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December 18, 2025 • 29 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Coming to you live all right, not really live in
just a T shirt. I don't know what was going
on with me today. The engine room was running hot.
You you took those clothes off real quick.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was running hot when I came
in this morning. It was cool in here, you know,
it was, it was cool. And then I don't know,
once the engine got going. Man, you know what I'm saying,
he couldn't be stopped.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
I'm I'm no short, it's no short. It's freaking cold.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Though, yeah it's cold not here. I just don't know.
Said you were hot? I was not hot. I was
still chilly. Isn't that weird word?

Speaker 5 (00:34):
Word?

Speaker 4 (00:35):
I getting that thing.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
I don't know about you, guys. But Hi, welcome, Hi welcome.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
I'm Greg Center.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
And if you go to the this, if you go
to this side over there, that's Scott McMullen. And then
down there in the lower left hand corner is the
lovely Kayla.

Speaker 4 (00:51):
On the other side over there.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
And my pointing in the right plack no, no, no, yeah,
there you go, that's Kelly Brown down there.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
Man.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
The bradies they haven't said him time because I couldn't
figure out where Bobby was in the square. They had
a couple of takes and Alice is always looking down
Marsh's dress.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
I don't know what was going on there, but I
support it.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
I supported yeah, so uh, I forgot I was gonna say, oh, yeah,
you get home.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
It's cold.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Just get me inside, Just get me inside. I don't
want to go out again, you know you you like that?

Speaker 5 (01:24):
Yeah, once, I mean once I'm home comfortable, I don't
really feel like going anywhere.

Speaker 6 (01:27):
Sometimes, like yeah, hey, uh hand practice tonight, right, just
double check.

Speaker 4 (01:33):
I mean, if we didn't have it, sweatpants and the
and the hoodie. And I wore a hoodie the other day.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
My wife's like, that's you're gonna keep that in the house, right.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
You're not gonna wear that ugly looking It was a Beatles.
It was a beat up U n h a hoodie.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
And I just come actually come in from where I wore.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
It out and she's like, yeah, that that should I
should stay in the house.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
And I'm like, by that beat up hoodies like a thing.
It shouldn't be embarrassing.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
A lot of a lot of I don't know if
all women agree with that, but I agree with you
one hundred percent. If it's comfy. It's comfy, and I
don't care. But I just I just came from lunch.
I'd come from lunch with Tyler and I had that on.
He didn't complain, he didn't say nothing, you know what
I mean. So anyway, welcome. It's a busy day. We
got a buzzball tonight at the.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Makeup later afternoon, get fitted for something. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
And you got to get there early because you got
to run through some stuff, you know, because the band's
working on it. It's like ten, there's like ten people
in the band. This is This is serious. If you've
never been a buzzball, it's some serious.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Scotty was just listening to some Christmas song. I'd never
heard it before, and I thought I caught it. I
thought I caught a word or two in there.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
And I'm like, what is the name of that song?

Speaker 1 (02:39):
It's a classic.

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Yeah, it was two of them.

Speaker 6 (02:41):
Grandma got a dildo for Christmas and Christmas pussy Okay,
I was the other one.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
All done in like says, don't give it away for free.
It sounds just like it. But it was a big band,
sort of old stuff.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
I don't know. I don't know who does this.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Yeah, yeah, look it up your on the whatever the
services is used on are gonna We're gonna come back
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(03:19):
Plus member, watch the entire show coming up in the
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Speaker 1 (03:26):
We love a good Benny.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
Everybody loved the good Benny. All right, we will be
right back, stay with us.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Is the Buzz twenty four to seven at Morningbuzz dot com.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
This is on the so sick apologies. Yesterday something was
going on that was kind of weird.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
Just for those of you that watched the BLUs twenty
four to seven, it didn't it posted on video, but
it didn't on audio. Like I and I went through
and it did all the steps. I don't know, I
did all the steps. Everything saved everything, everything was done correctly,
and yet it was there when I left, but disappeared later.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
But anyway, we fixed it. So yesterday's is up there, and.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
It was about It was about bullying and us actually
getting bullied when we were kids.

Speaker 7 (04:23):
You know, Kelly Rhymes was smelly. I heard about that
for many years.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yes, Scottie Potty, how Greg me meatball eyes put them
in the evidence to get French fries.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
French fries doesn't even make sense kids. If you're going
to bully, make sense, it makes sense.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Bullying.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
I was never really uh, I was never really bothered,
uh too much by it, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
What we talked about yesterday, I was physical. It was physical.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
I was getting pushed down and hitting stuff like that
until I crashed.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
The guy's nose. He never did that again.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
But anyway, you know what I was thinking though, I
think from all of that stuff, that's why I hate heckling,
and that's why I hate trash talking.

