July 4, 2025 • 8 mins
Last week, Carina promised Jacob she'd arranged a cute second date for him and Mr Muscles and suggested a romantic dinner. Instead, she decided to have them climb the Sydney Harbour Bridge together... and she'd be third wheeling while recording this week's episode!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Last week on our party, I told Jacob that I
would arrange his second date with mister Muscles. So here
we are doing the bridge climb and I'm tagging along.
Welcome back to This is Chaos date number.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Two, Jacob, I can't believe you on location.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
By the way, So how do you feel? Are you?
Are you a little bit with me?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Or are you happy? Lie bitch? I said to you,
I want a dinner at Amari. That was not hard.
It's a plan. You've taken me to the upper Bridge. Yeah.
One of my fears, I mean, my biggest fear is heights. Like,
I know you are shaky.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
In the uber ride over here, Jacob would not even
talk to me, and I was like, he was like,
I'm so nervous, I'm stressed, I can't talk. Do not
speak to me? And here I am me then getting nervous,
and I'm like, okay, lucky. I brought a snack. I
started opening up my snack and eating my snacks because
I was nervous and you wouldn't talk to me. And
then I said, wait, should we maybe do lunar park
(01:11):
or something in yhead?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Well, I would have preferred lunar park, like I would
have done a fairest fool, not the.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Fucking har a bridge, Jacob. Mister muscles is here. He's
waiting patiently while you're freaking out. Okay, relaxed, you know,
hold yourself, hold yourself up, heart, make it your fake ten.
You did your fake ten. You got your eyebrows, did
(01:36):
did your beard. Everything's good to go. How are you
feeling right now?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I am so nervous.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I don't think I've ever been this nervous before. Like
this is more nervous. I'm more nervous doing this. Like honestly,
I would go back to you eight camp right now
and swim in the mud than rather swim in the mud.
And I don't swim in mud.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Okay, it's very evident that you're nervous, because I never
hear you speak like this shaking aside from the climb aspect,
ignore that. Put that to this, I put in a
little box. How do you feel about seeing mister muscles.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I'm actually really excited. Is he here? He is here? Yeah? Yeah, No,
I'm really excited.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I feel like I feel like over the last few
days we've been like messaging and like really like getting
like deeper and along you know, so I yeah, I
feel like I feel like if there's a person to
do this with, it's probably him.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
But yeah, I'm so nurraty.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That's a positive outcome for such a scary date to do.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
So, yeah, this is like I think this is like
one of the weirdest fucking dates that I've ever been on.
Like who climbs the harbor Bridge? People do this for
their anniversaries.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
They Yeah, we're going.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
To conquer this on a date, and I'm here with you.
You got your best in me and our producer. We're
going to be third wheeling, fourth wheeling you and John's
date and which are not be more ecstatic about this?
I'm not really thinking about the actual height and getting
blown away. The Sydney weather looks gorgeous. It's not raining today,
(03:11):
but in saying that, it is very windy, so let's
try not get blown away, enjoy our time, and then
I promise you there will be a third date with
mister muscles. Okay, but like and it will be sitting
down potentially in a restaurant.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I think I.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Will personally pay for you and John's third date at
a beautiful restaurant. That's what I owe you.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
For doing this for me.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
So I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Okay, Okay, I love you. Let's let's conguer this. Holy,
we've just finished the bridge. Holy, that was intense. That
was intense. I mean I'm not talking about doing the bridge.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I'm doing about your date on the day.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, I mean we were speaking about No, we were
speaking of black we were speaking.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I was like, John, what did you say? And it
was like, yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
But I feel like this experience has like kind of
like brought us closer together.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah. Put in a survival situation, of course, you got
a right. Like I was going down the letters and
I'm like.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
John, John, Like, was John giving.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
You some It was like yeah, he told me to
breathe up the top. He was like three seconds breathe.
