March 14, 2025 • 40 mins
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- Hailey Bieber was caught allegedly liking a shady post about Selena Gomez
- When did you accidentally like or follow?
- Laura's friend had a VERY unfortunate word mix up
- An investigation into why people love to go back to their exes (*cough* Ben Affleck)
- Lola has (almost) learned her ABCs and it is VERY cute
- When did you celebrate prematurely?
- Britt and Laura received a gift that feels a little.......too old for them
- There's a new study that says that you shouldn't wear pyjamas to bed
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and
welcome back to another episode of Life.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm Cut, I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and this is.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Our radio show, The Pickup, where we package up all
the best bits that was on air this week and
we bring them here to you.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Our life is question. This is something we do talk
about in the episode today. If you won the lotto, Laura,
would you quit?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
How much? Are we talking?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Fifty meal?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
If I won fifty million dollars, I'd take a break,
like i'd have a holiday.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Would you give me anything?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah? We joked about this recently.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
It's like, if you win the lottery, will you give
me money because you took off holiday?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
But also that wasn't joking.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
I was a genuine question because.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It impedes my earning capacity.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
It does, because if you leave, I can't earn as much.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Yeah, it's true. It's true. You're connected to me forever
you need.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Me, so you'd swing me? What three mel?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Four mel five? If I won fifty k five seven?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Nah?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Three three million, five five five k?
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:06):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (01:08):
I met five steps five K.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I meant five million.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
But like that type of money is like so obscene
that my brain was like thousand, yeah, five million, for sure.
I think you'd be fine with five million brit Look,
the reason.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
Why you just missed for.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
I got my mouths to feed. The reason why we're talking
about this is you brought a very funny news story
that has been circulating around for a long time. But
it's kind of like been uncovered from the depths again as.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
A man that jumps the gun when he thought he
won the lotto. I don't want to give too much
away because it's the story of the year.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
It's been the story of three years, so it seems.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
But look, if you found out that you ever win
the lotto, and this is like a pre warning to
anyone who's like out there who enters, just don't celebrate
until you're absolutely certain that that money's in your bank.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
Account, until it is in there, until you have seen
those dollars go up.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
That would be my advice one hundred percent.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Also, I shared and look, I know that this is
kind of reminisce of like a parent there's just like
a little bit too proud of their kids and he's
trying to force you into watching photos of them at
like a party, but I kind of did that live
on air this week. So Lola has learned to sing
her ABC's.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
It's very cute.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I'm not even sure if it's like an age appropriate
milestone or she should already have it down pat at like.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Four, is it late? No, I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
She's not even just turned four.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Kids like learn that stuff at all different phases, like yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Marley was doing multiplications at that age, but.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Like Lola, she literally she was like reading the dictionary.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
We're rude of seventy nine, two years old.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
And Lola's like, just just chill.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
She's like ABC's, man, I got this dumb CDA whatever.
Even with her, sometimes I'll be like, hey, Lola, what's
this letter? And she'll be like apple, and I'm like, no, no, no,
but what's the letter for the apple? And she'll go,
see like, we're so far, we're so far from where
we need to be, far from school, know how to
get there. But anyway, she looks she's learned the alphabet
(03:02):
not well, but it's very cute.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Well, she's learned the rhythm to the alphabet.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
We'll say that, nah, I reckon, she's learnt like sixty percent.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Yeah, actually I'd give her more.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I reckon She's like seventy five is shady.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
But she does it with the confidence of a child
who knows it all well. And that's what I love
about her, because like it doesn't matter what it is.
It's like she will do it with one hundred and
ten percent confidence.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Swim.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
No, she can't, but she tries with one hundred and
ten percent confidence.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
But that's not half the battle in life. Fake it
to your make it. That's where that's saying.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Is if she can convince her teacher that she knows
the alphabet, which she absolutely doesn't, then she's going to
be just fine. You know what.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
She's going to be good at debate.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
She's going to be so good at debate class manipulation,
so long as she can learn.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
To speak.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
I before he Oh look, there's a lot more coming
off in this show. It was a fun one and
coming up.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Now, this is the.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Beef that is just keeps on giving. It's the beef
between Bailey.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
That's not the right saying.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
The gift that kids not the beef doesn't keep giving
it the butcher.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
No, but it's like it's a beef that's never ending.
One might say, Okay, maybe that's a better way of
putting it.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
It's like a string of sausages.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Okay, Hailey Beaber Selena Gomez.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Everyone was speculating that there was a crossover between Hailey
Beaber and Selena Gomez when they were dating.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Justin Bieber, I just want to put my two cents
in quickly.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Does anyone go for a procuse me?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Anyone care?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Probably?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yeah. I'm on this show as a host, so I'm
hoping that someone cares what I have to say.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
My two cents.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
He is. I don't think it's beef between them. I
think it's one sided beef. I think it's Hailey Beaber.
I think Selena Gomez is fine with it. She's down,
she's moved on with the life, and Hailey cannot let go.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Yes, I agree, Selena. How do you care what happens?
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I do?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I do? I do? I thought you were going to talk.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
About the overlap of their relationship from like five years ago. Okay,
Fanny Blanco and Selena obviously moved on.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
They're happy.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
They're so happy and in love that they're doing really
cringe photo shoots.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Together because they don't care.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
They just want to like explore their happiness and in
loveness here. So there's these photos that are going around
and it's like Selena's kind of half naked and she's
got a finger in Benny Blanco's mouth, and then she's
laying down on the ground and she's got her feet
on his face.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Objectively, they're kind of a.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Bit odd the photos, right, but I think they're cute.
But they clearly love each other so much and like
who cares. So there's a TikToker who's created a compilation
of all of these pictures and she's written, if I
had to see these, so do you?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
That's the caption.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Now, Hailey Bieber has liked the very.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Catty posts that this woman's put together. Have listened to this.
Speaker 7 (05:33):
Hailey Bieber herself liked my TikTok. I feel like this
is definitive proof that when Hailey Bieber.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Is like, oh, it's all love, it's all good.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
We have absolutely no beef, everything is completely fine, she's lying.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
So I don't think that there is any like reality
or any world where she's purposely liked this. I think
she's been scrolling through she's seen something she lingered too
long on tik.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I know that she knows what it was, but I.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Don't think she meant to like it, because I don't
think that anyone who is as much of a public
figure as what Hailey Bieber is would want this sort
of thing to come back up again.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I disagree.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
You think she don't be She has done this so
many times that you would be more careful. This is
an active decision to double tap that love.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
I just think it's so deeply petty, Like surely no
one is that petty.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I say this because I feel.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Like I've made a lot of mistakes on social media
over the years, and I think it's really easy to do.
So it's really easy to accidentally like a photo that
you didn't mean to like.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It happens many moons ago. So I was a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
I don't want to say I was obsessed, because I
wasn't obsessed, but I was very interested in my current boyfriends.
So okay, I was very interested in my current boyfriend's
ex girlfriend. He's not my current boyfriend anymore. I'm now married,
I've moved on. This was my twenties at the time.
At the time, my boyfriend at the times ex girlfriend.
The reason for that is because there had been like
a bit of crossover, kind of similar to Hailey and Selena, Yeah,
(06:58):
very similar. He had loved to me about it, and
she was like always posting things that were kind of
cryptic and for him, and it was very messy, but
I was like hooked on the drama of it, so
I would always look up her Facebook profile.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
But you went with him.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Yeah, he was my boyfriend of like six months when
she was the ex, and she was the ex. So
this one day I went to look up her profile
and Facebook and then I got distracted and I had
to go to work, like I just typed it in
off I went, and then I went to check my phone,
which has been sitting in the pigeonhole at work, and
I had all these miscalls from my boyfriend and also
all these messages from people on Facebook. How long we girls,
(07:34):
is that you had to put your phone in a
pigeon hole. I was a waitress, okay. So I had
updated my status with her.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Full name, her entire name, just Hannah Chuck, and I'd updated.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
My status press post as my current boyfriend's ex girlfriend's name.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
I'm deceased.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
I hated myself.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
I'm sure a lot of me waited you, he.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Called me, and I'll never forget it.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
He goes, I don't know what was going on in
your life this morning, but you might want to take
down your status update.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
And I went on there and I was like, oh, yeah,
I hate myself so embarrassed for you. That's how Haley
Baber feels.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
That's definitely not the same thing.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
I remembered saying similar, but not quite as public.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
So mine was more internal.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
But I had been sort of seeing this guy and
I had a huge, huge crush on him, and he
started dating this new girl too, this like hot little
blonde thing, and I became like so also equally interested
in her life.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Not obsess just very interested.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Yeah, and so I remember looking her up on Facebook too.
I don't even use Facebook now, but I remember looking
her up on Facebook trying to see it, and then
she was private. I can't see anything, so it's no
point left. It got on with it, and he messaged
me later from like another country and he's like, why
are you trying to like infiltrate my relationship? And I
was like, sorry, what He's like, why are you trying
(08:49):
to be friends with Sarah, and I was like, I
don't understand what you're talking about anyway.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I just had accidentally friend.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Requested up and so she's gone on and been like, hey,
why is your ex trying to be my friend?
Speaker 2 (09:00):
And he was like, I don't know, that's weird. Let
me talk.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
She's like, can you talk? I was so embarrassed and
I had to just own it. I was like, oh, look,
I was just trying to suss out who you were
dating and why she was so good.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I was brown so embarrassed.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I had to own it.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You really do everyone, if you've done this, if this
is something that's happened to you, give us a call,
because there are way worse stories than this. Britt, like,
we are not alone in this. Nai Beaber is not
alone in what she's just done either. Vanessa wrote into
the text line and she said that she accidentally responded
with a laughing emoji to someone's funeral.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Notice it was a total mistake.
Speaker 4 (09:31):
You can't recover from that unless you say you think
that they're tears. But even then, just to throw away
emoji isn't enough for a funeral announcement.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Like, you need words, you need dialogue. I don't think
you just need pictures. Okay, Yeah, you could get out
of that. You could say I thought that was sad.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
I doubt it all right, Hannah wrote in took a
video of why Hannah took a video of myself doing
a huge fart to send her some friends, but I
accidentally posted on my story.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Don't get that content away for free? How are you
silly being hang on?
Speaker 4 (10:03):
What groups of young females are sending farts to each other?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Genuinely, I'm not going to.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yuck anyone's yung I am.
Speaker 5 (10:10):
If you send me a fart, I'll block you.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
I don't look. We've got Molly on the line. Molly,
what did you accidentally do?
