July 8, 2025 • 45 mins
Hey Lifers,
If you happen to hear any mic bumps or mouth sounds today, please message Britt Hockley directly. Laura and Keeshia are taking a stand against Britt’s anti-podcast-establishment trial.
Ben has gone home and Britt’s now in the first chapter of their long distance marriage. We speak about how ‘different’ our relationships feel pre and post marriage.
Both Delilah and Matt had birthdays over the weekend except Laura almost forgot. After having a crack at Matt last week for not realising how far along Laura’s pregnancy was, Laura had some making up to do!
Is it a ‘flex’ to sleep with a younger person?
Charlize Theron was on the Call Her Daddy podcast last week promoting her new movie ‘the old guard 2’. Charlize is 49, a mother of two, an Oscar-winner, and basically Hollywood royalty. When Alex Cooper asked her if she had any sex tips, she responded saying that she’d recently slept with a 26 year old and it was great!
Naturally, the internet had thoughts. Some people were cheering her on for owning her sexuality, others were very uncomfortable.
We ask if it’s a double standard because “if men did this, we’d be up in arms” and whether we are okay with that double standard or not.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life.
I'm cut, I'm Laura, I'm Britney, and we have had
a bit of a disagreement this morning because we yep, I.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Can't be that big. I don't even know what it is.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Okay, Brittany has decided to raw dog, to absolutely raw
dog this episode.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Do you know why?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Because we prepped we watched some caller Daddy videos and
Brittin is now under the impression that podcasters don't wear headphones.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
That is not it. I have been trying to go
rogan not wear headphones for a while and I never
used to wear headphones. I got bullied into it by Laura.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
No, there was bribe, Kisha, don't blame me.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I will take credit. Five years you into it, Yeah,
five years ago, and I'm just trying something new. No
one else wears headphones, and I don't like to wear headphones.
They hurt my e holes.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I just want to be free.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
But I'm just giving it a whirl, and if I
don't like it, I will resort back the renow raw dogging.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
The reason why you've been bullied into it is because
and for you, guys, this is something that you don't
care about because you don't have to listen to them
because they all get edited out because mike bumps. Case,
you are the most amazing producer editor, and like your
attention to detail is there, my girl.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I don't know if it's that.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
I have a real hate mouth clicks like cheat that
sounds also microphone bumps, and I hear them all the
time in other podcasts, and every time I hear them,
I get angry at their editor.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
And the thing is is the reason why people mic
bump is because they can't hear that they have mic
bumped because they're not wearing headphones. So even though we
all look like we're going out of space with our
massive headphones on, there is a purpose.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
There's a reason.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
So if you hear a mic bump in this episode,
please message brit directly.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Don't message you life on casts, send me to mic
bump and mouth sound with headphones for five years. You
guys need to take a little relaxation. We're gonna try something.
Should I not cut them out of this episode? And
just see how cut that out? I'm a professional. We
all forget we're professional.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
How are they calling us these days.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
No, I actually want to. I want to feel what
it feels to be free as a podcaster. So I'm
just going to try it. And I quite like it
where I'm in it in I'm feeling it. I've got
my nipples out and no headphones.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I love that.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
For you.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
You live your life, girl friend.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Although it's been a big week, maybe this is the
same establishment brick.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
If you come sorry I'm putting out there now.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
If you come to work next week with a different hairstyle,
we actually know what's happening.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
We know that this is the start of the mental breakdown.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Ben's left some next, bring me my fringe, I need
my clipping fringe.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
No it is Can we just finish that sentence? Ben
didn't leave me? No, no, But if he did leave
to go back to his other country, I'm not having
a mental breakdown because very similar. Yeah, imagine that would
be like one of the shortest marriages.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Now, Kim Kardashian trumps, you don't worry.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah. In devastating, absolutely devastating news in the hockey Cigret Delilah,
how hold, all good things must come to an end,
and Ben has left me? He did go back on
Friday night slash Saturday morning at about three am in
the morning, we had to get up and say our goodbyes, which,
mind you, was not romantic and not sexy at three
in the morning. But yeah, he's gone back to Italy.
(03:16):
He's moving and re signing in Italy for another year
or so. And it was absolutely crushing. Like I was
out the front at three in the morning, freezing cold,
bawling my eyes out on the street as I waved
him away because no, I didn't drive him to.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
The airport at three am.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Waved him down the street. I was like, you'll be missed.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You ers here again called I'm tired and I'm going
back to the.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Surprises me because there's nothing quite as poetic as an
airport goodbye.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I think you're one of two people, that's the thing.
And I think everyone can be divided into these camps.
There are the people who always go and pick up
loved ones from the airport, and then there's brit.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
That is not true. That is absolutely not true. And
I'm going to defend no strap in.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
You're like, I've picked up at least a head.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I have pick's been up multiple times when he flies
in during business hours. No, so because Ben's so big,
Ben flew back business class. He doesn't physically fit into
an economy like he will fly economy when they're short
flights because you know he'll cram himself in. It's fine
for at twenty seven hour flight, he can't fit in economy,
so he brought himself a business class to fly back.
(04:26):
Business class. They pick you up like it's part of
why it's so expensive, do they? Yes, only with some airlines.
Then well he flies Emirates because that's the route. I
don't know other airlines, but I know for him, when
you book a business class, they chow fur you because
it's part of the So why would I at three
am drive Ben to the airport when he can have
(04:47):
a beautiful car pick him up, and I can be
backing my warm bed, crying myself to sleep.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Pond three Then off you go, exactly, thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Although I would say, and I mean, I think anyone
who's ever done long distance for a period of time,
there is nothing sadder than that getting on the plane
and sitting on the plane by yourself and just having
like a sad cry to yourself, knowing like it's just
a really sad moment, and I'm sorry, I don't mean
to rob it in Britt, but I mean for anyone
else who's ever done long distance like that is like
(05:15):
such a specific feeling. I think, maybe more so in
the dating stages, and I don't want to like detract
anything from what you're experiencing, but more so in the
dating stages when you're just absolutely not sure if you're
going to see them again, you don't know if something's
going to change. You're married now you know you're going
to see your husband again, so that feels a little
bit more solid. But in saying that, do you feel
any different this time around with Ben leaving? And also
(05:36):
any different this time around now being married?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
It's so interesting. I think a lot of people don't
expect to feel different when they get married. And I've
heard a lot of people say that it didn't change
for them, like you know, I mean, it was a
big moment, but you hear people say like it's just
the same, life keeps moving on, And for me, it didn't,
like it is dramatically different, and I don't I can't
put my finger on what it is, but I just
(06:02):
feel and it was unexpected from the day we got married.
Something shifted with us, and I feel like I couldt
emotional thinking about it, but it's like something shifted and
I can't put my finger on it. But I just
felt a certainty and a comfort and a warmth and
a security that even though I had all those things before,
at the end of the day, it's a day and
(06:23):
it's a piece of paper, it just felt different, and
it felt like we had closed a page and a
chapter on one part of my life. And maybe it's
because I'm a little bit older. You know, I'll be
thirty eight in a month or in a far out
next month, and maybe it's because I've gone through a
lot of waves and highs and lows. I feel like, oh,
I've hit that destination that I always wondered if i'd.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Ever get to.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
And yeah, I just feel like it's this new a
new journey together, a new chapter together. Sounds so dramatic,
and I wonder if every like other people listening, have
know this feeling I'm trying to explain.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I think that a lot of people would know what
you're talking about, so, you know, I mean, I make
jokes about the whole like it is more uncertain when
someone you're dating you're doing long distance with gets back
on a plane because you really don't know when you're
going to see them again. Yeah, I do assume that
there would be a greater level of certainty when you're
married and you know that you're doing long distance. Also
you know there's an expiration date on that long distance.
You know you're working towards the same goal, but you
(07:17):
also know that you've both made like the ultimate commitment
that you're going to get through that phase of life
that is the long distance phase. I always sort of
said prior to getting married to Matt, because I was
not ever the person I've said before, never the white dress,
never really dreamed about a wedding, didn't really do much
of the organization of our wedding like Matt is and
used to be a project manager back in the day,
(07:38):
so he like managed most of our wedding. And I
just always said, I don't think that marriages or weddings
are worth the paper that they're written on. And I
said that because I came from a family where my
mum has been married three times, my dad has been
well almost married three times. But yeah, like you know,
in two weddings, one engagement and so when Matt asked
me to marry him, as much as I was super excited,
(08:00):
I had that thought still in my brain And it
wasn't until actually after getting married that my feeling shifted.
There was a sense of security. I didn't expect. I
thought it would be exactly the same. It has been
deeply different being married to not being married. And I
don't know what that is. I don't know how to
put a label on it, but it was a feeling.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
I just became ten times more obsessed with him, I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
And you are mine now, he says the same thing.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
It's like the next day and it's almost like a
new responsibility wakes up inside you. And I don't even
know how to explain that, but you're like, oh, we
are proper in this together now, and like it's the
same feelings you always had, but just intensified. Like you're
always responsible for the other person, you always want to
help them, but there's something else that just grew. And
I imagine it's the same feeling as when you have
(08:44):
a baby. It's like a feeling you can't explain, but
you're like, I am obsessed with this thing and I
live for you and I'll do anything for you. It
was an immediate feeling, like a flood of feelings like that,
and I thought the longer we were together long distance,
the easier it would be. And that has just flipped
on its head, like this was the worst, worst, hardest goodbye,
(09:07):
maybe because we're in this chapter and these feelings are here,
but the goodbye was usually like there are a couple
of tears and they roll down the face and you know,
you know they're coming, and then you say to you goodbyees.
But we were both crying and I went back. I
felt sick and I just thought, why am I Like,
I'm not going to se him for three months again,
and then I'll see him for a week and then
it's three months again, and that is so crazy. And
now that I've got this flood of like feelings of
(09:29):
my husband and I should be spending my life with
this person, that goodbye was ten times worse. But it
was three am. So only cried for about ten minutes
and I'll asleep. I was like that rem yeah, I
set my whoop and I was like, yeah, it's me done.
So yeah, it's it's been cool. It's been cool, but it's.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Been really your woof is like you've had an arousal
at three am. Don't worry. You still hear your backsleep.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Something is happening at three am, but we're not sure
what it was. I was just like me hyper ventilating.
The other thing is now it's not just me. We
are a family and Ben did leave.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
His child was lefty issues.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Another father, bigger that's walked out on her. That's why
she's got That's why she's obsessed with Ben. That's why
she's obsessed with men, because I keep leaving. I reckon,
Yeah I should.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
She can't even watch wimbled. She's really traumatized by it.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Came on the other night. She looked up and then
she ran out of the room. No, she didn't. So
it was Delilah's birthday on the day that Ben left,
which makes it worse. On her birthday he left her.
But she turned four and we did have a birthday
party for her with her dog walker, and she's got
two dog walkers. They're married walkers, Beck and Harry and
Keisha and myself. We went and had a birthday party
for her. But I think you tell me, Keisha. I'm
(10:41):
pretty sure Ben messaged Keisha and said, can you make
sure Brittany's okay get around of the house. Actually it
was the opposite way around.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
I messaged Ben to say that I had had such
a nice time like getting to know him more because
this is the longest period of time that we've spent
around him as well, you know, we've obviously spent time
from here to there, but I felt as though I
got to know Ben a lot more this time around,
like and also just on a more relaxed, casual level,
like totally there was that quality time together. And so
I messaged him and I was like, oh, I've just
(11:09):
had such a good time with you being here, Like
I know that you guys are both going to be,
you know, pretty.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Flat and down, and I said, don't worry.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
I'll make sure that BRIT's busy. And so I organize.
