yeah, putting a tampoint in it's like a
traffic jam in there.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
Literally, it's wild how much you can store up there.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
I had in there.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
If I had this woman, she's like, I work in
a women's jail, and you would you would be shot.
I'd bear It's like a Merry Poppin tampack so much.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
All right, well, yes, you do need to use your
on egg a little bit more consistently because it does
tone the pelvic floor, yes, amongst other things. I didn't
get into it to tone my yoni. But after birth, yeah,
perfect floor muscle can decrease, and having the egg in there,
if you think about it, it's just a weight. And
this is like just to rewind five thousand years. But
this is why women started to use it. The Queen
(31:47):
and her concubines in China would use this egg to
keep a strong vagina because they knew back then, like
they didn't have prolapse surgeries to lift up your bowl
or your bladder or your uterus or your vagina wall,
but they knew, okay, wearing a weight in the vagina
is like a weightlifting practice, you know, out of work
and so typically women, well historically women used rocks if
(32:11):
they weren't like wealthy, like the queen or whatever. Potatoes
were used. So a little JD. Egg is or if
you've got like a kegel weight at home, use it,
even if it's just for fifteen minutes twenty minutes a day,
were your nickers In case it topples out of there
and falls down on the footpath and someone picks it up.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
You you didn't want that. You definitely don't want them
to watch you lose your leg, you lose your egg.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
I mean, there would be sorry.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
That was that's my egg that I just laid.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Where your niggers.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Thank you so much for coming in and chatting to
me and answering every seven hundred and eighty questions that
I had. That was a roller coat like so we
went every weekday. I love that. And you're just such
a wealth of knowledge and so grateful for like what
you do and what you teach women, especially because it's
(33:03):
so empowering. How can people find you? I'll obviously have
it all in the show notes, and I'm sure everyone's
going to be like, I need to go to the
website and get an octopussy and also an egg and
also if you're what, there's a really beautiful Volver Stanley
cup here too, which I'm really needing to get. But
you're also the queen of the Splash Blanket.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Like there's we haven't even touched on spy. I have
like another podcast when I'm back in Brisbane, like all right,
let's talk squirting another awakening that I ass Oh my god,
that is definitely another podcast. So you can find me
Rosie at Rosy dot Reese. It's constantly shadow band. You
need to type the whole thing out. Yes, I've experience
(33:47):
in the naughty corner all the time. You only underscore pleasure.
Underscore Palace is our Instagram. You only Pleasure Palace dot com,
Splash Blanket dot com, rosiees dot com. I've got the
Golden Yonni membership, which is just a membership portal with
everything to do with the pussy and learning to love
her and school. If you want to learn to squirt,
there's an online course for it. Of course, breast massage
(34:10):
course coming out soon. There's so much. I'm always doing stuff,
you know. I love that. There's a lot to do
that I've got the work to do here on this
planet Busy in a message, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
I've done squirting. I'm now onto titties. I've done eggs.
I've done inside, I'm on outside.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
It's just const growth, isn't It's never too late. I
love that.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
Well, we'll leave on that It's never too late. Thank
you so much for listening, guys, and make sure you follow, rate,
review all of those fun things because it helps me
out a lot. But I will see you next week.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Bye,
Apoge Production.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm Mickey Fisher, and welcome to the Village Crazy Lady.
People are talking to me and they are not physically
in this room, so just strap in for that. Can't
call me crazy, so I said it first. Whoever's trying
to come through, whatever messages need to come through, like,
just bring it on.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Let's do it.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Crazy Crazy Crazy the Village Crazy Lay Podcast. Hello, Goodeous Legends,
and welcome to another episode of the Village Crazy Lady.