He's like one, two, three breathe.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
That is the beginning of uh and the foundations of
a really healthy relationship. All I could hear because I
was in front of you guys, was them giggling, laughing, cracking.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
We were like up on top of the Harbor Bridge
and we were like you want to be on top
because banks?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah, anyway, singing the climb was insane. The view was insane.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It was actually really cool.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Our tour guide was epic. I felt like we were
on a TMZ tour bus and he was giving us
the film and I was Everything was amazing around us,
the atmosphere, the rest of everyone on the tour. It
was so much fun. I'm sure everyone myself including wants
(05:12):
to know, are you guys gonna go on a third date?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
You can answer that is all the pressure on me. Yeah,
what do you feel? Yeah? I would love to go
on a third date. Yeah, you guys.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Are really cute together. But I'm so happy that you know,
this crazy idea came about because you conquered your fear
of this right.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
And it was crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
You guys laughed and bantered and had a really fun
It was a experience going on a date. So I
would highly recommend if anyone's out there, don't go for
the dinner on a second date. Go and find the
city there, go to ma.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I want I experience, but for that.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So, where do you think date three will be?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Just so bungee jumping? Absolutely? I think we're going to
have a nice dinner at Amuri.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Another question, what did you to learn about each other
while doing the breach? Climb.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Well, what I learned about John is that he said
he wasn't scared, but as we got up there, he
was like, I'm fucking shitting my pants.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
So but I think, did you lie to me to
make me feel better? No, I didn't lie. Actually, yeah,
I thought it was going to be okay. But then
I was like, nah, this is a little bit too high.
But it was good. It was okay, it was good.
Tested me. Yeah, I got there. It was okay. Tested,
it was a good workout. We had a good workout,
mister muscles.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
What did you learn about Jacob?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I learned Jacob can make very interesting noises. What did
I make? Oh, this is just the beginning. No, I
did not. I swear I didn't make those noises. At
least that was you. You made those noises. You made
those noises. We were both making noises up that cute.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Josh and I our producer, were just you know, in
our little trio.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
You guys were like and we were like down here, Josh.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
And myself were just turning around and watching you guys banter,
and we could just see the lover was all in
the air, and Josh and I were like, okay, we'll
be partners with sixds.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
It was like a double day, wasn't that? It was
my first ever double day?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
The same Here I'm saying to Josh, our producer, he
was in front of me. I was like, they sound
so happy, they sound so cute, they're laughing, they're singing.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
We had a really good time, except when I went
down the song what was it?
Speaker 1 (07:42):
I'm on top. Yeah, we're trying to take We're trying
to take it away, like we're trying to take our
minds off.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
The heights Beyonce and Break My Soul. Yeah, and what else?
Did we sing?
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Water under the Bridge by Adult The Climb the Bridge.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
The evening was The Client by Miley Cyrus. It's a
club
Last week on our party, I told Jacob that I
would arrange his second date with mister Muscles. So here
we are doing the bridge climb and I'm tagging along.
Welcome back to This is Chaos date number.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Two, Jacob, I can't believe you on location.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
By the way, So how do you feel? Are you?
Are you a little bit with me?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Or are you happy? Lie bitch? I said to you,
I want a dinner at Amari. That was not hard.
It's a plan. You've taken me to the upper Bridge. Yeah.
One of my fears, I mean, my biggest fear is heights. Like,
I know you are shaky.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
In the uber ride over here, Jacob would not even
talk to me, and I was like, he was like,
I'm so nervous, I'm stressed, I can't talk. Do not
speak to me? And here I am me then getting nervous,
and I'm like, okay, lucky. I brought a snack. I
started opening up my snack and eating my snacks because
I was nervous and you wouldn't talk to me. And
then I said, wait, should we maybe do lunar park
(01:11):
or something in yhead?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Well, I would have preferred lunar park, like I would
have done a fairest fool, not the.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Fucking har a bridge, Jacob. Mister muscles is here. He's
waiting patiently while you're freaking out. Okay, relaxed, you know,
hold yourself, hold yourself up, heart, make it your fake ten.
You did your fake ten. You got your eyebrows, did
(01:36):
did your beard. Everything's good to go. How are you
feeling right now?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I am so nervous.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I don't think I've ever been this nervous before. Like
this is more nervous. I'm more nervous doing this. Like honestly,
I would go back to you eight camp right now
and swim in the mud than rather swim in the mud.
And I don't swim in mud.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Okay, it's very evident that you're nervous, because I never
hear you speak like this shaking aside from the climb aspect,
ignore that. Put that to this, I put in a
little box. How do you feel about seeing mister muscles.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I'm actually really excited. Is he here? He is here? Yeah? Yeah, No,
I'm really excited.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I feel like I feel like over the last few
days we've been like messaging and like really like getting
like deeper and along you know, so I yeah, I
feel like I feel like if there's a person to
do this with, it's probably him.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
But yeah, I'm so nurraty.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That's a positive outcome for such a scary date to do.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
So, yeah, this is like I think this is like
one of the weirdest fucking dates that I've ever been on.