I organized just for us to have a coffee with
Beck and Harry in the morning, and I was like,
it's for Delilah's birth.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
It was a rescue mission.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Yeah, I mean, I guess that's something that It's something
that Laura and I often talk about after Ben does leave.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
We're both like, you're in a group. Cha.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
We sometimes text each other and you don't see them,
but it's always about your welfare and the fear that
you're going to come out with blonde hair and a fringe.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
And it's like fucking brittied in my headphones today, the bitch.
We'll let it slide because Ben left, I'll post them.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
In the group chat.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
We just kind of tend to talk and be like, oh,
you know, we think BRIT's probably going to be a
bit down, and so just try to.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Keep you occupied, okay. And I hung around for the
whole afternoon.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Well I did.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
I was like, he'sure, I need to go to the gym.
You need to leave now. I'm okay, cause she's like,
I'll sleep the night. She brought a sleeping bag. She's like,
I'm gonna say that. I was like, you can go home.
I am in another conundrum at the moment. This has
got to be the most brilliant marketing. Across the road
from me where I live in Bondai, next to my
gym is this new It's a bakery that sells scrolls,
(12:20):
scrolls and matches. And I've seen the sign. I saw
it as they were building a tiny little store, and
then I saw this lineup down the street. I'm talking
hundreds of people goes around the corner and I thought,
what are they lining up for? There must be some
cool pop up store, like clothing store. And I followed
the line and it's this tiny bakery and I thought,
(12:41):
what the hell? Now, this has been two weekends in
a row lined up about the door, and it's made
me want it so bad.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
I know, I know, I drove past it recently and
I had no idea what it was and I almost
messaged you to be like, dude, what's going.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
On across the road.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Then I realized it's the Cinnamon Scroll place, and I
was like, I don't even like cinnamon scroll, but I
want one because everyone else is wanting them.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
So this is the conundrum. The line. I'm like, gross,
I would never line up for a bakery tree that
long because I'm not talking guys, there's not ten people.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
I'm not exaggerating it.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
It's like minimum sixty people in the line at the
time consistently. But then every time I walk past it
all day, I was like, I'm going to have to
do it because I have to know what is so
good about this scroll? And I also did a poll
on my Instagram. There are over two thousand people that
responded that said they lined up for it and it
was worth it two thousand and I'm like, this must
be fun. They put in cocaine in the scroll, like
(13:31):
probably die, so it's the dusting on top. So the
other day because it's so near me, so every time
I leave I can see it. The other day, few
people the tiny thing, and I was like, I am on,
I am on right across the road. By the time
I got there, there was one person in front of
me and she got the scroll and then you cannot
script this. I said, please, please tell me there's the
scroll left, and they're like, that was the last one.
(13:53):
They gave the last scroll away to the girl who's
in front of me, and I was like, you're fucking
kidding me. So I was like, cool, I'm going to
go midweek. This is the most brilliant marketing. They only
open on a weekend. There's a scarcity mindset, and now
there's a line. I could be allergic to a cinnamon
scroll and I'm going to go line up to have it.
Like that is how good this marketing is. So I
don't know if anyone else has any ideas maybe I
(14:14):
could slip a fifty to the person at the front
of line.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
I think you just got to get that at the
start of the day.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Or they lined up before it opens. Laura, you've never
seen anything like that.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
It's what I did when it was like COVID times
and I need to get my passport renewed.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
You pay a someone to stand there?
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yeah, what's it called?
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Like a placeholder?
Speaker 1 (14:30):
What's the app called that we all use?
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Work first person can think of it? Wins.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You pay an air tasker, you're paying our air tasker
to light up.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
You pay it all Hour't pay an air tasker to
light up for a scroll? You pay me? Can I
got a price? Well, how much would you do it
for a key? Twenty? Let's say a dollar a minute,
sixty an hour, because I think it could be an hour,
so I'm not paying sixty dollars for a scroll.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
That's a lot for a scroll in.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
That and I think I would charge hourly rather than
and a flat feet because you just don't know what
you're going to do.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Twenty barks, kiss yours three seconds to side? Well, what
have you even doing? Last?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Well, it was Matt's birthday on the weekend, and I mean,
speaking of birthdays, I know we covered Delilahs off, but
it was also Matt's.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
To be fair though, so earlier in the week, we've
been very busy. There's lots going on.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
It's now school holidays, kids are on kind of school holidays,
are in vacation care, and we're heading down to Aladalla
this week. Last week it was after and we spoke
about it on radio. But it was after I berated
Matt on radio for him not knowing how many weeks pregnant.
I was like, I remember, we had absolutely no clue.
I've just hit third trimester, and he thought we still
had like twenty weeks left of this pregnancy. He thought
(15:40):
we were midway and so it was a real rude
shock for him when he realized, actually there's twelve weeks left.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
More based around denial, no.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
No oblivion, not denial like he's he's not in denial.
He's quite accepting and happy about the fact that there's
a third baby coming.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
And it's also not happening to him. So he's been busy.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
So one week rolls into another, and some how he
managed to miscount about eight weeks with his pregnancy. We
had a big joke about it on radio, and then
that afternoon when I was at home, he was like, oh, honey,
maybe we can go out for dinner this weekend on Sunday,
and I was like, oh why.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
He was so graceful and kind about it.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
He was just like, I literally said, we're so busy,
why don't we just do what we're on holidays? And
then it wasn't until several hours later when he was like, oh,
I have a feeling that maybe you've forgotten, and that's okay,
but it is my birthday on Sunday, so it might
be nice to.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Go out for dinner.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
So then I felt like all week I was trying
to make it up to him, So we went out
for a really nice dinner on Stojo.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Every night I gave him so many blow jobs.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
We all know that it's not true.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I had sex with him once and so much effort. Guys,
six minutes.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
I later houred for him before I went to bed,
laid on my back.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
He did go over the top. It's really hard at
this point. My belly is so big it just gets
in the way. It's too much information. I then had
to like organize like a nice present and stuff that
I thought he would really like. And he's really into spearfishing,
as we've established, so I got in like more spearfishing.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Gear actually go yeah, does he just collect the gear?
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Well, he only goes when we're down the south coast.
But he's turning into a spear fisherman. So that's his fun,
like you know, midlife crisis, midlife I think he did
the ice baths, he did the mouth tape, he's done
the bike, he's done the yeah, the red what are
they called infrared saunas. He's gone through the cycling and
now he's in the spearfishing era, and I'm sure something
else will come in six months time.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I wish I could trump it up to baby brain.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
But it's just me. Do you know what it is though? People,
It's not like you forgot it was there. Sometimes you
just forget the day, so you know it's coming up,
but you forget that it's already Friday, which is two
days away.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Like one hundredcent.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I thought it was the following weekend, which would make
absolutely no sense, but I just, for some reason, I
thought I had another week up my sleeve.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
That was it.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
It's not my fault It's absolutely not your fault, and
no matter what you did, I will always be on
your side.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
You guys might have seen and now forgive me, because
for my entire life I have thought that her name
was Charlie's thron ch Theron. Turns out, after listening to
the Call Her Daddy interview, it is Charlie's Theron, blow
me away.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Let's discuss that first. Oh, you just hit the microphone.
Oh oh oh.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Let's record that one and make that a social grap okay.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Turns out that, after listening to the Call Her Daddy podcast,
it's Charlie's Theron.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
I think this happens a lot in Hollywood, not with her.
I think with loads of people, whereas we just make
up a name, they can't be bothered to argue it,
and then it sticks, like we just call them the
wrong name. Their whole life sound fancy.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
It doesn't happens to me.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
When people say Petite, I don't care. I don't correct
them because Petite's super cute.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
True, Kisha Petit.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
Do you think Theron's cooler than theoron? No? I love
I love Charlie's. Then if I was her, that's.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
What I'd go with.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Guys, we're getting bugged down because the thing that we're
actually unpacking is not the fact that we've all been
getting a name wrong.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
It is the fact that on call her daddy recently.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
So this episode's gone quite viral, but the conversation surrounding
it is more the fact that Charlie's came out as
a forty nine year old woman and said that she
has had a fantastic one night stand with a twenty
six year old man. It has caused quite the backlash
across social media. I have to listen to this.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Do you have any sex tip for the girls?
Speaker 6 (19:10):
Sex tip? Like what does that mean? Like what does
that mean? Like how to have good sex, how to
what have an.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Organ anything anything that like you think of girls could
just like you're hot, you're having good sex.
Speaker 6 (19:24):
Okay, You're like, I almost choked. I am the last
person to ask. I'm like sounding very cocky here, but
I think it's because I have found this freedom in
my forties where I'm like, oh my god. So I
just want to say this in perspective, I've probably had
three one night stands in my entire life, Okay, but
I did just recently fuck a twenty six year old
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and it was really fucking amazing. Fuck yes, and I've
never done that, and I was like, oh, this is great.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
There's been such a backlash, as I've said, and overatchingly,
the argument seems to be, why is it okay for
a woman who is four forty nine and has two
children to brag about having sex with a younger, twenty
six year old man, But if a forty nine year
old man bragged about having sex with a twenty six
year old woman, we would all quote unquote be up
in arms about it. I wanted to read you a
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couple of and I did not have to dig deep
for these comments at all. There are comments all over
the YouTube video. The Instagram post of this has actually
been archived, it's only now existing on TikTok. But there
are so many negative comments. The top ones from the
tiniest scroll that I did, I'll read a couple of
them out A disgusting woman. If a man that was
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bragging like that about young girls, it would be a crime,
But because this is a woman, it is feminism crazy.
Next comment, absolutely disgusting. She's old enough to be that
kid's mother. If this was a forty nine year old
guy talking about having a one night stand with a
twenty six year old, people would be in arms over it,
but since it's a woman, they're like, yeah, go queen,
this is sad and lame. I have lost all respect
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for Shulley's next one. But when DiCaprio does this, he
is considered a predator. Do we have more allowances for
women who date down or who have one night stands
with twenty six year olds than what we do with men?
Is there an imbalance here? Is there a bias?
Speaker 3 (21:13):
I think your first statement that you read out then
the first comment, both things can be true, and I
think both things are true. Would we be up in
arms if a man said this, yes, like it would
come across as gross and predatory and unnecessary. Are we like, yes, Queen,
because she has said it. Yes, I think both of
those statements are true, and they true for different reasons.
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They're true because men do do it and have done
it consistently forever.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
It is a normal thing. And the fact that there
is this much discourse around Charlie's making this statement of
sleeping with a twenty six year old having a one
night stand, the fact that we are having so many
conversations about it is because we don't hear it that often,
it still comes across as quite shocking that a successful
leading life in Hollywood a mother, and I say a
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mother because we're going to talk about that, but a
lot of it is saying, how could you talk out
loud about this when you're a mum, when you have
two kids that are listening. We're so up in arms
that a mother could enjoy sex and openly talk about
it and do it with somebody that is younger than her.
