The People-Growing Machine | Floris Vermeulen

In this heart-centered episode of Barbell Conversations, Breadfruit sits down with Floris Vermeulen—a Dutch native who's spent the past eight years living in Barbados—to explore what it means to build and sustain healthy, lasting relationships. With a rich personal and professional background that spans multiple countries, Floris reflects on his journey as a husband of 20 years, a father to two teenage boys, and a global citizen navigating love, identity, and commitment. As his chapter in Barbados comes to a close, the conversation dives into what it takes for men to show up with emotional presence, vulnerability, and growth in their most intimate bonds.

Together, they explore how childhood patterns, unspoken wounds, and personal values shape the way we love and lead in relationships. From the impact of fatherhood to understanding love languages, emotional saboteurs, and the daily choices that strengthen connection, this episode offers powerful insights for men striving to break cycles and lead with intention. As Floris puts it, relationships are a “people-growing machine”—they reveal the parts of us that still need healing and push us to evolve, if we’re willing to do the work. Whether you're in a relationship, healing from one, or preparing for one, Floris’ perspective reminds us that relationships aren’t just for comfort—they’re for growth.

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