In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Giselle Monbiot – therapist, breathwork facilitator, and Compassionate Inquiry practitioner – to unpack the emotional, physical, and spiritual upheaval that so many women experience in midlife.
From increased anxiety to identity shifts, they explore why perimenopause can feel like a breakdown, and how it might just be the breakthrough we didn’t know we needed.
Giselle shares her own journey through perimenopause and late-in-life ADHD diagnosis, and offers deeply compassionate, practical advice on how to navigate this phase with more self-awareness, connection, and agency. Expect science, soul, laughter, and lots of goosebump-inducing moments.
YOU’LL HEAR ABOUT:
💊 Why so many women are given SSRIs when they might actually need HRT 🌪 How perimenopause brings up unresolved trauma and identity questions 🗣️ “If it’s hysterical, it’s historical” – how past pain shows up in present reactions 🌬️ The power of breathwork to regulate the nervous system and release stored emotions 🔥 Why perimenopause can spark relationship shifts and even divorces 🌈 How this chapter can be a portal to authenticity, growth, and freedom
TOP QUOTES: “This isn’t a breakdown, it’s a breakthrough.” “You don’t need to earn your right to be heard – it’s yours already.” “Most of life is us trying to avoid pain. But healing is about learning to sit with it.”
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: – Dr. Gabor Maté and Compassionate Inquiry – The role of the vagus nerve in regulating stress – Breathwork as trauma release – Perimenopause symptom trackers – Hormone therapy vs antidepressants
Let me know if you have any questions in the comments
Lisa x
About Giselle Monbiot
Giselle Monbiot is a Compassionate Inquiry® Practitioner trained by Dr. Gabor Maté, a trauma-release specialist, and an advanced breathwork facilitator. She has spent the past 26 years guiding women through healing and transformation, helping them reconnect with their truth and step into a life where they truly thrive.
Giselle takes an integrative approach that works with the mind, body, and breath. Her work supports women in untangling deep-seated beliefs, releasing emotional burdens, and creating space for healing and growth.
She is passionate about holding a safe, nurturing space where women can explore the deeper layers of themselves, particularly during life’s transitions, such as perimenopause. This phase can bring profound shifts - physically, emotionally, and mentally - often surfacing unresolved wounds and patterns.
Through one-to-one sessions and group work, Giselle helps women move beyond self-doubt, reconnect with their inner wisdom, and cultivate resilience, clarity, and vibrancy in their lives.
Follow Giselle Monbiot
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giselle.monbiot/
Website: https://gisellemonbiot.com/
Breathwork Workshops: https://gisellemonbiot.com/courses/breathwork/
Follow Am I Crazy? Or…
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amicrazyorpodcast/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amicrazyorpodcast
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AmICrazyOr/videos
Website: https://www.amicrazyor.com/
Podcast Host & Producer: Lisa Paasche
Podcast Editor & Producer: Luke Naylor-Perrot
LINKS + RESOURCES:
Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club
Welcome to Bookmarked by Reese’s Book Club — the podcast where great stories, bold women, and irresistible conversations collide! Hosted by award-winning journalist Danielle Robay, each week new episodes balance thoughtful literary insight with the fervor of buzzy book trends, pop culture and more. Bookmarked brings together celebrities, tastemakers, influencers and authors from Reese's Book Club and beyond to share stories that transcend the page. Pull up a chair. You’re not just listening — you’re part of the conversation.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com