Speaker 4 (05:06):
Oh that's a little fun. Yeah, I'm not mad at
the trash talking. Yeah, I just can't. I don't do it.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
I'm I don't know, I'm.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Right, I agree, I'm not even I'm not even arguing
I'm not even saying that you should.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
I just don't have it in me to trash talk,
like I'm not one.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
To boaster or give somebody ship. And you know, while they're, oh,
no way, no, I can't do it. Golf with some friends,
buddy of mine hit a crappy shot up from the fairway,
went into the rough near a near a pond.

Speaker 4 (05:40):
That was the sound of his.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Club as he threw it, like all the way across
the fairway, taking too serious, and I'm like, Jesus with
Jesus Christ, We're just we're playing golf.

Speaker 4 (05:51):
What are you doing?

Speaker 1 (05:52):
He threw his freaking golf club and I'm like, don't
ever do that again.

Speaker 4 (05:56):
Yeah you do. You don't want to take golf that seriously.
Want to have fun.

Speaker 7 (05:59):
As soon as you're the guy it's bitching and stuff,
then golf's not fun.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
He Number one is just have fun and don't.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Have a I like playing with friends that know me
and we can relax and play. But playing golf sometimes
with somebody who's taking the game so freaking seriously, like
they're in the PGA. They got the little PGA tag
on their ball, on their bag because they subscribe to
a magazine, and they've got the little.

Speaker 4 (06:21):
Telescope that tells you one hundred yards with the old
I don't know, get a little bit of a win.
I'm just hit that. I don't mind that freaking ball.

Speaker 7 (06:29):
You know, sometimes you're factoring different passion.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
I get passion. I just don't be a bitch bother,
Yes exactly. I don't.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
You want to play serious, I'll play serious, But don't
look at me if I kick the ball to a
better lie, because I don't give a shit. You know.

Speaker 4 (06:42):
That's if you're really playing golf, you don't do that.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
I know that if it was a serious tournament, I
wouldn't do that.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
You know.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
But if we're out farting around on a Saturday afternoon,
I don't really care.

Speaker 4 (06:52):
Does that make me bad? Does that happen? Like I'm
just so. You only know how good of a golf
or you know you want to keep track? You don't.
You don't cheat, that's all. You really want to keep score.

Speaker 7 (07:04):
Then you'll really appreciate a good day when you didn't
have to kick the ball and you get a good score.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
You say, Hey, if I'm golfing and you guys want
me to play serious, I'll play serious, you know, I will.

Speaker 4 (07:12):
I'm not like that. But I'm just like, I just
be serious. I don't care about the rules. I don't
care enough. I just you know what I mean, I
don't know. I save all of my competitives, all of
my competitiveness for here. Isn't that weird?

Speaker 2 (07:25):
Like you wouldn't think nobody thinks I'm competitive, But I'm
very competitive here.

Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah, you know, guessing songs and stuff too, that's you're
competitive about.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
That, just because I have a weird thing about knowing
that stuff. But I'm like, no, Like, one time, one
of my bosses said something to me, you ever have
a bought He was pissed because somebody got an interview
and we didn't with a candidate a long time ago,
And and he's like, don't you that should make you mad?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
I'm like, why, good for them? They got Lamar Alexander.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
Wow, you know?

Speaker 2 (08:00):
And I said, and he goes, you don't have a
competitive bone in your body? And I'm like, do you
even know?

Speaker 5 (08:05):
Me?

Speaker 1 (08:08):
Competitive every day of my frigging life.

Speaker 3 (08:10):
Every day.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
No, it's true. Tell me we're not we are.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
We are, you know, don't sit here and tell me
we're not competitive. I don't know if you looked at
the ratings. We're competitive. It doesn't just happen. We work
our ass off. That is something I would never normally say,
but I did to him that day, you know, so anyway,
I don't know where I was going with that.

Speaker 4 (08:34):
He thought he had a news radio program, not a
rock show. Yeah you should him.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
Yeah, there's a lot of could say.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
There's a lot of could but I don't. I don't
want to, uh have to eat. Whatever you do for
a living, do you have a Do you have a
boss that has no clue what you do for a living?
Do you have a boss that has never been in
your job and never ben in your shoes and never
done the job, and yet they're the ones somehow telling.