One of the most discussing responses I have heard is
Meghan Kelly. If you don't know Megan Kelly, she's I mean,
(22:23):
she lucky. She is an attorney, she's a journalist, she
has the Meghan Kelly Show. She's a political commentator. She's
a Trump supporter. She's quite conservative and right wing. She
has been commenting quite extensively on the Megan Kelly Show
that she has on YouTube about Charlie's Theron's comments about
having sex with twenty six year old. But what I
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think is interesting to note before we get into it
is Charlie's played Meghan Kelly in Bombshell, which was the
movie about the controversy around Fox News because she worked
for Fox News for a long time. So there is
a bit of a relationship already between Meghan and Sharlie's
thrown and apparently they haven't had quite a smooth relationship.
(23:06):
So I think that that's really interesting to note going
into this when we play some of the things that
Meghan has said. Have listened to this. This is a
little grab from the Meghan Kelly Show. She's doing a
sit down chat with a guy called Stu Bergerie.
Speaker 5 (23:17):
This is Charlie's theren trying to sound like super cool girl.
She's forty nine years old. She's trying to sound like
she's twenty six years old, and it's inappropriate.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
It feels weird.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
She's one of.
Speaker 5 (23:27):
Our biggest stars, that's true. Act like it, act like
I have some class like honestly who like It's a
very strange thing to see one of our best known
actresses sit down like that with a cross legs with
this sex podcaster talking about their orgasms and.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Who they ft.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
It's just really off putting and feels really just it's
a turn off. My theory is it's an overcompensation your thoughts.
Speaker 7 (23:49):
You know, it's a bizarre, bizarre society that elevates that
sort of conversation. I would say, I guess that's supposed
to make her like edgy, right, Like it's supposed to
be Hey, look at me, I'll say it. I'll just
say it. I like doing that. It just seems it
seems pathetic. It seems like you're trying too hard.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Imagine being a woman talking about your sexuality and talking
about sex, because this is in a broader context on
this podcast about sexual empowerment, about how she doesn't need
to or feel like she needs a man or a companionship,
and she's actually just enjoying sex for the first time
fully in her life. And to be told that you
sound desperate for talking about this.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Trying to be a cool girl, and also the fact
that they're so openly intentionally trying to shame her for
owning her sex life. She's literally on a relationship based podcast,
like yes, it's a conversation podcast, call it Daddy. They
talk to amazing people all over the world, but the
core of it has always been sex and relationships, and
they always try to incorporate sex and relationships. So I
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think the setting is really important. She hasn't gone onto
a political podcast and said vote for this person, and
I fucked twenty six year olds. But they're intentionally trying
to take it out of context by not including any
of the setup of the questions and her for owning
her sexuality.
Speaker 4 (25:02):
I feel like I actually have to admit I saw
this on every other news publication before I saw it
on call her Daddy's Instagram, and a part of me
was like, that is a weird thing to say, Like
it's a weird thing to just bring up out of nowhere,
which is how all the publications kind of implied that
it was. And I was like, yeah, I mean, I
don't know if I'd be doing that, and we talk
pretty openly about everything here.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
There was an element of me that was like, it's
just a bit strange.
Speaker 4 (25:25):
And then I listened to the entire episode and I
listened to her talk about her whole life, how she
had an experience in Hollywood that was very similar to
like a metom experience with a director. She's not outed
the person she was talking with Alex about how she
hasn't felt like she could advocate for herself. It was
part of a much broader conversation about confidence and about
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owning your sexuality, And this particular part was what came
in directly after the conversation saying I fucked a twenty
six year old.
Speaker 6 (25:56):
This goes back to I think this is kind of
like a thread throughout our conversation. Women who come across
as confident, women who come across as like outspoken ones
that wouldn't speak up for themselves, tend to also be
in bed people who want to please males like and
I have found this in my experiences with talking to
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other women about this. Isn't it strange like we should
be the ones that are like, fuck you, like I'm
gonna have an orgasm, and yet my whole life was
so concerned about.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
Same, the same, same, Okay, oh my god.
Speaker 6 (26:33):
So my advice would be this, don't fucking do that
for two reasons, You're gonna have better orgasms and guess
what your your man's gonna like that.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
I think the big thing and what has been the
overwhelming reaction online is this conversation around a double standard. Well,
if a man was to say this, we would be
so up in arms. But because a woman has said it,
A forty nine year old mother of two has said
it about a twenty six year old, and it's so
weird how we refer to twenty six year old is
like she could be his mother. She's firstly, she's not
his mother. He's twenty six, he's a grown adult.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
He's a man.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
He's a consenting man who has not been identified in
any way, shape or form. The reality is is that, yes, absolutely,
if you want to look at it and paint it
in a black and white way, there is a double
standard there.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
But the double standard has existed long, long long before.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
Men don't need to go on podcasts and say I
fucked a twenty six year old and had a great time.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
They're doing it anyway.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
It is the cliche and cultural standard that men date down,
that women when they are hit the age of forty
nine or fifty or sixty, that we have an expiration
date on our sexuality, on our value, on our importance,
and that it is kind of expected that men will
date a younger model. Sometimes a double standard needs to
exist because it's kind of like a rebalancing.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
But even just the fact that it's expected for men
to date down, it's normal man dates down or hooks
up with somebody or situationship, whatever it is it's not
really reported on in terms of there being a problem.
It's reported on that the relationship like, and I'm talking
about people in the public eye as reported on that
there is a relationship. But women have a literal name
for it, You're a cougar, Like, we have a name
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for it that if you choose to date someone younger
than you, we're gonna slap this label on you that
I mean, it's derogatory. Like the whole reason that we
came up with the term of being a cougar is like,
what does a cougar dooo?
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Like?
Speaker 3 (28:20):
It goes and eats prey, Like that's what it is, Like,
that's the idea of it. If you really want to
break it down, this is we're still just so uncomfortable
with women in general owning their sexuality and talking about sex.
We're still like, obviously this goes back to hundreds of
years in the patriarchy, we're still so uncomfortable with it.
But even as Meghan Kelly said, we're so uncomfortable with
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it when it's somebody in the public eye. She says,
you're our biggest star, act like it. What does acting
like a star mean? Every single star has sex. I
think that that's okay. And yeah, Hollywood used to be
an enigma. It used to be a mystery, and you
didn't have this parasocial relationship. You didn't have access to them.
The only way you had access to anyone in the
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public eye was if you went and saw a movie
or they decided on their own to do a press
tour and interview. But we expect different things from our
stars now. You have to be relatable to your audience
to stay relevant in a way. And that's just a
part of where our cultures moving, and this is what
they're doing. The context is right, she's on a press tour,
she's on a sex and relationships based conversation podcast. She's
(29:23):
done nothing wrong. I do think a bit of the
shock value came from maybe the words she used to
describe it. I think because she said fuck twice in
a sentence. And I know it shouldn't matter, but if
we're breaking it down, I think it would have hit
a little different if she said, you know what, I
recently like hooked up with a twenty six year old
and it was really amazing.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
Yeah, or had a one night stand. Yeah, And that's
the rule to say. I fucked a twenty six year old.
Speaker 3 (29:43):
I'm not saying it's wrong what she did, but I'm
saying if you break it down, those two deliveries give
you a different feeling.
Speaker 4 (29:50):
I actually think that there's like this weird thing that
a lot of us struggle with in terms of age
gap relationships, and often those conversations center around power, right, so,
and one being predator, one being prey. And I don't
want to make out that all age gap relationships where
the gender dynamic is flipped to this situation where like
a man's older and a woman's younger, that they are
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always predator and prey.
Speaker 3 (30:12):
That's just simply not true.
Speaker 4 (30:15):
Look, do I find it a bit strange that she's
hooking up with someone who's twenty six rather than someone
her age?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Maybe a little bit like, you know, each their own
you can make those decisions.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
What consenting adults do behind closed doors is absolutely none
of my business. Do I think that she would have
had some weird power imbalance dynamic over that person and
that's why that person has chosen to sleep with her? No,
And that was off the back of the conversation that
she had talking about how she had been in an
experience with a Hollywood director who was much older than her,
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who pressured her and sexually harassed her and potentially sexually
abused her. I don't know, she didn't go into detail.
That to me shows that this woman understands consent. It
shows that she understands what it's like to be on
the other side of that power dynamic. Of course, I'm
not making out by any means that men cannot be victims.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
I look at this.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
Particular situation and I don't think that it's a predator
prey dynamic.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
It's because the reality is we're talking about reverse patriarchy here,
and reverse patriarchy does not exist. There is not a
world where men are the ones who are being victimized
by women.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
We don't live in that world.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
It's not a problem that men face on a day
to day whereas we do know, and there is fucking
research upon research to prove that in every society, in
every culture across the world.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
It is something that women experience.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
And so when everyone's getting up in arms in the
comment section and be like, think of the men, we
don't need to think of the men, you know, all
like they're like, imagine if a man did this, and
it's like, you don't need to imagine because men do
do it. It already exists. It is not just a cliche,
it is literally the expected norm. So I don't I
really grappled with this because I was like, are all
(31:51):
double standards a problem? And in this situation, I was like, yes,
technically it's a double standard. Do I have a deep
issue with it? No, I can go for gold queen
and enjoy yourself.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
I do think it's rumissive us to say and act
like there is no power in balance there. We don't
know who the twenty six year old is. At the
end of the day, she's one of Hollywood's leading actresses.
She's worth over two hundred million dollars. There is a
power in balance. If it's an everyday person. That doesn't
mean it's negative, but the power and balance exists. And
we have seen a power imbalance in age gap relationships
in the past where the woman is older. We've talked
(32:24):
about them on the podcast. We spoke about Patrick Dempsey
when he was nineteen years old marrying the older producer.
But those power and balances absolutely do exist. But this
twenty six year old, maybe he was a no. One.
Maybe he was Paul Mezcal, maybe he was someone super famous,
And even though there's an age gap, it might not
necessarily be about a use of power. We don't know,
and it's not for us to comment. Think about why
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it makes you uncomfortable. I think that that is a
really big thing. Like I wonder why Meghan Kelly's so
upset by this.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
I think Megan Kelly just gets upset about anything progressive
at all. But I do have one slightly more complex question.
Do you think that we would be as like Yes
Queen about this if Salis Theren was not as hot?
Speaker 2 (33:05):
I think we don't like people who are not as
and I should say typically like stereotypically attractive talking about
sex in general, I think we have a bias towards
when hot people talk about sex. We are way more
comfortable with it because it's way more palatable from an
esthetic perspective.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
It's almost like fantasy.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
Yeah, And I hate to say this because I don't
agree with it, and I do think it's deeply problematic.
Like every single person, regardless of what we look like,
our sexual beings that have sexual desires and should have
the ability to.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Speak about it in the same way.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
But I think there is a pretty privilege that is
involved in this, absolutely, in the same way that there's
a pretty privilege that's involved in men who date down.
I think that for a long time, using Leonardo again
as an example, for a long time that there was
some allowances there and people were a bit like, well,
I mean, it's Leonardo.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
Or it's Brad Pitt, or it's Bloody I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
George Clooney, for example, there's a huge age grap between
him and Amal. But the thing is like when it
is someone who is not attractive, not stereotypically attractive, I
should say, and a huge age graph.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
I think it's harder for us to understand the why.
Speaker 3 (34:08):
I agree one hundred percent there's a pretty privilege me personally,
it wouldn't have mattered. It wouldn't have mattered who was
on the other side, what woman it was, anyone that
we've interviewed in the past, Like, it wouldn't have changed
it for me. I wonder if it would have changed
it for the people like Megan Kelly. I think it's
more about her position. I think that that's what's bothering
a lot of people too, is that she is so wealthy.
