Jillian on Love

Jillian on Love

Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships. ~~ Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us!

Episodes

3 Signs Your Relationship is Secure

August 4, 2025 • 36 mins
If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells in a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Jillian unpacks what it really means to feel emotionally safe in a romantic relationship—and why it's absolutely essential. From trust and consistency to the ability to argue without fear, she shares what emotional safety looks like, how to build it, and why your nervous system depends on it. She also explores the role of self-tru...
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How To Heal From Betrayal

July 28, 2025 • 27 mins
If someone hurt you, disappointed you, or failed to show up the way you needed—this episode will change how you see it. Jillian shares the truth that transformed her life: people can only meet you where they are, not where you wish they could be. Learn how to stop internalizing others’ limitations, let go of unrealistic expectations, and finally feel the emotional freedom that comes from not taking things so personally. Join my co...
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Why Good Men Still Cheat: Stefanos Sifandos

July 21, 2025 • 54 mins
Today, Stefanos Sifandos joins Jillian to unpack the personal journey that led him to confront and heal his patterns of sex addiction and emotional avoidance. He shares openly about the trauma beneath compulsive behaviors, how shame thrives in secrecy, and why true freedom is found through inner work and relational honesty. Together, they explore how unresolved childhood wounds shape adult intimacy, and what it takes to break the c...
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3 Steps to More Confidence

July 14, 2025 • 38 mins
You don’t have to fully love yourself to be in a relationship—but if you don’t value yourself at all, it will show up in how you love and who you choose. In this episode, Jillian explores how self-worth shapes our romantic lives, why shame keeps us stuck, and what it actually takes to build a healthier relationship with yourself. She shares three powerful, no-BS practices to help you start showing up with more self-acceptance, comp...
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The Habit That Destroys Relationships

July 7, 2025 • 30 mins
What if the reason your relationship feels off has nothing to do with your partner—and everything to do with a pattern you don’t even realize you’re stuck in? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the one habit that quietly sabotages even the healthiest relationships: keeping score. From romantic partnerships to friendships and family dynamics, scorekeeping erodes emotional intimacy and creates distance. Jillian explores why we fall...
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What Women Want: How to Ask Her Out (Without Giving Her the Ick)

June 30, 2025 • 30 mins
If you’re single and over the dating scene, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks what’s really going wrong—why so many people are catching the ick, why emotionally available partners feel so rare, and how we can shift the way we show up for love. Whether you're dating, have a friend who is, or just want more meaningful connection, this episode is packed with insight—and a little tough love—to help you stop settling and start fi...
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Do Not Settle.

June 23, 2025 • 33 mins
Today, Jillian breaks down the myth that you have to pick between chemistry and safety in a relationship. She explains how to keep attraction alive over time, why stress can distort how we see our partners, and the small habits that make a big difference in long-term love. Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's boo...
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The Psychology Behind Why You Keep Going Back to The Wrong Person

June 16, 2025 • 35 mins
Have you ever found yourself giving someone yet another chance—even though deep down, you know they’re not right for you? In this episode, Jillian dives into the emotional patterns and deeper psychological reasons behind why we keep returning to unhealthy relationships. Using a powerful real-life story, she explores how unmet needs, emotional voids, and familiar pain can lure us back into toxic dynamics—and how to break free. Join...
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When One Partner Changes & How to Grow Together

June 9, 2025 • 79 mins
In honor of Men’s Health Month, Jillian sits down with Jeff Krasno and Schuyler Grant—co-founders of Wanderlust and longtime partners—for a powerful conversation about how a major health crisis became a wake-up call not just for Jeff, but for their entire relationship. They dive into the hidden costs of male burnout, how physical health impacts emotional connection, and what it means to show up for your partner during life’s most d...
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5 Things to Know Before Marrying the Wrong Person

June 2, 2025 • 36 mins
Jillian opens up about five things she wishes she’d known before getting married—things that could’ve saved her a lot of pain. She talks about the pressure to rush into commitment, the importance of knowing your non-negotiables, and why avoiding hard conversations can cost you more than you think. If you’ve ever felt unsure in a relationship or afraid to speak up about what you really need, this episode will hit home. Join The Co...
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How to Let Go, Move On, and Never Look Back

