Who Even Are We?

Who Even Are We?

After millions of downloads and years of oversharing on Am I A Bad Mum?, Katie Mattin and Rachel Thaiday are introducing Who Even Are We. Who Even Are We? is a twice-weekly podcast about identity shifts, friendships, parenting teens (or nearly teens), marriage, confidence, chaos, and all the things no one prepares you for. From honest confessions to ridiculous stories and conversations that swing from hilarious to heartfelt, nothing is off limits and nothing is polished! It’s real life, real friendship, and real talk for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought… who even are we now?

Episodes

December 11, 2025 20 mins

It's the end of an era! Listen to this episode to find out Katie & Rach's big announcement.

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Katie has been hit with a bill just before Christmas that she didn't see coming (or should have but didn't!) Rach tries to find a solution as always!

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December 4, 2025 10 mins

Rach took her kids to an event but didn't follow the dress code and had to come up with a far-fetched excuse as to why she'd embarrassed them!

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December 2, 2025 11 mins

Rach has made a last minute decision which she decided to keep from her kids to prevent them from banging on about it for months! BUT... it will be worth it!

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November 30, 2025 10 mins

This episode starts off with Katie clamping down on being 'Mum's bank' but in true Rach & Katie style, it goes sideways with a fascinating discussion about water bottles haha!

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November 27, 2025 10 mins

Rach gave herself an impromptu night out after facing backlash from her youngest. So instead of arguing she simply just left!........

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November 25, 2025 10 mins

Katie has a moment of realisation that her kids are a lot more self-sufficient than they allow her to think so she is taking a break from being everyone's PA!

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November 24, 2025 14 mins

Katie is confused at the kids lingo these days so wants to see if Rach understands!

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November 20, 2025 11 mins

The question NO MUM EVER WANTS TO GET! You can only imagine where this chat is going to go......

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November 18, 2025 12 mins

Rach has found herself in a situation where every night now seems to be late-night questions with questionable topics she doesn't know how to answer!

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November 16, 2025 10 mins

Katie has gone to extreme lengths in her 'helicopter parent' journey which Rach thinks is extremely unnecessary!

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November 13, 2025 12 mins

Rach is struggling with confidence / rudeness that no punishment seems to fix. We did not get away with it when we were kids!

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November 11, 2025 9 mins

Katie had a Mum fail when she chose to go to a long lunch instead of an important day for her daughter. But in a world where Gen Z's are reducing their alcohol consumption, millennial Mum's are making up for it! 

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Katie's celebrating her kids birthdays and high fiving herself in the process. But Rach still thinks she's helicoptering a little too much!

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November 4, 2025 12 mins

Katie was watching something highly inappropriate and didn't want her girls to know in fear of judgement but hiding it didn't go to plan!

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November 2, 2025 10 mins

Rach thought she was nailing the day, so organised. It was all going swimmingly.... until it wasn't!

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October 30, 2025 12 mins

Katie had an interesting pep talk with her daughter before a job interview where the advice was 'you don't do any of that so just lie about it!' And when it comes to teaching them to drive Rach has realised she has no idea!

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Rach is approached by her 12 year old to discuss her breaking the rules and in fact why the rules are in place in the first place - oh how the tables have turned!

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October 26, 2025 11 mins

Katie has got to the point where she is sick of noses being turned up at her dinners, so she's decided she's not cooking anymore!

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October 23, 2025 11 mins

Katie couldn't help but find it hysterical when one of her kids made a split second decision that went drastically wrong!

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