(34:31):
She is so famous, and she is so beautiful, and
she's been in our leading movies for the last twenty
to thirty years. I think that that has a really
big thing to do with it as well. And we
like to put people on a pedestal.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
We like to pretend that.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
They're perfect and they don't make mistakes, and at the
end of the day, they're all We're all human. Everybody
like sex. It's innate, it's part of human nature. We
just still are uncomfortable with women talking about it, and
we will go to the end of the earth to
shame them.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
All right, my loves, it is time for accidentally unfiltered.
And this is what I feel particularly fond of because
it could have been me. Believe me, right now at
this point in pregnancy, probably will be me in a
couple of weeks time. I was heavily pregnant and needed
to stop at the supermarkets on my way home from work.
At this point in pregnancy, you pretty much just always
need to pee. But there was no toilet there and
(35:17):
I wasn't far from home, so I figured it's gonna
be fine.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
No, it was not fine.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
I did my quick shop and was walking down the
aisle towards the checkout when I felt a sneeze come on,
I froze. I tried to hold the sneeze in, but
it came out as this weird loud noise, which drew
the attention of a little old lady in the same
aisle right near me. Unfortunately, it was not just a sneeze,
but I entirely lost control of my bladder and I
peed all over the supermarket floor. The little old lady
(35:49):
yelled at the top of her lungs, oh, my goodness.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Your water is broken.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
She grabbed my arm to help me out of the puddle,
and she escorted me to the checkout, where she yelled
at a work to go clean up the mess. I
had no choice but to play along and pretend that
I was in labor and then find a new local
supermarket as I can literally never go there again because
I was still pregnant.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
This is the best, I'm sorry, the best possible outcome
I would have done. That, I would have done the
same thing. I would have lent so hard into active labor.
There is no way. I'm like, no, sorry, I just
wet myself breathe. I was like, this is a moment
i'd been waiting for so good.
Speaker 1 (36:32):
I also, do you know what?
Speaker 2 (36:33):
I love that little old lady sprung into action for you,
Like that's a real that's a real mind.
Speaker 3 (36:38):
More attention to it.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
She's been there before, and she's like, I'm here to hell.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
She pulled a megaphone off the thing and.
Speaker 4 (36:43):
She's like, clean up an aisle seven.
Speaker 3 (36:45):
We have active labor. It's so good, It is so funny.
You can go back, for sure, You've got to give
a couple of weeks wait to your birth the child. Yeah,
you can go back once you have a baby. But
if you go back, if you have to lie about
its birthday for the rest of your life. To the
supermarket London, if some people look.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Like they're you know, at the end of third trimester,
when they're like, you know, midway through, if you've still
got like six weeks or eight weeks to go, you
can't go back. In the meantime, You've got to go
back when that baby's been burnt.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
Oh, you can go.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
Back then you sound like a nice card to the
supermarket and be like, oh my god, I remember my
waters broke here crazy, Remember.
Speaker 3 (37:17):
I pissed myself and half five and you can call
it Tesco.
Speaker 2 (37:21):
Well, it is time for second sweet, but before we
do that, we also want to let you know if
you've made it this far into the episode. We're supposed
to do this at the start, we forgot. We got
two quarter up we brit without your headphones on. We
are having a week holiday so next week.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Can't wait, Yes, can't wait.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
I'll love you.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Gone wit. You just had a holiday.
Speaker 3 (37:39):
Sorry, that was.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
Not a holiday.
Speaker 3 (37:41):
It was my stressful time in my life. And I
had three weeks off that was non six honeymoons three three.
That was not a holiday. That does not count. I
need another one.
Speaker 1 (37:51):
Okay, Well you're in luck.
Speaker 2 (37:53):
We are taking a week off next week to coincide
with school holidays, so unfortunately you won't have us in
your but it's only a very brief week that we
have off. We do have the episodes coming out on Friday.
We've got an amazing interview coming out with a guy
named Rawson kirk Hope, which we absolutely would love for
you all to listen to, and then we will still
have our pickup episode on the weekend, and then we're
(38:15):
on holidays.
Speaker 1 (38:15):
Do not disturb for a full week, and then we'll
be back to normal programming. What you suck?
Speaker 2 (38:20):
My suck for the week. My suck for the week is.
And I hate to tell you all because I know
we worked together.
Speaker 1 (38:26):
Yesterday.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
I got home from work yesterday and Marley was scratching
her head and I was like, something's going on here, girlfriend.
And then I did a bit of investigating, and I
did some more investigating. Then I investigated my husband that
I investigated myself. And it turns out that the Johnson's
had knits once again. So I don't know who was
ground zero. We all had it and when last night
(38:49):
was a nice little nit treatment night for the whole family,
real bonding moments. It's just so humbling when you're like,
you just think you're killing it at life and then you're.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
Like, fuck with you got Nick?
Speaker 3 (38:58):
How close were we? Knit's jump? Their hair is healthy enough? No,
they like dirty hair, don't No, they like clean hair.
They like clean hair.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
It's prefer clean hair. And also, you guys n connoisseur.
Literally if if you needn't know anything about nits, I
have two.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
Young Hypothetically they can't jump like two meters that we
are now.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
No, And also I always wear my hair and a
slicked back bun.
Speaker 1 (39:20):
Slicked back bunt. No one is getting it from me, guys.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
I can still get into a bun. You know, feel
itchy now it's talking about it. I know I don't
have them.
Speaker 4 (39:28):
I don't even think their hair is healthy enough for
them to choose my head to nest in.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
But whenever someone says it, I get itchy.
Speaker 1 (39:34):
Oh totally.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
If anyone says any type of insects, you're like, oh,
do not have trauma for when you were a kid
and your mom would like rake that sharp comb through
your hair? Yes, yeah, it's just doesn't get any better
when you're older. I have trauma from like I remember
this one time.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
It was like my first time I was going to
proper hairdresser to get like a real cut, and I
was getting like this little blonde highlight in the front
mum so I could get it because the boy, my
older brother's got it and I'll never get told everyone
at school. But I was like getting my hair done
properly because it was a flex And I got into
the hair dress a seat and she went to touch
my hair and I saw her recoil in the mirror.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
You must have had them bad If she found them
that quickly, they just like jumped out having a party.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
So that's it.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Yeah, that's like an infestation. I'm talking like when our
kids have had them.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
Like infestiation. It's it doesn't if you've got one or
a hundred.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
I feel like we catch onto it really early, like
I can my mom. Yeah, sorry sorry Nick Nikki had.
Speaker 3 (40:24):
Four kids and have gone through hard time, like I
didn't have a shaved haird to be honest.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
To be fair, though, like I mean, I've never been
able to find live ones. I've only ever found like
little eggs, tiny little round of spraadic ones.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
But you gotta go hunting for it.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
But the problem is is if you know that one
kid's got a couple of little eggs in their hair,
you're all gone down.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Like domos get knits. Yeah, but can a knit just
like your humans.
Speaker 3 (40:46):
Apparently we've gone down Waite combuster, No, he's that's not
a real thing.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
They can according to Google ai yea. To be fair,
we never know that we can trust the robots.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
So you're gonna have to go.
Speaker 3 (40:59):
And treat bust.
Speaker 4 (41:00):
Oh wait, hang on, well hang on, hang on. Yes,
dogs can get lice and the eggs they lay are
called knits. But while dogs can get lice, they cannot
get human head l.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
Different, so dog lice. I'm so glad we're not spreading misinformation.
I'm not ready to be called out.
Speaker 1 (41:14):
That knits again.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
That guy got canceled for misinformation about dog knits. Wouldn't
put it past That would be a would you know what?
Speaker 1 (41:21):
There'd be a real low light because of all the
things that we've said on this podcast.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
If that's what gets us canceled, I think that there's
a real problem in the world.
Speaker 3 (41:28):
Julia gets taken off me because I've shaved her from lice.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
Okay, look, my highlight for the week is that, yes,
it was Matt's birthday on the weekend, and I you know,
as much as I might have forgotten earlier in the week,
we had a really nice day. We went out for
a date night on the Sunday night under much dress.
We have like our one staple restaurant that we.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
This is not sponsored.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
We wrote our wedding vals there. We've been there for
every significant birthday dinner or Christmas dinner.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
I made ask her there for my Engagementrit hated it.
It was so bad that night I know it was
a miss. It was a miss, but it was not Yea,
I was confused by your obsessions.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
Why I love it? Do you know why?
Speaker 2 (42:04):
I think because it's small and intimate and like for me,
it just feels like a special date place because we
have such good memories.
Speaker 3 (42:09):
At Its really stressful because they had like a rotating menu,
but not like Nightly. It was like last minute to
order before we change it, and then they changed the
menu and then ten minutes later. It was like I
felt like it was a willly wont go.
Speaker 1 (42:18):
No, that's not true. They changed. They changed the menu
once a week. Anyway, I loved it.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
We had a really nice night and it was just
like Matt and I don't get as much time as
what we used to shock horror, no surprise, to have
one on one time together. And that's because do you
just talk about the kids? No, No, we talk about everything.
But the thing is is like, not only are we
with the kids all the time, we're also with Matt's
um all the time.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
Because at the end of.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
The day when we unwind and everyone's sitting on the couch,
like we're all together. And I absolutely love it, but
you know, sometimes Matt and I don't spend it's I
never feel like I'm missing out on anything. But then
every so often I realized, like we haven't spent quality
time just talking to each other or hanging out.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
And definitely a different convo with your mum's there.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Ah, to be fair, they talk about everything in front
of it each other. But yeah, I mean like it
was a really nice night. I really loved it and
we had a great time. Now school holidays and going
down to a La dalla and I'm thrilled about that
as well.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
Okay, what was your suck?
Speaker 3 (43:09):
Well?
Speaker 1 (43:09):
Ben left?
Speaker 3 (43:10):
Ben left, my husband left, Yeah, my husband left. My
house is so cold. There's two in one like my house.
I don't know if we've spoken about this year. Every
year people message me and they're like, why are you
wearing a snowsuit and a beanie inside while you're cooking?
And if you've been in my house slash Laura's old house,
it is unlike anything I've experienced.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
I've been saying, you've been living in that house for
four years now three years.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
You just need to get a gas heat.
Speaker 3 (43:34):
You pay my gas. I can't add it to the
gas bild.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
You just reminded me.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
He's like, yeah, I am your meat. I'm gonna add it.
I'm gonna get multiple gas heaters to the house. No,
do you know who's the funniest relationship with us? Because
neither of us can be bold to change the gas bill.
Laura just pays it and then invoice she pays my
gas bill invoices me that I pay her for my
gas bill.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
It's so it just shows who we are at our core. Yeah,
but disorganized.
Speaker 3 (43:56):
Yeah, my suck is definitely Ben leaving and being freezing
my suite would be. I want to have two. One
is that I am the new face of Lorna Jane campaign,
which is really yeah, which is really exciting because it's
like a brand I love and aware for so long
and I got to do a really cool campaign with them,
So that's really cool. So that's just it's not the
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face forever. It's just this little campaign for winter. And
I am going back to the Gold Coast to see
my sister and little baby Maya, and that's where I'm
not going overseas for this holiday. Ben and I we
only get those minimal holidays, but there's no point for
this one. It's a week and I just it's too
far to go for a couple of days. So unfortunately,
I've had to make other arrangements. So I'm going to
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go and see my sister again. So that's my sweet
even though it hasn't happened yet. Anyway, well, it's time
to look forward to now.