Today we've got part two of my chat with the
Yoni Queen herself, Rosy Rees. If you haven't listened to
the first part of the episode, make sure you go
back and listen to the first part because there is
(00:50):
just so much that we chat about. So let's get
into it. Like the concept of the over sexualizing is
so true, and I feel like that's a good segue
into like what I want to talk about next, which
is like teach this sort of stuff to our kids
or just children in general, right, because like I think
(01:11):
that the sexualization of everything starts so so young. There's
so many no you can't do this, No you can't
do that. But then where sort of like everything is
sexual like you know, over sexualized about our bodies and
how we're treated. And I mean, like, you know exactly
what I'm talking about, And something that I am always
(01:35):
trying to learn about and sort of really understand and
find the balance with is like, how do we help
our children understand I guess sex and our bodies and
everything about it in a really safe way. Yeah, and
(01:56):
like you've got you know, a step daughter, so you've
got like experience doing that, Like what do you recommend?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
It starts with the parents. People who feel shame around
their sexuality or their sex find it really hard to
be a role model for their children. And fair enough,
you know, but it really starts with the parents to
work on themselves. Because if like, and it makes so
much sense, Like my mom didn't tell me anything about
(02:27):
sex or menstruation, nothing, zero, zilch, absolutely nothing, And so
it was a big mystery. And you know, if something's silent,
it's you think it's okay with naughty or shameful. We
can't talk about that. So I think a big thing
is that it's starting to talk about it. But my
mum had a lot of sexual shame and body shame,
(02:49):
so of course she's not going to tell her kids
about this stuff. How the hell is she going to
speak up and teach her children to be sexually empowered.
She can't, and but her mum couldn't either, So it
makes sense. And you can't demonize parents who aren't doing
it because you know they have to work on them
else first to be able to educate their children. So really,
(03:09):
I just want to drive that home, like it starts
with you, and it starts with the home. You cannot
expect your child to be sexually like educated about sex
and consent and boundaries and all this stuff at school
because we just can't rely on school systems to do that.
Yet I don't think I think it is happening. Kenzi,
our eight year old daughter, did receive. It was more
(03:32):
just like it's my body, my choice kind of stuff,
which is great, that's fantastic. But we've driven home with
Kenzie like, this is your body. If it's not mummy
or Rosie or Daddy or your grandparents that we approve of,
you know, I don't know, wiping your barm or something.
She doesn't need that anymore, but no one else is
allowed to touch that. That's part of your body. And
(03:54):
I think also you have to go at the speed
of the child as well, Like, because I was a
very sexual little like I touched myself all the time
and it felt good, but there was no talking about it.
I wish someone had noticed maybe and just been like, oh,
like you go to your bedroom if you really want
to feel this kind of pleasure and you know, or
(04:15):
like just giving me some context around it. So if
your child is asking around like, oh, this feels really good,
or maybe they are rubbing down there or whatever it is,
first of all, do not shame them, yes, because that
just leads to a future of shutting down sexually. So
first of all, do not shame them. Let them know, yes,
(04:37):
it can feel really nice down there to touch yourself.
But if you can do that, just do it in
your bedroom in the privacy of you know, your own space,
or like put a little scarf on your door if
you don't want anyone to interrupt you, you don't want
someone to walk in, just you know, when where, don't
mind what you're doing as long as it's safe, you know.
Whereas some kids don't even aren't that way inclined, Like
(05:01):
Kenzie's not even aware of that stuff. So obviously we
talk about it in our house because it's my business
and it's just very present. But we're not trying to
shove it down her throat or anything, like when she
comes to me and asks, because I really feel like
kids will ask when they're ready, and so many parents
will shut them down, and that's the complete wrong thing.