May 26, 2025 • 36 mins
We’ve all heard it: you have to forgive to move on. But what if that’s not true? In this episode, Jillian challenges one of the most commonly held beliefs in the self-help and spiritual world: that forgiveness is required for healing. She unpacks what it really means to let go, move on, and find peace—without having to forgive someone who hurt you. Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist Join my community and membership, The Conscious...
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Never Chase Anyone: You Can't Convince Someone to Love You

May 19, 2025 • 34 mins
Trying to convince someone to love you is one of the most painful patterns to get stuck in—and it can quietly destroy your mental health. In this episode, Jillian goes deep on the emotional toll of chasing love that isn’t mutual. She breaks down why connection isn’t enough, what real commitment looks like, and why settling for someone who’s one foot in and one foot out is a form of self-abandonment. Join The Conscious Woman Waitli...
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Mel Robbins: How the Let Them Theory Can Heal Your Relationships

May 12, 2025 • 82 mins
Jillian sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack the Let Them Theory — a mindset shift that helps you stop trying to control others and start focusing on your own emotional wellbeing. They explore how the urge to control often stems from stress and fear, and how letting go can actually lead to deeper healing, stronger boundaries, and more self-trust. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in relationship patterns that dr...
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What to Do When Your Partner Shuts Down

May 5, 2025 • 36 mins
As part of Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode explores one of the most destabilizing relationship dynamics: when a partner shuts down during conflict. Jillian coaches a listener through the emotional toll of being avoided and unpacks how this behavior impacts your mental health, sense of safety, and self-worth. With guidance on emotional regulation, accountability, and what it really takes to break unhealthy cycles, this c...
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How to Heal Your Relationship With Money and Scarcity with Lewis Howes

April 28, 2025 • 64 mins
Your relationship with money is one of the most emotionally intimate relationships you have—and it’s time to start treating it that way. In this episode, Jillian welcomes bestselling author and host of The School of Greatness, Lewis Howes, to dive deep into what our financial habits, fears, and beliefs really say about us. Inspired by his new book, Make Money Easy, this conversation is about so much more than dollars and cents—it's...
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The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns

April 21, 2025 • 49 mins
We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you're single, dating, or deep in partnership, this episode will help you take ownership of your reactions and shift the dynamic (without waiting for your part...
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Micro-Cheating: Why It Destroys Relationships

April 14, 2025 • 49 mins
Today, Jillian dives into a topic that’s quietly damaging relationships everywhere: micro cheating. What counts as cheating in the digital age? Is following an ex on Instagram a red flag—or just harmless history? If you've ever questioned whether your partner's behavior is crossing the line—or if you've caught yourself doing something you'd never do with your partner watching—this conversation will open your eyes. It's not about p...
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Attracting Your Soul Mate and Manifesting Abundance with David Ghiyam

April 7, 2025 • 84 mins
Today, Jillian sits down with David Ghiyam—co-founder of MaryRuth Organics and the leading expert of the wisdom of Kabbalah—for a powerful and candid conversation about manifestation, healthy love, and creating a life that feels aligned with your deepest self. They dive into the difference between attracting love and choosing it, how to move on from heartbreak from a spiritual lens, and what it really means to manifest abundance—no...
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Jillian LIVE at 92NY: How She Rewrote Her Story & Reclaimed Her Power

April 1, 2025 • 70 mins
In this special LIVE episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with Case Kenny at the iconic 92nd Street Y in New York City during the launch of her new book, It Begins With You. Together, they unpack the nine hard truths about love that can transform your life—starting with the one relationship that matters most: the one you have with yourself. Jillian gets personal, sharing the journey that led her to finally write this book...
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Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People

March 24, 2025 • 53 mins
If you feel like you're stuck in a loop of dating people who can’t—or won’t—go deep with you, this one’s for you. Jillian is diving into one of the most common relationship patterns: attracting emotionally unavailable partners. This episode is all about increasing self-awareness, challenging the labels we put on others, and learning to recognize partners who are ready to show up fully. Whether you’re navigating dating or in a lon...
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