Speaker 4 (09:05):
You how the job should be done.

Speaker 3 (09:08):
I don't do that.

Speaker 4 (09:09):
Don't do that to me.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
I don't you know if you're somebody that's done it,
sat in the chair, got up every single morning and
realized how to do what we do, and all those
kinds of things, yeah, I'll learn from I want to learn.
I always want to learn. But if you've never done it,
and you're telling me what you think is right or wrong,
you know, like blah bah blah blah blah.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
Based on what your personal tastes are, get out of
my face. Face face it. I'll say it, just out
of my face.

Speaker 2 (09:36):
I never I'm not a wise guy. I don't want
to be a jerk or anything like that. But I
also I have a point where I will reach and
then I'll.

Speaker 4 (09:43):
Just say, betch I know what I'm doing. Yeah right, yeah, yep, yep,
that's me. That's all I is. Do it.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
You know, I like it. I like when competitive Greg
comes out.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
I do like it.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
You guys like Scotty makes fun of it until it
until it benefits him, and then he doesn't say he's
like yeah, man.

Speaker 4 (09:59):
Yeah you know yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
Extra day off. Yeah, I'll take that, you know.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
But whatever, you know, I just that's that's always the case,
no matter what you do for a living. When you
are being told by about what you're supposed to do,
by someone who has no idea what you do or
how to do it, that's can be frustrating and you
have to keep your cool and not you know, overreacting
and stuff like that. You know, I'm gonna be one
hundred percent honest right now. Want to be there that

(10:27):
I have nothing for what Right now, I'll tell you.

Speaker 7 (10:31):
I got a weird thing happened to me this week.
Not weird, but I've never experienced this before. I bought
a Christmas tree.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
Nobody was there, So that lies. What do you do? Well?

Speaker 1 (10:43):
They have instructions on a system.

Speaker 6 (10:45):
There should be instructions. The three of us drive by
a place that is selling Christmas trees that doesn't normally
do it, and this by the by the sign up
by the road like where I was stuck in traffic,
and read half of it and I can see how
are they selling because the person's not there.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
You have to put in this number.

Speaker 6 (11:02):
You have to do this, You have to call this number,
and then you have to scan this barcode.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
And scan a code on the tree, and it's yours.

Speaker 4 (11:09):
And I'm gone than I thought it was.

Speaker 7 (11:13):
First of all, ahead, just know that there are three
cameras on you right now, so obviously you're being watched.

Speaker 4 (11:21):
I get it right security.

Speaker 7 (11:22):
So I went and found my tree, and I'm like,
all right, what do I do now? Then I went
and reread the instructions. You can pay by venmo or
call this number with your credit card.

Speaker 4 (11:31):
Nobody wants to deal with anybody.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
Well, this I think, you know funny.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
Yeah, this person is right in Bedford. I probably is
busy doing other stuff.

Speaker 7 (11:39):
Probably on the weekends, maybe somebody's there and they're doing it.
But during the week it's slow. It was like one
in the afternoon. So I called the number. They take
venmo or a credit card. I gave him my credit
card and he said, measure the The instruction said and
measure the tree.

Speaker 4 (11:55):
However, when I talked to him, he says, don't worry
about it. Although I'm getting a short one. I was
hoping for a little kid. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. How
much was it seventy five?

Speaker 6 (12:03):
Yeah, it's a holy ship where you're buying your tree.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
I bought my tree at freaking target.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah it's a fake one.

Speaker 3 (12:15):
Oh absolutely, ye do it absolutely.

Speaker 4 (12:17):
I think that's the kind of the normal price for
a live tree. It was a good tree.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Went down and did our own work. We cut the
thing down.

Speaker 4 (12:23):
I think we still paid.

Speaker 6 (12:24):
The only running through a machine after that that puts
yeah you could have done that.

Speaker 4 (12:27):
Yeah right, they had that there. But what am I
going to I'm not going to run it through the
machine together. Yea.

Speaker 7 (12:32):
And the only problem I got into my car, true,
and I got it halfway home.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
So I did the whole thing my tree. I just
didn't get a fresh cut. That's the only thing. Well,
you have to see.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
The thing is you take it home and then and
you got to cut like two inches off.

