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November 3, 2025 25 mins

Struggling with birthday blues? You're not alone. In this honest and uplifting episode, I open up about experiencing birthday disappointment and how I transformed those heavy feelings into a positive reset for November. If you've ever felt let down by unmet expectations, questioned who truly shows up for you, or struggled with self-imposed pressure around personal milestones, this episode is for you.

Discover six practical strategies that helped me shift from disappointment to empowerment, plus how I'm using the transition into November as an opportunity for intentional planning and healing. Whether your birthday just passed or you're navigating any kind of emotional low, you'll find actionable tips to help you reclaim your mindset and step into the new month with clarity and positivity.

💫 Key Topics:

  • Why birthday blues happen and the psychology behind birthday expectations
  • Early 20s reflection
  • Six practical strategies for getting through tough emotional times
  • November reset: monthly review, planning, and healing journey

🎯 Perfect for anyone experiencing birthday disappointment, seasonal transitions, or looking to reset their mindset for the final months of the year. Whether you're dealing with unmet expectations, navigating personal growth, or simply need some comforting validation, this episode offers honest reflections and actionable advice.

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