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November 24, 2025 47 mins

In this episode, we’re getting honest about a pattern we didn’t expect to find in our own relationship: using personal growth tools in ways they were never meant to be used. We talk about how easy it is, once you’ve done a lot of healing and communication work, to slip into correcting, analyzing, or psychoanalyzing your partner — all under the guise of “using the tools.”

If you’ve ever caught yourself turning relationship tools as a weapon, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.

 

Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:

Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min

Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min

 

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