How to Say No to Being a Bridesmaid Without Losing Your Friendship

Ring, ring! It’s 1-800-Bridesmaid. Author and pro bridesmaid Jen Glantz brings her hit newsletter to life in this judgment-free zone for all your burning real wedding, love, and friendship drama questions—plus expert advice to help sort it all out.

In this episode, Jen is joined by Mariah Grumet, etiquette expert and author of What Do I Do?, a modern guide to wedding etiquette. Together they break down the often messy world of weddings—where traditions, guest experience, and real human awkwardness collide.

From whether you really have to handwrite thank-you notes, to the best way to gracefully decline being a bridesmaid (or attending a wedding altogether), they explore why clear, upfront communication is the secret sauce to handling wedding stress—on both sides. Plus, Mariah shares the difference between a partner and a plus-one (yep, they’re not the same!), how to make your guests feel welcome without losing your own joy, and how to give the perfect polite no without guilt.

Episode Highlights: • Why wedding etiquette is more about emotional intelligence than stuffy rules • The biggest mistakes couples make—and how to avoid them • How to exit long convos at your own wedding without feeling rude • The etiquette behind plus-ones, invitations, and sending gifts when you don’t attend • Jen’s embarrassing fork-and-knife confession (and Mariah’s non-judgy rescue plan)

If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate weddings without stepping on toes—or losing your mind—this episode is packed with honest, modern advice (and a lot of laughs). This episode is brought to you by Pearl Planner: wedding planning powered by AI, fueled by love. Be one of the first to get started with our exclusive beta at pearl.davidsbridal.com!

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