Speaker 1 (44:45):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (44:45):
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when we come back. And if you haven't joined their
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I didn't even know that we were doing that. Great,
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Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life.
I'm cut, I'm Laura, I'm Britney, and we have had
a bit of a disagreement this morning because we yep, I.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Can't be that big. I don't even know what it is.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Okay, Brittany has decided to raw dog, to absolutely raw
dog this episode.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Do you know why?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Because we prepped we watched some caller Daddy videos and
Brittin is now under the impression that podcasters don't wear headphones.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
That is not it. I have been trying to go
rogan not wear headphones for a while and I never
used to wear headphones. I got bullied into it by Laura.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
No, there was bribe, Kisha, don't blame me.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I will take credit. Five years you into it, Yeah,
five years ago, and I'm just trying something new. No
one else wears headphones, and I don't like to wear headphones.
They hurt my e holes.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I just want to be free.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
But I'm just giving it a whirl, and if I
don't like it, I will resort back the renow raw dogging.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
The reason why you've been bullied into it is because
and for you, guys, this is something that you don't
care about because you don't have to listen to them
because they all get edited out because mike bumps. Case,
you are the most amazing producer editor, and like your
attention to detail is there, my girl.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I don't know if it's that.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
I have a real hate mouth clicks like cheat that
sounds also microphone bumps, and I hear them all the
time in other podcasts, and every time I hear them,
I get angry at their editor.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
And the thing is is the reason why people mic
bump is because they can't hear that they have mic
bumped because they're not wearing headphones. So even though we
all look like we're going out of space with our
massive headphones on, there is a purpose.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
There's a reason.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
So if you hear a mic bump in this episode,
please message brit directly.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Don't message you life on casts, send me to mic
bump and mouth sound with headphones for five years. You
guys need to take a little relaxation. We're gonna try something.
Should I not cut them out of this episode? And
just see how cut that out? I'm a professional. We
all forget we're professional.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
How are they calling us these days.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
No, I actually want to. I want to feel what
it feels to be free as a podcaster. So I'm
just going to try it. And I quite like it
where I'm in it in I'm feeling it. I've got
my nipples out and no headphones.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I love that.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
For you.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
You live your life, girl friend.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Although it's been a big week, maybe this is the
same establishment brick.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
If you come sorry I'm putting out there now.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
If you come to work next week with a different hairstyle,
we actually know what's happening.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
We know that this is the start of the mental breakdown.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Ben's left some next, bring me my fringe, I need
my clipping fringe.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
No it is Can we just finish that sentence? Ben
didn't leave me? No, no, But if he did leave
to go back to his other country, I'm not having
a mental breakdown because very similar. Yeah, imagine that would
be like one of the shortest marriages.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Now, Kim Kardashian trumps, you don't worry.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah. In devastating, absolutely devastating news in the hockey Cigret Delilah,
how hold, all good things must come to an end,
and Ben has left me? He did go back on
Friday night slash Saturday morning at about three am in
the morning, we had to get up and say our goodbyes, which,
mind you, was not romantic and not sexy at three
in the morning. But yeah, he's gone back to Italy.
(03:16):
He's moving and re signing in Italy for another year
or so. And it was absolutely crushing. Like I was
out the front at three in the morning, freezing cold,
bawling my eyes out on the street as I waved
him away because no, I didn't drive him to.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
The airport at three am.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Waved him down the street. I was like, you'll be missed.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You ers here again called I'm tired and I'm going
back to the.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Surprises me because there's nothing quite as poetic as an
airport goodbye.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I think you're one of two people, that's the thing.
And I think everyone can be divided into these camps.
There are the people who always go and pick up
loved ones from the airport, and then there's brit.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
That is not true. That is absolutely not true. And
I'm going to defend no strap in.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
You're like, I've picked up at least a head.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I have pick's been up multiple times when he flies
in during business hours. No, so because Ben's so big,
Ben flew back business class. He doesn't physically fit into
an economy like he will fly economy when they're short
flights because you know he'll cram himself in. It's fine
for at twenty seven hour flight, he can't fit in economy,
so he brought himself a business class to fly back.
(04:26):
Business class. They pick you up like it's part of
why it's so expensive, do they? Yes, only with some airlines.
Then well he flies Emirates because that's the route. I
don't know other airlines, but I know for him, when
you book a business class, they chow fur you because
it's part of the So why would I at three
am drive Ben to the airport when he can have
(04:47):
a beautiful car pick him up, and I can be
backing my warm bed, crying myself to sleep.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Pond three Then off you go, exactly, thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Although I would say, and I mean, I think anyone
who's ever done long distance for a period of time,
there is nothing sadder than that getting on the plane
and sitting on the plane by yourself and just having
like a sad cry to yourself, knowing like it's just
a really sad moment, and I'm sorry, I don't mean
to rob it in Britt, but I mean for anyone
else who's ever done long distance like that is like
(05:15):
such a specific feeling. I think, maybe more so in
the dating stages, and I don't want to like detract
anything from what you're experiencing, but more so in the
dating stages when you're just absolutely not sure if you're
going to see them again, you don't know if something's
going to change. You're married now you know you're going
to see your husband again, so that feels a little
bit more solid. But in saying that, do you feel
any different this time around with Ben leaving? And also
(05:36):
any different this time around now being married?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
It's so interesting. I think a lot of people don't
expect to feel different when they get married. And I've
heard a lot of people say that it didn't change
for them, like you know, I mean, it was a
big moment, but you hear people say like it's just
the same, life keeps moving on, And for me, it didn't,
like it is dramatically different, and I don't I can't
put my finger on what it is, but I just
(06:02):
feel and it was unexpected from the day we got married.
Something shifted with us, and I feel like I couldt
emotional thinking about it, but it's like something shifted and
I can't put my finger on it. But I just
felt a certainty and a comfort and a warmth and
a security that even though I had all those things before,
at the end of the day, it's a day and
(06:23):
it's a piece of paper, it just felt different, and
it felt like we had closed a page and a
chapter on one part of my life. And maybe it's
because I'm a little bit older. You know, I'll be
thirty eight in a month or in a far out
next month, and maybe it's because I've gone through a
lot of waves and highs and lows. I feel like, oh,
I've hit that destination that I always wondered if i'd.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Ever get to.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
And yeah, I just feel like it's this new a
new journey together, a new chapter together. Sounds so dramatic,
and I wonder if every like other people listening, have
know this feeling I'm trying to explain.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I think that a lot of people would know what
you're talking about, so, you know, I mean, I make
jokes about the whole like it is more uncertain when
someone you're dating you're doing long distance with gets back
on a plane because you really don't know when you're
going to see them again. Yeah, I do assume that
there would be a greater level of certainty when you're
married and you know that you're doing long distance. Also
you know there's an expiration date on that long distance.
You know you're working towards the same goal, but you
(07:17):
also know that you've both made like the ultimate commitment
that you're going to get through that phase of life
that is the long distance phase. I always sort of
said prior to getting married to Matt, because I was
not ever the person I've said before, never the white dress,
never really dreamed about a wedding, didn't really do much
of the organization of our wedding like Matt is and
used to be a project manager back in the day,
(07:38):
so he like managed most of our wedding. And I
just always said, I don't think that marriages or weddings
are worth the paper that they're written on. And I
said that because I came from a family where my
mum has been married three times, my dad has been
well almost married three times. But yeah, like you know,
in two weddings, one engagement and so when Matt asked
me to marry him, as much as I was super excited,
(08:00):
I had that thought still in my brain And it
wasn't until actually after getting married that my feeling shifted.
There was a sense of security. I didn't expect. I
thought it would be exactly the same. It has been
deeply different being married to not being married. And I
don't know what that is. I don't know how to
put a label on it, but it was a feeling.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
I just became ten times more obsessed with him, I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
And you are mine now, he says the same thing.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
It's like the next day and it's almost like a
new responsibility wakes up inside you. And I don't even
know how to explain that, but you're like, oh, we
are proper in this together now, and like it's the
same feelings you always had, but just intensified. Like you're
always responsible for the other person, you always want to
help them, but there's something else that just grew. And
I imagine it's the same feeling as when you have
(08:44):
a baby. It's like a feeling you can't explain, but
you're like, I am obsessed with this thing and I
live for you and I'll do anything for you. It
was an immediate feeling, like a flood of feelings like that,
and I thought the longer we were together long distance,
the easier it would be. And that has just flipped
on its head, like this was the worst, worst, hardest goodbye,
(09:07):
maybe because we're in this chapter and these feelings are here,
but the goodbye was usually like there are a couple
of tears and they roll down the face and you know,
you know they're coming, and then you say to you goodbyees.
But we were both crying and I went back. I
felt sick and I just thought, why am I Like,
I'm not going to se him for three months again,
and then I'll see him for a week and then
it's three months again, and that is so crazy. And
now that I've got this flood of like feelings of
(09:29):
my husband and I should be spending my life with
this person, that goodbye was ten times worse. But it
was three am. So only cried for about ten minutes
and I'll asleep. I was like that rem yeah, I
set my whoop and I was like, yeah, it's me done.
So yeah, it's it's been cool. It's been cool, but it's.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Been really your woof is like you've had an arousal
at three am. Don't worry. You still hear your backsleep.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Something is happening at three am, but we're not sure
what it was. I was just like me hyper ventilating.
The other thing is now it's not just me. We
are a family and Ben did leave.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
His child was lefty issues.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Another father, bigger that's walked out on her. That's why
she's got That's why she's obsessed with Ben. That's why
she's obsessed with men, because I keep leaving. I reckon,
Yeah I should.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
She can't even watch wimbled. She's really traumatized by it.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Came on the other night. She looked up and then
she ran out of the room. No, she didn't. So
it was Delilah's birthday on the day that Ben left,
which makes it worse. On her birthday he left her.
But she turned four and we did have a birthday
party for her with her dog walker, and she's got
two dog walkers. They're married walkers, Beck and Harry and
Keisha and myself. We went and had a birthday party
for her. But I think you tell me, Keisha. I'm
(10:41):
pretty sure Ben messaged Keisha and said, can you make
sure Brittany's okay get around of the house. Actually it
was the opposite way around.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
I messaged Ben to say that I had had such
a nice time like getting to know him more because
this is the longest period of time that we've spent
around him as well, you know, we've obviously spent time
from here to there, but I felt as though I
got to know Ben a lot more this time around,
like and also just on a more relaxed, casual level,
like totally there was that quality time together. And so
I messaged him and I was like, oh, I've just
(11:09):
had such a good time with you being here, Like
I know that you guys are both going to be,
you know, pretty.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Flat and down, and I said, don't worry.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
I'll make sure that BRIT's busy. And so I organize.
I organized just for us to have a coffee with
Beck and Harry in the morning, and I was like,
it's for Delilah's birth.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
It was a rescue mission.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Yeah, I mean, I guess that's something that It's something
that Laura and I often talk about after Ben does leave.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
We're both like, you're in a group. Cha.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
We sometimes text each other and you don't see them,
but it's always about your welfare and the fear that
you're going to come out with blonde hair and a fringe.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
And it's like fucking brittied in my headphones today, the bitch.
We'll let it slide because Ben left, I'll post them.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
In the group chat.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
We just kind of tend to talk and be like, oh,
you know, we think BRIT's probably going to be a
bit down, and so just try to.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Keep you occupied, okay. And I hung around for the
whole afternoon.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Well I did.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
I was like, he'sure, I need to go to the gym.