Speaker 8 (10:17):
So?
Speaker 9 (10:18):
I had a friend her ex messaged her like three
weeks prior to me seeing her, asked him to catch up,
and she was like, hell no. Three weeks later she's
showing me the messages and I accidentally sent him a
thumbs up from her account.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Three weeks later, after hell no, it's okay, I've how
to change your thoughts?
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Did he right back?
Speaker 9 (10:42):
He did, and she really just had to pretend that
she didn't know what happened and then just stop replying.
I attended like.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
It say to you more so rather than what did
she say to him?
Speaker 9 (10:52):
Look, I'm probably the joker of the group, so if
anyone was going to do it on purpose, was probably
going to be me. And I was like, no, I
swear I won't and it accidentally just brushed it, and
I've just gone, oh, I'm so sorry. We are still friends.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
We managed to laugh at all, So hang on, you
accidentally clicked into emojis, responded with her thumbs up and
sent it with lots of accidental clicking.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
I think I'm calling beer. So did you mean to
do that?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
No?
Speaker 9 (11:18):
You know, like on the right how messenger already has
the thumbs up. Oh yeah, you react to the one click. Yep,
that's what I've done.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Likely story, easy to stay. We got Julia on the line. Julia,
what did you accidentally do?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
So?
Speaker 10 (11:32):
My mom was into stalking my brother's new girlfriend and
whilst trying to zoom in on a picture, accidentally double
tapped on Instagram and light it.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
No, that's such a rookie error.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
People who don't know how to use Instagram who try
and zoom, they.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
Need Instagram supervision. They can't just go double tapping all
the time.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Do you know what my mom did. This is I
mean not the same.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
But when the Instagram first came out, my mom didn't
really understand it, and so she used to comment on
my photos, but she didn't know it was public, so
it would literally just be like she was missed, didimy?
So she used to write to me like, hey, Bitty,
what time are you home for dinner tonight?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
She's it's all.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
Okay, like should write to me like it was a
private wall, but just on a page, and I'd have
to write back and be like, Mum, this stitch is fine, but.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
To text me, Julia, I had a very similar situation
to this happened to me, So this will make your
mom feel better. I was very casually dating a guy
for only about two or three weeks and his mum
friend requested me God.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
I was like, this is too much good. Thanks for
the call, Julia. See it's relatable. It happens to everyone.
Speaker 5 (12:33):
It absolutely happens to everyone.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
I think we need a new segment.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Maybe it can be a benchmark that's like phone files,
you know, like things that go wrong with the phones,
because so much stuff happens.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
I know, and you're not alone. We've all done it.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
On the weekend, I went to one of my beautiful
girlfriend's baby shower and I got into a very funny
conversation with another woman who was there, who was telling
me about something that had happened to her on the weekend.
And I have secondhand embarrassment for her. She's mom, she
was stressed, she's got two kids, like you know, she
had a six month old, like it's busy.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
And she was saying that she.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Had an SUV, like a bigger car, and there's rules
around And I didn't know this, but apparently there's rules
around loading zones.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
So if you have an.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Suv or bigger you can have up to fifteen minutes
in a loading zone without having to prove that you're
a work car or all, like you know, you're there
for trade or anything.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Well, even if you're not loading.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Yeah, so, oh, I didn't know this. Apparently you don't
get booked for fifteen minutes. It's like a little bit
of a it's like a little bit cheeky, but you
can get away with a very short drop off in
a loading zone area.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
News to me, News to everyone.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Maybe get an suv.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yeah, if you're driving an suv right now, jump on
into a loading zone fifteen minutes. So she had to
run into the into the chemist to go and get
nappies emergency nappies for her little six month old, realized
she didn't have any. It was like a very inconvenient
time of day. So she gets to the Chemist and
right out the front there's a loading zone. She's like, okay,
I'm just gonna nip in. So she pulls up, gets
(13:57):
a kid out of the car, runs in, gets nappy,
gets back into the car, knowing that she's got this
like fifteen minute time zone in a head. And when
she gets back to the car, it's a bit awkward
because there's a truck that's pulled up and he's waiting
there to go into the loading zone because he legitimately
is allowed to use it. So she gets into the
front seat and this guy comes up to the front
(14:18):
window and he goes, oh, look, what are you doing
parking here? You know you're meant to and she yells
at him through the window, I have fifteen minutes and
an STD, which is not what she meant to say.
She meant to say that she had an SUV, but
STD came out, which sounded even worse considering the fact
that she was right across from the chemist. Do you
know what, if anything, he's probably gonna let it go,
(14:41):
like the STD is probably where he's going back to.
She's got Sorry, ma'am, I didn't know he didn't come
in his rampant at the moment.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Off you go as you were.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
I'm sorry, But if you have fifteen minutes and an STD,
you can run into the chemists take twenty minutes bay.
Speaker 5 (14:53):
One hundred percent of your time.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
That's way better excuse than saying you've got an SUV.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Yeah, it's true. It's true.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Do you know what I do?
Speaker 11 (14:59):
It?
Speaker 2 (15:00):
And I only discovered it this year.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
We've spoken about it before, But I spent my whole
life thinking that the saying was nip it in the butt.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Yeah, no, I know this about you.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
You say it a lot nip it in the butt,
because I was grown woman straight in.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
That, buttole right in there, like on.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
The butthole, but like a cheeky little pinch on the butt,
like if you nip it in the butt, that that
person will hurry up and you'll get things going.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
So I always thought it was like nipp in the butt, like,
let's just get this going.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
And it wasn't until this year where I found out
it was bud. It makes less sense to me, Like,
it makes so much less sense to saying.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
I think it's to do with like cutting back a tree.
So if you like nip it in the I got
it now? Okay, alright, look, give us a call if
you haven't mistaken something, if you've accidentally used the wrong words,
we want to know about it. Maybe you also nipped
it in a butt, we want to hear about that too.
We've got Hailey on the line. Hailey, what did you confuse?
What did you get wrong?
Speaker 8 (15:52):
Hey?
Speaker 12 (15:52):
Girls?
Speaker 6 (15:53):
Yeah, until quite recently, I thought the saying was sad
in the duck. I know, I now feel bad that
this poor duck in my mind, was being stabbed instead
of the dark.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
How did a duck make sense to you?
Speaker 8 (16:07):
Like?
Speaker 2 (16:07):
Where did you think that saying came from? Stab that duck?
Speaker 6 (16:10):
I'm really not sure. I think I just misheard the
word one day and was like, you know what, that
makes sense?
Speaker 3 (16:15):
The call Hayley, Hi, Emma, what did you get wrong?
Speaker 11 (16:19):
It wasn't me, but it was my brother in law.
I had a phone conversation with him and he finished
it with from the gecko. So I was like, hahuh,
that's funny. I thought you said the gecko, and he's like,
here I did, and I said, you fool, it's from
the get go, not the getko. Yeah, so he was
like I always thought it didn't make sense. Now I
(16:41):
know why.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
I always wonder how, like myself included, how did we
get to like this part of adulthood?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
And no one ever called us on.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
It because maybe you didn't use it frequently enough, or like,
you know, if you say, like from the gecko, maybe
someone just thought they must have said get go, because
no normal person would say gecko.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
You know what else?
Speaker 4 (16:58):
I said far too long? I used to say someone's sneeze.
Because we didn't grow up in a religious family. I
always thought it was bless you, like b l e
sh bless you supposed.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
To say bless you cute? Yeah, no one ever corrected me.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
The story that everyone is gripped by is Ben Affleck
trying to rekindle his love life.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
I thought it was if I'm going to get a
stripp before my hand. No, I mean we've moved past
that one, okay.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
But the new story that everyone's gripped by is Ben
Affleck trying to rekindle his love with Jennifer Garner.
Speaker 5 (17:26):
We're arely not.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
So.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
There's been quite a.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Few articles that have come out off the back of
some relatively cute family photos, like it looks like they're
co parenting really well, they're getting along really well. And
then a undisclosed source has said that Ben would really
like to rekindle his relationship with Jennifer Garner. She's not
interested at the moment, but he holds hope that in
the future.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
That was that her public statement.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
More well, I'm currently not interesting, you know, come back,
circle back after the next gen, you know, when it's
an undisclosed source and it's just totally.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Made up by the journalists that actually no one's ever said.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
She's in a relationship. Yes, that's why she's not interested.
Speaker 5 (18:04):
She's very happy.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
She said.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
Okay, Well that's interesting because, like, I mean, he does
have a track record of this, right, Like he has
a track record of going back to exis very famously,
he married Jennifer Lopez after a what like twenty year hiatus. Yeah,
he's married a thirty five times now, Yeah, I know,
but blessed maybe they've really ended that now, like maybe
it's properly dead in the water.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
They're never getting back together the words.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
Of Taylor's getting that together.
Speaker 4 (18:28):
But I don't actually think, you know, I don't think
he pinballed between the gens as much as we think
he did.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
I think he kept going back to the same gen.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
But I don't think he's ex Jennifer Garner ever actually
took him back.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
No, I agree, But I do think it raises questions
because a lot of people do seem to gravitate back
to old relationships, even if those old relationships weren't very.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Good in the first place.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
It seems like sometimes we have this like very romanticized
memory around old relationships, or maybe they're just like an
easy springboard when you're lonely and like needing some to
fill a hole. Not really wow, feel a gap in
your heart like a life whole.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Yeah, I say this.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
There was a really interesting article that Body and Soul
published around this, and it was like a lot of
people talk about it as.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
Though it's like divine timing.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
The relationship didn't work out in the past, but maybe
in the future you come back together and you get
this second chance of love. That I often think it
just doesn't work out because I don't necessarily agree that
it's divine timing that one person slipped into the other
person's DMS. I think it's usually that one persons single
and you go back to familiarity, and usually you go
back to something that you have romanticized that it's like
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gonna be a better version, or you remember all the
best bits about the relationship, but you don't remember all
the crappy bits and all the reasons why you broke
up in the first place.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
It's the devil.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
You know, it's a comfort, it's easy. You've been there.
You know you can fall back into it. You don't
have to go and do the PowerPoint presentation again from
like this is where I grew up, this is what
I like, this is my job, this is my history.
Like you just pass all the bs. I don't know
if I agree with you so much. Because she was
talking about divine intervention. I had a friend who was
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like the pleb version of Jen and Ben.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Is in exactly what you want to be called in life.
Speaker 4 (20:09):
I mean, they're not in the public eye, they're just
normal people. But they got married at like nineteen twenty.