Like who climbs the harbor Bridge? People do this for
their anniversaries.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
They Yeah, we're going.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
To conquer this on a date, and I'm here with you.
You got your best in me and our producer. We're
going to be third wheeling, fourth wheeling you and John's
date and which are not be more ecstatic about this?
I'm not really thinking about the actual height and getting
blown away. The Sydney weather looks gorgeous. It's not raining today,
(03:11):
but in saying that, it is very windy, so let's
try not get blown away, enjoy our time, and then
I promise you there will be a third date with
mister muscles. Okay, but like and it will be sitting
down potentially in a restaurant.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I think I.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Will personally pay for you and John's third date at
a beautiful restaurant. That's what I owe you.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
For doing this for me.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
So I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Okay, Okay, I love you. Let's let's conguer this. Holy,
we've just finished the bridge. Holy, that was intense. That
was intense. I mean I'm not talking about doing the bridge.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I'm doing about your date on the day.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, I mean we were speaking about No, we were
speaking of black we were speaking.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I was like, John, what did you say? And it
was like, yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
But I feel like this experience has like kind of
like brought us closer together.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah. Put in a survival situation, of course, you got
a right. Like I was going down the letters and
I'm like.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
John, John, Like, was John giving.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
You some It was like yeah, he told me to
breathe up the top. He was like three seconds breathe.
He's like one, two, three breathe.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
That is the beginning of uh and the foundations of
a really healthy relationship. All I could hear because I
was in front of you guys, was them giggling, laughing, cracking.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
We were like up on top of the Harbor Bridge
and we were like you want to be on top
because banks?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah, anyway, singing the climb was insane. The view was insane.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It was actually really cool.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Our tour guide was epic. I felt like we were
on a TMZ tour bus and he was giving us
the film and I was Everything was amazing around us,
the atmosphere, the rest of everyone on the tour. It
was so much fun. I'm sure everyone myself including wants
(05:12):
to know, are you guys gonna go on a third date?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
You can answer that is all the pressure on me. Yeah,
what do you feel? Yeah? I would love to go
on a third date. Yeah, you guys.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Are really cute together. But I'm so happy that you know,
this crazy idea came about because you conquered your fear
of this right.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
And it was crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
You guys laughed and bantered and had a really fun
It was a experience going on a date. So I
would highly recommend if anyone's out there, don't go for
the dinner on a second date. Go and find the
city there, go to ma.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I want I experience, but for that.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So, where do you think date three will be?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Just so bungee jumping? Absolutely? I think we're going to
have a nice dinner at Amuri.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Another question, what did you to learn about each other
while doing the breach? Climb.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Well, what I learned about John is that he said
he wasn't scared, but as we got up there, he
was like, I'm fucking shitting my pants.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
So but I think, did you lie to me to
make me feel better? No, I didn't lie. Actually, yeah,
I thought it was going to be okay. But then
I was like, nah, this is a little bit too high.
But it was good. It was okay, it was good.
Tested me. Yeah, I got there. It was okay. Tested,
it was a good workout. We had a good workout,
mister muscles.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
What did you learn about Jacob?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I learned Jacob can make very interesting noises. What did
I make? Oh, this is just the beginning. No, I
did not. I swear I didn't make those noises. At
least that was you. You made those noises. You made
those noises. We were both making noises up that cute.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Josh and I our producer, were just you know, in
our little trio.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
You guys were like and we were like down here, Josh.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
And myself were just turning around and watching you guys banter,
and we could just see the lover was all in
the air, and Josh and I were like, okay, we'll
be partners with sixds.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
It was like a double day, wasn't that? It was
my first ever double day?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
The same Here I'm saying to Josh, our producer, he
was in front of me. I was like, they sound
so happy, they sound so cute, they're laughing, they're singing.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
We had a really good time, except when I went
down the song what was it?
Speaker 1 (07:42):
I'm on top. Yeah, we're trying to take We're trying
to take it away, like we're trying to take our
minds off.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
The heights Beyonce and Break My Soul. Yeah, and what else?
Did we sing?
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Water under the Bridge by Adult The Climb the Bridge.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
The evening was The Client by Miley Cyrus. It's a
club
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