You need to leave now. I'm okay, cause she's like,
I'll sleep the night. She brought a sleeping bag. She's like,
I'm gonna say that. I was like, you can go home.
I am in another conundrum at the moment. This has
got to be the most brilliant marketing. Across the road
from me where I live in Bondai, next to my
gym is this new It's a bakery that sells scrolls,
(12:20):
scrolls and matches. And I've seen the sign. I saw
it as they were building a tiny little store, and
then I saw this lineup down the street. I'm talking
hundreds of people goes around the corner and I thought,
what are they lining up for? There must be some
cool pop up store, like clothing store. And I followed
the line and it's this tiny bakery and I thought,
(12:41):
what the hell? Now, this has been two weekends in
a row lined up about the door, and it's made
me want it so bad.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
I know, I know, I drove past it recently and
I had no idea what it was and I almost
messaged you to be like, dude, what's going.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
On across the road.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Then I realized it's the Cinnamon Scroll place, and I
was like, I don't even like cinnamon scroll, but I
want one because everyone else is wanting them.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
So this is the conundrum. The line. I'm like, gross,
I would never line up for a bakery tree that
long because I'm not talking guys, there's not ten people.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
I'm not exaggerating it.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
It's like minimum sixty people in the line at the
time consistently. But then every time I walk past it
all day, I was like, I'm going to have to
do it because I have to know what is so
good about this scroll? And I also did a poll
on my Instagram. There are over two thousand people that
responded that said they lined up for it and it
was worth it two thousand and I'm like, this must
be fun. They put in cocaine in the scroll, like
(13:31):
probably die, so it's the dusting on top. So the
other day because it's so near me, so every time
I leave I can see it. The other day, few
people the tiny thing, and I was like, I am on,
I am on right across the road. By the time
I got there, there was one person in front of
me and she got the scroll and then you cannot
script this. I said, please, please tell me there's the
scroll left, and they're like, that was the last one.
(13:53):
They gave the last scroll away to the girl who's
in front of me, and I was like, you're fucking
kidding me. So I was like, cool, I'm going to
go midweek. This is the most brilliant marketing. They only
open on a weekend. There's a scarcity mindset, and now
there's a line. I could be allergic to a cinnamon
scroll and I'm going to go line up to have it.
Like that is how good this marketing is. So I
don't know if anyone else has any ideas maybe I
(14:14):
could slip a fifty to the person at the front
of line.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
I think you just got to get that at the
start of the day.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Or they lined up before it opens. Laura, you've never
seen anything like that.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
It's what I did when it was like COVID times
and I need to get my passport renewed.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
You pay a someone to stand there?
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yeah, what's it called?
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Like a placeholder?
Speaker 1 (14:30):
What's the app called that we all use?
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Work first person can think of it? Wins.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You pay an air tasker, you're paying our air tasker
to light up.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
You pay it all Hour't pay an air tasker to
light up for a scroll? You pay me? Can I
got a price? Well, how much would you do it
for a key? Twenty? Let's say a dollar a minute,
sixty an hour, because I think it could be an hour,
so I'm not paying sixty dollars for a scroll.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
That's a lot for a scroll in.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
That and I think I would charge hourly rather than
and a flat feet because you just don't know what
you're going to do.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Twenty barks, kiss yours three seconds to side? Well, what
have you even doing? Last?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Well, it was Matt's birthday on the weekend, and I mean,
speaking of birthdays, I know we covered Delilahs off, but
it was also Matt's.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
To be fair though, so earlier in the week, we've
been very busy. There's lots going on.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
It's now school holidays, kids are on kind of school holidays,
are in vacation care, and we're heading down to Aladalla
this week. Last week it was after and we spoke
about it on radio. But it was after I berated
Matt on radio for him not knowing how many weeks pregnant.
I was like, I remember, we had absolutely no clue.
I've just hit third trimester, and he thought we still
had like twenty weeks left of this pregnancy. He thought
(15:40):
we were midway and so it was a real rude
shock for him when he realized, actually there's twelve weeks left.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
More based around denial, no.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
No oblivion, not denial like he's he's not in denial.
He's quite accepting and happy about the fact that there's
a third baby coming.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
And it's also not happening to him. So he's been busy.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
So one week rolls into another, and some how he
managed to miscount about eight weeks with his pregnancy. We
had a big joke about it on radio, and then
that afternoon when I was at home, he was like, oh, honey,
maybe we can go out for dinner this weekend on Sunday,
and I was like, oh why.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
He was so graceful and kind about it.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
He was just like, I literally said, we're so busy,
why don't we just do what we're on holidays? And
then it wasn't until several hours later when he was like, oh,
I have a feeling that maybe you've forgotten, and that's okay,
but it is my birthday on Sunday, so it might
be nice to.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Go out for dinner.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
So then I felt like all week I was trying
to make it up to him, So we went out
for a really nice dinner on Stojo.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Every night I gave him so many blow jobs.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
We all know that it's not true.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I had sex with him once and so much effort. Guys,
six minutes.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
I later houred for him before I went to bed,
laid on my back.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
He did go over the top. It's really hard at
this point. My belly is so big it just gets
in the way. It's too much information. I then had
to like organize like a nice present and stuff that
I thought he would really like. And he's really into spearfishing,
as we've established, so I got in like more spearfishing.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Gear actually go yeah, does he just collect the gear?
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Well, he only goes when we're down the south coast.
But he's turning into a spear fisherman. So that's his fun,
like you know, midlife crisis, midlife I think he did
the ice baths, he did the mouth tape, he's done
the bike, he's done the yeah, the red what are
they called infrared saunas. He's gone through the cycling and
now he's in the spearfishing era, and I'm sure something
else will come in six months time.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I wish I could trump it up to baby brain.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
But it's just me. Do you know what it is though? People,
It's not like you forgot it was there. Sometimes you
just forget the day, so you know it's coming up,
but you forget that it's already Friday, which is two
days away.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Like one hundredcent.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I thought it was the following weekend, which would make
absolutely no sense, but I just, for some reason, I
thought I had another week up my sleeve.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
That was it.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
It's not my fault It's absolutely not your fault, and
no matter what you did, I will always be on
your side.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
You guys might have seen and now forgive me, because
for my entire life I have thought that her name
was Charlie's thron ch Theron. Turns out, after listening to
the Call Her Daddy interview, it is Charlie's Theron, blow
me away.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Let's discuss that first. Oh, you just hit the microphone.
Oh oh oh.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Let's record that one and make that a social grap okay.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Turns out that, after listening to the Call Her Daddy podcast,
it's Charlie's Theron.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
I think this happens a lot in Hollywood, not with her.
I think with loads of people, whereas we just make
up a name, they can't be bothered to argue it,
and then it sticks, like we just call them the
wrong name. Their whole life sound fancy.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
It doesn't happens to me.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
When people say Petite, I don't care. I don't correct
them because Petite's super cute.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
True, Kisha Petit.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
Do you think Theron's cooler than theoron? No? I love
I love Charlie's. Then if I was her, that's.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
What I'd go with.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Guys, we're getting bugged down because the thing that we're
actually unpacking is not the fact that we've all been
getting a name wrong.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
It is the fact that on call her daddy recently.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
So this episode's gone quite viral, but the conversation surrounding
it is more the fact that Charlie's came out as
a forty nine year old woman and said that she
has had a fantastic one night stand with a twenty
six year old man. It has caused quite the backlash
across social media. I have to listen to this.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Do you have any sex tip for the girls?
Speaker 6 (19:10):
Sex tip? Like what does that mean? Like what does
that mean? Like how to have good sex, how to
what have an.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Organ anything anything that like you think of girls could
just like you're hot, you're having good sex.
Speaker 6 (19:24):
Okay, You're like, I almost choked. I am the last
person to ask. I'm like sounding very cocky here, but
I think it's because I have found this freedom in
my forties where I'm like, oh my god. So I
just want to say this in perspective, I've probably had
three one night stands in my entire life, Okay, but
I did just recently fuck a twenty six year old
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and it was really fucking amazing. Fuck yes, and I've
never done that, and I was like, oh, this is great.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
There's been such a backlash, as I've said, and overatchingly,
the argument seems to be, why is it okay for
a woman who is four forty nine and has two
children to brag about having sex with a younger, twenty
six year old man, But if a forty nine year
old man bragged about having sex with a twenty six
year old woman, we would all quote unquote be up
in arms about it. I wanted to read you a
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couple of and I did not have to dig deep
for these comments at all. There are comments all over
the YouTube video. The Instagram post of this has actually
been archived, it's only now existing on TikTok. But there
are so many negative comments. The top ones from the
tiniest scroll that I did, I'll read a couple of
them out A disgusting woman. If a man that was
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bragging like that about young girls, it would be a crime,
But because this is a woman, it is feminism crazy.
Next comment, absolutely disgusting. She's old enough to be that
kid's mother. If this was a forty nine year old
guy talking about having a one night stand with a
twenty six year old, people would be in arms over it,
but since it's a woman, they're like, yeah, go queen,
this is sad and lame. I have lost all respect
(20:57):
for Shulley's next one. But when DiCaprio does this, he
is considered a predator. Do we have more allowances for
women who date down or who have one night stands
with twenty six year olds than what we do with men?
Is there an imbalance here? Is there a bias?
Speaker 3 (21:13):
I think your first statement that you read out then
the first comment, both things can be true, and I
think both things are true. Would we be up in
arms if a man said this, yes, like it would
come across as gross and predatory and unnecessary. Are we like, yes, Queen,
because she has said it. Yes, I think both of
those statements are true, and they true for different reasons.
(21:34):
They're true because men do do it and have done
it consistently forever.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
It is a normal thing. And the fact that there
is this much discourse around Charlie's making this statement of
sleeping with a twenty six year old having a one
night stand, the fact that we are having so many
conversations about it is because we don't hear it that often,
it still comes across as quite shocking that a successful
leading life in Hollywood a mother, and I say a
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mother because we're going to talk about that, but a
lot of it is saying, how could you talk out
loud about this when you're a mum, when you have
two kids that are listening. We're so up in arms
that a mother could enjoy sex and openly talk about
it and do it with somebody that is younger than her.
One of the most discussing responses I have heard is
Meghan Kelly. If you don't know Megan Kelly, she's I mean,
(22:23):
she lucky. She is an attorney, she's a journalist, she
has the Meghan Kelly Show. She's a political commentator. She's
a Trump supporter. She's quite conservative and right wing. She
has been commenting quite extensively on the Megan Kelly Show
that she has on YouTube about Charlie's Theron's comments about
having sex with twenty six year old. But what I
(22:44):
think is interesting to note before we get into it
is Charlie's played Meghan Kelly in Bombshell, which was the
movie about the controversy around Fox News because she worked
for Fox News for a long time. So there is
a bit of a relationship already between Meghan and Sharlie's
thrown and apparently they haven't had quite a smooth relationship.
(23:06):
So I think that that's really interesting to note going
into this when we play some of the things that
Meghan has said. Have listened to this. This is a
little grab from the Meghan Kelly Show. She's doing a
sit down chat with a guy called Stu Bergerie.
Speaker 5 (23:17):
This is Charlie's theren trying to sound like super cool girl.
She's forty nine years old. She's trying to sound like
she's twenty six years old, and it's inappropriate.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
It feels weird.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
She's one of.