They were school sweethearts, and they were together for a
few years and then realized this is not it. We're
too young, Like we want different things, we're growing in
different directions. So they divorced proper, divorced, didn't stay in contact.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Like dated other people had other relations, not even like.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
Maintaining They were like, we don't We're not in each
other's lives, didn't follow each other on Instagram, like.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
They just moved on because they were young.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
And then probably a.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Decade later, she had had a relationship with someone else,
had had a baby, like fully moved on, and she
was in the supermarket in this new town and she
went down the aisle and she ran into her first
husband or when she was twenty and they're.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Like, oh my god, like how you being whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Like and he's like, oh, you got a kid and
she's like yeah, but she's like, we're not together anymore.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
They ended up remarrying and having more kids together. So
it's crazy, genuinely for them, was that right person, wrong
time they needed to go and live their lives.
Speaker 5 (21:05):
And then they came back together.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
They'd be married now for like eight nine years.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Yeah, But I think there's always exceptions to the rules,
but I'm a bit of a cynic about it. And
I think the reason for that is is because like
in my twenties, I was like the relationship ping pong.
So I would be in like a long term relationship.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
We would we would break up because.
Speaker 3 (21:24):
Obviously it was not a good relationship, it was not
going anywhere. Then I'd have like five years of dating
other people and one lonely night I'd be like, Oh,
what's that guy up to?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
And I'd go back.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
I often would end up redating people that I had
had long term relationships with.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Yeah, we have analyzed you over the years, though, because
you were a monkey brancher from relationships and if there
wasn't a new relationship for you to monkey branch to,
you monkey branch back.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
I did.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
Unfortunately, we don't need to psychoanalyze me on this show.
Speaker 4 (21:49):
We're already I've spent six years psychoanalyzing you.
Speaker 7 (21:51):
I know you.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
I was a hot mess in my twenties. Everyone it
was not good. Thank God for that Bachelor show. I
don't know whether I'm just having one of those very
proud parent moments you know when you find yourself sometimes,
or maybe you've been on the receiving end of this
brit where someone's like showing you photos of their kid
and you're thinking to yourself, please stop showing me photos.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
I'm on the receiving end of that daily with you.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Yeah, okay, you're so proud, But now I'm doing it
on national radio. So call me out if I'm self indulging.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
No, it is cute.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
Every so often they do things where you have these
real moments where like you realize that they've kind of
moved to a new phase or they're hitting new milestone,
and it's particularly cute now with Lola, she's only four
years old. I think one of the big things I've
loved about parenting, and like it's very small, but it's
something I find very very sweet, is that kids often
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say words the wrong way, and then one day they
figure it out and they say it the right way,
and then they never ever say that cute thing ever again.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Right, So, and.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
I no, I mean this, Like Lola used to say
boobooberries for blueberries, and it was adorable and I never
realized how much I was going to miss it until
one day she just started saying blueberries and she never
got it wrong again.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Where is this going.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Win a therapy session, So bees anymore?
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Are we mourning the lot that she can speak?
Speaker 1 (23:14):
She doesn't boober berries? My baby's growing up.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
No, she's just started to sing her ABC's now very
cute and important.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Yeah, she's just turned four.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
She doesn't sing them exactly correctly by any means, but
I almost don't want to correct her because it is
so cute.
Speaker 9 (23:29):
It is.
Speaker 5 (23:30):
You have to correct her. You can't send her off
for school for her whole life.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
Not knowing ABC's because you're holding on too boober Berry.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
I don't know my boober berries anymore, so now I
need my ABC's anyway. Have a listen to this. She's
so proud of herself. She performs it every day. And
I got it on record because it was the cutest
thing ever.
Speaker 8 (23:49):
Ready one two three ab cv ESD has said j
Jack Alan Marby here, ay yes, qib ws y n
Z Now I know you ABC. Next time we're teasing
with me. Oh that was amazing.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
I think she's.
Speaker 5 (24:12):
Sleep in there BWS the b one spirits.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
I think she spending too much time going there with
you guys.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
She's like, now I know your a b c's Like,
it's definitely not mine because this is I don't know
what I just made up, but that's where.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
You've been there to b B One spirits, it's very cute,
to be fair, I was following that along as it went.
Speaker 5 (24:32):
I reckon that was like ninety seven percent. There were
only a couple.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
Of I like how she really doubled the Q like
you know uv w b y s bring your own
d y y own, do.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
It yourself h l.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
O L to me, I've watched that video so many times.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
I know, no I'm birased. I find it like the
cutest thing in the world.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
But I do want to say this to parents because
I feel as though you missed them.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
What's the message?
Speaker 5 (24:59):
What's the message for? What is the story here?
Speaker 1 (25:02):
You miss the little.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Weird words that your kids used to say when they
were little, and also the way that they speak when
they little. They have such sweet little voices, and then
one day you look at your six year old you're like,
oh my god, you're a kid, Like you're not a
baby anymore.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
You look at your kid and they're doing drugs, they're
dropping out of school.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Hold on to those bibberberries.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
But I'm always recording the girls and like voice recording them.
I have little podcasts that I've done with them from
when they were little. So, like I would ask, trying
to replace me with your kids, I'm trying to get
a new co host. So one day when you move
overseas to me with your fiance, Lola Morley May has
stepan right in. Well, not not only worried after hearing that, no,
but what I mean is is, like I so encouraged.
(25:42):
I know everyone takes photos and everyone takes videos of
their kids, but I really encourage to record audio of
your children because their voices change so much and so
quickly over the years, and these little nuggets of memories
I think are just.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
As special as having the videos and everything else.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Like I love going back and listening to them answer
questions in their own weird little way, and then asking
them the same types of questions a year later and seeing,
like what's their responses as they've grown and they've changed.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
Well, I feel like if there's anything that you can
hold on to, it's the fact that your husband matmy
Jay still says s Niland says cynical, So there still
mistakes been.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Made in your family, and I record that as well.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
When your kids grow up. You've always got that.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
It's cue to when the four year old does it
as opposed to the thirty eight year old.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
But anyway, so today on the pickop, a bit of
a change of pace. But we're talking about what did
you celebrate prematurely?
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Now?
Speaker 2 (26:29):
The reason we're talking about this is because I'm.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Still unsure of the reason. To be perfectly honest.
Speaker 4 (26:35):
I stumbled across an article that I cannot confirm or
deny if it's even real, but it.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
Had me in his It had been hysterics.
Speaker 4 (26:45):
I want to think it's real, just because of how
funny the story is. It's gone viral over the last
couple of years, like it's not brand new, but it
keeps rearing its head, like every year it makes it comeback.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
It's made to come back now.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
And I was like, surely there's other people that have
celebrated prematurely. There is a guy in Africa who had
worked at the same job for like just say twenty years,
a very long time in and out, didn't love it,
had a problem with his boss.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
He did not like his job.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
He'd been slaving away yeap, but doing it because he
had to.
Speaker 5 (27:13):
Well, you got it.
Speaker 4 (27:13):
Right, you gotta work the money very very luckily, like
the odds were against him, but he won the lotto
like a huge sum of money, so he was totally one.
Speaker 5 (27:24):
So he was like, oh my god, I am out
of here.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
He goes to his boss's desk the same day quits,
pulls his pants down and takes a dump on his
boss's desk.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
Have a listen.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
No.
Speaker 13 (27:36):
After being told that he won the lottery jackpots, a
Western cape man peed all over the office floor of
his boss of over twenty three years and proceeded to
take a dump on his boss's office desk before quitting
his job on Friday morning.
Speaker 12 (27:49):
Now, when he went to go claim his winnings this morning,
he found that he had never won your politicians.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
Actually, the reporter's laugh is the funniest part. The video
is quite long. The reporter couldn't speak for like ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
He was in hysterics.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
So he did go and find out the next day
after taking said dump that he didn't in fact win,
and he's now unemployed.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Like he doesn't have a job, but he doesn't have money.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
He doesn't have a reference either. His boss isn't gonna
give him one. No, I look, can you blame him though.
Speaker 4 (28:23):
Like if you yes, you don't have to take a dump.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
But if you hated your job and you hated your
boss and you'd been there for twenty three years, twenty
three years.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Would you take a dump and you won the lot
when you.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Quit the podcast and radio A, You're gonna take a
dump on my desk.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
I'm not gonna take it dump in your desk.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
But I just like part of me thinks he probably
had this moment of like, I don't need this anymore,
Like screw them, I'm leveling this up. I've given away
two decades of my life. This await my poop, and
I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Give you a bit of my hellhole.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
I probably when I when I'm trying to think of it,
if I've ever like p i'maturely celebrate the snow big
thing that comes to mind. The only thing is that
it was a bit of an internal celebration. When I
was in the Bachelor finale.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
I thought I had it in the bag. I thought
I was like, I thought that was a bit.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Of a win.
Speaker 4 (29:12):
I was in a white dress, so I was the
last person there. I was like, you know what I reckon,
I've snagged myself a boyfriend, then he dumped me.
Speaker 5 (29:19):
So he took his own dump.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
That also just causn't you prematurely celebrating, Like he told
you that he was going to choose you the night
before and then within eight hours changed his mind.
Speaker 4 (29:30):
Not in so many words, I don't want that headline
getting out. He definitely didn't say I choose you, I
cho cho choose you.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
What did he say? Then?
Speaker 2 (29:36):
I can't imagine life without you?
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Something I can't remember My quote.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
That is like a typical dateline, I cannot imagine.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Life without you. Don't break up with you eight hours later.
Speaker 5 (29:45):
Don't take that quote either.
Speaker 4 (29:46):
It was just something that alluded to the fact of like,
I'm so glad we That was like I'm being so purtantic,
I'm so.
Speaker 5 (29:51):
Glad we met.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
I never thought i'd meet someone like you that we.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Connect with so well, Like something that basically alluded to
like it's you, Bibi, Hey, we've got emma on am
I have you celebrated something prematurely?
Speaker 10 (30:03):
Hey? Girls, I love this show, and yes I certainly have.
So I got offered a job and I was going
massive pay rise. This was going to be a six
figure job. As I was losing my mind of it.
I got so excited and I thought, with all that
money coming in, what am I going to do? I'm
going to be a new woman and some the guy
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who won the lottery, I was like, what am I
going to do? I've won the lottery. I want to
treat my parents. I think that's something we always go
back to. I want to do something for my parents
and stuffing me all the time. It's the least I
can do. They've never been on a cruise before, and
I was like, I'm going to treat them with a
little holiday away, buy am cruise trip. How cool am my?