(05:23):
If they're asking or curious, they're ready. You do not
want your child to find out this shit at school
in the school yard, yes, or on worse, on the internet.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, from someone that's not you really, you know, Like
that's what I really like, Like just that concept that
you just said, Like if they ask, they're ready, and
like if they're asking the question and you're not going
to give them the answer, they're going to go looking
somewhere else.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
They will and they will get it from the worst
sources imaginable. So be the person to sit with them,
like get it. If you find it really uncomfortable to
talk about, get a book. There's someone came out I believe,
like just I can't remember the names of the books
right now, can ask his boot ken Zie once in
the past, and you know, she's not interested really yet,
(06:08):
but when she is, she knows they're there. So that's
a big one, if they're asking, if they're curious, do
not shut them down, try to have the conversation. It's
very innocent, yeah, like it's they're not It's not like
if you tell them about sex, they're gonna go do
it. It's just a natural, innocent curiosity and it's up to
(06:30):
us to really tell them.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yes. The removing the shame, I think is like really
important and something I guess as a parent, Like I've
had so many moments where I've noticed that I've noticed
the response in me first and gone, oh, that's really interesting,
like how you your automatic reaction, And it's a balance
(06:53):
I think of like wanting to protect them and like
a fear almost and then this sort of like and
then I've had to kind of go that it is
coming from the most innocent place of them just going
like this is literally just information.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
These are literally just bodies.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Like I'm just genuinely intrigued and like the I remember,
I think it must have been you were talking about,
you know, they like just encourage them to go to
their room, have their own space kind of thing, and
we did that with our kids as well, and it's
but it is interesting, like how you notice what your
first reaction is and it really is like a you thing.
(07:35):
That's the first thing. Like it is a you thing.
Whatever you're feeling, that is a you thing. It is
not a them thing because they're literally just like everything's
just new. They don't know. They haven't Yeah, they haven't
even like attached a charge to it.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
That's our charge, and that's our charge from our conditioning
and our upbringing totally. If you don't want to pass
that on to your child, then get the education that
you need from a sex educator. There's so many sex
educators out there now on how to best educate your children.
I think there's the traffic light system. So you can
look that up in terms of like what's healthy and
(08:10):
normal for children at their development and their certain age,
like what they maybe, you know, you can expect that
they're maybe touching themselves, or they're exploring with other children
like that kind of stuff. You can check what is
normal and healthy. But obviously there's a nuance there and
every kid's different. You just got a parent the kids
(08:30):
that you have, and if they're asking lots of questions,
you can always just say, oh, I don't know about that, sweetie,
but let's find out together, you know, make it a
bit of a you know, something that you can research together,
and maybe even having a volver I don't know, a
volve puppet or a revolver diagram. Show them what's what Like,
it's just a body part. It's only sexual if we
(08:54):
make it sexual.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yes, literally, Yeah, you're also.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
We from here and you bleed from here, and you
prove from here, and here are your three pelvic openings.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
You guys came out of here exactly shameful. How about though,
I guess it changes when they become like, not changes,
but when they become a bit older and you're actually
wanting to Because I was someone who grew up like
extremely religious, like I had a purity.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Ring, so I was that level of sheep.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
So my when it came to having sex for the
first time, it was like with an absolute douchebag, and
it was very just like no one. I'd never touched myself,
I'd never done anything, and all I knew was he
knew more than I did, so it was just I
just listened to whatever he told me. So everything I
(09:48):
learned about sex at the time was from this guy
who basically was just like using me like a sex doll.
I think it's so important that we empower, like we
actually bridged that that somewhere along the line, because we
don't want them learning about sex from somebody else. You know,
they like to be able to figure that out for themselves.
(10:11):
So how do you think like you navigate that age.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
It's tricky because I'm just gonna say this, and this
might be controversial, but if you if you've left it
to to I don't know, the age of twelve thirteen,
it's too late. Yeah, okay, if you're going to start
a sex education or like a just a body education,
that it's possibly too late because I'm telling you they've
(10:36):
already been told or they've seen something or so this Honestly,
they say that it starts when the baby's born. You say,
you know, if you've met changing their diap or this
is her volver, just like basic things like that, like
just naming me anatomy what it is. Obviously, I call
it a yoni, but Kenzie knows it's a volver, and
she knows that. She calls it a glitterist. She thinks
(10:57):
it's like glitter. She doesn't know what it does, it
doesn't and it's not about that she just she just
knows that we have labia and that's whatever. But if
you're waiting till yeah, they're almost a teen too late.