Speaker 4 (12:46):
The base, you know.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
Yeah, so you just put it right in the water, okay,
because it kind of gets all bundled.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
You might not be taken in the water.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
We're giving that thing, I swear to God, We're giving
that thing like ten quarts of water.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Don't have to drill a couple of holes in the base,
freaking under do that.

Speaker 4 (13:00):
I can do that.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
That's what they do at the place where I cut
it down. They said, you want us to drill a
hole up inside it because nowadays the new stands you
just have a spike that goes up there.

Speaker 4 (13:07):
You know.

Speaker 6 (13:08):
When Sadie worked at the mall for a little while
getting one of the Spirit Hall and weeens up and running,
there were three or four stores there that had their
gates closed, and they said, if you'd like to shop here,
please call this number. We're ten or fifteen minutes out.

Speaker 4 (13:21):
There's a fireworks store in my town.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
Says, I'm at home, call me and he comes down
to the store. I drove past the Christmas Tree store
last night or place last night on Roote four, and
it said open. Nobody was there. There was not any
place for them to be. There wasn't a trailer or
anything like that. I wonder if it was the same
kind of thing. And I'm wondering what kind of theft.

Speaker 4 (13:42):
Occurs at Christmas Tree place.

Speaker 7 (13:43):
They got the cameras, and I'm suppose there's a camera
in the parking lot, get the license fleet.

Speaker 3 (13:49):
So it's crazy. It is the new norm.

Speaker 7 (13:54):
Well again, it wasn't a weekend. It wasn't high busy busy.
It was like one in the afternoon, so maybe it's
manned at night.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
We talked about fast food restaurants. Man, they no longer
want you inside. They'd rather have you outside in the
drive through.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
You you weren't here.

Speaker 6 (14:07):
I was telling these guys. I had a friend who
sometimes makes deliveries into New York. But he told them, hey,
check out this pizza place. Walks in and there's two
computer screens and touch the mouse, touch the mouse.

Speaker 3 (14:19):
Bang.

Speaker 6 (14:19):
Lady comes on, she's in another country, takes his order
and it comes up on the other screen hit verify bang.
A few minutes later, outcomes of food. Uh, and he
asked that she goes, He goes, She's.

Speaker 3 (14:30):
Not even in this country.

Speaker 4 (14:31):
Wow, wild crazy, He goes.

Speaker 6 (14:34):
What minimum wage here in New York City is we
can't afford so we are this person's out of the
country and they do three or four restaurants at a time.

Speaker 4 (14:44):
Yeah, it's crazy.

Speaker 6 (14:45):
And he was like he was like everything it was
a phenomenal experience.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
But he was like, wow, that is We've been in
the TD Garden yeah a couple of years, right, Yep.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
It's a lot of their stuff, yourself, a lot of stuff.
There's not even anybody.

Speaker 4 (14:58):
There's somebody walking around the store just kind of looking
at we.

Speaker 6 (15:00):
Did Gillette last last year or is that this year
for Metallica? And Amy and I both went in and
she's like waiting, and I go, I think it's I
don't think. We don't need to do that, And then
somebody was in their stock and they're like, oh no,
you're good.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
Go Yeah it's weird.

Speaker 4 (15:16):
Yeah, it's definitely the way of that. That's that's where
we're going. Where that's where we're going, you know, and
you make fun of like those places where there were places.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
In New York where you order it through a machine
and then it comes out, you know what I mean,
Like like.

Speaker 6 (15:28):
The guy said, I ordered my food, and he goes,
I could tell where she was. It was like it
was a lot sunnier than where he was. And then
he was like, Okay, what's going on? And the guy
came out and he said, oh, you're a little confused
that you know she's not She's not here at all.

Speaker 4 (15:43):
All of that aside. How was the pizza?

Speaker 6 (15:45):
He said, everything was fantastic. The whole experience was fantastic.
But he was weird enought like when did this become
a thing that I'm ordering something food that it's here,
but the person I'm ordering.

Speaker 3 (15:56):
Her from is not here.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
I'm currently, as we speak on the peter that we
are using, having a chat with an engineer and I
don't know if he's real.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
I was gonna say, I don't even know if he's real.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
I mean I think he is because he's I don't
know why I just think that, but I mean his
name is his name is Ed, So I just don't
see an ai Ed. I just I don't know I
just think it's got to be a real You see
an Ai Jeremy. Sure she's fake, He's no way, he's real.

Speaker 1 (16:23):
Ed, Ed's real. Ed's real.