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Yeah? Nailda.
Speaker 10 (30:48):
But it turns out I jumped the gun a little
bit and I can actually get the job. And so
with a deposit down on a cruise, and I've already
told my parents. I really had to do the call
of shame. Not only to my parents and tell them
they can't go on the cruise anymore. Oh, but I
had to call the booking company and try and get
my deposit back in.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Oh my god, it was terrible.
Speaker 5 (31:13):
Look.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
I question whether or not we should talk about this,
but I.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
Nah, I think we talk about It's funny I.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
Don't know whether or not I should be thrilled or offended,
Like I'm still sitting on the fence. I fluctuate between
the two. Recently, Britain, I came into work and as
a gift, it.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
Was a gift.
Speaker 5 (31:29):
It was a beautiful gift.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
Sitting on taking a big box, not gonna lie.
Speaker 5 (31:32):
I love a gift, love a surprise gift.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
Like especially when that gift is skincare. You do too,
britt Like you love a bit of skincare, sick for it.
So here is this big old box with skincare inside
from a brand that I had not heard of before,
mind you, But I was like cool, happy to try,
very excited about this. And I excitedly opened the box
and there were many layers, lots of packaging, and then
I got it out and I was like, okay, it's
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a serum.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Love serums, delightful.
Speaker 3 (32:00):
I need a bit of serum on my face that's
going to make me feel glowy and fresh.
Speaker 5 (32:03):
Quite a niche serum.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
And then I read the back of the box of
the serum that had been so generously sent to our work,
and it said this, it is a transformative serum designed
for women over forty navigating menopause. And I read that
and I was like, well, I'm still technically under VATY,
and I am, as far as i'm aware, I'm not
(32:25):
yet in menopause.
Speaker 5 (32:27):
I had to have a laugh because I was like.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
I also was like, this is a backhanded compliment. I mean, you, Laura,
I'm gonna say, I get it. You've got your kids.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
What do I scream menopause? Dude, I mean in kid's part,
not the age.
Speaker 5 (32:39):
But I'm like, cool for me, I'm publicly like, have
fertility issues. I'm doing IVF.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
I'm like, it's ivy menopause.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
Well, maybe I am. Maybe that's not why it's not
happening for me.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
Maybe I am in menial True, I joke, and it's
not a funny thing to joke about it.
Speaker 2 (32:52):
It's not at all. Take that back.
Speaker 5 (32:54):
No, I actually.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
Said to myself, maybe I am in perimenopause and that's
why they've sent it. But I was like, I'm publicly
trying to do IVF, and soone send me in menopause cream.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
I was like, have I missed the boat?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
I don't know. I got this, and my instant reaction
was to feel offended.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
And then I kind of checked myself and I was like,
why is it that, at thirty eight years old, I
find the idea of menopause so offensive because the reality
is so many women do go through early menopause or
they go through perimenopause can take up many years, and like,
forty is not far off. Like I turned thirty nine
in a couple of weeks, so like to be fair,
the brand is not far off being you know, aligned
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with the age that I'm at.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
I'm still thirty seven.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
But I think that there were.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
I am just want to say the referenttry there was.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
Something about receiving it that maybe it wasn't so much
even the menopause reference.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
I think there was something about it that made me
really realize my age.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
And I think I was like processing that in real
time because I also kind of I read it and
then I felt offended, and then I was like, Oh,
it looks good.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
I'll probably use it.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
Oh no, it looks like a brilliant cream. It's got
some really good things, and I think it's got some
good peptides in it. I'm one hundred percent going to
use it. Much as we loll and say we're not
in menopause. I think it would be really good for
us kids.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
Okay, here's my question. I mean, you don't have to
call up, you can if you want to, But would
you be offended? Is this a normal thing to be
offended byra were just taking this too personal?
Speaker 4 (34:14):
Well, now that you said out loud that you're about
to turn thirty nine and it's for forty year old.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
People, I grow up, Laura.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
Yeah, for you, I think that's a stretch for me
at thirty seven.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
I think it's I've got a couple of years left.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
I know.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
But maybe it's because, like, no female wants to be
aged up, Like we've been so conditioned to think that
being younger is better, younger skin is hotter, all this
sort of you know crap.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
But reality is is like.
Speaker 3 (34:37):
No one wants to be thought of as being older
than what they are. And I guess like receiving something
that's specifically targeted for women who are in a different
stage of life, a stage that we're all told we
should be frightened about, there's something that feels quite obvious
about it.
Speaker 2 (34:50):
Yeah. No, we are grateful, Thank you for the cream.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
Yeah, I'm processing anyway.
Speaker 3 (34:53):
If Cedar Phil wants to send some stuff my way,
I souse, that's fourteen year olds, right?
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Is that what you use when you're like young and
was head to.
Speaker 5 (35:00):
Keem's warehouse loads of stuff in there?
Speaker 3 (35:04):
There is I guess the kind of assumption that as
the longer in a relationship, the more that your love
life kind of dwindles and dies off.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
I don't think it's an assumption. I think it's pre standard.
Speaker 4 (35:14):
I think that's absolutely what happens, like you stay in love,
but maybe the chemistry and the one trip each other's
clothes off and all of the above sort of like
plateaus a little bit over time.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Yeah, And we talk about this quite a bit on
our podcast that we have, Life on Cut Podcasts, And
that's because I mean, it started off as a sex
and relationships podcast. So one of the big questions is, like,
how do you keep desire alive and a long term relationship?
Speaker 1 (35:35):
How do you keep the spark alive?
Speaker 5 (35:36):
Is it normal?
Speaker 1 (35:37):
Is it even possible to do so?
Speaker 3 (35:39):
And many of the experts that we've spoken to over
the years have said, yes, it is possible, but like
it requires burk blah blah blah, all that sort.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
Of stuff blah, blah blah.
Speaker 5 (35:47):
We don't need to tell you about that.
Speaker 1 (35:49):
We don't want you to keep you here to fix
your love life.
Speaker 3 (35:51):
But I did come across an interesting study and it
turns out maybe your pajamas have something to do with
the fact that your sex life is dwindling.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
Oh, we're gonna blame our pajamas now, no one is safe.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
I have a question, how do you sleep at night?
Speaker 2 (36:02):
Bread with my morals or my life choices?
Speaker 1 (36:05):
Well, how do you sleep at night?
Speaker 3 (36:07):
No, if you're because you obviously do long distance with
your partner Ben he lives overseas. But when you're together,
how do you sleep? Do you wear pajamas? Do you
wear a pair of undies?
Speaker 1 (36:15):
All?
Speaker 3 (36:15):
Right?
Speaker 2 (36:16):
In trap In?
Speaker 4 (36:17):
When I am at home alone, I sleep in underpants
and like a pajama top. Something that's comfortable, like a
really nice soft cotton is my choice.
Speaker 1 (36:27):
Love that airy breezy?
Speaker 4 (36:29):
Yeah, I love that, But I do like the legs
to be free, same because I want to kick around.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
I sleep in running.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Man not no g strings to bear.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
But you cannot sleep in a g banger. That's like
defying the rules of physics. So when when I'm with
my fiance, Ben, I'm either nude or just in undies,
but I never have a top half on ever, so
sometimes the undies are like a bit of a sexy
I don't say safety net.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
I was gonna say, it's more of a comfort.
Speaker 5 (36:57):
So sorry, am I giving for me?
Speaker 3 (37:00):
I mean my girl friends here. The thing is is
that there's a study that's coming. I'm in a long
term relationship with my loving husband, who I am very
comfortable with, and I sleep in underwear and a T
shirt pretty much every night.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
You sleep in gesturing, don't you No?
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Never, My body would not allow it. That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
After two kids far out, I'd never getting asleep. Lose
it anyway, that's too much information for everyone. But I
sleep in like an ugly T shirt, and I do
I know that this is like I shouldn't say it's
a protection mechanism, but it's like if I need to
go to sleep, I'm going to sleep. I'm not there
for fun times at night time. I just want to
get into bed, I want to roll over. I'm tired.
And I know that if I was to fall asleep
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completely nude, it would be misunderstood as giving a signal
that maybe I'd be more into other things than what
I am into my sleeping.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
I don't think it's given a signal.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
Hang on, what's the point of this chat.
Speaker 3 (37:51):
The point of this chat is this study that's come
out has said that wearing sleep wear like fleece, onesies,
flannel pj's. Yes, that it might make you feel relaxed,
but it is absolutely killing your sex life. It is
sending a message that attraction is not a priority. There's
a relationship coach, her name is Channa Bromley, and she's
said that when you choose comfort over seduction, it can
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impact the chemistry between you and your partner. And I
would agree, but I argue it's not always a bad thing.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
To be fair, I did exaggerate a lot.
Speaker 4 (38:21):
I actually have this really old grungey T shirt where
it's not really nice soft cotton pajamas.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
It's an old ac DC shirt.
Speaker 4 (38:27):
But when I'm with Ben walking around the house to
go to Ben, I will just put his clothes on.
So I think that that's probably pretty repulsive to him
to look at me in his own clothes. Nah, I
think guys like that's their own clothes.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Yeah, I think that that's fine. Is that hot? Maybe
I don't know. I wear Matt's clothes? Does he find out?
Who knows? Let's ask him.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
But apparently sixty two percent of people who continue to
sleep nude with their partners say that they have more
satisfying intimacy than those who wear I don't know, maybe
like your cozy Peter.
Speaker 1 (38:56):
Alexander pajamas have a bear on the front.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
I'm not convinced we needed a to figure out that
sleeping nakeds like you're more inclined to get it on
than sleeping in like old discussing clothes.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (39:06):
I just kind of think like, there's so many things
that we can feel guilty about. Surely, after ten years
of being with your partner, you're allowed to wear pajamas
that are just for comfort and aren't for sex appeal, Like,
not everything that you need to do should be about seduction.
Speaker 4 (39:21):
Why don't you go and try it out tonight, Laura,
see what happens, Go to bed, no shirt on little
g Banger, and report back, because I that's the only
way to really solidify this study.
Speaker 3 (39:31):
The problem that I have is that my husband comes
to bed too late, so I go to bed at
nine thirty at the moment do you, Yeah, nine thirty,
ten o'clock, But he comes to bed at eleven thirty
at night, and so like for me, my argument is
like that is an unrealistic expectation. If you come to
bed at eleven thirty at night, ain't nothing happening except sleeping.