Speaker 5 (23:27):
Our biggest stars, that's true. Act like it, act like
I have some class like honestly who like It's a
very strange thing to see one of our best known
actresses sit down like that with a cross legs with
this sex podcaster talking about their orgasms and.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Who they ft.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
It's just really off putting and feels really just it's
a turn off. My theory is it's an overcompensation your thoughts.
Speaker 7 (23:49):
You know, it's a bizarre, bizarre society that elevates that
sort of conversation. I would say, I guess that's supposed
to make her like edgy, right, Like it's supposed to
be Hey, look at me, I'll say it. I'll just
say it. I like doing that. It just seems it
seems pathetic. It seems like you're trying too hard.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Imagine being a woman talking about your sexuality and talking
about sex, because this is in a broader context on
this podcast about sexual empowerment, about how she doesn't need
to or feel like she needs a man or a companionship,
and she's actually just enjoying sex for the first time
fully in her life. And to be told that you
sound desperate for talking about this.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Trying to be a cool girl, and also the fact
that they're so openly intentionally trying to shame her for
owning her sex life. She's literally on a relationship based podcast,
like yes, it's a conversation podcast, call it Daddy. They
talk to amazing people all over the world, but the
core of it has always been sex and relationships, and
they always try to incorporate sex and relationships. So I
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think the setting is really important. She hasn't gone onto
a political podcast and said vote for this person, and
I fucked twenty six year olds. But they're intentionally trying
to take it out of context by not including any
of the setup of the questions and her for owning
her sexuality.
Speaker 4 (25:02):
I feel like I actually have to admit I saw
this on every other news publication before I saw it
on call her Daddy's Instagram, and a part of me
was like, that is a weird thing to say, Like
it's a weird thing to just bring up out of nowhere,
which is how all the publications kind of implied that
it was. And I was like, yeah, I mean, I
don't know if I'd be doing that, and we talk
pretty openly about everything here.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
There was an element of me that was like, it's
just a bit strange.
Speaker 4 (25:25):
And then I listened to the entire episode and I
listened to her talk about her whole life, how she
had an experience in Hollywood that was very similar to
like a metom experience with a director. She's not outed
the person she was talking with Alex about how she
hasn't felt like she could advocate for herself. It was
part of a much broader conversation about confidence and about
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owning your sexuality, And this particular part was what came
in directly after the conversation saying I fucked a twenty
six year old.
Speaker 6 (25:56):
This goes back to I think this is kind of
like a thread throughout our conversation. Women who come across
as confident, women who come across as like outspoken ones
that wouldn't speak up for themselves, tend to also be
in bed people who want to please males like and
I have found this in my experiences with talking to
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other women about this. Isn't it strange like we should
be the ones that are like, fuck you, like I'm
gonna have an orgasm, and yet my whole life was
so concerned about.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
Same, the same, same, Okay, oh my god.
Speaker 6 (26:33):
So my advice would be this, don't fucking do that
for two reasons, You're gonna have better orgasms and guess
what your your man's gonna like that.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
I think the big thing and what has been the
overwhelming reaction online is this conversation around a double standard. Well,
if a man was to say this, we would be
so up in arms. But because a woman has said it,
A forty nine year old mother of two has said
it about a twenty six year old, and it's so
weird how we refer to twenty six year old is
like she could be his mother. She's firstly, she's not
his mother. He's twenty six, he's a grown adult.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
He's a man.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
He's a consenting man who has not been identified in
any way, shape or form. The reality is is that, yes, absolutely,
if you want to look at it and paint it
in a black and white way, there is a double
standard there.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
But the double standard has existed long, long long before.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
Men don't need to go on podcasts and say I
fucked a twenty six year old and had a great time.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
They're doing it anyway.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
It is the cliche and cultural standard that men date down,
that women when they are hit the age of forty
nine or fifty or sixty, that we have an expiration
date on our sexuality, on our value, on our importance,
and that it is kind of expected that men will
date a younger model. Sometimes a double standard needs to
exist because it's kind of like a rebalancing.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
But even just the fact that it's expected for men
to date down, it's normal man dates down or hooks
up with somebody or situationship, whatever it is it's not
really reported on in terms of there being a problem.
It's reported on that the relationship like, and I'm talking
about people in the public eye as reported on that
there is a relationship. But women have a literal name
for it, You're a cougar, Like, we have a name
(28:08):
for it that if you choose to date someone younger
than you, we're gonna slap this label on you that
I mean, it's derogatory. Like the whole reason that we
came up with the term of being a cougar is like,
what does a cougar dooo?
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Like?
Speaker 3 (28:20):
It goes and eats prey, Like that's what it is, Like,
that's the idea of it. If you really want to
break it down, this is we're still just so uncomfortable
with women in general owning their sexuality and talking about sex.
We're still like, obviously this goes back to hundreds of
years in the patriarchy, we're still so uncomfortable with it.
But even as Meghan Kelly said, we're so uncomfortable with
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it when it's somebody in the public eye. She says,
you're our biggest star, act like it. What does acting
like a star mean? Every single star has sex. I
think that that's okay. And yeah, Hollywood used to be
an enigma. It used to be a mystery, and you
didn't have this parasocial relationship. You didn't have access to them.
The only way you had access to anyone in the
(29:01):
public eye was if you went and saw a movie
or they decided on their own to do a press
tour and interview. But we expect different things from our
stars now. You have to be relatable to your audience
to stay relevant in a way. And that's just a
part of where our cultures moving, and this is what
they're doing. The context is right, she's on a press tour,
she's on a sex and relationships based conversation podcast. She's
(29:23):
done nothing wrong. I do think a bit of the
shock value came from maybe the words she used to
describe it. I think because she said fuck twice in
a sentence. And I know it shouldn't matter, but if
we're breaking it down, I think it would have hit
a little different if she said, you know what, I
recently like hooked up with a twenty six year old
and it was really amazing.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
Yeah, or had a one night stand. Yeah, And that's
the rule to say. I fucked a twenty six year old.
Speaker 3 (29:43):
I'm not saying it's wrong what she did, but I'm
saying if you break it down, those two deliveries give
you a different feeling.
Speaker 4 (29:50):
I actually think that there's like this weird thing that
a lot of us struggle with in terms of age
gap relationships, and often those conversations center around power, right, so,
and one being predator, one being prey. And I don't
want to make out that all age gap relationships where
the gender dynamic is flipped to this situation where like
a man's older and a woman's younger, that they are
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always predator and prey.
Speaker 3 (30:12):
That's just simply not true.
Speaker 4 (30:15):
Look, do I find it a bit strange that she's
hooking up with someone who's twenty six rather than someone
her age?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Maybe a little bit like, you know, each their own
you can make those decisions.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
What consenting adults do behind closed doors is absolutely none
of my business. Do I think that she would have
had some weird power imbalance dynamic over that person and
that's why that person has chosen to sleep with her? No,
And that was off the back of the conversation that
she had talking about how she had been in an
experience with a Hollywood director who was much older than her,
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who pressured her and sexually harassed her and potentially sexually
abused her. I don't know, she didn't go into detail.
That to me shows that this woman understands consent. It
shows that she understands what it's like to be on
the other side of that power dynamic. Of course, I'm
not making out by any means that men cannot be victims.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
I look at this.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
Particular situation and I don't think that it's a predator
prey dynamic.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
It's because the reality is we're talking about reverse patriarchy here,
and reverse patriarchy does not exist. There is not a
world where men are the ones who are being victimized
by women.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
We don't live in that world.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
It's not a problem that men face on a day
to day whereas we do know, and there is fucking
research upon research to prove that in every society, in
every culture across the world.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
It is something that women experience.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
And so when everyone's getting up in arms in the
comment section and be like, think of the men, we
don't need to think of the men, you know, all
like they're like, imagine if a man did this, and
it's like, you don't need to imagine because men do
do it. It already exists. It is not just a cliche,
it is literally the expected norm. So I don't I
really grappled with this because I was like, are all
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double standards a problem? And in this situation, I was like, yes,
technically it's a double standard. Do I have a deep
issue with it? No, I can go for gold queen
and enjoy yourself.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
I do think it's rumissive us to say and act
like there is no power in balance there. We don't
know who the twenty six year old is. At the
end of the day, she's one of Hollywood's leading actresses.
She's worth over two hundred million dollars. There is a
power in balance. If it's an everyday person. That doesn't
mean it's negative, but the power and balance exists. And
we have seen a power imbalance in age gap relationships
in the past where the woman is older. We've talked
(32:24):
about them on the podcast. We spoke about Patrick Dempsey
when he was nineteen years old marrying the older producer.
But those power and balances absolutely do exist. But this
twenty six year old, maybe he was a no. One.
Maybe he was Paul Mezcal, maybe he was someone super famous,
And even though there's an age gap, it might not
necessarily be about a use of power. We don't know,
and it's not for us to comment. Think about why
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it makes you uncomfortable. I think that that is a
really big thing. Like I wonder why Meghan Kelly's so
upset by this.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
I think Megan Kelly just gets upset about anything progressive
at all. But I do have one slightly more complex question.
Do you think that we would be as like Yes
Queen about this if Salis Theren was not as hot?
Speaker 2 (33:05):
I think we don't like people who are not as
and I should say typically like stereotypically attractive talking about
sex in general, I think we have a bias towards
when hot people talk about sex. We are way more
comfortable with it because it's way more palatable from an
esthetic perspective.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
It's almost like fantasy.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
Yeah, And I hate to say this because I don't
agree with it, and I do think it's deeply problematic.
Like every single person, regardless of what we look like,
our sexual beings that have sexual desires and should have
the ability to.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Speak about it in the same way.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
But I think there is a pretty privilege that is
involved in this, absolutely, in the same way that there's
a pretty privilege that's involved in men who date down.
I think that for a long time, using Leonardo again
as an example, for a long time that there was
some allowances there and people were a bit like, well,
I mean, it's Leonardo.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
Or it's Brad Pitt, or it's Bloody I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
George Clooney, for example, there's a huge age grap between
him and Amal. But the thing is like when it
is someone who is not attractive, not stereotypically attractive, I
should say, and a huge age graph.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
I think it's harder for us to understand the why.
Speaker 3 (34:08):
I agree one hundred percent there's a pretty privilege me personally,
it wouldn't have mattered. It wouldn't have mattered who was
on the other side, what woman it was, anyone that
we've interviewed in the past, Like, it wouldn't have changed
it for me. I wonder if it would have changed
it for the people like Megan Kelly. I think it's
more about her position. I think that that's what's bothering
a lot of people too, is that she is so wealthy.
(34:31):
She is so famous, and she is so beautiful, and
she's been in our leading movies for the last twenty
to thirty years. I think that that has a really
big thing to do with it as well. And we
like to put people on a pedestal.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
We like to pretend that.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
They're perfect and they don't make mistakes, and at the
end of the day, they're all We're all human. Everybody
like sex. It's innate, it's part of human nature. We
just still are uncomfortable with women talking about it, and
we will go to the end of the earth to
shame them.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
All right, my loves, it is time for accidentally unfiltered.
And this is what I feel particularly fond of because
it could have been me. Believe me, right now at
this point in pregnancy, probably will be me in a
couple of weeks time. I was heavily pregnant and needed
to stop at the supermarkets on my way home from work.