And if you're uncomfortable teaching them or empowering them, find
someone who you can pass this kind of I guess
(11:17):
this process off too. So if you have a friend
that you think, oh, I just love her to share
a bit more about this stuff, or a coach or
I don't know, a therapist, it's counselor or something. But
in terms of high school, listen, I'm the worst person
because I yeah, I had a lot of that religious
shame as well, but I was boy crazy. My pussy
woke up when I was like second. It was the
(11:38):
first wake up call when I was fourteen, after I
got my first bleed. I just wanted to fuck. I
just wanted to be with every man. Honestly, I was
so horny love that for you, and I couldn't channel it.
I didn't, but I you know what, I didn't have
the didn't have the education, I didn't have the tools.
I didn't know, so I made a lot of bad choices.
(12:01):
And you know, and I've done a lot of healing
around that. Teens are going to make choices that they're
going to make. Yeah, but as long as you're that
safe space at home where they can come back and
you're going to not judge them, You're not going to
shame them, You're not going to ground them. I think
it's really important that at that age you kind of, yes,
you have to be a strict parent to some extent,
(12:22):
but you also need to be a safe space for
them to be like this is what happened. You know,
I don't know what to do. You just want to
get to make sure they get to that age and
they know that you're the person to go to. Yeah,
and you're not going to be like why did you
do that? Totally? Yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
What are some other things do you think that women
can do to sort of like help empower themselves? Like
what do you I guess you work with so many
women in this space, and I know, like we've been
talking for one hundred hours, so I and I've loved
every single still more I know exactly coming out because
(13:04):
I'm like you were with You've done this for so long,
and you've worked with so many women, and like you're
seeing them from so many different levels, Like say, say,
there's women and I'm sure you get this often who
are like I feel like I'm broken, I feel like
I don't work. Like how do women who you know
sexually or whatever, They're like, my pussy is not alive.
(13:25):
My pussy is like literally buried six feet underneath the
earth with a gravestone on top, say, rest in peace,
never worked, broken, dead, deceased. How do you help someone
with a dead pusse?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Yeah, well it's it's not uncommon actually, and my dms
are full of women just like that dead, Yes, who
feel broken. First thing I say is you're not broken. Yeah,
it's chances are. You know, we have coping mechanisms and
from experiences that we've had sexual birth whatever, even you
know endo and periods, and you do. There's so much
(14:08):
stuff that happens in this area of the body, and
we layer on coping mechanisms and often numbing is one
of them, and so numbing out it's easy, right, it's
easy to dissociate. Like you said, you were disconnected from
the chest down. That's not uncommon. You know, most women
are disconnected from the belly button down. And so it
is this process of resensitization, it's this process of reintegrating, learning,
(14:33):
reintroducing pussy into your body. You have a pussy and
it's not separate, it's not sexual all the time, and
it's it's part of you. It's and I think, like,
just slowly, slowly, gently, if it's just cupping, if it's
Yoni eggwork, if it's looking at your pussy in the mirror,
(14:53):
like something every day that you can do to eat.
If it's just when you wake up in the morning
and for one minute you take five breaths cupping your volver,
just be like I welcome you into my body. You
know I'm listening. Tell me what you need because it's yeah,
(15:14):
like I said, it's just it's not too late to
start this process. And I get a lot of messages
from women who've gone through the first or second divorce,
they've had a couple of kids, and they are just
so they're really lacking vitality, and they're lacking like bizzar,
(15:34):
not bizzars, but just like this life force energy, and
they do feel broken. And honestly, like your Yoni, your
sexuality is it is the home of your creative life
force energy. If you feel shit in your body, you
don't like the way your body looks or feels and
(15:55):
you know, and you don't like how you feel sexually,
that is going to influence everything in your life and
that goes hand in hand. So starting first, I guess
to connecting to your body. And that's why some people
come to the naked yoga. They've never even done yoga before.