Speaker 4 (39:47):
So if he comes to bed at nine thirty, it's on,
then yeah, then until nine thirty three, you've gotten.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
Till nine thirty, until nine forty five, that window is
not happening, and it's not happened about.
Speaker 5 (39:57):
The shirt's gone back on.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
Literally, Baba
Speaker 4 (40:02):
Bakamata badam Kaaba bakama
This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and
welcome back to another episode of Life.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
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Speaker 3 (00:12):
Our radio show, The Pickup, where we package up all
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we bring them here to you.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Our life is question. This is something we do talk
about in the episode today. If you won the lotto, Laura,
would you quit?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
How much? Are we talking?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Fifty meal?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
If I won fifty million dollars, I'd take a break,
like i'd have a holiday.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Would you give me anything?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah? We joked about this recently.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
It's like, if you win the lottery, will you give
me money because you took off holiday?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
But also that wasn't joking.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
I was a genuine question because.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It impedes my earning capacity.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
It does, because if you leave, I can't earn as much.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Yeah, it's true. It's true. You're connected to me forever
you need.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Me, so you'd swing me? What three mel?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Four mel five? If I won fifty k five seven?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Nah?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Three three million, five five five k?
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:06):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (01:08):
I met five steps five K.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I meant five million.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
But like that type of money is like so obscene
that my brain was like thousand, yeah, five million, for sure.
I think you'd be fine with five million brit Look,
the reason.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
Why you just missed for.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
I got my mouths to feed. The reason why we're talking
about this is you brought a very funny news story
that has been circulating around for a long time. But
it's kind of like been uncovered from the depths again as.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
A man that jumps the gun when he thought he
won the lotto. I don't want to give too much
away because it's the story of the year.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
It's been the story of three years, so it seems.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
But look, if you found out that you ever win
the lotto, and this is like a pre warning to
anyone who's like out there who enters, just don't celebrate
until you're absolutely certain that that money's in your bank.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
Account, until it is in there, until you have seen
those dollars go up.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
That would be my advice one hundred percent.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Also, I shared and look, I know that this is
kind of reminisce of like a parent there's just like
a little bit too proud of their kids and he's
trying to force you into watching photos of them at
like a party, but I kind of did that live
on air this week. So Lola has learned to sing
her ABC's.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
It's very cute.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I'm not even sure if it's like an age appropriate
milestone or she should already have it down pat at like.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Four, is it late? No, I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
She's not even just turned four.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Kids like learn that stuff at all different phases, like yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Marley was doing multiplications at that age, but.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Like Lola, she literally she was like reading the dictionary.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
We're rude of seventy nine, two years old.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
And Lola's like, just just chill.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
She's like ABC's, man, I got this dumb CDA whatever.
Even with her, sometimes I'll be like, hey, Lola, what's
this letter? And she'll be like apple, and I'm like, no, no, no,
but what's the letter for the apple? And she'll go,
see like, we're so far, we're so far from where
we need to be, far from school, know how to
get there. But anyway, she looks she's learned the alphabet
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not well, but it's very cute.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Well, she's learned the rhythm to the alphabet.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
We'll say that, nah, I reckon, she's learnt like sixty percent.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Yeah, actually I'd give her more.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I reckon She's like seventy five is shady.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
But she does it with the confidence of a child
who knows it all well. And that's what I love
about her, because like it doesn't matter what it is.
It's like she will do it with one hundred and
ten percent confidence.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Swim.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
No, she can't, but she tries with one hundred and
ten percent confidence.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
But that's not half the battle in life. Fake it
to your make it. That's where that's saying.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Is if she can convince her teacher that she knows
the alphabet, which she absolutely doesn't, then she's going to
be just fine. You know what.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
She's going to be good at debate.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
She's going to be so good at debate class manipulation,
so long as she can learn.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
To speak.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
I before he Oh look, there's a lot more coming
off in this show. It was a fun one and
coming up.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Now, this is the.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Beef that is just keeps on giving. It's the beef
between Bailey.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
That's not the right saying.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
The gift that kids not the beef doesn't keep giving
it the butcher.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
No, but it's like it's a beef that's never ending.
One might say, Okay, maybe that's a better way of
putting it.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
It's like a string of sausages.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Okay, Hailey Beaber Selena Gomez.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Everyone was speculating that there was a crossover between Hailey
Beaber and Selena Gomez when they were dating.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Justin Bieber, I just want to put my two cents
in quickly.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Does anyone go for a procuse me?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Anyone care?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Probably?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yeah. I'm on this show as a host, so I'm
hoping that someone cares what I have to say.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
My two cents.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
He is. I don't think it's beef between them. I
think it's one sided beef. I think it's Hailey Beaber.
I think Selena Gomez is fine with it. She's down,
she's moved on with the life, and Hailey cannot let go.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Yes, I agree, Selena. How do you care what happens?
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I do?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I do? I do? I thought you were going to talk.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
About the overlap of their relationship from like five years ago. Okay,
Fanny Blanco and Selena obviously moved on.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
They're happy.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
They're so happy and in love that they're doing really
cringe photo shoots.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Together because they don't care.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
They just want to like explore their happiness and in
loveness here. So there's these photos that are going around
and it's like Selena's kind of half naked and she's
got a finger in Benny Blanco's mouth, and then she's
laying down on the ground and she's got her feet
on his face.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Objectively, they're kind of a.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Bit odd the photos, right, but I think they're cute.
But they clearly love each other so much and like
who cares. So there's a TikToker who's created a compilation
of all of these pictures and she's written, if I
had to see these, so do you?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
That's the caption.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Now, Hailey Bieber has liked the very.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Catty posts that this woman's put together. Have listened to this.
Speaker 7 (05:33):
Hailey Bieber herself liked my TikTok. I feel like this
is definitive proof that when Hailey Bieber.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Is like, oh, it's all love, it's all good.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
We have absolutely no beef, everything is completely fine, she's lying.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
So I don't think that there is any like reality
or any world where she's purposely liked this. I think
she's been scrolling through she's seen something she lingered too
long on tik.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I know that she knows what it was, but I.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Don't think she meant to like it, because I don't
think that anyone who is as much of a public
figure as what Hailey Bieber is would want this sort
of thing to come back up again.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I disagree.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
You think she don't be She has done this so
many times that you would be more careful. This is
an active decision to double tap that love.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
I just think it's so deeply petty, Like surely no
one is that petty.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I say this because I feel.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Like I've made a lot of mistakes on social media
over the years, and I think it's really easy to do.
So it's really easy to accidentally like a photo that
you didn't mean to like.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It happens many moons ago. So I was a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
I don't want to say I was obsessed, because I
wasn't obsessed, but I was very interested in my current boyfriends.
So okay, I was very interested in my current boyfriend's
ex girlfriend. He's not my current boyfriend anymore. I'm now married,
I've moved on. This was my twenties at the time.
At the time, my boyfriend at the times ex girlfriend.
The reason for that is because there had been like
a bit of crossover, kind of similar to Hailey and Selena, Yeah,
(06:58):
very similar. He had loved to me about it, and
she was like always posting things that were kind of
cryptic and for him, and it was very messy, but
I was like hooked on the drama of it, so
I would always look up her Facebook profile.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
But you went with him.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Yeah, he was my boyfriend of like six months when
she was the ex, and she was the ex. So
this one day I went to look up her profile
and Facebook and then I got distracted and I had
to go to work, like I just typed it in
off I went, and then I went to check my phone,
which has been sitting in the pigeonhole at work, and
I had all these miscalls from my boyfriend and also
all these messages from people on Facebook. How long we girls,
(07:34):
is that you had to put your phone in a
pigeon hole. I was a waitress, okay. So I had
updated my status with her.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Full name, her entire name, just Hannah Chuck, and I'd updated.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
My status press post as my current boyfriend's ex girlfriend's name.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
I'm deceased.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
I hated myself.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
I'm sure a lot of me waited you, he.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Called me, and I'll never forget it.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
He goes, I don't know what was going on in
your life this morning, but you might want to take
down your status update.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
And I went on there and I was like, oh, yeah,
I hate myself so embarrassed for you. That's how Haley
Baber feels.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
That's definitely not the same thing.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
I remembered saying similar, but not quite as public.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
So mine was more internal.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
But I had been sort of seeing this guy and
I had a huge, huge crush on him, and he
started dating this new girl too, this like hot little
blonde thing, and I became like so also equally interested
in her life.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Not obsess just very interested.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Yeah, and so I remember looking her up on Facebook too.
I don't even use Facebook now, but I remember looking
her up on Facebook trying to see it, and then
she was private. I can't see anything, so it's no
point left. It got on with it, and he messaged
me later from like another country and he's like, why
are you trying to like infiltrate my relationship? And I
was like, sorry, what He's like, why are you trying
(08:49):
to be friends with Sarah, and I was like, I
don't understand what you're talking about anyway.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I just had accidentally friend.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Requested up and so she's gone on and been like, hey,
why is your ex trying to be my friend?
Speaker 2 (09:00):
And he was like, I don't know, that's weird. Let
me talk.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
She's like, can you talk? I was so embarrassed and
I had to just own it. I was like, oh, look,
I was just trying to suss out who you were
dating and why she was so good.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I was brown so embarrassed.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I had to own it.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You really do everyone, if you've done this, if this
is something that's happened to you, give us a call,
because there are way worse stories than this. Britt, like,
we are not alone in this. Nai Beaber is not
alone in what she's just done either. Vanessa wrote into
the text line and she said that she accidentally responded
with a laughing emoji to someone's funeral.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Notice it was a total mistake.
Speaker 4 (09:31):
You can't recover from that unless you say you think
that they're tears. But even then, just to throw away
emoji isn't enough for a funeral announcement.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Like, you need words, you need dialogue. I don't think
you just need pictures. Okay, Yeah, you could get out
of that. You could say I thought that was sad.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
I doubt it all right, Hannah wrote in took a
video of why Hannah took a video of myself doing
a huge fart to send her some friends, but I
accidentally posted on my story.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Don't get that content away for free? How are you
silly being hang on?
Speaker 4 (10:03):
What groups of young females are sending farts to each other?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Genuinely, I'm not going to.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yuck anyone's yung I am.
Speaker 5 (10:10):
If you send me a fart, I'll block you.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
I don't look. We've got Molly on the line. Molly,
what did you accidentally do?
Speaker 8 (10:17):
So?
Speaker 9 (10:18):
I had a friend her ex messaged her like three
weeks prior to me seeing her, asked him to catch up,
and she was like, hell no. Three weeks later she's
showing me the messages and I accidentally sent him a
thumbs up from her account.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Three weeks later, after hell no, it's okay, I've how
to change your thoughts?