Speaker 4 (16:24):
Probably was working on Chevy last night. You know.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
Ed's the guy we're getting some some tech help from. Anyway,
I'm excited about tonight. If you're going to the show
at the at the Capitol Center at seven o'clock start,
there's always nerves, like right now, I'm nervous, you know.
And Valar just texting me, She's like, hey, do you
want to meet for lunch? I don't think I want
to eat.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
I don't think I want to.

Speaker 6 (16:46):
Guys, you got to get a good basin there.

Speaker 7 (16:51):
You don't want to. I don't want to. I don't want
to socialize and try to have a good time at lunch.
I just want to eat a quick lunch.

Speaker 6 (16:55):
No, I just better take get something in your belloty
because as it gets closer, you're going to and then
when it's over, you're going to be starving. Take it
from me, a guy who usually eats breakfast and nothing else.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
And then as soon as the gig's over, I go,
oh my god, I don't feel good. I'm so if
I eat lunch, I normally don't eat dinner because I
drive home without eating lunch. Like I know, you guys,
sometimes you stop whatever. I go home, I don't eat
lunch until I get home, and sometimes I don't because
I just wait for dinner.

Speaker 1 (17:23):
Is that weird?

Speaker 2 (17:24):
It's like, yeah, you know, and I'm fat. I can't
figure that shit, confused, I can't. I can't figure it out,
you know.

Speaker 4 (17:31):
But whatever, So.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Tonight's to night and we will. We'll have some fun
if you're coming. Hope, hope you have fun.

Speaker 4 (17:38):
You know. The big question.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
Is is Laura going to be there?

Speaker 4 (17:41):
That's what we begin. Is Laura going to be there?

Speaker 2 (17:42):
No, No, there's no plans.

Speaker 4 (17:46):
To have her there.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
Well, we'd love to have her there, we would, But
again the whole thing. I was asked this morning several times,
how's Laura doing? And yeah, it's a tough question to
answer because you know, imagine what they're going through. It's
gonna be different, trying to find their way and trying
We're trying to be the friends that you know, are
there when you need us. That's that's basically all you

(18:08):
can do, you know. But yeah, she'll be back. Hopefully
after we come back in the new year, which would
be I think January fifth. But I'm going to tell
you right now, if she's not up fourth, then it's
not gonna happen, you know, you know I I've told her, look,
look when you are ready, and not a moment before,
you know. So that's how we're kind of handling that.

(18:31):
I know a lot of you like, well we miss her,
we want about well yeah, but we miss her to
you know, to take care of her first.

Speaker 4 (18:36):
That's that's our first thing on our minds.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
So all right, well we're gonna break and uh, if
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Speaker 4 (18:42):
The back side of this.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
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Speaker 2 (18:46):
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Speaker 1 (18:49):
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Speaker 2 (18:51):
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Speaker 1 (18:55):
So we're gonna take a we're gonna take.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
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What is it like? Because I think I found what
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Yeah, yeah, and I hate it. I got it. I
got you, I got you covered.

Speaker 4 (19:52):
I got you covered.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
I was one of the things that I had put
aside that I thought I would I would bring up.
And I don't know if it's because it's kind of
a safe place. Now we're almost in a second hiding place,
you know what I mean, it's almost another door.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
This is a question for men. Okay, uh, four of
us got through this.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
It's men talking about what are the hardest parts of
being married that no one talks about? Now, you know
you have to be careful when you answered this question,
because you don't want to put your spouse in a
bad situation, when your partner in a bad situation. But
I think that there are things that you know, I
think the same thing is true for men women. You know,

(20:37):
in reverse, there are things in marriage that are difficult,
no matter whether you're the husband or the wife. You
know what I mean, That's what I think. Okay, am
I going to be doing this on alone? No?

Speaker 5 (20:47):
Okay thinking huh, he's thinking.

Speaker 4 (20:55):
Some of the things.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
That is some of the things I the thing I
I have to there's a constant balance. I'm always working
on balance in in my life and what I want
to do and then what I have to do right,
you know, not work wise, but you know you know that,
like because me, you know, my hobby is right and
I would do that all the time. I would go
out and be with the camera. Not because I don't

(21:18):
love Valerie or anything like that, because I just love
doing that. Sometimes she comes out with me, but sometimes
she doesn't. But I will say that balancing that, knowing
when not to do that is the hardest balance. Because
Valerie said something to me the other day, like, you know,
you really should stay home one day, one weekend day,
don't go out both days.