They're not there for the fucking yoga.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
They're there to like get naked, you get they.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Can reacquaint themselves with their bodies that they've been so
fucking disconnected to their whole life. And so it's just
starting slowly. Okay, what does my body need today? What
does my yoni need today? And start from there.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It's time to wake up pussies up. When like, you know,
when people talk about pussy power, how would you describe
pussy power? What is pussy power to you?
Speaker 1 (16:41):
I feel like that is, Oh, it's different for every
woman because we all have different pussoirs and different and
it's like they all have different personalities, right, volvers kind
of like a face too, isn't it Like we all
have different faces and different volvers. They're like fingerprints, They're
all different. But like, I honestly feel like pussy power
is just someone who is embodied in their pussy. Their
(17:05):
pussy is not separate to them, and they listen and
they speak their boundaries. They know what they like. They're
not afraid to masturbate and self. And there's a difference
between masturbation and self pleasure. Masturbation is a goal getting
it done, and that's great, Like that's vibrators is great
for that. Like we sell a couple of vibrators on
(17:26):
your any Pleasure Palace and they just they're the suction
and the flicking ones and it gets the job done.
But self pleasure is being able to connect deeper with
like internal it's literally going inside your vagina is like
going within. You're literally going inside yourself. It's deep, it's vulnerable,
it's scary. I understand why a lot of women just
(17:48):
use vibrators on their click to get off. And I
sometimes I still do it and it feels great and
it's like that tension release. Yeah, but to actually like
so I feel like for me, my pussy power is
it comes deep within. It didn't always have, you know,
And this is why I want women to know. If
you don't if you feel completely numb, broken, you know, dead, puss.
(18:10):
It's you can wake that up, you can experience more pleasure.
And I do feel like when you start to feel
more sexual, a deeper sexual connection with yourself, I also
feel like you have a deeper connection to spirit. And
it wasn't a coincidence that when I became connected to
(18:30):
my pussy, I became a magnet for abundance. I became
a magnet for these business ideas just literally dropping in
my business is are seven figure businesses.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Now.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I had seven hundred dollars in my bank account when
I started Your Only Pleasure Palace, I was literally paying
my boyfriend's rent and my rent like I was paying
his way for a couple of years. I had nothing
to my name. I had like this beaten up red burina,
nothing wrong with red burinas, but like I didn't have
I wasn't surrounded with abundance. But honestly, when I started
(19:10):
to tap into my pleasure, started self pleasuring, I started
making sound while I self pleasure and during sex and
connecting to that part of my body. It's not a
coincidence that I started attracting in abundance through way of money, ideas,
creative energy, and now I am reaping the benefits of
(19:34):
creating those businesses really that were birthed from here. I
haven't birthed a baby, but I birthed I honestly believe
I birthed these businesses from my womb literally literally.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
I love that. Just that realization and the connection to
spirit is so interesting because you're not the first person
I've ever spoken to who has mentioned that when they
started doing that kind of work as far as like
literally they would just lie there with like a crystal
dildo inside of them or a crystal wand inside of
them and just use that as like a meditation and
(20:08):
they just lie there or they would like just spend
that time with themselves. All of a sudden they would
receive downloads, they'd connect to spirit. Like It's so fascinating
because it's not the first time I fucking heard that.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
No, Well, if you think about it, the womb is
that portal in the body that receives life like a baby,
a soul. Literally, it's insane when you think about it
comes through and lands in your womb, and you were
you you birthed that. And I feel like ideas are
kind of the same, Like what what do you really
(20:44):
want to create? I didn't even really know. I was
quite happy just coaching and working out a local cafe,
and then that made me really happy. But then yeah,
when these ideas came through, I need to because I
was about to start selling just this whole range of
just vibrators that were already on the market, and then
when I had that Jdegg experience, I was like, I
cannot do that. I literally can. I have to take
(21:06):
them all off the shop that I was about to
launch and just go with this, and I have to
trust myself. Can you imagine me telling my parents, by
the way, not going back to a corporate job, I'm
just gonna start selling crystal dildos and teaching naked yoga. Hope,
just letting you know. And by the way, I never asked,
like I never got anyone's opinion. This is a big thing.