At this point in pregnancy, you pretty much just always
need to pee. But there was no toilet there and
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I wasn't far from home, so I figured it's gonna
be fine.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
No, it was not fine.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
I did my quick shop and was walking down the
aisle towards the checkout when I felt a sneeze come on,
I froze. I tried to hold the sneeze in, but
it came out as this weird loud noise, which drew
the attention of a little old lady in the same
aisle right near me. Unfortunately, it was not just a sneeze,
but I entirely lost control of my bladder and I
peed all over the supermarket floor. The little old lady
(35:49):
yelled at the top of her lungs, oh, my goodness.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Your water is broken.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
She grabbed my arm to help me out of the puddle,
and she escorted me to the checkout, where she yelled
at a work to go clean up the mess. I
had no choice but to play along and pretend that
I was in labor and then find a new local
supermarket as I can literally never go there again because
I was still pregnant.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
This is the best, I'm sorry, the best possible outcome
I would have done. That, I would have done the
same thing. I would have lent so hard into active labor.
There is no way. I'm like, no, sorry, I just
wet myself breathe. I was like, this is a moment
i'd been waiting for so good.
Speaker 1 (36:32):
I also, do you know what?
Speaker 2 (36:33):
I love that little old lady sprung into action for you,
Like that's a real that's a real mind.
Speaker 3 (36:38):
More attention to it.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
She's been there before, and she's like, I'm here to hell.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
She pulled a megaphone off the thing and.
Speaker 4 (36:43):
She's like, clean up an aisle seven.
Speaker 3 (36:45):
We have active labor. It's so good, It is so funny.
You can go back, for sure, You've got to give
a couple of weeks wait to your birth the child. Yeah,
you can go back once you have a baby. But
if you go back, if you have to lie about
its birthday for the rest of your life. To the
supermarket London, if some people look.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Like they're you know, at the end of third trimester,
when they're like, you know, midway through, if you've still
got like six weeks or eight weeks to go, you
can't go back. In the meantime, You've got to go
back when that baby's been burnt.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
Oh, you can go.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
Back then you sound like a nice card to the
supermarket and be like, oh my god, I remember my
waters broke here crazy, Remember.
Speaker 3 (37:17):
I pissed myself and half five and you can call
it Tesco.
Speaker 2 (37:21):
Well, it is time for second sweet, but before we
do that, we also want to let you know if
you've made it this far into the episode. We're supposed
to do this at the start, we forgot. We got
two quarter up we brit without your headphones on. We
are having a week holiday so next week.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Can't wait, Yes, can't wait.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
I'll love you.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Gone wit. You just had a holiday.
Speaker 3 (37:39):
Sorry, that was.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
Not a holiday.
Speaker 3 (37:41):
It was my stressful time in my life. And I
had three weeks off that was non six honeymoons three three.
That was not a holiday. That does not count. I
need another one.
Speaker 1 (37:51):
Okay, Well you're in luck.
Speaker 2 (37:53):
We are taking a week off next week to coincide
with school holidays, so unfortunately you won't have us in
your but it's only a very brief week that we
have off. We do have the episodes coming out on Friday.
We've got an amazing interview coming out with a guy
named Rawson kirk Hope, which we absolutely would love for
you all to listen to, and then we will still
have our pickup episode on the weekend, and then we're
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on holidays.
Speaker 1 (38:15):
Do not disturb for a full week, and then we'll
be back to normal programming. What you suck?
Speaker 2 (38:20):
My suck for the week. My suck for the week is.
And I hate to tell you all because I know
we worked together.
Speaker 1 (38:26):
Yesterday.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
I got home from work yesterday and Marley was scratching
her head and I was like, something's going on here, girlfriend.
And then I did a bit of investigating, and I
did some more investigating. Then I investigated my husband that
I investigated myself. And it turns out that the Johnson's
had knits once again. So I don't know who was
ground zero. We all had it and when last night
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was a nice little nit treatment night for the whole family,
real bonding moments. It's just so humbling when you're like,
you just think you're killing it at life and then you're.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
Like, fuck with you got Nick?
Speaker 3 (38:58):
How close were we? Knit's jump? Their hair is healthy enough? No,
they like dirty hair, don't No, they like clean hair.
They like clean hair.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
It's prefer clean hair. And also, you guys n connoisseur.
Literally if if you needn't know anything about nits, I
have two.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
Young Hypothetically they can't jump like two meters that we
are now.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
No, And also I always wear my hair and a
slicked back bun.
Speaker 1 (39:20):
Slicked back bunt. No one is getting it from me, guys.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
I can still get into a bun. You know, feel
itchy now it's talking about it. I know I don't
have them.
Speaker 4 (39:28):
I don't even think their hair is healthy enough for
them to choose my head to nest in.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
But whenever someone says it, I get itchy.
Speaker 1 (39:34):
Oh totally.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
If anyone says any type of insects, you're like, oh,
do not have trauma for when you were a kid
and your mom would like rake that sharp comb through
your hair? Yes, yeah, it's just doesn't get any better
when you're older. I have trauma from like I remember
this one time.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
It was like my first time I was going to
proper hairdresser to get like a real cut, and I
was getting like this little blonde highlight in the front
mum so I could get it because the boy, my
older brother's got it and I'll never get told everyone
at school. But I was like getting my hair done
properly because it was a flex And I got into
the hair dress a seat and she went to touch
my hair and I saw her recoil in the mirror.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
You must have had them bad If she found them
that quickly, they just like jumped out having a party.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
So that's it.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Yeah, that's like an infestation. I'm talking like when our
kids have had them.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
Like infestiation. It's it doesn't if you've got one or
a hundred.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
I feel like we catch onto it really early, like
I can my mom. Yeah, sorry sorry Nick Nikki had.
Speaker 3 (40:24):
Four kids and have gone through hard time, like I
didn't have a shaved haird to be honest.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
To be fair, though, like I mean, I've never been
able to find live ones. I've only ever found like
little eggs, tiny little round of spraadic ones.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
But you gotta go hunting for it.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
But the problem is is if you know that one
kid's got a couple of little eggs in their hair,
you're all gone down.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Like domos get knits. Yeah, but can a knit just
like your humans.
Speaker 3 (40:46):
Apparently we've gone down Waite combuster, No, he's that's not
a real thing.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
They can according to Google ai yea. To be fair,
we never know that we can trust the robots.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
So you're gonna have to go.
Speaker 3 (40:59):
And treat bust.
Speaker 4 (41:00):
Oh wait, hang on, well hang on, hang on. Yes,
dogs can get lice and the eggs they lay are
called knits. But while dogs can get lice, they cannot
get human head l.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
Different, so dog lice. I'm so glad we're not spreading misinformation.
I'm not ready to be called out.
Speaker 1 (41:14):
That knits again.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
That guy got canceled for misinformation about dog knits. Wouldn't
put it past That would be a would you know what?
Speaker 1 (41:21):
There'd be a real low light because of all the
things that we've said on this podcast.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
If that's what gets us canceled, I think that there's
a real problem in the world.
Speaker 3 (41:28):
Julia gets taken off me because I've shaved her from lice.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
Okay, look, my highlight for the week is that, yes,
it was Matt's birthday on the weekend, and I you know,
as much as I might have forgotten earlier in the week,
we had a really nice day. We went out for
a date night on the Sunday night under much dress.
We have like our one staple restaurant that we.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
This is not sponsored.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
We wrote our wedding vals there. We've been there for
every significant birthday dinner or Christmas dinner.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
I made ask her there for my Engagementrit hated it.
It was so bad that night I know it was
a miss. It was a miss, but it was not Yea,
I was confused by your obsessions.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
Why I love it? Do you know why?
Speaker 2 (42:04):
I think because it's small and intimate and like for me,
it just feels like a special date place because we
have such good memories.
Speaker 3 (42:09):
At Its really stressful because they had like a rotating menu,
but not like Nightly. It was like last minute to
order before we change it, and then they changed the
menu and then ten minutes later. It was like I
felt like it was a willly wont go.
Speaker 1 (42:18):
No, that's not true. They changed. They changed the menu
once a week. Anyway, I loved it.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
We had a really nice night and it was just
like Matt and I don't get as much time as
what we used to shock horror, no surprise, to have
one on one time together. And that's because do you
just talk about the kids? No, No, we talk about everything.
But the thing is is like, not only are we
with the kids all the time, we're also with Matt's
um all the time.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
Because at the end of.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
The day when we unwind and everyone's sitting on the couch,
like we're all together. And I absolutely love it, but
you know, sometimes Matt and I don't spend it's I
never feel like I'm missing out on anything. But then
every so often I realized, like we haven't spent quality
time just talking to each other or hanging out.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
And definitely a different convo with your mum's there.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Ah, to be fair, they talk about everything in front
of it each other. But yeah, I mean like it
was a really nice night. I really loved it and
we had a great time. Now school holidays and going
down to a La dalla and I'm thrilled about that
as well.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
Okay, what was your suck?
Speaker 3 (43:09):
Well?
Speaker 1 (43:09):
Ben left?
Speaker 3 (43:10):
Ben left, my husband left, Yeah, my husband left. My
house is so cold. There's two in one like my house.
I don't know if we've spoken about this year. Every
year people message me and they're like, why are you
wearing a snowsuit and a beanie inside while you're cooking?
And if you've been in my house slash Laura's old house,
it is unlike anything I've experienced.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
I've been saying, you've been living in that house for
four years now three years.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
You just need to get a gas heat.
Speaker 3 (43:34):
You pay my gas. I can't add it to the
gas bild.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
You just reminded me.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
He's like, yeah, I am your meat. I'm gonna add it.
I'm gonna get multiple gas heaters to the house. No,
do you know who's the funniest relationship with us? Because
neither of us can be bold to change the gas bill.
Laura just pays it and then invoice she pays my
gas bill invoices me that I pay her for my
gas bill.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
It's so it just shows who we are at our core. Yeah,
but disorganized.
Speaker 3 (43:56):
Yeah, my suck is definitely Ben leaving and being freezing
my suite would be. I want to have two. One
is that I am the new face of Lorna Jane campaign,
which is really yeah, which is really exciting because it's
like a brand I love and aware for so long
and I got to do a really cool campaign with them,
So that's really cool. So that's just it's not the
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face forever. It's just this little campaign for winter. And
I am going back to the Gold Coast to see
my sister and little baby Maya, and that's where I'm
not going overseas for this holiday. Ben and I we
only get those minimal holidays, but there's no point for
this one. It's a week and I just it's too
far to go for a couple of days. So unfortunately,
I've had to make other arrangements. So I'm going to
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go and see my sister again. So that's my sweet
even though it hasn't happened yet. Anyway, well, it's time
to look forward to now.
Speaker 1 (44:45):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (44:45):
We'll update you about everything holiday wise and life wise
when we come back. And if you haven't joined their
Life on Cut discussion group, you want to join in
any of the conversations. If you have anything to add
to what we spoke about today about the Charlie's then
the wrong, if you want to tell us how you
say her name, whatever, you can join the conversation in
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have full episodes up on YouTube, and also join our
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Speaker 3 (45:15):
We will be doing a giveaway on the YouTube when
we hit twenty thousand, so you are gonna want to
go and follow because it could be you.
Speaker 1 (45:21):
I didn't even know that we were doing that. Great,
thank you for telling me.
Speaker 3 (45:24):
I did it right now.
Speaker 4 (45:26):
Whoo, anyway, guys, you know the drill to your mumdot
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