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Did he right back?
Speaker 9 (10:42):
He did, and she really just had to pretend that
she didn't know what happened and then just stop replying.
I attended like.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
It say to you more so rather than what did
she say to him?
Speaker 9 (10:52):
Look, I'm probably the joker of the group, so if
anyone was going to do it on purpose, was probably
going to be me. And I was like, no, I
swear I won't and it accidentally just brushed it, and
I've just gone, oh, I'm so sorry. We are still friends.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
We managed to laugh at all, So hang on, you
accidentally clicked into emojis, responded with her thumbs up and
sent it with lots of accidental clicking.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
I think I'm calling beer. So did you mean to
do that?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
No?
Speaker 9 (11:18):
You know, like on the right how messenger already has
the thumbs up. Oh yeah, you react to the one click. Yep,
that's what I've done.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Likely story, easy to stay. We got Julia on the line. Julia,
what did you accidentally do?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
So?
Speaker 10 (11:32):
My mom was into stalking my brother's new girlfriend and
whilst trying to zoom in on a picture, accidentally double
tapped on Instagram and light it.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
No, that's such a rookie error.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
People who don't know how to use Instagram who try
and zoom, they.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
Need Instagram supervision. They can't just go double tapping all
the time.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Do you know what my mom did. This is I
mean not the same.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
But when the Instagram first came out, my mom didn't
really understand it, and so she used to comment on
my photos, but she didn't know it was public, so
it would literally just be like she was missed, didimy?
So she used to write to me like, hey, Bitty,
what time are you home for dinner tonight?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
She's it's all.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
Okay, like should write to me like it was a
private wall, but just on a page, and I'd have
to write back and be like, Mum, this stitch is fine, but.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
To text me, Julia, I had a very similar situation
to this happened to me, So this will make your
mom feel better. I was very casually dating a guy
for only about two or three weeks and his mum
friend requested me God.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
I was like, this is too much good. Thanks for
the call, Julia. See it's relatable. It happens to everyone.
Speaker 5 (12:33):
It absolutely happens to everyone.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
I think we need a new segment.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Maybe it can be a benchmark that's like phone files,
you know, like things that go wrong with the phones,
because so much stuff happens.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
I know, and you're not alone. We've all done it.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
On the weekend, I went to one of my beautiful
girlfriend's baby shower and I got into a very funny
conversation with another woman who was there, who was telling
me about something that had happened to her on the weekend.
And I have secondhand embarrassment for her. She's mom, she
was stressed, she's got two kids, like you know, she
had a six month old, like it's busy.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
And she was saying that she.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Had an SUV, like a bigger car, and there's rules
around And I didn't know this, but apparently there's rules
around loading zones.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
So if you have an.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Suv or bigger you can have up to fifteen minutes
in a loading zone without having to prove that you're
a work car or all, like you know, you're there
for trade or anything.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Well, even if you're not loading.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Yeah, so, oh, I didn't know this. Apparently you don't
get booked for fifteen minutes. It's like a little bit
of a it's like a little bit cheeky, but you
can get away with a very short drop off in
a loading zone area.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
News to me, News to everyone.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Maybe get an suv.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yeah, if you're driving an suv right now, jump on
into a loading zone fifteen minutes. So she had to
run into the into the chemist to go and get
nappies emergency nappies for her little six month old, realized
she didn't have any. It was like a very inconvenient
time of day. So she gets to the Chemist and
right out the front there's a loading zone. She's like, okay,
I'm just gonna nip in. So she pulls up, gets
(13:57):
a kid out of the car, runs in, gets nappy,
gets back into the car, knowing that she's got this
like fifteen minute time zone in a head. And when
she gets back to the car, it's a bit awkward
because there's a truck that's pulled up and he's waiting
there to go into the loading zone because he legitimately
is allowed to use it. So she gets into the
front seat and this guy comes up to the front
(14:18):
window and he goes, oh, look, what are you doing
parking here? You know you're meant to and she yells
at him through the window, I have fifteen minutes and
an STD, which is not what she meant to say.
She meant to say that she had an SUV, but
STD came out, which sounded even worse considering the fact
that she was right across from the chemist. Do you
know what, if anything, he's probably gonna let it go,
(14:41):
like the STD is probably where he's going back to.
She's got Sorry, ma'am, I didn't know he didn't come
in his rampant at the moment.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Off you go as you were.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
I'm sorry, But if you have fifteen minutes and an STD,
you can run into the chemists take twenty minutes bay.
Speaker 5 (14:53):
One hundred percent of your time.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
That's way better excuse than saying you've got an SUV.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Yeah, it's true. It's true.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Do you know what I do?
Speaker 11 (14:59):
It?
Speaker 2 (15:00):
And I only discovered it this year.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
We've spoken about it before, But I spent my whole
life thinking that the saying was nip it in the butt.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Yeah, no, I know this about you.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
You say it a lot nip it in the butt,
because I was grown woman straight in.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
That, buttole right in there, like on.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
The butthole, but like a cheeky little pinch on the butt,
like if you nip it in the butt, that that
person will hurry up and you'll get things going.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
So I always thought it was like nipp in the butt, like,
let's just get this going.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
And it wasn't until this year where I found out
it was bud. It makes less sense to me, Like,
it makes so much less sense to saying.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
I think it's to do with like cutting back a tree.
So if you like nip it in the I got
it now? Okay, alright, look, give us a call if
you haven't mistaken something, if you've accidentally used the wrong words,
we want to know about it. Maybe you also nipped
it in a butt, we want to hear about that too.
We've got Hailey on the line. Hailey, what did you confuse?
What did you get wrong?
Speaker 8 (15:52):
Hey?
Speaker 12 (15:52):
Girls?
Speaker 6 (15:53):
Yeah, until quite recently, I thought the saying was sad
in the duck. I know, I now feel bad that
this poor duck in my mind, was being stabbed instead
of the dark.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
How did a duck make sense to you?
Speaker 8 (16:07):
Like?
Speaker 2 (16:07):
Where did you think that saying came from? Stab that duck?
Speaker 6 (16:10):
I'm really not sure. I think I just misheard the
word one day and was like, you know what, that
makes sense?
Speaker 3 (16:15):
The call Hayley, Hi, Emma, what did you get wrong?
Speaker 11 (16:19):
It wasn't me, but it was my brother in law.
I had a phone conversation with him and he finished
it with from the gecko. So I was like, hahuh,
that's funny. I thought you said the gecko, and he's like,
here I did, and I said, you fool, it's from
the get go, not the getko. Yeah, so he was
like I always thought it didn't make sense. Now I
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know why.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
I always wonder how, like myself included, how did we
get to like this part of adulthood?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
And no one ever called us on.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
It because maybe you didn't use it frequently enough, or like,
you know, if you say, like from the gecko, maybe
someone just thought they must have said get go, because
no normal person would say gecko.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
You know what else?
Speaker 4 (16:58):
I said far too long? I used to say someone's sneeze.
Because we didn't grow up in a religious family. I
always thought it was bless you, like b l e
sh bless you supposed.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
To say bless you cute? Yeah, no one ever corrected me.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
The story that everyone is gripped by is Ben Affleck
trying to rekindle his love life.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
I thought it was if I'm going to get a
stripp before my hand. No, I mean we've moved past
that one, okay.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
But the new story that everyone's gripped by is Ben
Affleck trying to rekindle his love with Jennifer Garner.
Speaker 5 (17:26):
We're arely not.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
So.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
There's been quite a.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Few articles that have come out off the back of
some relatively cute family photos, like it looks like they're
co parenting really well, they're getting along really well. And
then a undisclosed source has said that Ben would really
like to rekindle his relationship with Jennifer Garner. She's not
interested at the moment, but he holds hope that in
the future.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
That was that her public statement.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
More well, I'm currently not interesting, you know, come back,
circle back after the next gen, you know, when it's
an undisclosed source and it's just totally.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Made up by the journalists that actually no one's ever said.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
She's in a relationship. Yes, that's why she's not interested.
Speaker 5 (18:04):
She's very happy.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
She said.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
Okay, Well that's interesting because, like, I mean, he does
have a track record of this, right, Like he has
a track record of going back to exis very famously,
he married Jennifer Lopez after a what like twenty year hiatus. Yeah,
he's married a thirty five times now, Yeah, I know,
but blessed maybe they've really ended that now, like maybe
it's properly dead in the water.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
They're never getting back together the words.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
Of Taylor's getting that together.
Speaker 4 (18:28):
But I don't actually think, you know, I don't think
he pinballed between the gens as much as we think
he did.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
I think he kept going back to the same gen.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
But I don't think he's ex Jennifer Garner ever actually
took him back.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
No, I agree, But I do think it raises questions
because a lot of people do seem to gravitate back
to old relationships, even if those old relationships weren't very.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Good in the first place.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
It seems like sometimes we have this like very romanticized
memory around old relationships, or maybe they're just like an
easy springboard when you're lonely and like needing some to
fill a hole. Not really wow, feel a gap in
your heart like a life whole.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Yeah, I say this.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
There was a really interesting article that Body and Soul
published around this, and it was like a lot of
people talk about it as.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
Though it's like divine timing.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
The relationship didn't work out in the past, but maybe
in the future you come back together and you get
this second chance of love. That I often think it
just doesn't work out because I don't necessarily agree that
it's divine timing that one person slipped into the other
person's DMS. I think it's usually that one persons single
and you go back to familiarity, and usually you go
back to something that you have romanticized that it's like
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gonna be a better version, or you remember all the
best bits about the relationship, but you don't remember all
the crappy bits and all the reasons why you broke
up in the first place.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
It's the devil.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
You know, it's a comfort, it's easy. You've been there.
You know you can fall back into it. You don't
have to go and do the PowerPoint presentation again from
like this is where I grew up, this is what
I like, this is my job, this is my history.
Like you just pass all the bs. I don't know
if I agree with you so much. Because she was
talking about divine intervention. I had a friend who was
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like the pleb version of Jen and Ben.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Is in exactly what you want to be called in life.
Speaker 4 (20:09):
I mean, they're not in the public eye, they're just
normal people. But they got married at like nineteen twenty.