(21:27):
Like if if you're thinking of doing something in your life,
don't get anyone's opinion, don't ask permission, like maybe seek
forgiveness later if it doesn't work out. But trust, when
I booked my tickets to India, I didn't tell anyone.
I told them after the fat I love that and
after I launched my business, like, yeah, they found out
(21:47):
and it was all over the news, and you know,
it's so it's important to just follow that gut instinct
or that pussy instinct.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yes, follow the pussy. Before we finish up, I do
actually just have one more question. Obviously we've been talking
about the vulva, the vagina, the pussy, the yoni so much.
How about men or how about people who have a penis?
Speaker 1 (22:13):
It EXISTI.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
You're like, tell me against like just quickly, just a
quick description please, just same ship, Like not much has change,
but is there anything, like you know, if a man
is listening to this, and I know there are, like
(22:38):
I do have male listeners are thinking that they liked you,
and they're like, oh, that's be interesting. Then after a
while they're like, I'm not sure this is for me.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
My wife's your partners. Then you can let the man
come in now, well.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Exactly, yeah, now we welcome them in. Can men or
people with penises? Can they sort of do similarish work?
Speaker 1 (23:03):
Oh? Yeah, because I know for them especially, they're very
like finish line.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
They're just like like getting get out, especially like in
regards to masturbation, maybe not so much with sex because
like for men often that's like more of a connection
y type of thing and a connection opportunity. But masturbation
for men is definitely like it's just to get the
job done.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Yeah. Well, a couple of boyfriends that I had before
my wife, one of them was very tantric in his
love making and wouldn't need to climax, wouldn't need to
come to have an orgasm. And this is entirely possible
for men to reach leisure states climax without ejaculating, So
(23:48):
I think that's something if men are interested. There's a
few books on sacred sex and sacred sexuality and learning
to channel, because again, men are not taught this either. No,
they don't have like a head of the village kind
of man teaching them. There. No, like they just got
thrown into watching porn and then they think that's what's
(24:08):
normal totally. They just stick their dick places and it's
very friction based. It's very must get the tightest whole
kind of thing. And even their grip when they're masturbating
is usually very very tight, and so that's very hard
for a pussy to replicate. And like I've been told
once that I was too wet or too open. No, no, no,
a wet, open pussy is what you want. Like that
(24:29):
means she's turned on. That means she's aroused and wet
and like it's all happening. Yet men want this tight,
friction based kind of experience, So I think there's a
lot of rewiring for men to do, you know, so
slowing down self pleasure, having a looser grip. Potentially camphraises
the man for all of this stuff on the internet,
(24:50):
so check him out. But I think also like using
your breath, using your pelvic floor muscles if you're a man,
can really help and help to slow down, like rather
than having that vigorous sex, see if you can just
slow down the whole process, slowing down everything. Like when
I'm using my glass ones to self pleasure, I'm not
(25:11):
like ramming it in it. It's like whoa the slot.