Speaker 4 (21:38):
And I'm kind of like, well, you don't go out
all day? No, no, no, I'm home.

Speaker 2 (21:43):
I'm home by like nine of the but valories like
so we can wake up together, we can have coffee,
you know that kind of thing. So, and she's not
telling me, she's not saying that I have to do that, right,
but she's telling me.

Speaker 4 (21:54):
She's telling me something by saying it, and I have to.
I have to. I have to ignore that and hear it,
you know what I mean. So I'm like, look, it's a.

Speaker 2 (22:04):
Really good sunrise, I'll be back by nine something like that.
And no, no, no, she doesn't get mad. She's fine.
But maybe the next day I don't.

Speaker 3 (22:12):
Or what if it's a better sunrise whatever.

Speaker 2 (22:15):
Sometimes you can't look at the sunrise, it's gonna be
another one the next day. But balancing, So what about
you and drumming, like do you always want to do
it most of the time? Yeah, but I try to
when I go home.

Speaker 6 (22:26):
The house is mine, right, now's the time to do it,
and doing it when she gets home from work. I'm tired,
I'm winding down, you know. So that's never you know,
never a problem. If I'm around too much, sometimes that
can be the problem. Amy or go this this is
too much you I need you to die, you know,
go even for the night, Go.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
Shut another band something.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
I think Valerie likes it when I when I go,
because she has time for herself and you know, like
but she got a lot of it now because she's
you know, and the same things with like you and cash.
You guys go through the same thing, whether you're married,
whether you're not. It's just a really relationship thing. What's
the what's the hardest thing about relationships that people don't
talk about?

Speaker 4 (23:05):
For you?

Speaker 5 (23:06):
I mean, I think Cass is a lot more like social,
Like she wants to go out and do stuff all
the time, and I'm a bit of a homebody. So
I need to and I've started to be better and
I need to continue to be better about Okay, yes,
I'm gonna go like we're gonna and I'm gonna be fun.
I'm not gonna be like a wet blanket that's like
not wanting to be there. I'm gonna go and have fun.
But she's also really good about understanding when I'm gonna

(23:28):
be like nah. Yeah, and then I'm like, you go
have all the have all the fun. It's it's a
balancing act for sure.

Speaker 1 (23:34):
You know how much I bitch about birthday parties, kids
birthday parties.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
But Valder's got a lot of nephews and niece you know,
like little kids and stuff like that. So I might
not go to a couple, but then I'm going to
a couple, you know what I mean, because it can't
be I want to just what am I doing there?
They don't care if I'm there. They want little kids there.
They're throwing water balloons. I hate water balloons. Don't hit
me with a fucking water balloon.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
I'm sorry, I will punch you kid.

Speaker 4 (23:59):
Yeah, I like to.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
Splashing someone, like the most obnoxious thing you could do
in the pool or at the beach or whatever. But anyway,
but you know, you got to go, and you know,
we go and it's fun. I love our family, They're awesome.
But yeah, the balancing all that stuff is the biggest
challenge that nobody really talks about. You know, Kelly, what
about you? What what is that you think that nobody
talks about? That is always a relationship with it, like

(24:22):
in any relationship like things that are difficult that you
never thought would be difficult. I'm not asking you about
your current relationship. It could be any relationship.

Speaker 4 (24:33):
Are you just tuning in?

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yeah, but I I yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (24:37):
I don't know if I want to talk about that
right now? Oh right, you don't have to. You know,
you don't.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
You've always not asking you to confess that you've.

Speaker 7 (24:44):
Always currently there's nothing going on that's a problem.

Speaker 4 (24:46):
But I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 7 (24:51):
I mean I could go back to my first my marriage, yeah,
go to my other relationship.

Speaker 4 (24:56):
Yeah, And I don't know if I want to do that.
You don't have to. I'm not gonna make you can.

Speaker 6 (25:01):
I think sometimes I'm in the communicating business, and sometimes
I don't communicate but the person, yes, right, Sometimes you know, like, hey,
I'm we've.

Speaker 4 (25:10):
Been talking all day.

Speaker 6 (25:12):
Sometimes amen, you know, like on her day off, I'll
come home and she'll go, hey, I'm what do you
want to do for lunch?

Speaker 3 (25:17):
And I grab something on the way, and yeah, I would.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
Have liked, like I didn't communicate, I'm like that, I
don't I would I I like, suck up a problem,
you know, for a while, and I don't wanna.