They were school sweethearts, and they were together for a
few years and then realized this is not it. We're
too young, Like we want different things, we're growing in
different directions. So they divorced proper, divorced, didn't stay in contact.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Like dated other people had other relations, not even like.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
Maintaining They were like, we don't We're not in each
other's lives, didn't follow each other on Instagram, like.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
They just moved on because they were young.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
And then probably a.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Decade later, she had had a relationship with someone else,
had had a baby, like fully moved on, and she
was in the supermarket in this new town and she
went down the aisle and she ran into her first
husband or when she was twenty and they're.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Like, oh my god, like how you being whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Like and he's like, oh, you got a kid and
she's like yeah, but she's like, we're not together anymore.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
They ended up remarrying and having more kids together. So
it's crazy, genuinely for them, was that right person, wrong
time they needed to go and live their lives.
Speaker 5 (21:05):
And then they came back together.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
They'd be married now for like eight nine years.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Yeah, But I think there's always exceptions to the rules,
but I'm a bit of a cynic about it. And
I think the reason for that is is because like
in my twenties, I was like the relationship ping pong.
So I would be in like a long term relationship.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
We would we would break up because.
Speaker 3 (21:24):
Obviously it was not a good relationship, it was not
going anywhere. Then I'd have like five years of dating
other people and one lonely night I'd be like, Oh,
what's that guy up to?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
And I'd go back.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
I often would end up redating people that I had
had long term relationships with.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Yeah, we have analyzed you over the years, though, because
you were a monkey brancher from relationships and if there
wasn't a new relationship for you to monkey branch to,
you monkey branch back.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
I did.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
Unfortunately, we don't need to psychoanalyze me on this show.
Speaker 4 (21:49):
We're already I've spent six years psychoanalyzing you.
Speaker 7 (21:51):
I know you.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
I was a hot mess in my twenties. Everyone it
was not good. Thank God for that Bachelor show. I
don't know whether I'm just having one of those very
proud parent moments you know when you find yourself sometimes,
or maybe you've been on the receiving end of this
brit where someone's like showing you photos of their kid
and you're thinking to yourself, please stop showing me photos.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
I'm on the receiving end of that daily with you.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Yeah, okay, you're so proud, But now I'm doing it
on national radio. So call me out if I'm self indulging.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
No, it is cute.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
Every so often they do things where you have these
real moments where like you realize that they've kind of
moved to a new phase or they're hitting new milestone,
and it's particularly cute now with Lola, she's only four
years old. I think one of the big things I've
loved about parenting, and like it's very small, but it's
something I find very very sweet, is that kids often
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say words the wrong way, and then one day they
figure it out and they say it the right way,
and then they never ever say that cute thing ever again.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Right, So, and.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
I no, I mean this, Like Lola used to say
boobooberries for blueberries, and it was adorable and I never
realized how much I was going to miss it until
one day she just started saying blueberries and she never
got it wrong again.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Where is this going.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Win a therapy session, So bees anymore?
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Are we mourning the lot that she can speak?
Speaker 1 (23:14):
She doesn't boober berries? My baby's growing up.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
No, she's just started to sing her ABC's now very
cute and important.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Yeah, she's just turned four.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
She doesn't sing them exactly correctly by any means, but
I almost don't want to correct her because it is
so cute.
Speaker 9 (23:29):
It is.
Speaker 5 (23:30):
You have to correct her. You can't send her off
for school for her whole life.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
Not knowing ABC's because you're holding on too boober Berry.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
I don't know my boober berries anymore, so now I
need my ABC's anyway. Have a listen to this. She's
so proud of herself. She performs it every day. And
I got it on record because it was the cutest
thing ever.
Speaker 8 (23:49):
Ready one two three ab cv ESD has said j
Jack Alan Marby here, ay yes, qib ws y n
Z Now I know you ABC. Next time we're teasing
with me. Oh that was amazing.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
I think she's.
Speaker 5 (24:12):
Sleep in there BWS the b one spirits.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
I think she spending too much time going there with
you guys.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
She's like, now I know your a b c's Like,
it's definitely not mine because this is I don't know
what I just made up, but that's where.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
You've been there to b B One spirits, it's very cute,
to be fair, I was following that along as it went.
Speaker 5 (24:32):
I reckon that was like ninety seven percent. There were
only a couple.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
Of I like how she really doubled the Q like
you know uv w b y s bring your own
d y y own, do.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
It yourself h l.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
O L to me, I've watched that video so many times.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
I know, no I'm birased. I find it like the
cutest thing in the world.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
But I do want to say this to parents because
I feel as though you missed them.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
What's the message?
Speaker 5 (24:59):
What's the message for? What is the story here?
Speaker 1 (25:02):
You miss the little.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Weird words that your kids used to say when they
were little, and also the way that they speak when
they little. They have such sweet little voices, and then
one day you look at your six year old you're like,
oh my god, you're a kid, Like you're not a
baby anymore.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
You look at your kid and they're doing drugs, they're
dropping out of school.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Hold on to those bibberberries.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
But I'm always recording the girls and like voice recording them.
I have little podcasts that I've done with them from
when they were little. So, like I would ask, trying
to replace me with your kids, I'm trying to get
a new co host. So one day when you move
overseas to me with your fiance, Lola Morley May has
stepan right in. Well, not not only worried after hearing that, no,
but what I mean is is, like I so encouraged.
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I know everyone takes photos and everyone takes videos of
their kids, but I really encourage to record audio of
your children because their voices change so much and so
quickly over the years, and these little nuggets of memories
I think are just.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
As special as having the videos and everything else.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Like I love going back and listening to them answer
questions in their own weird little way, and then asking
them the same types of questions a year later and seeing,
like what's their responses as they've grown and they've changed.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
Well, I feel like if there's anything that you can
hold on to, it's the fact that your husband matmy
Jay still says s Niland says cynical, So there still
mistakes been.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Made in your family, and I record that as well.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
When your kids grow up. You've always got that.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
It's cue to when the four year old does it
as opposed to the thirty eight year old.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
But anyway, so today on the pickop, a bit of
a change of pace. But we're talking about what did
you celebrate prematurely?
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Now?
Speaker 2 (26:29):
The reason we're talking about this is because I'm.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Still unsure of the reason. To be perfectly honest.
Speaker 4 (26:35):
I stumbled across an article that I cannot confirm or
deny if it's even real, but it.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
Had me in his It had been hysterics.
Speaker 4 (26:45):
I want to think it's real, just because of how
funny the story is. It's gone viral over the last
couple of years, like it's not brand new, but it
keeps rearing its head, like every year it makes it comeback.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
It's made to come back now.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
And I was like, surely there's other people that have
celebrated prematurely. There is a guy in Africa who had
worked at the same job for like just say twenty years,
a very long time in and out, didn't love it,
had a problem with his boss.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
He did not like his job.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
He'd been slaving away yeap, but doing it because he
had to.
Speaker 5 (27:13):
Well, you got it.
Speaker 4 (27:13):
Right, you gotta work the money very very luckily, like
the odds were against him, but he won the lotto
like a huge sum of money, so he was totally one.
Speaker 5 (27:24):
So he was like, oh my god, I am out
of here.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
He goes to his boss's desk the same day quits,
pulls his pants down and takes a dump on his
boss's desk.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
Have a listen.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
No.
Speaker 13 (27:36):
After being told that he won the lottery jackpots, a
Western cape man peed all over the office floor of
his boss of over twenty three years and proceeded to
take a dump on his boss's office desk before quitting
his job on Friday morning.
Speaker 12 (27:49):
Now, when he went to go claim his winnings this morning,
he found that he had never won your politicians.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
Actually, the reporter's laugh is the funniest part. The video
is quite long. The reporter couldn't speak for like ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
He was in hysterics.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
So he did go and find out the next day
after taking said dump that he didn't in fact win,
and he's now unemployed.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Like he doesn't have a job, but he doesn't have money.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
He doesn't have a reference either. His boss isn't gonna
give him one. No, I look, can you blame him though.
Speaker 4 (28:23):
Like if you yes, you don't have to take a dump.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
But if you hated your job and you hated your
boss and you'd been there for twenty three years, twenty
three years.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Would you take a dump and you won the lot
when you.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Quit the podcast and radio A, You're gonna take a
dump on my desk.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
I'm not gonna take it dump in your desk.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
But I just like part of me thinks he probably
had this moment of like, I don't need this anymore,
Like screw them, I'm leveling this up. I've given away
two decades of my life. This await my poop, and
I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Give you a bit of my hellhole.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
I probably when I when I'm trying to think of it,
if I've ever like p i'maturely celebrate the snow big
thing that comes to mind. The only thing is that
it was a bit of an internal celebration. When I
was in the Bachelor finale.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
I thought I had it in the bag. I thought
I was like, I thought that was a bit.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Of a win.
Speaker 4 (29:12):
I was in a white dress, so I was the
last person there. I was like, you know what I reckon,
I've snagged myself a boyfriend, then he dumped me.
Speaker 5 (29:19):
So he took his own dump.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
That also just causn't you prematurely celebrating, Like he told
you that he was going to choose you the night
before and then within eight hours changed his mind.
Speaker 4 (29:30):
Not in so many words, I don't want that headline
getting out. He definitely didn't say I choose you, I
cho cho choose you.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
What did he say? Then?
Speaker 2 (29:36):
I can't imagine life without you?
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Something I can't remember My quote.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
That is like a typical dateline, I cannot imagine.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Life without you. Don't break up with you eight hours later.
Speaker 5 (29:45):
Don't take that quote either.
Speaker 4 (29:46):
It was just something that alluded to the fact of like,
I'm so glad we That was like I'm being so purtantic,
I'm so.
Speaker 5 (29:51):
Glad we met.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
I never thought i'd meet someone like you that we.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Connect with so well, Like something that basically alluded to
like it's you, Bibi, Hey, we've got emma on am
I have you celebrated something prematurely?
Speaker 10 (30:03):
Hey? Girls, I love this show, and yes I certainly have.
So I got offered a job and I was going
massive pay rise. This was going to be a six
figure job. As I was losing my mind of it.
I got so excited and I thought, with all that
money coming in, what am I going to do? I'm
going to be a new woman and some the guy
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who won the lottery, I was like, what am I
going to do? I've won the lottery. I want to
treat my parents. I think that's something we always go
back to. I want to do something for my parents
and stuffing me all the time. It's the least I
can do. They've never been on a cruise before, and
I was like, I'm going to treat them with a
little holiday away, buy am cruise trip. How cool am my?
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Yeah? Nailda.
Speaker 10 (30:48):
But it turns out I jumped the gun a little
bit and I can actually get the job. And so
with a deposit down on a cruise, and I've already
told my parents. I really had to do the call
of shame. Not only to my parents and tell them
they can't go on the cruise anymore. Oh, but I
had to call the booking company and try and get
my deposit back in.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Oh my god, it was terrible.