Think about it. When you do something slower, you feel more. Yeah, totally,
Like if you were to touch your hand, if you
weren't really really slow, you can really really feel the
subtle tea and like the tickle and the sensation, you
can feel exactly where it's at, Whereas if you were
(25:32):
to vigorously rub eventually you just almost don't even feel
it like it's just really kind of send up with
like Chaffinger exactly, but not only that. A man's semen
is his life force energy, and in ancient teachings, they
would teach the men to not ejaculate or if because
(25:53):
I talked to my Kundalini yoga teacher about this actually,
because that's all about channeling your sexual energy, channeling your
kundliny energy, and he said that it's recommended for men
to ejaculate once a month. And I was like, okay,
what about women. You know what if we're coming every day,
because coming for us brings us often, it will bring
especially internal orgasms, it'll bring energy. And he was like
(26:15):
once a week for a woman. Listen, I don't. I
can potentially do it a lot more than that, and
it's not like you need to follow this, but he
was saying, yeah, that the semen is the that really
life force energy, and when a man ejaculates, he loses
that life force. And so the more a man can
practice it's called sublimation, it's recirculating the semen, and it's
(26:37):
obviously you need to be trained to do it and
read lots of books and do courses on this because
it's I would I would hate men to be listening
being like, oh god, I can't masthurbate. I'm gonna have
blue balls for like a month. But yeah, just starting
to maybe slow down, use your breath and watch less porn.
The men that I was with, they both of them
(27:00):
stopped watching porn, and you know what, our sex life
changed completely.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
I remember one day my boyfriend picked me up from
work when I was working out this little cafe and
I said, to you, as soon as I got in
the car, I felt his energy and I just said
to him, I'm like, did you watch porn and masturbate today?
He's like, how did you know? And I could just
feel it. His life boss was not as vibrant and
alive and energetic.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
And so after that experience, actually that was really big
for him. And he'd had an addiction to porn for
many years and he stopped. And we can't underestimate the
mind and had the role of the mind and the
brain and witnessing something like that plays in sex. If
your partner's watching a lot of porn, it's very hard
to switch into like a sensual, erotic, intimate experience with
(27:48):
your partner. That you've been with save for twenty five years,
and so cutting porn out or down is really beneficial, man.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
I mean that's its own conversation itself is like just
so true, just the disconnection and the like so used
to and like it really is an Instagram versus like
reality sort of situation, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
It is because when you're on porn, if something's not working,
you go to the next one and she's got bigger
boobs and she's doing this crazy shit and then it's
like really violent and then you need all this crazy
fucking shit to get off hotally go back to your
wife that you've been with for twenty years, and obviously
she's not going to do that, Like that's not realistic.
This person is born and it's you know, she's performing.
(28:33):
That's what her job is, that's her role. But you
don't want to performer in the bedroom. Sex isn't about performance,
it's about connection. Well for me anyway, if I want
to have sex, yes, like once a month with ovulation,
I'm like I just need an orgasm. I'm really horny.
But around that it's connecting. I want to connect and
(28:54):
I want to feel my partner. I want to feel bonded.
Women need to feel bonded. We need that eye contact.
We need, you know. And I always say, like, start
from the top down, Okay, look into her eyes, look
into each other's eyes first. It's amazing, how because I
practiced eye gazing in naked yoga. Not much we don't
do with naked yoga yoga on everything. I do some
(29:18):
eye gazing, and most women are like, I have never
even done this with my partner that I've been with
for decades. Yeah, you know. It's just sitting looking into
each other's left eye the window to the soul, and
just breathing, and then like kiss actually do some open
mouth kissing every day ideally, and then breasts maybe, like
just focus on her heart and her breasts, and then
(29:40):
go to the pussy.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
That is the last place you've done all this, have
the checklist, check everything, add in a few more other
body parts, and then land the pussy. Very finally, I
feel like everyone, I hope everyone listening is taking notes
and we've got some things to practice. I know for me,
I'm like, the looking like they're actually looking at my
(30:05):
in the mirror is something that I'm like, all right,
that's my challenge. To myself. I've also been so slack
with the egg because that's like how we first connected,
because I was like, oh, guys, I got this egg
and like I'm gonna put it inside me. And then
they were like is it one of rosies? And then
you were like you need one of my eggs? And
then we had a conversation and like even you saying
(30:26):
like you know, for thirty days you use the egg.