Speaker 4 (25:29):
I don't wanna.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
I wanna think it out and do it the right
way without saying the wrong thing. See that that's time before.

Speaker 3 (25:38):
You run your mouth. Sometimes, I think is where I occasionally.

Speaker 6 (25:45):
May get myself in trouble, you know, like leaving the
sarcasm of here, even the sarcasm of band practice here
and not going home and and doing that that same.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
Thing sometimes in a relationship. It's okay to be angry,
oh you know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (26:02):
It's okay to be angry. It's okay to be down.
For being angry all the time, and being down all
the time, that is where the problem is it.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
You gonna have a bad day, you know.

Speaker 2 (26:12):
I just if I say, if I'm if I'm tweaked
out about something or whatever, something's got me going and
I'm just angry about something, and I was like, what
is it, I'm like, you know, it's not you, It's
it's just I don't want to talk about it because
it's just make it piste it's.

Speaker 4 (26:25):
A work thing or whatever.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
But if it was Valerie, I would say, because this
is the.

Speaker 2 (26:33):
One thing you get to after a long period of time,
I would have to say I didn't.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
I didn't. I didn't like that. I just didn't. I
didn't like that.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
It wasn't fair to me or whatever, you know. And
as a as a guy, I'm just speaking as an
older guy. You always told him not say that ship
bottled up, you know, don't put but.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
You can't do that.

Speaker 2 (26:51):
It's just gonna explode, yeah, exactly, And then it's worse
then because you did. You let it build up to
that point. But Valerie and I we've been together for
a long time, so we kind of think we have that.
We kind of have that worked out a little bit,
but that doesn't mean it's not going to happen again,
you know kind of thing.

Speaker 6 (27:08):
So just when you think everything's a well oiled machine,
sometimes oh yeah we handled that, we as a team
handled that fantastic.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
Or other times you're like, we messed up.

Speaker 4 (27:19):
That was yeah, And no matter how long, sometimes they
don't listen, right rody.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
Sometimes they don't listen, and sometimes they listen too good.
Like when you say something under your breath and I.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
Heard that, how do you put your foot down?

Speaker 3 (27:30):
How do I put my foot down? I will let her,
Like I am pretty easy to.

Speaker 6 (27:37):
Very seldom to I slam down about this is no,
There's been very few things, and it's something that I
have not budged on that she knows.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
Hey, that that's just something that Scott does not do.

Speaker 6 (27:49):
From my first marriage to my second marriage, I'm I'm
a lot more aware of what the money is being
spent and control it a little bit more than I
ever have because it's something bit me in the ass
the first time, and I don't want that. So that's
the only thing I think I've really ever.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
Put my foot down about and just said.

Speaker 6 (28:07):
Hey, yeah, I'm yeah, you know, I don't feel comfortable
making that purchase. I think that, you know, I don't like,
if we don't have the money, why are we making
the purchase unless it's an emergency. Yeah, I'm very I
generally want school Valery to be happy. Yeah, you know
what I mean, I wanted whatever.

Speaker 2 (28:23):
You know, she works hard, she worked very hard, and yeah,
I don't want to deny her anything. But there have
been a couple of times when I'm like, yeah, not
a good idea, I don't feel good about it, I
don't want.

Speaker 4 (28:34):
To do it, you know, and then you should. You know.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
It's that sort of delicate balance, but I'm just there's
only a couple of times in our forty one thirty
thirty five years of being together where I was like, no,
I can't, I can't, and she was fine.

Speaker 4 (28:47):
You know, if she said the same to me, I
would honor that, you know what I mean kind of thing.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
But yeah, just a couple of things. I just if
those are things that we all go through.

Speaker 4 (28:55):
At one time or another.

Speaker 3 (28:57):
Kelly.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
I wasn't trying to put you in an uncomfortable position,
you know, talking about stuff like that, But I just
think it's a lot a lot of people go through,
that's all.

Speaker 4 (29:07):
So it's good.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
Yeah, coming up to next time on the Buzz twenty
four to seven and the added bus plus what we
do when we're naked?

Speaker 5 (29:14):
Just what is that?

Speaker 3 (29:17):
What is that hand?

Speaker 5 (29:20):
Right right?

Speaker 2 (29:21):
All right?

Speaker 3 (29:21):
Well anyway, it's like that little thing behind the door.

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Never gonna be able to look at one of those
things again. If you made it this far, I would
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