Speaker 5 (31:13):
Look.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
I question whether or not we should talk about this,
but I.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
Nah, I think we talk about It's funny I.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
Don't know whether or not I should be thrilled or offended,
Like I'm still sitting on the fence. I fluctuate between
the two. Recently, Britain, I came into work and as
a gift, it.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
Was a gift.
Speaker 5 (31:29):
It was a beautiful gift.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
Sitting on taking a big box, not gonna lie.
Speaker 5 (31:32):
I love a gift, love a surprise gift.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
Like especially when that gift is skincare. You do too,
britt Like you love a bit of skincare, sick for it.
So here is this big old box with skincare inside
from a brand that I had not heard of before,
mind you, But I was like cool, happy to try,
very excited about this. And I excitedly opened the box
and there were many layers, lots of packaging, and then
I got it out and I was like, okay, it's
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a serum.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Love serums, delightful.
Speaker 3 (32:00):
I need a bit of serum on my face that's
going to make me feel glowy and fresh.
Speaker 5 (32:03):
Quite a niche serum.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
And then I read the back of the box of
the serum that had been so generously sent to our work,
and it said this, it is a transformative serum designed
for women over forty navigating menopause. And I read that
and I was like, well, I'm still technically under VATY,
and I am, as far as i'm aware, I'm not
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yet in menopause.
Speaker 5 (32:27):
I had to have a laugh because I was like.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
I also was like, this is a backhanded compliment. I mean, you, Laura,
I'm gonna say, I get it. You've got your kids.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
What do I scream menopause? Dude, I mean in kid's part,
not the age.
Speaker 5 (32:39):
But I'm like, cool for me, I'm publicly like, have
fertility issues. I'm doing IVF.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
I'm like, it's ivy menopause.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
Well, maybe I am. Maybe that's not why it's not
happening for me.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
Maybe I am in menial True, I joke, and it's
not a funny thing to joke about it.
Speaker 2 (32:52):
It's not at all. Take that back.
Speaker 5 (32:54):
No, I actually.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
Said to myself, maybe I am in perimenopause and that's
why they've sent it. But I was like, I'm publicly
trying to do IVF, and soone send me in menopause cream.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
I was like, have I missed the boat?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
I don't know. I got this, and my instant reaction
was to feel offended.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
And then I kind of checked myself and I was like,
why is it that, at thirty eight years old, I
find the idea of menopause so offensive because the reality
is so many women do go through early menopause or
they go through perimenopause can take up many years, and like,
forty is not far off. Like I turned thirty nine
in a couple of weeks, so like to be fair,
the brand is not far off being you know, aligned
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with the age that I'm at.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
I'm still thirty seven.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
But I think that there were.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
I am just want to say the referenttry there was.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
Something about receiving it that maybe it wasn't so much
even the menopause reference.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
I think there was something about it that made me
really realize my age.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
And I think I was like processing that in real
time because I also kind of I read it and
then I felt offended, and then I was like, Oh,
it looks good.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
I'll probably use it.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
Oh no, it looks like a brilliant cream. It's got
some really good things, and I think it's got some
good peptides in it. I'm one hundred percent going to
use it. Much as we loll and say we're not
in menopause. I think it would be really good for
us kids.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
Okay, here's my question. I mean, you don't have to
call up, you can if you want to, But would
you be offended? Is this a normal thing to be
offended byra were just taking this too personal?
Speaker 4 (34:14):
Well, now that you said out loud that you're about
to turn thirty nine and it's for forty year old.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
People, I grow up, Laura.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
Yeah, for you, I think that's a stretch for me
at thirty seven.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
I think it's I've got a couple of years left.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
I know.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
But maybe it's because, like, no female wants to be
aged up, Like we've been so conditioned to think that
being younger is better, younger skin is hotter, all this
sort of you know crap.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
But reality is is like.
Speaker 3 (34:37):
No one wants to be thought of as being older
than what they are. And I guess like receiving something
that's specifically targeted for women who are in a different
stage of life, a stage that we're all told we
should be frightened about, there's something that feels quite obvious
about it.
Speaker 2 (34:50):
Yeah. No, we are grateful, Thank you for the cream.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
Yeah, I'm processing anyway.
Speaker 3 (34:53):
If Cedar Phil wants to send some stuff my way,
I souse, that's fourteen year olds, right?
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Is that what you use when you're like young and
was head to.
Speaker 5 (35:00):
Keem's warehouse loads of stuff in there?
Speaker 3 (35:04):
There is I guess the kind of assumption that as
the longer in a relationship, the more that your love
life kind of dwindles and dies off.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
I don't think it's an assumption. I think it's pre standard.
Speaker 4 (35:14):
I think that's absolutely what happens, like you stay in love,
but maybe the chemistry and the one trip each other's
clothes off and all of the above sort of like
plateaus a little bit over time.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Yeah, And we talk about this quite a bit on
our podcast that we have, Life on Cut Podcasts, And
that's because I mean, it started off as a sex
and relationships podcast. So one of the big questions is, like,
how do you keep desire alive and a long term relationship?
Speaker 1 (35:35):
How do you keep the spark alive?
Speaker 5 (35:36):
Is it normal?
Speaker 1 (35:37):
Is it even possible to do so?
Speaker 3 (35:39):
And many of the experts that we've spoken to over
the years have said, yes, it is possible, but like
it requires burk blah blah blah, all that sort.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
Of stuff blah, blah blah.
Speaker 5 (35:47):
We don't need to tell you about that.
Speaker 1 (35:49):
We don't want you to keep you here to fix
your love life.
Speaker 3 (35:51):
But I did come across an interesting study and it
turns out maybe your pajamas have something to do with
the fact that your sex life is dwindling.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
Oh, we're gonna blame our pajamas now, no one is safe.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
I have a question, how do you sleep at night?
Speaker 2 (36:02):
Bread with my morals or my life choices?
Speaker 1 (36:05):
Well, how do you sleep at night?
Speaker 3 (36:07):
No, if you're because you obviously do long distance with
your partner Ben he lives overseas. But when you're together,
how do you sleep? Do you wear pajamas? Do you
wear a pair of undies?
Speaker 1 (36:15):
All?
Speaker 3 (36:15):
Right?
Speaker 2 (36:16):
In trap In?
Speaker 4 (36:17):
When I am at home alone, I sleep in underpants
and like a pajama top. Something that's comfortable, like a
really nice soft cotton is my choice.
Speaker 1 (36:27):
Love that airy breezy?
Speaker 4 (36:29):
Yeah, I love that, But I do like the legs
to be free, same because I want to kick around.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
I sleep in running.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Man not no g strings to bear.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
But you cannot sleep in a g banger. That's like
defying the rules of physics. So when when I'm with
my fiance, Ben, I'm either nude or just in undies,
but I never have a top half on ever, so
sometimes the undies are like a bit of a sexy
I don't say safety net.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
I was gonna say, it's more of a comfort.
Speaker 5 (36:57):
So sorry, am I giving for me?
Speaker 3 (37:00):
I mean my girl friends here. The thing is is
that there's a study that's coming. I'm in a long
term relationship with my loving husband, who I am very
comfortable with, and I sleep in underwear and a T
shirt pretty much every night.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
You sleep in gesturing, don't you No?
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Never, My body would not allow it. That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
After two kids far out, I'd never getting asleep. Lose
it anyway, that's too much information for everyone. But I
sleep in like an ugly T shirt, and I do
I know that this is like I shouldn't say it's
a protection mechanism, but it's like if I need to
go to sleep, I'm going to sleep. I'm not there
for fun times at night time. I just want to
get into bed, I want to roll over. I'm tired.
And I know that if I was to fall asleep
(37:39):
completely nude, it would be misunderstood as giving a signal
that maybe I'd be more into other things than what
I am into my sleeping.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
I don't think it's given a signal.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
Hang on, what's the point of this chat.
Speaker 3 (37:51):
The point of this chat is this study that's come
out has said that wearing sleep wear like fleece, onesies,
flannel pj's. Yes, that it might make you feel relaxed,
but it is absolutely killing your sex life. It is
sending a message that attraction is not a priority. There's
a relationship coach, her name is Channa Bromley, and she's
said that when you choose comfort over seduction, it can
(38:13):
impact the chemistry between you and your partner. And I
would agree, but I argue it's not always a bad thing.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
To be fair, I did exaggerate a lot.
Speaker 4 (38:21):
I actually have this really old grungey T shirt where
it's not really nice soft cotton pajamas.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
It's an old ac DC shirt.
Speaker 4 (38:27):
But when I'm with Ben walking around the house to
go to Ben, I will just put his clothes on.
So I think that that's probably pretty repulsive to him
to look at me in his own clothes. Nah, I
think guys like that's their own clothes.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Yeah, I think that that's fine. Is that hot? Maybe
I don't know. I wear Matt's clothes? Does he find out?
Who knows? Let's ask him.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
But apparently sixty two percent of people who continue to
sleep nude with their partners say that they have more
satisfying intimacy than those who wear I don't know, maybe
like your cozy Peter.
Speaker 1 (38:56):
Alexander pajamas have a bear on the front.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
I'm not convinced we needed a to figure out that
sleeping nakeds like you're more inclined to get it on
than sleeping in like old discussing clothes.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (39:06):
I just kind of think like, there's so many things
that we can feel guilty about. Surely, after ten years
of being with your partner, you're allowed to wear pajamas
that are just for comfort and aren't for sex appeal, Like,
not everything that you need to do should be about seduction.
Speaker 4 (39:21):
Why don't you go and try it out tonight, Laura,
see what happens, Go to bed, no shirt on little
g Banger, and report back, because I that's the only
way to really solidify this study.
Speaker 3 (39:31):
The problem that I have is that my husband comes
to bed too late, so I go to bed at
nine thirty at the moment do you, Yeah, nine thirty,
ten o'clock, But he comes to bed at eleven thirty
at night, and so like for me, my argument is
like that is an unrealistic expectation. If you come to
bed at eleven thirty at night, ain't nothing happening except sleeping.
Speaker 4 (39:47):
So if he comes to bed at nine thirty, it's on,
then yeah, then until nine thirty three, you've gotten.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
Till nine thirty, until nine forty five, that window is
not happening, and it's not happened about.
Speaker 5 (39:57):
The shirt's gone back on.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
Literally, Baba
Speaker 4 (40:02):
Bakamata badam Kaaba bakama
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