I'm like, that's gonna be my challenge for everyone listening.
Keep me accountable for thirty days once I've finished bleeding.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Yes, not when you're bleeding, so like twenty one days
or so.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
And I also already like literally two days ago, well
actually not two days ago. Yesterday I didn't I couldn't
find my menstrual cup and I.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
Was like, where did it go?
Speaker 2 (30:49):
This is so weird, And I shoved a tampon, in
which I normally don't, but I was like, I can't
find it and I need to go to the beach.
And then it wasn't until I was like halfway to
my destination. I was like, ah, it's already in me.
I've got them both in me. I'm chokers.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
I've done that with a yonia egg in there with
like a yeah, putting a tampoint in it's like a
traffic jam in there.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
Literally, it's wild how much you can store up there.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
I had in there.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
If I had this woman, she's like, I work in
a women's jail, and you would you would be shot.
I'd bear It's like a Merry Poppin tampack so much.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
All right, well, yes, you do need to use your
on egg a little bit more consistently because it does
tone the pelvic floor, yes, amongst other things. I didn't
get into it to tone my yoni. But after birth, yeah,
perfect floor muscle can decrease, and having the egg in there,
if you think about it, it's just a weight. And
this is like just to rewind five thousand years. But
this is why women started to use it. The Queen
(31:47):
and her concubines in China would use this egg to
keep a strong vagina because they knew back then, like
they didn't have prolapse surgeries to lift up your bowl
or your bladder or your uterus or your vagina wall,
but they knew, okay, wearing a weight in the vagina
is like a weightlifting practice, you know, out of work
and so typically women, well historically women used rocks if
(32:11):
they weren't like wealthy, like the queen or whatever. Potatoes
were used. So a little JD. Egg is or if
you've got like a kegel weight at home, use it,
even if it's just for fifteen minutes twenty minutes a day,
were your nickers In case it topples out of there
and falls down on the footpath and someone picks it up.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
You you didn't want that. You definitely don't want them
to watch you lose your leg, you lose your egg.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
I mean, there would be sorry.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
That was that's my egg that I just laid.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Where your niggers.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Thank you so much for coming in and chatting to
me and answering every seven hundred and eighty questions that
I had. That was a roller coat like so we
went every weekday. I love that. And you're just such
a wealth of knowledge and so grateful for like what
you do and what you teach women, especially because it's
(33:03):
so empowering. How can people find you? I'll obviously have
it all in the show notes, and I'm sure everyone's
going to be like, I need to go to the
website and get an octopussy and also an egg and
also if you're what, there's a really beautiful Volver Stanley
cup here too, which I'm really needing to get. But
you're also the queen of the Splash Blanket.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Like there's we haven't even touched on spy. I have
like another podcast when I'm back in Brisbane, like all right,
let's talk squirting another awakening that I ass Oh my god,
that is definitely another podcast. So you can find me
Rosie at Rosy dot Reese. It's constantly shadow band. You
need to type the whole thing out. Yes, I've experience
(33:47):
in the naughty corner all the time. You only underscore pleasure.
Underscore Palace is our Instagram. You only Pleasure Palace dot com,
Splash Blanket dot com, rosiees dot com. I've got the
Golden Yonni membership, which is just a membership portal with
everything to do with the pussy and learning to love
her and school. If you want to learn to squirt,
there's an online course for it. Of course, breast massage
(34:10):
course coming out soon. There's so much. I'm always doing stuff,
you know. I love that. There's a lot to do
that I've got the work to do here on this
planet Busy in a message, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
I've done squirting. I'm now onto titties. I've done eggs.
I've done inside, I'm on outside.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
It's just const growth, isn't It's never too late. I
love that.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
Well, we'll leave on that It's never too late. Thank
you so much for listening, guys, and make sure you follow, rate,
review all of those fun things because it helps me
out a lot. But I will see you next week.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Bye,
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